This kid had been assaulted by someone for something that’s not his fault and still had the decency to say “he was probably having a bad day” just from that alone you can tell he is an incredible human
not to mention how content he is with loss of sight. i wont ever take eyesight for granted again, ive had a lot of personal issues the past couple of monthss but in the grand scheme of things its really nothing, annd the fact that he is only 21 years of age. twice the man i am
@@JoshDoubleU its the scariest shit to suddenly be blind. I have a couple days experience fully blind and it looks like the rest of my life half blind after the right eye never came back
We live in a world where we should all be inclusive, yet a blind man who clearly is trying to prove he's visually impaired still gets accused of being a gym creep. Don't blame him for not going back.
@@markvarley2962 basically. Converting a room at home into a gym is better at this point. I’ll admit, I’ve wanted to try the whole fitness thing, but I’ve always been worried that something like this would happen.
How did she know he was constantly staring at her? She was staring back... And since he's blind he wasn't staring, she was the one that was constantly staring at him... She was in fact the gym creep
As much as I want to agree, because the girl is clearly a psychopath and in the wrong, you are completely incorrect. You don’t have to be staring at someone in a creepy way to know that they’re staring at you, I can tell if someone is staring out of the corner of my eye, or through a passing glance. Your argument is disingenuous, even though I do agree the girl is in the wrong.
Many female creeps at the gym and in life in general trying to show off their tits/ass everywhere they go, guys just don't care to whine and complain about it the way women do
@@Grimm66613 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 if you listened to the episode he said his phone reads everything out to him. He's blind, not completely cut out from society lmao 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
@@MacBackwardz but this isn’t his channel kid. 🤦♂️ you think he’s going to go through every single comment on someone else’s channel. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 thanks for still proving you’re a bit special.
It's not about creepy behaviour, it's about people who are self absorbed feeling entitled and that fact is demonstrated by how even after you told her you were blind, she still wasn't having it, full of herself.
It not like she wearing a skinny g-string and squatting like a looney and blind man seeing nothing and that happened sounds like the girl is attention seeker and having none of it
That may be true, but I tend to ask myself why she would be acting like this? Maybe she's self-conscious or perhaps she had a sexual assault that happened to her in the past. Try to look at things from all sides.
@@markellzey1531 Who cares? After his situation was explained to her she was the one who needed to back off. Insisting the world to bend to your will is a sign of a narcissist, not a victim. Also, woman can never be an a-hole, right?
@@markellzey1531 Yeah but the things you described don't matter at all. She should get help and not just be a terrible person overall. I don't care if you have problems as long as you can manage them. If you can't, stay away from society
Like he wasn't being made to feel uncomfortable by both of them accusing him of something that is physically impossible for him to do due to his disability.
It insane that normal sighted people thinks blind people can see is a load of bollocks. People should be made aware and reminded every day of the rest of their life look for signs like guide dogs, canes, etc
my grandfather was partially blind and deaf and some people just don't believe it because he's not wearing "shades" or using a "cane" or hearing aids all the time so he'd get mocked or looked at oddly in public with a disability card but not VISIBLY having a disability, he's passed RIP. God bless this lad tho for brushing it off, we're all here for you :D
I know he mentioned he didn’t want to sue or make a big deal out of it, and didn’t mention the name of the business or people, but that’s how you prevent this type of behavior. All of the offenders got away without consequence. They may not even realize they were in the wrong.
He would struggle in a lawsuit. How would he even be able to prove the person who told him to leave was an employee? I'm sure she said she was, but it's not like he saw a uniform or a name badge. This could easily just have been Karen's friend.
@@spaceracer23 You get the name of the employee in the moment and as much as it is a meme you ask for the manager and get their name as well. Especially when your being kicked out of gym because of a disability. Then you subpoena security footage and start asking questions about their policies. I would even go so far as to record with your phone (if possible). Best case scenario they may even realize they are making a mistake in the moment when you make a big deal out of it. I’m guessing he just quietly left the gym because he didn’t want to bother his harassers.
@@NickSteffen Yeah, but everything you're saying is theoretical and didn't happen. What good is hindsight in this situation of trying to determine if next steps are possible? We all know the right answer--but you can only view it from the lens of what options he has available today.
@@LockeNarshe Yea, that is the worse way to view it. I would have an incredible amount of rage if it were me. Claiming to kick me out of the gym because my gaze made someone uncomfortable, I would make sure every single person in that gym was 10x uncomfortable knowing they were working out in place that prejudiced the disabled. I would make it so that the employee had ptsd next time they irrationally kicked someone out of a gym. Frankly this going along to get along is the complete nonsense that destroys a modern society. When you are oppressed, you must fight otherwise you are useless.
So the lady complained about being made to feel uncomfortable... In so doing, making the INNOCENT blind chap so uncomfortable he never came back. Unbelievable! It's times like these when I really question how genuine they're being about being "uncomfortable" or how much is because they want the attention.
What was she wearing ? Honestly if I wear something attracts attention in a public space is because I want to have the attention, although I am all for anyone stand up to abuser but in this case she is ultimately the person who cause the annoyance! I think the gym should apologize!
he seems like such an awesome dude. He has an amazing attitude and what happened to him was so wrong. I wish there was some consequences for this injustice.
Lost my father a couple of days ago and honestly the amount I laughed at “you’ve caught someone Tobes, he’s going” has be thinking things are gonna be alright. Thanks for the content, gents!
Really hope you’re doing well pal Something that helped me with grief is, realising that the only alternative (aka you dying before them) is them having to deal with the pain of grief instead of you. And idk about you but I’m willing to go through that hell if it means my family don’t have to, if that makes sense. No matter how lonely it feels, you’ll never be alone and millions around the world will share the struggle but that doesn’t mean it’s permanent If you were to die, I’m sure you wouldn’t want your family to feel miserable, and the same applies to you my friend. Stay strong
This is the most infuriating thing I’ve ever seen bruh Please name the gym and shame them, asking a blind man to leave is the most discriminatory thing I’ve ever heard. Irritates me knowing women out there exist and kick PEOPLE WHO ARE BLINDDDD out of the gym. BLIND. HE HAS 10x THE ISSUE YOUVE EVER HAD
its called entitlement, people are much more selfish and self-consumed nowadays. gym culture and social media has created this current gym environment now, people see these videos on social media and then become aware of this thought or fear of being stared at in the gym. that is why so many of these "gym creeps" cases you see on social media are fabricated. it is infuriating but don't let it stop you from working out.
And it wasn't even based on his handicap that he was kicked, it was because he was a man and the person that complained was a woman, so he was instantly in the wrong. So it's both discrimination on sexism and being handicapped.
He should have said, "I am uncomfortable because this strange woman came over and berating me for staring at her when I am blind" "So if you can't have someone making others uncomfortable you need to kick her out."
@@ronmexico7256 there is because it's discrimination , that's what the Americans with Disabilities Act is all about, they had no cause to boot him other than her saying he was staring at her, when he literally fkn can't, being blind.
@@rottierumbles9451 1) This didn’t take place in the USA so no idea why you’re citing US law 2) If it did take place in the US it still doesn’t meet the criteria for discrimination
Listened to this podcast on the way to work, what a fucking champ. He’s just a wicked guy, positivity is infectious. Had to come and watch the clip again.
When did the gym become such a toxic environment? Poor bloke didn’t deserve that disgusting treatment😔. Shout out to people like Joey Swole who are trying to combat this.
I (man) was banned from a gym because I had a personal issue with one of the staff members (woman) completely unrelated to the gym or workplace whatsoever. She was gossiping about me on social media and didn't like me in general and she managed to get me banned. I bought a dumbbell set and I just work out at home now . . .
What a great guy! Funny, positive, and getting on with life. Going to the gym, going to the footie, etc. Top bloke. Also, the girl at the gym....no words needed....
Kudos to Toby! I went blind from cataracts, and it took three years before I could legally qualify to have them removed. In the ensuing time my world shrank to a very few close friends, and strangers thought I was weird because I didn't 'look at them' normally. I'd have been hard-pressed to react as rationally as he has in the situations which he's faced, or to show as much grace. Best to you, Mate!
I've gone to the gym with my sister many times and she's is one of these women who goes around accusing men of staring even when they are not. She's always talking about how "It's so tough to be so beautiful", she even accused a gay man of staring once, but has admitted she wouldn't mind the staring if it's coming from a hot guy.
Imagine having some guy leave the gym , he grabs his cane , and you see him using it to walk out. Man, that lady must have gone red! I hope she felt awful.
na she felt justified , women like her just need people telling her she "did the right thing" and patting herself on the back so she can feel good about her actions , instead of telling her what a twunt she is and being an asshole to a blind guy and (her) booted from the gym which is what should have happened.
When Toby walked into another blind man on the street with his guide dog it reminded me of that film See No Evil, Hear No Evil (1989) with Richard Pryor who plays a blind man and Gene Wilder who plays a death man and the funny moment when they first met each other in the film. 😂
Bro , as a fellow dad we look at things through protector mode eyes. They came for you man , keep your head up man so you can see your enemies and where they are coming from . #leavethekidsalone
American here, ran into a blind man by accident on my daily trek to college, he said, “watch where your going young man.” I apologized to him and realized I had two hours to be in class and only a couple blocks to go, so I slowed down a wee bit and talked with him, he was on his way to meet his granddaughter. I asked him,”does this happen a lot to you?” He said,” oh plenty of times, yes.” So I decided to get him a coffee. Black with two sugar and a drop of honey. Next day he wasn’t there. He often walked that road I just hadn’t payed him any mind. I checked the coffee place I found out he and I like to visit, and this little 8 year old girl was sitting there crying. Went up to her because she looked dead on the nail like the picture he showed me. I asked her what’s wrong? She looked at me and she said my grandpa’s gone. He passed away just after telling me of this wonderful young man who had a coffee with him the other day, and I looked at her and asked did he give a name who the young man was? She said the name I gave the old man. To this day, I always visit that coffee shop and buy a black coffee with two sugar and a spoon of honey. I leave it there once I’ve had my fill. I’ll never forget you, mr. Nightingale.
Honestly, Tobes, you're a better person than me. I would have sued for as much money as I could get. It's the least that gym and the woman who got you kicked out deserve.
Definitely feel for you I would be worried because sometimes I space out and just looking at nothing particular, and someone think might be staring at them.
Gyms normally charge membership fees. And Toby has already paid. but was unfairly discriminated against and expelled from the gym able to sue for damages For the woman in question, she may also be charged with defamation.
So back when dinosaurs roamed the earth, I was in college at the time, Blind Steve, who was a great mimic, was entertaining us doing all the voices from an Amos and Andy episode. Black Steve (we had FIVE Steves in that crowd, each got a nickname) said, "I'm really offended by your portrayal of black people and wish you'd stop that." Blind Steve asks, "Wait! Are Amos and Andy black? I didn't know. Are you black? A thought just hit me... am I black?" So Black Steve is quietly pissed, but Blind Steve is escalating. "OK, you're pissed off, so why don't we fight and settle it?" Black Steve says, "I can't fight a blind man." Blind Steve, "Sure you can, we'll make it even. Hey, are there any windows in here?" No, we told him. "OK, somebody turn off the lights. I'll can beat your ass in the dark." This really happened, you can't make up stuff like this. Blind Steve went on to become the head of the state school for the blind.
He's definitely being the bigger person here; he would be quite justified in saying she was a narcissistic little Karen, but instead he's gracious enough to give her the benefit of the doubt and say she might have been having a bad day. I know creeping in gyms is horrible, and yes, it does happen, but we should also acknowledge there is a certain type of 'Social Media Girl' who's so full of themself they think the whole world is looking at them just because they're 'hot,' and lean into the fake outrage to get attention for themselves (and even Likes and Shares on theirTiktok/Instagram account.)
I agree this enraged the hell out of me. And we both know that by now she Hass to know what she did because the story was huge. But of course, she’s probably gotten no apology, and she would probably do it again. These women build nothing in this world. Did you know hard work and live life on easy mode, and are still dictating what happens to nice young man who are just trying to work out. The reality is every single day gyms all over the world well mainly in the west they are running around with their phones recording every damn thing wearing barely anything and never paying the price for the stupid crap they do
Sue, they could have CCTV still... you're in a gym, approached by one woman, then the staff and you're made to leave... i know the guys blind, but that on video speaks volumes with the story he has told.
This kind of stuff is why I've cancelled my gym membership. All it takes is one woman out to get you and that's it. Reputation ruined regardless of facts.
A bit over the top worked out in 5 different gyms (moved around a bit ) and never had any women come after me like this so I dont think these things happen as often as it is portrayed in social media most normal people are in the gym to train and are minding their own business those that aren’t then I would say tell them to go away with all their bulls**
Hi. Want to say here. We live in the age where "it's in the eye of the beholder". Unfortunately, nobody takes into about a person's intent... Because they live in their own little world and they think they're special, so obviously they're perceiving the facts, and damn the other persons intentions.
I was mad when listening to the first story, wanted that bitch to get what she deserved but i ended up chucking, this lad has such a good sense of humour and a positive outlook on things. Bless his heart!
Gym streamers and gym women should be warned ahead of time that they cannot film or take pictures anywhere in the gym and that false accusations will result in a permanent ban.
Like the video if you think he should sue the gym!
what a comment! amazing tho he turned a negative into positive explanation but yeah, jack represent that man!
yeh fs
Just name the gym. Ha.
To be fair he doesn't look blind.
he should sue her.
The gym and the girl should apologize to him!
This kid had been assaulted by someone for something that’s not his fault and still had the decency to say “he was probably having a bad day” just from that alone you can tell he is an incredible human
not to mention how content he is with loss of sight. i wont ever take eyesight for granted again, ive had a lot of personal issues the past couple of monthss but in the grand scheme of things its really nothing, annd the fact that he is only 21 years of age. twice the man i am
Fr that is literally Jesus level of turning the other cheek
Why can’t we have politicians like that instead of the rancid snakes we end up with
@JayDoubleU when u bron with visual or hearing disabilities its very easy to be content with stuff like this
@@ms8ff153 yes absolutely I agree, I’m sure I heard this gent say that he started to lose all eyesight that the age of 11 though? I might be wrong
@@JoshDoubleU its the scariest shit to suddenly be blind. I have a couple days experience fully blind and it looks like the rest of my life half blind after the right eye never came back
We live in a world where we should all be inclusive, yet a blind man who clearly is trying to prove he's visually impaired still gets accused of being a gym creep. Don't blame him for not going back.
@@fredpouzt6933 it’s 2023 and you’re living in a personal echo chamber of stupidity.
@@fredpouzt6933 Just take a day off Fred.
female privilege.
@@markvarley2962 basically. Converting a room at home into a gym is better at this point. I’ll admit, I’ve wanted to try the whole fitness thing, but I’ve always been worried that something like this would happen.
@@fredpouzt6933 Nice one mate "NCP"
How did she know he was constantly staring at her? She was staring back... And since he's blind he wasn't staring, she was the one that was constantly staring at him... She was in fact the gym creep
Logic
As much as I want to agree, because the girl is clearly a psychopath and in the wrong, you are completely incorrect. You don’t have to be staring at someone in a creepy way to know that they’re staring at you, I can tell if someone is staring out of the corner of my eye, or through a passing glance. Your argument is disingenuous, even though I do agree the girl is in the wrong.
Nonsense, and you know it.
Many female creeps at the gym and in life in general trying to show off their tits/ass everywhere they go, guys just don't care to whine and complain about it the way women do
@trumpisthemessiah7017you should change that to crazy tiktok women, just saying. Personally I think those women are disgusting
Absolutely mental they still asked him to leave after explaining he was blind. Some people man. Great story tho Tobes! Inspirational af 👊👊
@@Grimm66613 screen readers dummy
@@Jacob-ps5xl 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 sure kid.
@@Grimm66613 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 if you listened to the episode he said his phone reads everything out to him. He's blind, not completely cut out from society lmao 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
@@MacBackwardz but this isn’t his channel kid. 🤦♂️ you think he’s going to go through every single comment on someone else’s channel. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 thanks for still proving you’re a bit special.
@@Grimm66613 were you dropped as a child 😂
It's not about creepy behaviour, it's about people who are self absorbed feeling entitled and that fact is demonstrated by how even after you told her you were blind, she still wasn't having it, full of herself.
It not like she wearing a skinny g-string and squatting like a looney and blind man seeing nothing and that happened sounds like the girl is attention seeker and having none of it
It's about sexism, society hates men and pander to women.
That may be true, but I tend to ask myself why she would be acting like this? Maybe she's self-conscious or perhaps she had a sexual assault that happened to her in the past. Try to look at things from all sides.
@@markellzey1531 Who cares? After his situation was explained to her she was the one who needed to back off. Insisting the world to bend to your will is a sign of a narcissist, not a victim. Also, woman can never be an a-hole, right?
@@markellzey1531 Yeah but the things you described don't matter at all. She should get help and not just be a terrible person overall. I don't care if you have problems as long as you can manage them. If you can't, stay away from society
This guy is one of your best guests, the confidence of him and his stories. Total respect.
This blind dude has greater vision than 99% of the human race. Magnificent.
Well said.
99% of the human WOKE race
No. Just West.
Well he is blind, he can't have greater vision. WTF
@@martinvanburen4578 You must be blind if you missed the point
"Sorry, can you leave, we can't have other people being uncomfortable"
Did they not hear themselves saying that? Incredible
Like he wasn't being made to feel uncomfortable by both of them accusing him of something that is physically impossible for him to do due to his disability.
It insane that normal sighted people thinks blind people can see is a load of bollocks. People should be made aware and reminded every day of the rest of their life look for signs like guide dogs, canes, etc
@Chantoddler1 Guessing you one of those kind of people that don't care. I bet you money you're next to go blind any bet placed here
@Chantoddler1 I see past you
@Chantoddler1question: what is a 304? Just curious and thanks!
my grandfather was partially blind and deaf and some people just don't believe it because he's not wearing "shades" or using a "cane" or hearing aids all the time so he'd get mocked or looked at oddly in public with a disability card but not VISIBLY having a disability, he's passed RIP. God bless this lad tho for brushing it off, we're all here for you :D
He should indeed sue.
The problem is, leaving this be only serves to perpetuate and escalate these kind of issues (for yourself and others).
a lawyers dream case
I know he mentioned he didn’t want to sue or make a big deal out of it, and didn’t mention the name of the business or people, but that’s how you prevent this type of behavior. All of the offenders got away without consequence. They may not even realize they were in the wrong.
Gotta be careful though, he could get sued for libel, and libel claims in England are notoriously difficult to fight.
He would struggle in a lawsuit.
How would he even be able to prove the person who told him to leave was an employee?
I'm sure she said she was, but it's not like he saw a uniform or a name badge.
This could easily just have been Karen's friend.
@@spaceracer23 You get the name of the employee in the moment and as much as it is a meme you ask for the manager and get their name as well. Especially when your being kicked out of gym because of a disability. Then you subpoena security footage and start asking questions about their policies. I would even go so far as to record with your phone (if possible). Best case scenario they may even realize they are making a mistake in the moment when you make a big deal out of it. I’m guessing he just quietly left the gym because he didn’t want to bother his harassers.
@@NickSteffen Yeah, but everything you're saying is theoretical and didn't happen. What good is hindsight in this situation of trying to determine if next steps are possible? We all know the right answer--but you can only view it from the lens of what options he has available today.
@@LockeNarshe Yea, that is the worse way to view it. I would have an incredible amount of rage if it were me. Claiming to kick me out of the gym because my gaze made someone uncomfortable, I would make sure every single person in that gym was 10x uncomfortable knowing they were working out in place that prejudiced the disabled. I would make it so that the employee had ptsd next time they irrationally kicked someone out of a gym. Frankly this going along to get along is the complete nonsense that destroys a modern society. When you are oppressed, you must fight otherwise you are useless.
So the lady complained about being made to feel uncomfortable... In so doing, making the INNOCENT blind chap so uncomfortable he never came back.
Unbelievable! It's times like these when I really question how genuine they're being about being "uncomfortable" or how much is because they want the attention.
No they booted HIM from the gym , wasn't his decision to leave, the woman got him banned for making her uncomfortable, yea unfknbelievable eh?
What was she wearing ? Honestly if I wear something attracts attention in a public space is because I want to have the attention, although I am all for anyone stand up to abuser but in this case she is ultimately the person who cause the annoyance! I think the gym should apologize!
@@tanyachou4474 it doesn't matter what she was wearing , HE'S BLIND, end of story.
he seems like such an awesome dude. He has an amazing attitude and what happened to him was so wrong. I wish there was some consequences for this injustice.
Good luck with that ...sadly men are now second class citizens
What a dude! There are some terrible people out there. This guy seems to be very positive honestly it's inspiring.
What an absolute LEGEND! This guy is the very definition of a REALLY lovely person. What a hero!
That woman clearly thinks a bit too much of herself... I would love to know what gym this was, proper shameful asking the guy to leave.
I LOVE the fact that LAWYERS had REACHED OUT TO HIM over it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Lost my father a couple of days ago and honestly the amount I laughed at “you’ve caught someone Tobes, he’s going” has be thinking things are gonna be alright. Thanks for the content, gents!
Really hope you’re doing well pal
Something that helped me with grief is, realising that the only alternative (aka you dying before them) is them having to deal with the pain of grief instead of you. And idk about you but I’m willing to go through that hell if it means my family don’t have to, if that makes sense. No matter how lonely it feels, you’ll never be alone and millions around the world will share the struggle but that doesn’t mean it’s permanent
If you were to die, I’m sure you wouldn’t want your family to feel miserable, and the same applies to you my friend. Stay strong
@@XXXTENTAClON227 makes a lot of sense. Thanks for the words of wisdom. Means a lot.
My thoughts are with you mate may he rest in peace 🙏
My sincere condolences for your father.
This is the most infuriating thing I’ve ever seen bruh
Please name the gym and shame them, asking a blind man to leave is the most discriminatory thing I’ve ever heard. Irritates me knowing women out there exist and kick PEOPLE WHO ARE BLINDDDD out of the gym. BLIND. HE HAS 10x THE ISSUE YOUVE EVER HAD
its called entitlement, people are much more selfish and self-consumed nowadays. gym culture and social media has created this current gym environment now, people see these videos on social media and then become aware of this thought or fear of being stared at in the gym. that is why so many of these "gym creeps" cases you see on social media are fabricated. it is infuriating but don't let it stop you from working out.
And it wasn't even based on his handicap that he was kicked, it was because he was a man and the person that complained was a woman, so he was instantly in the wrong. So it's both discrimination on sexism and being handicapped.
@@Ripcraze the staff are probably a girl , girl on girl power , haha , and they still want equality , good luck getting that ....
is it bruh cringe bruh. do u think you're an American gangster bruh
@@RipcrazeHe stole this story from The Blind Surfer
The award for most chill and understanding guy ever goes to that guest, geez I can't believe how kind his attitude is
He should have said, "I am uncomfortable because this strange woman came over and berating me for staring at her when I am blind" "So if you can't have someone making others uncomfortable you need to kick her out."
That’s mad he can sue on grounds of disability discrimination
Dude doesn't sound like he's living in America though
@ganjadan7600 he could literally say she didn't call him by his preferred pronouns and her ass would be history.
There isn’t grounds to sue the gym itself, maybe the woman but it’s not like you’d get anything from her
@@ronmexico7256 there is because it's discrimination , that's what the Americans with Disabilities Act is all about, they had no cause to boot him other than her saying he was staring at her, when he literally fkn can't, being blind.
@@rottierumbles9451 1) This didn’t take place in the USA so no idea why you’re citing US law
2) If it did take place in the US it still doesn’t meet the criteria for discrimination
Hats off to Toby, what a great guy. There are some really horrible people out there, his attitude and sense of humour is commendable.
Listened to this podcast on the way to work, what a fucking champ. He’s just a wicked guy, positivity is infectious. Had to come and watch the clip again.
When did the gym become such a toxic environment? Poor bloke didn’t deserve that disgusting treatment😔. Shout out to people like Joey Swole who are trying to combat this.
when social media took over.. trying to get famous on instagram and tiktok. the more ass you show the higher views you get.
I (man) was banned from a gym because I had a personal issue with one of the staff members (woman) completely unrelated to the gym or workplace whatsoever. She was gossiping about me on social media and didn't like me in general and she managed to get me banned.
I bought a dumbbell set and I just work out at home now . . .
When people started viewing themselves as way more interesting or important to those around them than someone like them could realistically ever be.
Why do woman even go in
Apparently about 4 years ago...
What a great guy! Funny, positive, and getting on with life. Going to the gym, going to the footie, etc. Top bloke. Also, the girl at the gym....no words needed....
Kudos to Toby! I went blind from cataracts, and it took three years before I could legally qualify to have them removed. In the ensuing time my world shrank to a very few close friends, and strangers thought I was weird because I didn't 'look at them' normally. I'd have been hard-pressed to react as rationally as he has in the situations which he's faced, or to show as much grace. Best to you, Mate!
Really impressed with this guy's attitude...I know I could never handle it
Really inspiring guy...been dealt a bad hand but living happily and progressing in life ... I commend you brother
The point of a lawsuit in such a case isn't for money, but for assuring fair treatment of people.
Weve tried so hard to make everybody be nice to eachother that weve come full circle to literally oppressing the blind
Wokeness leaves the whole world blind
Bro, if you're not gonna sue, atleast name and shame the gym
This kid awesome, super charismatic guy, could listen to stories from him for hours
what a beautiful heart this guy has. hope everything going well for him
Respect Toby. Super positive guy. Legend
Honestly Tobes is a class guest. Hopefully he’ll be in for more episodes in the future perhaps a Would I Lie To You episode that would be great.
There are some genuinely nice people out there who you warm to, and here is one of them.
I've gone to the gym with my sister many times and she's is one of these women who goes around accusing men of staring even when they are not. She's always talking about how "It's so tough to be so beautiful", she even accused a gay man of staring once, but has admitted she wouldn't mind the staring if it's coming from a hot guy.
I wouldnt advertise that my sister is such a s***.
Lmfao
Usually whilst wearing the tightest skimpy clothing they can find
@@chrism7249 Yup exactly.
The duality of hoes
Sometimes it be your own people. How does a blind man convince a blind man that he's blind and this was all an accident?
This guy is good people.
He is blind yet that doesn't stop him being a absolute legend. He's very claim .
Really enjoyed this episode. Tobi is really funny, real glass half full kind of guy👏🏾
Toby. 🤦♂️
@@Grimm66613 👍🏾
Stevie saying “Get that million, get a new Fiesta” to a blind person…
you can be blind and still own a car.
Imagine having some guy leave the gym , he grabs his cane , and you see him using it to walk out. Man, that lady must have gone red! I hope she felt awful.
na she felt justified , women like her just need people telling her she "did the right thing" and patting herself on the back so she can feel good about her actions , instead of telling her what a twunt she is and being an asshole to a blind guy and (her) booted from the gym which is what should have happened.
Women have no shame.
Are we just going to ignore the fact that staring isn't illegal? Call the cops when they do such a thing and keep working out.
The amount of facts you had to ignore to make such a braindead statement is ridiculous. The gall....
Unfortunately, in many cities in the UK, ‘Staring” can get you a ‘sexual assault” charge…
The UK bloody sucks.
@@Beuwen_The_Dragon that is so dumb
@@dan_kotsuit’s dumb because it isn’t true
@@ronmexico7256 the staring part is indeed not true, but the part about the UK sucking is very true.
I hope karma got this woman. And this gym store needs to get bankrupt
When Toby walked into another blind man on the street with his guide dog it reminded me of that film See No Evil, Hear No Evil (1989) with Richard Pryor who plays a blind man and Gene Wilder who plays a death man and the funny moment when they first met each other in the film. 😂
That girl has told the story of the "gym creep" that "pretended" to be blind to every single person she has come across
The blind man should sue for a billion dollars for a false-kick after providing evidence.
You should have sued them. This will stop this happening to anyone else.
Can't have people feeling uncomfortable, surely accusing a blind man of staring made him feel uncomfortable...
Bro , as a fellow dad we look at things through protector mode eyes. They came for you man , keep your head up man so you can see your enemies and where they are coming from .
#leavethekidsalone
would love to hear the two blind man collision story from both sides. That is life being comedic.
American here, ran into a blind man by accident on my daily trek to college, he said, “watch where your going young man.” I apologized to him and realized I had two hours to be in class and only a couple blocks to go, so I slowed down a wee bit and talked with him, he was on his way to meet his granddaughter. I asked him,”does this happen a lot to you?” He said,” oh plenty of times, yes.” So I decided to get him a coffee. Black with two sugar and a drop of honey. Next day he wasn’t there. He often walked that road I just hadn’t payed him any mind. I checked the coffee place I found out he and I like to visit, and this little 8 year old girl was sitting there crying. Went up to her because she looked dead on the nail like the picture he showed me. I asked her what’s wrong? She looked at me and she said my grandpa’s gone. He passed away just after telling me of this wonderful young man who had a coffee with him the other day, and I looked at her and asked did he give a name who the young man was? She said the name I gave the old man. To this day, I always visit that coffee shop and buy a black coffee with two sugar and a spoon of honey. I leave it there once I’ve had my fill. I’ll never forget you, mr. Nightingale.
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Honestly, Tobes, you're a better person than me. I would have sued for as much money as I could get. It's the least that gym and the woman who got you kicked out deserve.
"he came around a blind corner and I certainly didn't see him coming" 😂😂😂
Actually love this fella
Great sense of humour and personality, loved this clip 😂
Kinda mad how he seems to have more of an understanding of other people, kinda lets them off and excuses it. Good on you, but what absolute knobs.
I don't think I believe this guy because when he originally told this story he coppied Blind Surfer's story word for word
Definitely feel for you I would be worried because sometimes I space out and just looking at nothing particular, and someone think might be staring at them.
Thanks for this content, some great stories and experiences heard here. Good luck Toby, you're a really decent bloke.
Wow. I didnt even think something like this would happen. Poor guy
i mean there are some ignorant people in the world, who think blind people are just playing pretend.
Gyms normally charge membership fees. And Toby has already paid. but was unfairly discriminated against and expelled from the gym able to sue for damages For the woman in question, she may also be charged with defamation.
There is another video of this exact same thing happening but the guy is a bit older
So back when dinosaurs roamed the earth, I was in college at the time, Blind Steve, who was a great mimic, was entertaining us doing all the voices from an Amos and Andy episode. Black Steve (we had FIVE Steves in that crowd, each got a nickname) said, "I'm really offended by your portrayal of black people and wish you'd stop that." Blind Steve asks, "Wait! Are Amos and Andy black? I didn't know. Are you black? A thought just hit me... am I black?" So Black Steve is quietly pissed, but Blind Steve is escalating. "OK, you're pissed off, so why don't we fight and settle it?" Black Steve says, "I can't fight a blind man." Blind Steve, "Sure you can, we'll make it even. Hey, are there any windows in here?" No, we told him. "OK, somebody turn off the lights. I'll can beat your ass in the dark." This really happened, you can't make up stuff like this. Blind Steve went on to become the head of the state school for the blind.
He should have sued ...this discrimination shouldn stop and not be tolerated.
I remember seeing this lad as a contestant on the Wheel, great lad.
People with disabilities always have the best personalities, they can be so funny and can carry a conversation for so long.
6:09 Talk about "the blind leading the blind" . . . 😁
That story was friggin' Epic! I literally laughed out loud! Thanks for sharing bro! 🤘🤣
I've not listened to this in ages so I didn't realise there was a new studio. 😂 Going to have to catch up.
So the blind can't lead the blind at all because they just get into arguments as to whether or not the other person is blind 😂
Jack: I've heard this story
Also Jack: no way!!
I just remembered where I knew him from. He was on The Wheel. I was so happy when he won the money. Really deserved it
He's definitely being the bigger person here; he would be quite justified in saying she was a narcissistic little Karen, but instead he's gracious enough to give her the benefit of the doubt and say she might have been having a bad day. I know creeping in gyms is horrible, and yes, it does happen, but we should also acknowledge there is a certain type of 'Social Media Girl' who's so full of themself they think the whole world is looking at them just because they're 'hot,' and lean into the fake outrage to get attention for themselves (and even Likes and Shares on theirTiktok/Instagram account.)
Wow if I were one of the two women either the young woman or manager, I would be falling all over myself apologizing.
That entire situation seems incredibly scummy. This dude needs a hug in my opinion
Well done, young fella, for not sueing.
He should've sued the gym and press charges on everyone for harassment and defamation of character
Disability discrimination is a crime and you can not only take the Gym on but also the woman who harassed you and discriminated against you...
this pisses me off.. women are out of control.
I agree this enraged the hell out of me. And we both know that by now she Hass to know what she did because the story was huge. But of course, she’s probably gotten no apology, and she would probably do it again. These women build nothing in this world. Did you know hard work and live life on easy mode, and are still dictating what happens to nice young man who are just trying to work out. The reality is every single day gyms all over the world well mainly in the west they are running around with their phones recording every damn thing wearing barely anything and never paying the price for the stupid crap they do
the way he tells stories is fucking hilarious xD i could listen to this guy tell stories at lunch all day long
his brain couldn't tell him what he was looking at, but his eyes knew
I like his mindset. Good lad.
Hit on a girl, she decides if you're a creep. Stare at a girl and she decides if you're a creep. Jesus christ these women are unholy.
He was probably having a bad day!!! What a nice lad
What a wonderful bright soul.
"He was probably having a bad day." Nah, the world is just full of inconsiderate people that only care about themselves.
Great restraint. I’d sue their a$$ into the next dimension!
Aren’t you the one who plagiarized blindsurfer’s experience in gym?
Why don't they name the gym? This place deserves to feel a backlash for throwing the guy out.
Sue, they could have CCTV still... you're in a gym, approached by one woman, then the staff and you're made to leave... i know the guys blind, but that on video speaks volumes with the story he has told.
The irony is his non blind friend didn’t see anything
This kind of stuff is why I've cancelled my gym membership.
All it takes is one woman out to get you and that's it. Reputation ruined regardless of facts.
A bit over the top worked out in 5 different gyms (moved around a bit ) and never had any women come after me like this so I dont think these things happen as often as it is portrayed in social media most normal people are in the gym to train and are minding their own business those that aren’t then I would say tell them to go away with all their bulls**
Hi.
Want to say here.
We live in the age where "it's in the eye of the beholder".
Unfortunately, nobody takes into about a person's intent... Because they live in their own little world and they think they're special, so obviously they're perceiving the facts, and damn the other persons intentions.
I was mad when listening to the first story, wanted that bitch to get what she deserved but i ended up chucking, this lad has such a good sense of humour and a positive outlook on things. Bless his heart!
If I had a blind friend in the gym with me and someone did that to them I would lose it.
Gym streamers and gym women should be warned ahead of time that they cannot film or take pictures anywhere in the gym and that false accusations will result in a permanent ban.
What a top lad. Genuinely funny, upbeat and whitty. Keep doing your thing bud
Blind man gets assaulted for hitting someone’s car with his cane.
The police turn up: “can you describe the man who hit you? What was he wearing?”