No matter how many times I hear this story I feel the grief. This was so impactful I pray the listeners take heed. I am praying for the Simmons family. 😢
As a recovering alcoholic, this whole thing struck me in the heart. I've never driven drunk, and I never will. But any time I look at a bottle now, I see these kids and this whole family and it scares me to death. I'm so sorry this happened. During my recovery, there have been stories and "this can happen" stuff, but this is the one that really hit me.
The truth .if you ever want to find recovery it starts with being accountable for your behavior in active addiction. Not for a moment do I believe that any alcoholic can say they never drive drunk. My family didn't lose 3 children but we lost my dad . He was walking off the highway because he was drinking and wouldn't drive drunk . When a monster who was wasted ran him over and dragged him 100 yards before stopping. He went through 3 surgeries multiple blood transfusions and 8 weeks of coma fighting to survive before God taking him home . He was murdered and we still suffer as a family 33 years later . Because a drunk wanted to drive . Justice was not served. One day God will see to that as well.
Yes, just because you're addicted doesn't mean you're stupid, right? That's a good attitude. We are human and we ALL make mistakes, but we simply cannot make these mistakes because we can harm others. I wish you all the best :)
As a truck driver, I unfortunately see this way too often. Especially having a route between Arizona & New Mexico. I've seen a lot of things I'll never be able to forget. What you are doing, speaking to young people about the devastating consequences of driving drunk/impaired is much needed. I'm sorry for your loss. I truly am. God Bless you, & I hope you can find the peace & Joy in Christ that we all so desperately crave. 😞
@arc-burqueno no way!! That's absolutely a joke!! That infuriates me to read and I'm not from there, I'm from Massachusetts... I've lost 3 friends to drunk drivers. How can that state feel good with giving no punishment due drinking and driving UNTIL they get 10 or even worse, hurt and kill innocent people doing the right thing in life.
I live in Arizona and I don’t doubt this at all. Tucson usually does DUI checkpoints on the eve and the day of major holidays but in my opinion they need to do them more often. It’s insane that people still drink and drive! After all the campaigns that have been done and people dying left and right and now with Ubers and Lyfts?? Absolutely no excuse. None!
My step daughter came to live with us after she was in an accident. Her mother was driving drunk with her and her older sister (7 y/I and 4 y/o) as passengers. Her older sister was killed instantly. My daughter miraculously survived. I cannot exaggerate how much this changed my daughter's life. I'm so glad you are out spreading awareness. Even if you only reach 1 person, that is a life saved.
My fiancé battle buddy from the Army lost her 4 year old son. It was during a weekend visit with his "father," and his "father" chose to drink and drive with him in the car. The sentencing guidelines are ridiculously disrespectful and disregard the victims and the loved ones of the victims MURDERED. It's murder and how DUI's deaths aren't viewed as such is an injustice. When a person makes the choice to drive under the influence they're in control of a deadly steel and metal weapon that weights tons. How is that not the same as pulling the trigger of a firearm into a crowd of unsuspecting victims. I'm sorry for the trauma your daughter has and will experience and prayers for your family ❤
I absolutely agree. Her "mother" only ended up doing 4 1/2 yrs for aggravated vehicular homicide. Although, she thought she should not do any time because losing a daughter was punishment enough even thought it was her fault. Sadly when she got out of prison she won visitation rights. The first weekend my daughter was with her, she got drunk. My daughter called us to come get her and my daughter has no seen her since. Now I am the only mother in her life. I thank God everyday for MY daughter.
I watch every video of Ms Dawn telling the story of her babies and that horrific night. She is impactful and courageous when she talks about that night and about her children. Her purpose is clear. ❤🙏🏻.
I saw a RUclips short and at first thought that the kids had lost their momma.. then looking into it and reading the hashtags I quickly realized what actually happened.. how horrific. I then looked up more shorts and saw this video on the list. I couldn’t stop watching .. as a mother my mind can barely comprehend what she could have felt. I’m so thankful she had other kids and they were there to lean on. I’m so proud of her for being brave enough to share their story. It happens every day.
There is nothing wrong with that. Everytime i see some post about this tragedy i'm crying. That's normal. Wich is not normal is driving drunk. Even one drink its clouding your judgement. I can't imagine the void this mother must feel....😪....
Condolences 💔. To these teens I want to tell my story: 28yrs ago my 13yr old niece Crystal was killed by a drunk driver. Her death is still a empty place for our family and always will be. It saddens me that this is still happening😢. In this educated day, where Ubers and sober rides are available in the smallest towns. NEVER think it cannot happen to you and your family. 💔💔💔
I am so incredibly grief stricken. I don’t even know any of you. I’ve suffered loss from drunk drivers. Terrible, hard. But, this……I am incredibly touched by your family’s love, strength and continuing love and closeness to God on your pathway. I pray for you all.
I was born on December 17th I will light three candles on my birthday for your kiddos every year from now on ❤ much love to you and your family for using your personal tragedy to help educate and prevent things like this from happening
December 17th is my daughter Abby’s birthday too!! She is almost 21!! I showed her this. She said she don’t ever want a drink. And she said she is with you. She will light 3 candles for them also ❤
C1-7 are the vertebrae at the top of your spine so basically the whiplash was so bad she strained the top of her neck threw discs out of place at the bottom of her neck. 29:58 What a miracle how she’s healed especially after that femur fracture. I saw a video before she was pitching for softball just a couple months after the accident. To go through all of that at such a young age, the mental & emotional anguish.. my heart goes out to her. Thank you both for speaking out through your pain in hopes of helping others. You are heard and appreciated
Marissa seems to be a remarkable young woman; she gave an amazing eulogy for Christopher at the funeral. To go through what she did as a 16-year-old girl was so heart wrenching - she was truly in love with Christopher. One of the surviving siblings once mentioned that it will be hard for Marissa should she ever find someone and have feelings for him, she'll have to deal with the guilt of seeing someone else. Such a burden for a young person.
This exact same story has happened twice in my town! Two girls were leaving a basketball game and were hit head on and killed instantly! Then a few years ago an entire family was killed by a drunk driver when they were coming home from football playoffs! As a mother that travels everywhere with my 17 year old athlete….I will say a prayer before we drive home every time now! Dawn…you’re making a difference in the World!
You're saving lives. This has made such an impact on me personally that I'll never get behind the wheel after drinking. You might have saved my life or someone else's, so, thank you
She’s important and advocating for people and children coming up. The responsibility of driving is beyond most people’s ability to understand. It’s not a joke.
Cannot control the tears. Mama Dawn, nobody has ever spoken to me in the way that you have. Keep speaking from your heart because it is so incredibly beautiful! What you are doing for your babies is incredible and it’s changing the world! There are no words. My heart is always with you ❤
I’m sitting here holding my 2 month old baby and I feel so deeply for the mother. I couldn’t imagine something so precious being ripped from you. I’ll hold my baby a little closer tonight. God please wrap his arms around your family , bring you healing and light ❤
I have three kids coming up on getting their permits. I too have a “litter” kids, 3 in 3 years. It’s unimaginable. All three will watch this before we go to the DMV. Much love to your family. You are making a difference.
I don't drink, let alone drink and drive and this woman is absolutely amazing and will make people think twice about being distracted, while driving. I can't imagine losing my two children. My heart and prayers go out to this amazing mama and the family and friends.
We have five daughters between us, and seven grandsons (from age 10 yrs down to 3 mos.). I am drawn to your story as a mother, grandmother, and woman. I am so heartily sorrowful for your loss, and so amazingly inspired by your strength, and the strength of your family. You may have whatever strength, love, or prayer I may impart on you to continue in your mission to educate
Just found out about this accident today on YT. There are no words just tears.. God bless you all. Every single middle & high school should show this video.....
I’ve listened to Katie tell the story, and I watched some of their celebration of life tributes. My heart hurts for your whole family. As a mother, you are living our biggest fear, and I’m so impressed by your strength. I can’t imagine what you’re going through. Their story - your story - is so important. You’re all in my heart. I won’t forget. ❤🙏
As a mum of 5 I can’t imagine how you deal with the pain of losing a child and you had to do it 3 times over 😢I really find your strength amazing to be able to tell your story and your making your 3 angels 🪽🪽🪽 proud from the bottom of my heart I wish your whole Family love and peace ❤
Your story breaks my soul. I cannot imagine your pain. You and your husband are good people. Getting out and getting people educated on drunk driving. I’m so so sorry this happened. Your strength is mind blowing. You and your husband are strong people. ❤May your beautiful children rest in peace.
She didn't lose all her siblings. She tragically lost 3. Please don't forget, overlook or ignore the remaining children while you take on the important work of warning about drunk driving. My sister was killed by a drunk driver and my mother dedicated a decade to warning about drunk driving. It was difficult to hear daily about how great my sister was and watch my mom fail to remain engaged in her children who were still living. I was the rotten apple in the family and really needed my mom to be a mother to me. So the drunk driver took a lot away from us, not just my sister, Janet.
Wow reading your statement really get home As a mother who has lost a child in a car accident it's a whole nother world We certainly don't mean to forget about the other siblings But what can you do to help them when you do not know how to help yourself? But we are so wrapped up in our grief that we don't know what we're doing except trying to survive
I'm so sorry you had to endure that. As a mother who lost her youngest at 16 this hurts so much. My daughter lost her baby brother, but she also lost who I was. I'm a shell of a human compared to who I used to be. I do put on a smile and engage with my daughter and grandchildren and I love all of them more than life, but i will never truly feel raw happiness again. It's fake smiles and pretending that you don't want to just crawl in the casket with your deceased child and go with them. My daughter is a little more understanding because she does have children and can put herself in my shoes. She knows that if she lost one of her babies it would do everything but take her life and for some it even does that. I hope you can heal and give your mother some grace. She loves you more than you'll ever know and doesn't want to be who she became after you lost your sibling, it's just the cards she was dealt. I'm very sorry for your loss and how hard it's been for you.
I have said this so many times under other, similar circumstances. Don't forget about your other babies. They're just as precious as the one you lost. I've been a voice for you even though I do not know you. ❤
When she said we were all living in the dash, I felt that was so powerful. I know how I felt when I came close to losing both my children at different points in their life, I cannot even begin to comprehend what the Simmons family went through.
It’s also so important to remember that you can be as prepared as possible to drive, but you are never in control of the people around you in other vehicles, which is why you have to stay completely vigilant and driving a car while under the influence does not allow you to do that. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. It breaks my heart every time I hear it, but I watch your strength growing every time you talk about what happened and the conviction in your voice to save someone else from the grief that you are experiencing. You’re the epitome of a strong mom by advocating for your children even when they are not able to do so for themselves. All my love and condolences and prayers to you and your family.
I thank you for bringing up your daughters best friend to share her story as well. I lost my older sibling and my best friend and I can’t even talk about it to this day.
Dawn, you are an incredible person. Your ability to share your story hoping to reach others on the importance of making smart decisions when getting behind the wheel is remarkable. You shine as a mother and I’m sure all of your children are a reflection of your love and strength. Your loss is heartbreaking. I believe you will see your 3 lovely teens again once your job here is complete. Hold on to your faith, there are more angels watching over you now. ❤❤❤
Just heart wrenching. Those injuries Mom had should have ended her life. The two torn carotid arteries alone. She’s found meaning from this tragedy. Bless her and her family ❤
Beautiful lives ripped away far FAR too soon. I truly cannot imagine the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual pain that comes from a loss like that. Bless you and your family for taking a broken and terrible situation and using it to build something positive. They are with you forever.
Dawn, Katie, & Marissa, I have seen several of your videos, & have been following your tragic yet beautiful story of your family for only a short while,but hearing you & your family speak about those beautiful babies is so powerful & I feel & believe no matter how short of time your babies were here on this Earth, they have definitely already left a huge beautiful mark on this place, in sooooo many many ways, & in many other hearts & minds. God has truly blessed you all with incredible strength, courage & Faith. I love that you share your faith, trust & praises in God. Your story has & will continue to touch & change so so many lives for years to come. Even for those who do not drive drunk/intoxicated or irresponsibly, your words encouraging all to get to know & have a relationship with God is also an extremely important message that MANY MANY need to hear/realize. That in & of itself has the power to save in an even greater way for as you say, none of us are guaranteed the next 10 mins, let alone tomorrow but we all can be guaranteed a beautiful place to meet up again. You will all hold those precious Angels again & they will be even more beautiful than you all remember.Your strong faith, incredible strength & courage to be able to go on living, loving & sharing your beautiful Family & story with the rest of the World is a true testament to God's love & how he works in the lives & walks daily with those who believe & have faith every single step of the way. As you mentioned, the "why's" are not always known, at least not for now, but I do believe & have failth that it will all make sense one day. May God continue to bless you & your family in every way. 🙏 🙏🙏💕💕🩵
When I was 9 I taped over my mum’s Elvis cassette with my sister and we were singing and just doing normal kids things all recorded… a few weeks later my sister was killed in a car accident… fast forward nearly 40 years and that cassette is our whole families most prized possession….
I’ve been watching this with my 6 and 9 year old daughters. In my opinion, it’s never too early for them to start hearing and learning about how important the decisions they make are. I’m from Lake Charles and only heard about your story here on RUclips. When I watched Katie’s video about telling you about the kids I cried my eyes out. I can’t imagine what you guys have been though and my heart hurts for you. The strength you have is inspiring. Thank you for telling your story.
I don’t drink and drive but since learning about this I don’t even drink anymore !! Anyways, What a fierce Mamma !! I sure hope the Lord comes back soon so this family can be reunited. All of us. And I can’t wait to meet them ! Until then I pray that pain lessens. And so proud of the courage it takes to do what your doing !! Much love and respect !!! From a fellow usps employee !
I'm speechless, can't even imagine what a loss like that can mean to a parent and to the whole family. Mrs. Simmons is such a strong mother, God bless and may your work help save many lives.
I just found your channel today and my heart is just destroyed by this tragedy. I really admire your strength and courage to relive that terrible day in order to prevent new tragedies from happening. Your message touched me deeply and your family will always be in my prayers. You guys deserve the best. With love, from Brazil.
Thank you for sharing your babies with us, Miss Dawn & Mr Ray. It is a true pleasure to hear how much of a light they were in your lives and the light they are in our’s now. I can’t imagine your feelings; please know y’all are in my prayers.
I only just found your channel today, I been riveted, such a senseless tragedy and I’m glad you folks are doing well and trying to make a difference and do something positive out of such a negative situation. My heart really goes out to you folks, thankyou for sharing your story. I will mention Kamryn, Christopher, and Lindy in my prayers tonight, and I will include Ray also because this situation is enough to break a man, I really hope he is doing good…
I remember hearing the horrible news here in Tennessee. Never have I felt so compelled to send someone a card, but I sent 1 to your daughter, you were still in the hospital I'm sorry i had no $ to donate. I have 3 sons one who is named Kamryn Michael I cried for your family your kids My heart breaks for you momma I know your babies are in heaven playing and having a fantastic time up there with my brother God bless you all No mother should ever have to bury their children. You ALL are in my prayers love Brandye from Johnson city Tennessee
Im a 66 yo Grandmother of 8 and Mother of 2, and this is one of the most impacting, moving, life changing testimonies I have ever witnessed. First of all I must give you, Dawn and your husband, and Family my sincere and deeply felt sympathy. I cannot imagine the horror. Second I want to thank you Dawn, for sharing yiur heart's story and your amazing mission to save others. Its so loving, kind, caring, and considerate to everyone. If you save one life it will be worth it. I think there will be many saved, and changed for the better, because of you. I want to thank Katie(sp?) for stepping up and with a heart of complete compassion, dedication and love for each family member. She showed the strength of steel in her actions after the accident. Saving both her Parents as much pain as possible shows her heart of pure gold. She is an angel on Earth. I am so impressed by all your children. As parents you have done an exceptional job. I would have been honored to know any of the Simmons Children and you both, as parents. Im glad I watched this. It has given me so much to think about. I hope you continue witnessing to young people, and parents too, for many years to come. I believe you are making an impact on them. I know you have on me. I believe that must have been so hard to describe and talk about, your beautiful babies, but its very impressive and heart touching. It makes them live again and makes them real to your audience. It makes your message personal. These arent three faceless young people. This is Lindy, Chris, and Cameron. They now live in my mind and heart too. Thank you for sharing your babies with me. Please take comfort that its not in vain. Keep telling your heart's story and changing lives. May GOD bless you greatly. And, thank you to the two girls who spoke their stories too. That was so brave of you. Give your husband and Katie a hug from this Grandma. You are in my prayers Dawn.💞🌹🕊🌹🕊🌹🕊 A Colorado Mountain Grandma USA 💜✌️🌍🌎🌏
I think the reason why is because she was in the middle, i think what shocks me the most is that chris died, since he was the furthest part of the impact, my guess is he ruptured something and he had a brain bleed probably from his head hitting the back or front of the seat. apparently he was heading to the hospital that his mom was at, but he coded so they had to get him to the closest hospital, my guess is he was in hypovolemic shock due to a intracranial hemorage, the middle doest have a front she could have hit her head on
No it isnt. The middel seat in a car given it has a three point belt is the safest place in case of a crash because you have the most Material around yoi
Man I can’t even imagine the pain you guys have gone through and still go through to this day, and beyond. I am so so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story with us all. Much love from New Zealand
Amazing delivery. I hope everyone sees this. New drivers, experienced drivers. It can happen to any of us and we must be ready and intentional. Thank you for sharing your life’s tragedy with us. So sad. 😭🙏🏾🙌🏾
I think of Lindy, kamryn, Christopher every day. Not a day goes by I don’t watch Katie’s videos and bawl over such lovely treasured souls and their family and friends. I recently experienced a car accident and have been off work because of it, and I cannot imagine the impact this holds on the hearts of those who loved them 😭💜
I’m so very sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine the pain and suffering. As a young child, I learned that driving is a privilege and is a great responsibility. My class lost several kids from reckless drivers. My husband and parents were sideswiped by a guy going well over 100mph. They were spared. God was definitely there. The driver was already headed for the ditch and slammed into a concrete barrier and flipped three times. My dad is an anesthetist and rendered aide to the driver. He lived. We learned the driver passed several cars at that speed and passed a family on the right shoulder before hitting my family. In an instance, I could have lost my entire family.
Although it’s sad to hear, I like hearing peoples drunk driving stories. It really puts you in their shoes. There was one guy who came to my school, I believe his name was Shawn. But he was in a drunk driving accident. His buddy was driving and hit a tree. The car wrapped around the tree. 2 of his friends passed away from the crash. He was the only one to survive. He had a serious head injury. He’s now wheelchair bound and can only talk with an iPad. These stories definitely make me think twice.
I love how you talk about your faith and how it has given you the courage and strength to move forward. What a beautiful, loving family you all are. As someone said, you can see it in your kids.
I just recently stumbled across your channel and I have no words for what your family has been put through. I have an 8-year-old daughter and car accidents, especially ones that are preventable by making the right choices, are one of my biggest fears every time I put her in the car. I’m so sorry this happened to your beautiful family. I will forever keep the Simmons family in my prayers. Thank you for sharing the most vulnerable aspects of your life with us. Sharing the story of your family’s tragedy saves more lives than you could possibly imagine. That’s my hope and my prayer for your tragic loss. I lost a close friend to a car accident when we were 16 and I’m 47 now and not a day goes by that I don’t think about him and wonder what he could have done with his life and where his life would have taken him. He was a friend, I can’t imagine losing 3 family members to such an easily preventable accident because of the poor choices of one irresponsible individual. Holding you and all of the Simmons family close in my heart today and always. 💕
Hi Dawn and family. I heard the song, "Dancing In Heaven" today and thought of you and your family. Thank you for what you are doing showing awareness of drinking and driving. But thank you and your family for showing us intimate clips of you and your family that is teaching me, small ways, of how to love and talk to others, to let them know and show others, that love and appreciation in subtle ways. Love, hugs and prayers from Oregon to you! God Bless! ❤
Nothing has ever gotten into my head as much as this has. I'm so sorry for all you've suffered, you and your family and I admire your strength and courage. You will see your children again.
Half way through watching this I wanted to turn it off. It is too heartbreaking. But then i realised if you have the courage to tell the story, the rest of us owe it to you to find the courage to listen to it. Before i was born, my step dad lost his 12 year old little sister when their car was hit by a drunk driver. By the time we were old enough to drive, we had spent most of our young lives seeing and hearing how that impacted their family. We were well aware of our responsibility to be aware and safe drivers. What you're doing in bravely telling your story WILL save lives. You have my utmost respect and my truly hearfelt condolences. You and your family are forever in my thoughts ❤
She is extremely strong 😢 I lost my oldest son to a car accident by a reckless truck driver Oct 9th 2021. And I'm nowhere to be this strong.. She is an amazing woman.
You are strong. You atleast keep going and keep trying. You don’t even have to be strong. Who said it’s required to be after something like that? I hope that you find comfort in knowing that we’re all spiritual beings. Energy can’t go away, he’s there. Live for him, with a smile. Know that at the end, he’s waiting for you! Proud of you momma 🫶🏻
My heart goes out to this mother...I just can't imagine. And she just said, "can you imagine"?! No mama, I can't. I send you and your family healing prayers and a ton of hugs.
My heart truly breaks for your family, it’s absolutely devastating and I can not imagine the grief you all experience. The strength this woman has standing there telling the most devastating story or your lives , educating to save lives is incredible. I have so much respect . My love . Thoughts and prayers to you all ❤️
I noticed and love how even months into giving these presentations you still take the same amount of time to highlight each of their character in the beginning. Keeping their positives going is so important. Here for you
As a parent this is awful , but I’m also glad you have 6 other grown children . I didn’t know the family was this large , not that it changed the pain or grief . I just hope though all the grief all the others still feel your love .
I have watched a lot of your videos for the past 3 days and I tear up every time I love how you let us get to know them as much as possible! I’m so sorry you had to go through that and have to live without them but you have such strength. I am so glad you let others know not to drink and drive and what the outcomes can be. Praying for you and your family always!
“We are all living in the - “ Damn. Shows just how short life really is. I hope people really learn from this, its going to a long road for this family, including Marissa.
My heart hurts so much for you and your family. I cant even imagine the pain you are going through. Your strength is beautiful, your faith is beautiful. To be able to tell your story this soon to help keep others safe, to me, is nothing short of amazing. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers...... You never know what tomorrow holds.....LOVE alittle deeper, FORGIVE alittle faster, HUG alittle harder, and SMILE alot longer
Your voice reaches people. Your voice is honest, real, sympathetic, full of love for your family and the people who hear this. Never ever underestimate the amount of people who will NOT drink and drive because they heard heard your speech! Hopefully many people will find ways to find joy without alcohol anyway! May GOD bless you and continue to give you his strength in this message.
i Found this channel not even 20 minutes ago. I watched all the shorts and then on this video. I have been crying for the past 7 or 8 minutes. This story is the most devastating story’s I’ve ever heard. I pray for this family day on. Thank you for sharing your story❤️
Thank you for sharing this with us here on social media and the children and drivers of the future. Knowing your family and their story is saving so many other children and families ❤
I am so sorry that this has happened to you and your family....I would like to personally thank you for choosing to speak about this to the community that has made bad decisions. It's speaking openly like this turned my then 19 year old daughter that bad choices don't always affect her...she is now 31. It's sometimes tragic events can help save so many others. 🥰
I appreciate your courage to speak to others and give this sober, impactful warning. As a mom and grandmother, my heart hurts for you and your family ♥️ Thank you for sharing your story with us.
This broke my damn heart cause I have lost someone I love to a drunk driver. I made sure to show my children your story Thank you ❤so sorry for your loss.
The pain of losing your best friend. 🥺🥺🥺 lost mine to a car accident on 8-4-2001! I’m still not okay! Feels like I’m stuck at 17 years old. Gentle hugs to all of you. 🌻🙏
God bless you mama… you are so brave to stand and educate these kids about drinking and driving. You are truly amazing and I pray that you and your family continue to gain strength to get thru this tragedy.
I cannot imagine your incredible loss. You are truly making a difference and I am proof of that. When I was in highschool, I remember parents and loved ones like you coming to my school and telling us their devastating stories of loss due to drunk driving....bc of those stories I made a vow to never ever drink and drive, and I never did. I'm 35 now and don't drink now but I am so thankful for the education I received from Wonderful people like you which led me to think twice when I was intoxicated and never getting behind a wheel
I first learned about this Mother's heartache when they showed her cleaning the headstones and grave sites. Then I saw Katie telling us the complete horror to this video and the most amazing thing I see is this family honoring these beautiful children by sharing their story to hopefully stop this from happening to another Mother and Father. I thank you them for their courage to try to discourage people from drinking and driving.. May GOD continue to give your family strength and may HE BLESS you always.
How do you even begin to comment on this. This is the bravest person I think I have ever seen. The way she fights through her deep grief to get the message across to other people is heroic beyond belief. It is a privilege to see her give this presentation. The two youngsters, Hannah and Melissa were so level headed, articulate and intelligent are breathtaking. Dawn will save many lives I am sure with this programme. If I had one ounce of her strength I would be very proud indeed. By far the most inspiring thing I have seen on social media. I am sure that her three children are looking proudly down from heaven saying. 'Yep that's our Mum'.❤❤❤
This is so important that these things be shared and talked about ALL THE TIME! Thank you for opening up your healing hearts and making the risks and outcomes of selfish decisions like this be known, and offering a learning lesson 🤍🤍🤍
😮 I can not imagine. 🥺 Once in my life I had a pain so deep and wide that I was down on my knees holding my sides because it felt and sounded like my soul was screaming. 😢 That lasted a short time compared with the daily pain I witness your family in for life. 😢 This is truly a life sentence. 😭 I wish I had whatever magic words or actions that would help relieve the pain and grief, but I don't know what that would be because I am nearly immobilized by my own reaction to the pain. 😭😞😭🥺😭🙏🫂😭 I wrote this in reaction to the first video I saw about the crash and seeing your mom tiddy the tombstones. Then I went looking for other information or videos. Katie I am so glad you created your RUclips channel. I was in tears watching you relive telling your mom they were all gone and your dad sitting by crosses along side of the road. Then I saw parts of one of the sudden impact team presentation videos. I am so grateful for them. Maybe this will help with the pain and grief your family is experiencing.🫂🙏😞
Head on collisions scare the hell out of me, it’s hard for my brain to understand how in the world they happen but I know they do and when they do they are devastating
I am so sorry for this family's loss and the pain that came with it. Bad things should not happen to good people but sadly it does all to often. For this mother to take her grief and try to make a difference is remarkable, such a selfless thing to do, she is obviously an amazing person and mother and again I'm so sorry for yall's loss.
Dawn has done an amazing job as a public speaker and advocate for her children and other children to take driving seriously. I couldn’t have done such an impressive job with the heartbreaking weight she has on her. She is a strong person for sure. I first saw her daughter Katie tell her story and she is just like her Mom. They both may not know it now but they have saved lives.
I’m just sobbing I don’t know how the moms doing this she’s so strong idk what I would do it’s easy to say I wouldn’t be able to maybe I would idk she’s an amazing woman going out talking to kids trying to make sure they get home safe when her babies didn’t it’s just amazing what she’s doing I pray for her and her family I know God has her 3 babies in his loving arms the way you talk about them is just precious you are their VOICE.
Miss Dawn, my heart goes out to your family. I cannot fathom how I would deal with this devastating news. You are the strongest woman I know!❤ People please don't drink and drive. Don't do anything that would risk your life or anyone else's!
9:01 they were here, 9:02 they were gone. I will forever remember this simple sentence. Every single high school 16 year old student should be required to view this.
Your mum is one strong, resilient, stunningly brave woman. I can not imagine the strength it must take to get up and live each day with such a shattered heart and heavy weight of loss.
This was beautifully done and put together. Such an amazing presentation of their amazing lives, thank you Mama Bear for sharing yours and their stories. I feel grateful to have even witnessed this.
I just wish them nothing but happiness, blessings, and healing forever. That whole family. This is heartbreaking. So glad you have so many recordings of them to keep their memories alive! I hope yall find comfort in spreading awareness youre truely doing Gods work on earth! 💕
I lost my best friend in 96 and no. It doesn’t get any easier. She was my best friend and even more like a sister. Rip sweet kiddos. This is so sad. And I am so sorry for your family’s loss.
What a tradegy. I can't even imagine the pain and despair everyone in the Simmons Family has experienced. As a Mother of just one I really can't comprehend what Dawn has endured. Bless her other children for remaining strong amidst their own suffering. I hope each and every person that heard about or have seen this video to remember it ALWAYS. Be the One that makes the the right choice. Be the One that takes the keys away from a friend that's drunk. Be the One to see another day. My continued prayers to The Simmons Family and Friends. Special Thanks to Dawn for sharing their story...🙏💖💖💖🙏
I just recently came about your channel. I watched this video a few nights ago and I haven't been able to get it out of my head. I can't imagine the extreme loss you have gone through and continue to go through. Lindy, Christopher and Kamryn were such beautiful children and I have no doubt that would have done great things in this world had that drunk driver not made the decision to drive that night but they are still making a difference through you.
No matter how many times I hear this story I feel the grief. This was so impactful I pray the listeners take heed. I am praying for the Simmons family. 😢
Same
My son was made quadriplegic 25 yrs ago by a drunk driver. No insurance
Agreed!!!
@@joemachundaI'm so sorry ❤
I broke down down.... Tell your family you love them every chance you get ❤
Your mother’s voice and message is one reason why she’s still alive-there’s a great work for her to do.
As a recovering alcoholic, this whole thing struck me in the heart. I've never driven drunk, and I never will. But any time I look at a bottle now, I see these kids and this whole family and it scares me to death. I'm so sorry this happened. During my recovery, there have been stories and "this can happen" stuff, but this is the one that really hit me.
me too
It's a "yet" for us sober alcoholics & we must live one day at a time
The truth .if you ever want to find recovery it starts with being accountable for your behavior in active addiction. Not for a moment do I believe that any alcoholic can say they never drive drunk. My family didn't lose 3 children but we lost my dad . He was walking off the highway because he was drinking and wouldn't drive drunk . When a monster who was wasted ran him over and dragged him 100 yards before stopping. He went through 3 surgeries multiple blood transfusions and 8 weeks of coma fighting to survive before God taking him home . He was murdered and we still suffer as a family 33 years later . Because a drunk wanted to drive . Justice was not served. One day God will see to that as well.
I agree. I feel it so deeply.
Yes, just because you're addicted doesn't mean you're stupid, right? That's a good attitude. We are human and we ALL make mistakes, but we simply cannot make these mistakes because we can harm others. I wish you all the best :)
As a truck driver, I unfortunately see this way too often. Especially having a route between Arizona & New Mexico. I've seen a lot of things I'll never be able to forget.
What you are doing, speaking to young people about the devastating consequences of driving drunk/impaired is much needed.
I'm sorry for your loss. I truly am.
God Bless you, & I hope you can find the peace & Joy in Christ that we all so desperately crave. 😞
I live in Albuquerque. The amount of drunk drivers here is so ridiculous. No justice here just a slap on the wrist if that.
@@nicolegarcia8514 Yeap. It takes 10 DUI's or more or someone dead for them to hand out a few years. Ridiculous
@arc-burqueno no way!! That's absolutely a joke!! That infuriates me to read and I'm not from there, I'm from Massachusetts... I've lost 3 friends to drunk drivers. How can that state feel good with giving no punishment due drinking and driving UNTIL they get 10 or even worse, hurt and kill innocent people doing the right thing in life.
I live in Arizona and I don’t doubt this at all. Tucson usually does DUI checkpoints on the eve and the day of major holidays but in my opinion they need to do them more often. It’s insane that people still drink and drive! After all the campaigns that have been done and people dying left and right and now with Ubers and Lyfts?? Absolutely no excuse. None!
Stay safe Mr. truck driver. This is a horror.
My step daughter came to live with us after she was in an accident. Her mother was driving drunk with her and her older sister (7 y/I and 4 y/o) as passengers. Her older sister was killed instantly. My daughter miraculously survived. I cannot exaggerate how much this changed my daughter's life. I'm so glad you are out spreading awareness. Even if you only reach 1 person, that is a life saved.
Omg. My heart. My son is 4. So young and so innocent.
Gosh, I'm so sorry I'm so happy your baby is okay she's already a superstar at only 4 years
My fiancé battle buddy from the Army lost her 4 year old son. It was during a weekend visit with his "father," and his "father" chose to drink and drive with him in the car. The sentencing guidelines are ridiculously disrespectful and disregard the victims and the loved ones of the victims MURDERED. It's murder and how DUI's deaths aren't viewed as such is an injustice. When a person makes the choice to drive under the influence they're in control of a deadly steel and metal weapon that weights tons. How is that not the same as pulling the trigger of a firearm into a crowd of unsuspecting victims. I'm sorry for the trauma your daughter has and will experience and prayers for your family ❤
I absolutely agree. Her "mother" only ended up doing 4 1/2 yrs for aggravated vehicular homicide. Although, she thought she should not do any time because losing a daughter was punishment enough even thought it was her fault. Sadly when she got out of prison she won visitation rights. The first weekend my daughter was with her, she got drunk. My daughter called us to come get her and my daughter has no seen her since. Now I am the only mother in her life. I thank God everyday for MY daughter.
Last year I lost a fellow friend from a drunk driver
I watch every video of Ms Dawn telling the story of her babies and that horrific night. She is impactful and courageous when she talks about that night and about her children. Her purpose is clear. ❤🙏🏻.
I know, me too❤
Beautiful souls
Ma’am, The way you advocate for your family is incredible, what a powerful example for us all to look up to. Your children will never be forgotten ❤
Amen
I saw a RUclips short and at first thought that the kids had lost their momma.. then looking into it and reading the hashtags I quickly realized what actually happened.. how horrific.
I then looked up more shorts and saw this video on the list. I couldn’t stop watching .. as a mother my mind can barely comprehend what she could have felt. I’m so thankful she had other kids and they were there to lean on.
I’m so proud of her for being brave enough to share their story. It happens every day.
I came across this family tonight and had the same realization. As a mother of 3 myself, I simply cannot imagine the pain...that poor mother💔
Oh, I'm bawling like a baby. Lord Jesus please comfort this family ❤️🙏
Amen
There is nothing wrong with that. Everytime i see some post about this tragedy i'm crying. That's normal. Wich is not normal is driving drunk. Even one drink its clouding your judgement. I can't imagine the void this mother must feel....😪....
Same 😢
Condolences 💔. To these teens I want to tell my story: 28yrs ago my 13yr old niece Crystal was killed by a drunk driver. Her death is still a empty place for our family and always will be. It saddens me that this is still happening😢. In this educated day, where Ubers and sober rides are available in the smallest towns. NEVER think it cannot happen to you and your family. 💔💔💔
Condolences 🙏
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I am so incredibly grief stricken. I don’t even know any of you. I’ve suffered loss from drunk drivers. Terrible, hard. But, this……I am incredibly touched by your family’s love, strength and continuing love and closeness to God on your pathway. I pray for you all.
I was born on December 17th I will light three candles on my birthday for your kiddos every year from now on ❤ much love to you and your family for using your personal tragedy to help educate and prevent things like this from happening
December 17th is my daughter Abby’s birthday too!! She is almost 21!! I showed her this. She said she don’t ever want a drink. And she said she is with you. She will light 3 candles for them also ❤
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C1-7 are the vertebrae at the top of your spine so basically the whiplash was so bad she strained the top of her neck threw discs out of place at the bottom of her neck. 29:58
What a miracle how she’s healed especially after that femur fracture. I saw a video before she was pitching for softball just a couple months after the accident. To go through all of that at such a young age, the mental & emotional anguish.. my heart goes out to her.
Thank you both for speaking out through your pain in hopes of helping others. You are heard and appreciated
Marissa seems to be a remarkable young woman; she gave an amazing eulogy for Christopher at the funeral. To go through what she did as a 16-year-old girl was so heart wrenching - she was truly in love with Christopher. One of the surviving siblings once mentioned that it will be hard for Marissa should she ever find someone and have feelings for him, she'll have to deal with the guilt of seeing someone else. Such a burden for a young person.
This exact same story has happened twice in my town! Two girls were leaving a basketball game and were hit head on and killed instantly! Then a few years ago an entire family was killed by a drunk driver when they were coming home from football playoffs! As a mother that travels everywhere with my 17 year old athlete….I will say a prayer before we drive home every time now! Dawn…you’re making a difference in the World!
prayers arent going to do shit, just be a good driver and be aware of your surroundings
You're saving lives. This has made such an impact on me personally that I'll never get behind the wheel after drinking. You might have saved my life or someone else's, so, thank you
She’s important and advocating for people and children coming up. The responsibility of driving is beyond most people’s ability to understand. It’s not a joke.
Cannot control the tears. Mama Dawn, nobody has ever spoken to me in the way that you have. Keep speaking from your heart because it is so incredibly beautiful! What you are doing for your babies is incredible and it’s changing the world! There are no words. My heart is always with you ❤
I’m sitting here holding my 2 month old baby and I feel so deeply for the mother. I couldn’t imagine something so precious being ripped from you. I’ll hold my baby a little closer tonight. God please wrap his arms around your family , bring you healing and light ❤
I have three kids coming up on getting their permits. I too have a “litter” kids, 3 in 3 years. It’s unimaginable. All three will watch this before we go to the DMV. Much love to your family. You are making a difference.
I don't drink, let alone drink and drive and this woman is absolutely amazing and will make people think twice about being distracted, while driving. I can't imagine losing my two children. My heart and prayers go out to this amazing mama and the family and friends.
We have five daughters between us, and seven grandsons (from age 10 yrs down to 3 mos.). I am drawn to your story as a mother, grandmother, and woman. I am so heartily sorrowful for your loss, and so amazingly inspired by your strength, and the strength of your family. You may have whatever strength, love, or prayer I may impart on you to continue in your mission to educate
Just found out about this accident today on YT. There are no words just tears.. God bless you all. Every single middle & high school should show this video.....
Same here, today..
I’m so happy you talk about this on a regular basis. While they’re gone physically, talking about them keeps their memory alive.
This family is helping more people through they're loss than most have suffered in a lifetime
I’ve listened to Katie tell the story, and I watched some of their celebration of life tributes. My heart hurts for your whole family. As a mother, you are living our biggest fear, and I’m so impressed by your strength. I can’t imagine what you’re going through. Their story - your story - is so important. You’re all in my heart. I won’t forget. ❤🙏
As a mum of 5 I can’t imagine how you deal with the pain of losing a child and you had to do it 3 times over 😢I really find your strength amazing to be able to tell your story and your making your 3 angels 🪽🪽🪽 proud from the bottom of my heart I wish your whole Family love and peace ❤
Your story breaks my soul. I cannot imagine your pain. You and your husband are good people. Getting out and getting people educated on drunk driving. I’m so so sorry this happened. Your strength is mind blowing. You and your husband are strong people. ❤May your beautiful children rest in peace.
She didn't lose all her siblings. She tragically lost 3. Please don't forget, overlook or ignore the remaining children while you take on the important work of warning about drunk driving. My sister was killed by a drunk driver and my mother dedicated a decade to warning about drunk driving. It was difficult to hear daily about how great my sister was and watch my mom fail to remain engaged in her children who were still living. I was the rotten apple in the family and really needed my mom to be a mother to me. So the drunk driver took a lot away from us, not just my sister, Janet.
Wow reading your statement really get home
As a mother who has lost a child in a car accident it's a whole nother world
We certainly don't mean to forget about the other siblings
But what can you do to help them when you do not know how to help yourself?
But we are so wrapped up in our grief that we don't know what we're doing except trying to survive
I'm so sorry you had to endure that. As a mother who lost her youngest at 16 this hurts so much. My daughter lost her baby brother, but she also lost who I was. I'm a shell of a human compared to who I used to be. I do put on a smile and engage with my daughter and grandchildren and I love all of them more than life, but i will never truly feel raw happiness again. It's fake smiles and pretending that you don't want to just crawl in the casket with your deceased child and go with them. My daughter is a little more understanding because she does have children and can put herself in my shoes. She knows that if she lost one of her babies it would do everything but take her life and for some it even does that. I hope you can heal and give your mother some grace. She loves you more than you'll ever know and doesn't want to be who she became after you lost your sibling, it's just the cards she was dealt. I'm very sorry for your loss and how hard it's been for you.
I have said this so many times under other, similar circumstances. Don't forget about your other babies. They're just as precious as the one you lost. I've been a voice for you even though I do not know you. ❤
So eloquently said, thank you dear lady❤
Feel so sad when she said she didn’t recognize her son . Lord give her strength to go on
When she said we were all living in the dash, I felt that was so powerful. I know how I felt when I came close to losing both my children at different points in their life, I cannot even begin to comprehend what the Simmons family went through.
It’s also so important to remember that you can be as prepared as possible to drive, but you are never in control of the people around you in other vehicles, which is why you have to stay completely vigilant and driving a car while under the influence does not allow you to do that. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. It breaks my heart every time I hear it, but I watch your strength growing every time you talk about what happened and the conviction in your voice to save someone else from the grief that you are experiencing. You’re the epitome of a strong mom by advocating for your children even when they are not able to do so for themselves. All my love and condolences and prayers to you and your family.
I thank you for bringing up your daughters best friend to share her story as well. I lost my older sibling and my best friend and I can’t even talk about it to this day.
What a brave soul to be able to tell this story over and over to help others. thank u
"We are all living in that dash...." My God what a powerful statement! I subscribed in hope her story will be able to seen by more young people.
Dawn, you are an incredible person. Your ability to share your story hoping to reach others on the importance of making smart decisions when getting behind the wheel is remarkable. You shine as a mother and I’m sure all of your children are a reflection of your love and strength. Your loss is heartbreaking. I believe you will see your 3 lovely teens again once your job here is complete. Hold on to your faith, there are more angels watching over you now. ❤❤❤
Just heart wrenching.
Those injuries Mom had should have ended her life. The two torn carotid arteries alone. She’s found meaning from this tragedy. Bless her and her family ❤
It's amazing to survive one, but two is supernatural.
Such a brave mama to get up and speak so eloquently about her three babies in Heaven. 💛
Beautiful lives ripped away far FAR too soon. I truly cannot imagine the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual pain that comes from a loss like that. Bless you and your family for taking a broken and terrible situation and using it to build something positive. They are with you forever.
Dawn, Katie, & Marissa, I have seen several of your videos, & have been following your tragic yet beautiful story of your family for only a short while,but hearing you & your family speak about those beautiful babies is so powerful & I feel & believe no matter how short of time your babies were here on this Earth, they have definitely already left a huge beautiful mark on this place, in sooooo many many ways, & in many other hearts & minds. God has truly blessed you all with incredible strength, courage & Faith. I love that you share your faith, trust & praises in God. Your story has & will continue to touch & change so so many lives for years to come. Even for those who do not drive drunk/intoxicated or irresponsibly, your words encouraging all to get to know & have a relationship with God is also an extremely important message that MANY MANY need to hear/realize. That in & of itself has the power to save in an even greater way for as you say, none of us are guaranteed the next 10 mins, let alone tomorrow but we all can be guaranteed a beautiful place to meet up again. You will all hold those precious Angels again & they will be even more beautiful than you all remember.Your strong faith, incredible strength & courage to be able to go on living, loving & sharing your beautiful Family & story with the rest of the World is a true testament to God's love & how he works in the lives & walks daily with those who believe & have faith every single step of the way. As you mentioned, the "why's" are not always known, at least not for now, but I do believe & have failth that it will all make sense one day. May God continue to bless you & your family in every way. 🙏 🙏🙏💕💕🩵
When I was 9 I taped over my mum’s Elvis cassette with my sister and we were singing and just doing normal kids things all recorded… a few weeks later my sister was killed in a car accident… fast forward nearly 40 years and that cassette is our whole families most prized possession….
I am so sorry for your loss of your sister. Prayers for you and your family.
Please take it and have it put on a CD by a professional so the tape does not disintegrate over time. Just speaking from experience ❤
Excellent idea!@@CountCrackulaMyWay
I’ve been watching this with my 6 and 9 year old daughters. In my opinion, it’s never too early for them to start hearing and learning about how important the decisions they make are. I’m from Lake Charles and only heard about your story here on RUclips. When I watched Katie’s video about telling you about the kids I cried my eyes out. I can’t imagine what you guys have been though and my heart hurts for you. The strength you have is inspiring. Thank you for telling your story.
Yes!!!! It’s also good for them to know that they should never step into a vehicle if the driver has been drinking, as well!
What is her TikTok info?
I don’t drink and drive but since learning about this I don’t even drink anymore !! Anyways,
What a fierce Mamma !! I sure hope the Lord comes back soon so this family can be reunited. All of us. And I can’t wait to meet them ! Until then I pray that pain lessens. And so proud of the courage it takes to do what your doing !! Much love and respect !!! From a fellow usps employee !
This story is just utterly heartbreaking. My heart goes out to all of you❤
I'm speechless, can't even imagine what a loss like that can mean to a parent and to the whole family. Mrs. Simmons is such a strong mother, God bless and may your work help save many lives.
I just found your channel today and my heart is just destroyed by this tragedy. I really admire your strength and courage to relive that terrible day in order to prevent new tragedies from happening. Your message touched me deeply and your family will always be in my prayers. You guys deserve the best. With love, from Brazil.
Being a mother myself I couldn't imagine this. My heart hurts for you Dawn. They were beautiful children.
She sounds so matter of fact as if she’s numb to the pain. I can’t even begin to fathom. Heart goes to you guys
Thank you for sharing your babies with us, Miss Dawn & Mr Ray. It is a true pleasure to hear how much of a light they were in your lives and the light they are in our’s now.
I can’t imagine your feelings; please know y’all are in my prayers.
I only just found your channel today, I been riveted, such a senseless tragedy and I’m glad you folks are doing well and trying to make a difference and do something positive out of such a negative situation. My heart really goes out to you folks, thankyou for sharing your story. I will mention Kamryn, Christopher, and Lindy in my prayers tonight, and I will include Ray also because this situation is enough to break a man, I really hope he is doing good…
I remember hearing the horrible news here in Tennessee. Never have I felt so compelled to send someone a card, but I sent 1 to your daughter, you were still in the hospital I'm sorry i had no $ to donate. I have 3 sons one who is named Kamryn Michael I cried for your family your kids My heart breaks for you momma I know your babies are in heaven playing and having a fantastic time up there with my brother God bless you all No mother should ever have to bury their children. You ALL are in my prayers love Brandye from Johnson city Tennessee
Im a 66 yo Grandmother of 8 and Mother of 2, and this is one of the most impacting, moving, life changing testimonies I have ever witnessed. First of all I must give you, Dawn and your husband, and Family my sincere and deeply felt sympathy. I cannot imagine the horror. Second I want to thank you Dawn, for sharing yiur heart's story and your amazing mission to save others. Its so loving, kind, caring, and considerate to everyone. If you save one life it will be worth it. I think there will be many saved, and changed for the better, because of you. I want to thank Katie(sp?) for stepping up and with a heart of complete compassion, dedication and love for each family member. She showed the strength of steel in her actions after the accident. Saving both her Parents as much pain as possible shows her heart of pure gold. She is an angel on Earth. I am so impressed by all your children. As parents you have done an exceptional job. I would have been honored to know any of the Simmons Children and you both, as parents. Im glad I watched this. It has given me so much to think about. I hope you continue witnessing to young people, and parents too, for many years to come. I believe you are making an impact on them. I know you have on me. I believe that must have been so hard to describe and talk about, your beautiful babies, but its very impressive and heart touching. It makes them live again and makes them real to your audience. It makes your message personal. These arent three faceless young people. This is Lindy, Chris, and Cameron. They now live in my mind and heart too. Thank you for sharing your babies with me. Please take comfort that its not in vain. Keep telling your heart's story and changing lives. May GOD bless you greatly. And, thank you to the two girls who spoke their stories too. That was so brave of you. Give your husband and Katie a hug from this Grandma. You are in my prayers Dawn.💞🌹🕊🌹🕊🌹🕊
A Colorado Mountain Grandma USA 💜✌️🌍🌎🌏
Beautifully put. I wholeheartedly agree. What beautiful remarkable people.
An unbelievable strength to be able to speak with such eloquence about such an impossible trauma. A story and a message that I will remember.
Marissa was in the middle of the 2 that died. It's a miracle she survived. This is such a heart breaking story
I think the reason why is because she was in the middle, i think what shocks me the most is that chris died, since he was the furthest part of the impact, my guess is he ruptured something and he had a brain bleed probably from his head hitting the back or front of the seat. apparently he was heading to the hospital that his mom was at, but he coded so they had to get him to the closest hospital, my guess is he was in hypovolemic shock due to a intracranial hemorage, the middle doest have a front she could have hit her head on
@@Fluteperson01 that's true. the safest seat in a car is the centre back seat.
@@Fluteperson01either that or he hit the door, while Marissa was protected on all sides.
No it isnt. The middel seat in a car given it has a three point belt is the safest place in case of a crash because you have the most Material around yoi
OMG YALL SHUP UP
Man I can’t even imagine the pain you guys have gone through and still go through to this day, and beyond. I am so so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story with us all. Much love from New Zealand
Amazing delivery. I hope everyone sees this. New drivers, experienced drivers. It can happen to any of us and we must be ready and intentional.
Thank you for sharing your life’s tragedy with us. So sad. 😭🙏🏾🙌🏾
I think of Lindy, kamryn, Christopher every day. Not a day goes by I don’t watch Katie’s videos and bawl over such lovely treasured souls and their family and friends. I recently experienced a car accident and have been off work because of it, and I cannot imagine the impact this holds on the hearts of those who loved them 😭💜
I’m so very sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine the pain and suffering. As a young child, I learned that driving is a privilege and is a great responsibility. My class lost several kids from reckless drivers. My husband and parents were sideswiped by a guy going well over 100mph. They were spared. God was definitely there. The driver was already headed for the ditch and slammed into a concrete barrier and flipped three times. My dad is an anesthetist and rendered aide to the driver. He lived. We learned the driver passed several cars at that speed and passed a family on the right shoulder before hitting my family. In an instance, I could have lost my entire family.
Although it’s sad to hear, I like hearing peoples drunk driving stories. It really puts you in their shoes. There was one guy who came to my school, I believe his name was Shawn. But he was in a drunk driving accident. His buddy was driving and hit a tree. The car wrapped around the tree. 2 of his friends passed away from the crash. He was the only one to survive. He had a serious head injury. He’s now wheelchair bound and can only talk with an iPad. These stories definitely make me think twice.
I love how you talk about your faith and how it has given you the courage and strength to move forward. What a beautiful, loving family you all are. As someone said, you can see it in your kids.
I just recently stumbled across your channel and I have no words for what your family has been put through. I have an 8-year-old daughter and car accidents, especially ones that are preventable by making the right choices, are one of my biggest fears every time I put her in the car. I’m so sorry this happened to your beautiful family. I will forever keep the Simmons family in my prayers. Thank you for sharing the most vulnerable aspects of your life with us. Sharing the story of your family’s tragedy saves more lives than you could possibly imagine. That’s my hope and my prayer for your tragic loss. I lost a close friend to a car accident when we were 16 and I’m 47 now and not a day goes by that I don’t think about him and wonder what he could have done with his life and where his life would have taken him. He was a friend, I can’t imagine losing 3 family members to such an easily preventable accident because of the poor choices of one irresponsible individual. Holding you and all of the Simmons family close in my heart today and always. 💕
Hi Dawn and family. I heard the song, "Dancing In Heaven" today and thought of you and your family. Thank you for what you are doing showing awareness of drinking and driving. But thank you and your family for showing us intimate clips of you and your family that is teaching me, small ways, of how to love and talk to others, to let them know and show others, that love and appreciation in subtle ways. Love, hugs and prayers from Oregon to you! God Bless! ❤
Nothing has ever gotten into my head as much as this has. I'm so sorry for all you've suffered, you and your family and I admire your strength and courage. You will see your children again.
Half way through watching this I wanted to turn it off. It is too heartbreaking. But then i realised if you have the courage to tell the story, the rest of us owe it to you to find the courage to listen to it.
Before i was born, my step dad lost his 12 year old little sister when their car was hit by a drunk driver. By the time we were old enough to drive, we had spent most of our young lives seeing and hearing how that impacted their family. We were well aware of our responsibility to be aware and safe drivers.
What you're doing in bravely telling your story WILL save lives. You have my utmost respect and my truly hearfelt condolences. You and your family are forever in my thoughts ❤
She is extremely strong 😢 I lost my oldest son to a car accident by a reckless truck driver Oct 9th 2021. And I'm nowhere to be this strong.. She is an amazing woman.
I'm so sorry for your loss 💖🙏
I am sorry for your loss dear mother. May the Holy Spirit comfort you and give you peace.
You are strong enough to be sharing in her story, and adding your own. Sending you peace ❤
So sorry for u loss
You are strong. You atleast keep going and keep trying. You don’t even have to be strong. Who said it’s required to be after something like that? I hope that you find comfort in knowing that we’re all spiritual beings. Energy can’t go away, he’s there. Live for him, with a smile. Know that at the end, he’s waiting for you! Proud of you momma 🫶🏻
My heart goes out to this mother...I just can't imagine. And she just said, "can you imagine"?! No mama, I can't. I send you and your family healing prayers and a ton of hugs.
My heart truly breaks for your family, it’s absolutely devastating and I can not imagine the grief you all experience.
The strength this woman has standing there telling the most devastating story or your lives , educating to save lives is incredible. I have so much respect .
My love . Thoughts and prayers to you all ❤️
I noticed and love how even months into giving these presentations you still take the same amount of time to highlight each of their character in the beginning. Keeping their positives going is so important. Here for you
As a parent this is awful , but I’m also glad you have 6 other grown children . I didn’t know the family was this large , not that it changed the pain or grief .
I just hope though all the grief all the others still feel your love .
I have watched a lot of your videos for the past 3 days and I tear up every time I love how you let us get to know them as much as possible! I’m so sorry you had to go through that and have to live without them but you have such strength. I am so glad you let others know not to drink and drive and what the outcomes can be. Praying for you and your family always!
“We are all living in the - “
Damn.
Shows just how short life really is. I hope people really learn from this, its going to a long road for this family, including Marissa.
My heart hurts so much for you and your family. I cant even imagine the pain you are going through. Your strength is beautiful, your faith is beautiful. To be able to tell your story this soon to help keep others safe, to me, is nothing short of amazing. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers...... You never know what tomorrow holds.....LOVE alittle deeper, FORGIVE alittle faster, HUG alittle harder, and SMILE alot longer
Your voice reaches people. Your voice is honest, real, sympathetic, full of love for your family and the people who hear this. Never ever underestimate the amount of people who will NOT drink and drive because they heard heard your speech! Hopefully many people will find ways to find joy without alcohol anyway! May GOD bless you and continue to give you his strength in this message.
Thank you, Mrs. Simmons. We love you for doing this. Katie, another gem.
i Found this channel not even 20 minutes ago. I watched all the shorts and then on this video. I have been crying for the past 7 or 8 minutes. This story is the most devastating story’s I’ve ever heard. I pray for this family day on. Thank you for sharing your story❤️
Thank you for sharing this with us here on social media and the children and drivers of the future. Knowing your family and their story is saving so many other children and families ❤
I am so sorry that this has happened to you and your family....I would like to personally thank you for choosing to speak about this to the community that has made bad decisions. It's speaking openly like this turned my then 19 year old daughter that bad choices don't always affect her...she is now 31. It's sometimes tragic events can help save so many others. 🥰
I appreciate your courage to speak to others and give this sober, impactful warning. As a mom and grandmother, my heart hurts for you and your family ♥️ Thank you for sharing your story with us.
This broke my damn heart cause I have lost someone I love to a drunk driver. I made sure to show my children your story Thank you ❤so sorry for your loss.
The pain of losing your best friend. 🥺🥺🥺 lost mine to a car accident on 8-4-2001! I’m still not okay!
Feels like I’m stuck at 17 years old.
Gentle hugs to all of you. 🌻🙏
God bless you mama… you are so brave to stand and educate these kids about drinking and driving. You are truly amazing and I pray that you and your family continue to gain strength to get thru this tragedy.
I cannot imagine your incredible loss. You are truly making a difference and I am proof of that. When I was in highschool, I remember parents and loved ones like you coming to my school and telling us their devastating stories of loss due to drunk driving....bc of those stories I made a vow to never ever drink and drive, and I never did. I'm 35 now and don't drink now but I am so thankful for the education I received from Wonderful people like you which led me to think twice when I was intoxicated and never getting behind a wheel
I first learned about this Mother's heartache when they showed her cleaning the headstones and grave sites. Then I saw Katie telling us the complete horror to this video and the most amazing thing I see is this family honoring these beautiful children by sharing their story to hopefully stop this from happening to another Mother and Father. I thank you them for their courage to try to discourage people from drinking and driving.. May GOD continue to give your family strength and may HE BLESS you always.
How do you even begin to comment on this. This is the bravest person I think I have ever seen. The way she fights through her deep grief to get the message across to other people is heroic beyond belief. It is a privilege to see her give this presentation. The two youngsters, Hannah and Melissa were so level headed, articulate and intelligent are breathtaking. Dawn will save many lives I am sure with this programme. If I had one ounce of her strength I would be very proud indeed. By far the most inspiring thing I have seen on social media. I am sure that her three children are looking proudly down from heaven saying. 'Yep that's our Mum'.❤❤❤
This is so important that these things be shared and talked about ALL THE TIME! Thank you for opening up your healing hearts and making the risks and outcomes of selfish decisions like this be known, and offering a learning lesson 🤍🤍🤍
God Bless you, DAWN. May you impact these young people you speak with. It has made me Grieve for your loss. Thank You for all you do.
😮 I can not imagine. 🥺 Once in my life I had a pain so deep and wide that I was down on my knees holding my sides because it felt and sounded like my soul was screaming. 😢 That lasted a short time compared with the daily pain I witness your family in for life. 😢 This is truly a life sentence. 😭 I wish I had whatever magic words or actions that would help relieve the pain and grief, but I don't know what that would be because I am nearly immobilized by my own reaction to the pain. 😭😞😭🥺😭🙏🫂😭
I wrote this in reaction to the first video I saw about the crash and seeing your mom tiddy the tombstones. Then I went looking for other information or videos.
Katie I am so glad you created your RUclips channel. I was in tears watching you relive telling your mom they were all gone and your dad sitting by crosses along side of the road.
Then I saw parts of one of the sudden impact team presentation videos. I am so grateful for them. Maybe this will help with the pain and grief your family is experiencing.🫂🙏😞
Head on collisions scare the hell out of me, it’s hard for my brain to understand how in the world they happen but I know they do and when they do they are devastating
I am so sorry for this family's loss and the pain that came with it. Bad things should not happen to good people but sadly it does all to often. For this mother to take her grief and try to make a difference is remarkable, such a selfless thing to do, she is obviously an amazing person and mother and again I'm so sorry for yall's loss.
Dawn has done an amazing job as a public speaker and advocate for her children and other children to take driving seriously. I couldn’t have done such an impressive job with the heartbreaking weight she has on her. She is a strong person for sure. I first saw her daughter Katie tell her story and she is just like her Mom. They both may not know it now but they have saved lives.
I’m just sobbing I don’t know how the moms doing this she’s so strong idk what I would do it’s easy to say I wouldn’t be able to maybe I would idk she’s an amazing woman going out talking to kids trying to make sure they get home safe when her babies didn’t it’s just amazing what she’s doing I pray for her and her family I know God has her 3 babies in his loving arms the way you talk about them is just precious you are their VOICE.
Miss Dawn, my heart goes out to your family. I cannot fathom how I would deal with this devastating news. You are the strongest woman I know!❤ People please don't drink and drive. Don't do anything that would risk your life or anyone else's!
9:01 they were here, 9:02 they were gone. I will forever remember this simple sentence. Every single high school 16 year old student should be required to view this.
So very sorry for your loss. Thank you for keeping Lindy, Christopher, and Kamryn memories alive, so we can remember them.
Thanks for advocating through your immense grief and sharing your beautiful family with us. Keeping you all in prayer ❤
Your mum is one strong, resilient, stunningly brave woman. I can not imagine the strength it must take to get up and live each day with such a shattered heart and heavy weight of loss.
This was beautifully done and put together. Such an amazing presentation of their amazing lives, thank you Mama Bear for sharing yours and their stories. I feel grateful to have even witnessed this.
Your family's loss brings me to tears every time i watch your videos. I am so sorry for your loss
I just wish them nothing but happiness, blessings, and healing forever. That whole family. This is heartbreaking. So glad you have so many recordings of them to keep their memories alive! I hope yall find comfort in spreading awareness youre truely doing Gods work on earth! 💕
I lost my best friend in 96 and no. It doesn’t get any easier. She was my best friend and even more like a sister. Rip sweet kiddos. This is so sad. And I am so sorry for your family’s loss.
What a tradegy. I can't even imagine the pain and despair everyone in the Simmons Family has experienced. As a Mother of just one I really can't comprehend what Dawn has endured. Bless her other children
for remaining strong amidst their own suffering. I hope each and every
person that heard about or have seen this video to remember it ALWAYS. Be the One that makes the
the right choice. Be the One that takes the keys away from a friend that's drunk. Be the One to see another day. My continued prayers to The Simmons Family and Friends.
Special Thanks to Dawn for sharing
their story...🙏💖💖💖🙏
I just recently came about your channel. I watched this video a few nights ago and I haven't been able to get it out of my head. I can't imagine the extreme loss you have gone through and continue to go through. Lindy, Christopher and Kamryn were such beautiful children and I have no doubt that would have done great things in this world had that drunk driver not made the decision to drive that night but they are still making a difference through you.