My baby is eight weeks old, as a first time mum I was told I should enjoy pregnancy. I hated most of it and felt so rubbish about my body. You feel how you feel, don't apologise. Eight weeks later I'm so thankful that my amazing body, despite it being chubbier and having lots of stretch marks, grew an amazing, beautiful, thriving little human and I'm so grateful xx
See, I never get why people tell you that you should enjoy it. Its your body, I remember my sister being hideously sick throughout her entire pregnancy and I just thought why should she be made to feel guilty that she's not enjoying throwing up multiple times a day?! If anyone confided in me that they're not enjoying it I'd never say well you should be! It def taught me a life lesson. Congratulations btw! xx
I've never liked that people seem to force pregnant women to enjoy their pregnancy. The hormonal imbalance it causes plus all the changes in your body can be big depression triggers and many women get so sick they just can't enjoy it. My mum had pre-eclampsia and had to be hospitalised from the very beginning in all her pregnancies, they were everything but enjoyable for her
I think it's completely natural to worry about weight when you're pregnant. I wish more women would be honest about the not-so-perfect things about pregnancy and motherhood! Props to you for sharing your honest feelings and letting other women know they are not alone! 💚
It's so lovely to watch how full of joy and beauty you are while pregnant. I know part of it is luck but it's just such an inspiration for me as someone who has been through tough pregnancies to see you handle it with such grace!
I’m so happy for you and Mike. You’ll be great parents! You look beautiful and glowy and you’ll lose that weight eventually. Just enjoy your pregnancy.
UsernamesForDummies please don't say 'lose that weight' to a pregnant woman, it implies they have weight to lose. Maybe use a different phrase such as - any weight you did maybe put on will be easily lost afterwards. Just sounds kinder x
Sarah Jane oh no I don't either at all. It's hard without tone in here all I meant was just in future be mindful of the words used, she wasn't being mean or rude but the words chosen might sting a bit! X
Sarah Lucky I certainly didn’t mean to cause any hurt or offense. Fleur talked about feeling insecure, like lots of other pregnant women. It’s obviously about gaining weight. Which is completely normal and temporary and nothing to feel insecure or unhappy about. I don’t understand why we can’t call a spade a spade and pussyfoot around. I was not rude, I think. Some people are unhappy about gaining a kilo, others about gaining 10. However big that number is, it will eventually go away. And anyway, I think she looks beautiful - which I also stressed.
Hi Fleur, don't apologise for being honest about your feelings. It's really annoying when people say, " oh you're having a baby [thats ALL you should be focusing on]". And the latter part is what's generally implied to expectant mothers. Like, hello? YOU still exist. YOU are still important. It's not all about the baby. X
As I watched this, I thought this series of videos could be called “bumpdate”. Had a good giggle about it at the very least. Exciting to watch your journey :)
Looking lovely. Birthing my son and becoming a mother is the most profound and joyful thing in my life. He’s now 10 years old. You just don’t know the love and joy until it happens to you.
Just wanted to mention that regarding the shelves, all you need to do is move the brackets over to allow the marble to fit properly. The brackets are just to close together. Love your videos!
Currently 14 weeks along and you’ve been posting pregnancy videos since I found out. You’ve been a big help with me preparing myself for my own pregnancy
im 37 weeks pregnant with my first child and i still feel like I have a ways to go! Every time i see a bump update from you I'm always shocked by how fast your pregnancy is going! I feel you on the pelvis pain girl but you're almost there though! Enjoy every moment !
Natalie DeHoff I have not! No contractions too and am not dilated yet so I’m praying I start dilating soon and trying to stay as active as I possibly can
I haven't been pregnant for 36 years but I can say having my four children was the highlight of my life. I have been fortunate to also be at the birth of four of my grandchildren. There has been nothing in my life that compares to the miracle of birth.
Hey Fleur, I'm almost 26 weeks with my second and it is so fun to have people closely due with you! Don't let anyone make you feel bad for not enjoying every aspect of pregnancy. Yes, pregnancy is a beautiful thing, but there are also some not so lovely things that can happen when you're growing a human. My husband likes to tease me for complaining since I've talked so much about how much I love being pregnant. But again, you can love something without loving every single thing about it. One of my favorite things about pregnancy is feeling the baby move and especially when you start feeling the big movements. I think it teaches us a bit about their personalities. I've definitely seen a difference between my daughter and my son who I am pregnant with now. I'm so excited for you in this special time. I know everyone says it but it is so true that you learn a whole new aspect of love when you meet your baby. I still look at my daughter in awe that I made her and she was once a literal part of my body. For your pelvic issues the biggest things I can recommend are chiropractic adjustments and Epsom salt soaks. Nothing can really make it 100% go away but it can improve how you're feeling and functioning. Best of luck momma!
I've not watched your videos in ages, and this is the most beautiful you have ever looked. Take that as you will - this pregnancy has really elevated you to next level
I’m 35 weeks now and I have to say, the weight gain worry doesn’t let up. I know that I’m in the healthy range and “it’s all for the baby” but it’s difficult to see my body change so drastically. I cannot wait to meet my little boy in a few weeks and I’m so happy to be going through this journey with you!
I don’t think that you should or need to apologize for how you feel about gaining weight. Feel free to express that, just remember that this is a transient time. This is such a singular event in your life, you’ll never be pregnant with your first baby ever again. At least that’s what helped me. And trust me, you are definitely much more fit and healthy at your start than I was at mine. Once the baby’s born you can change your diet and exercise to your hearts content to shed the lbs.
37 weeks with a baby boy over here! It's been so fun to watch your updates! They are quite relatable. I have dealt with a lot of the same issues, SPD, sickness, feeling a bit blah about myself. We are in the home stretch now! I have 20 days and I'm not going to lie I have been googling every symptom in the hopes that it means labor is soon! Can't wait to see your little bundle of joy and hear her name! XO
Incredible that you have “just” announced the pregnancy and now you are in the third trimester 😳 My own pregnancy (39+2) has now taken a couple og years - or feels like it ! 😁
Cherish the time you have left being pregnant. I just had my baby last week. It is amazing but so much harder than being pregnant. I thought I was well prepared and it had been such a whirlwind, even with my husband helping me 24/7.
I love how unapologetically real you are! I'm 24 weeks with my 2nd baby (a girl!) and it's going by so quickly! The 3rd trimester is the hardest by far though, I hope it finishes up quickly and healthily for you and Baby!
Being one week ‘behind’ you in my pregnancy I was just telling my husband yesterday the thing you mention about the movements of the baby. It’s not only kicks any longer but as you say; actual, long, ‘flowy’ movements where you sense the body parts through the skin - it’s so unreal! :D Love your bump updates, it’s super fun and useful for me being first time pregnant as well. Thanks!
Fleur, I had my baby 10 days ago and I had gained 45 lbs total at the end. I know how you feel and 10 days post partum I have already lost 22 lbs. Lost 7 when the baby came out and the rest since in water weight and breast feeding. I didn’t think I’d get there, but the amount you lose right away without doing anything is unbelievable. Just wanted to let you know there is light at the end of that tunnel! Hang in there. So happy for you and Mike! 💕😘
I’m 33+4 weeks and it’s going so slow now, just want her to be here now. So nice that there’s loads of pregnancy update videos that I can watch and compare🤰🏼
You’re spot on with getting a colorful play mat!! I’m an occupational therapy student and am currently learning about pediatrics. The first few months babies experience the world primarily through visual tracking. Having lots of contrast in their toys and just even looking at people’s faces is just what helps them learn/ develop their sensory system. Sorry to get a little nerdy with this comment, it’s just kind of funny that’s what I was just learning about hahah!!
You look amazing. Safe delivery. Don't focus on your weight so much, this is transient. You are obviously gaining just what you need to. Plus living in the countryside you can take nice walks to stay fit and have an easier delivery.
I am 33 weeks pregnant now and I know exactly what you talking about. The pelvic pain is real. Belt is helping a little bit meaning I can walk for almost 2 hours instead of 20 minutes. If it comes to movements I get the same feeling. They are different and more like she is turning (having a girl as well😊) rather than kicking. So nice I am not alone. Fingers crossed for both of us ;)
I can't describe how genuinely joyful I am to see you and Mike in such a beautiful time of your lives! And we as an audience should and are so thankful that you let us in on such a delicate and private journey. Can't wait to see how the rest goes - all the best 😘 💕
Always look forward to your updates Fleur! I am currently 35 weeks with my second! My goal this pregnancy was to appreciate every moment and not wish it over like I did with my first. Doing that has actually made it fly by haha.
I’m currently 23 weeks with my first, she’s due 15th February and I’ve had it pretty easy so far. I’ve been watching you for over 6 years now and when you announced you were pregnant and it happened to be when I was expecting I was ecstatic to come on this journey with you 😊
You can feel what you want to feel they are ur feelings and ur emotions and I support you no matter what you look stunning and u will be the best mother ever I am here for you I am also pregnant but at 19 weeks and I am feeling the body changing and I am freaking out too love u always😍😍😍😍😍
Fleur, thank you for being honest about your body confidence. I am 32 weeks pregnant and have felt the same way about it all! I also don't know how anyone can eat healthy while pregnant, all I ever want now is carbs and sweets! I had my glucose tolerance test the same day as you, I thought that was kind of cool. I'm so glad you're doing these vlogs, it's extra fun for those of us who get to experience our pregnancies along with you!
Fleur! I have watched you for years. I love how composed and relaxed and mature you are. And now becoming a mother - your pregnancy posts are beautiful. So fun watching you guys in your journey over these months. Thank you for sharing!
It makes me so happy to see how real and unapologetic you are regarding your feelings there is way too much pressure on bloggers to please everyone! I hope you get help with your hips / pelvis soon I'm going through the exact same thing and it does get you down. I would say tho if you're like me and hate painkillers, don't rule them out but keep it open for days when you want / need to get about and want to feel normal! I'm 28 weeks too, 29 on Monday btw 😁 I love your pregnancy vlogs so so much your nursery is perfect and you look so glowy you'd never tell you felt poorly xxx
Hi Fleur! I'm expecting a girl too and I'm 29 weeks pregnant now! I understand you so much. During the past few weeks my baby girl moves every single second of the day. I'm from Italy and here every relative in your family will say to you that you have to gain so much baby weight during pregnancy, but as a first time mum in her 20s I feel so insecure about my body and how it's changing. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one in this situation and watching your videos has made me feel so much better! I hope that Christmas will come early this year so I will finally have my little girl in my arms. You are beautiful and you are doing so well! Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us!
I'm 9 weeks pregnant, still keeping the secret (family and close friends now, but not everyone). I'm having my first ultrasound in two weeks. -So exciting! 😍 It's so nice to watch your pregnancy updates. It seems to me you just told everyone and now you are so close to your due date! ❤️
I am 25 weeks along with a little girl and feel the exact same as you about my weight. I know it's healthy, but after a lifetime of weight gain consciousness it's hard to switch gears mentally. Especially when I've gained faster than the recommended pace. But I push all that to the back of my mind and focus on being healthy and enjoying this first (and surprise) pregnancy while I can. It is going by soooo quickly. Having been just a few weeks behind you since the beginning, I've appreciated your updates. 3rd trimester here we come!
I am 28 weeks and watching your video is exactly how i been. Cold all of this week, pelvic pain is awful, self conscious about my weight. Its hard work growing a baby x
Sweet Fleur I am so sorry you are having pelvic pains. I dealt with that with my last two pregnancies. It was debilitating. Praying your doctors can help you find relief. Also it will force you to slow down these next two months, which isn’t a bad thing dear! It’s getting you ready to purposely slow down and get to enjoy this new little miracle. Blessings to you mama!! xo
Can't wait to see your little one. Our 2nd is due in 4 weeks via c-sec, and I have suffered from very bad pelvic pain disorder both times, but have found enormous relief from a chiropractor once or twice a week, especially in this 3rd trimester. I dont think I'd be walking some days without him. Tube grip supports for bump are the best too which you can get from your physio. Good luck and congrats. xx
I had SPD from around 24 weeks and it was bloody painful. I was working full time as a nurse and the only two things that got me through were a support belt and seeing a chiro. The issue wasn’t fixed but was definitely more manageable. You are almost in the single digit countdown, so exciting. My little boy turned 5 months today... I feel like I was in your position yesterday!
I'm not pregnant and I'm not fond of kids but I love your reaction to your pregnancy. The colour scheme of everything and how you're still incorporating yourself into the style of the nursery and your daughters clothes :) it's easy and fun for those of us not pregnant to watch because of that 😊 I am super duper happy for you and you look amazingly beautiful! I really enjoy these updates!!!! Xxx
Oh a cold and pregnancy is no fun. I feel your pain. I am 21 weeks and have been fighting a cold all week! Hope you feel better. Can’t wait to see the finished nursery and hear the name of your sweet baby girl 💚
Hi Fleur, I've been watching your videos for years and it was so exciting to find out you were pregnant at the same time as me. I am 29 weeks, and I'm feeling big. I'm 4'11" and I have also been having pelvic pain issues. I have been going to chiro which has really helped. I completely understand about the ups and downs with weight gain. In my youth I was over weight, and seeing myself pack on the pounds is really difficult. I too need all the carbs right now, and I am trying really hard to have a positive attitude about the whole thing. I oscillate between "it's ok, my body needs to do what it needs to do to grow this baby" to "OMG is that really what my thighs look like right now." I think generally as women we put a lot of pressure on ourselves to be perfect in all aspects of our lives, and I'm trying to remember that at the end of this pregnancy journey I get to have a baby girl. I'm really enjoying your pregnancy videos: you're beautiful inside and out and I look forward to your next update.
Hi Fleur, long-term subscriber since 2010 here! I am 28 weeks tomorrow (first time for me too, a boy!) and it’s been so good to watch these updates and ‘progress’ alongside you. I’m so glad that things have mostly been going really well for you. Fortunately it’s been similar for me! Got to agree about the weight gain thing, so many people don’t get it, and it’s refreshing to hear you say what I am feeling too. You are looking amazing, and I’m looking forward to your next upload!
I’m 30 weeks pregnant and I totally understand what you’re saying when you talked about body confidence. It’s not so easy because your body changes so fast, but it’s of course worth it. Hope you get through the rest of your pregnancy still feeling good and you have a healthy baby 😊
I LOVE the play gym! Ps eat all of the carbs girl! I ate so many french fries during my last pregnancy and baby and I ended up just fine :) don't beat yourself up, you look beautiful!
Thank you for being open and honest about the body struggles of being pregnant and how hard it can be with the mentality of gaining weight. I loved being pregnant but had a hard time as well with the idea of gaining weight even though it wasn't necessarily all going to me. Best of luck with this last push - my little mr is 7 months so it's lovely to reminisce on this time by watching you 💕.
I'm not currently pregnant but gave birth to my first child, a little girl, in July. I'm loving these updates as it's reminding me of my pregnancy - both the good and bad parts. The next 12 weeks or so will fly by! Good luck x
Hi Fleur. I've just hit 24 weeks with my baby boy. Its all becoming so real now, its exciting but scary! You are looking so blooming. She is going to be a beautiful little girl 😊 xx
I cannot wait to be around where you are! I'm 11 weeks and STILL vomiting numerous times a day with constant nausea when I'm not. You're a lucky preggo ❤️
I know some Mummys-to-be dislike being described as "radiant" or "glowing", but you really are beautifully radiant and glowing! i hope the remaining time being pregnant is smooth sailing and enjoyable. So happy for you :) x
Fleur, I'm 29 weeks pregnant and love your updates! I have had pelvic girdle pain since about week 24. It is so painful😟Physio makes a huge difference though and whilst it's painful during the session I get huge relief from it after a day or two. It's definitely worth looking into. Your consultant will probably be able to recommend a physio that specialises in PGP. Hope you get some relief soon x
14 + 5 - I don’t really know anyone who is pregnant. I am loving how much better I feel in the second trimester. Hated the first and was dreading it being that way for the whole pregnancy! xx
Also, I just wanted to say I find your pregnancy updates really interesting. I'm not pregnant nor have I been but I find the information you give is very interesting, rather than just baloney that I've seen elsewhere on RUclips.
Same feeling. My baby’s movements have changed drastically the last week. I can tell that the baby has grown sooo much 😍 enjoy your pregnancy. I also found that a third friend of mine is also pregnant 😍☺️
It’s a good and healthy thing to see that sweet baby growing. That is just as it should be. Throughout life, we all find that there are different faces of beauty. Being pregnant has its own beauty, and it shows on your happy face. In my experience, women have an eating style and body type that reassert themselves after the baby is born. Just attend to eating when you are hungry and you will be back to yourself at just the right time. Love your pregnancy updates!!
I’m almost 25weeks pregnant with twins. I’ve been put on modified bedrest so that’s been tough. Due first week of Feb but they will probably be here first couple weeks of January. Feeling massive! That top looks lovely on you!
I am 31 weeks pregnant today - I finish work on Wednesday and am so excited. This is baby number 2 for us but I have waited 6 years between my boys. Part of the wait was I had weight loss surgery 2 years ago so had to wait for approval so I absolutely understand where you are in regards to your weight - this is the first time in 4 years I have gained a pound and it a complete mind game to try and stop the “dieting” mentality kicking in. I am under full supervision of my surgical team and they are more than happy with the weight I have gained but I am not enjoying that part of the pregnancy this time around
I'm 28 weeks pregnant with a little girl! I'm so excited! I know what you mean about the way she moves changing, I've noticed the same. I really like the skip hop play mat you've got. It looks way more interesting than the one I chose (I've put it on my wish list now). I love your update videos, as I don't have any pregnant friends! Take care! xxxx
Yes! Agree with everything you’re saying. I’m 27 weeks as the movements have definitely changed. Like it spooks me a bit with the movements as they feel so different like a roll right under the skin rather than little knocks and kicks! Xx
this is my second pregnancy.. pregnant with my second boy:) Twenty weeks pregnant-half way!! Love watching your vlogs and reminiscing about the uncertainties of when I was first pregnant. You're doing great!
Just watching all your videos now i'm pregnant , i have currently suffering with pelvic girdle pain and some days its hard to even walk so i know what you had to go through. I never watched many videos when you was pregnant as i liked to think i would watch them when i am, and lucky enough here i am. River is so lucky to have such wonderful parents. Merry Christmas fleur and mike and the of course all the pet clan! xx
I think the thing is with the last trimester is it does draaaaaag! Listen to your body, eat what you want and get as much rest as you can. Body image is always a sensitive issue and even when everyone says “you look lovely” you can end up looking at the negatives in the mirror. You are looking really good with totally glowing skin and hair! You’re carrying a very precious baby so relax, try and get comfortable and enjoy the countdown.......life will never be the same🤗 it’s so exciting!! X
Don't feel bad about the weight thing. I fell pregnant while recovering from anorexia, and felt so awfully guilty about worrying about my weight. It is normal. I am now 27 weeks and although it is a struggle, I have never loved my body more for giving me this wonderful gift when I was at my most vulnerable state.
So excited for you Fleur, she's going to be here so soon! I'm 14 weeks now. It's been great to have your updates and see what I can expect later on. Feeling good now so long may it continue! Your nursery is lovely 😍 X
I know that I keep saying this, but I love everything you’ve been getting for the baby! I always loved your style anyway so it’s no surprise that I absolutely love everything. So happy for you and mike!
Omg Fleur Im so excited for you and Mike!! Don't worry about your weight just enjoy being pregnant you are truly beautiful and glowing! The weight will drop off you when the baby arrives you'll be so busy. So lovely to see you so happy...love all your baby stuff too. Im 40 and my son is now 17..feels like such a long time ago. Good luck! xx
I felt the exact same way re movements recently!! It's like you can feel their foot/head/hands sticking into your ribs!! It's crazy!! Best of luck with the rest of your pregnancy!! Ps I've been converted from my beloved Lingering MAC pencil to yours!! It's brilliant! Keep well xx
I'm 26 weeks and your videos are just so lovely and reassuring! We seem to be going through similar emotions which makes me feel so much better as I'm the first of my friends to have a baby and I'm not too sure what to expect. You look fab too by the way ☺️ xxx
I’m currently 27 weeks almost 28 weeks with a baby girl and I am having the exact same experience as you. My entire pregnancy has been very smooth except this last week. My issue isn’t a pelvis issue though. It’s another third trimester issue but it’s quite annoying! I also have notice this week that I can feel her movements and there are sharp protruding things on my stomach that I assume are her feet or elbows which also move after i touch them. And I have also been having lots of body issues these last few weeks as well and when I complain about it everyone keep telling me I’m pregnant I’m suppose to gain weight. That’s not what worries me, what worries me is how fast I am gaining the weight. I’ve already gained 30 pounds! It’s so great to hear about someone else’s experience that is going through the same things as me! Good luck with everything!
I've loved being able to follow your journey and how similar our experiences have been... I'm now 30 weeks and I'm feeling so impatient, I just can't wait for Christmas to begin then it'll be really exciting! 🎅🏼🎄👶🏻
My Bub is 9 weeks now. I absolutely hated my pregnancy other than feeling my boy kick and move around. I had GD and I gained quite a bit of a weight so I felt horrible. Don’t let people bully you into thinking it’s not normal to feel crappy at times during pregnancy. But once you have had Bub it’ll all be worth it!! ❤️❤️ you’re going to be an amazing mumma
Currently writing this as I’m watching! I’m also 28weeks! (I think we have a similar due date) and feeling exactly the same! Luckily I didn’t have to have the glucose test but I’ve heard it isn’t as bad as most make out! Very excited to be “sharing” my journey with you!! Xx
I’m 29 weeks too and totally with you on the movement changing this week, there’s times where she sits in such an uncomfortable position and defo feel knees, elbows etc sticking out now! I’ve also had the best pregnancy this time, I think it must be girls!! Love the sleepsuit from next, will add that to my shopping list!! X
love to see ur pregnancy updates I am waching ur vlogs for four years almost n watching you people growing as a family is best thing ever best wishes for the baby n her mum dad
You look so fantastic and so happy! I love seeing these updates. Also, just my two cents - for some reason, it seems that people assume women become 100% selfless when they become pregnant. Like, "why should you be uncomfortable about diet and weight gain? It's for the baby!" You're still Fleur, and now you're Fleur as a mother. You are obviously taking care of yourself and loving your daughter so much before everyone else can meet her. Pregnancy doesn't mean that your own thoughts and insecurities go away... the idea of that drives me bonkers. Congrats to you and Mike!
My baby is eight weeks old, as a first time mum I was told I should enjoy pregnancy. I hated most of it and felt so rubbish about my body. You feel how you feel, don't apologise. Eight weeks later I'm so thankful that my amazing body, despite it being chubbier and having lots of stretch marks, grew an amazing, beautiful, thriving little human and I'm so grateful xx
See, I never get why people tell you that you should enjoy it. Its your body, I remember my sister being hideously sick throughout her entire pregnancy and I just thought why should she be made to feel guilty that she's not enjoying throwing up multiple times a day?! If anyone confided in me that they're not enjoying it I'd never say well you should be! It def taught me a life lesson. Congratulations btw! xx
I've never liked that people seem to force pregnant women to enjoy their pregnancy. The hormonal imbalance it causes plus all the changes in your body can be big depression triggers and many women get so sick they just can't enjoy it. My mum had pre-eclampsia and had to be hospitalised from the very beginning in all her pregnancies, they were everything but enjoyable for her
I think it's completely natural to worry about weight when you're pregnant. I wish more women would be honest about the not-so-perfect things about pregnancy and motherhood! Props to you for sharing your honest feelings and letting other women know they are not alone! 💚
It's so lovely to watch how full of joy and beauty you are while pregnant. I know part of it is luck but it's just such an inspiration for me as someone who has been through tough pregnancies to see you handle it with such grace!
Wow, time goes by so quickly!
Hello Fleur! Baby bump is growing a lot! You look beautiful pregnant 🤰 xx
I’m so happy for you and Mike. You’ll be great parents! You look beautiful and glowy and you’ll lose that weight eventually. Just enjoy your pregnancy.
UsernamesForDummies please don't say 'lose that weight' to a pregnant woman, it implies they have weight to lose. Maybe use a different phrase such as - any weight you did maybe put on will be easily lost afterwards. Just sounds kinder x
+Sarah Lucky I don’t think OP meant to cause any upset with the comment
Sarah Jane oh no I don't either at all. It's hard without tone in here all I meant was just in future be mindful of the words used, she wasn't being mean or rude but the words chosen might sting a bit! X
+Sarah Lucky Agreed, just a bit of a touchy subject 😊
Sarah Lucky I certainly didn’t mean to cause any hurt or offense. Fleur talked about feeling insecure, like lots of other pregnant women. It’s obviously about gaining weight. Which is completely normal and temporary and nothing to feel insecure or unhappy about. I don’t understand why we can’t call a spade a spade and pussyfoot around. I was not rude, I think. Some people are unhappy about gaining a kilo, others about gaining 10. However big that number is, it will eventually go away. And anyway, I think she looks beautiful - which I also stressed.
Seeing baby clothes makes me so happy! They are so pretty. Thanks for sharing with us.
Have a great weekend.
Haha me too... they're so fun to shop for! Thanks for watching! xo
Hi Fleur, don't apologise for being honest about your feelings. It's really annoying when people say, " oh you're having a baby [thats ALL you should be focusing on]". And the latter part is what's generally implied to expectant mothers. Like, hello? YOU still exist. YOU are still important. It's not all about the baby. X
As I watched this, I thought this series of videos could be called “bumpdate”. Had a good giggle about it at the very least. Exciting to watch your journey :)
Looking lovely. Birthing my son and becoming a mother is the most profound and joyful thing in my life. He’s now 10 years old. You just don’t know the love and joy until it happens to you.
Just wanted to mention that regarding the shelves, all you need to do is move the brackets over to allow the marble to fit properly. The brackets are just to close together. Love your videos!
You look beautiful Fleur! So excited for the baby 😘🙏🏻
I'M SO EXCITED
So excited for you Fleur! You have a beautiful pregnancy glow ☺️ xx
your complexion and lashes look SO SO good in this video! glowing x
I'm so excited for you and Mike!! :) Baby De Force will be here pretty soon, she will be beautiful xx
Thanks so much Meghan! We can't wait! xo
I can’t believe you’ve already come this far!!! Your pregnancy is flying by!💫✨
Currently 14 weeks along and you’ve been posting pregnancy videos since I found out. You’ve been a big help with me preparing myself for my own pregnancy
im 37 weeks pregnant with my first child and i still feel like I have a ways to go! Every time i see a bump update from you I'm always shocked by how fast your pregnancy is going! I feel you on the pelvis pain girl but you're almost there though! Enjoy every moment !
May Deb have you lost your plug yet labor comes soon after that .
Natalie DeHoff I have not! No contractions too and am not dilated yet so I’m praying I start dilating soon and trying to stay as active as I possibly can
I haven't been pregnant for 36 years but I can say having my four children was the highlight of my life. I have been fortunate to also be at the birth of four of my grandchildren. There has been nothing in my life that compares to the miracle of birth.
Hey Fleur, I'm almost 26 weeks with my second and it is so fun to have people closely due with you! Don't let anyone make you feel bad for not enjoying every aspect of pregnancy. Yes, pregnancy is a beautiful thing, but there are also some not so lovely things that can happen when you're growing a human. My husband likes to tease me for complaining since I've talked so much about how much I love being pregnant. But again, you can love something without loving every single thing about it.
One of my favorite things about pregnancy is feeling the baby move and especially when you start feeling the big movements. I think it teaches us a bit about their personalities. I've definitely seen a difference between my daughter and my son who I am pregnant with now. I'm so excited for you in this special time. I know everyone says it but it is so true that you learn a whole new aspect of love when you meet your baby. I still look at my daughter in awe that I made her and she was once a literal part of my body.
For your pelvic issues the biggest things I can recommend are chiropractic adjustments and Epsom salt soaks. Nothing can really make it 100% go away but it can improve how you're feeling and functioning. Best of luck momma!
You look so beautiful. Pregnancy glowing 🙂🙂
I've not watched your videos in ages, and this is the most beautiful you have ever looked. Take that as you will - this pregnancy has really elevated you to next level
I’m 35 weeks now and I have to say, the weight gain worry doesn’t let up. I know that I’m in the healthy range and “it’s all for the baby” but it’s difficult to see my body change so drastically. I cannot wait to meet my little boy in a few weeks and I’m so happy to be going through this journey with you!
Absolutely love your nursery. It's so basic and elegant and so you😊 All of us can't wait to meet your little star⭐️
Thanks so much :) I'm happy with how it's coming along - it's been sooo fun to put together! xo
I don’t think that you should or need to apologize for how you feel about gaining weight. Feel free to express that, just remember that this is a transient time. This is such a singular event in your life, you’ll never be pregnant with your first baby ever again. At least that’s what helped me. And trust me, you are definitely much more fit and healthy at your start than I was at mine. Once the baby’s born you can change your diet and exercise to your hearts content to shed the lbs.
Noelia Penzo a nice perspective :)
Noelia Penzo your message is lovely for all pregnant ladies. Thank you so much.
37 weeks with a baby boy over here! It's been so fun to watch your updates! They are quite relatable. I have dealt with a lot of the same issues, SPD, sickness, feeling a bit blah about myself. We are in the home stretch now! I have 20 days and I'm not going to lie I have been googling every symptom in the hopes that it means labor is soon! Can't wait to see your little bundle of joy and hear her name! XO
Incredible that you have “just” announced the pregnancy and now you are in the third trimester 😳
My own pregnancy (39+2) has now taken a couple og years - or feels like it ! 😁
Those play mats are an absolute necessity! The one you chose is adorable! They allow you to get so much done 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Cherish the time you have left being pregnant. I just had my baby last week. It is amazing but so much harder than being pregnant. I thought I was well prepared and it had been such a whirlwind, even with my husband helping me 24/7.
Congrats on your new baby! xo
I love how unapologetically real you are! I'm 24 weeks with my 2nd baby (a girl!) and it's going by so quickly! The 3rd trimester is the hardest by far though, I hope it finishes up quickly and healthily for you and Baby!
Being one week ‘behind’ you in my pregnancy I was just telling my husband yesterday the thing you mention about the movements of the baby. It’s not only kicks any longer but as you say; actual, long, ‘flowy’ movements where you sense the body parts through the skin - it’s so unreal! :D
Love your bump updates, it’s super fun and useful for me being first time pregnant as well. Thanks!
Fleur, I had my baby 10 days ago and I had gained 45 lbs total at the end. I know how you feel and 10 days post partum I have already lost 22 lbs. Lost 7 when the baby came out and the rest since in water weight and breast feeding. I didn’t think I’d get there, but the amount you lose right away without doing anything is unbelievable. Just wanted to let you know there is light at the end of that tunnel! Hang in there. So happy for you and Mike! 💕😘
I’m 33+4 weeks and it’s going so slow now, just want her to be here now. So nice that there’s loads of pregnancy update videos that I can watch and compare🤰🏼
You’re spot on with getting a colorful play mat!! I’m an occupational therapy student and am currently learning about pediatrics. The first few months babies experience the world primarily through visual tracking. Having lots of contrast in their toys and just even looking at people’s faces is just what helps them learn/ develop their sensory system. Sorry to get a little nerdy with this comment, it’s just kind of funny that’s what I was just learning about hahah!!
You look amazing. Safe delivery. Don't focus on your weight so much, this is transient. You are obviously gaining just what you need to. Plus living in the countryside you can take nice walks to stay fit and have an easier delivery.
I am 33 weeks pregnant now and I know exactly what you talking about. The pelvic pain is real. Belt is helping a little bit meaning I can walk for almost 2 hours instead of 20 minutes. If it comes to movements I get the same feeling. They are different and more like she is turning (having a girl as well😊) rather than kicking. So nice I am not alone. Fingers crossed for both of us ;)
I can't describe how genuinely joyful I am to see you and Mike in such a beautiful time of your lives! And we as an audience should and are so thankful that you let us in on such a delicate and private journey. Can't wait to see how the rest goes - all the best 😘 💕
Always look forward to your updates Fleur! I am currently 35 weeks with my second! My goal this pregnancy was to appreciate every moment and not wish it over like I did with my first. Doing that has actually made it fly by haha.
I’m currently 23 weeks with my first, she’s due 15th February and I’ve had it pretty easy so far. I’ve been watching you for over 6 years now and when you announced you were pregnant and it happened to be when I was expecting I was ecstatic to come on this journey with you 😊
You can feel what you want to feel they are ur feelings and ur emotions and I support you no matter what you look stunning and u will be the best mother ever I am here for you I am also pregnant but at 19 weeks and I am feeling the body changing and I am freaking out too love u always😍😍😍😍😍
Fleur, thank you for being honest about your body confidence. I am 32 weeks pregnant and have felt the same way about it all! I also don't know how anyone can eat healthy while pregnant, all I ever want now is carbs and sweets! I had my glucose tolerance test the same day as you, I thought that was kind of cool. I'm so glad you're doing these vlogs, it's extra fun for those of us who get to experience our pregnancies along with you!
Fleur! I have watched you for years. I love how composed and relaxed and mature you are. And now becoming a mother - your pregnancy posts are beautiful. So fun watching you guys in your journey over these months. Thank you for sharing!
Fleur, the baby's room is so adorable! You got such great style! Loving this journey with you and Mike.
Thanks :) It's been so fun shopping for things for it! xo
It makes me so happy to see how real and unapologetic you are regarding your feelings there is way too much pressure on bloggers to please everyone! I hope you get help with your hips / pelvis soon I'm going through the exact same thing and it does get you down. I would say tho if you're like me and hate painkillers, don't rule them out but keep it open for days when you want / need to get about and want to feel normal! I'm 28 weeks too, 29 on Monday btw 😁 I love your pregnancy vlogs so so much your nursery is perfect and you look so glowy you'd never tell you felt poorly xxx
Hi Fleur! I'm expecting a girl too and I'm 29 weeks pregnant now! I understand you so much. During the past few weeks my baby girl moves every single second of the day. I'm from Italy and here every relative in your family will say to you that you have to gain so much baby weight during pregnancy, but as a first time mum in her 20s I feel so insecure about my body and how it's changing. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one in this situation and watching your videos has made me feel so much better! I hope that Christmas will come early this year so I will finally have my little girl in my arms. You are beautiful and you are doing so well! Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us!
I'm 9 weeks pregnant, still keeping the secret (family and close friends now, but not everyone). I'm having my first ultrasound in two weeks. -So exciting! 😍 It's so nice to watch your pregnancy updates. It seems to me you just told everyone and now you are so close to your due date! ❤️
Its a great experience being pregnant i am currently 6 weeks pregnant with my 4th child and i must say its just amazing you will love it Fleur
I am 25 weeks along with a little girl and feel the exact same as you about my weight. I know it's healthy, but after a lifetime of weight gain consciousness it's hard to switch gears mentally. Especially when I've gained faster than the recommended pace. But I push all that to the back of my mind and focus on being healthy and enjoying this first (and surprise) pregnancy while I can. It is going by soooo quickly. Having been just a few weeks behind you since the beginning, I've appreciated your updates. 3rd trimester here we come!
I am 28 weeks and watching your video is exactly how i been. Cold all of this week, pelvic pain is awful, self conscious about my weight. Its hard work growing a baby x
Sweet Fleur I am so sorry you are having pelvic pains. I dealt with that with my last two pregnancies. It was debilitating. Praying your doctors can help you find relief. Also it will force you to slow down these next two months, which isn’t a bad thing dear! It’s getting you ready to purposely slow down and get to enjoy this new little miracle. Blessings to you mama!! xo
Can't wait to see your little one. Our 2nd is due in 4 weeks via c-sec, and I have suffered from very bad pelvic pain disorder both times, but have found enormous relief from a chiropractor once or twice a week, especially in this 3rd trimester. I dont think I'd be walking some days without him. Tube grip supports for bump are the best too which you can get from your physio. Good luck and congrats. xx
I had SPD from around 24 weeks and it was bloody painful. I was working full time as a nurse and the only two things that got me through were a support belt and seeing a chiro. The issue wasn’t fixed but was definitely more manageable. You are almost in the single digit countdown, so exciting. My little boy turned 5 months today... I feel like I was in your position yesterday!
I'm not pregnant and I'm not fond of kids but I love your reaction to your pregnancy. The colour scheme of everything and how you're still incorporating yourself into the style of the nursery and your daughters clothes :) it's easy and fun for those of us not pregnant to watch because of that 😊 I am super duper happy for you and you look amazingly beautiful! I really enjoy these updates!!!! Xxx
Oh a cold and pregnancy is no fun. I feel your pain. I am 21 weeks and have been fighting a cold all week! Hope you feel better. Can’t wait to see the finished nursery and hear the name of your sweet baby girl 💚
Hi Fleur, I've been watching your videos for years and it was so exciting to find out you were pregnant at the same time as me. I am 29 weeks, and I'm feeling big. I'm 4'11" and I have also been having pelvic pain issues. I have been going to chiro which has really helped. I completely understand about the ups and downs with weight gain. In my youth I was over weight, and seeing myself pack on the pounds is really difficult. I too need all the carbs right now, and I am trying really hard to have a positive attitude about the whole thing. I oscillate between "it's ok, my body needs to do what it needs to do to grow this baby" to "OMG is that really what my thighs look like right now." I think generally as women we put a lot of pressure on ourselves to be perfect in all aspects of our lives, and I'm trying to remember that at the end of this pregnancy journey I get to have a baby girl.
I'm really enjoying your pregnancy videos: you're beautiful inside and out and I look forward to your next update.
Hi Fleur, long-term subscriber since 2010 here! I am 28 weeks tomorrow (first time for me too, a boy!) and it’s been so good to watch these updates and ‘progress’ alongside you. I’m so glad that things have mostly been going really well for you. Fortunately it’s been similar for me! Got to agree about the weight gain thing, so many people don’t get it, and it’s refreshing to hear you say what I am feeling too. You are looking amazing, and I’m looking forward to your next upload!
I’m 30 weeks pregnant and I totally understand what you’re saying when you talked about body confidence. It’s not so easy because your body changes so fast, but it’s of course worth it. Hope you get through the rest of your pregnancy still feeling good and you have a healthy baby 😊
I LOVE the play gym! Ps eat all of the carbs girl! I ate so many french fries during my last pregnancy and baby and I ended up just fine :) don't beat yourself up, you look beautiful!
Thank you for being open and honest about the body struggles of being pregnant and how hard it can be with the mentality of gaining weight. I loved being pregnant but had a hard time as well with the idea of gaining weight even though it wasn't necessarily all going to me. Best of luck with this last push - my little mr is 7 months so it's lovely to reminisce on this time by watching you 💕.
I'm not currently pregnant but gave birth to my first child, a little girl, in July. I'm loving these updates as it's reminding me of my pregnancy - both the good and bad parts. The next 12 weeks or so will fly by! Good luck x
Hi Fleur. I've just hit 24 weeks with my baby boy. Its all becoming so real now, its exciting but scary! You are looking so blooming. She is going to be a beautiful little girl 😊 xx
I cannot wait to be around where you are! I'm 11 weeks and STILL vomiting numerous times a day with constant nausea when I'm not. You're a lucky preggo ❤️
Love Fleur's kind voice. I pray that you will have an easy delivery.
Your nursery is absolutely beautiful! You definitely have that pregnancy glow to you too ! So Excited for baby Deforce to arrive ! ❤😘
I know some Mummys-to-be dislike being described as "radiant" or "glowing", but you really are beautifully radiant and glowing! i hope the remaining time being pregnant is smooth sailing and enjoyable. So happy for you :) x
Fleur, I'm 29 weeks pregnant and love your updates!
I have had pelvic girdle pain since about week 24. It is so painful😟Physio makes a huge difference though and whilst it's painful during the session I get huge relief from it after a day or two. It's definitely worth looking into. Your consultant will probably be able to recommend a physio that specialises in PGP.
Hope you get some relief soon x
14 + 5 - I don’t really know anyone who is pregnant. I am loving how much better I feel in the second trimester. Hated the first and was dreading it being that way for the whole pregnancy! xx
Love your honesty, and by the way you look fantastic pregnant you really have no extra weight only bump xx
Also, I just wanted to say I find your pregnancy updates really interesting. I'm not pregnant nor have I been but I find the information you give is very interesting, rather than just baloney that I've seen elsewhere on RUclips.
You've never been more beautiful! Please never stop RUclips. I'm your #1 fan.
Same feeling. My baby’s movements have changed drastically the last week. I can tell that the baby has grown sooo much 😍 enjoy your pregnancy. I also found that a third friend of mine is also pregnant 😍☺️
It’s a good and healthy thing to see that sweet baby growing. That is just as it should be. Throughout life, we all find that there are different faces of beauty. Being pregnant has its own beauty, and it shows on your happy face. In my experience, women have an eating style and body type that reassert themselves after the baby is born. Just attend to eating when you are hungry and you will be back to yourself at just the right time. Love your pregnancy updates!!
I’m almost 25weeks pregnant with twins. I’ve been put on modified bedrest so that’s been tough. Due first week of Feb but they will probably be here first couple weeks of January. Feeling massive!
That top looks lovely on you!
That corner where her little cot is has got to be the loveliest part of any babyroom I have ever seen so far
I am 31 weeks pregnant today - I finish work on Wednesday and am so excited. This is baby number 2 for us but I have waited 6 years between my boys. Part of the wait was I had weight loss surgery 2 years ago so had to wait for approval so I absolutely understand where you are in regards to your weight - this is the first time in 4 years I have gained a pound and it a complete mind game to try and stop the “dieting” mentality kicking in. I am under full supervision of my surgical team and they are more than happy with the weight I have gained but I am not enjoying that part of the pregnancy this time around
I'm 28 weeks pregnant with a little girl! I'm so excited! I know what you mean about the way she moves changing, I've noticed the same. I really like the skip hop play mat you've got. It looks way more interesting than the one I chose (I've put it on my wish list now). I love your update videos, as I don't have any pregnant friends! Take care! xxxx
Yes! Agree with everything you’re saying. I’m 27 weeks as the movements have definitely changed. Like it spooks me a bit with the movements as they feel so different like a roll right under the skin rather than little knocks and kicks! Xx
this is my second pregnancy.. pregnant with my second boy:) Twenty weeks pregnant-half way!! Love watching your vlogs and reminiscing about the uncertainties of when I was first pregnant. You're doing great!
Just watching all your videos now i'm pregnant , i have currently suffering with pelvic girdle pain and some days its hard to even walk so i know what you had to go through. I never watched many videos when you was pregnant as i liked to think i would watch them when i am, and lucky enough here i am. River is so lucky to have such wonderful parents. Merry Christmas fleur and mike and the of course all the pet clan! xx
I think the thing is with the last trimester is it does draaaaaag! Listen to your body, eat what you want and get as much rest as you can. Body image is always a sensitive issue and even when everyone says “you look lovely” you can end up looking at the negatives in the mirror. You are looking really good with totally glowing skin and hair! You’re carrying a very precious baby so relax, try and get comfortable and enjoy the countdown.......life will never be the same🤗 it’s so exciting!! X
23weeks this Sunday! Love love love your updates. Really nice to share the journey! You look great... it’s so so surreal isn’t it!!!???? X
Don't feel bad about the weight thing. I fell pregnant while recovering from anorexia, and felt so awfully guilty about worrying about my weight. It is normal. I am now 27 weeks and although it is a struggle, I have never loved my body more for giving me this wonderful gift when I was at my most vulnerable state.
So excited for you Fleur, she's going to be here so soon! I'm 14 weeks now. It's been great to have your updates and see what I can expect later on. Feeling good now so long may it continue! Your nursery is lovely 😍 X
love rewatching these now that I am expecting my first baby. Thanks for posting these!
The nursery looks lovely Fleur, I'm 38 weeks pregnant, the time will fly from 30 weeks onwards x
My daughter has the big grey bunny on the shelf!
She loves it!
She cuddles with it when she’s sick! 💕
I know that I keep saying this, but I love everything you’ve been getting for the baby! I always loved your style anyway so it’s no surprise that I absolutely love everything. So happy for you and mike!
Can't wait to meet baby de force!!! You are glowing fluer! You look great, don't stress!
Hair is stunning
Omg Fleur Im so excited for you and Mike!! Don't worry about your weight just enjoy being pregnant you are truly beautiful and glowing! The weight will drop off you when the baby arrives you'll be so busy. So lovely to see you so happy...love all your baby stuff too. Im 40 and my son is now 17..feels like such a long time ago. Good luck! xx
I felt the exact same way re movements recently!! It's like you can feel their foot/head/hands sticking into your ribs!! It's crazy!! Best of luck with the rest of your pregnancy!! Ps I've been converted from my beloved Lingering MAC pencil to yours!! It's brilliant! Keep well xx
I'm 26 weeks and your videos are just so lovely and reassuring! We seem to be going through similar emotions which makes me feel so much better as I'm the first of my friends to have a baby and I'm not too sure what to expect. You look fab too by the way ☺️ xxx
I’m currently 27 weeks almost 28 weeks with a baby girl and I am having the exact same experience as you. My entire pregnancy has been very smooth except this last week. My issue isn’t a pelvis issue though. It’s another third trimester issue but it’s quite annoying! I also have notice this week that I can feel her movements and there are sharp protruding things on my stomach that I assume are her feet or elbows which also move after i touch them. And I have also been having lots of body issues these last few weeks as well and when I complain about it everyone keep telling me I’m pregnant I’m suppose to gain weight. That’s not what worries me, what worries me is how fast I am gaining the weight. I’ve already gained 30 pounds! It’s so great to hear about someone else’s experience that is going through the same things as me! Good luck with everything!
I've loved being able to follow your journey and how similar our experiences have been... I'm now 30 weeks and I'm feeling so impatient, I just can't wait for Christmas to begin then it'll be really exciting! 🎅🏼🎄👶🏻
I’m really enjoying your pregnancy updates. I think you look just lovely as you progress through the months.
My Bub is 9 weeks now. I absolutely hated my pregnancy other than feeling my boy kick and move around. I had GD and I gained quite a bit of a weight so I felt horrible. Don’t let people bully you into thinking it’s not normal to feel crappy at times during pregnancy. But once you have had Bub it’ll all be worth it!! ❤️❤️ you’re going to be an amazing mumma
Currently writing this as I’m watching! I’m also 28weeks! (I think we have a similar due date) and feeling exactly the same! Luckily I didn’t have to have the glucose test but I’ve heard it isn’t as bad as most make out! Very excited to be “sharing” my journey with you!! Xx
I’m 29 weeks too and totally with you on the movement changing this week, there’s times where she sits in such an uncomfortable position and defo feel knees, elbows etc sticking out now! I’ve also had the best pregnancy this time, I think it must be girls!!
Love the sleepsuit from next, will add that to my shopping list!! X
love to see ur pregnancy updates I am waching ur vlogs for four years almost n watching you people growing as a family is best thing ever best wishes for the baby n her mum dad
You look so fantastic and so happy! I love seeing these updates. Also, just my two cents - for some reason, it seems that people assume women become 100% selfless when they become pregnant. Like, "why should you be uncomfortable about diet and weight gain? It's for the baby!" You're still Fleur, and now you're Fleur as a mother. You are obviously taking care of yourself and loving your daughter so much before everyone else can meet her. Pregnancy doesn't mean that your own thoughts and insecurities go away... the idea of that drives me bonkers. Congrats to you and Mike!