'We had a blissful marriage when I was employed but now my wife doesn't even want intimacy with me'

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  • Опубликовано: 25 июл 2024
  • We had a blissful marriage when I was working and providing for my family. But after I lost my job, my wife has lost her respect for me. she shouts at me, insults and is no longer interested in being intimate with me. Should I leave the marriage?
    #themarriagecoach

Комментарии • 44

  • @elischege39
    @elischege39 Год назад +3

    This mama makes my day, i have fallen in love with her..cant get enough of her content, Monica ensure she is always here for mafans
    Anagonga ilivyo

  • @rosemarykamau7074
    @rosemarykamau7074 Год назад +5

    Am a silent follower but today I want to comment..I can listen to this lady the whole day..good job metha ya kagoni👏

  • @sarahmuraya1385
    @sarahmuraya1385 Год назад +6

    I will treat him the way he treated me when he was working.

  • @iremwa776
    @iremwa776 Год назад

    Very powerful topic, keep them coming, I love you both 🙏❤️

  • @marymugwe7150
    @marymugwe7150 Год назад +4

    I love this lady. I can listen to her all day.

  • @marywachira8872
    @marywachira8872 Год назад

    Woow.....I love,love these great ladies.......great information 🙏🙏🙏

  • @maryw.ruhohi1141
    @maryw.ruhohi1141 Год назад +5

    This lady has inspired me alot. Thanks Monicah for bringing her on board.👌

  • @blessedmama5367
    @blessedmama5367 Год назад +10

    mmmh!! not unless I hear from both husband and wife life when the husband was working and after he lost job . Many men won’t even have time to be home in the evening to bond with the children before they sleep … mostly they go ng’ethiaring at the shops centers only to go home when the children are sleeping then ask for the food which he even doesn’t know how it arrived in the plate .

  • @kimanijohn6883
    @kimanijohn6883 Год назад

    V V bright, inspiring & not mention submitting

  • @janewangarinduta9235
    @janewangarinduta9235 Год назад

    This lady is so blessed interms of marriage , may God bless her

  • @annmacharia9069
    @annmacharia9069 Год назад +2

    I love Wakiamas sense of humor.

  • @nancywachira6156
    @nancywachira6156 Год назад

    I can't get enough of Wanjiru wa Kiama. Good advice 👍

  • @monicamaprecious
    @monicamaprecious Год назад

    @Monica Kagoni..I do love your show.. especially marriage coach with mwalimu..may God continue to bless you and expand your territories 🙏

  • @suzyben9643
    @suzyben9643 Год назад

    Hahaaaa.....its my first time to listen to this amazing Counsellor.. I can listen to her anytime

  • @wangugithure5570
    @wangugithure5570 Год назад

    Monica Kagoni and Mrs Kiama kudos for a well job done. Yes kindly talk about how the various disorders that people have and how they affect their marriage. We have people who have narcissim and bipolar. Kindly talk about this in lenght.

  • @beatricewamaitha3427
    @beatricewamaitha3427 Год назад

    love this lady. Kwanza her laughter🤣🤣🤣

  • @karimimiriti3827
    @karimimiriti3827 Год назад

    The real talk with much wisdom and worthy to listen too
    Hau kumbwo mutumia agatuika nyakang’a rii hena jet my friend derikaga uhoro arumaga murume ta kihii
    No Ngai atuiguire thaa

  • @loisenjeri8366
    @loisenjeri8366 Год назад

    Good advice wakiama

  • @karuemaina1229
    @karuemaina1229 Год назад

    Wife is the crown....!

  • @davidmungai5329
    @davidmungai5329 Год назад

    I provide her with everything and never ask for any help from the little she gets from her biz,but she has gone far to a point of cheating on me with a guy who doesn’t even pay for her fare..nisaidieni

  • @carol_j
    @carol_j Год назад +2

    Wakiama my high school teacher,.. I love you. I can listen to you all day

  • @paulinenyambura3517
    @paulinenyambura3517 Год назад +1

    My favourite

  • @mainaann4493
    @mainaann4493 Год назад +1

    I love wakiama

  • @njurukarongo6391
    @njurukarongo6391 Год назад +2

    I can listen to this lady all the time 😅😅😅

  • @gracewairimu937
    @gracewairimu937 Год назад

    Sometimes silence is the best way and if you can’t handle the stress walk away . By the time a woman acts a certain way listen to the story it comes from somewhere .

  • @magoshlawrence3193
    @magoshlawrence3193 Год назад

    Kagoni i have a story to share

  • @JK-oy7sy
    @JK-oy7sy Год назад

    She is soo funny

  • @khadijahnjeri.9905
    @khadijahnjeri.9905 Год назад

    God created the man as the provider of the family..when these roles are reversed it becomes very difficult to manage a family...most of come we stays are being referred to as marriages and when sound advice that is supposed to work doesn't work..we wonder why?? A man obtains favor from God when he finds a wife..this only happens when a marriage covenant is done not a come we stay.

  • @hannahwanjiku8646
    @hannahwanjiku8646 Год назад +5

    Mimi Niko job though Haina mshahara kubwa nimejaribu kufanya Kila kitu Kwa nyumba sasa tuko na nyumba ya kujenga nanunua material ukimwambia afanye kitu kidogo hataki anaeza shida Kwa nyumba amelala akienda kwenye anaendanga pesa ya food hatumi halipi school fees sa mi naona ka ananitumia sijielewi ju Mimi nampenda sana nisaindieni please

    • @blessedmama5367
      @blessedmama5367 Год назад +4

      Things of marriage and love nobody can help you … if you’ve seen all the negativity in him yet you choose to stay because of love , then nothing else can make any difference … There must be something good in him that makes you love him and that’s all that matters in any relationship plus and minus alpha 💕

    • @123keniakiki
      @123keniakiki Год назад

      You are a fool, simple. If your mate doesn’t pull his weight dump him like yesterday’s garbage.

    • @annemuthoni1781
      @annemuthoni1781 Год назад

      Alikusoma akakuelewa... was in such a relationship where I took everything on my shoulders but I finally chose me, I decided to leave but it wasn't easy, am still healing, have started from zero

    • @wawaweru2955
      @wawaweru2955 Год назад

      Same here some men not all want to be carried.

  • @beatricenjeri740
    @beatricenjeri740 Год назад

    I love the conversation

    • @milkahnjeri1909
      @milkahnjeri1909 Год назад

      Na ikiwa hakuwa anapatikana wakati ako na pesa na kazi lakini wakati amesota ndio anarudi.

  • @fidelliswambui6217
    @fidelliswambui6217 Год назад

    How do you deal with a bipolar spouse?

    • @marinzee8615
      @marinzee8615 Год назад

      Get them treated, bipolar doesn't have a cure but can be managed. Mathare Hospital has great services and consolation is 200 bob. However, you need to have an honest conversation with your partner since when people hear Mathare they think it's just for crazy people.

  • @margaretkaranja1864
    @margaretkaranja1864 Год назад +1

    It all depends on how he treated me when he was working. Tit for Tat is a very fair game. Period

  • @irenejoyce8456
    @irenejoyce8456 Год назад

    I usually agree with only 20% of what this lady says. Sometimes she’s very toxic and gives horrible advise! Tbh!

    • @COUNSELOR_WANJIRU_KIAMA
      @COUNSELOR_WANJIRU_KIAMA Год назад

      I respect your feeling, but see a counselor coz you have unfinished businesses with most issues. Toxic is very negative.

    • @kimanijohn6883
      @kimanijohn6883 Год назад

      The reason is ure a culprit ;arrogance may be what's brewing in ure head ,eventually since ure ego is v negative towards ure husband & in this world nothing lasts for ever !and things may turn around