My Biggest Fear (stage 4 cancer)
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Tiffany, everybody is different but my best friend had brest cancer which metastazed to her left lung. She went through removals two nodules. No chemo, no radiation, neither were an option. Her last surgery was 1992 (guesses our ages lol). She has been cancer free for 31 years. She and her husband adopted two beautiful children (she had to wait five-year with no reoccurrence). Todauy she's happy, healthy, continues to teach part time and has three beautiful grandchildren. She lives in Los Angeles living the face life age. Angelea said she doesn't want one wrinkle or line removed from her face or body. She considers them battle scars. I like to visualize you in a similar scenerio 31 years from now.
What a blessing that message was to all of us.
What a hopeful story and beautiful comment. I'm really happy for your friend!
That's great news!
This is beautiful. Hope you both get to a very ripe age ❤
I don’t think offering medical advice online is the right thing to do. My husband and I met in medical school, and we don’t give medical advice without seeing the pati 7:30 ent and labs and scans and/or a referral from another doctor. I’m happy for your family.;however, we’ve seen many taking the wrong advice and it shortened their lives.
Just a little advice.
Love from Kentucky, Lesley and medical service dog Jake.
Tiffany, I'm not sure if you'll see this but I've written before. But I'm a stage 4 lung cancer patient since 2009! My whole left lobe was removed. No oxygen tank is needed, thank
God. 2016, it spread to the right. Last August I had ablation due to a tumor pushed pass my target therapy pill. But it worked! You said they were going to do a section removal. That's still good. You will still have great lung mass for breathing. Stop trying to figure out what the doctors are doing or thinking. They haven't let you down at all. Trust them, trust God. I'll continue praying for you 🙏🏾 ❤️
Hugs and prayers , what you wrote was very helpful , hope she reads it ! 🤗
So encouraging ❤
Just saw your latest video.. I was so very sad for you.. 😢 try and have a rest, stay focused Tiffany . There is an old saying no news is good. The doctors are probably organising your operation. You and Mat and your beautiful mother will be sitting around your Christmas tree. Xxx I will light a candle for your god bless
Such a positive message for Tiffany, I hope she sees it 🤞.
I wish you some good rest , with a swift walk every day. You are human and young , your thoughts are completely normal. Shower morning, noon and night if it helps. Hope you have heard something by now. You are special and we all hang on every message. Will be waiting…love from gramma in minnesota
Tiffany, I think at some point, it would certainly be beneficial to include a psycho-oncologist into part of your care team. You can safely talk to this person about cancer fear, worries, anxieties, run your thoughts with essentially. This is so that you don't get trapped into your own thoughts, or worry about burdening your family member with your worries. Also sometimes, the psycho-oncologist may direct you to exactly what you need. Please don't worry about asking your doctors how you can get access to psycho-oncologist. I truly think it will ease your anxiety a lot and will definitely be helpful. My mom has access to one, and it helped tremendously in many ways. And also, when it comes to metastatic cancer, think of it as a marathon and not a sprint. Approach the cancer journey like a marathon, and a lot of the thoughts will be shifted accordingly. I hope that helps. Rooting for you. :)
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When my mother was going through her cancer journey she always said the “not knowing” was the most difficult part. As long as there was a plan, a road map, she, (like you) could handle anything that came her way. I hope you get a call tomorrow to meet with the surgeon. My feeling is that everything will fall into place and you will have your surgery
soon.
Hi tiffany , hang in there you have been through worst and still there , dont worry everything will be ok , god is great , you is a very strong woman, but how much can you take?thanks for sharing , stay blessed.
Yes, same with my mother. Also always having it in the back of your mind, when will it come back.💔
Dearest Tiffany, I live everyday on a roller coaster with stage 4 cancer. So many of us understand how you feel and what you're experiencing we love you.
Prayers for you 🙏
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Prayers for you dear!
I’m sending you prayers and good wishes.
Darling for most of us experiencing stage 4 cancers the greatest fear is death. I finally decided to confront this face to face and in thinking about this over a week decided to share this greatest fear with my family supporters. We have this aired in the open now and are able to move to other fears such as pain and suffering. I don't mean this as anything negative in regard to your reactions and choices. Empathic souls like you who care so much about others and their situation tend to avoid being direct with our families about fears. Sometimes though expressing our fears and questions openly with those nearest can help them just as much ourselves. I love you and hope when you have a plan on the horizon you will have some peace. ❤
As a cancer patient, I understand what you’re going through. God bless you, and May your prayers be answered. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
God bless u good luck
You're in my prayers🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
You can get through this love! Stay strong❤️ so much love!!
Be strong Tiff, we right here with you. Imagination is worst than reality, be strong, you got this.
I know you're trying to be strong, but you don't have to be. If you want to cry... then do that!!!! Nothing wrong with releasing some of that stuffed down anxiety
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So right ❤
Exactly.And in her situation,anxiety is perfectly normal.
I’m rooting and praying for you Tiffany!
What's the use of prayers? Better to have health suggestions for her.
I personally can't understand why Tiffany is never curious enough to do her own research on her condition, not one video, it's always "in the hands of the professionals" who may or may not be competent. ALSO, doctors won't necessarily even MENTION alternatives because that puts their profession on the line, it's the patient who has to suggest it!
If you look at the stories of cancer survivors, many of them did their own research too, many made adjustments to their lifestyles or supplements/medication which may be what saved them.
People shouldn't just be helplessly drifting in the direction where life takes them, SWIM.
Hi Tiffany 🖐🏾I’m so glad you have this output on RUclips to vent about your fears, treatment and whatever you need to get out your chest. We’re here to listen and support you, what you are going through is a very traumatic experience and not something anyone ever expects to go through, there’s no manual, no right or wrong way to feel or to deal with it, I’m guessing all you can do is take each day a step at a time. Love, light and strength to you Tiffany love mel 🙏🏾💙🫶🏿
When I was diagnosed w/ breast cancer I started reading out of Psalms out loud. It made a huge difference! I still do it when I need to encourage myself. Psalm 3:3-4 Psalm 4:1 Psalm 5:1-3 & 11-12 Psalm 6 Psalm 9:9-11 Psalm 17:6-8 Psalm 18:1-6 & 16-20 & 28-36 Psalm 23 Psalm 27 1-8 & 11-14 Psalm 28: 6-9 PSALM 30: 1-5, 11-12 Psalm 31: 1-11, 14-17 basically the whole book of Psalm 😂❤❤❤❤
Such a lovely idea.
God saved you but did not others?
Psalm 94:19 “When anxieties overwhelmed me, You comforted and soothed me” 💖
I think God loves when you speak His words back to Him 💗it’s very powerful and I’m sure He’s near to you in those moments.
Psalm 34:4 KJV: I sought the LORD, and he heard me, and delivered me from all my fears.. after I do my Bible study in the morning and journaling, I have a separate book of psalms that I read out of every single day and I give the book of Psalms for a gift. There is so much comfort in them ❤
Tiffany, Remember Faith over Fear and Prayer over all Doubt". I'm a two-time cancer survivor. I know waiting for results and surgery dates were mind and spirit crushing for me. So, I understand your moment of fear and panic. You hang in there. I'm sending you a pillow of comfort, praying for your peace of mind, sending you good vibes, positive energy and a huge healing hug. Trust god. You got this!!!!!
Where is your 'God' when babies and children die agonising, long deaths from cancer??? 🤔🤔🤔
What was "nothing" when Universe was created, when small children were born and when people loved each other?
@@Toffee146 Same place He was when people were loving, getting married, having babies, getting rich, laughing, drinking, smoking, and everything. Life is bitter and sweet......
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Good to see you looking so well ❤ You made Christmastime special for me last year, Tiffany, Me & my kids were going through alot & were having to live in a motel around the holidays & your sparkling personality brought our spirits up when we were all feeling so down. Thank you for being a beacon of hope in the darkness, I wish you good health & good fortune & much love from me & my family ❤❤ I'm wishing you healing & comfort most of all, I'm sending all of my healing energy your way. Rest easy my friend ✨
Tiffany, sending love, prayers and positive energy your way. This is such an incredibly stressful time for you and your family so please keep sharing your worries and concerns with us so we can rally around you and keep supporting you. We are all here because you have touched us in a very elemental way. WGT 💙💙💙
This family, honestly is the nicest one here on YT 💛🙏✨, the love that comes around full circle is just beautiful. Thank you everyone for encouraging our girl 💯✨🫶🏻
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Tiffany, please don’t let others tell you how to feel, only you know what’s best. I am currently being treated for cancer a second time, that does not give me a pass card to tell you how you should be feeling. If you are struggling to speak to your family the NHS offers cancer patients therapy, I spoke with a Psychologist weekly during chemotherapy and it really helped me. Sending you so much love and prayers! 💙💙💙
Most sensible and relatable comment I’ve seen today thank goodness for balanced communication
You are 🥰 loved
I’m so glad that there are people out there like you to help Tiffany. It helps to have someone who is similar circumstances to share things that helped you. 💙💙🇨🇦
Tiffany, you are so funny and would be a great friend to have❤❤❤❤ so sweet too!!!😊😊
I am here for your personality. You are such a warm and sweet person who just cares and cares and cares sooooo much about the people around you ❤You are so relatable and so charismatic. I’m not here for the cancer, I’m here for you Tiffany😍🫶🏽
Isn’t it incredibly how you are able to lift people up all across the world, despite that stupid cancer-monster trying to get in your way. We are all rooting for you and we believe in you🫂
You can do this sweetheart!
Stay strong Tiffany! You got this ❤
Honey, I am a nurse and I know how anxious you r feeling. The clinic is so busy sorting out other patients, don’t think they r holding off calling you because there r problems. You should call them, because as we say in US, squeaky wheel gets the oil. Other people r calling, get on the clinics radar too! You are so loved, Matt and your mom are anxious also, talk to them! Much love and prayers coming your way🙏🙏❤️❤️✝️✝️ call the clinic 👍👍
"Squeaky wheel gets the GREASE"
The thing that makes me in awe of cancer patients is the waiting. Doctors will legit tell people cancer spread to an organ and you won't hear from them for two weeks. I cannot imagine not being scared or anxious. Thinking of you, love to Alma and Matt
I know that must be horrible for the patients
Exactly! They are making me wait sooo long too!!
@@rebornNavea Both my sister and my cousin were diagnosed with cancer and its crazy. They will be like your blood test shows your cancer came back, see you for a CT in three weeks.
This is a problem for my mom right now 😢.
She was operated for breast cancer in december last year. Now the markers are elevated again andthey are taking so much time with other apointments 😢
I have lost both my parents to cancer, and the waiting was awful. The cancer eats the whole family.
Tiffany you got this. Prayers for peace and healing
Tiffany and every brave lovely person here that is enduring and WINNING over cancer, I admire and respect your “fighting” positive attitude! Please know many of us here and prayed for you all. God bless you so much. ❤
Dearest Tiffany, Is there anyone on your team you would feel comfortable talking to about the anxiety you are experiencing? Your mental health is very important also. If someone close to you was going through this, you would want to help them feel better emotionally. Be that friend to yourself. You are not weak for asking for help. We are all human. We got this dear Tiffany 💙
Yes, perhaps her doctor could help with her anxiety.
And therapy
Tiffany, not only can you do this, you have been doing it. You went through such rough treatment and one of the most intense surgeries there is and came through on the other side! And I believe you'll come through again. I find you to be remarkably strong and positive, although negative emotions are completely understandable. We are pulling for you 💙
My heart goes out to you. You've been through so much. I'm glad you have such wonderful, loving people by your side. Stay strong, Tiffany. I know it must be so hard to be strong for so long. Know that there are so many people you’ve never met who care for you. ❤️
i am sorry you have to go through this emotionally , physiologically and physically. You are such a kind giving and humble person . May you be healed and your right everyone out there dealing with cancer too.
Cancer is a collective journey….don’t be so hard on yourself and share with your loved ones! Sending prayers!
You have been through so much and maintained such kindness and grace in dealing with disease and issues no one your age should have to manage , I admire you … you got this !
Oh Tiffany I'm so sorry that you are going through such turmoil. Ive watched you be so brave and take this awful cancer as it came. You have been such a huge inspiration. Just rememember, alot of us go to the worst scenario about problems in our lives. Try not to project ahead and upset yourself with what ifs. What youre feeling is normal but try to clear your mind and think positive. Live moment to moment. When you get your options, go from there and kick butt!!! You have it in you Tiffany!!! You are amazing . I will be saying many many prayers for you. Your struggles are in Gods hands and he has your back!! Hugs and ❤ Tiffant. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Dear Tiffany, It’s okay to be emotional! I understand your feelings. I have cancer
and my fears are how my children will
handle my passing. You have been through
so much. You are very brave, waiting for
results is nerve racking. No apologies
necessary! We who care and follow you
understand your fears. Please don’t worry
about expressing yourself. Sadly cancer
is becoming so common. It’s a horrible
disease. You are a warrior!! I wish the best
for you. 💜🙏 Lori
Dear Tiffany, we are here to listen to you. Please never say sorry that you spoke to us a lot about your anxiety or anything troubling you, because we are here to listen to you!!!! We are with you all the time, even when you are not posting. We are thinking about you and praying for you. Things will get better💙💙💙💙
Aww Tiffany, you cry it out and know it is completely normal to feel anxious. We’re all here for you, cheering you on. We got this!
Such a beautiful and sweet girl💛
Rooting and praying for you🙂
Tiffany we feel your pain and are here to hold your hand and support you through this
Love , prayers and hugs flying your way. You are amazing, with an amazing family - you have deffo got this! xxxx
Sending so many hugs!! I am sure once you hear from the surgeon and have a plan you will feel so much better. Much love and strength sent your way. 🥰💖
Always praying for you Tiffany , sending positive thoughts your way !
Sending you love and positive vibes - you got this sweetheart.
The waiting fills me with anxiety too. Sometimes talking it through helps. Sending you hugs, healing thoughts and prayers! We got this Tiffany. We are here for you💙💙💙
It always seems like you have so much fun spending time with your sister. It’s a real pick me up for you. So many people are praying & sending good thoughts your way.
Tiffany, you got this❤️ we are all with you, stay strong and carry on bravely❤️
Sending you, Amma and Matt so much love! ❤ You’ve got this! 💕💕
We’re here for you Tiff. Saddens me seeing you this way. We got this. It’s okay to feel sad or frustrated even when it’s frustrating feeling that way. You’re allowed and validated. 💙
Do what you can control Tiffany…eat well, moderate exercise, water, meditation, get off the sugar…you’ve got this!
This! Especially the sugar part, sugar feeds cancer. Also, get rid of everything scented with synthetic fragrances - candles, cleaning supplies, perfumes, it's all toxic.
No sugar is important. Cancer grows rapidly and uses as much sugar as you can feed it. It requires lots of energy to grow rapidly.
Can't stress enough about no sugar sweetie! We love you😍
Carbs in general, stay away from white rice, flour, potatoes, bread, pastries.
Healthy cells need sugar and there is no proven link to cancer. Excessive sugar causes obesity which is linked to cancer. Tiffany clearly isn’t obese and eats a healthy, balanced diet.
❤❤ Tiffany, what helps me is journaling. I write my thoughts down and once they're out of my head, I don't think about it anymore.
My prayers are with you. My dad had the lower lobe section of his lungs removed years ago and is doing great and living life. I know you are going to do great and praying for you to recover from this.
Sending as much encouragement and love for you Tiffany. You are soo precious.
You feel loss of control with the cancer returning when you feel good so it totally makes sense the anxiety and loss of control you feel waiting on the doctors. Please don’t apologize for your feelings. They are more than valid. 💙💙💙💙
Try not to stress too much, at the end you can’t change anything. I was diagnosed with breast cancer at 39 and after a year of treatment everything was good and great news and four months later I have a brain tumor and then everything was good news and a month later I was diagnosed with leptomeningeal carcinomatosis which is terminal and here still am a year later still on treatment and alive. At the end of the day you can just keep going and live your best life. Hopefully is good news only, but whatever it is you are alive and your love ones are with you. Much love and good vibes ❤
Hi Tiffany, you are in my thoughts and I pray for you daily. I pray that you get your operation date soon so you won’t be so stressed out waiting. You’ve got this.💙💙
You’re in my prayers sweetheart, I can only imagine how hard it must be waiting and wondering…. We got this 💙💙💙
May God continue to bless you, your darling Matt, your beautiful mom, and your entire friends and family community. My powerful novena and my daily prayers for all of you will never stop. Tiffany, you are such a beautiful soul, inside and out. You are so easy to love! Your kind heart, your sweet personality, your loving disposition...more people should be just like you, and the world would be a more lovely place. I love you, Tiffany, and when you're feeling down, feeling unwell, feeling anxious, or feeling overwhelmed, just keep in mind that millions of people are praying for you, this girl from Louisville, Kentucky included! God bless you, Tiffany. We Got This!❤️😀❤️👍❤️
Keep the faith! Tiffany, you have an army of supporters around you! xoxo❤❤❤
Ahh Tiffany you are so brave. You've got a wonderful supportive family and friends. Lean on them when you need to. They are there for you and wouldn't want you to worry. ❤
How brave of you to be able to share about your health journey ❤
I did ok on my two battles with cancer. Then my husband had Colon cancer in 2021. It was honestly much harder than dealing with my own. I was so anxious and had awful anticipatory grief. He had a stage 2 Colon cancer with successful surgery. If it was one of my sons or granddaughter I would be inconsolable. My heart goes out to Amma. ❤ Of course you have been through so much only to battle again. So heartbreaking but you are strong. Just words but I do understand your wanting to shield protect your loved ones. Yes, Call call and call again for yourself!!!
Dear Tiffany, you are so strong!!! We love you so much & your feelings are completely valid. You've come so far, keep pushing! ❤️
Tiffany sending you much love and prayers. We've got this !!
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All the love and prayers Tiffany ,you are so strong and I’m praying for you always,you can do this and you always will able to overcome anything that comes your way 🩵💙
It’s ok to not be ok. You are going through so so much. I have my fingers crossed and have said a prayer that you get a surgery date as soon as possible. I hope you are doing well. WE GOT THIS! More importantly YOU got this! 💙💙💙
Love to you sweet Tiffany!!! 🩷🩷🩷Keeping you in my prayers!! WE GOT THIS!!! ✝️
Tiffany you have been through such alot and hearing you’re recent news must have rocked you’re core! Talking helps so much. Alma and Matt are with you in every step and talking you’re fears to them as well as us you’re Tiffany thinks family is the way forward. Don’t apologise you’re feelings matter. Hoping you hear from the hospital soon and once a plan is in place you will feel better. You’re family are gorgeous, loving, and clearly you are all very close. Sending even more hugs.xx
Praying for you Tiffany🙏 I wish you don't have to feel like this anymore and you receive some good news soon ❤
Its ok to not be ok Tiffany! You have the right to be afraid and have incecurities but i am sure YOU'VE GOT THIS! you will find a way , you are such a strong person, you have come soooo sooo far! And you have amazing people around you to support!
You will get through this, beautiful girl. You're such a strong, positive person and you've been through so much already. This is difficult, but maybe they're not taking immediate action because they're certain about the positive outcome, being only a very small area of the lung affected. Remember - we've got this! Lots of love from Crete. x
Chin up Tiffany - you will get through this, it's horrible not knowing (I'm in same boat). It's good to cry. We're all rooting for you. 💕
Wishing you the best Joan
Love you Tiffany 💙💙💙💙 you have our continued prayers, support, and love from NYC 💙💙💙💙
Tiffany as an old nurse let me advise you to get your hands on some anti anxiety meds for your bad days, its okay to do this !!
I think this is a good idea during these really anxious times.I have used some in the past when I was going through something very difficult.They helped me sleep better and took the edge off that terrible anxiety.
This is such a heartfelt and honest video. It’s okay not to be okay. You are dealing with something no one should have to deal with. Letting it all out and being truthful about your feelings and fears can be so cathartic. Wishing you all the best!
Wise words 💗xx
Pray sweet face God is with. ask God to help u though u ate in my prayer. doll .I know how hard many going though doll .be strong pray. .
U are in my prayer .I am v sad u going though pray. go on . God is greatest .
Stay strong Tiffany!!!! You are a beautiful soul and I pray for you all the time as I do for everyone! Love and blessings from Texas! 😇❤
You give lots of courage because you are so amazing
Treatment for cancer has advanced incredibly in the last decade, my friend has been stage 4 for over 20 years. You've got this ❤
Hey Tiffany you're so strong, hang in their baby girl God has got your back.i'm praying for you and your family.keep strong.
Bless you Tiffany ❤ we’ve got this girl xx
Hello Tiffany & everyone else in the Tiffany thinks family.
Everything your feeling is normal Tiffany.I think you should share as much or as little as you feel like with your Mom & Matt.
Sometimes it's hard to talk to anyone when you go through these kinds of things.A lot of us have been through similar things or know someone who has.
Mine was last year & I had trouble communicating with everyone at times.
I found you on RUclips & just listening to what you were going through,helped me some too.
I'm doing much better this year.I do have daily reminders of my cancer.
You got this Tiffany!!
We are all here for you & everyone !!
You just cry,laugh,be happy or sad or whatever else you need to do.
Your loving Tiffany thinks family has got you covered girl ❤
Stay sweet & strong everyone 🥰
Tiffany your going beat this. I have cancer myself and there’s a light at the end of the tunnel. I am praying for life is a struggle but you’re going beat this. Stay strong and keep fighting and stay positive ❤
As an over thinker, I would definitely recommend listening to music upstairs and maybe painting, making jewellery, drawing, anything to keep your mind busy now and then. Taking breaks going to the coffee shop or on a small errand definitely helps stop the cycle briefly. We all need space and distractions now and then too. Xxx
your so right... waiting is the worst.....stay as busy as you can to preoccupy yourself:) We love you Tiffany! Hang in There!
I was just watching your Christmas vlog from 6 years ago and I thought the same thing as I thought last year, I love how gracefully and perfectly that you wrap presents, look forward to watching you wrap this year too xx❤
Hey Tiffany, what I love about your channel is that not only does most everyone support you in your journey, but they also support each other in whatever others maybe going through. The anxieties that you’ve been having while waiting for answers from your medical team regarding your surgery that’s completely normal. You should always feel comfortable talking with your loved ones when you’re getting anxious. You will have emotional moments and that’s completely okay. Know you are well loved and we will always be here to support you through your journey.
Sending love,hugs and prayers dear Tiffany!🙏🏽
I understand your anxiety Tiffany sending lots of love and positive energy to not only you but your family too. We got this and our girl is strong 💙💪🙏
Stay strong, sweet Tiffany. This is a terribly difficult time. Have faith that things will get better. Our minds torture us horribly during times like this. Sending love. 💜
You got this. Tiffany, try to breathe and just think of what you've accomplished. Hugs from Nova Scotia Canada ❤❤❤
We are here for you (near and far). ❤Keeping you and your family in my prayers.
I am glad to hear from you, Emma and Matt. I feel like you guys are my family too. I know it not easy what you going through now. Its normal to feel anxious, you doing the right thing talking about it, expressing your self. We got this Tiffany family 💙💙 💙
you got this Tiffany! keep fighting! dont ever think of giving up! cry shout break tjongs but pick ip yourself and keep fighting!
The waiting has to be the worst experience ever …. Hope you’ve heard something by now Tiffany …. Sending so much love and positive healing vibes your way …. We got this! 💙
Tiff your emotions are normal to feel like this but you have got this and take baby steps your being looked after by the best doctors .we all with you every step of the way ❤
Always with you hun...you need to express your emotions in any way you like.❤
Dear Tiffany, I listen to you with an open heart. I'm also going through a lot. I guess that's why I can relate. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Nobody should have to go through what you're going through, and it hurts me dearly. You're like my sister or daughter. You remind me so much of my beautiful sister. Anxiety is the result of not knowing what's going to happen. It's a normal feeling a lot of people go through. I too am suffering from the unknown. That's good you're talking about it, and being honest how you're feeling. I'm here for you. I'm sending you all my love and positive vibes. Also, a big hug of understanding. You're a strong woman, and also a human being. Your feelings count. ❤
Tiffany don't feel bad to share your thoughts, even the dark ones, with your loved ones. My dad and uncle fought their mental battles mostly alone, wanting to spare our feelings but it just made me and the others sad they didn't let us share the burden for as much as we can.
I do think that the results you have are still something to be optimistic about. Planning surgery on your lungs means they're leaving nothing up to chance. These surgeries take a lot of time to plan though in comparison to radiation/chemo for example. So, try to look at the waiting time as time invested in creating the best plan.
Easy for me to say of course but I hope it helps a bit. Big hug
I'll say it again, Dear Tiffany you're not on this journey alone and you're loved around the world ❤
Please speak to your primary MD regarding antianxiety med also research if there's a cancer support group nearby.
Much love from Florida
It’s always tough waiting for calls and the unknown. Sending you much love. ❤❤❤
You have been through so much. I wish this cancer was finally gone from you. God Bless
Tiffany, you are a beautiful young woman, inside and out! WE GOT THIS!
I have to say this before I watch the rest - it’s soo understandable that you don’t want to burden Matt and amma with your anxiety - I’m sure they would love for you to come to them always - but I understand your feelings so much. That is the incredible help a therapist (who specializes in cancer especially) can provide you. You can have a space to get out all those feelings with someone who has seen others go through this hard stuff. They will help you. You can still share whatever you want with Matt and amma but you can just vent out the anxiety to someone trained to help you. It works. I’m in awe of you and just would love to help lighten your load even a little. We love you, Tiffany. ❤️❤️
I agree counseling or a support group could be helpful. I just started participating in a colorectal cancer support group, even though my treatments ended three years ago. There were no support groups during Covid. She needs to be able to have a dialogue in real time with other cancer patients. RUclips is certainly an outlet for expressing herself, but counseling would offer a new level of expression for her.
I agree with this advice and hope she seeks it out! We can’t expect ourselves to be strong all of the time by ourselves! ❤🙏🏻
Tiffany, I’ve been following you for quite some time. I’m a fellow rectal cancer patient. One observation I’ve made over the many months I’ve followed you is that you go through cycles of worry, mostly because (or so it seems to me) you have many unknowns and unanswered questions. I don’t know if your doctors are poor communicators or if they take too long to develop a plan or if you are challenged understanding what they are telling you. But it seems like there’s a communication gap that needs to be resolved.
Is Amma, Tiffany’s mom? Sending good vibes to you Tiffany!❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@alabamagirl1363 Yes, Ama is Tamil for mum.
Sending you love and light Tiffany, you've got this ❤🌈🌺
i love the way you work through your thoughts out loud