Alpha, you need to understand something. Your subscribers are gonna like your videos because they WANT to, NOT because you keep asking. That's begging in my book
Alpha, I know your a strong guy but to talk about something so personal makes you as tough as nails to me! Have not watched the video yet but I'm sure its gold!
@@thefacelessquestion3333 it stands for autonomous sensory meridian response... But it has to do with certain sounds relaxing people or even causing a tingly feeling.
"it's because I'm a dude" 🤣 Your wife is brilliant when she is a guest. Your connection and flow of conversation is couple goals. The way you look at her man 😍
I'm 28 and my wife's 33 we have a one year old. I didn't intend on it, totally got pressured. Childcare is running my finances, BUT my son is the best part of my life! He has the most honest love for me, parental love is a totally different feeling.
I just wanted to say I respect the HELL out of you talking about subjects that are private and not easy for you to talk about, having absolutely zero obligation to do so on RUclips. Big ups man. Stay strong.
Exactly! Well said both of you. I didn't want kids either and never felt like I was missing out on anything. It's not for everyone. Thanks for sharing!
You didn't want to perform the most basic function in order to keep civilization going and don't feel like you missed out? Buddy, with any due respect, you don't even know where the boat is. You'll never know the glory of being on it.
@@rb_5k249 trust me, population will not be going or not going just because of what some of us decided regarding having kids. You've being brainwashed by these miserable moms that everyone needs kids. They are miserable and they want everyone else to be miserable like them. It makes them feel better if others are miserable too.
Not being able to have kids myself I always felt like asking someone why they don't have kids was a very rude question. It's a very personal question yet society feels like it's everybody's business.
My partner and I decided we did not want children in our 20’s, I’m 50 now and still have no regrets. It’s a personal thing but just the thought of a life dictated by a child’s needs has never interested me.
Wow I am 40 yrs old and so is my wife and we don't want kids and just reading your comment I can tell you that you couldn't be more exact as to what we think as well. Just a thought of a life dictated by a child's needs makes me cringe 😝 short and exact 💯
@@davidbealing454 Yup I get it , I would think same way if I wrote your comment . Like what's going to be responses from people now lol .. 😆 But I will say this . You wrote it in a way that is very respectful by saying quote you ; ITS A PERSONAL THING . now they can take it in any way they want to but its your opinion and EVERYONE is entitled to opinion on anything . All the best to you and your family 😃
That is doubly true if I have never really lived the life that so many others have. I never really dated much when I was young so I do not want to lose the second half of my life like I did the first half. We need to create some sort of "old people without kids" club that does things like check up on you and make sure that the hospital/nursing home/etc. are not abusing you while you are senile. It would require paying dues in advance for the years in which we have too much dementia to be able to make sensible decisions. I feel like the lack of a reliable service like what I have described is the only thing preventing more people from going without kids.
i don't think it's weird not to have kids, we have friends who have 1 kid and that's it or no kids. It's a hell of a commitment. I thought i didn't want kids and then we had my daughter and I absolutely love being a Dad but i don't have a yearning to have another one. I feel like i want to cherish all the time i have with my daughter while still having somewhat of a career. I totally understand when you guys say "i like my life." that's pretty much how i feel with only one kid. You're absolutely right when you talk about societal pressure. I remember when we got married we got asked when we're having a kid and then after our first, we got asked when we're having our next one.
Sir, what? Having at least one kid is a paramount difference compared to no kids.... sorry but I want to leave something after me besides my personal doings..... so - it definitetly IS weird. But at the same time - to each his own.
I have a few friends that have 5 kids, because they would stop until they had a boy. I was blessed with my first try. I don't think I'd have the emotional strength for 5 kids.
I got married in my late 20’s (no longer married)and my life now is as a single 32 going to be 33 years old man with no kids with my best friend and ex wife :)
I hear you I'm going to be 38 in a month and been single for decades, ive accepted the loneliness, its not going to happen. I was pretty much born rejected given up for adoption at birth...so I stopped looking for a GF given how my past effects me now even at times with such could be a girl or a job but especially a chick, if I like someone and get turned down it really bothers me for weeks so I just said fuck it, I dont need anyone. Besides doesn't matter because at the end of the day we all die anyway so its ultimately moot. Lol not to sound grim just facts, marriage ive heard is overrated anyway.
Seriously. Your face lights up when you’re talking to Mrs. Alpha. It’s very refreshing. A monthly post of you two going over married stuff would be awesome. Keep it going, Alpha.
Yeah Latino groupthink can be annoying as fuck. I’m probably not going to have kids (I’m 24), and I don’t care about what other say. The idea of having kids or pursuing certain things because everyone else is doing it is so insane to me.
I couldn’t physically have kids due to a medical reason. I was in love with this woman and she dumped me because I couldn’t give her a baby. It’s great you have a choice. Some guys don’t
Adopt! I want to have kids and adopt if financially possible.. A baby is a baby. It's great if u make it yourself but still great if u get it already made lol 😅 a family comes many ways. Make it happen! Good luck
Yeah I’m one of those people who wants to get married to someone who is financially stable and won’t have children until I’m in the right headspace and financial situation. I’m almost 20, so I still have awhile for marriage to even be a thing for me. I’d rather focus on myself, my work, and my finances then be focused on the pressure of kids and marriage
@@mikecapalungan Agreed, its getting tough out there and I can't imagine bringing a life into this world without making sure they have a secure household to be safe in
The problem is that the internet exposes everyone. You can Google his wife and pics pop up. Im glad also that he gives her privacy and I think it's pretty cool that stays as a voice.
I am so glad you both came to this agreement. My daughter is going to be 42 in April and has never wanted kids. I have always been supportive of her. It is her body and her life. Take care.
It's actually how I feel. Like.. what else is there to life. I mean stocking up on bread and building yourself up is great but at the end of the day I feel like having your own family is real treasure
@@c.m.m6668 I respect people who have their opinion of not wanting kids. Yet no matter how much build wealth nobody is going to carry over your name and wealth more than your kid.
I've been married for 23 years, no kids, the wife and I are completely happy. We love the freedom and the ability to just be a couple. No regrets. We have 4 nephews and we love spending time with them and then leaving them with our brothers/sisters..... happy DINKS. People ask us about it from time to time and we just say " we are happily child free"
I can relate when Aaron said he's too selfish for children. I don't want them, I'd rather focus on me and my money and like he said they're tough work.
I'm a 46yr old male and I had the same beliefs of not wanting any kids, but now I have an 8yr old boy and he's my biggest blessing. Everyday I thank God for him! I couldn't picture my life without him.
One other thing you NEVER hear about are people that have had children and regret/regretted it. It's a VERY real thing, but we don't hear about it because it's a REALLY taboo thing to say and or talk about; much more so than not wanting children in the first place. But yes, there's a big percentage of people that if they a 2nd chance, would not have had children.
I have two children They are the best things that ever happened to me. However, your marriage is your island… Your island, your rules. Live in a way that is fulfilling, joyful, and Full of happiness. That’s what matters!
I remember I was in a restaurant with a couple of friends mine and next to us there was another family, a mom and dad two teenage daughters. The two teenage girls barely talked to their parents t just texting away on their phones. Anyway, after the dinner I drove one of my friends to his house and we chatting about kids while driving and one thing he said he did not want any kids imagine pouring all the love and energy into a kid and for them to turn around and not spend anytime with you because they were on their phones. This was a reference to what we had seen in the restaurant. We both said that we wanted to enjoy our lives because having kids you have to sacrifice a lot, time, money basically you life and believe it or not there are some people who regret having kids and if they could get a do-over they would never have kids or have them so young.
Imagine spending 40 years of your life thinking your kids will look after you when you get old only to see them put you in a oldies home and leave you there.
Great video Aaron! I’m the same, I don’t hate kids, I even worked with them at a primary school for a couple years as a Teaching Assistant. I’m also a very happy Uncle. I have just never had that feeling or parental urge of ever wanting my own children. Not saying I won’t change my mind, but I’m 36 now and still feel the same. I’m lucky in that my family and friends don’t pressure me in my life choices. One of the arguments I hear is “you need to have kids to keep the human race going” yep.. I’m sure a world with billions of the human race will become extinct if myself and a extremely small number of other people choose not have kids. Another argument is “who will look after you when you’re old?” Look just because you have a kid it doesn’t mean they will be sticking around to care and look after you. Even great parents can raise a kid who goes off the rails/falls in the wrong crowd/becomes a alcoholic or drug addict/ends up in prison etc. Or what if you’re kid moves to another country for a successful career? How are they gonna look after you then? Will you expect them to quit their careers and run home to care for you? Then there’s the argument of being selfish not wanting kids. What IS selfish is being constantly harassed by parents/family members wanting you to give them grandchildren. Just do you people 👍
I've been watching your videos since I was 9. I'm 13 now, I'm in love with a girl that loves me and my life has gotten a lot better because of you Alpha. My dad isnt really around and you are really my youtube dad😂 Thank you Aaron. Your lessons have helped a lot.
Just celebrated my 15th anniversary last week. My wife and I decided early on, kids weren't our thing. I'll be honest 15 years in, I've no regrets. We love our lives. To those folks who want kids, good-on-ya.
Big follower. The kids debate along with my ex becoming really.. not a good person was the demise of the relationship. Never thought I wanted them. Neither of us had good conversations about it. It became a major conflict when she fell anti and fell pro. Ultimately, I can look ahead and see all of the experiences good and bad I don’t want to miss out on. It’s better to let someone go who doesn’t desire the same things than to live bitter or with regret for someone else’s lifestyle
I respect you and you’re wife’s decision on not having a family. It’s really cool. My wife and I adopted two girls. When they we’re almost baby’s. Enjoy every moment of your life.
Remember alpha, you need kids who will inherit the everything that you have right now, the looks you have, the wealth you have built. We know you have a hard past as a young kid back then, but i think its a good option to have just enough kids and teach them how they should be raised that you've always wanted to since you we're a kid back in your day.. Just what in the lion king movie, "Circle of Life". And all of these are just my HUMBLE OPINION, and at the end of the day we are your kids who are willing to learn from you everyday. I hope you have a good day alpha, keep healthy and God be with you always!! Lots of love from Philippines!!
Being a parent can be rough. I feel like the majority of people have kids just to have them. There isn’t a huge internal conflict on whether they should or shouldn’t have kids. I believe people should have a huge conflict and they need to decide if having kids is worth the sacrifices. Most people say you will regret not having kids but you have to look at what makes you happy, what you look forward to on a day to day basis, if you enjoy being around kids, and if you are willing to raise a child. It’s not all sunshine and rainbows.
I'm 53 with no kids and I love this video. I've spent a life time chasing my dreams with no regrets and always moving forward. #blessed #blessed #blessed Thank you both for this video!
I am so glad you made this video, sometimes it's an awkward place to be when you don't have kids out of choice. My husband and I got married when we were 30 and have made the decision not to have kids. We love our nieces and nephews but we are on the same page about it and we have communicated about it thoroughly. We never felt any pressure from our family but it always shocks me that strangers or acquaintances seem to feel the need to pressure us. At this point though I will be 40 in a month so I don't get asked as much anymore. It's such a huge responsibility and not something you should give into just because you don't want to disappoint. Our two cats are just fine with us.
I have 2 cats too, and I find them plenty! Even as low maintenance as cats are, they too, get a bit much for me when they want attention and play time, and I'm busy doing my thing. Can't imagine having kids that are exponentially much more high maintenance and needing constant attention.
@Joy Michele Timmons Why should we regret it later? This is your dramatic fantasy you're playing in your head on repeat. There are plenty of people who had kids and regret it now. Let's be honest, you rather have children because you don't know what else to do with your life.
Check out "I Regret Having Children" group on Facebook. Here is one of the latest testimonies: “I am a 34 year old dad of 2 boys (5 & 7). They are extremely needy, disrespectful, and pretty much everything revolves around them. I find myself aggravated more than happy, and stressed out when I’m around them, daily I regret coming home from work, i cringe at walking through the door, to find kids that don’t even take their eyes off the tv to say hi, or they are fighting and screaming, jumping on furniture, the house a complete mess, and every meal you put in front of them is shit to their eyes. At this point, they bring rarely any joy to my life, I’m miserable. I love them, and try all the time to engage them with games, and try to instill morales/discipline into their lives but it’s like talking to a board, the only time there is peace is when they are on a tablet. I feel lost, and to make matters worse, me and their mom have pretty much zero support, I feel cursed, I feel horrible for these feeling, I strongly regret having kids, and if I can turn back the clock I would NEVER have had them. I want to go back to school to make more money, but can’t cause that would mean I won’t be around to help their mom who is also another stress ball due to the kids. Please add me to this group, I could use some support, and also see that I am not alone, maybe pick up a few tips on how to make things better for my shitty miserable situation.” -Anonymous
Screw society. Do what's right for you. When I hit 40, I was 100% sure I didn't want them and was glad I decided not to have them. I have no desire to have kids and don't care how anyone else feels about it.
My husband and I are still debating on if we want children or not. Like your wife, I also haven’t had the “biological clock” feeling. That feeling that I must raise children or I won’t be happy. My mother and father knew they wanted to be parents when they got married. I have no idea what that feels like. I love my marriage the way it is and so does my husband. It’s never been a topic of serious conversation because it’s not something that was needed to bring value into our marriage in particular. However, I am also a nurse and I have seen countless patient who are in their 60’s, 70’s etc. whom never had children and who’s partner has passed on and they are alone. Many regret not having kids because they have no one else to comfort them. Even those who have extended families, aren’t always involved or maintain close bonds. While working with people, it is a topic of conversation that always follows the line of “ I didn’t think about it until it was too late, and I got too old”. On the other hand, many others don’t regret it regardless of their situation in old age. Even though my husband and I are undecided, we both do have those involuntary thoughts that we need to have children. For me it’s not social pressure, it’s literally our brains telling us to do what we are built for. Despite the fact that we have the choice, It is a deep seeded human behavior maintained over hundreds of thousands of years to come to terms our own mortality and self preservation by having children. It’s isn’t something we think about until we need help and there is no help to be given. It can sometimes be an internal battle with ourselves when the thought of kids comes up in our minds even when we are sure we don’t want them.
When I was in college back in 2012/2013 I found your channel. At the time I was a mess, I had no style, no social skills and no confidence. I watched every video you made and my life started to turn around. It took years but eventually I got to the point where friends would come to me for fashion advice... I ended up getting a great job, met some girls, got a gf, and got into better shape. A big part of that transformation is thanks to you and your channel. You taught me stuff that my dad would never have been able to teach me. So for that I am grateful. Long story short: you're our dad... and a damn good one.
I love how your wife does the hesitant almost annoyed a little "I love you".. My girlfriend does the exact same thing when she knows its being recorded for a video hahaha
As many others have said, if ever there is a day where you feel like "maybe we should've had kids" ..... Remember you'll always have us! Your fans, your students, your "kids", and most importantly your Ohana. For you BOTH are apart of each and every one of our lives and our family. THANK YOU for all you and Mrs. Alpha do for us!
I totally agree. This video was recommended for no apparent reason but subbed right away. My husband and i had our daughter after 2 years of marriage. 6 years later people still keep asking why we only have one. At the back of my mind i was screaming it’s my body, my choice. Having children is expensive if u want a better life quality. F*ck those people telling you what to do. I on the other hand would definitely tell them to just be thankful i have one. Im happy with just one kid. It’s your choice as long as you both wanted it.
Alpha I have so much to say to you but I'll try and keep it as short as possible. For 10 years now I've been watching you videos to help myself, I had a bad depression and social anxiety and your videos helped me to at least TRY and go out, talk to people, dress out of my comfort zone and work on myself. I started working out, got an amazing physique and became a manwhore hoping this would fix everything. Guess what, it did NOT! 10 years ago I was addicted to games like World of Warcraft and Counter-Strike which I replaced with working out but then drugs and alcohol took over and made my life turn from already bad to horrific. I got in debt, got a DUI, screwed up my relationship and eventually became homeless. In March 2019 I went to a rehab across the world in South-Africa. This were the hardest 2 months of my life, but also the most rewarding. I learned so much. Sadly I relapsed because I was just focused on staying clean and did not do something about my underlying issues I've been struggling with my entire life. Thanks to therapy and your videos I got out there and I stepped into action. I got out of my comfort zone, I interacted with people, I picked my passions back up, I worked in becoming a better human being for the entirety of 2020 and I still am. I am now sober for 11 months and 12 days, I am back together with my ex and it has been great, after more then 130 job applications I am starting a great new opportunity the first of March and your videos contributed to this. You keep reminding me to keep working on changing for the better! From the bottom of my heart I want to thank you so freaking much! To anyone who is struggling with something, go talk to someone, your girlfriend/boyfriend, your parents, a friend, someone online in a chatroom, a professional! Accept help, be aware that you don't act like you are the victim and step in to action. You're all worth it! Much love, Roël
I don’t know if you read these but for a long time growing up, I didn’t really have a dad. You became the dad I never had and I’d be so excited for the new uploads. Thanks, Alpha.
Cause you have WISDOM! Just because someone says something, doesn’t mean they mean it. My ex wife didn’t want kids, and I put up with her decision for years because I loved her! We got divorced 9 years ago. After that, I met a “hottie” married again and now I have two wonderful little girls. I absolutely LOVE being a father!!!! Who gives a shit about the expense, your NOT going to take it with you to the grave!!!!
Thank you Alpha for just being an honest, good person. I’ve been watching you since I was a young teen, and you have been an incredible role model for me. Big respect brother!
@@smile_jpg6673 only if you are ultra rich that can donate buildings, monuments, have yourself ingrained in history. for everyone else it's just they don't want to see their family line dead.
This ain't a song for the broken-hearted No silent prayer for faith-departed And I ain't gonna be just a face in the crowd You're gonna hear my voice when I shout it out loud It's my life It's now or never But I ain't gonna live forever I just want to live while I'm alive (It's my life) My heart is like an open highway Like Frankie said, "I did it my way" I just want to live while I'm alive It's my life Yeah, this is for the ones who stood their ground For Tommy and Gina, who never backed down Tomorrow's getting harder, make no mistake Luck ain't even lucky, got to make your own breaks It's my life And it's now or never I ain't gonna live forever I just want to live while I'm alive (It's my life) My heart is like an open highway Like Frankie said, "I did it my way" I just want to live while I'm alive 'Cause it's my life Better stand tall when they're calling you out Don't bend, don't break, baby, don't back down It's my life And it's now or never 'Cause I ain't gonna live forever I just want to live while I'm alive (It's my life) My heart is like an open highway Like Frankie said, "I did it my way" I just want to live while I'm alive And it's now or never I ain't gonna live forever I just want to live while I'm alive (It's my life) My heart is like an open highway Like Frankie said, "I did it my way" I just want to live while I'm alive 'Cause it's my life Bon Jovi-
If you're an only child..... You better have children!!! You are your parents' only hope for a lineage. If you're a male child, thats even more so important. Your grandparents were thrilled to have a third generation born and now you're parents want the same thrill. Don't deny them that. Some would say.
no way man, i was actually thinking about this in class today because i remember alpha saying that he's married for 16 years, how come he doesn't have legendary kids yet?
I’ve had 6 kids they are my world now I have just about 8 grandkids but hey that’s your choice.. you might regret it someday because grandkids are amazing .. in you later years it might get lonely..
I have made a lot of mistakes because of a lack on introspection and guiding role models. You've helped me in many ways, Aaron. Some decisions have been so scary but I have to do me and not drag others along as I figure myself out.
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My juices out there. That was a gay joke😅
Alpha, you need to understand something. Your subscribers are gonna like your videos because they WANT to, NOT because you keep asking. That's begging in my book
Alpha, I know your a strong guy but to talk about something so personal makes you as tough as nails to me!
Have not watched the video yet but I'm sure its gold!
Bro you should foster bro
Secret is out he got no testicles
You're like a father to millions of us
seriously though, been following you for many years and you inspired me to get on the self development track!
This is so true
True...
Absolute facts. I wouldnt be who I am today if I didnt listen to Alpha’s suggestions
Well not really, he never provided me child support
One of the most pathetic, most heartbreaking situations is being an unwanted child. Every child should be wanted and cared for with love.
That depends for me. I'm the youngest it has its pros and cons and it's not all that glamorous.
@@johnnygunzfilmbuff7821 I do not think that it is glamorous to be the youngest or the oldest child.
@@gwillis01 nope
idk man, id choose rather to exists, wanted or unwated u know
Completely agree All my life felt love from mom, dad never
It’s okay we are your kids you teach a lot of people stuff. 💯💙
Mhm
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Thee most cuck comment I've seen today so far.
Not all. He still hasn't taught us how to not get caught in cheating situations.
Speak for yourself bro 😂
Kudos to Aaron for respecting his wife's privacy to not be on camera.
Maybe Tiege Hanley made him sterile!
@@robd1329 It probably made his sperm count skyrocket. That couldn't be it.
It was Aaron’s choice and then she agreed
"this is hard to talk about"
the reason: "we didn't want em"
Lol
Robert Beurkens 😂
Lmao, meh didn't really want em
Thank you for saving me 14 minutes.
lol 😂
Alpha: "If one of you wants to be adopted by Alpha drop me one of these!"
*starts typing excitedly
Alpha: "Haha I'm kidding!"
*Holds backspace
Same 😔
I’d love to be heir to all those Pete and Pedro pesos
😂😂
😂🤣😂🤣
"He was gay all along "I'm dying 🤣🤣🤣
Id let him father me heeeeeeyyyyyyy 🏳️🌈💪💪💪💪😍
Frenk what the fuck is that
Well... she did say she is a dude. Probably wasn't a joke 🤷
Oh hell yeah, that had me cracking up too. Such a natural banter between them
Hes gay
Alpha, I’m 20 years old. Adopt me and I will carry on the Marino legacy
Mee I'm 16😁
😂😂
I'm 14 adopt me
Ahhahahahaj
Er what
Mrs Alpha should start her ASMR channel. Her voice is really calm & soothing.
I started doing ASMR recently and have been watching ASMR for the past 5 years and I totally agree. She sounds like she'd make a good ASMRtist.
What's ASMR?
@@thefacelessquestion3333 it stands for autonomous sensory meridian response... But it has to do with certain sounds relaxing people or even causing a tingly feeling.
@@ChristopherCologneASMR
Thanks...
@@ChristopherCologneASMR Is ASMR some sexual fetish
There’s a lot of people who have kids that should “NEVER” have kids.
Amen to that👍🏼
Amen to genocide/sterilization ..er...I mean whatever you said...I mean...wait...what did you say?
That's an understatement
@@deanmccrorie3461 many unfit parents.
Most people.
This guy literally has 6.62 M kids
And get more and more. One big family
😂
🤣😂
"it's because I'm a dude" 🤣
Your wife is brilliant when she is a guest. Your connection and flow of conversation is couple goals. The way you look at her man 😍
I'm 28 and my wife's 33 we have a one year old. I didn't intend on it, totally got pressured. Childcare is running my finances, BUT my son is the best part of my life! He has the most honest love for me, parental love is a totally different feeling.
But damn bro:/i hope u can get it together soon
I lost my dad when I was 22. Even tho I’m only a recent sub, getting consistent tips and guidance from alpha really helps to fill that void.
Very powerful ✊🏼
I lost my father when I was 22 also. It was rough. It still is.
I lost mine at 20, yeah, still rough. Idk lost love which never was, but still.
“Kids or no kids, both great decisions”... applying this to every aspect of life, I believe this is the best thing I’ve heard on Alpha M. channel!!!
If Alpha m had a son his name would be Alpha jr.
It'd probably be a different letter of the alphabet instead of jr. Q maybe 😉
No it would be clickbait king jr.
Or Beta
I was thinking Pre-Alpha.
Brian maybe?
“It’s because I’m really a dude” 😂
“what did he sayyyyy”
I just wanted to say I respect the HELL out of you talking about subjects that are private and not easy for you to talk about, having absolutely zero obligation to do so on RUclips. Big ups man. Stay strong.
Alphas wife killed me when she says "cause I'm actually a dude" 😂
😂
Cute and funny this man got himself a queen
@@samBrightuel she's definitely a keeper. Kudos, Alpha
Exactly! Well said both of you. I didn't want kids either and never felt like I was missing out on anything. It's not for everyone. Thanks for sharing!
You didn't want to perform the most basic function in order to keep civilization going and don't feel like you missed out? Buddy, with any due respect, you don't even know where the boat is. You'll never know the glory of being on it.
@@rb_5k249 well, with the world as overpopulated as it is, your argument is pretty flimsy at best
@@RunningCrow265 ok bill gates. But if you want to be alpha...
@@rb_5k249 lmao
@@rb_5k249 trust me, population will not be going or not going just because of what some of us decided regarding having kids. You've being brainwashed by these miserable moms that everyone needs kids. They are miserable and they want everyone else to be miserable like them. It makes them feel better if others are miserable too.
The way Alpha looks at his wife when she talks. 😍
Dude looks like he’s making a hostage video
I was literally waiting and thinking: how is he going to link this story to a video sponsor? And then BOOM!! 😂 love it.
Ikr. A fucking counseling website?? LMAO!! Financial aid is available too? Oh boy!!
Thats what I'm here to see
Shoulda been Trojan condoms
Hahaha u stole my comment
I did comment same thing few videos ago
Not being able to have kids myself I always felt like asking someone why they don't have kids was a very rude question. It's a very personal question yet society feels like it's everybody's business.
@Greg Slone It's NOBODY'S fucking business!
It's not a rude question idc if it's personal
My partner and I decided we did not want children in our 20’s, I’m 50 now and still have no regrets. It’s a personal thing but just the thought of a life dictated by a child’s needs has never interested me.
I'm so jealous of you.
Wow I am 40 yrs old and so is my wife and we don't want kids and just reading your comment I can tell you that you couldn't be more exact as to what we think as well.
Just a thought of a life dictated by a child's needs makes me cringe 😝 short and exact 💯
@@ManCityCL thanks for the comment I thought I’d be slated when I originally wrote my comment, I must be lacking the produce more of me clones gene 😉👍
@@davidbealing454 Yup I get it , I would think same way if I wrote your comment . Like what's going to be responses from people now lol .. 😆 But I will say this . You wrote it in a way that is very respectful by saying
quote you ; ITS A PERSONAL THING .
now they can take it in any way they want to but its your opinion and EVERYONE is entitled to opinion on anything . All the best to you and your family 😃
That is doubly true if I have never really lived the life that so many others have. I never really dated much when I was young so I do not want to lose the second half of my life like I did the first half. We need to create some sort of "old people without kids" club that does things like check up on you and make sure that the hospital/nursing home/etc. are not abusing you while you are senile. It would require paying dues in advance for the years in which we have too much dementia to be able to make sensible decisions. I feel like the lack of a reliable service like what I have described is the only thing preventing more people from going without kids.
i don't think it's weird not to have kids, we have friends who have 1 kid and that's it or no kids. It's a hell of a commitment. I thought i didn't want kids and then we had my daughter and I absolutely love being a Dad but i don't have a yearning to have another one. I feel like i want to cherish all the time i have with my daughter while still having somewhat of a career. I totally understand when you guys say "i like my life." that's pretty much how i feel with only one kid.
You're absolutely right when you talk about societal pressure. I remember when we got married we got asked when we're having a kid and then after our first, we got asked when we're having our next one.
Sir, what? Having at least one kid is a paramount difference compared to no kids.... sorry but I want to leave something after me besides my personal doings..... so - it definitetly IS weird. But at the same time - to each his own.
@@rp6550 why would it be weird?
@@rp6550 😐
@@rp6550 Exactly my thoughts especially if I was a only child.
I have a few friends that have 5 kids, because they would stop until they had a boy. I was blessed with my first try. I don't think I'd have the emotional strength for 5 kids.
For your kind information, u taught us more than our dads did
Lmao I’m a girl yet he taught me more about men than any guy I’ve ever met. Super refreshing
@@harundaniel7705 keep going 💪😄
Won’t go that far. He more of a uncle to me
Facts
Alpha is my dad!
He's saying the got married late in life at 31... I'm 31 now and don't even have girlfriend
God will bless you with a gorgeous girl friend sooner don't feel dude
I got married in my late 20’s (no longer married)and my life now is as a single 32 going to be 33 years old man with no kids with my best friend and ex wife :)
@@lol-rr7pi lies
That’s sad man.
I hear you I'm going to be 38 in a month and been single for decades, ive accepted the loneliness, its not going to happen. I was pretty much born rejected given up for adoption at birth...so I stopped looking for a GF given how my past effects me now even at times with such could be a girl or a job but especially a chick, if I like someone and get turned down it really bothers me for weeks so I just said fuck it, I dont need anyone. Besides doesn't matter because at the end of the day we all die anyway so its ultimately moot. Lol not to sound grim just facts, marriage ive heard is overrated anyway.
As a married 32 yo without kids it was nice hearing this from another couple! Pretty cool couple
I am in the same boat, friends have kids and we was in doubt if we should but i am leaning on not having kids and getting a vasectomy.
Seriously. Your face lights up when you’re talking to Mrs. Alpha. It’s very refreshing. A monthly post of you two going over married stuff would be awesome. Keep it going, Alpha.
The look on Alpha's face when he sees his wife is awesome!!!
Actual reason :-Alpha already knew his kid gonna stop him selling tiege hanley!
I’m 22 and I don’t plan on having kids. Being Mexican makes the pressure from others a lot more difficult. I’m focused on my career and business.
I get you my mexican mom is constantly pushing me towards my "metas" goals but yeah man keep at it, sigue tus sueños
Yeah Latino groupthink can be annoying as fuck. I’m probably not going to have kids (I’m 24), and I don’t care about what other say. The idea of having kids or pursuing certain things because everyone else is doing it is so insane to me.
@@ProfessorCDO I agree
@@mx.emi99 Thank you
@@helpfulcommenter as a catholic that's funny 😂😂💔
I couldn’t physically have kids due to a medical reason. I was in love with this woman and she dumped me because I couldn’t give her a baby. It’s great you have a choice. Some guys don’t
sad 😢💔
Adopt! I want to have kids and adopt if financially possible.. A baby is a baby. It's great if u make it yourself but still great if u get it already made lol 😅 a family comes many ways. Make it happen! Good luck
Oh snap..thata messed up!!!
@@elleari89 your living in a fantasy life
@@elleari89 not all women want to adopt
Elon Musk: "Owning a company is like owning kid"
Alpha: Owns multiple companies
Musk has like what 5 kids? One a baby at 50?
@@monicag6715Musk has around 7-8 kids! 😂
This is one of those crazy Eye Opener videos and lately I’ve seen couples that married after their 20’s are financially stable
Yeah I’m one of those people who wants to get married to someone who is financially stable and won’t have children until I’m in the right headspace and financial situation. I’m almost 20, so I still have awhile for marriage to even be a thing for me. I’d rather focus on myself, my work, and my finances then be focused on the pressure of kids and marriage
@@mikecapalungan Agreed, its getting tough out there and I can't imagine bringing a life into this world without making sure they have a secure household to be safe in
I really respect that you don't show your wife on YT. ❤️
The problem is that the internet exposes everyone. You can Google his wife and pics pop up. Im glad also that he gives her privacy and I think it's pretty cool that stays as a voice.
Yeah I've seen her and she's very beautiful 🙏
@@Darkest_Soul_187 People like you are literally sick . We all are beautiful in different ways .
Agreed.
I am so glad you both came to this agreement. My daughter is going to be 42 in April and has never wanted kids. I have always been supportive of her. It is her body and her life. Take care.
About having or not having kids: Taj Mahal put it best when he sang, “Ain’t nobody’s business but my own.”
She doesn't have kids, but she haves 9 cats, she is primed to be mother, guys don't make mistake about it ...
Lol
If a woman loves animals= she wants to be a mother (according to alpha logic) what a bs
I'm 42...and I have that strange belief that children are the ONLY true wealth we have in life....And I still don't have kids either!
Well shit... At least men have it easier because they are not running out of eggs
It's actually how I feel. Like.. what else is there to life. I mean stocking up on bread and building yourself up is great but at the end of the day I feel like having your own family is real treasure
@@c.m.m6668 I respect people who have their opinion of not wanting kids. Yet no matter how much build wealth nobody is going to carry over your name and wealth more than your kid.
It’s true I have to say
@@robinpohl2702 the older men get their sperm has more mutations
I've been married for 23 years, no kids, the wife and I are completely happy. We love the freedom and the ability to just be a couple. No regrets. We have 4 nephews and we love spending time with them and then leaving them with our brothers/sisters..... happy DINKS. People ask us about it from time to time and we just say " we are happily child free"
I can relate when Aaron said he's too selfish for children. I don't want them, I'd rather focus on me and my money and like he said they're tough work.
Welcome to the child-free life, Alpha! Thank you for talking about this. More people need to know that having kids is a choice not an inevitability.
I'm a 46yr old male and I had the same beliefs of not wanting any kids, but now I have an 8yr old boy and he's my biggest blessing. Everyday I thank God for him! I couldn't picture my life without him.
Thats how i am... i didnt ever expect to have kids... i liked playing and my freedom... now i have a daughter and she fills me with joy
Im so stoked i read this.. im 34 and me and my wife are trying.. im scared my window was closing.
Update: My wife and I welcomed our first little girl. She made 3 months last Dec.
@@robertovindell Congrats 🙏🏼
@@victorsantiago5176 thanks brother!
Life is too short, you don't know when you are going to die. Who knows you might not wake up tomorrow. Live today as if its your last.
One of the greatest decisions you have taken. Great 🍻. Rooting for you.
All i get from my friends and family is “when you gonna get a girlfriend” it’s annoying
@AgentSmith lmaoo
Just get out of the closet,... Don't be afraid
I used to have the same problem until I told them straight up “because they’re all sluts.”
@@landonpalmer7662 no, I mostly don’t have my life together enough
One other thing you NEVER hear about are people that have had children and regret/regretted it. It's a VERY real thing, but we don't hear about it because it's a REALLY taboo thing to say and or talk about; much more so than not wanting children in the first place. But yes, there's a big percentage of people that if they a 2nd chance, would not have had children.
I have two children They are the best things that ever happened to me. However, your marriage is your island… Your island, your rules. Live in a way that is fulfilling, joyful, and Full of happiness. That’s what matters!
"Its because I'm really a dude" 😆 best response ever
😂 They are such nerds and is cute. I am starting to love his video. Alpha is one intriguing man. I hope wifey comes on the next episode soon.
You're already a father, uncle, brother, mentor, grandpa to millions of other people! We all look up to you Alpha!👊
Every time Mrs. Alpha comes to the channel, all i do is listen to the angelic voice.
She should record audio books with that amazingly calming voice.
I remember I was in a restaurant with a couple of friends mine and next to us there was another family, a mom and dad two teenage daughters. The two teenage girls barely talked to their parents t just texting away on their phones. Anyway, after the dinner I drove one of my friends to his house and we chatting about kids while driving and one thing he said he did not want any kids imagine pouring all the love and energy into a kid and for them to turn around and not spend anytime with you because they were on their phones. This was a reference to what we had seen in the restaurant.
We both said that we wanted to enjoy our lives because having kids you have to sacrifice a lot, time, money basically you life and believe it or not there are some people who regret having kids and if they could get a do-over they would never have kids or have them so young.
Others: when you have kids..?
Mr.& Mrs Alphas : we are kids for eachother 😉
Imagine spending 40 years of your life thinking your kids will look after you when you get old only to see them put you in a oldies home and leave you there.
I wouldn't want my children take care of me, I would like them to thrive and be happy.
Great video Aaron! I’m the same, I don’t hate kids, I even worked with them at a primary school for a couple years as a Teaching Assistant. I’m also a very happy Uncle. I have just never had that feeling or parental urge of ever wanting my own children. Not saying I won’t change my mind, but I’m 36 now and still feel the same.
I’m lucky in that my family and friends don’t pressure me in my life choices.
One of the arguments I hear is “you need to have kids to keep the human race going” yep.. I’m sure a world with billions of the human race will become extinct if myself and a extremely small number of other people choose not have kids.
Another argument is “who will look after you when you’re old?” Look just because you have a kid it doesn’t mean they will be sticking around to care and look after you. Even great parents can raise a kid who goes off the rails/falls in the wrong crowd/becomes a alcoholic or drug addict/ends up in prison etc.
Or what if you’re kid moves to another country for a successful career? How are they gonna look after you then? Will you expect them to quit their careers and run home to care for you?
Then there’s the argument of being selfish not wanting kids. What IS selfish is being constantly harassed by parents/family members wanting you to give them grandchildren.
Just do you people 👍
Respect my man! I agree with every single thing you just said.
I agree, no guarantee a kid will look after you.
Also isn’t that selfish in itself? Wanting kids just so you got someone to care for you?
I don’t want kids either but the pressure from parents wanting me to give them grandchildren has put a wedge between us.
You do you, never live for anyone else in this world.
Same 26 and no kids! So happy hopefully it stays like that forever
I almost feel like mrs alpha is just a voice over and she isn’t even real 😂
Me toooooo 😳😳
😳
he just wanna keep his life private! his choice
Its Stephen from Dyer and Posta putting a girl voice
I think that's Alexa.
I've been watching your videos since I was 9. I'm 13 now, I'm in love with a girl that loves me and my life has gotten a lot better because of you Alpha. My dad isnt really around and you are really my youtube dad😂 Thank you Aaron. Your lessons have helped a lot.
Just celebrated my 15th anniversary last week. My wife and I decided early on, kids weren't our thing. I'll be honest 15 years in, I've no regrets. We love our lives. To those folks who want kids, good-on-ya.
Omg .. same here ... been happily married and happily childfree for 15yrs... it's nice know people like us out there
Big follower. The kids debate along with my ex becoming really.. not a good person was the demise of the relationship. Never thought I wanted them. Neither of us had good conversations about it. It became a major conflict when she fell anti and fell pro. Ultimately, I can look ahead and see all of the experiences good and bad I don’t want to miss out on. It’s better to let someone go who doesn’t desire the same things than to live bitter or with regret for someone else’s lifestyle
I respect you and you’re wife’s decision on not having a family. It’s really cool. My wife and I adopted two girls. When they we’re almost baby’s. Enjoy every moment of your life.
The pressure of society... you said it! 😩
What pressure...covid changed hanging out
Remember alpha, you need kids who will inherit the everything that you have right now, the looks you have, the wealth you have built. We know you have a hard past as a young kid back then, but i think its a good option to have just enough kids and teach them how they should be raised that you've always wanted to since you we're a kid back in your day.. Just what in the lion king movie, "Circle of Life". And all of these are just my HUMBLE OPINION, and at the end of the day we are your kids who are willing to learn from you everyday.
I hope you have a good day alpha, keep healthy and God be with you always!! Lots of love from Philippines!!
Nicely said kind sir. HAve a great day
thats none of your business
Such an inspiring messege. You should join Asia's next top model
There are two breeds of men,
The ones who watch alpha m.
The ones who don’t😳
Career before life - this is probable THE sickness of our times.
It is the best thing that happened to the western world. The '50s are over boomer.
Being a parent can be rough. I feel like the majority of people have kids just to have them. There isn’t a huge internal conflict on whether they should or shouldn’t have kids. I believe people should have a huge conflict and they need to decide if having kids is worth the sacrifices. Most people say you will regret not having kids but you have to look at what makes you happy, what you look forward to on a day to day basis, if you enjoy being around kids, and if you are willing to raise a child. It’s not all sunshine and rainbows.
I'm 53 with no kids and I love this video. I've spent a life time chasing my dreams with no regrets and always moving forward. #blessed #blessed #blessed Thank you both for this video!
I am so glad you made this video, sometimes it's an awkward place to be when you don't have kids out of choice. My husband and I got married when we were 30 and have made the decision not to have kids. We love our nieces and nephews but we are on the same page about it and we have communicated about it thoroughly. We never felt any pressure from our family but it always shocks me that strangers or acquaintances seem to feel the need to pressure us. At this point though I will be 40 in a month so I don't get asked as much anymore. It's such a huge responsibility and not something you should give into just because you don't want to disappoint. Our two cats are just fine with us.
I have 2 cats too, and I find them plenty! Even as low maintenance as cats are, they too, get a bit much for me when they want attention and play time, and I'm busy doing my thing. Can't imagine having kids that are exponentially much more high maintenance and needing constant attention.
@Joy Michele Timmons Why should we regret it later? This is your dramatic fantasy you're playing in your head on repeat. There are plenty of people who had kids and regret it now. Let's be honest, you rather have children because you don't know what else to do with your life.
Check out "I Regret Having Children" group on Facebook. Here is one of the latest testimonies:
“I am a 34 year old dad of 2 boys (5 & 7). They are extremely needy, disrespectful, and pretty much everything revolves around them. I find myself aggravated more than happy, and stressed out when I’m around them, daily I regret coming home from work, i cringe at walking through the door, to find kids that don’t even take their eyes off the tv to say hi, or they are fighting and screaming, jumping on furniture, the house a complete mess, and every meal you put in front of them is shit to their eyes. At this point, they bring rarely any joy to my life, I’m miserable. I love them, and try all the time to engage them with games, and try to instill morales/discipline into their lives but it’s like talking to a board, the only time there is peace is when they are on a tablet. I feel lost, and to make matters worse, me and their mom have pretty much zero support, I feel cursed, I feel horrible for these feeling, I strongly regret having kids, and if I can turn back the clock I would NEVER have had them. I want to go back to school to make more money, but can’t cause that would mean I won’t be around to help their mom who is also another stress ball due to the kids. Please add me to this group, I could use some support, and also see that I am not alone, maybe pick up a few tips on how to make things better for my shitty miserable situation.”
-Anonymous
I've been watching your videos for about 3 months and I see the happiest with you and your wife... It's awesome.. have a great day
Screw society. Do what's right for you. When I hit 40, I was 100% sure I didn't want them and was glad I decided not to have them. I have no desire to have kids and don't care how anyone else feels about it.
My husband and I are still debating on if we want children or not. Like your wife, I also haven’t had the “biological clock” feeling. That feeling that I must raise children or I won’t be happy. My mother and father knew they wanted to be parents when they got married. I have no idea what that feels like. I love my marriage the way it is and so does my husband. It’s never been a topic of serious conversation because it’s not something that was needed to bring value into our marriage in particular.
However, I am also a nurse and I have seen countless patient who are in their 60’s, 70’s etc. whom never had children and who’s partner has passed on and they are alone. Many regret not having kids because they have no one else to comfort them. Even those who have extended families, aren’t always involved or maintain close bonds. While working with people, it is a topic of conversation that always follows the line of “ I didn’t think about it until it was too late, and I got too old”. On the other hand, many others don’t regret it regardless of their situation in old age.
Even though my husband and I are undecided, we both do have those involuntary thoughts that we need to have children. For me it’s not social pressure, it’s literally our brains telling us to do what we are built for. Despite the fact that we have the choice, It is a deep seeded human behavior maintained over hundreds of thousands of years to come to terms our own mortality and self preservation by having children. It’s isn’t something we think about until we need help and there is no help to be given. It can sometimes be an internal battle with ourselves when the thought of kids comes up in our minds even when we are sure we don’t want them.
When I was in college back in 2012/2013 I found your channel. At the time I was a mess, I had no style, no social skills and no confidence. I watched every video you made and my life started to turn around. It took years but eventually I got to the point where friends would come to me for fashion advice... I ended up getting a great job, met some girls, got a gf, and got into better shape.
A big part of that transformation is thanks to you and your channel. You taught me stuff that my dad would never have been able to teach me. So for that I am grateful.
Long story short: you're our dad... and a damn good one.
You don’t imagine how much a relief it is to hear that someone else is thinking like me
There I guess are many like Alpha you and me, and In the coming years 10-20-100, more and more will start dooing this.
@@mgeorge.4257 i surely hope so
I love how your wife does the hesitant almost annoyed a little "I love you".. My girlfriend does the exact same thing when she knows its being recorded for a video hahaha
You're not being selfish. It's knowing yourselves well and making decisions based on that. 100% agree with you!
I clicked the video like "What's up!? I'm ready to cry and get in my feelings! Lets do this"
There’s nothing wrong with not having kids. Some people just want to be together alone.
until they get mature enough and realise what a big mistake they ve made. for some it comes later in life when its too late
Married at 18, been married for over 12 year's, have 2 kids. Best decision to get married young instead of dating around. Alhamdulillah
At 18 I was still barely out of my playing minecraft phase. I'd say it's way too young for a lot of people.
@LaMelo Ball Funniest comment ever AHAHAHA
@LaMelo Ball Is that the new pick up line?
@LaMelo Ball I think we all know you might be a closet gay. Stop calling other's gay if you know deep inside you're interested in men 😂
@@tamimkhan9093 you do look hella gay tho
As many others have said, if ever there is a day where you feel like "maybe we should've had kids" ..... Remember you'll always have us! Your fans, your students, your "kids", and most importantly your Ohana. For you BOTH are apart of each and every one of our lives and our family. THANK YOU for all you and Mrs. Alpha do for us!
I totally agree. This video was recommended for no apparent reason but subbed right away. My husband and i had our daughter after 2 years of marriage. 6 years later people still keep asking why we only have one. At the back of my mind i was screaming it’s my body, my choice. Having children is expensive if u want a better life quality. F*ck those people telling you what to do. I on the other hand would definitely tell them to just be thankful i have one. Im happy with just one kid. It’s your choice as long as you both wanted it.
Alpha I have so much to say to you but I'll try and keep it as short as possible. For 10 years now I've been watching you videos to help myself, I had a bad depression and social anxiety and your videos helped me to at least TRY and go out, talk to people, dress out of my comfort zone and work on myself. I started working out, got an amazing physique and became a manwhore hoping this would fix everything. Guess what, it did NOT! 10 years ago I was addicted to games like World of Warcraft and Counter-Strike which I replaced with working out but then drugs and alcohol took over and made my life turn from already bad to horrific. I got in debt, got a DUI, screwed up my relationship and eventually became homeless. In March 2019 I went to a rehab across the world in South-Africa. This were the hardest 2 months of my life, but also the most rewarding. I learned so much. Sadly I relapsed because I was just focused on staying clean and did not do something about my underlying issues I've been struggling with my entire life. Thanks to therapy and your videos I got out there and I stepped into action. I got out of my comfort zone, I interacted with people, I picked my passions back up, I worked in becoming a better human being for the entirety of 2020 and I still am. I am now sober for 11 months and 12 days, I am back together with my ex and it has been great, after more then 130 job applications I am starting a great new opportunity the first of March and your videos contributed to this. You keep reminding me to keep working on changing for the better! From the bottom of my heart I want to thank you so freaking much!
To anyone who is struggling with something, go talk to someone, your girlfriend/boyfriend, your parents, a friend, someone online in a chatroom, a professional! Accept help, be aware that you don't act like you are the victim and step in to action. You're all worth it!
Much love,
Roël
I'm second. Feels good! I am sorry for the situation you are in, but you have been doing something amazing with your life. Keep it up!!
She has such a beautiful voice!
I don’t know if you read these but for a long time growing up, I didn’t really have a dad. You became the dad I never had and I’d be so excited for the new uploads. Thanks, Alpha.
I basically raised my siblings- as far as I'm concerned my boys are turning 21 in may.
We appreciate you guys talking about it. Most people go through this in their adult life.
2:25 Lol why do I feel like his wife is the only one who doesn't want kids 😁
Cause you have WISDOM!
Just because someone says something, doesn’t mean they mean it. My ex wife didn’t want kids, and I put up with her decision for years because I loved her! We got divorced 9 years ago. After that, I met a “hottie” married again and now I have two wonderful little girls. I absolutely LOVE being a father!!!! Who gives a shit about the expense, your NOT going to take it with you to the grave!!!!
Feel the same
@@robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939 will said brother
@@robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939 ❤️
@@peregrino9154
PROFOUND Wisdom!!
Thank you Alpha for just being an honest, good person. I’ve been watching you since I was a young teen, and you have been an incredible role model for me. Big respect brother!
I worry I’ll regret not having kids in the future for my legacy or having someone take care of me when I’m old
There’s other ways of preserving your legacy
@@smile_jpg6673 only if you are ultra rich that can donate buildings, monuments, have yourself ingrained in history.
for everyone else it's just they don't want to see their family line dead.
Those are selfish reasons for creating another human being!
This ain't a song for the broken-hearted
No silent prayer for faith-departed
And I ain't gonna be just a face in the crowd
You're gonna hear my voice when I shout it out loud
It's my life
It's now or never
But I ain't gonna live forever
I just want to live while I'm alive
(It's my life)
My heart is like an open highway
Like Frankie said, "I did it my way"
I just want to live while I'm alive
It's my life
Yeah, this is for the ones who stood their ground
For Tommy and Gina, who never backed down
Tomorrow's getting harder, make no mistake
Luck ain't even lucky, got to make your own breaks
It's my life
And it's now or never
I ain't gonna live forever
I just want to live while I'm alive
(It's my life)
My heart is like an open highway
Like Frankie said, "I did it my way"
I just want to live while I'm alive
'Cause it's my life
Better stand tall when they're calling you out
Don't bend, don't break, baby, don't back down
It's my life
And it's now or never
'Cause I ain't gonna live forever
I just want to live while I'm alive
(It's my life)
My heart is like an open highway
Like Frankie said, "I did it my way"
I just want to live while I'm alive
And it's now or never
I ain't gonna live forever
I just want to live while I'm alive
(It's my life)
My heart is like an open highway
Like Frankie said, "I did it my way"
I just want to live while I'm alive
'Cause it's my life
Bon Jovi-
If you're an only child..... You better have children!!! You are your parents' only hope for a lineage. If you're a male child, thats even more so important. Your grandparents were thrilled to have a third generation born and now you're parents want the same thrill. Don't deny them that. Some would say.
Alpha is dating a dude, we knew it all along...
He has a long distance relationship with Jose, who also was gay all along and cheating on his wife
no way man, i was actually thinking about this in class today because i remember alpha saying that he's married for 16 years, how come he doesn't have legendary kids yet?
I’ve had 6 kids they are my world now I have just about 8 grandkids but hey that’s your choice.. you might regret it someday because grandkids are amazing .. in you later years it might get lonely..
Exactly. Societal stigma is not worth shit. Its your life. You only live Once!! You are the best
I have made a lot of mistakes because of a lack on introspection and guiding role models. You've helped me in many ways, Aaron. Some decisions have been so scary but I have to do me and not drag others along as I figure myself out.