I still love this interview. It's a weird connection for anyone who had abusive parents. I am with Drew when I feel like I don't want others to see my Mom in a negative light because she is not the Mom that I grew up with because she's now been diagnosed and is being treated for bipolar. But I still have this horrible past.
yess i felt that if i showed her in any negative light people would not see her good and the love that i have for her or the love i know deep down she has for me. i felt i had to protect her
@@laceybright3088 Yes Exactly! I think a lot of us feel this way. I didn't realize most of us didn't have a normal childhood. Or maybe this was the norm 🤷🏻♀️
@@sobetobey9172 The more I distanced myself, the more I lived in the real world. The more I could feel that deserved resentment to them. Still sometimes I find myself defending their actions with the words they defended themselves with. It's really interesting for sure.
I LOVE this interview because in most interviews Jennette has done she’s asked about the Nickelodeon aspect of the book. But that’s such a small part! It’s important to recognize the true meaning of the book, not just what’s most marketable. It’s her lifelong journey of dealing with the abuse her mother put her through. Thank you, Drew ❤
Jeanette should get her degree and become a celebrity therapist! She understands a lot of things that celebrities have gone through that a non-celebrity therapist might not. That’s not to say a non-celebrity therapist can’t help them (I’m going to college for my M.S in clinical mental health counseling) but you can just see Drew’s walls come down bc she feels like Jeanette gets her in a way, she could help a lot of people!
You hit the nail on the head about protecting our mothers by not showing them up in a bad light. At age 58 I am still building my confidence without hearing my mother's voice in my head. When I see FB posts from friends about how they honor their mothers, all I think about is how I never had that kind of relationship. I always tried to please her, but it was never enough.
Anything worth saying is going to be divisive for sure. My truth is lodged in my throat and the secrets I’m holding just so both of my narcissistic parents can live a comfortable life while I have been in survival mode since a child due to their abuse. Seeing a woman specifically speak this openly about abuse is more than inspirational. I appreciate this level of sharing. There is so much suffering when you really have no blueprint for love. Wishing everyone healing. The things I’ve heard about Drew’s story have helped me so much as well. It’s also incredible to see someone who has been through so much find the strength to be themselves. It really takes so much strength.
Jeannette complimenting Drew for making her feel comfortable made me genuinely tear up. Jeannette would have deserved somebody like Drew to be her mom (everybody does)
I love the woman Janette has grown to become, she’s beautiful and brilliant. I’m so glad I watched this interview, it can help/teach so many people is so many situations💗💗
Before I even watch this video I feel like I already get it. There’s no reason I should be giving my mom any bit of grace after what she did to me. But now that she has passed it’s a lot easier to let go. It’s over. Nothing can be done. I know she will never reach out and apologize. All I can do is send her hope and love and hope that it helps her have a better life. So much healing has come from her death and it’s such a weird thing to express to people who just don’t get it.
After my mom died I would joke and say to people “I really loved my mom, but god I’m glad she’s dead” People would be like “what!?” And I would just say “oh you had to know her” and I’d laugh. I knew they didn’t understand it was just liberating to say it out loud. Yeah, I get it, wow I never had someone tell my truth before.
I can't wait to read Jeannette memoir she's really brave to expose dan Schneider and write about the trauma she endured at the hands of her mother hopefully she's helped others who have been in her situation
Thank you so much for giving her the space she’s earned to share her story she is so inspiring I’m so many ways and this interview has been very therapeutic and special to me so happy you guys connected In this way to help young girls like me heal from having this kind of abuse in childhood ❤
This is amazing! This brought tears to my eyes. I know Drew, you understand her 100%. The connection I feel between you both. Tears of happiness for you both to have meet and talked and also of sadness because you both had to go though this.
I have been thinking, at age 55 , what am i going to n ed when my mom FINALLY dies. I imagine i will have to find a way to cope with grace when someone says oh, "im sorry your mom died" It will stir a range of emotions from anfer to swelling grief over who i could have been had i had a different mother and upbringing and the profound struggle Year after year in adulthood weather its been years of no contact or small periods of contact. Its been a nightmare for my entire life. I think its important speak our truth as the abused .
Yeah when people talk so highly of my mom and they say sorry she passed it must hurt so much to me, I just say umm yeah and change the subject..It's hard for sure, the people I'm closest to I tell the absolute truth but don't want to weigh on ppl that I'm not close too bc it's a big bag of stuff my mom left me with of abuse. Oh well
I really want to get into contact with Drew and would love to talk not only with her personally but also about the many and vast aspects of addiction and growth as a young woman .. I frequently come back to this interview with someone as my contemporary (Jeanette) with someone who I see as a true star (Drew) talking about healing as women. It's so... Not empowering necessarily but healing as another who has endured trauma as a young woman. This is one of my favorite interviews I've ever seen ngl lol, and Drew if you're reading please reach out. I'd love your info and to maybe talk about a topic on your podcast or something. (low-key if I can get Jeanette too that'd be a dream, but it's clear I'm dreaming big 🤣)
Typically when we try to say something our trusted person goes to ask our mom. We’re labeled disrespectful lyars etc making our bad feelings of not being good enough much worst
The best thing I did was leaving my mom behind. She's still alive. But not to me. Not really. Sometimes the weight of it is ... Enormous. Society judges so much. It took me a long time to reach a position or a point where I can say my mother was a depressed narcissist that ruined me as a person. I was... Her creation. And anything beyond that wasn't acceptable. Wasn't deemed worthy of existence. I'm still healing from that.
If you haven't seen the full interview yet, be sure to check it out here: ruclips.net/video/cIYSPwAwQVI/видео.html
I love when a smart woman learns from a younger one. Its good to Drew heal.
Good ole feminism other strong woman the only thing her ass listen too
You're right 👍
I still love this interview. It's a weird connection for anyone who had abusive parents. I am with Drew when I feel like I don't want others to see my Mom in a negative light because she is not the Mom that I grew up with because she's now been diagnosed and is being treated for bipolar. But I still have this horrible past.
yess i felt that if i showed her in any negative light people would not see her good and the love that i have for her or the love i know deep down she has for me. i felt i had to protect her
@@laceybright3088 Yes Exactly! I think a lot of us feel this way. I didn't realize most of us didn't have a normal childhood. Or maybe this was the norm 🤷🏻♀️
@@sobetobey9172 The more I distanced myself, the more I lived in the real world. The more I could feel that deserved resentment to them. Still sometimes I find myself defending their actions with the words they defended themselves with. It's really interesting for sure.
It’s so complicated because they damaged you so bad but you still love them
@@blairwaldorf-bass8180 Yes 😔
I LOVE this interview because in most interviews Jennette has done she’s asked about the Nickelodeon aspect of the book. But that’s such a small part! It’s important to recognize the true meaning of the book, not just what’s most marketable. It’s her lifelong journey of dealing with the abuse her mother put her through. Thank you, Drew ❤
You can feel the pain in Drew's voice
Jeanette should get her degree and become a celebrity therapist! She understands a lot of things that celebrities have gone through that a non-celebrity therapist might not. That’s not to say a non-celebrity therapist can’t help them (I’m going to college for my M.S in clinical mental health counseling) but you can just see Drew’s walls come down bc she feels like Jeanette gets her in a way, she could help a lot of people!
Or a therapist for anyone who had abusive parents, celebrity or not.
You hit the nail on the head about protecting our mothers by not showing them up in a bad light. At age 58 I am still building my confidence without hearing my mother's voice in my head. When I see FB posts from friends about how they honor their mothers, all I think about is how I never had that kind of relationship. I always tried to please her, but it was never enough.
That was your mother's problems not yours. Every child deserves a mother, not every mother deserves her children
Here is one
57 and still looking for my confidence
Anything worth saying is going to be divisive for sure. My truth is lodged in my throat and the secrets I’m holding just so both of my narcissistic parents can live a comfortable life while I have been in survival mode since a child due to their abuse. Seeing a woman specifically speak this openly about abuse is more than inspirational. I appreciate this level of sharing. There is so much suffering when you really have no blueprint for love. Wishing everyone healing. The things I’ve heard about Drew’s story have helped me so much as well. It’s also incredible to see someone who has been through so much find the strength to be themselves. It really takes so much strength.
I’ve watched this interview at least twice all the way through and hang on to every word. I need the full episode and her book immediately 😭
Highly recomend the audiobook if you enjoy reading that way. Its narrated by herself and very well done!
Get the book in Audible. Hearing Jennette’s words in her actual voice, makes the book even better.
Jeannette complimenting Drew for making her feel comfortable made me genuinely tear up. Jeannette would have deserved somebody like Drew to be her mom (everybody does)
I love the woman Janette has grown to become, she’s beautiful and brilliant. I’m so glad I watched this interview, it can help/teach so many people is so many situations💗💗
Before I even watch this video I feel like I already get it. There’s no reason I should be giving my mom any bit of grace after what she did to me. But now that she has passed it’s a lot easier to let go. It’s over. Nothing can be done. I know she will never reach out and apologize. All I can do is send her hope and love and hope that it helps her have a better life. So much healing has come from her death and it’s such a weird thing to express to people who just don’t get it.
One of the most beautiful interviews out there! ❤
After my mom died I would joke and say to people “I really loved my mom, but god I’m glad she’s dead” People would be like “what!?” And I would just say “oh you had to know her” and I’d laugh. I knew they didn’t understand it was just liberating to say it out loud. Yeah, I get it, wow I never had someone tell my truth before.
I know how you feel it sucks what's the point of living
Bro u good
Oh I'm so glad she and Drew got to talk! The kind of interviewer she deserves!
This made me cry, because its painfully relatable.
they’re both such great humans. this is a good duo
wow i didn’t want this conversation to end. this was too good. from the questions to the answers
Drew should seriously be a therapist as well besides her talk show!! Wow incredible with advice and I love her vibe all around!!❤️
I can't wait to read Jeannette memoir she's really brave to expose dan Schneider and write about the trauma she endured at the hands of her mother hopefully she's helped others who have been in her situation
Ladies you have me crying over here. Hugs for everyone.
So beautiful. Thank you for having this conversation
Thank you so much for giving her the space she’s earned to share her story she is so inspiring I’m so many ways and this interview has been very therapeutic and special to me so happy you guys connected In this way to help young girls like me heal from having this kind of abuse in childhood ❤
This is amazing! This brought tears to my eyes. I know Drew, you understand her 100%. The connection I feel between you both. Tears of happiness for you both to have meet and talked and also of sadness because you both had to go though this.
I listened to this interview on a walk and found it was 90% Drew asking for some honest advice on healing
Love this conversation!! It definitely needed to be had.
I had an extremely toxic mother too. She wouldn't even allow my sis & me to be close. It's been peaceful since she's been dead.
Lord knows I get it
5:00 is the hug btw so sweet 🥺
comas left and right is music but its light and energy
I really hope this show becomes available in South Africa.
just read it yesterday, its an amazing book
We♥️ Jeannette mccurdy
WOW this is so incredible to watch. I want to watch more and now I want to buy and read that book. ❤️
Dear Drew, Comedy is the medicine that helped survive us the darkest days!
This interview is extremely important if you get what Drew is talking about.
what is she talking about?
Loved this, such a good interview, and so little views!
Beautiful
Wonderful interview.
Loved this !
I have been thinking, at age 55 , what am i going to n ed when my mom FINALLY dies. I imagine i will have to find a way to cope with grace when someone says oh, "im sorry your mom died" It will stir a range of emotions from anfer to swelling grief over who i could have been had i had a different mother and upbringing and the profound struggle Year after year in adulthood weather its been years of no contact or small periods of contact. Its been a nightmare for my entire life. I think its important speak our truth as the abused .
Drew your gorgeous babe inside and out xxx
3:10 that part ❤
Such a great interview
This ia amazing. Im crying
I love her!
❤️❤️❤️
Yeah when people talk so highly of my mom and they say sorry she passed it must hurt so much to me, I just say umm yeah and change the subject..It's hard for sure, the people I'm closest to I tell the absolute truth but don't want to weigh on ppl that I'm not close too bc it's a big bag of stuff my mom left me with of abuse. Oh well
I really want to get into contact with Drew and would love to talk not only with her personally but also about the many and vast aspects of addiction and growth as a young woman .. I frequently come back to this interview with someone as my contemporary (Jeanette) with someone who I see as a true star (Drew) talking about healing as women. It's so... Not empowering necessarily but healing as another who has endured trauma as a young woman. This is one of my favorite interviews I've ever seen ngl lol, and Drew if you're reading please reach out. I'd love your info and to maybe talk about a topic on your podcast or something. (low-key if I can get Jeanette too that'd be a dream, but it's clear I'm dreaming big 🤣)
Nah don’t dream. You can become a famous woman for mental health ❤.
Great interview
I've started prescribing my cancer patients with special pacemakers this may hopefully provide the right research for diabetes and other illnesses
Jeanette looks like Linda Cardellini to me here
❤Drew❤
Baby beautiful on the outside and beautiful inside babe xxx
Please do more Childhood stars
❤
The Drew Scabbymore Show!
Joe Lansdale is the one who said that
Typically when we try to say something our trusted person goes to ask our mom. We’re labeled disrespectful lyars etc making our bad feelings of not being good enough much worst
Drew, you disappoint 😢
Try Dan Martin Legendary Actor to be on the Drew Barrymore show
vincent morretto needs to be your man a babylon God of rock and he has metal instruments with a wifi and bluetooth and hotspot metal, track music
The cover is a nancy drew book ;)
Wy did she have to look twice for?
The best thing I did was leaving my mom behind. She's still alive. But not to me. Not really. Sometimes the weight of it is ... Enormous. Society judges so much. It took me a long time to reach a position or a point where I can say my mother was a depressed narcissist that ruined me as a person. I was... Her creation. And anything beyond that wasn't acceptable. Wasn't deemed worthy of existence. I'm still healing from that.
Wow he realy is talking
It seems drew still need therapy :-D
We never stop healing.
Her mother was toxic and she had to raise herself so of course. Smh.
Lol let some bodies hit the floor
Is that Britney Spears?
The absence of a sense of humour is one of the most emblematic traits of a short-sighted mind
Is there anymore spots gonna get messed up because of that scheme fraud y'all over there kno just who the
What does famous, mean? Please explain to you, child.
Drew just needs more therapy, using big people words now, still has a hair problem
All I hear is "me me me"
Jenette is an actress that will only be known for Icarli
Jennette* iCarly*
Well clearly not anymore. She and her book encouraged former child actors to come forward with the abuse at the studios
The absolute most cringe worthy embarrassment of a show on television
An interview I never expected...
Wow he realy is talking