A Blind Person - That Library Show
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- Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
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Step into the world of resilience with Jugpreet Bajwa, who lost his sight to cancer at 6 months old. In our library chat, we delve into his inspiring outlook, the challenges of blindness, and his vision for love. Get ready for a page-turner of a conversation!
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ooooo derek these comments are beating you tf up
Why'd you cut him off when he was getting into his story about music Derek. I wanted to hear the rest of that 😠
I know!!!
i was gonna say this!!!
Haha you caught that
he’s so annoying in this video
I like that angry emoji. It's like "no offence but I'm pissed off"
Unsolicited feedback as a fan of the show - this one left a bit to be desired. Jugpreet is such a charming dude and I think there was so much potential for this episode! (Maybe an extended cut could happen?) I think it would be good to try and ask more open questions that aren’t leading, and let people finish their sentences and stories. Sometimes you have to go with the flow for these things and let go of structure, which I acknowledge can be hard when you want to ensure the content is still entertaining.
Also, perhaps a bit of self-education on how to interview people (esp people who belong to minority groups) in a way that lets them share their stories and experiences in a way that’s valuable to them, not just in a way that makes sense to _you_ . Part of this process requires you to not just recognise the presumptions you have about things but to think about where the presumptions came from. The extra self-awareness can make a huge difference. Also, don’t be afraid of “wording things wrong” - you can always correct yourself.
SBSK does a pretty good job at this for reference. Motivational Interviewing and Narrative Therapy also come to mind. I’m a postgrad psych student who is personally a huge fan of NT. It’s an interviewing and counselling technique based on facilitating rich storytelling and conversation. All these examples are mostly designed for counsellors etc but they’re all generally relevant for making good conversation and learning about people ❤️
you didn't even talk to him about music!!! wtf man!!! he's an INCREDIBLE singer and I want to hear way more about his practice and career!!!!
for real!! like i get the premise being "blind guy" but the idea is that we discover the person behind the disability through the interview and he really didn't pull through on that part enough and kinda stayed in the former which felt pretty belittling tbh :/
Yeah I really found this interview in particular left a lot to be desired!
@@ClaireEliseLumiereidk that’s never really been the point of his videos.
I can’t believe you didn’t ask what the dreams look/sound like!
fully blind people wouldn’t be able to see in their dreams it would mostly be sound the same way when they close their eyes there’s nothing when ppl who can see close their eyes there’s darkness
hey derek i usually really like your videos but i think you need to do some more learning on how to properly interview people with disabilities ! a lot of this interview in particular felt like you were just asking questions you had written down and then weren’t really listening to any of his responses esp when u cut him off when he was trying to talk about music.
And don't have people living with disabilities on to just subject them to a series of party tricks. This one was just weird.
You need to let him talk more please. Don’t cut him off and also please let him tel us about his music journey. He’s a really amazing singer
just look him up, thanks for the tip! he does have an incredible talent!
LET THE MAN SPEAK FFS !!!
I feel like it's good to have questions written down for when the natural flow of the convo stops, but normally new questions are formed as you learn about the person being interviewed. He brought up his spirituality and his relationship with music and I would have loved to have heard more about that. It's cool to have silly questions like what if you had a service elephant, but not if it's to cut off a genuine discussion. It's uncomfortable watching him genuinely trying to share his life when the interveiwer is making jokes while he's trying to talk.
If you want to take the silly route, that's okay! But tell the person being interviewed that, because I'm not sure he knew.
Adaptive communication! Super important for interviewing
Dude ur jokes did not land at all in this one DO BETTER
God bless … having cancer at 6months and now he is 29 still being positive and living his life …. He is definitely an inspiration
I'm just as adhd so no hate on the flow of the conversation but I think everyone wants to hear a lot more. Can we get a round 2?
It feels like you're interviewing a person with disability to capitalise on their disabled experience. Please give them the space, time and opportunity to share their story instead of interjecting for sound bites and shallow innuendos.
Love the way the recent guests are humbling Derek’s prejudgements 🤭
Music is actually incredibly important for blind people. There was a science museum that did an exhibit for blind people to touch this metal bar that did a 📈📉in the pattern of a whale diving as musicians played sounds on cellos to mimic a humpback whale diving so they could experience what it would be like to be a whale diving and it was absolutely incredible. Blew my mind
Aw man not the betterhelp sponsorship 🙃 like secure the bag and all that but.. integrity
Our boy got sponsored by a company that supports therapy. Wtf do you mean integrity lmao
@@nathanhasson4587they’re shady that’s why most people frown on sponsorships
I’d like to assume he probably didn’t know about their shady practices and controversies. I almost did a BetterHelp sponsorship like had the paperwork signed and everything and found out last minute. On paper the company sounds amazing
I would assume the video was recorded and edited before the news dropped, but regardless I wish a lil edit was done if he knew and/or cared
@@konishiwoi people have been talking about how bad betterhelp is for years :( but there are still so many youtubers sponsored by them
she gagged you = she left you at a loss for words
he has such a calming aura, and I think there really is a beauty in having the ability not to judge by appearance but by the heart only. I can see it has impacted his character in a positive way and enhanced his music skills, which is why I definitely see why he identifies more with the term "differently abled"
Came here because I heard you talk about it in your last video and I just wanted to say you did good, ofcourse there are things that couldve gone diffrent but interviewing can be difficult sometimes. Don't beat yourself up about it. Keep having fun and no worries!
learn to listen to your interview-ee. stop listening to respond, start listening with the intent to understand
Derek gotta quit yapping and cutting off the guests. You as an interviewer are supposed to bring out the best in your guest. The whole point of an interview is to hear novel perspectives and by cutting them off you are preventing them from actually doing what they are here for. Multiple times in the interview he gets cut off for no reason completely ruining the flow of the conversation. It's actually so annoying.
Facts omg
Or he can do what he wants on his own show
Everyone out here roasting Derek for cutting him off but I think bro got undiagnosed ADHD high key 🤔
Yeah this really showed how immature the host is DAMN I love this guy ( the host) but damn this was a hard watch bc The guest was so inspirational, spitting gems and telling real stories and the host …. Idk man
The thing/problem with Derek is that he doesn’t engage in a conversation beyond his prepared questions. Like there is never a “fluid” conversation. The episodes are unbalanced too much what Derek has to say/ask too little about the Guest. Don’t get me wrong, I like he’s funny and brings something different to the interviews, and I know being an interviewer is hard af, but if he could practice and incorporate some balance these interviews would be 10x better
that's why to me the best episodes are always the ones with someone he already knew before hand, they sound like a real conversation. The fact is i thought he had that balance you are speaking about, but i feel like it changed just after the episode with Julie Vu (which was great), it's like he tried to change the formula a bit but he lost parts of what made the show interesting in the process
is no one gonna talk about derek's shirtless photo in 19:03????lmaoo the way he panicked😭😭😭😭
I thought that was planned 😭
Didn't even notice this cuz I was cooking lmao THANK YOU
it seemed on purpose lmao
hes so self-centered
@@Michelle-ws4bx Of course it's planned. It's just a visual gag for the viewers since his guest wouldn't notice but we would. Why do you think it was in there? Lmao
I absolutely love this guest but I feel like Derek was kinda rude, I love the vids with Ed and famegrandpa but any videos with people with any sort of disability makes for uncomfortable watching because of how Derek interacts with them :/
Jugpreet is so charming omg
His reactions and interactions with Jugpreet are so awkward. Why’s he collecting disabled people like Pokemon and then has nothing good to say 😭
Idk i feel like you’re making fun of him/belittling him for being blind & not understanding that this is HIS normal life. As well as just plain out rude for continuously cutting him off . This should’ve been a genuine conversation but you didn’t even listen to what he was really saying & just forced unnecessary jokes . Normally i really enjoy your videos but this one didn’t sit right with me .
his voice is so soothing. i could listen to him talk every second of the day
Bro your jokes weren’t funny at all
im ngl thats such an L for taking a betterhelp sponsorship
no one cares jump
i felt you were disrespectfull to him, constantly making these gags while he was talking about his story, not every video has to be like that just let him speak
you should release uncut versions of the interviews, id love to watch the full thing
Love the irony of a blind guy in a library:)
Calculated
Peak fs
Braille :))
libraries have audiobooks too
@@nectar9509Ah, glad ya shared with the class Einstein.
I enjoy his interviews but this one just felt rushed and u cut him off on the music part 😢
Also all the questions felt random one after another.
We want a re-interview please 🙏🏼
11:44 the mr. Beast video was curing people with cataracts. The procedure for curing cataracts is well understood but just costs money, which is why Mr. beast was able to help.
That’s the joke
@@Teajonmustardnot a funny one. Good humour has substance
Betterhelp can pay this ad but vannot afford an illustrator to make their stupid book. no more ai bullshit
damn love this channel but betterhelp really do yall not make a minimal amount of research before accepting sponsors?' betterhelp is infamous for treating their customers like sh1t and selling personal info to 3rd parties (which would be bad as is but considering this is therapy we're talking about it's horrible)
Besides being interuptive, some of these questions are lowkey disrespectful.
Better help is a bad company. I think you should learn about their controversies before taking a sponsorship from them again.
You made this one to much about yourself
This was weird and lowkey rude. I was listening as background noise while working and you just kept interrupting him! not jabbing at your character but I think you should interview him again and let him get into his story!!!!!
this felt a little bit condescendent, I mean, closing your eyes for a while so you can be "at his level"? wth man
the interviews questions are pretty disrespectful jesus
loool the comments slandering you are brutal i definitely think these episodes flatter you better when you’re interviewing somebody with a lighter more jokey character or abrasive personality and a little less integrity
the mr beast question was insane😭
im waiting for A Palestinian person episode
Oh he’s not brave enough to do that lmfaooo
his voice is so soothing
If you guys want to see how a blind person sees.. Close one of your eyes, and that's what they experience! What you see through your closed eye is seeing "nothing".
Wait what the fuck 😭 THAT'S SO WEIRD
Damnnnnnn based, i already got the idea through imagining seeing via my fingertip, but it’s interesting how this works too
@@spook6394 oh wow! i never knew this
@@princessmeow4922 Comparing a blind persons experience to a seeing person with their eyes closed is very misleading and inaccurate.
Blindness varies. Some people still see some very very blurry figures or movement of light. And some people have complete blindness where they don’t see anything including light.
If a seeing person has their eyes closed in a room and someone turns the lights on and off. They will notice the difference in light even with their eyes closed. A completely blind person won’t.
@@Hknktd bro nobody cares. im already aware of every single point u attempted to bestow on me
Jugpreet seems so nice to talk to and full of positivity in regards to being blind.. i think its so much more important to embrace the differences in perspective that come with it rather than what he "wishes" he had or wanted if he weren't blind bc he himself took the step of indulging in interests/hobbies like music that *don't* require sight. Seems as though too often people who are differently-abled, instead of being appreciated for how they adapt to their divergence from the norm, are just seen as another group of people to be fixed.. I notice this especially when cures or wishful thinking are mentioned.. why do you assume a blind person needs to be cured so bad if they are comfortable in their life as a blind person?
Disappointed about the betterhelp sponsorship… great episode nonetheless
i wanted to know more about what he was saying about what music means to him :((
He gets caught up in being goofy and is self centered as much as I like most of these videos
We need audio descriptions for our visually impaired people cuz that side-eye was deadly lmao
You should make 1 hour versions of these :)
Loved this ep! Jugpreet is so sincere and has such a great vibe…reminds me of your first interview with Ben, another gem of a human.
The part that really blew my mind was blindness = being beyond the duality of light and dark. He doesn’t see darkness, it’s just nothing 🤯
Just from the beginning you can see he is a good person
Derek please go back to how you were at the beginning, you're turning into Rory from the new YeahMad cast, always yapping
hes just a dude he only made a mistake
Derek I love this show, but you gotta stop interrupting your guests, especially when they’re in the midst of explaining an interesting story. You get distracted wayyy too quick bro lol
10:33 The captions say "how do you wipe your butt?" 😄
Yeah I’d reevaluate your approach to these interviews dude lol
This show is notably turning into Derek's sessions with his psychologist(s).
Derek please! Listen to what your guests are saying 😭 in some minutes he was too into the conversation and you just cut him off and changed the subject 😭
WAKE UP EVERYONE DEREK HAS UPLOADED 🗣️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥
I heard some people said, when you dont have eye balls, its like you try to see with your elbow.. its nothing, not even pitch black or something like that… dang i cant imagine that…
banger video
I hope he listen to this video with someone describing everything that happens
He’s so sweet omg
Dude, interrupting while he was speaking by the closing your eyes bs got to my nerves 9:58
You should have him on the show again! He is so interesting and well spoken
betterhelp again is not cool man....
You need to stop interrupting and let the person speak.
11:36 cancelled
I Hope you put on the subtitles because There are some easter eggs hahahah, for example 10:30
omg derek, stop hitting your head he totally understands your question, and you are totally respectful to him
This guy seems so sweet & genuine. My late aunt was blind from birth and I miss her every single day. Decided to switch career paths and work with the blind 🖤 Loved this episode & how you just ask every guest regular & fun questions. Would love to have another episode! :)
Did anyone have this with captions and suddenly see “how do you wipe your butt?” 10:33 😭
Bro is a permanent audio listener 😔
“The dog got fired?”
I lost my shit 🤣
He has a beautiful and charming smile tbh
Is the interviewer stoned?! lol
the blind date question was wild
lol, I think Derek has adhd or something of the sort. Total ENxP vibes 😭
5:16 LMAO Derek you're toxic
STOP CUTTING HIM OFF NOOOOOOO
HELP THE ROTI SOUND
5:13 the look after he said that ????
CANUCKS LEGEND!!!
Didn’t expect to see you there
I usually like these but you asked the absolute most DUMBEST & ignorant questions
All I cared about was if tht dog got hit by a train??!!? Yo wtf I’ma need clarification on “ok”
I feel like they guest have taken a turn but he should focus on how he started the channel rather then this newer content cause it doesn’t make him look good, been watching 13 years so no hate big huge fan
why did you show the video to him not to the camera while doing audio guessing? (foreheadslap) 🤭
Your guest is a beautiful person omg
How do you come up with these guests
This guy keeps wanting to talk about his height 😐
"Have you ever been on blind date"🤣🤣
whyd that childrens book look like AI
Awesome interview ❤We love you Juggy
she kegged you