PROOF YOUR EX IS MISERABLE WITHOUT YOU!

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  • @olesiah24
    @olesiah24 Год назад +125

    Wow, he's the perfect example of what he is speaking of, i guess that is why he's so convincing.

  • @ogriss412
    @ogriss412 Год назад +212

    It’s amazing that he speaks on himself to these women and they still follow him

    • @RaeRaeDaGr81
      @RaeRaeDaGr81 Год назад +21

      Literally. It’s mind boggling

    • @kimmie1377
      @kimmie1377 Год назад +5

      Smdh

    • @penwrites6006
      @penwrites6006 Год назад +86

      Is he not speaking facts?
      Do you deliberately ignore truth because it's spoken by someone who did wrong? That in itself makes no sense.

    • @tierralewis8506
      @tierralewis8506 Год назад +4

      I agree with you.

    • @COOKNSOLES
      @COOKNSOLES Год назад +6

      No, women are attracted to power no matter who its attached too.

  • @ladyvee01anderson54
    @ladyvee01anderson54 Год назад +70

    Some ex's are coming back 😮 for revenge
    Don't give them no chance. Go heal work on urself cause there's nothing like self ❤

  • @beckysouthlondon
    @beckysouthlondon 9 месяцев назад +3

    Out of all the people on the net I fully listened to a full video of yours yesterday and it truly helped me. Thank you

  • @cynthiahernandez1676
    @cynthiahernandez1676 6 месяцев назад +5

    Ladies, whether he is speaking about himself, you’re still hearing him out and he’s talking about nothing but the TRUTH! I will keep listening to him because the TRUTH he is speaking makes me stronger and open my eyes more and more. No one is perfect Thank you BIG BROTHER! ❤️

  • @HealingDiviniTea
    @HealingDiviniTea Год назад +14

    My internet Brotha!!! I am tearful... This expression was so Sincere... Heart felt... And moved me to tears therefore I am letting go & healing the hurt... Thank you for speaking your truth so your internet Sistas can receive the clarity needed for healing the past and setting boundaries for growth and forward movement towards higher love and peace within 🙏

  • @imspecial2286
    @imspecial2286 Год назад +81

    Enough said. So true.
    Real Talk... He only wants you back for you to entertain him. He hates he lost you. So Ladie s, please think with your head and not with your heart.😊😊

    • @marshianthony6181
      @marshianthony6181 Год назад +4

      You have to use both. Especially since relationships are heart felt and emotions.

  • @chelles5184
    @chelles5184 10 месяцев назад +4

    This was awesome you hit it right on the head!!! Wow!!!

  • @lorraineolivera24
    @lorraineolivera24 Год назад +75

    I just pray the TRUTH is revealed

  • @lorraineolivera24
    @lorraineolivera24 Год назад +22

    DAM U NAILED THIS ONE!!! THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED

  • @rondanatan6198
    @rondanatan6198 Год назад +35

    You articulated it very well!!! That was my ex’s behavior point by point that you made.

  • @denisealex213
    @denisealex213 Год назад +14

    Wow- Blk women worship for Blk men never cease to amaze me.

  • @TheNeen9
    @TheNeen9 Год назад +5

    So glad I found your channel! You’re preaching sir! 🔥

  • @antoinettebulatao2299
    @antoinettebulatao2299 9 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you so much for this wonderful video. I enjoy your videos very much more than you know thank you for helping me from day one as I was going through the pain and suffering from this narcissistic person who constantly lied, gaslight breadcrumb, and just used me for my empathy and loving heart, thank you

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 Год назад +25

    I sent this to my sister cause she needed this

    • @latashahumphrey769
      @latashahumphrey769 Год назад +5

      She started dating and her ex husband was pissed he called my mom in a rage but he left her. So I thought she would want to see this

  • @Allthingslatanya
    @Allthingslatanya Год назад +25

    Well your Ex is not miserable without you. Especially after the video I saw this morning. You need to be looking in the mirror speaking these facts to yourself instead of your viewers.

  • @dwilliams5700
    @dwilliams5700 10 месяцев назад +2

    Your "thoughts" are spot on !!! Thanks again Derrick ❤

  • @arankagionetti2098
    @arankagionetti2098 Год назад +9

    The best part is the rebound girl she's the one who finish him!! I love it!

  • @sgrier5728
    @sgrier5728 Год назад +22

    Damn you nail this topic

  • @reneemassey-2827
    @reneemassey-2827 Год назад +9

    This video is on point!!!

  • @lifeupgradescoaching5560
    @lifeupgradescoaching5560 Год назад +31

    I had an ex that was married and wouldn’t leave me alone years after we split. I blocked him

  • @kimberleyann51
    @kimberleyann51 Год назад +20

    Mine never came back. He went right back online dating.

  • @nirosh2277
    @nirosh2277 8 месяцев назад +2

    I wish everyone was more into healing themselves and depending on them self and if something is out of your life just let it go and pray for the best for them .

  • @Sookie2513
    @Sookie2513 Год назад +38

    I am definitely guilty of the reacting part. I had never been so angry in any relationship in my life. I never put hands on him, but found myself being verbally abusive at times, which isn't any less hurtful, and feeling terrible afterwards. Emotionally and physically. I was becoming someone I didn't like. He had to go.

    • @yvonneyvonne8317
      @yvonneyvonne8317 Год назад +4

      Same! Everyone says I'm extremely sweet and kind.

    • @ebonyeyes6129
      @ebonyeyes6129 Месяц назад

      I did this. I didn't like it at all, but I was vocalizing how he made me feel.

    • @Sookie2513
      @Sookie2513 Месяц назад

      ​@@ebonyeyes6129❤ Did you feel like you were talking to a brick wall? That was the trigger that usually made me react badly.

  • @annetshine5080
    @annetshine5080 Год назад +3

    That is so true...I felt it and was always telling him that something dont feel right while in the relationship but I just could not tell what.Thank you

  • @arkitamichelle2770
    @arkitamichelle2770 Год назад +2

    Damn. That's some deep points. Are you talking about my ex?? Good job

  • @nikiyasanders2686
    @nikiyasanders2686 Год назад +2

    Thank you so much for this video very much needed keep speaking the truth

  • @remalewis6675
    @remalewis6675 Год назад +12

    His videos are always on point 👏👏

  • @dawnempress5014
    @dawnempress5014 Год назад +14

    Men are hard to read and us woman really beleive they have no feelings..this shows & helps us see they do thanku❤Derrik

  • @juliel9146
    @juliel9146 Год назад +11

    My story and you just told on him!! I pray “he’s HAPPY with the woman he left me for”. Jokes on him now. I’m at peace ☮️

  • @youngone1985
    @youngone1985 Год назад +54

    A criminal that tells folks how to prevent the crimes he commits. I guess, if it’s effective.

  • @BlakeBrittney-cy5vo
    @BlakeBrittney-cy5vo Год назад +3

    I love the fact that your so transparent

  • @AbiEsther
    @AbiEsther Год назад +11

    Yes he won’t leave me alone or give me time to heal

  • @JanelGreen-tc8zs
    @JanelGreen-tc8zs Год назад +5

    ABSOLUTELY TRUE!!! I've done this , and he did have the same BEHAVIORS!

  • @77mary23..
    @77mary23.. Год назад +11

    He slanders my name every day every day he has a new partner.

  • @valenciascott7193
    @valenciascott7193 11 месяцев назад +3

    I have definitely been there talking about me to who will listen to him

  • @Loni91
    @Loni91 Год назад +74

    Derrick telling on himself again… 🫨

  • @AJ-kb9hf
    @AJ-kb9hf Год назад +22

    He's tried to come back but I have not entertained it and won't. He needs someone on his level and me on mine. Enough said.

  • @thephillipsfamily3233
    @thephillipsfamily3233 Год назад +3

    Profound. Truly enjoyed this explanation! “I”

  • @sevrinedelannay9381
    @sevrinedelannay9381 Год назад +8

    been there with this ex trying to win be back but hidden his feelings i done with them kind of immature games

  • @elvirapajic3159
    @elvirapajic3159 Год назад +1

    Oh you know me, better than anyone else. Thank you. ❤
    Hugs from Germany. 🇩🇪

  • @tanartarichmond5615
    @tanartarichmond5615 Год назад +31

    I just broke up with my ex because he was still dealing with his (ex)!!

    • @Blsd1
      @Blsd1 Год назад +11

      They love having strings attached to others especially Xs

    • @reestillbloom
      @reestillbloom 8 месяцев назад +1

      ❤❤❤

  • @troyph269
    @troyph269 11 месяцев назад

    He’s truly falling apart now. While I feel sorry for him, I am tremendously pleased at my progress and the space I have created for myself; and I clearly stated that in no uncertain terms. Thank you for emphasizing the wisdom in acknowledging what happened, working through the emotions, and then rising above it. I did!!!

  • @mikacooke4747
    @mikacooke4747 Год назад +29

    Why do y’all still listen to this Narcissis

    • @CHSN-1
      @CHSN-1 11 месяцев назад

      t

    • @NiIa-bx4nu
      @NiIa-bx4nu 8 месяцев назад +1

      He's telling the truth..

    • @deltv5937
      @deltv5937 7 месяцев назад

      You're listening to him too because you're here

    • @stephainevaughn6252
      @stephainevaughn6252 6 месяцев назад

      He telling the truth

  • @debradorsey153
    @debradorsey153 Год назад +8

    Some people have hearts of stone , some people are up to no good , I love that song by the Dramatics true story

  • @SamiraWyld
    @SamiraWyld Год назад +8

    This is so good. Thank you 💜

  • @LSP-wc4od
    @LSP-wc4od Год назад +4

    Yeah, this fella Love Bombed me , talked TRASH about his EX, then Dismissed me & tells me He loved his Ex dearly - so I was just a HAPLESS REBOUND Victim. Great video- he SABOTAGED OUR RLSHIP & LED ME TO GO OFF on him , he needs to grow up and become ACCOUNTABLE!!! OMG , HE MADE ME QUESTION MY SANITY ! 😢I put him in the FRIEND ZONE UNTIL HE MANS UP !

  • @Harry-o6g
    @Harry-o6g Год назад +5

    Thank you for this 😊

  • @LaportiaRisingupnow
    @LaportiaRisingupnow Год назад +5

    Yes yes and more yesss this is on point and I sure can relate to this Thank you for another great video

  • @lauraalleyne2740
    @lauraalleyne2740 Год назад +35

    I love the fact that Derrick just gets into it. Relevant and TRUE ❤❤❤

    • @smfarrie2943
      @smfarrie2943 Год назад +27

      He gets into a lot of things 😐

    • @aliciascott6334
      @aliciascott6334 Год назад +1

      He should be able to, he's talking about himself....

    • @margaretstrodder4225
      @margaretstrodder4225 11 месяцев назад

      Oh you're referring to our men I thought u were referring to DJ.😊

  • @gailgaines4574
    @gailgaines4574 Год назад +5

    HE CAN STAY WAAAAAY OVA THERE WITH THAT TOXICITY 😢 6 in a half yrs 4what.

  • @cainen8316
    @cainen8316 Год назад +8

    My Ex is still knocking on my door it has been 4 years.

  • @hisbeloved8030
    @hisbeloved8030 Год назад +6

    He kept me secret so it don't even matter

    • @tammytaylor6239
      @tammytaylor6239 Год назад +2

      Ir does matter. Sometimes what appears to be a secret thing is actually a private one instead.

  • @sheshinesbrightlikeadiamond
    @sheshinesbrightlikeadiamond Год назад +10

    Thanks for.posting this Derrick. I appreciate you.

  • @lorraineolivera24
    @lorraineolivera24 Год назад +21

    FACTS!!! FOR REAL!

  • @elizabethphangarcia2830
    @elizabethphangarcia2830 8 месяцев назад

    I experienced these traits never thought of it in that view thank you for the lesson

  • @cynthiasmith2459
    @cynthiasmith2459 Год назад +14

    I feel like I just went to church! 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @denisehunter6346
    @denisehunter6346 Год назад +4

    Keep it moving

  • @bernedamoncrief1507
    @bernedamoncrief1507 Год назад +7

    Me and my ex had been together for nine years and doing that time he slandered his baby mama name the whole time .. she was every kind of slut…you name it and as soon as we were on bad terms he went right back to her… she put him out and tried to come back to me…

  • @serenity_maybe
    @serenity_maybe Год назад +3

    Was married 23yrs, found his phone of text msgs to several women telling them he loves them, but now he's sending me msgs saying he didn't realize how much he missed me, till he seen me in passing ..😮

  • @gwindolynswearington7423
    @gwindolynswearington7423 Год назад +3

    It's my situation. You are speaking truthfully about my ex. But I have made no contact after he dumped me. He spoke about me on FB, to the whole world, spoke against me to his female friends and took a picture with her when she treated him out in his birthday to make me jealous. So, yeah , it's me

  • @venuspsychicmasseuse
    @venuspsychicmasseuse Год назад +1

    This is on fire 🔥

  • @ladycancer9330
    @ladycancer9330 Год назад +1

    This sure did hit home with me.

  • @makenziepolston1220
    @makenziepolston1220 Год назад +10

    ❤great message

  • @sweettee527
    @sweettee527 Год назад +7

    This video was so on point thank you for this 👍👍👍👍

  • @marialucas1810
    @marialucas1810 Год назад +4

    I
    Before he got engaged to her he doubled checked if I'd take him back. That was a no.

  • @chrisjackson3182
    @chrisjackson3182 Год назад +31

    Y’all still rocking with him ladies?

    • @erikajohnson7754
      @erikajohnson7754 7 месяцев назад +1

      Yep, rather hear it from the horses mouth🤷‍♀️

  • @MzzzTbaby
    @MzzzTbaby Год назад +3

    Omg you are so on point

  • @Leolady08
    @Leolady08 Год назад +14

    I love this
    Message because so true ❤

  • @ChinChillR63s
    @ChinChillR63s 10 месяцев назад

    FACTS! THIS VIDEO IS GOING IN REPEAT

  • @laurawinters1504
    @laurawinters1504 Год назад +1

    This is so true.

  • @emmapeel2025
    @emmapeel2025 Год назад +3

    Many tnks....its so true 👍🏾 😮

  • @tashacooper4261
    @tashacooper4261 Год назад +7

    Some of the scenarios happened to me by my ex by his sabotaging of our relationship from the jump! ✨

  • @teresajura2575
    @teresajura2575 7 месяцев назад +1

    Facts definitely

  • @Yoqyy
    @Yoqyy Год назад +3

    Yep my ex slandered me & 17 years later still try’s to get me bk offered marriage…

  • @ordinallolo
    @ordinallolo 6 месяцев назад

    This is great 👍 ❤

  • @kieshaspady4923
    @kieshaspady4923 Год назад +3

    You learn something new Everyday

  • @linnettejohnmajella2169
    @linnettejohnmajella2169 7 месяцев назад

    He's good at telling half-truths

  • @terijordan6354
    @terijordan6354 Год назад +6

    Thank you 😊

  • @VeronicaKornegay-dk4sn
    @VeronicaKornegay-dk4sn 5 месяцев назад

    U Are so on point brutha

  • @cherylrudisel3054
    @cherylrudisel3054 Год назад +5

    So true they was about that bullshit mad because they can't control like you're thier children how could you have sex with someone that can't give or show you love i tell them all don't bring out the worst in me because i will never allow anyone to treat me bad and i will be second best to anyone

  • @janetbramwell2491
    @janetbramwell2491 Год назад +3

    Ur right on point!

  • @CrystalNelson-b4j
    @CrystalNelson-b4j Год назад +2

    And ask for an engagement ring. I can buy my own engagement ring and I have peace

  • @jadedavis3746
    @jadedavis3746 8 месяцев назад

    Omg this on point I’m going through it now

  • @prophetesssanita1538
    @prophetesssanita1538 Год назад +7

    Nailed it 👌

  • @aliciamartin5501
    @aliciamartin5501 Год назад +11

    I really needed to hear this. Mostly everything you said felt like you knew what was going on with me and my husband whom I have been separated from 2 to 3 years on and off. I'm just fed up and want to be healed, healthy, whole and at peace while moving on! Thanks Derrick!

  • @kieshaspady4923
    @kieshaspady4923 Год назад +1

    Good Evening Derrick

  • @bizsquare-ys1py
    @bizsquare-ys1py 8 месяцев назад

    So on point!

  • @kesha2414
    @kesha2414 Год назад +4

    You on it!!!!!!

  • @feliciaclark171
    @feliciaclark171 Год назад +5

    Thank you!

  • @casualsundae2053
    @casualsundae2053 Год назад +3

    Facts so true

  • @DarleneGonzales79
    @DarleneGonzales79 Год назад +5

    Spot on 💯

  • @girlfriday323
    @girlfriday323 Год назад +1

    Talk that truth talk!!

  • @redefinedliving5974
    @redefinedliving5974 Год назад +7

    Wasted 5 yrs 😢😢😢

  • @magzdue
    @magzdue Год назад +5

    Very accurate

  • @bwamikilarry
    @bwamikilarry Год назад

    u are indeed a true bro , mn 😊😊

  • @melissacummings6298
    @melissacummings6298 Год назад +1

    Been there done that very true

  • @mrsjones6797
    @mrsjones6797 Год назад +4

    He IS that ex

    • @july821
      @july821 11 месяцев назад

      What do you mean?

  • @rrboss3721
    @rrboss3721 Год назад +2

    I know you are saying "He" the entire video. But, does this apply to ex gf as well?

  • @lindagiles9883
    @lindagiles9883 Год назад

    💯
    Can’t see link for Masterclass