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  • Опубликовано: 19 окт 2024
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Комментарии • 521

  • @jacobromero2634
    @jacobromero2634 3 года назад +161

    They don't love their own kids

    • @Mekia-hr8qh
      @Mekia-hr8qh 3 года назад +12

      Sad Facts

    • @Qveeqvee
      @Qveeqvee 3 года назад +10

      Very sad.

    • @marcoboij
      @marcoboij 3 года назад +9

      Omg i left it two month ago and she wanted a kid so badly....man my friends are right i won the lottery by walking up leaving this monster

    • @annmaddock4569
      @annmaddock4569 3 года назад +12

      Yes! Zero emotional connection

    • @winblessed1357
      @winblessed1357 3 года назад +4

      Sad truth

  • @tru2608
    @tru2608 3 года назад +180

    When it gets real, the narcissist looks for the exit.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +10

      Facts here.💯💯💯

    • @md-mx5zb
      @md-mx5zb 3 года назад +22

      Most definitely ...they smell it coming on so the smearing begins behind your back then when they done ...they run and hide. Such fools. Waiting on God

    • @angeliquechronicles3579
      @angeliquechronicles3579 3 года назад +8

      Yes 🙌 cowards they won’t stand up hide when you confront expose those lying manipulative using losers. Thinking you want their dumb think because mirror smart intellectual people. I was mad he tried steak mirror take my true identity saying things only I say

    • @tru2608
      @tru2608 3 года назад +19

      @@angeliquechronicles3579 . The narcissist imitates their supplies. Especially the the supply the narc is most jealous of.

    • @angeliquechronicles3579
      @angeliquechronicles3579 3 года назад +8

      @@tru2608 you right jealousy envy which discerned sick period exit part true narcissist think you still into them to you express truth manipulation deceit. Mention another man with you after them watch the narcissistic injury then he would say not this again. Yes 🙌 they use to controlling weak people that agree with them don’t confront them

  • @hullet2
    @hullet2 3 года назад +79

    I wish I could post pictures of that back burner supply. A mixture of Ape and Hyena. He DOES NOT POST HER ON HIS FACEBOOK. I DON'T BLAME HIM. I'M EMBARRASSED FOR HIM.

  • @farah4983
    @farah4983 2 года назад +7

    He used to ask to pray with me, then behind my back was up to all kinds of shakterity!! I know he'd NEVER find a giving, intelligent, Godly woman like me again. Finally making it to the other side and I'm cracking up at him. Posting pictures of him and his new supply, looking like two drained idiots. Blocked!!

  • @sylviaamodeo7090
    @sylviaamodeo7090 3 года назад +78

    Immediately after the marriage, the devalue began.

    • @Lu12340
      @Lu12340 3 года назад +17

      Yes, as soon as they know you are locked in, the devaluation starts and continues.

    • @sowhat5597
      @sowhat5597 3 года назад +12

      Like a car off the parking lot!!😂

    • @nmarie4969
      @nmarie4969 3 года назад +1

      @@sowhat5597 😅🤣😂

    • @vickyalvarez6886
      @vickyalvarez6886 3 года назад +2

      Now that's a shame! Absolutely demonic!

    • @ssj4dap
      @ssj4dap 3 года назад +2

      Immediately.

  • @md-mx5zb
    @md-mx5zb 3 года назад +71

    True darkness inside. I saw it in his eyes. Scared me to death

    • @Lu12340
      @Lu12340 3 года назад +7

      Yes, the narc stare and their rage is frightening.

    • @msli7092
      @msli7092 3 года назад +3

      Truth!

    • @GoddessArkasha
      @GoddessArkasha 3 года назад +1

      Me too especially in their Narcissistic Rage I tried scripture to him during and Never work and he use to be a Deacon in a Church smh they are the Devil

    • @lisacartner971
      @lisacartner971 3 года назад +2

      Ive seen that same darkness many times. It is scary. Been married 14 years. A 14 year lie with a demon.

    • @angelathomas2093
      @angelathomas2093 3 года назад +1

      I've been there. U are telling the truth

  • @twinbulls1980
    @twinbulls1980 3 года назад +34

    My ex narc was so desperate when I called it quits that he turned to under 18 yr old back-burner supply. He’s 31. Sick!

    • @alnisalewis8810
      @alnisalewis8810 3 года назад +6

      Mines was 39 and dated a 29 year old he was dealing with this young girl since she was 15 sick. I felt bad cause when I met him I had young children.

    • @mrstee26
      @mrstee26 2 года назад +3

      Mines went to a 51year old bc he's looking for someone to take care of him- child hood trauma and past relationships he hasn't healed from. .he jump from relationship to relationship this time her kids are grown and he needed a place to stay after I said no to moving back bc he cheated with this woman on me

  • @lolo50198
    @lolo50198 3 года назад +25

    Don’t be misled-you cannot mock the justice of God. You will always harvest what you plant. - galatians 6:7

  • @charleslawrence1930
    @charleslawrence1930 3 года назад +24

    as time goes on they evil soul...along with they looks will deteriorate...they can fake it all they want that's why alot of them turn to drugs cause the way they treated people is coming back to haunt them...the game 🎮 will be on them in the end...I wouldn't focus on the new supply either just live your life they know what they had...welcome back

  • @iamallisonalanna
    @iamallisonalanna 3 года назад +11

    Over there looking like the number 10 or 11
    Looking like a frog with pink lipstick
    That bird 🦅 skunk 🦨
    Me: 😂😂😂😂

  • @md-mx5zb
    @md-mx5zb 3 года назад +52

    Amen. It's so hard going thru this shit but God is my rock

  • @kimsmith9426
    @kimsmith9426 3 года назад +5

    If they don’t want you, why have a child with you? A child is a big commitment.

  • @stonesoup842
    @stonesoup842 3 года назад +62

    I’m 43 and just learned bout this not even a year ago. I was done so dirty... thank God I caught on connected the dots and called her out. I literally can speak my truth in every aspect and shove all the BS that she tried burying me with while I smile on into the future still knowing who I am. Love and light shining my way into the future and not feeling bad anymore for leaving that narc behind. I forgive her. But I’ll never trust her unless a miracle somehow happens to her

    • @mariasmith2297
      @mariasmith2297 3 года назад +3

      Stone soup..yes. Amazing how resourceful we learned to become. Now we can nourish ourselves so we can be fully present for the deserving people in our lives.

    • @stonesoup842
      @stonesoup842 3 года назад +3

      @@mariasmith2297 Narcissist was a word i used rather loosely... it took a years worth of watching tarot untill I researched that word more fully ... This has been an eye opening spiritual experience. It took a broken heart that was mangled confused and abused to get my life back on track. I’m getting over just how ashamed I am of myself for ignoring my family that totally loves me for a narcissist. It’s almost a year now since I started healing. Not am I only healing from the abuse I’m healing from other things in my past. I like to sit still and glance at a picture of my family and remind myself of how love truly is. And it’s really helped to shake off the icky feelings the narcissist left. It’s painful as the shock and anxiousness slowly leaves the body. It’s like I was poisoned and now my body is rejecting it and I’m seeing clearly. I also found wearing a back brace around my ribs helps with the pain and it’s like getting a hug from the universe. There’s more love in that than the narcissist ever had for me. But if not for her, I wouldn’t be where I’m at now. Closer to myself God and my family. I suppose I can thank her for that... The Lord works in mysterious ways.....

    • @andreaakachocolatedimples5457
      @andreaakachocolatedimples5457 3 года назад +1

      Same! I'm good now

    • @lady2luuvly
      @lady2luuvly 2 года назад +2

      Im 45 and i learned what a narcissist was 10 years ago during my marriage. Horrible people. I rather be alone. Now, After 2 or 3 dates if i hear ANY red flags I’m out ✌🏾

    • @SenSakura-dj6bq
      @SenSakura-dj6bq Год назад +1

      I don't forgive her. Forgiveness is for people who is sorry and feel remorse. That is not the case

  • @kristinej.4182
    @kristinej.4182 2 года назад +26

    You nailed it, Tea! Love is not what a narcissist wants, it’s vain attention! I gave my ex narc the true definition of love yet he discarded me saying I was the problem and that I wasn’t good enough. He told me I didn’t give him enough lip service of admiration. 😂😂😂. Lip service? Admiration? How could I have admired a man who had so many issues? Yet I loved him and took care of him. But he wanted to be put upon a pedestal while cheating and stealing from me. I do wonder for how long the new supply will “admire” him before she tires out and he’s ready to find another supply. I have learned thanks to you, Tea, that it’s a sick cycle for the narcissist. Thank you. 🙏💕💕💕

  • @GoddessVictoria888
    @GoddessVictoria888 3 года назад +33

    I saw the narcissists today at my job working there. I immediately went to the manger and told him that I cannot work here anymore my ex narcissistic partner is here and I’m going through my healing which provides no contact. I don’t want to be in the same environment that he’s in because I didn’t feel safe

    • @annareid6341
      @annareid6341 3 года назад +8

      Have Faith God got you couple of my ex's are narcs and know where I live and I live alone Don't Fear please don't. fear is a devil trait The Lord says don't fear Trust God

    • @marywilson9285
      @marywilson9285 3 года назад

      😵😵😵

    • @healthyfitfun
      @healthyfitfun 3 года назад +4

      So sorry that happened to you. Praying for god to bless you with a new job ❤️

    • @GoddessVictoria888
      @GoddessVictoria888 3 года назад

      Daisy Thanks hun😊 I’m doing better still proceeding the no contact rule. I’m just thankful to be apart of of this community

  • @mejustbeingme1207
    @mejustbeingme1207 3 года назад +27

    Aunty my friend was telling me the other day that he doesnt see pictures of my ex narc and his pigeon on fb anymore... I told him what else is to be expected, the person(me) they want to hurt is no longer around.. When I left, their stupid pictures disappeared I did that without any effort. But the game is not over... For me its just starting.. He who laughs last laughs the best. FACT! 🤘😎

  • @Solunatic02
    @Solunatic02 3 года назад +58

    “You will never ever be with a narcissist alone.” Right! I almost dated one. But something was always off with him. He had a lot of girls commenting on his facebook posts.
    When I told him I couldn’t meet during pandemic due to work and not comfortable meeting at homes, boom! He’s got a girlfriend.
    The killing part is he continued to talk to me until I called him out on his behavior. He’s ignoring me on snapchat but watching me on Facebook. Why? I don’t know. Just think it’s hilarious & sad.
    This discard for the new supply is going to be brutal because she’s obsessed with him. He’s got her “trained.”

  • @tanyagamble3432
    @tanyagamble3432 3 года назад +65

    You always make me feel better.This creep is insane it’s been over a year since I seen this thing .

    • @angeliquechronicles3579
      @angeliquechronicles3579 3 года назад +4

      Tanya exactly because their crazy thinking you belong to them delusional know that creep lurking since discarded covert.

    • @angeliquechronicles3579
      @angeliquechronicles3579 3 года назад

      Hey 👋 Queen miss you been busy but this should be interesting

    • @nissmone9598
      @nissmone9598 3 года назад +5

      Its a shocking reality hard to digest. We have to deal with the feelings of the love that was denied to us, and understand theres no love in them for no one. Logical thinking against emotions.

    • @patriciawilliams5519
      @patriciawilliams5519 3 года назад +2

      IT!! And a THING!! My face has turned set like flint!!😉. The Lord is my strength. A strong tower. My refuge. He's all of my help. The blinders have been removed. No scales on these eyes!! My spirit revived, all the way woke😉. No time to waste on an ungodly entity not desiring help or deliverance. Just Wicked!!!⚓

    • @mariasmith2297
      @mariasmith2297 3 года назад

      @@nissmone9598trust that the tangled web will slowly unwind and you'll find peace.

  • @md-mx5zb
    @md-mx5zb 3 года назад +44

    Yes. I deleted my FB and IG. Got OFF. That too is sickening how and what people post. Crazy

    • @Mekia-hr8qh
      @Mekia-hr8qh 3 года назад +3

      Me too! I did the same thing two months ago

    • @mariasmith2297
      @mariasmith2297 3 года назад +4

      God improves our hearing when we're ready

    • @Qveeqvee
      @Qveeqvee 3 года назад +6

      I blocked them both. First few weeks I used to look...gave me anxiety

    • @Lea-iv4gn
      @Lea-iv4gn 3 года назад +1

      Same. Been a month and a half off social media and changed my number. Best decision ever. Need to be mentally strong before I get back on social media b

    • @daviedood2503
      @daviedood2503 3 года назад +3

      @@Qveeqvee yea she started showing off. I'm like this is fake. Selfies etc. Bar fly now. It hurt but that pain is what kepte away. Each time I looked, the more I got hurt. I just blocked them 4 days ago.

  • @SherriDLLove
    @SherriDLLove 3 года назад +21

    Addictionship ! That's it !

  • @HarleyQuinn-yh7mx
    @HarleyQuinn-yh7mx 3 года назад +30

    You’re right that they can’t reciprocate. A person can only meet you as deeply as they have met themselves. And since narcissists have a false sense of identity, they really don’t know who they are. It’s no sense in trying with them, for real. Your best bet if you ever encounter one is to point them to their nearest therapist. Or call Iyanla Vanzant. Hell, idk. Just don’t waste your time trynna help or love them.

  • @stephaniepeters3482
    @stephaniepeters3482 3 года назад +23

    When she says “There is an energy that comes off of those pictures” I felt that deeply. That is real. And it messes with your vibe if you aren’t careful...

  • @kllmsftly
    @kllmsftly 2 года назад +3

    My former narc rebounded with my ex's ex during our separation. Literally the day after I left him, he was in contact with 2 women!! I left on Saturday, he started calling on Sunday. I found out 2.5 months later he was in a rebound relationship with the piece of trash. I truly elevated this dude, and he reached down to that? No, I'm not bitter that he was with her, its her character that is low (still partying 4 nights a week, drinksheavily, dresses like she's 20, even though she's mid 50s!! Tattoos, wigs, hair-store level jewelry, long, broken, fake nails - you get the picture). No depth, no growth or personal development. I could not wrap my mind around how he was with that supply (at the time didn't understand the whole rebound phenomenon) but later realized they have more in common than he and I did. He cheated on her with woman #2. When he somewhat confessed, after I found out, I asked why did he cheat on the rebound/supply with another woman, point blank, he said, they weren't you!! I told him it's wrong to lead them on. Again, point blank, I don't care! True narc. Didn't even care that he was hurting others only to satisfy himself. So surely, if he lied to them so easily about being in love with them, he's doing it with me!!
    What I WAS bitter about is he allowed this woman an opportunity to be in my business, the lies he told on me, the smear campaign was real. It was difficult to process what was happening, and my body was numb. Tons of negative energy coming at me, started having anxiety. Weird. Never experienced that before.
    As soon as I started healing, 5 months in, he calls. Three days before divorce court. I folded like a wet paper towel :(
    Reconciled, 6 month later, found out about the second woman!! Wait, what? I was traumatized all over again. All kinds of skeletons falling out of his closet...he cheated with both of them, according to him, prior to our marriage. I was devastated!! How could he? Thats not the worst part, 2.5 months later I catch him in our marital home with her at 3 am. I moved out, but still paid my half of the mortgage, all for him to use it as a frigging hotel? Man, come on!! What more do you want from a person? You put thus slopbucket in my bed, yo? You trashed me, when you know my character is important to me?
    Narcissist are real. I am an educated, sufficient woman. I OWNED my home when I met him. I owned 2 new cars, was coparenting my children. We lived a comfortable life. I noticed how he would act when people complimented our home, I could see low-key negative energy. He watch my every move, he would copy things/decor that I had in our home, in his! During one our million arguments, out of his very mouth he said "I finally caught up to you". I'm like, I didnt know it was a competition!
    18 years, 18, to put this puzzle together after being mindf***** for so long. I lost everything! House? Gone! Great job? Gone? Trouble relationship with one child? Check. Migraine, stomach issues, stress? Check. But guess what? My Master had to break me down, humble me, to remind me who is truly in control!! He placed me where I had to depend on Him. The lesson hurts sometimes, still I know that is where my growth lies. He's about to show out for me and I am thankful, humbled, and waiting. When my faith waivers, my blessings are delayed. After all that I went through with the narcissist, I'm understanding this was all preordained before my being. Its not personal, just part of my journey. I'll heal, I won't allow myself not to, and I will move on to my next assignment. The difference this time is I am relying on God, the holy spirit, and not myself!!

  • @azrarichards6757
    @azrarichards6757 3 года назад +7

    Yup can give them whole world but there are not happy

  • @1jodiejodie
    @1jodiejodie 3 года назад +9

    "Donkey with a toupee"........LMAO!!

  • @marsha04053
    @marsha04053 3 года назад +25

    I did everything for mine.weigh hand foot and even laid his work clothes out for him.clean home cook for him before he got home.etc

    • @stonesoup842
      @stonesoup842 3 года назад +5

      Me to... glad you made it out safe. They can make it very difficult unless there’s a police officer present. Keep sticking up and loving yourself first. And give yourself the chance to find that true love out there that wants to do all those nice things that you do for you and only you.

    • @kanika9995
      @kanika9995 3 года назад +3

      Me too

    • @allainsasha
      @allainsasha 3 года назад +4

      Never do this for a man is he’s not your husband‼️‼️‼️

    • @jessicajohnson9899
      @jessicajohnson9899 3 года назад +4

      I did the same n he technically still is my husband. But they will never appercaite what we do or have done. Let a new supply do it cuz someone else will appreciate the things they didn't.
      Thank you for your videos too.

    • @marsha04053
      @marsha04053 3 года назад +3

      @@allainsasha i am still married to him but saperated. About a month now

  • @emdatingadvicetv4272
    @emdatingadvicetv4272 3 года назад +19

    I can’t stop watching your videos you’re not just talking about narcissistic but you’re preaching the word of God for real

  • @vernondelancy6281
    @vernondelancy6281 3 года назад +15

    I’m unbothered by anything that x post . When I tell you ain’t nothing they can do to get to me . I’m shining in the light GOD gave me I’m good ...

  • @marinemasmondet9423
    @marinemasmondet9423 3 года назад +21

    Amen ! Just figured out recently that i'd been dealing with a narc. He discarded me but kept hoovering until I found out about the other supply because she had been coming on my instagram. When i confronted him he said that if I didn't want someone looking about my stuff that I should block her. I messaged her to let her know that he was coming over to see me while he was seeing her, and she spent the whole time talking bad about him ... said she was using him to get over her past relationship and knew she didn't have a future with him ... she has been posting ever since pics of her in his bed thinking I was gonna keep looking, and just blocked me out of the blue (thank goodness !) ... come to figure out that he has been cheating and they just go back and forth posting subliminal posts calling each other out of their instagram stories .... Lord am I glad to be far and away from these 2 birds !

  • @mrstee26
    @mrstee26 2 года назад +2

    Mines required alot of attention and didn't like the word No!

  • @lolo50198
    @lolo50198 3 года назад +6

    How it started is how it will finish

  • @genevas-grace
    @genevas-grace 3 года назад +26

    That is what I'm dreading seeing him with her...😒

    • @userofyoutuve
      @userofyoutuve 3 года назад +10

      Be greatful its her and not you

    • @DL-vibes
      @DL-vibes 3 года назад +6

      You don’t need to see anything to know that you are worthy. Someone who leaves I not worth it. He didn’t replace you or devalue you. You’re just too damn good for him. Period.

    • @SC-kr3tf
      @SC-kr3tf 3 года назад +4

      That is my worse fear too. Eventually we will see them together and all we can do is Smile and keep it moving. It’s his Loss and someone else gain. We got this!!!💪🏽

    • @genevas-grace
      @genevas-grace 3 года назад +1

      @@DL-vibes Thank you

    • @genevas-grace
      @genevas-grace 3 года назад +6

      @@SC-kr3tf I am still pressing through this process....one day very soon if not today We will be completely healed because God said so!!❤❤❤

  • @sylviaamodeo7090
    @sylviaamodeo7090 3 года назад +14

    He did that with me, plastered pictures of us together everywhere. I see now he was showing the old supply to keep them in the haram garage, Hope they don't get fooled again.

  • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
    @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +33

    Beautiful Tribe and Family with narcissism on the rise around the world - please help us get this content shared in this community as often as possible by simply hitting the 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽. This information could be life-saving and life-changing for those struggling with being abused in this manner. Thank you so much. I love and appreciate you all. May you be blessed and highly favored in life and also for helping us possibly save the lives and sanity of other battling this abuse.✨💖💕💕🙏🏽

    • @louisegarner8888
      @louisegarner8888 3 года назад +4

      @The Tea on NPD and Relationships
      That's so true Telsha. No worries I've liked, shared lots and commented on this video. I'm sooo glad you're back sweet Tea, we missed you so much! xox ☕⌚👍💯
      No night too long,
      No battle too hard,
      No situation too hopeless,
      No chains too strong,
      When we've got God, Telsha and our tribe alongside us!! 🙏💞🤗✨✨✨

    • @TheUnkBoogie
      @TheUnkBoogie 3 года назад +5

      Those birds are being exposed! This channel will blow up till the narcissist throws up. I said it and I mean it.. skunks!

    • @FreedominChristJesus
      @FreedominChristJesus 3 года назад +4

      WE absolutely love and adore you yes your calling is blessing so many people lives sister in Christ 💯🙌🙌😭and we now choose to strengthen our relationship with the father we seek him first in all things!!! Because he called his children out of the dark& back into his light !!! I'm forever grateful that the Father Jehovah kept his hand on me even in my Disobedience of ignoring red flags he still loved so much to have longsuffering & showed us that the narcissism love is a perversion of his Holy LOVE THANK YOU so very much Jehovah Gibbor & Thank be to God for you sis ..Be BIGG blessed in Yeshua Hamischiach name🙌🙌🙌💜💜🙏🙏🙏

    • @mariasmith2297
      @mariasmith2297 3 года назад +2

      @@TheUnkBoogie lol..yes!

    • @mariasmith2297
      @mariasmith2297 3 года назад +1

      @@louisegarner8888 beautifully said..and true . Peace sister ♡

  • @carynmartin7763
    @carynmartin7763 3 года назад +13

    I don’t ever look at his social media. I don’t have time for those lies.

  • @sunnydaysunnyday7101
    @sunnydaysunnyday7101 3 года назад +11

    The narc alcoholic left me and our little kids for his older ex who was always triangulated me with. the back burner was always circulating around our family and he wanted to party with her. The back burner was left twice by him year+ before i met him. What a birds!!!! I am glad to be discarded. No contact, I will never allow him to come close to us or my kids.
    Tea on NPD, you are as always 100% right ❤❤❤

  • @Prayingforbetter
    @Prayingforbetter Год назад +1

    They got married and have 2 babies now. He is 50 and she is 25. I wonder how happy they are? They have been in that since we broke up for 3 years but she was always around and I had no complete idea. Suspected it due to his behavior.

  • @sabreezyfearless7084
    @sabreezyfearless7084 3 года назад +10

    It still baffles me when you say they don't love. However I'll never forget when my spouse told me 3 years into our union, "I don't believe in unconditional love. My love comes with conditions, you have to earn it."
    Thank you for explaining things, it's still hard for me to wrap my head around.

  • @missyadams3542
    @missyadams3542 3 года назад +14

    HONEY......KEEP THAT FREAKING KIND OF LOVE! I DON'T WANT IT....DON'T NEED IT!!!

  • @rosecally1931
    @rosecally1931 3 года назад +27

    I know it was very hard for me to understand that. It was never about love.

    • @marcoboij
      @marcoboij 3 года назад

      Yeah this is what kills me after two month of leaving her.and the stuff i had to see afterwards made very very clear there is was no love. It really hurts

  • @vivavidadela
    @vivavidadela 3 года назад +17

    Who cares if he is? As long as I’m no longer his supply I don’t care. Lol

    • @sowhat5597
      @sowhat5597 3 года назад +5

      * EXACTLY!!💅

    • @danagold7115
      @danagold7115 3 года назад +2

      This simple comment…. Just made me think…. “yeah she’s right!” Like why am I even watching this ….

    • @heathermixson1265
      @heathermixson1265 3 года назад

      After gaining deeper knowledge?? I can finally agree with this . 28 years ofva living hell in the making...5 years working on healing after a year before that? Bedfast. Sicker than a parvo'd pup......BUT GOD🙌
      Be blessed!!!!!

  • @jayyyy8422
    @jayyyy8422 2 года назад +2

    It’s true all they want is attention…

  • @hullet2
    @hullet2 3 года назад +5

    She's been waiting for 5 years

  • @Starx1231
    @Starx1231 Год назад +1

    I'm glad I'm off of social media completely. Building myself back up and learning to love me first and foremost. She doesn't deserve to be in my life while GOD continues to bless me and the rest of my family.

  • @tanyagamble3432
    @tanyagamble3432 3 года назад +22

    This is scary you really know your stuff , this beast was messing with the so call manly looking friend with the bad wig ,and I really didn’t think I had to worry about this lady , however they were plastered on Facebook showing all crooked teeth , I’m much happier now thanks to you ..

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад

      Yes Sis I’m tell you they are just crazy. They are all the same and go off the same script. Thank you Sis for your support and being here with us.✨💖💕💕

  • @otmannsify
    @otmannsify 2 года назад +3

    I was married to a narc for 12 years then I divorced him and met someone new a few years later, to find he was a narc as well. I really didnt
    realize it because he had this pattern of apologizing and "so called talking it out " and behaving for a while and then the pattern will come up again. like using to see his grown up kids for the weekend. And i could tell by meeting his grown kids that he was never really there for them but when he was me he always was going to visit them and the pattern was he would not reply to text messages after 9pm etc He would call the next morning making plans for our day taking me here or there saying I love you etc. I was totally distracted for a few years nothing was changing .and realized the patterns after a few years we was still arguing about the same thing . I realized he was purposely doing the same things and I tried leaving him a million times and he would hover and give more money or pay for more or buy gifts. and make promises over and over and still to do the samething. for like 8 months i felt like a hostage trying to get rid of him. I constantly told him i know he cheating and lying so just leave me alone and he said i couldnt leave him. But he eventually got upset because i kept refusing to be with him. So he got angry and said "Thats why I have been dating someone for 8 months sends me a picture the girl was not cute looked stressed in the picture with him. 2 weeks later he called my mother trying to sound all innocent and can she convince me to take him back . Im glad he found someone its only been a month but I have a haunting feeling he will be back. Im just happier and dont feel confused anymore now that hes gone with all the lies.Thanks for readiing if you got to . I just needed to vent. They really make you feel crazy. Ifeel like i was emotioinally gaslighted JUst gaslighted period because they really try to convince you that they love you but dont. and cant

  • @tracyleepautz1258
    @tracyleepautz1258 3 года назад +9

    I call it Chronic Dissatisfaction! Narcs are clowns, a good laugh at them is all that is needed! Always juggling, always wearing their multitude of masks, always in need of an audience! Endless misery!

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +2

      Yesssssss!!!! OMG I love that term Sis "Chronic Dissatisfaction"!! Thank you.

    • @tracyleepautz1258
      @tracyleepautz1258 3 года назад +2

      @@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships You're most welcome! Thank you so much for your videos, truly a great help as well as a good old laugh here and there... Not really ok to laugh as it's NOT ok, however it's the best medicine for this kind of abuse in the end...

  • @shebutter3195
    @shebutter3195 3 года назад +11

    Never just me and him alone over our off and on relationship for years. Always multiple women in the rotation but tries to ruin every relationship I get into. Thanks for the information given straight no sugar coating.

  • @sunnydaysunnyday7101
    @sunnydaysunnyday7101 3 года назад +24

    Dear Telsha, I was always curious about what will happen when Grade A removes herself and if the narc is happy with the back burner then. Thank you for making this video as it answered my curiosity. I am healing while listening to you and I feel stronger, its almost a year after the discard. I am with kids in a different country, staying no contact with the bird. He tried triangulated me further I was contacted by his flying monkey but I am long time gone.... He will never reach me now. kisses and hugs Telsha 🤗 😘 💖 ❤ 💓 💕

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +2

      You're so welcome beautiful soul. I'm happy the video helped you out. Awesome thank God you had the strength to walk away. Hugs and love.

  • @dawnserrano737
    @dawnserrano737 3 года назад +6

    Remember the Ugly, move on, do better, be better, blk, stay No Contact!

  • @kirstymarriott4170
    @kirstymarriott4170 3 года назад +3

    I left the nar of ten years last month he's given me the silent treatment angry!!! Not my issue he wore me right down omg my recovery has being hard but I'm getting there

  • @randihackney4830
    @randihackney4830 Год назад +1

    He's blocked 🚫 on everything!! Him cheating with a married co worker with 2 small children lol they're each others karma. 2 desperate and pathetic clowns. I bounced, got a place, filed for divorce and just took out an EPO. I'm not playing. I'm bound and determined to cut this man off completely.

    • @stingray0033
      @stingray0033 3 месяца назад

      😮 same story except it's one child but the woman he cheated w has two but older. I can't imagine they have any respect left for their mother and I'm time my child may not have any for him either. They truly are each other's karma. He's already cheating on her😂 But dragging this divorce out. Hope your freedom has come.

  • @MrBogeyman00
    @MrBogeyman00 Год назад +1

    I SAID IT! I MEAN IT! I Love It....

  • @susiebrandon3741
    @susiebrandon3741 3 года назад +7

    I need a video on how to get IT to go away. We weren’t even in an actual relationship for goodness sake the fake profiles, numbers and stalking never stops 🥴🥴 can he go find new supply on a different planet or something my goodness.

    • @sowhat5597
      @sowhat5597 3 года назад +1

      😂😂😂😭😭😭..im on the floor chile!!..THIS IS EXACTLY HOW I FEEL!!💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙"IT"!!!

    • @susiebrandon3741
      @susiebrandon3741 3 года назад

      @@sowhat5597 😂😂😂 like I was not ready for this level of stalking at all. I literally want nothing to do with ole boy but they never give up. I wonder if bug a boo by destiny’s child was about a narcissist because I felt them on a spiritual level when they said “ you make me wanna throw my pager out the window” & “break my lease so I can move” 😂😂😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♀️ l

  • @Lea-iv4gn
    @Lea-iv4gn 3 года назад +1

    A giraffe with short legs and chihuahua with long ones 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣☠️ I can't stop picturing this 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

  • @melissaquestelles7380
    @melissaquestelles7380 3 года назад +21

    Tea you make me laugh everytime. Excellent sense of humour!

  • @colleencarley8892
    @colleencarley8892 3 года назад +7

    Why, even if I agree to everything you’re saying, and I logically know that it’s not me, does my heart feel so bad. The rejection and the abandonment kill me.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +3

      It’s because of the soul tie or spiritual connection is still there. I completely understand but you are not alone Sis. Be encouraged God bless you.💗💯🙏🏽

  • @jackiecolbert3915
    @jackiecolbert3915 Год назад

    A whole frog , duck and a pig with a cape on. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @SenSakura-dj6bq
    @SenSakura-dj6bq Год назад

    "The cook, the chef, the uber driver" 😂😂😂

  • @josephricherdsonjr1559
    @josephricherdsonjr1559 3 года назад +4

    It serves dinar Sis's right tonight be happy with the back burner supply because they are evil and they must be exposed and stopped by all means necessary

  • @lorraineamaker9416
    @lorraineamaker9416 2 года назад +1

    😂😂😂Telsha stooop! I almost peed on myself from laughing I've seen one n called her an arangatan he was pissed. They were sexting n I confronted him about it n he refused to stop. Wow! Makes a lot of sense now. Plain disgusting!

  • @tsegatesfalidet8296
    @tsegatesfalidet8296 3 года назад +2

    Only God can give them new ❤️ no man/ woman can change them. They don’t have human heart you just leave them and let God deal with them. I believe they are always looking some one to save them only God can.

  • @rashidaboima38
    @rashidaboima38 2 года назад +1

    I will forever imagine the narc in my life as a "bird" and the side women as "backburners"! The imagries alone made my entire day! 🤣🙌🏽 #LettheGlowUpBegin

  • @danetteclay1753
    @danetteclay1753 3 года назад +12

    Man this is so inspirational to my spirit babeeee... this is my Old NY BIRD all the way smh...everything you talk about is what I been saying all along while I was in it. See God will show you a persons character

  • @kimberlyfloyd1009
    @kimberlyfloyd1009 Год назад

    We were MARRIED and the day after he started acting different............ IT was crazy! 3 years later, bAM, I'm gone.

  • @Michelle....B
    @Michelle....B 3 года назад +1

    It's the 2 twigs under that wig for me. 🤣🤣🤣. My Narc is a head pastor of his church and his new supply is also a minister. They stole an abundance of money from. It was ALL a set up. Now they on social media acting like they all in love and I never existed. Oh BTW... I'm suing him to try and get my money. His turn up is real with trying to make me jealous of his new supply... who ain't really new.

  • @Prayingforbetter
    @Prayingforbetter Год назад +1

    I believe in my situation he is happy. They just had their 2nd child. He had her throughout entire relationship. We were together 3 years. I knew nothing about her until I caught them together at a park out of town. I was a place holder until the young girl was ready. She is 25 now and he is 49.

  • @shamimtemour
    @shamimtemour 2 года назад +1

    My husband of 22 years was in an emotional affair with his childhood sweetheart. I gave an ultimatum and he left. Now the Narcissistic rage is coming out and it’s hard to be strong, I just want him to disappear 😔

  • @pinnakal1
    @pinnakal1 3 года назад +1

    Mine is hiding his... he’s deactivated his social media.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +2

      Lol!!🤣🤣 You must be glowing all the way up. That bird had to go into hiding.💯💯💯

  • @zac.6960
    @zac.6960 3 года назад +5

    My narc kept asking for a hug when we finally left and I told him to get his things. I refused to hug him and he took that so bad. I don’t get why? I figured out he immediately got back with his ex that “beat him, etc” the same I apparently did. I confronted him and he flipped. Hiding it from his family and friends, probably from embarrassment. He told my family and friends I was a terrible person out to kill him lol, guess who talks to me and blocked him? I don’t understand how someone can live in their own skin under these conditions. Not for me to find out!

  • @tammybullard4753
    @tammybullard4753 3 года назад +4

    You are so right. The supply the narc has now is family friend. He always praised her and posted her on Facebook when he was in relationship and back than I felt disrespected.

  • @alisonallen8926
    @alisonallen8926 3 года назад +7

    Snatch up the Power Grid! Solid boundaries - now who's in control?? Best mindset sister - great video!!

  • @eveningowl9443
    @eveningowl9443 2 года назад

    06:21 omg he literally did that bahahahaha omg LMAO😅🤣🤣🤣 damn birds hahaha

  • @RicardoCray
    @RicardoCray 3 года назад +6

    I actually left my narcissist ex ever since then she’s made my life heck she started using my child as a pawn and her new baby daddy hates me lol she goes off on rants on how he does so much more and how he’s so much better meanwhile she starts drama where it is none, she’s miserable but try’s 2 convince me otherwise haha actions speak louder than words.. 🤷🏾‍♂️ Forgive them Lord for they know not what they do 🙏🏾✝️

  • @nayarevolutionary5811
    @nayarevolutionary5811 3 года назад +3

    Everytime I need a awakening on narcs I come here. I attract them like flies to 💩 now I can identify them thanks to you💕💪

  • @wandalark1919
    @wandalark1919 3 года назад +1

    😂😂😂😂loved and liked your realness and description of the back burner being a donkey with a toupee and one tooth in the back 😂, and the narc being a giraffe with short legs/cape😂😂😂😂. Wondering why the narc never post pics of their current back burner on social media, instead uses meme to say that no explanation/proof is necessary about their relationship,,,,then suddenly you're block on social media when they constantly shared videos/meme but not the telephone? Why do some narcs say insulting remarks about the parents of their children, while still in a secret relationship with them?

  • @mejustbeingme1207
    @mejustbeingme1207 3 года назад +5

    Auntyyyy you went in on this one. I havnt gotten over chicken stock now you got "Back burner" 😂😂😂... OMG SHUT DA DOOR
    Please do you have a pobox. I need to send you some gifts. I love you so much 💚💜💚

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +1

      Lol!🤣🤣🤣 It’s the truth Niecey lol. Yes my Pobox: 25060 Hancock Ave. - 305
      Murrieta, CA 92562

    • @mejustbeingme1207
      @mejustbeingme1207 3 года назад

      @@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships thanks my lady ... Be expecting a parcel from Houston Tx 💜💚💜

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +1

      @@mejustbeingme1207 aww thank you beautiful soul. I will let you know as soon as I receive it.✨💖💕💕

    • @mejustbeingme1207
      @mejustbeingme1207 3 года назад

      @@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships any time my beautiful aunty you deserve more. You saved me .. I can now laugh without feeling pain caused by life intruders.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад

      @@mejustbeingme1207 💖🌷💖

  • @leniecelewis3415
    @leniecelewis3415 2 года назад +1

    You describe that back burner supply to the tee it's amazing how you have insight on the real world of the narcissist you are anointed

  • @tanyagamble3432
    @tanyagamble3432 3 года назад +5

    God bless you beautiful soul and theses birds are never happy. I just changed my number because odviously this demon seed hasn’t let go yet .I’m tired of random threats from unknown number all was quiet and out of no where here’s the mess again .

  • @Liquidated_Tools
    @Liquidated_Tools 3 года назад +1

    💖💖💖💖🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 “you can give them the universe and 25 planets with it and they still won’t be happy” AMEN QUEEN ITS ALLAN ACT

  • @carolanngale9333
    @carolanngale9333 2 года назад +1

    My toxic ex didn’t put her out there. He called her a minger and wouldn’t admit to me he was seeing her. 😂
    Fast forward 3 months since I spoke to him, 6 months since I’ve seen him she started stalking me and followed me on Facebook. So when I looked she had put a photo up. My ex-narc looked like a rabbit caught in the headlight’s and hiding his face behind his wine glass 😂😂😂

  • @tellnolies8530
    @tellnolies8530 3 года назад +1

    Sooo True when you all in..... he would never take me serious , he either joked or got silent when I questioned him about our future!

  • @MsVee-ei4cf
    @MsVee-ei4cf 3 года назад +12

    You said it all tonight! Thank you for your patience and time to help us heal. ❤️

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +1

      You’re so welcome Sis and thank you for being here with us. I’m happy you enjoyed the video.✨💖💕💕

  • @cliniquecottingham6858
    @cliniquecottingham6858 3 года назад +6

    This is the crazy thing. One of his friends wife knew about me and him and I told her about how he was. She had the nerve to call me and tell me she fixed her sister up with him. Because he was lying to them and saying that I didn't want anything out of life. No fool! I didn't want anything with him. Like i told her would you build with someone that is a cheater and liar? Then she was lying to me saying her sister didn't want to be with him 🙄 OK so why did you fix her up with him? This is what she doesn't understand she thinks because her husband and him are good friends and he is not going to use her sister. 🙄 yeah ok!!! What she is going to see because her sister has a good job that he is not going to use her sister. She will 👀 and I'm not answering my phone for her either.

  • @andreporche9924
    @andreporche9924 9 месяцев назад

    Love you love u ❤

  • @spiritual_empath2168
    @spiritual_empath2168 3 года назад +2

    Birds! Skunks!🤣🤣

  • @pamelabeaton7834
    @pamelabeaton7834 3 года назад +3

    I'm surprised she has not figured out his broke *** yet. Hope she having a good old time supporting him in every aspect of his what he need very needy. I guess shell get destitute like he left me. Living in my car. Exactly. No I dont do the driving. GOD has the wheel he sure does. Pray every day for bubble of protection. He keeps me in his bosom.

    • @anitamhlongo4443
      @anitamhlongo4443 3 года назад

      He is still borrowing money from people, providing for her to ensnare her...

  • @hannahassan2574
    @hannahassan2574 3 года назад +3

    My ex husband left me pregnant plus a toddler for a old ex who apparently cheated on him .. why would u even go back to someone who cheated on u doesn’t even make sense.. begged him to come back I was pregnant so emotional he told me I’m in competition with her and I need to prove my love .. I cut contact .. he came around the house begging to let him in to pick up his letters but there was no letters .. got the cops and restraining order.. he risked losing his home.. kids.. wife .. visa .. for a old ex he can’t even be with her physically she’s back in Africa.. so their relationship is jus on the phone .. it’s joke .. now they all over social media showing off their relationship long distance .. she posted “ one eye contact with and I can destroy a 3 year marriage “... their both narcissistic sick ppl .. Im staying out

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +3

      He left you when you needed him most never return to that. Thank goodness for freedom be encouraged and move forward my sister. You are not alone we are here with you.💗💯🙏🏽

  • @vanillapudding9471
    @vanillapudding9471 3 года назад +2

    Lmao....Attention Attention Attention...
    That’s all they crave ❗️💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @michaelwebb3079
    @michaelwebb3079 3 года назад +3

    "There it is"!!

  • @carynmartin7763
    @carynmartin7763 3 года назад +3

    Crawford Gae I went through all of what you stated. The treatment has been awful.

  • @justicewarrior4661
    @justicewarrior4661 3 года назад +4

    Love you too beautiful goddess queen. So darn motivating and inspiring! Thankyou. ❤🙏❤💐🎉

  • @mariasmith2297
    @mariasmith2297 3 года назад +2

    Lol.♡♡.I had to rewatch! "That bird is over there coping a squat!" Magic! :)

  • @henry33h34
    @henry33h34 2 года назад

    Lol, with a cape on🤣😆😂 Im floored!

  • @marsha04053
    @marsha04053 3 года назад +1

    Thats why the narcissist married them so they think he can leave and come back. Anddd. They think they got full control of them

  • @veenelson3868
    @veenelson3868 3 года назад +3

    That's my girl! You said it!!!! And you mean it!!😀🥂👍

  • @ustylemagazine2475
    @ustylemagazine2475 3 года назад +3

    Come On NOW!!!! Yesssssss💯💯💯

  • @Nancy_B6240
    @Nancy_B6240 3 года назад +1

    Oh story of my life. This happened 2 days ago I just had him blocked. Oh the friend thing..telling me how she is just a nice person helping him 🤢🤢🤯

  • @cherylaskew2758
    @cherylaskew2758 3 года назад +2

    Hey tea on NPD yes yes I’ve been married and living with a narc for 17 years I am in the process of discard and actually god brought my to your channel and this is what opened my eyes to the narc I will try and catch your live this Thursday but yea I even order the I said it! The tea on NPD yes and I wore it proudly if front of the narc told him he has two weeks to leave my house I’m hoping he goes peacefully..... can you give me some feedback on how to get them out of your house without chaos please you are a big supporter system for me you might not know this but every you say is exactly what the Bird I had is and I’m done! ... WHEN YOU KNOW! YOU GO! and I’m not interested in anything he’s doing with the old supply new supply back burner front burner I don’t give no cares... but yes I am blessed to have come across your channel please keep up the good work and word people who aren’t aware need to know . GOD BLESS YOU

  • @jenniferwood5155
    @jenniferwood5155 3 года назад +1

    Well yeah any narcissistic relationship starts off on lies, secrecy, deceit, addictions ect... it never starts off truthful or honesty. I'm glad he dont have social media accounts I know of to try and rub it in I'd just laugh at his 🤡 ass.