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B. Smith’s Husband Opens Up About Dating While Wife Battles Alzheimer’s | TODAY
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- Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
- Dan Gasby, husband of model and restaurateur B. Smith, opens up to Al Roker about those criticizing him for dating another woman while caring for his wife with Alzheimer’s. His girlfriend, Alex Lerner, also tells Al, “There’s a lot of love around us.”
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If that was her biological daughter, there is no way she would let some other woman lay up in her mother's house.
What REAL WOMAN... would lay up in a woman's house like that is the question.....?
I agree
💯I would be all over my dad and his side chick with legal papers!!!
I would not stand by if I had ties to this situation and allow it either. I would clean house. The nerve of them to think this is okay.
Exactly
To me, this is not a race issue. This man and woman should be ashamed of themselves. The daughter is just as bad. No respect for B. Smith.
Exactly...that's what he tells himself to feel justified from public scrutiny.
The daughter is just as bad sis, she with all of B's money they have wasting needs to call #Jenny an nem
He needs to do something to feel better about publicly cheating on his sick and dying wife.
The stepdaughter said that B is dying... Ahmmm .. Hello? I wonder if this were her mother how she'd feel. I wish B's family would intervene. Maybe he's keeping her away from them or they were estranged before she got sick. See why it's good to have children of your own.
The daughter is not Mrs B biological child reasons why she has no type of remorse for her. This is so wrong on all levels.
I wonder how the daughter would feel if the roles were reversed and her father had Alzheimer's and B brought another man into their home and flaunted the relationship.
Nature's child I think her perspective would be different if the shoe was on the other foot.
@@aprilleak4356 Absolutely!
Nature's child that not her biological mother so that’s why she wants her dad to move on NOW if it was her biological daughter I guarantee she’d feel differently.
That's the question she should've been asked.
@Kudio j. Hall, say that again!
That was not HER daughter. That was HIS daughter
The daughter wouldn't feel the same way if it was her biological mother.
@@dawandabocanegra8935 ,say that again!
I hope she didn’t have kids because she couldn’t and not because of career and man or any of that BS. Cuz look now.... no one will love you like your blood child
1st off if she was black we would troll and bash her more as the mistress. Furthermore, 82% of women black and white find disagree with mistress moving in. It’s wrong wrong wrong #FreeBsmith
Brooklyn Renee I think the issue isn’t the persons race but the fact that they live off Bs money
Anna Lee that's not her money smh
@@gglee3309 Race definitely plays a role. If it was happening to Martha Stewart and her white husband moved a black girlfriend into the home, there would be an uproar and a major intervention to get her out of the home. The media wouldn't be cow-towering to a black mistress and making excuses... or showing any level of compassion.
Brooklyn Renee we’re mad as black women it’s hard to be successful do you think B would be happy to have some random blonde chick living off her.
@ Who's is it then?
Did the mistress really call B a "child" and her husband a "single father"? I'm done.
I'm done too!!!! Because that's an inclination that she's being treated totally beneath her caliber. Children of beautiful little bigs but when their kids you spend most times disciplining and treating them as such , "like a child" and children you discipline a lot they get punished and all. I just don't think it's right I think they've put a negative spin on Alzheimer's my grandmother had it and she loved her baby dolls but we still respected the fact that she was mother and grandmother. We actually still listen to her, we still gave her the thing she wanted and we did the things we know that she like previously before her Alzheimer's but to say she's a child that word never came out our mouths when my grandmother was alive. I am appalled!!!!
Going through it, they do revert back to being a child any caregiver that deals with this disease will tell you that. My loved one calls me mom, her sister, brother aunt etc... they not only forget they do many, many disturbing things at certain stages. Not making excuses for the couple and his infidelity, but going through it first hand, so I totally get what they are saying.
I’m honestly not surprised that he didn’t check her when she said that. Smh
@@c.s.o.consulting7487
It's not for her to say, she's not B's family nor was she a friend. She's there by choice and should just chill out and continue to live high off the hog. She talks too much for someone who is in a relationship she chose to be in. How dare she act as if B is a nuisance. I would sit quietly in the cut... no as a matter of fact I wouldn't be on this media tour with Dan.
@@1Grayton I get what you are saying, but you don't know what she has experienced. I am willing to bet even though she is not family or whatever... She has seen some disturbing behavior i.e. like stealing things, fighting, hallucinations, them pooping on themselves and playing in it, wandering, speaking in gibberish, etc.. this is a very heartbreaking disease and even though we may not like it coming out of her mouth anyone that has truly taken care of someone with the disease, not folks that drop in and out or just know of someone with it. If you have truly experienced you get what she is saying. Even tho Alex is a go, the ho is telling the truth.
Wow! What a disrespect to his wife and their home......he is committing ADULTERY right in his wife's face and think it's ok.
His wife is gone in every way but physically. She no longer even recognizes him . He is caring for her & she is surrounded by love but he needs some too . GOD Bless him & his partner.
In sickness and in health, for better or for worse, till death do us part....That's the vow they took.
@@BarbAWalters I worked with Alzheimer's patients and just when you think they aren't there... they let you know that they are still in there. At any point and time B. could have a lucid moment. I've seen it MANY times over the course of 10 years working in LTC. Who are you or anyone to say that she isn't there. That is the problem with people playing God. I bet you had a ton of abortions too because you didn't think a baby is alive in the womb or deserves life and respect.
Notice how Alex Lerner looks up to the left when she speaks of how she respects B. and want B. to be well. When people tell lies, that is usually where they pull thought from... the left side which is the imaginary centers. She is a big liar.
@@BarbAWalters Well, then he should give her at least a dignified funeral if she is GONE!
@@survivingyoutoday8519 Amen!!!! I also worked as an Alzheimer caregiver and you are 100% correct. A fool and B's money will soon be parted.
The real issues is that she made more money than him. Sad. Protect your money. Have children of your own.
Starky Boxing
My grandfather had a wife and his wife’s children took all his money .
I agree my uncle had money and his wife died but he took care of her children. He just died and they got alot and didnt even come to his funeral but got condos and money smh
@Winter Bleu um
Hopefully, everything will be willed to Bishop.
Her Dog
When the daughter said, "My family isn't a trending topic. My step mom isn't a trending topic" I threw a big side eye because... ma'am your dad made her a trending topic. Not us. If anyone needs to fall back... it is him. He could have had his affair and never "confirmed" or "revealed" anything.
Exactly
Yes, her family is going to be a trending topic especially if B.Smith was a person that made her money off the public . She has fans, supporters, extended family that would be concerned about her welfare now. When something is not quite right people want to know what can they do.
Here! Here!
AMEN! He put himself out there. We didn't go looking for this!!!
She doesn't fall far from the tree i tell you
The daughter don’t care not her real mom
Her dad is manipulating her
She wouldn't feel that way if it was her mom
But, I am sure knowing ( briefly met her in one of her restaurants) Ms. B she treated her like her daughter.
Ima Sherman Exactly B Smith is just the wicked stepmother that she is trying to get back at and steal her money
I don't care how they try to justify it in God's eyes he's married and it's adultery.
A few things come to mind after watching-mistress, gold digger, greed, karma, disrespect, adultery and karma. Oh did I already say karma?
For ALL of you whom has NEVER been a major part of a person's life at this stage has NO idea how lonely it is, taking care of someone like this. You cry at night, longing for the person once was, that will never come again, just to know that she will leave you further and further behind. YES this man needs companionship from someone whom is there, see, hears and understands. I'm dealing with someone now, that can't even remember anything we ever talked about in life. It's hard. Loneliness sets in and you long for something someone. You NEVER stop loving her, but YOUR life stops as you try to care FOR her and keep her as energetic as possible. She has NO idea that she don't remember anymore. MOST of you have NO idea what that is like.
Notice how Alex Lerner looks up to the left when she speaks of how she respects B and wants her to be well. When people tell lies, that is usually where they pull thought from... the left side which is the imaginary centers. She is a big liar.
Marriage was invented by the Europeans! Look it up, "We perish for lack of knowledge"!
But did they marry as CHRISTIANS or as believers in GOD/
Excuse me. B Smith is not a "child" she's his wife! I can imagine how they really treat her behind closed doors.
According to a friend, he saw the mistress Alex smack Barbara's hand. There seems to be rumors of abuse towards B Smith.
@@TheThought2be any proof of this?
Kera Julionnaa when she said that I said WTF????? Oh my goodness that got my blood boiling!!
I got so triggered when she called her a child, wtf is wrong with these ppl, this is so sad
@@YolandaLovesComfortFood no, she said she's child-like. If you had to live with someone 24/7 who had advanced stage of this disease, you would understand.
He's fooling himself...race does not matter. He should not have gone public with this relationship. I heard he was shopping a reality show...the nerve...smh.
Exactly!!! If the girlfriend/side piece was black, he would still catch he'll about this!
I believe it. I hope he doesn't do this to her.
That doesn't suprize me one bit.
1Grayton the way his mistress, his daughter is treating this angel is just WRONG. This is elder abuse.
1Grayton I wouldn’t be surprised if he were at this point...
he is not a real man
Is quite a looser. I agree 💯
A bum
Well at least.. That new girl knows what will happen to her if she ever gets sick.. So stay healthy cause he doesn't know unconditional love..
He wouldn’t dare do that to a white woman 👩. Don’t worry she won’t be around long enough for that, Becky (Alexi) is always looking for greener pastures. Right now she’s just happy to be living off of a famous Black woman’s money, until something better comes along.
For ALL of you whom has NEVER been a major part of a person's life at this stage has NO idea how lonely it is, taking care of someone like this. You cry at night, longing for the person once was, that will never come again, just to know that she will leave you further and further behind. YES this man needs companionship from someone whom is there, see, hears and understands. I'm dealing with someone now, that can't even remember anything we ever talked about in life. It's hard. Loneliness sets in and you long for something someone. You NEVER stop loving her, but YOUR life stops as you try to care FOR her and keep her as energetic as possible. She has NO idea that she don't remember anymore. MOST of you have NO idea what that is like.
@@Buisness1 how do you know I have no idea about the subject?.... The thing is that I have seen and experience unconditional love from the caretakers.. So don't come here with excuses to justify your own actions.. If you are doing the same okay good for you but admit it is NOT NOT true love.. So please.. If he needs someone to talk to then find a therapist.. If he needs help to care for his wife then get a HHA... Crappie excuses!
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Okkkkk
What upset me is this woman commenting on how his commitment to his WIFE bothered her “in the beginning”. But then understood as she is like a 4year old. I don’t know B but I have a feeling that she would not consent to this in her lucid mind.
How could someone carry on a romantic relationship living in the same house as his ailing wife. The disrespect.
What if they had an open relationship or not before B got sick, but that couple told no one that over the internet or in their close friend or family circle? Did you ever have any type of friendship or relationship with B or Dan, have you, when and for how long? I get the feeling that you 'Tiara Sade' have never ever personally met either of them or anyone in their family situation. Do you know personally either of them?
Maria Maria hun reread my comment. I said I don’t know her. But from what her friends have said I made an inference. I don’t care that he is in a relationship with another woman I care that he choose to move her in the house he shares with his wife and the new girlfriends disdain for his continued commitment to his WIFE.
White women have no morals or respect
Omg that burned me up!!
HE IS MARRIED! She is still alive dang!!!!
@Winter Bleu RIP
Where are B. Smith's brothers? Please Please stand up!!
I must admit I didn't know much about B Smith before now. I'm from the UK.. but I've watched several videos with her in recent weeks. I have been following the story and I honestly feel saddened by this. Why couldn't this man give her the respect and love she deserves ? He's a very selfish man. Couldn't he have got a dedicated caregiver for this lovely woman instead he goes and get himself a woman. He and his girlfriend cannot justify what they are going to B.
She needs sisters!!!
@@Mikki220 Fact!!
Peggy Clinton please! Stand up
EXACTLY!
SO insulting that she likens B to a child and Dan to a single father. Alzheimer's aside, she's his WIFE.
T D Pearson WIFE!!! Not a child!
If his wife were broke, she would be in a home, left with no visitors.
Well she can give him hope at her own daym house! Get that women out of Mrs.B’s home, that is got to be the most disrespectful thing I’ve ever seen!!! 😡🤔🤬
😳
..... What does this woman Really want from this couple!!??? He could've at least waited until she passed away!!!! This is wrong in Every Level!!!!
TRUE!!! All 3 of them are PATHETIC!!!! So incredibly sad!!!!!😳
And stop spending her money!
Best comment. Totally agree!!
That woman needs to be banned from B.'s home. She is a wolf in sheep's clothing.
Earth2water 2air Yup! Bye eye devil
She right to call him by the dog's name.
He’s actually worse than the dog. At least the dog knows what loyalty is. He’s a snake.
I was waiting for someone to say that🤭
😂😂😂😂
Unfortunately, they are treating the wife like she was dead, so "it's okay to commit adultery."
Why is the media giving this cheater and his mistress a platform. This is not normal behavior people. Is this his 5 minutes of fame he always craved and wanted while living in the shadows of B. Smith’s. I don’t understand why he doesn’t hire help to assist with her care and to dress her with makeup or with proper clothing because B Smith was a class act. Oh I know why. He doesn’t want to spend the money that B Smith earned. He would rather spend on his girlfriend.
I don’t know Dan but this situation is so tasteless and tacky.
When I first heard about it, I was really worried and disgusted. Now I pray for B Smith every night.
Dan, my mother always told me, life is a full circle. Watch what you do and how you treat people because you will see it again.
Just keep living. Karma gonna eventually catch up with you. 😘
Jay Girl - Well said. I wonder why didn't he hire a professional home assistant who knows how to work with people who has Alzheimer. I totally agree with your comment.
Quick answer to your question.. Because they are friends of Al Roker.
@@freespiritxoxo7343. So sad, but very true. SMDH!
@@mychloebaby1 agreed. Not cool
Here! Here!
The side chick said, “I looked at it as if Dan had a child because B is very childlike. That’s disrespectful
B is childlike through it all because she was always a beautiful soul!! You can't fake that!!
She can NEVER BE Ms. B, PERIOD!!! Ms. B built an empire...This thing is on the grounds picking up her crumbs.
Child like...so disrespectful...Al trust me Did not like that response..Bee is still Beautiful..she looks like a wrinkle Prune....and this does not have to do with color...she is waiting......she will treat him like a Dog
Sorry but B is child-like now and she will get worse. That's just the truth.
Yes it is... And she encouraged him to go public!
He speaks about makeup, that was who she was. Allow her to keep her dignity, she love a little makeup. I am a caregiver for my mother and I keep her the way she was, lipstick and all and she loves it. She thanks me.
I agree!!
Admit it, lovers. You are both waiting for B to pass on so you can reap the spoils.
her step daughter is waiting to reap those benefits as well.....smh
Unfortunately that’s how it seems
Notice how Alex Lerner looks up to the left when she speaks of how she respects B and wants her to be well. When people tell lies, that is usually where they pull thought from... the left side which is the imaginary centers. She is a big liar.
Yes, makes sense why he didn't get a divorce. I think it's fine for him to move on. I'm a nurse and work with people with Alzheimer's and similar diseases. They are a shell of a person. But he should have just gotten a divorce, not moved in his girlfriend.
Mary Cate O'Malley I feel the same way
I've been taking care of my husband with dementia for 15 years now. It was diagnosed when he was 50. It has been a long hard road with many ups and downs. I married at 18 and promised for better or worse and in sickness and in health. I feel that is what I should give my husband. It's pretty low to break a promise when someone is ill. I feel what he is going through. It's not the life I planned and it is lonely but I love my husband and would just feel so awful doing something like that to him.
you are a human being with a soul.. dan is an un-loving, opportunity narcissist
God bless you and your husband. This segment is an affront to you and other married caregivers who have taken their vows seriously. I don’t doubt that it’s difficult and lonely going down that path (I’m a caregiver to my disabled daughter, so I understand to a point), but there are other ways to address those needs. To betray a spouse, move the mistress in the house, and siphon their resources under the guise of “care” and “love” is beyond despicable.
Plus god is testing us especially when the spouse is sick
@ yes she is. And your trash
A H but you understand where dan is coming g from tho ?
He is lying!!! No is speaking about that lady's color as much as they are talking about his behavior. He is deflecting. He is using his gf's color as a way to cover his bad behavior. If her step-mother is dying why is her dad parading her around the internet with his gf in the house. 😕😕😼😼😼
My thoughts exactly.
You’re so right. He’s the one making her colour an issue. The issue with her is she’s a feckless witch shacking up in another woman’s house
Thank you. We see him for the l ier he is,just wanted to have his bytch in the home white him..
@@donnapug It is kinda true that race is being bought into it in by some in the black youtube secter/community.
I believe it is her wishful thinking..For some reason the dynamics between her and Ms. B was an interesting relationship to say the least.
As she has passed this is so sad. People deserve to still be treated with dignity even in sickness. I feel like he might aswell divorced her and let others love her unconditionally, because he sure didnt.
Nope he didnt care, he just want companion
Only a narcissistic person CAN see nothing wrong with such deeds. He did NOT love her, but what she provided for him. She married a lesser man in all his ways and he proved it in the end, parading his mistress in public. Dressing up in matching clothes while mocking her to her death, dressing her like a nanny. B was so classy and grounded. Sad that he got joy from seeing her lost, exposing personal things publicly, etc. Shame on him.
She should of stayed with her first husband
Wow. The media sure can sugar coat wrongdoing. The man is cheating on his wife right in front of her, in her house. He is in an adulterous relationship. This is not about loving and caring.
When did it become acceptable to bring your mistress in your home while your wife is dying of Alzheimers Disease in that home! He IS having an affair! Her husband, step-daughter and mistress are morally bankrupted!
We will NEVER know B. Smith’s wishes but God knows all and will not be mocked! There will ultimately be an accountability of the life choices we make and God will judge the living and the dead!
Yeah talking about she stepped in and gave him hope??? Dan should put his trust in the Lord and not in this woman. I cant believe the news broad casters reaction to this??? Always want to justify when dirt is done to black women. I bet if this was flipped the other way around and Dan was a white man, with a black lover moving into a successful white woman's house, this would receive a different reaction honestly, I am really surprised at their comments... Is this Maria who was married to Arnold saying this? After what happened in her marriage, you would think she would be more concerned about vows and loyalty to the wife. Rediculous!
@@roseburton3275 I 100% agree! And that newscaster is obviously biased, just check out who he's married to with kids 😉 And regarding Maria Shriver- it's always women like this who never stick up for other women are in the same or similar situations... it's as if she still blames herself for it and sticks up for the husband
Rose Burton I, too, agree with your statement. Total double standards in play her but should we be surprised? Every press tour presentation has been met with grand support from the interviewers BUT, when the audience was given the opportunity to state their opinion, the audience overwhelmingly disagreed with the husband’s adulterous lifestyle! People in the media and the entertainment business are generally more loose in the morality department! Pretty sickening!
@@m.w.3256 , I agree. I think the host of the real may have been the only ones on tv to disapprove of this messy issue.
M. W. , Al Roker is Dan's friend, this interview is biased...
Oh NBC....you really tried to dress this up with the sad music in the background. It's a shitshow!!
😂😂😂
For ALL of you whom has NEVER been a major part of a person's life at this stage has NO idea how lonely it is, taking care of someone like this. You cry at night, longing for the person once was, that will never come again, just to know that she will leave you further and further behind. YES this man needs companionship from someone whom is there, see, hears and understands. I'm dealing with someone now, that can't even remember anything we ever talked about in life. It's hard. Loneliness sets in and you long for something someone. You NEVER stop loving her, but YOUR life stops as you try to care FOR her and keep her as energetic as possible. She has NO idea that she don't remember anymore. MOST of you have NO idea what that is like.
RIP to the beautiful Black Queen B Smith
She really compared this situation to a single father wow 🙄🤦🏾♀️
Ho darling!! If she was your biological mother and heart mother... this would of been different story😒
FACTS!!! The hypocracy. They are living of B's wealth!! Such poor distaste!
mireya equi I said the same thing!
socialwork63 Alex has her own home in the Hamptons. Dan was a millionaire when he met B. He became her business partner when they met. He helped her with everything as he was her business manager. It’s their home not hers. Google everything & stop making up BS.
@@Irish-Rose So it's ok while she was healthy and alert, but as soon as life takes a turn for the worse it's ok to drop your husbandly duties. Find a good round the clock caregiver and do your business away from the home. Why does the mistress have to live in the house too, knowing your wife has no say? I don't believe he and his wife had discussed this and we all know that people with money are always trying to get MORE. If he had a million I'm sure 2 million would look even better. So you cut the BS!
We all have different opinions, but i guess I'm just selfish like that! We can all sugar coded but in china, USA and Mexico still wrong. I guess God can only be the judge
He doesn’t want people to have an opinion, but yet he’s the one putting it out there. Through sickness and in health!!
Exactly!! Race has nothing to do with my opinion. This is wrong this man is weak and this woman is desperate when B is gone they will both daughter included reap what they've sewn!!
RIGHT!!!!....its all Good cause u know what? NO ONE GETS AWAY WITH NUTHIN HERE...I DIGRESS
A complete narcissist.
He creating buzz for his podcast and possible reality show. B. Smith was his cash cow & now that she can't work he has to figure out his next steps. He's still using her to the very end. Greed.
The step daughter needs to have that attitude with her dad because he’s the only one wrong in this situation 🤬
If that was her mom she would care
My mom recently died of cancer...3 years suffering. My Dad never left her side. Til' death did they part. Not judging the brother, but not sure if I could do it.
We've lost the balls to call out wrong. All in the name of political correctness. Whatever
We don't know his situation
Kerryan Francis Witter Dan and Becky committing adultery right in Bs house in her face. I don’t care what the daughter says, it is wrong.
This is as low as a low can be , simple as that.
@@kennymurry3362 No excuses. He's a grown man who can have as many relationships as he wants. His business. But in the matrimonial home? Also, one has to question how much of what is going on she understands fully given the illness she's battling.
KENNY MURRY Yes we do. He wants to keep everything in the family. His family.
PPl are saying, this woman has done so much for him. No, B. Smith did so much for him. If it wasn't for B. Smith he probably wouldn't be in the lifestyle that he's in, and to think he may be sharing with that woman.
Facts
Did you even hear what was said during this video? Seriously, you are given an opinion based on lies. Number 1, Dan Gasby was a millionaire when he met B. Go google it. He was the head of some entertainment company. B had him as her business partner from day one. It’s their homes, books, & restaurants. Now, most of that has been sold. He could have stuck her into some home, but instead is caring for her 24/7.
Are you at their home helping? Are you there doing anything? Do you personally know any of these ppl?
You have no right to judge anyone. Worry about your own life.
Loretta Toombs Not Facts at all. It’s their home. Everything is theirs. He was a millionaire when they met. Learn how to use google
@@Irish-Rose Whatever he had, it was nothing compared to what B Smith amassed. Notice that it is her name that is known, not his.. he was nothing more than the man whom she married and gave numerous jobs to..
Wisdom & Beauty facts!!!
Marriage has no place for a third party. Your marriage vows are clearly written..."For better or worse" "In sickness or health." Now, where does it say's tired of your spouse being sick or dying run out get yourself a new mate and that will make your marriage better. The other part of the vows states, "Till death do us apart" meaning you sacrifice for your spouse until God calls them home. I take my vows seriously and so does my hubby. We have talk about what if circumstances changes as we get older and so we have Medical living will and Final will. When you are married you need to have those important talks about wills, finances, life insurance, medical wishes and so on. It may not be a topic you want to talk about but, it is necessary. Praying for B. Smith that God intervene in her behalf. It just not right for a spouse to move on as if, you're already dead and in the grave while your still alive...its just disrespectful. In the end its all about controlling her money. People do strange things for that mighty dollar.😒😞😢💔💔💘💘💰💰💰
This is a mess!! I can’t believe NBC aired this! 🤬😡
Al Roker should be ASHAMED of himself. Once again BM not protecting BW.
As a black man it sure doesn't make us look good but many men do this of every race across the globe. The husband is still foul though
AMEN!!!! I feel the same.
ElegantNoir
All day, every day. Yet, so many black women continue to have their backs. They need to stop ASAP!!!!!!!!!
What point was Al trying to prove.... he couldn’t possibly think this is ok. I wonder would he agree to having his wife move in a man (whom she’s in a relationship with) to help take care of him. This interview was a disgrace for all the parties included (Al, the stepdaughter, and the adulterers). 🤦🏽♀️Prayers for Mrs. B. 🙏🏾
As outsiders, we'll never know if B. Smith really gave her "approval" for her husband to "move on" as he claims.
I find it interesting that the mistress said she respected B. Smith and wanted her to get well. So if she did get well (by a miracle), would she relinquish her position as a mistress and let the couple revert to their old relationship?🤔
Also, while I sympathize with the family, I wonder if the stepdaughter would have the same sentiments if this were her biological mother. 🤔
If she did have a talk with him about it I think he would have mentioned that.
@@nonnonbutlove1642 At 4:22, where he said he spoke about it because "that's what Barbara wanted", I was very confused. It's like he was implying she knew of the affair. I went to another site where he claims she was fine with him moving on. Personally, I'm skeptical of the whole thing especially since B. Smith can't even refute or confirm anything he's saying. He knows he has the upper hand.
I really feel a biological child would not accept this. B Smith is not in her right mind and I am quite sure she would not have said with all her faculties that is is okay to have a woman in her home with a room having an affair with her husband because that is what it is.
If she gave her permission, he would have said it by now.
@@nonnonbutlove1642 EXACTLY!!
We need an autopsy of B so we can find out if she actually died of natural causes.
He may have put stuff in her food for all we know
Here after finding out about her passing . I am absolutely disgusted watching this . I’m all for people finding love after losing a partner ; but she wasn’t gone yet ! You took advantage of the fact that she’s had this disease where she doesn’t remember and you’re committing adultery ! If the shoe were on the other foot , something tells me that she wouldn’t do that to him .
Shame on you !!
B Smith can't consent therefore please stop publicising her vulnerable moments. Talk about the disease without having to plaster her. The daughter has more connection to her biological dad and would defend him ofcourse.
There is a lesson here. While you are courting or in the new world dating, you should ask those tough questions. Then when you get married draw up papers to state how you want to be cared for if this ever happened to you. That way there's no guessing what you would have wanted. Then lock it away until its needed. I cared for my husband even moved into the hospital with him . I not rich but I had them to set up his bed at home when he was released from the hospital he couldn't speak or eat or bathe himself, but I loved him and cared for him..sure it was very hard, but my love for him was stronger than you'll ever know. And when he passed away my conscience was clear and I'm sure he looks down from Heaven with a Big smile knowing I meant my vows to him...even when it got tough, because I made a promise to him...
B smith wasnt smart at all
@@jesuswilljudge7296 OH! blaming the victim , Jesus? lol
@@klarasilva6687 she wasnt smart she left her 1st husband to be with this bum.....thats smart?
@MsToiBox, God bless you! I'm sure your husband appreciates and loved you more than words could ever express for staying true to him. That is a blessing! Thank you for sharing.🙏🏽
MsToi Box God bless you.
How you want her to be well....and you are intimate with her husband.
kedanpie4409
Exactly... I believe her health is getting worse because of the girlfriend that her husband has. I think they are all waiting for her to die so they can get her money. I feel so bad for her. I wish I was her daughter so I can kick that girlfriend lady out the house. This really upsets me .
I AGREE B. SMITH'S HUSBAND IS A PARASITE.
Chile, I hope B had a WILL that was legitimate. These perps are ratchet...
Pulease!!
I can say so many bad things about her “husband” stepdaughter and that girlfriend but instead of that I’m going to PRAY for B, she is a victim not lucid enough to decide in her situation... that husband is no husband at all, stand by your wife and take care of her like you are without cheating, you’re still married !! 😤
Why go public with this? Why not pay someone to care for her? He, his daughter, and girlfriend are utterly disgusting. Ms. Smith has no advocate in this situation. When I first saw this, I told my husband under no circumstances would I want another woman/his girlfriend in our home. This is beyond disrespectful, and her race has NOTHING to do with it.
Dan, Alex, and Dana are NOT QUALIFIED Alzheimer's Disease caregivers. Dan stated in a recent interview with the View that he has instructed Dana to put him in a facility. Alex stated on the same interview that she put her own dad in a facility. They are stating B. Smith is like a 4 yr. old who barely recognizes them. So, what is stopping Dan from getting her a nanny-- full time Alzheimer's nurse, or caregiver. If his happiness comes first-Dan could sell the house, split their assets to pay for Smith's long term care, take his half of the money and move on with his new lady love and doting daughter instead of bank rolling his own self-gratification at the price of B. Smith's public humiliation.
Wigs N' Wine TV It will. Nothing good comes out from a wrong.
keeping her at home with people who love her is better than putting her in an institution with people who don't know her and don't love her.
Rose Satchell NONE
Ablestreet And you think what’s he is doing is over love for her? Or for his needs and wants? He doesn’t have to place her in an institution, he can hire a professional caretaker with Alzheimer’s experience to care for her.
He’s trash!
How ironic "she even called me Bishop our DOG" SMH
Because he is a dog.... a loose dog
They are both disrespectful and shelfish, really not in your own house.
How can this man go on national tv and not be ashamed.
Narcissist have got. No shame... whatsoever!!!
Narc
He's a heartless opportunistic man
I pray for the holiness of marriage to return, the way God intended.
Me too!!!
I smell something'' that woman is just something''..fishy fishy!!
Facts
Why is Today trying to make excuses, she's not a girlfriend, she's a mistress. B is not a child she's a grown woman with a degenerative disease. She deserves dignity, not to be complained about on Facebook by her selfish cheating husband.
That mistress hit B. A friend of theirs said it on the news. He let her hit his wife. Dan sold B's house for $7.7 million and bought a house for $2 million. What did he do with the $5 million? He also put her on a bus to The Hamptons knowing she has Alzheimer's and B went missing. This is not some story of love, sacrifice and Hope.
It's a story of elder abuse and greed, you just don't care because it's a black woman who's suffering. That's the 800-pound elephant in the room. If he was doing this to a white woman Today Show would not be talking about a black mistress and calling her a girlfriend and sanctioning this mess. What kind of hero caregiver puts his Alzheimer's stricken wife on a bus by herself?
K GS No, pls. say that's not the case. Even if you tell the bus driver to let person off at a specific stop, still not good enough. They already have their hand's full with work situation's. That's just down right neglectful. I hope it's a false rumor.
@@monamonae7732 Sadly, it's not a rumor, there's a video of B's husband talking about, and he even has fake tears in his eyes. I couldn't find the video but I found an article. www.nydailynews.com/new-york/b-smith-stricken-alzheimer-found-vanishing-article-1.2026863
And his mistress is going to take every last penny from him.
I remember when she went lost and it was all on the news in New York I'm just so saddened that that was due to his own negligence he made it seem like she just wandered off
@@FlyRoni Yeah, he's slick...or he thinks he is. His time will come. The truth is coming out, more and more.
B Smith would NEVER in her right mind want to be filmed with no makeup and looking unkept. Preserve this woman's dignity and have someone come in and put some makeup on her face before each filming. He has someone backstage apply eyeliner and powder to his face so why can't he have someone come in and apply some makeup to his wife's face prior to filming. She never filmed without her face done up. The step daughter needs to take a seat and cease acting like a biological child. Her loyalty is with her father and not B.
So true
They're not taking care of her. In the picture of the three of them, they put a knit hat on her B's head. They won't even pay to get B's hair done.
the disrespect.. i could never bring someone new into my life if this disease was affecting the person i love and have been married to. at the end of the the day you have a commitment and should uphold.
NOT one time did anyone bring up the fact that the MISTRESS is living in B. SMITHS home. ADULTERERS!!!!
Whatever happened to, in sickness and health, what a shame cause she cannot defend herself...this is very sad..smh
Perhaps the fine print read "in sickness only if convenient".
Shes mentally a child now, and not suitable for a relationship. He needs to move on, just as people do when their partners are in vegetative state or long-term coma.
Running Late, He is still taking care of her, in sickness. He did not abandon her.
@@Mf7d89 She is certainly not behaving like a "child", though she does not remember all the people/components of her life. And, she is FAR from anything approaching a vegetative state.
Running Late this makes me so sad :(. She has no respect.
Women get your Living Will and separate your Assets asap! If or when your health declines make sure you get people who actually care about you and will do everything that will make your health a priority. Not a husband or a step-daughter but someone you know who will speak up and advocate to the fullest for you. And, who will not cut off all your hair, have you with no makeup or things women like to pamper themselves(along with earrings, faciaals, professional massages and such especially as a former model). What sbout cognitive behavioral therapy for her mental decline. And, a person who truly loves their spouse would not refer to them as a young child especially if that's their still legal wife. B.Smith is an American Icon and we the public Love and care for her! She was the Martha Stewart before Martha Stewart.
Girl, my exact words. When are woman going to open their eyes and see how all these talented, successful and rich women of color being naive about their finances, careers, health, personal stuff or your children future if, things suddenly changes. Just look around Mary J. Blidge, Janet Jackson (second husband who was her manager), Jill Scott and Terry McMillan married for love without any signed pre-nuptials papers. And there's countless others who married but, didn't put anything in writing and in the end left crying and half broke or broke altogether. I hope Taraji P. Henson (Cookie) from Empire made her husband signed those pre-nuptials papers before she said "I do" vows. Your smart lady just like myself...good talking to you and be blessed. ☺
I would NEVER do this to my wife. This man is a disgrace... I'd be single until my wife left this earth. Surround yourself with friends and family...my goodness this famil has no shame!
It is impossible for her to do that at this stage because the courts would not find her mentally capable of such matters. What wasn't doe at the onset of the diagnosis, can't be done now.
Disgusting how he is parading his infidelity like this. Plus, how is he gonna shave her hair and let her be seen looking like that on camera like that it's pure evil. Such a dignified lady. Very sad.
As a widower and caregiver to my wife of 22 years, I'll say this to Bro Gasby. I understand the enormous pressure you were under. However it's not what you do, but how you do it. The public is aware of your relationship because you decided to make it public. You chose that path for whatever reasons. It was never anyone's business but yours.
"Sister's?".....Girl bye!.....
😆😆😆 Exactly!!
VIOLATES EVERYTHING ABOUT MARRIAGE VOWS
These two are going to give others that are going through this the idea of it being ok! It’s not ok! Tell death do you part in sickness and in health! No where does it say to love other in the meantime.
Mistress said "I RESPECT HER"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😒
Alex says she saw Dan as a single father and that B is a child or childlike. My goodness do they have to constantly make this sound worse? ITS NOT ABOUT ALEX BEING WHITE!!!! Even Al Roker comments about how vibrant B is still. Yet her husband speaks about B as a burden. Dan’s daughter is upset with the people ‘bashing her family’, yet you are on national tv revealing all this. The daughter says she just lost her mother. I bet she would have been totally ‘wigging out’ if her mother’s husband had behaved this way. The best thing for them to do is stay off tv with this.
Eternally Exquisite Exactly
Did Maria Shriver approve of the extramarital affair and child that Arnold Schwarzenegger had with their maid???
He's still on the PR campaign lol. Who exactly is he trying to convince? Hoping to cash in on this womans illness in the near future, I see!
And hes cashing in by going on tv he probably requests 10,000 or more for these interviews
Sombre Beauté apparently his doing a show with Blondie now
And the stupid people who listen to his radio show are putting money in his pocket smh
@@MH-et4bo he's liquidated whatever tangible assests he has/had access to and this is another way for him to live off her fame and fortune. He's dusty dan for sure!
@@jesuswilljudge7296 just trifling!
She looked so lost, it’s wrong for him to bring his side piece into her house
Black women...a lesson for you,,,all these stranger (a husband you married, a child you ADOPTED) will always can disappoint you and take your money when you die
The daughter is just as guilty and money hungry for supporting this foolishness. Based on videos I've seen, I don't like how his daughter treats B. She puts her hands in her face and teases her as though she were a dog or something. It would make me very happy if all of B Smith's money goes to support the black community when she passes away (like those lawyers who get those wrongfully accused black men off death row) instead of to these wicked people pretending to love her.
It's so painful seeing this graceful hard-working black queen being disgraced in such a manner. Dan & Alex are delusional if they think this once brilliant & innovative woman would want to be treated in such a manner. Dan had the nerve to say, "Alex is most important." They will have to answer to God one day is all I'll say...
Allegedly Dana is on B's payroll.
@@LoveandLightHK Oh I have no doubt. She's not "helping" her out of the kindness of her heart. Her and her daddy have been living off of Ms. B from the beginning.
Not against him finding love and moving on , but he should not have done it in front of b.smith and bring his gf to live in with them , also he should disvorce b.smith if he feel like he only her cargiver and nothing else
She could be purple,why bring her in your wife home
Well said! Truth!
This is so heartbreaking to me. You are supposed to love your spouse through SICKNESS AND HEALTH. She's very ill and I just find this whole situation very disturbing. I can't believe this.💔
I have watched all the interviews and no one ask b.smith how she feels about this arrangement. Which tells me it's all B.S !!!!
We are living in sad times when ppl pull the race card to justify a public affair and infidelity!!!! You are married period and so yes this is an affair!!!! He's a horrible horrible person!!!!
I don't care which way you twist it or justify it he is still wrong period.
Someone needs to make sure B is not being abused by the adulterous female living in her house. Where is her husband and children? God’s going to get them all, just watch. You reap what you sow
U can not possibly respect me sleeping with my husband in my house in my bed
You know what being lonely and depressed is a part of taking care somebody that's sick! I was lonely and depressed and I still took care of my sick husband who also had memory problem I would have to repeat myself every 5 minutes everyday but I never cheated on him and I was faithful to him until the day he died
LaShanda your so right and I can relate as well. I understand that he has needs but having a woman live in his house with his wife in that manner is so disrespectful to me. God bless you my sister for honoring your marriage vows.
However you are not those people, their situation is not yours. Those people are not you, or your husband was not Dan, or B Smiths step daughter, and you are not B Smith. You are not the woman that Dan Gasby has now gotten involved with and neither do you know what 'B Smith' and her husband of over twenty years discussed before or as B Smith became ill', stay in your own Lane, LaShanda Brewington and others that Comment as you do.
@@MariaMaria-wv1sy no 👎🏿👎🏿 and u can't make us, so 🤷🏿♀️
Exactly. I know it is tough; my grandparents went through this when my grandpa declined due to Parkinson's. Don't get me wrong, mistakes were made but my grandma NEVER even THOUGHT about seeing someone else even towards the end. If I were declining, I would want my wife to be happy AFTER I'M GONE. TF is wrong with people? This story just disturbed my spirit on a deep level. And to all the black women out there: y'all deserve better than this!
@@MariaMaria-wv1sy People with the mindset that you and Dan have should not get married. The vows say, "........ for better or for worse, in sickness and in health....." It doesn't say that you should move in your lover when your spouse is sick. His behavior is vile and I hope karma smacks him real good.
*WE NEED TO BAND TOGETHER AND PEITION AGAINST THIS BY CALLING ADULT PROTECTED SERVICES,GET HER OUT OF THE HANDS OF THOSE PPL*
Pretty Lina ........There is a petition. Go to Paris Milan's RUclips channel.
Dan Wept what u sow
Something even better...IF HE TRYS TO PICH A REALITY SHOW....LET'S WORK TO SHUT IT DOWN!!!!!!
I appreciate the sentiment but you can't petition what goes on in people's private lives...unless there's some clear evidence of abuse, neglect, harm, etc. But seriously, do you really think she would be better off in some facility than in the privacy of her (well-appointed) home in the rich area of Sag Harbor? I don't think so.
This is so disgusting instead of holding and nurturing your dying wife you found a way to find Becky and bring her into your home and your still married I'm convinced he's still married for money and the daughter is only his daughter so she gon agree cuz she ready for a check too and the smirk Becky gives while talking about b like she isn't a legend is sickening
Lavish Misfit Tink, tell me about it!
Why is Alex there, but not B? Is it because Dan says B is in no condition to make it? I believe Dan exaggerates and purposefully shows the very worst of B after sabotaging her. About Dan's lover: I am sick of hearing this slick & slow talking heffer Alex, so articulately slow down to carefully explain such a whorish & selfish plight? She is so invested that she repeatedly explains her low down story so well as though it's a love story from Paris that she cannot escape, but make no mistake there is nothing clean about her involvement in B's marriage. She is staying because of her own interests & NOT for B. Smith. NASTY!
This is the best questioning I have seen so far and, even so, he stumbles to explain his broken commitment to B so well. His educated conversation is full of dates and miscellaneous statistics, but somehow listening to Dan while knowing what he is doing to B would make anyone want to run 🏃 and not from Alzheimer's.
Lavish Misfit Tink you said it...
Who arevyou to stand in judgment!
You are disgusting for judging someone in Circumstance you can not even begin to understand. GOD wil judge us all so he does not need your help. Best mind your own words & actions which you will be judged on
Watchnyour words you will be judged by ALMIGHTY GOD on them condemn not lest ye be condemned
Look at how defensive the father and daughter get..they even get to the point where they’re attacking whoever they feel are criticizing them. That’s guilt
Dude eyes look weird, he has that selfish kind of vibe. Dude is Shady AF.
Yes he's nasty shady arrogant and a narcissist!!!! He talks about everything else but d fact dat he's a low life prostituting in his dying wife's face!!! Step daughter is sick and don't care about b coz she not her bio mother!!!
How many military wives have to deal with a husband who comes back from deployment injured and disabled where they are not the same person anymore and still take care of them! This man would feel guilty for divorcing but not guilty for cheating? 🤔
Yeah because he possibly loses the fortune if she divorces. He stays and he inherits everything including the restaurant.
He doesn't feel guilty for cheating because they are obviously ALL living off Barbara's resources. We need to get him and the other two out of her home. B, could live another decade and she will need all of her resources to do so.
Surviving You Today I agree. There are so many new treatments available. We don’t know if he’s done anything at all. For all we know he just keeps her cooped up in the house with no stimulation what so ever. And we all know, letting her eat McDonalds burgers isn’t good for her. Seems more like he’s just waiting for her to die. A friend whose father had Alzheimer’s said they can’t truly diagnose it without an autopsy. She said there are so many other conditions that present the same way. I really think she needs to be in a facility that will be actively trying to help her.
LADY B. SMITH IS BEAUTIFUL WITH OR WITOUT MAKE UP BECAUSE SHE SHINES FROM WITHIN. YOU CANNOT FAKE TRUE BEAUTY AND CHARACTER! GOD BLESS YOU LADY B. SMITH!🙏😍💋💖
I thought marriage was through sickness and health. It totally saddens me that someone could do that to someone that they LOVE!!! Very sad Dan............
Sorry, but I don’t give two sheets about that women’s skin color. He married her in sickness and in health. To carryon publicly flaunting another woman, while B Smith continues to suffer is wrong on so many levels. If he truly loved his wife he would be struggling to help his wife in every way possible, putting her needs before his own. If B had been healthy and he met another women he would’ve left her, so what he’s doing now is much worse. Where is her side of the family? Her blood? What about the treatment strides that have been made for Alzheimer’s. What has he done but let her slowly dwindle away while he sleeps with another woman in B’s own home with her in the next room. How about talking about that? Where’s the video footage where B gave her blessing to him to commit adultery? It doesn’t exist, yet he says they talked about it. Sorry, but not sorry, I do not believe his lies. His daughter, is just that, his daughter. I seriously doubt that B’s own children had she had them would stand for this foolishness. The fact that he refuses to see beyond his own selfish desires is awful. I can’t believe they gave this degenerate moocher a platform. Why?
Jaeysha but he is taking care of her 24/7 , y'all are so harsh,. acting like black people in america marry in the first place. I'd like to see how you'll behave as a carer every second of the day , sitting on your ivory tower lol!
Lechiffresix six But he doesn’t have to take care of her 24/7. He using that to play his victim card. This man has millions and could provide the best supportive care possible, but instead he chose to get a mistress? Please...I know more than one person dealing with this. There are options especially when the care giver has time and money. Sorry, so sorry, but I’m not buying that he was so torn down that he needed a mistress. Do you not understand the betrayal to his wife on so many levels. It’s worse because she has Alzheimer’s and can’t speak for herself. This situation is one sided. They both said she is lucid and is in the present sometimes. So we should forget her pain during these times? I agree to disagree, but this is my humble opinion.
Lechiffresix six I can guarantee that if I’d been with my husband 25 plus years and loved him as deeply as Dusty Dan professes to love B, I wouldn’t be cheating and flaunting an adulterous affair out in the open world at parties and on TV as if it should be acceptable. Id have enough love and respect for my husband not to do that.
Pia Love 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Yes Pia! I agree with you 100%.
She has 3 brothers!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lord please do something for B. 🙏🏽 B is a pioneering Queen. Sisters ? She is not your sister wife you little woman person
Yeah, a sister doesn't screw her husbands man? Get out of town!
That's a Sociopath...Watchout...we will soon see this story on Dateline 👎👎👎
Sad! Somebody help! Prayers
IKR I thought she was an only child. She has siblings. Are the estranged?
Even though she has siblings he is the spouse and in most states he has the rights to make medical and legal decisions for her and unless her brothers can PROVE ADULT ABUSE & MISTREATMENT OF SOME KIND its nothing that they legally can do especially if their money aint as long as hers. So because of their lack of involvement Dan is taking advantage and for granted the fact that HE KNOWS they are not going to do anything to protect her from him
No respect at all.... if you 'want a relationship do it outside the home. Have your daughter take care her to do your business outside the home,,, the whole thing is respect. respect her
I agree!!!
3:10 B. Smith is not a child. Nor is she child like. She is an adult woman living with Alzheimer's disease!!! She should be treated with dignity and respect. Moving his girlfriend in with his wife in this state is disrespectful and someone should step in to enforce B. Smith's rights to live a respectable ADULT life.
There is no way in the world, that this man can possibly think this is OKAY. And why do they have the wife looking like that? Put some make up on her, dress her up a little. Lord knows, she has enough money.. HER money. The money that SHE worked hard for.
AMEN!!!
Amen
YES!😳
Watch the video where he and the nurse/lover takes B to the Salon. Just as B is asked, what nail color do you want, then Dan steps in and replies, "no, no color"
@ the moment you start making videos on social media. And going on interviews on television. That's when it becomes everyone's business. And that's when everyone has a right to voice their opinions .
Dan, Alex and Dans daughter... are all profiting off B. Smith's Mental and Physical decline! And that "Nausiating" background music😵 Just straight-up and down wrong!!😒
Where's Barbara Smith during this interview
RIP B. Smith