Chris Brown Punches Usher In the Face, Ed Sheeran’s Trial & Interview With Doula About Birth
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- Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
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On this episode of The Sesh, Kendall’s doula Carlee joins us to answer your questions about birth but before she joins us we talk about Ed Sheeran’s recent copy right lawsuit and the beef between Usher & Chris Brown.
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2:15 - weekend update
18:20 - Usher & CB beef
25:37 - Ed Sheeran’s lawsuit
42:51 - Doula Q&A
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hi janelle, on your worrying about being a bad parent: bad parents never worry if they're bad parents. half of being good at it is just loving your kid(s) and being there for them. you'd be a great mom, because you love fiercely and with your whole heart. i'm a person who doesn't want my own kids and never has, but i ended up with three stepchildren and everything has been going great.
Such a great way to put it!
I love this comment and you’re totally right about the part of bad parents never worry if they’re bad parents- it’s so true.
@@kianna270 omg my name is Kianna too and I've never seen anyone who has two n in their name, I've only met people named Kiana, so hi (●’◡’●)ﾉ 😭 also were both seshies toooo.
@@sugarbunnytv omgggg that’s so cool bc me either!!! I always see it as “kiana” or even “keanna” that’s so cool!!!
Ooooof this so much
All please keep me in your thoughts and prayers. My best friend died two nights ago and I’m devastated. I’m glad to have this show to lift my spirits even if it’s just a little bit. Thank you Kendall, Janelle, Karelly, and Sydney ❤ Y’all feel like friends to me.
Omg im so sorry to hear this that is absolutely awful to go through and incredibly tragic. Sending you a big e- hug
I am so so sorry for your loss ❤
So sorry for you loss ❤
Sorry for your loss. Sending love and prayers your way 🙏🏻
Best of luck getting through this hard time❤
As someone who doesn’t want kids personally, I love hearing about the journey regardless, especially given I most likely will never experience it. Love you guys!!
Same here!!
Me too! I have such a fascination with pregnancy and birth but do not desire it for myself. So fun to learn about! 😊
Same here.
same here 💜
Same here. Feel like it’ll help me support my friends and family going through this a bit better too.
carlee seems so sweet. you can tell she’s so passionate and loves her job so much, which is so important. i loved hearing her talk about her work, although i’m not planning on having children it’s really beneficial and helpful learning how to support pregnant people around me and things i can do to show up for them
Y’all are the best thing about my Thursdays. Kendall’s RUclips show makes my Mondays. Mile Higher Makes my Wednesday’s. And Lights Out makes my Fridays.
Same! 🫶🏼
Me too 🇦🇺
“I think I’m pretty decent at it” Kendall’s British accent as it trails into Australian lmao 😂
LOL
Her British accent is an Australian Moira from Schittz Creek. 😂
I love this conversation with Carly. I just gave birth about 7 months ago to my second son. I’m a recovering addict and didn’t know that an epidural has fentanyl in it. I asked for it and the first nurse (before shift change) looked at me with disgust and asked if I was sure and told me all these reasons why it would be a “bad decision”. I had one with my first son so I was firm on having it. Once I found out what was in it, I was shocked and it hit me that she was looking at me like just another addict and it made me so sad and angry. I’m a MOTHER. Yes, I had an addiction but I’ve beat it for 5 years and I’m a better person now. It’s very sad that people especially nurses still look at us as less than. Moral of the story, ADVOCATE! ADVOCATE! ADVOCATE! No matter what they say, it’s your body and you have the right to accept or deny anything. Thank you Kendall and Janelle for having this very important conversation!🎉❤😊
As someone who just reached over a year sober, congratulations 🎉🎈🎊!! You’ve worked really hard to get to where your at, and i’m proud of you! F#%** that stupid ass nurse for just judging you without knowing your full story. I bet you’re an amazing mother, keep up the good work ! ❤
Good Lord, REALLY!?!? 😮😮😮
I'm a drug and alcohol psychologist, and I am also a recovering addict, and when I had my son, though it was about 15 year's before my addiction issue's started, NEVER EVER was I made aware of that fact. I think it should be something EVERYONE is told as a matter of course, but ABSOLUTELY should you NOT be treated like s**t if you choose to have one!!! ❤❤❤
Thank you so much for sharing this information 🌹🌹🌹
Carlee was so knowledgeable and this was so interesting to listen to! Especially bringing voices to woman of color❤️
I don’t know why this video has me so emotional. Since the Doula started talking and sharing experiences I started ugly crying, remembering the birth of my kids. Very heart warming. She seems like the sweetest person.
😭❤️ happy Mother’s Day
Janelle, I am 41 & was not sure I wanted kids. I had the SAME thoughts as you. I was intimidated by kids & by friends that knew they wanted them. My husband wanted them so I went along with it & I wound up really finding myself. I’m the best mom & am confident. I honestly think I went into it with a better mindset because I didn’t have predetermined thoughts about it. Anyway, good on you for thinking hard on it. Just don’t let the questioning of it intimidate you. ❤️
Just coming in with some applause - genuine applause bc I appreciate this post. I think that it's vulnerable to comment and I recognize the courage and love behind it. Xox
Thank you so much for this comment! This is a great point and I appreciate your honesty. I am definitely intimidated to some degree!
I copied this from my comment bc there’s a chance you will see this one,
I know I’m late so they’ll probably never see this but JANELLE! I feel the exact same way at 1:18. It’s so hard to explain but I have the same thoughts! I just got a ten year iud placed about 7 months ago and I still feel ehh about it. I am 90% sure I don’t want kids and I swear that 10% doubt is because of our society and culture. It’s basically unheard of to choose to not have kids anymore.. or we’re not speaking loud enough. I just want you to know that you’re not alone!! And listening to you made me feel the same way, so thank you!
I am so happy that Janelle was so honest and she describes exactly the same way I feel about having kids. I wish it was normalized that “I want to do whatever I want, whenever I want” as a valid reason to not have kids. I personally still get horrified looks from people when Ive been brutally honest about “wanting to be selfish” when the topic has been brought up. (I personally have so many other reasons but I would say this the top reason for me). Also I think sometimes it’s just so inappropriate to keep asking people if they want to have kids repeatedly. I’ve gotten this so much especially since I just had my first wedding anniversary a couple of months ago.
Also not everyone who is married want have kids right away. I think I can speak for some recently-ish married people people that are tired if of the of then “So when are you having kids?” question. Let them just enjoy married life please.
Fun fact: I had a unmedicated birth in 2021 something that helped me get through was listening to my favorite mile higher episode, two Kendal Rae episodes and a couple of planet sleep episodes 😬
Thanks for being part of my birthing experience! Lol
I appreciate Janelle being so open about how she feels so uncertain about having kids. I feel exactly the same way she does and it’s just nice to hear that conversation from you all❤️
Carlee gives such a nice, sweet, and peaceful vibe. I can definitely tell she’s an amazing doula just by hearing her talk about her job.
This episode was POWERFUL. Loved this open and honest conversation about so many things that woman are taught not to talk about. I felt so comfortable throughout the entire episode and I learned soooo much! Loved Carly as well!!! Wow she’s an angel and I’m so happy Kendall had her as a dula! ❤❤
Thank you Janelle for sharing your feelings on having kids. I feel the same way, I’m 26 & my husband and I currently are leaning towards not having kids but I really have NO clue! I’m like will I ever know or feel differently? anyway, I wish more women talked about it!❤
While I have no living children, I really connected with this episode and the doula talk. Through my pregnancy loss journey, I have worked with a bereavement doula and she has been an absolute Godsend. I love doula’s and everything they stand for.
janelle: “idk if I would be a good mom”
janelle: proceeds to say a bunch of things that amazing moms say
Idk what I’d do at work without all the podcast through the week from mile higher media. Thursday are definitely my favorite though. Love you girlies ❤
Thank you ♥️♥️
Can we get Holly as a guest to do a pickle taste test and have her try a few different ones!!!!!
I think this is a cute idea on paper but really I don't think we should be asking Kendall to use her child for our entertainment..❤
I just wanna day how much I appreciate the Sesh, Lights Out, and the Mile Higher podcasts! Over the last two months I’ve developed chronic low back pain due to nerve damage and early onset arthritis. These videos are so appreciated and loved on days when I’m struggling to get out of bed and feel like a human being.
With chronic pain, it’s made it so much harder to sleep at night, but I tried the Lunar Lavenberry oil and it has been such a saving grace!! It has been one of the only reasons I can get any kind of rest at night. I ordered my first bottle two weeks ago and I just ordered two more yesterday!
Thank you all so, so much for all that y’all do!! I will always appreciate y’all more than y’all know! ❤️
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Janelle, as a viewer who doesn't always feel represented with your views, I really liked hearing your stance on having kids. I have always had the "want" to have kids and I had 2 who I thankfully raised to adulthood. I know all women don't have that feeling all their lives. You can still be a great mom even if your want to have kids happens later on in life!!
THANK👏🏼YOU👏🏼I got in a whole argument with my friend cuz she said “Chris Brown is the king or R&B”.. and I said “he’s the kind of beating the shit out of Rihanna too” and she got mad and said I made it awkward l? Bug like all is not forgiven screw Chris brown!
Agree😊 I loved him n R Kelly till their ugly mis deeds came to light 😢 Im still cringing at both of their mis deeds n it sucks bc I like their music but Chris n R Kelly are such total assholes 🤬
Agree😊 I loved him n R Kelly till their ugly mis deeds came to light 😢 Im still cringing at both of their mis deeds n it sucks bc I like their music but Chris n R Kelly are such total assholes 🤬 So I cant listen to their music or support them in any way
Karelly that shirt is dope
It’s giving me Ace Ventura flashbacks and I love me some Jim Carey
Aw I love seeing someone who is so natural in the Sesh vibe join for an episode! She’s so sweet and interesting!! You should totally bring Carlee back again for another episode even if it’s not pregnancy/birth related!
Thank you Janelle, Kendall, and the team about this Doula episode with Carly! ❤ definitely a special one for sure.
For how good of a mom Janelle is to her dogs, she will be an amazing mom to a baby. There is no comparison to a mother's love for her baby. There are many women who didnt know if they wanted kids and their kids end up being the best part of their life. ❤
Exactly!!!!❤. Her concerns are valid. Mental health is important. And it’s impacted if you can’t be as social and free. But if she has enough support and money for childcare she’ll be fine. But it’s a big change
Aww thank you. But one of my fears is that I will actually love my kid less than my dogs, and also the other way around - I don’t want to love my dogs less because of having a kid. I know that sounds really weird lol I dk how else to describe it
You will appreciate them both!! And love them differently, your heart only grows bigger with more family members to love ❤️ your kids will love your dogs and your dogs will love your kids!
But I understand, I was terrified before having kids!
karelly with the A team KILLED ME she’s so funny 🤣💜💜
We need so many more people like Carlee, thank you and all your colleagues for doing what you do ❤
I’m dying 😂 Jenelle literally sounds like James Blunt while she’s singing Ed Sheeran songs
LMFAO
Listening to Carlee explain how she encourages and empowers these mothers in birth has me in tears. I've always known in my heart that I wanted to be a mother, simultaneously one of my worst fears is giving birth. This was so comforting! I would love to have her on for a part two or something! I am always grateful for the wide variety of topics y'all offer so open mindedly and casual. 💖💖
Green is definitely Karelly's colour! I loved her olive shirt or jacket she wore on one of the recent episodes and her shirt today!!
My best friend had a doula and said it was the greatest thing ever! If I ever have a kid (infertility struggles are the bane of my existence) I will absolutely have one also.
In regards to the pooping while giving birth :
Omg when I gave birth one of the times , I remember the nurse (God bless her dude for real for real) she snatched that shit up quite literally with the pads that were under me and I’ll never forget it because she saved me from being embarrassed or from my husband noticing or looking at it , she really was the real mvp that day lmao
Love you guys!! You don't even know how much this show means to everyone!! Like literally a life saver ❤ thank you 🎉
I'm excited before every episide of The Sesh cause it is my favorite podcast but I'm extra pumped for this one
I am 13 days post partum and it truly is everything all at once. I had an emergency c section after a failed induction 😣it has been the toughest but most beautiful 13 days of my life ❤
I had a hospital doula like, my nurses realized I was really struggling so they asked me if I wanted a doula and she was amazing. I’m so glad I did. Also grateful my hospital had that option. I also gave birth in 20/20 and was pretty severely effected at not being able to have my mom there
Anyone else watch the ads on here because in your brain it’s like tipping them for sharing their life and time with us or just me ? 😅
I have RUclips red bc of the student discount, but I would watch ads for them 😂
@@kianna270 i believe you ! I really like the sesh community . We’re all different with different beliefs but come together to enjoy various topics . I bet everyone on here that pays for ad free RUclips would also watch the ads if given the choice 😎
I'm almost 40 and I have never felt the desire to have kids. I 100% support not having kids if you don't want them. I prefer pets. 😊 Of course I also 100% support the choice TO have kids. Being an aunt for me is also more rewarding. If my sister's kids need time away from their mom, they can ALWAYS come to me. ❤️❤️
The only consistent podcasts I watch are all of yours Kendall and h3. So happy to see these 2 worlds colliding 😊
This is my first time listening to you guys and I'm obsessed!
Welcome! 🤩
Loved this episode! This and Kendall’s birth story are prob my faves. My first baby was 9lbs 9oz. I pushed for 3 1/2 hours (no epidural) and ended up with major tears including a 4th degree internal tear and an episiotomy. BUT my third baby came out in just two pushes! 😅 I’m currently studying to be a midwife so I love this content ❤
Woohoo! I almost never catch these premieres 🙌🏻 so happy to be spending this rainy afternoon with you lovely ladies & fellow seshies ❤
Okay I HAVE to point this out to be better safe than sorry. In the last episode Janelle shared about the random magnet on her car and my theory was that maybe it wasn’t a tracking device but instead a stalker wanting to confirm it was Janelle’s car by waiting to see if she would talk about it on the podcast? Idk if that’s a reach but we both (my husband & me)100% think the magnet was placed intentionally and it couldn’t have been an accident. Especially hearing about that trash guy at the bar bothering Janelle I just had to share! Be safe ladies💓
Oh yeah! Makes you wonder for sure
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Well gee whiz mate you may have a very good point there! Really hope for her sake it's not the case an incel superfan stalker sounds scary AF!
Oh boy, new fear unlocked lol
I had my one and only MIRACLE, and I mean MIRCALE son, 19 year's ago.
It was an absolutely HORRIFIC experience, but there is absolutely nothing that could have prepared any of us for any of the complications that occurred.
That said, listening to this was amazing, and I have so much respect for Carlee.
I wish I'd had her there with me!!! ❤❤❤
I can definitely see why Kendall chose to have her as her doula.
As fascinated as I am with childbirth etc etc, I really didn't think I'd be able to watch over an hour of Q&As about it, but this really was phenomenal.
Good job all!!!! This was really incredible 🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐🌹🌹🌹
I’m a server and I sometimes dream that I’m at work serving tables. in those dreams I always am messing up something and having angry costumers and i ALWAYS wake up with so much anxiety 😂
Literally same 😂😂 on my days off it really gets to me lol
My worst nightmares are court themed and my crimes are atrocious. They feel so real and I wake up crying thinking I've screwed my and family's life 😂💀... they usually happen after Lights Out Podcast.
One of your gay dude-ette watchers here!! Just wanted ALL you girls to know I learned soooo much from this… even tho I’ll never be pushing out a literal human being out of my actual body, it’s incredible to hear all these stories and experiences!!! Thank you for sharing ❤
Kendall!! you had baby Holly a month before i had my baby Hazel. i’m so excited for this episode
I'm due in September and I know the military offers Doulas and it was just very cool to see what they can do for you and how supportive they can be. I'm absolutely going to look into finding one for myself.
I lucid dream most nights, I thought that was just how dreams were for everyone, I only found out recently it’s not common 🙈
On the topic of bad dreams, when you wake up come up with a new ending, my go-to is that it’s movie that I was acting in, and I image the red carpet and the wrap party, and see all the monsters out of the makeup and outfits, I hope that helps ❤
I learned to control my dreams as therapy for PTSD, which always included reliving the trauma night after night. Lucid dreams and mastering the outcome really and truly healed and saved me.
@@GenXfrom75 I’m so sorry I went through that, but I’m really glad you managed to heal yourself, you should be very proud of that, winning a fight with our mind is honestly such a huge achievement 💜
Kendall & Jenelle!! Y’all are always using your platform right!! shout out to birth workers who are empowering women is their birth experiences. Thanks for repping an under valued community and overall conversation.
Pregnant with my first so I’m excited for this episode 😌
Congrats!
congratulations!
Good luck
I hope for a healthy happy birth.
Congrats!
I did my PA school capstone thesis project on VBAC and thank you for discussing actual fact-based evidence Carlee!! When I did my presentation (this was about 6 years ago) my advisor said "what could you possibly find for new information. It is widely accepted and people are very open to it" and frankly no. I still seems to have this negative connotation about it. Even when I presented, the majority of the people who listened to my presentation knew nothing about VBAC and if they did, they'd always been told no and it is "too high risk" "it isn't worth it" blah blah blah. Really loved this conversation as someone who is a medical provider and continues to try and do my best to provide the best care possible and be as open-minded and empathetic as I can be! So informative!
I absolutely loved this episode!! I’m usually really hesitant about guest coming on to my comfort shows, but carlee was so great and I truly adore her for all of her knowledge & her kind spirit!! Much love my girls 🤍
I did miss getting to hear karelly & Sydney though.
You guys all together just mesh together so well.
2:23:48
Janelle I admire you for your honesty about not wanting kids and being on the fence about it now. There are more women with your thought process than you realize. You’re no less of a woman for not wanting them, not less loving or capable or being motherly) Now that I’m a mom I really and truly understand the women that don’t want to be moms . It’s a HUGE deal to have another human being that came from you and the one you love. And the last thing you want is to bring them into a world that’s going to be harsh. We all experience roughness in life . Or we simply don’t feel like we can ever be good enough or well equipped to handle another life and be better than our parents. The fears go on and on because it’s all unknown!
I’ll put it this way, I’ve wanted to be a mom my whole life. And I STILL was unprepared and didn’t know what was coming every time after three kids at my now age of 30 . And there’s more to come. From the moment I had my first until I die I will forever worry and I’ll always wonder if I could’ve done better. But life is like that in general. And I know I love my children and they love me , they’re dad does too and they adore him, and they’re happy and they tell me how good of a mom I am and that’s how I know I’m better than my parents were with me so despite the fear, God and my children and this motherly love I have for them have gotten me thru. And if you ever do have children, I can only assume the same will carry you through.
Side note: we’ve seen how you are with Charlie and if you’re that caring and sweet with your dog , one can imagine how darling and amazing you’ll be with your own child ❤
I LOVE these long uploads, I know y’all cut a lot out usually but I’m sure I’m not the only one who loves it
Ms. Kendall I love all of your shows from mile higher to the sesh to just your true crime podcast. Do you think you’ll ever add a POC person to your podcast officially to continue to diversify the sesh. It’s literally my favorite show and I mean no harm in saying that. I also believe you janelle, Karelly, and Sydney continue to do an amazing job by providing all aspects of conversation to make sure everyone is heard. Thank you for being you and bringing this amazing group together, it’s brings so much light to the world.
☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾 THIS!!!
Happy Mother’s Day Kendall and Carlee!
Thank you all of you for this 2 hour episode , it was a great 🎉
Pregnant with my first baby and found this episode so comforting and useful, thank you for putting this together. I’ve been doing a hypnobirthing course which has been awesome but, would have loved a doula, such a valuable role and Carly seems such a lovely soul! ❤️
Thank you so much for the discussion on women of color and giving birth as well as just receiving medical care in this country in general. 😢
Ed Sheeran is really talented songwriter. He wrote many song not only from himslef but also other artists. There's no reason why he would want to steal song from anyone. He's hard working human. He literally beat guiness world record with the longest tour. Really genuine guy. Idk if I ever wanna have a baby at this point but this conversation was very interesting to hear. Carlee really seems to love her job. I love the idea of baskets/gift box for mothers- very thoughtful thing.
carly seems so freaking sweet!!!!! i just love her vibe i caught myself smiling when she was cause her smile is so contagious! i’m so glad you had her during one of the most important parts of your life, kendall!
I actually fall asleep watching y’all and Mile Higher so y’all blend into my dreams sometimes! I drank mimosas with y’all one day! It was awesome
i thought Janelle’s story was a dream story the whole time but she seemed so worked up that i reminded and realized this actually happened 😂
SAAMMMEE, I was like this is a weird dream hahah
I'm so glad I could finally catch a premiere! I've missed out on mile higher content these past weeks. I've been following true crime Court trials. Its been exhausting. So glad to engage in some uplifting and entertaining podcasts! 🙌 Ladies, you're a breath of fresh air!❤
This is for janelle specifically.
I’m a mother of a 3 year old girl ❤️ before I got pregnant with her I ABSOLUTELY DID NOT WANT TO HAVE CHILDREN! I did not want to ruin my body and other things ! But when I got pregnant unexpectedly my perspective changed . It was a hard transition mentally. Very hard . But the breakthrough was MAGICAL. And i love being a mom now and love focusing on being a better mother . So just take your time and let life happen . And let your heart guide you :) love ya
this was a really great episode! so informational and positive, Carlee was a great guest! I'm saving for when/If I have kids.
i also have chronic nightmares and it's truly awful. some of my nightmares have been so intense that i remember them fully to this day as if they really happened. and then after having one i feel like i'm in a weird daze for half the day. i either don't dream at all or i have a nightmare, no in-between.
I am totally there with you. I have nightmares that I still have vivid images of and think about often. I hate it so much
I've been having a lot of sleep related issues, so I had to do a sleep study. I was getting less than an hour of restorative sleep, I was basically giving myself sleep deprivation every night. Hallucinating, hearing voices etc. I have a good medication regime now, and I sleep amazing now.
kendall saying ed sheeran is a “good chap” and “funny lad” is killing me😭🤣
I just found out I’m pregnant 15 mins before starting this! The perfect episode for me right now.
Janelle, you have been expressing exactly how I’m feeling about having kids. I’ve had all of those same thoughts, and it feels really good to know I’m not alone.
I love my sesh babes and going from watching the H3 podcast when they mentioned you I was screaming! So glad Olivia is there for the fangirlies she makes the podcast for me! I hope you have a great week my sweeties! vapenation milehigherfam seshsquad unite!
Hearing Janelle day she’s used to always having bad dreams makes me feel sad 😢
Janelle, fight to find out why that is !
I hope you can find out why so you can enjoy your dreams
My psychology professor years ago told us that eating Vlasic Dill Spears (specifically those) before bed will help you lucid dream. He said he did a study on it in grad school. He also set up a humidifier with a timer to release a specific scent during different parts of the night where he was likely in REM, which he was able to predict based on studying his specific sleep habits, and then he could smell that scent and it would help him recall the dream he was having at that part of his dream cycle. He did his thesis on that. Very interesting.
I’m so sad that people always bash inductions. I have had 2 scheduled inductions and I will be having a third and they were both beautiful. Inductions can be so positive too!!
For sure!!!
To Janelle I never had the I want children feeling. Tbh I disliked kids. Zero maternal instincts. But it changes with your own. Least in my case. I’d literally die for my children. I also had* a friend who wanted kids their whole life. Soon as her son was 2-3 months old she left him with his father and never came back. That was 16yrs ago. Moral of the story, nothing is written in the stars
Same! My husband and I absolutely adore our 2 daughters. We don't really enjoy other people's kids 😂😬
look forward to this podcast every week!! you ladies are the best, seriously my favorite show to listen to while at work
Janelle, thank you for mentioning that you only have bad dreams because I do too and always felt so alone.. I never have good dreams and I also do not know it's a dream when it's happening. Sometimes it gets so much worse than others that I cry or whimper in my sleep. When it's that bad I get scared and anxious to even go to sleep. I always felt crazy for it! It's not fun, but feels less lonely now! Thankfully my husband recognizes when the dreams get bad and he's able to wake me up out of it.😊 It feels like this was such a small part of this whole episode, but made such a big impact on me💜
Yesss it’s my birthday and I just came home to a new Sesh podcast!! so excited
happy birthday ! 🥳
Happy birthday!! 🎉
Caught part of the live premiere. Definitely watching live but can't wait to go back and watch from the beginning. Love to all the seshies!!
got my wisdom teeth removed today and i am so glad it was on a thursday so i get to watch y’all! thank you for distracting me and providing quality entertainment!!! absolute favorite podcast y’all are the coolest
I just got a crown for the first time and I was NOT prepared for that shittt lmao
Loved this episode. I have a 10 yo, 11 yo and a 3 week old so going though it all again after 10 years. Support for birth has progressed so much in 10 years it’s great.
I loved this episode!! I have always been so fascinated with birth and absolutely loved giving birth myself and my dream is to become a doula someday. I will be coming back to reference this video when my kiddos are a little older and I can pursue it! 🥰 Thank you Carlee & happy Mother’s Day!!
Happy Mother’s Day Kendall ❤️
11:38 H3 Podcast mention!! The crossover we need!!
This was an amazing episode ❤
Thank you for the Mother's day wishes(mom of 2 boys)! Happy Mother's day to you both as well!❤
If you are awakened during REM sleep, you're far more likely to recall your dreams. I learned to control my dreams to overcome nightmares due to PTSD. It's been such a healing experience.
1:17:28 Wow. The timing is ✨perfect✨This is exactly what I needed to hear right now and it’s so nice to actually hear someone talk about this 🥺
Also side note: Having Janelle’s psychology background/ input blended incredibly well with this topic! 🩷
I love your channel you all are awesome but the close up of Janelle then they were talking about the baby being born with the hand by its head was priceless lol😂
I’ve only heard the intro song and I’m already SO happy this ep is 2.2 hours long!!! I’m here for this longer content! If you’re ever considering going longer sesh team I vote YES YES YES! it’s giving h3 longness…. Just saying 😏 Love you guys! ❤
Thanks for having her or them on! Had two births that were traumatic bc of csections. While the csections saved my children I suffered for years and my endometriosis was much worse after. The opposite of what doctors told me. I was also told the csections would be easy if they happened. Medical emergency csections aren’t easy😢.
my mom is a doula, and ive done some birth photography. it’s such a beautiful experience 🥹🥹 i have no interest in having children, ive had my tubes tied, so being able to be part of such an amazing thing is so so fun and rewarding. I’ve also been looking into being a death doula myself.
2 random comments:
- Kendall saying Shape of You is a song playing in hell has never been a more accurate statement 😂🤣
- I have zero interest in being a mom, but learning about Carlee’s experience as a doula was still so captivating to learn about. Thank you for sharing! I think the doctor-nurse-midwife-doula dynamic is so interesting.
I love hearing both of your perspectives on having children and Janelle I agree with your perspective that it’s difficult to decide because there’s no default gut feeling about having children or not, but that will make your experience much more special and might even show how great of a mother you could be because you really have to decide to have kids, against all else. I am sure you would be a great parent one day just like Kendall! ❤️❤️
Ok I need more of these types of interviews. Bring me on, I'll answer all your vet tech questions 😂
I hated being pregnant to be honest, I was so depressed. The moment I pushed my son out I felt better, by the next day mentally I felt like o was in such a better place. I was so lucky to have a friend one month behind me who was feeling the same way. I did struggle very hard with postpartum anxiety, I still have my days as my son has only just turned 4 months but I really do push for people to ask for help. Even a stubborn person like me asked for the benefit of my family. Love you guys!
Hold on this girls been assisting births for 7 years and the biggest baby she’s seen is 9.6? And I was 9.7???! Am I ok? Lol
God I love Karelly so badddd she makes fantastic points and is such a good addition to the pod!
I can totally relate to Janelles thoughts and feelings on having kids. Its so comforting to hear it from someone else