Anyone who keeps pursuing someone who doesn’t view them as a priority is either desperate or doesn’t have self respect. I’m glad I grew out of this. PS I’m glad I’m the first to comment.
@@soundidesign9653 Have you ever had a friend who constantly wanted to hang out but no matter how often you told them you couldn't or gave them hints that you didn't want to they still pursued? If you did you probably remember them being quite pathetic and lacked a great deal of self awareness. This is pretty much how the person who you're not a priority to views you. Obviously there are levels to how they view you but the longer you pursue them the worse it gets. Try not pursuing for a week and work on something for a couple of days and watch your power comeback. I like to view it as not being a pathetic shit instead of doing it for the soul purpose of getting their attention. Who knows you may not even want their attention afterwards.
Well also brainwashing. How many 'game' videos do you see telling people to be their own priority and never show someone they are that important. People will genuinely ignore you just to say they don't care when deep down they might really want to be texting you right now men are taught to do this to women and women are taught to not reach out until he chases. It leads to a world of people showing they don't give a shit. Sometimes it's genuine but sometimes it's a game and the people chasing are trying to find out which is which before giving up. Everytime I have been in a dating context I always get ignored for hours or even two days. Anything outside of that even a coworker not talking about work I can get responses fairly quickly. But if you mention this you are called needy.
You can get a grad degree anywhere. Women will use moving away for “school” or “career” as a way to proactively end the relationship. Her mind was made up months ago.
I've slipped up many times, you just gotta get better each time. Dont beat yourself up if you slip up again and again. Just do your best to learn from it
It's obvious that she wasn't that into him despite him having it all together financially. She wasn't proud to be with him, you want to be with people that are proud to be with you.
If a woman is interested in you she will call you all the freaking time almost to the point where it’s annoying. You never have to call her, honestly. Mine was looking at grad school and found one about eight hours away, she almost knew that that wasn’t a good idea and started apply to every single college close to us and got in. It’s funny because when Cory was talking about her moving away to college, my first thought was well that’s not what happens in the movies, but Cory teaches us not to look at that as reality.
"Hi Coach. Last week I found out my wife's plane crashed in the Atlantic Ocean. Upon hearing the news I immediately picked up the phone to check if she's alright. No answer" Coach: See, what this guy does is he hasn't read the book 10-15 times and now he's basically overpursuing. C'mon man. If she's not dead she'll call you back otherwise she clearly lost interest. Go out have fun and hook up
It seemed like his "gf" got everything she wanted out of him in the beginning. She got the sex, the romance, and the free rides. He failed to realize her interest level because he was too busy trying to please her and pursuit her, taking her out on lavish dates, leaving little mystery. In other words, he became an open book immediately. All the things that turned the girl on such as mystery and uncertainty were diminished with all his actions. She essentially had him by the balls, if you will. Great video Coach, maintaining relationships and seduction are two separate sciences altogether. The man was a renowned Scientist, yet when it comes to maintaining relationships, he's but a student.
I think she was genuinely attracted to the idea and mystique of him at the beginning. Once she got to know him better, that all faded. She is at a stage in her life when she wants to experiment and experience. Find out what she likes before settling. Perfectly normal and nothing to take personally.
@@thomasburres Yeah, but it was super shallow in the relationship described here. She seemed to have only the faintest glimmer of attraction for him which faded immediately once they hooked up and he got real clingy. I feel like this is more common with younger people. They're not looking for anything too deep or involved like the letter writer was. More mature people (like after 27 or so) tend to have fewer options so they usually try harder to make relationships work even after the sex buzz has worn off.
No, she was just messing with him. She wasn't honest about what she wanted they were in a 2-year relationship but she acted single. To say don't take it personally is ridiculously she didn't even say I love you after 2 years together. Would you not take it personally if you were in his shoes? He was just a fuckbuddy and she decided to lead him on instead of just being honest with him.
@@WillHoward2002 I agree that she was just messing with him...not saying that's a good thing or he deserved it, but it's also pretty common behavior for young people. He shouldn't take it personally bc it's more about HER not being ready for a relationship than HIM being a bad guy.
@@thomasburres women are very fickled in all aspects especially if they dated a lot of men..! then they are damaged they don't know which is up down north east west or south all's I know is the sun comes up in the East and settles in the West🌞
Idk Corey veterinary school is a big deal. You go where you get accepted. She’d been planning that for years - definitely since before she met our guy with the email. You don’t just randomly decide to become a veterinarian one day and then go. Should we want to be with people who give up on their dreams for us?
If she's staring at you and it feels weird just roll your eyes and smirk. That will mess up whatever strategy she had going. She doesn't know if you're humiliating her or just messing with her. The smirk let's her know it's not humiliation but the eye roll let's her know to get real with the stare down. Lesson learned if you're dating a girl in college and she behaves this way it's normal behavior. She just doesn't find you desirable enough to want you to lock her down. Just move on and don't dwell on it.
One thing about veterinary schools is there aren't many. In Florida I believe UF offers the only one and many other states only have one college with such a program. Plus anyone earning a medical degree typically mortgages their life while in school.
Sometimes the truth hurts but with pain comes growth.18, no job, no money, Guy with money and a nice car snatched up my girlfriend. Learned a lesson that day.
Wow! Similar to my experience and I have read it that much, being Dyslexic I think maybe 20 times will be better. My BF said "I Love You" in text but never really told me without me instigating it, I created the idea and sold myself on it. Thanks for this I now will dissect the relationship and look at where the mistakes were made on my part, I know earlier there were flags and it cost me a great deal not acting to end it earlier.
Just for a different take on this, as a woman who is also an introvert, I think she might have been *highly interested* in him that whole first year. But you can't spend your entire life going to the beach or riding around on someone's motorcycle, And when she finally said she was thinking of going away to school, his response was, "Good for you! Great." What was she supposed to think? And no, I wouldn't have introduced him to my family, anyway, with the relationship status so up in the air that first year, however much fun it was.
One thing to consider for this particular case is that there are only 2 Vet schools in the entire country, one being Cornell and the fact she even got in is a miracle so it’s actually possible she loved him etc…I’m only half through the video so will find out if she even asked him if he wanted to go along for the ride lol
Men are visual creatures and women fall in love slower. If you do everything right and do the 3 Hs you can dick her down to the point she falls in love regardless of how much you make if she’s attracted to you enough.
@@timgibney5590 there is no such thing as an alpha or a Chad . There is a such thing a child like mind that's inside a woman's head. . She lives in her head And no man can compete with a delusional child ,her emotional play mate(dog) that makes her feel happy. Everything is always our fault & nothing is ever her's or the play mate's.(dog) this is not a complaint sir this is a pathetic fact . Women are children .
She just wasn't into you. When the attraction of you being well off and having money wore off, she wasn't feeling it. She turned you into a male orbiter and you didn't realize it. Pick up and move on sir. This was over way earlier than you realized it. It sucks but it's a process.
Yea,. the guy didn't want to face reality. However; it seems he did at the end. The woman pursued her desire to be a Vet/go to Vet school. There aren't many decent Vet schools, so it's just a bad situation. She would have resented him if she stayed and didn't go.
Occam's razor - they talked on the phone too much instead of spending time together every other week as Corey suggested. That's what lowered her interest. Phones are for setting dates, even if it's LDR. Constant phone contact means the anticipation to see each other is no longer there.
I think this guy was definitely higher value than her but he over pursued her the whole time. Probably suited her to continue. Eventually his over pursuing was a turn off for her
How many times do you guys think you would need to go through the book if your only using the audio version in order to have everything in the book committed to memory? I know everyone's different my memory is a little on the bad side lol 30 times maybe?
I don't think that coach understands that the gripe over paying for dates is because its a traditional expectation from women who are anything but traditional. Women want traditional only when it benefits them.
Is it just me or there are adds like every 5 minutes during the video? Damn is so annoying ... even like skipping them after 5 seconds the count down takes like 10...so annoying
In regards to posting on social media, my girl said she doesn’t share her relationship information on social media, Facebook. She said she never has never will. Although when we are together and out in public, she is all over me physically. Should this be an issue?
Wait, but what about your ex-girlfriend who you used to date that moved away as well which you wrote about in your book ? Doesn’t the same rule apply or is it different since you two weren’t committed to getting married ? ( not pointing fingers, just asking )
Anyone who keeps pursuing someone who doesn’t view them as a priority is either desperate or doesn’t have self respect. I’m glad I grew out of this. PS I’m glad I’m the first to comment.
How did you ge tout of it? I am strugglong
@@soundidesign9653 focus on you and the rest will come in time maybe not with the one your looking at right now but will come with someone even better
💯💯💯💯
@@soundidesign9653 Have you ever had a friend who constantly wanted to hang out but no matter how often you told them you couldn't or gave them hints that you didn't want to they still pursued? If you did you probably remember them being quite pathetic and lacked a great deal of self awareness. This is pretty much how the person who you're not a priority to views you. Obviously there are levels to how they view you but the longer you pursue them the worse it gets.
Try not pursuing for a week and work on something for a couple of days and watch your power comeback. I like to view it as not being a pathetic shit instead of doing it for the soul purpose of getting their attention.
Who knows you may not even want their attention afterwards.
Well also brainwashing. How many 'game' videos do you see telling people to be their own priority and never show someone they are that important. People will genuinely ignore you just to say they don't care when deep down they might really want to be texting you right now men are taught to do this to women and women are taught to not reach out until he chases. It leads to a world of people showing they don't give a shit. Sometimes it's genuine but sometimes it's a game and the people chasing are trying to find out which is which before giving up. Everytime I have been in a dating context I always get ignored for hours or even two days. Anything outside of that even a coworker not talking about work I can get responses fairly quickly. But if you mention this you are called needy.
You can get a grad degree anywhere. Women will use moving away for “school” or “career” as a way to proactively end the relationship. Her mind was made up months ago.
Or to move thinking she can restart her body count. Ok I won’t be toxic.
@@Nick-ue9of I concur
@@Nick-ue9of lol to move to 'restart' her body count, wow - lmao so i guess every state or country is a 'new' beginning or a born again virgin 😄
@@Nick-ue9of w
Once you learn this the HARD WAY you'll never slip up again. (I hope)
It's the most eye opening experience in my overall dating tales.
I've slipped up many times, you just gotta get better each time. Dont beat yourself up if you slip up again and again. Just do your best to learn from it
@@alexwatts9515 took me 3 times, the last one was the hardest.
You do...😅
It's obvious that she wasn't that into him despite him having it all together financially. She wasn't proud to be with him, you want to be with people that are proud to be with you.
I don't really see this mentioned enough. You need to make sure you're with somebody that makes you feel like your showing off and vice versa.
money doesn't mean anything
It's good to hear Chad Thundercock has decided to go to university and get himself an education.
If a woman is interested in you she will call you all the freaking time almost to the point where it’s annoying. You never have to call her, honestly. Mine was looking at grad school and found one about eight hours away, she almost knew that that wasn’t a good idea and started apply to every single college close to us and got in.
It’s funny because when Cory was talking about her moving away to college, my first thought was well that’s not what happens in the movies, but Cory teaches us not to look at that as reality.
I would never do this, even if I was really interested in someone.....just FYI for the men :)
@@RachelGerrard that’s why you single
"Hi Coach. Last week I found out my wife's plane crashed in the Atlantic Ocean. Upon hearing the news I immediately picked up the phone to check if she's alright. No answer"
Coach: See, what this guy does is he hasn't read the book 10-15 times and now he's basically overpursuing.
C'mon man. If she's not dead she'll call you back otherwise she clearly lost interest. Go out have fun and hook up
😅😅. lmao
XD
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Fing lmao
😂😂😂
It seemed like his "gf" got everything she wanted out of him in the beginning. She got the sex, the romance, and the free rides.
He failed to realize her interest level because he was too busy trying to please her and pursuit her, taking her out on lavish dates,
leaving little mystery. In other words, he became an open book immediately. All the things that turned the girl on such as mystery
and uncertainty were diminished with all his actions. She essentially had him by the balls, if you will.
Great video Coach, maintaining relationships and seduction are two separate sciences altogether.
The man was a renowned Scientist, yet when it comes to maintaining relationships, he's but a student.
I think she was genuinely attracted to the idea and mystique of him at the beginning. Once she got to know him better, that all faded. She is at a stage in her life when she wants to experiment and experience. Find out what she likes before settling. Perfectly normal and nothing to take personally.
@@thomasburres Yeah, but it was super shallow in the relationship described here. She seemed to have only the faintest glimmer of attraction for him which faded immediately once they hooked up and he got real clingy. I feel like this is more common with younger people. They're not looking for anything too deep or involved like the letter writer was. More mature people (like after 27 or so) tend to have fewer options so they usually try harder to make relationships work even after the sex buzz has worn off.
No, she was just messing with him. She wasn't honest about what she wanted they were in a 2-year relationship but she acted single. To say don't take it personally is ridiculously she didn't even say I love you after 2 years together. Would you not take it personally if you were in his shoes? He was just a fuckbuddy and she decided to lead him on instead of just being honest with him.
@@WillHoward2002 I agree that she was just messing with him...not saying that's a good thing or he deserved it, but it's also pretty common behavior for young people. He shouldn't take it personally bc it's more about HER not being ready for a relationship than HIM being a bad guy.
@@thomasburres women are very fickled in all aspects especially if they dated a lot of men..! then they are damaged they don't know which is up down north east west or south all's I know is the sun comes up in the East and settles in the West🌞
This is god's work, thank you coach
Question: "Alcohol: Liquid Courage, or attraction killer?"
Answer: Yes.
Crazy how it works. For me personally it became a problem, it was either a full attraction thing or it just scared them away.
We love you Coach
That spider clearly over-pursued coach. He was just trying to hang out, have fun, and wrap you up
🤣😂😂
Idk Corey veterinary school is a big deal. You go where you get accepted. She’d been planning that for years - definitely since before she met our guy with the email. You don’t just randomly decide to become a veterinarian one day and then go. Should we want to be with people who give up on their dreams for us?
If she's staring at you and it feels weird just roll your eyes and smirk. That will mess up whatever strategy she had going. She doesn't know if you're humiliating her or just messing with her. The smirk let's her know it's not humiliation but the eye roll let's her know to get real with the stare down. Lesson learned if you're dating a girl in college and she behaves this way it's normal behavior. She just doesn't find you desirable enough to want you to lock her down. Just move on and don't dwell on it.
That’s the first time a cameo in your videos ever occurred. You were so close to being Spider-Corey.
U look fantastic coach.
One thing about veterinary schools is there aren't many. In Florida I believe UF offers the only one and many other states only have one college with such a program. Plus anyone earning a medical degree typically mortgages their life while in school.
Sometimes the truth hurts but with pain comes growth.18, no job, no money, Guy with money and a nice car snatched up my girlfriend. Learned a lesson that day.
Wow! Similar to my experience and I have read it that much, being Dyslexic I think maybe 20 times will be better. My BF said "I Love You" in text but never really told me without me instigating it, I created the idea and sold myself on it. Thanks for this I now will dissect the relationship and look at where the mistakes were made on my part, I know earlier there were flags and it cost me a great deal not acting to end it earlier.
Just for a different take on this, as a woman who is also an introvert, I think she might have been *highly interested* in him that whole first year. But you can't spend your entire life going to the beach or riding around on someone's motorcycle, And when she finally said she was thinking of going away to school, his response was, "Good for you! Great." What was she supposed to think? And no, I wouldn't have introduced him to my family, anyway, with the relationship status so up in the air that first year, however much fun it was.
One thing to consider for this particular case is that there are only 2 Vet schools in the entire country, one being Cornell and the fact she even got in is a miracle so it’s actually possible she loved him etc…I’m only half through the video so will find out if she even asked him if he wanted to go along for the ride lol
Women are looked at by men as a swimsuit magazine. men are looked at by women as a job application.
Men are visual creatures and women fall in love slower. If you do everything right and do the 3 Hs you can dick her down to the point she falls in love regardless of how much you make if she’s attracted to you enough.
@@timgibney5590 there is no such thing as an alpha or a Chad . There is a such thing a child like mind that's inside a woman's head. . She lives in her head
And no man can compete with a delusional child ,her emotional play mate(dog) that makes her feel happy. Everything is always our fault & nothing is ever her's or the play mate's.(dog) this is not a complaint sir this is a pathetic fact . Women are children .
She just wasn't into you. When the attraction of you being well off and having money wore off, she wasn't feeling it. She turned you into a male orbiter and you didn't realize it. Pick up
and move on sir. This was over way earlier than you realized it. It sucks but it's a process.
Yea,. the guy didn't want to face reality. However; it seems he did at the end. The woman pursued her desire to be a Vet/go to Vet school. There aren't many decent Vet schools, so it's just a bad situation. She would have resented him if she stayed and didn't go.
3:36 “Ay coach! Help! This chick with a red mark on her ass is trying eat me!!” 😆😆
The OG backdrop and blazer
Occam's razor - they talked on the phone too much instead of spending time together every other week as Corey suggested. That's what lowered her interest. Phones are for setting dates, even if it's LDR. Constant phone contact means the anticipation to see each other is no longer there.
it was already low before the phone calls
Listening to you is a pleasure and pain :-)
My problem is that she already planned the school she was gonna go into before we met. But we’re stupid over heels on each other ._.
19:04 Chad Thundercock at the University read the book. Hilarious
I haven’t followed instructions..
Where’s the music at the start? That is my mental pump up for the lesson
damn it's like this guy took a page out of my situation 🤦🏾♂️
I think this guy was definitely higher value than her but he over pursued her the whole time. Probably suited her to continue. Eventually his over pursuing was a turn off for her
How many times do you guys think you would need to go through the book if your only using the audio version in order to have everything in the book committed to memory? I know everyone's different my memory is a little on the bad side lol 30 times maybe?
Honestly probably bro or even more I’ve heard 11 times and still trying to get it lol
I'd suggest you do both. You read as you listen.
Coach corey looks great today
I don't think that coach understands that the gripe over paying for dates is because its a traditional expectation from women who are anything but traditional. Women want traditional only when it benefits them.
Is it just me or there are adds like every 5 minutes during the video? Damn is so annoying ... even like skipping them after 5 seconds the count down takes like 10...so annoying
That s why I use addblock
Thats why I loooove RUclips Premium 😉
We all have much to learn coach. 👍🏾
In regards to posting on social media, my girl said she doesn’t share her relationship information on social media, Facebook. She said she never has never will. Although when we are together and out in public, she is all over me physically. Should this be an issue?
google avoidant attachment
Good morning coach!
He should start dating other chics
Trusts me. She was not alone at school
I wonder if the spider is having relationship problems aswell!!
You killed the spider?!!!
The spider getting a front row seat
Women vote with their feet. (Doc Love: The System)
Wait, but what about your ex-girlfriend who you used to date that moved away as well which you wrote about in your book ? Doesn’t the same rule apply or is it different since you two weren’t committed to getting married ? ( not pointing fingers, just asking )
Spider wanted some tips too
Not that it matters, but is this an older vid or is this current? I cant tell because this dude doesn't age lol
The audience face lol!!
The more I watch the red pill guys, the more I realise they’re all rip offs of Corey Wayne but they’re riding the wave of the lucrative red pill 😂
COACH COULD YOU PLEASE STOP FOLLOWING MY LIFE? XD
One thing i don't understand, do you even get old coach? This last 10 years didn't leave not even a wrinkle on you
Coach still grinding before a hot date. Different kind of grinding later I hope..
Move on, It’s over. Read the book a few more times. Better to put your thoughts and energy into some other woman. The planet is full of them.
Simple solution who cares….life goes on there I saved you guy 20 minutes of your life…
It’s easy to say that when you’re not emotionally involved. This guy had 2 years with her and obviously liked her more that she liked him.
It's all in the numbers 🤔🧮📉📊