If you find out that you're a side piece, just leave. Don't threaten; "teach a lesson"; etc. Your pride will recover. You only have one life. My condolences to Kayla's friends and family.
Girl not only did you find out he was married but that he was using a fake name to and you thought it would be smart to threaten him with blackmail? His lies and the way he lied would have been enough for me to drop the situation with him immediately pack my stuff and move without saying a word. Men like this are dangerous and women threatening them is a BAD idea. I don’t care how strong of a woman you think you are or how in control of the situation you think you are these types of men will hurt/kill you and not think twice about it. If anyone ever finds themselves in this situation it’s best to just disappear and never talk to them again 😮😮
I don’t think it’s victim blaming, it’s sound advice on how to move accordingly with these liars and cheaters. My mom would say first you lie, then you steal then you kill.
Loyalty and faithfulness are two different things. This scumbag killed this woman but she should NOT have tried to blackmail him. Just walk away. People are crazy and if you threaten their reputation and livelihood...then they may decide to tie up loose ends. Be careful out there.
I wish she would’ve took that “L” and moved on with her life. She looked like she had a lot going for her self.Your life isn’t worth exposing these fools.
This man was definitely wrong for cheating on his wife and pretending to be a single available man, however, when you know or when you find out a man is married - you charge that sh!t to the game and move on with your life. You don't call the wife (because most likely she already knows about her husband's cheating ways). You don't threaten the man with blackmail - you leave! Your 1 and only life is certainly worth more than trying to prove a point to a married man and his wife.
@@yamama5158 If you're with a man, and you cant sense something is off, that's on you! No one needs to tell you anything, cause 9 times of 10, the wife aint going nowhere! What he did was wrong, but she should have just moved on. We dont get to gauge the response of other people, or what they might do.
You find out your guy is married, don’t threaten to expose, don’t call his wife/girlfriend, don’t give him a piece of your mind……LEAVE….just leave. He ran game, you caught on, take the lesson and leave. This NEVER turns out well. There’s no comin back from dead.
For real, I was seeing a guy after two weeks I found out he was married. I confronted he denied it, I even showed him the marriage license this guy still denied it. I said ok then changed my numbers
Wow! My cousin is 28 & is now having twins by a married man. After almost a year & even moving in with her, he told her he is going back to his wife. She was so hurt as expected but he was making it seem as though he & his wife were separated. He even "proposed" to my cousin. The twins are due in June & I just don't understand it. A guy tried dating me saying he was separated but Idc & that I don't deal with married men separated or not because 95% of the time, it's a lie. He deleted me when he realized I wasn't entertaining him as I stated. Ladies, don't even bother. Send married men back where they belong. Know your worth! He has nerve knowing he was the one lying!!! Smh
I had a man do that to me as well. They are having whole families. What saved me was that after he got my number, he asked me, "What do you think about the men and women being friends?" Then he proceeded to tell me about his wife and how she thinks that he is running to the gym to talk to females. I immediately told him that he was being shady and that his wife had every reason to think that and blocked his number right after. Have some integrity, ladies, and figure these men out before getting too deep.
Never contact the wife, I have seen this happen before. These men will never leave their wives for you, it’s sad that this guy killed Kayla for something that was his fault.
His fault? She should’ve shut her mouth and kept it pushing the moment she found out that he was married.. but y’all’s PRIDE is y’all’s downfall. Instead of taking that big ass L and moving on, she thought opening her mouth was wise. No sympathy🤷🏾♂️
This happened where I live and it’s very sad and heartbreaking. I did a dating site several years ago and I was scammed and learned my lesson and never went back to that mess again. I’m single and happy alone until God blesses me.
@@Butterfly_47 The scammer would always claim to travel for work and one day he stated that his credit card wasn’t working and he was hungry and couldn’t buy any food/drink so goofy me fell for it and wired over some funds. I felt something wrong afterwards so I did some investigating and found out that he was in Cali and had scammed several women. I was a dummy but no more I blocked and deleted and never looked back.
Men & Women please stop putting yourself in dangerous situations. Once you find out something just cut all ties and move on. Your Life is more important than exposing that person. You never know what is on that persons mind and heart. Condolences & Prayers to her family. 🙏
You never know what a person will go through to keep their secret. The lesson to take away is to just walk away it's not worth it to blackmail the other person for any reason. The best revenge will be you leaving them alone and moving on with your life.
Is like what point will ppl learn. This situation plays out many times..in life and movies it doesnt end well..he a scumbag leave..and block him..its sad
“The best revenge will be leaving them alone and you moving on with your life.” He was ignoring her because he was done with her. She got angry and wanted to get back at him. Let’s say if she did move on with her life and blocked him. How would that be revenge if he discarded her? Not trying to start something, just curious.
#1- If you're married/serious relationship and can't stay faithful, GET A DIVORCE, JUST LEAVE! #2- DO NOT ever mess with someone in a committed relationship, especially marriage. #3- If you find out someone is in another relationship or married, JUST LEAVE THEM ALONE!! #4- NEVER, NEVER, NEVER contact that persons significant other! NEVER threaten them in any way! It is NOT your moral obligation to expose their infidelity. Their lifestyle will be found out in time. You just go on with your life like they never existed! With all that said, this is still no legitimate reason this young lady lost her life. He was in the wrong by even being out there looking for another relationship when he's already with someone. Both of them could still be going on with their lives had he done the right and respectful thing by honoring his marriage.
I love the passion and energy in your comment. Wish you had closed it out to include specifically how Kayla could've held herself in check though. You pointed all fingers at what ole boy did wrong. While by no means her life should've been tragically taken in this manner, Kayla plays a pivotal role in her own death. She triggered a savage based on her OVER-REACTION to disappointment. This cannot be overlooked. I only share this thought provoking perspective because of how powerful these platforms are from an educational and influential standpoint. #Respect
@factz8874 I've done that before on other videos, and I was verbally attacked for "victim shaming." That's why in each point I made, I pointed out what she did wrong and what she should have done in a roundabout way, indirectly. Can't watch this video without seeing all the wrong things she did too. But ultimately, he's the only one that took it way too far, and he's the only one that committed a crime.
Listen..... If you are involved with a guy or girl you met online and find out that not only are they using a fake name, but also married...... Trying to blackmail that person is not a smart move. They are the definition of potential danger. Just cut your losses and run.
Facts 💯 it's more rewarding to leave that situation from a liar and cheat than to expose them. You literally get nothing for exposing someone to their partner who probably already knows they're dealing with a cheater.
@@dharts5497 You mean a BLACK MALE. They put in you in the grave just for saying "not interested". Nah it doesn't matter these days so everyone trying to act like " Ohh I'll just take those oozing herpes lesions and keep my mouth shut in peace and I'll be ok". Nah. Stay away from THESE DUDES altogether!!!! Let them get their passport and go over there acting crazy!
That’s why I don’t do dating sites..these men literally be married but have created fake profiles just to meet women… it’s very disturbing that this is actually a thing happening
@@FeliciaQueen17I met my boyfriend of 3 years online and he just popped the question. I did a background check on him before we met in person and we would only meet publicly for a while. You just have to practice common sense and use caution.
@@BigReddSouthernGal25 You young lady used discretion and good ole common sense. I was going to comment that women need to start doing background checks on these guys - it will tell you everything you need to know and some things you didn't think you'd know about.
@@FeliciaQueen17 Careful tho, some men can be squeaky clean and you find nothing but have a sinister demeanor more time you spend, pay attention to red flags behavior, too its sad how its like that :(
I wonder what his wife thinks of him now, this is scary , not only the fact that your husband cheated, but also killed a woman like this is sad on both ends
Just a word of advice to all woman on the side, telling a Man’s Wife do you no good because all the wife is going to do is stick closer to her husband so telling her is pointless. You will always be the homewrecker no manner what.
@@shanias.3915 serial means he constantly cheated at that point you knew your husband maybe wanted his freedom from you. Some husbands continue to cheat because they want a divorce
She Was A Beautiful Woman. She Didn’t Deserve That. She Should’ve Cut Him Loose and Never Talk To Him Again Ever In Life. No Need To Threat Anybody. Just Remove Yourself From The Equation. My Condolences To Kayla’s Family and Friends.
Once you find out a man has been telling serious lies just let that jerk go! You'll lose your life trying to settle scores and seek revenge. Not worth it at all. 😒
Why would she try to blackmail this man? Him being married was her way out of it, and she could have just met someone new. It doesn't pay to be trifling. RIP Kayla.
I think she probably grew to develop feelings for him and even contemplated a future with him. Once she found out he was married, she more than likely felt humiliated and shattered. After reaching out to him for answers, only for him to ignore her probably enraged her. She snapped and wanted revenge for getting played. Can’t blame her for feeling exploited and angry. However, she didn’t know what he was capable of which led to her demise.
Ladies leave that married man alone I don't care what you tell his wife they still gon be together. He is not leaving her I don't care what he tells you!!!
She should have just left him, healed from the betrayal, and moved on with her life. This happens too many times when the side piece decides to be messy. RIP Queen!
Women, when you are going to make a move such as this or to leave a man for whatever reason, do not tell the other party, inform friends and possibly cops and ensure you have a plan in place.
I'm not telling the wife anything or threatening him. If anything, I find out he's married, I will address him and I'm out✌️✌️🏃♀️🏃♀️ vengeance is mine says the lord, I will repay!! Walk away ,hurt ,heal and move on with your life.
@Kiki Williamson I never condoned him cheating. Looked what her revenge got her. We as women have to learn to walk away, instead of trying to get closure and revenge, it's not going to change anything, you're still going to be hurt, mad ,angry and upset. Especially dealing with these men these days that will take your life at the drop of a hat,so why put all that energy into destroying them,when you can just move on.
Ladies, take note. NEVER threaten these people with exposing them because as we can see in many cases, they truly don’t give af and will stab, shoot, chop up and burn you alive sometimes!! Horrific things you couldn’t even imagine they would do. Chose wisely
She didn't. he lied to her, she found out, she told him to contact her " most likely to chew him out". He refused so she sent that text to his wife. He came to meet up with her to "murk her". That makes no sense seeing as his wife already knew.
Everyone dumping on this lady is fkn gross, she definitely did NOT make the wisest choices but she is NOT the killer here, she is the VICTIM. Never confront CHEATERS period or try to threaten them by outing them because man OR woman they will do whatever to keep that image/secret safe. I’ve heard of women doing this as well, and my heart goes out to her family.
So, let me get thus straight. You were that worried about getting found out by your wife that you would risk murdering someone and going to jail FOREVER?? 🙄🤦🏽♀️
@@theoneandonlyK01 I mean really....peoples mentalities get on my nerves....thank you for the supportive clap back....he shouldn't have been cheating...involving other innocent people in on his foolishness 😒
Oh Lawd, when will women learn? Never reach out to the wife or gf! It’s a VERY dangerous thing to do, even if you believe it’s the right thing to do! I promise you, most men that cheat, their partners either know or don’t want to believe it. Men like this are SLOPPY, and he thought lying about his name would sustain a long term relationship with her, while MARRIED?! People are so damn diluted and delusional today. Ugh I hate this happened to her! May he rot!
Sad story! I was dating a guy in the past. He wasn't married when I met him but 6 month of us dating he had gotten married. Therefore he was dating me while in a serious relationship with another. I didn't find out until a year after we had been dating. I found out through his brother!!
Same way a LOT of people find out these days, via third-parties & background checks!! Sad to see that Dateline, 20/20 & other programs have had the opposite effect originally intended: giving Narcs ideas. The BEST way to meet a potential mate/spouse is still the old way: a formal introduction by Family or trusted friends. Sounds “corny” to many, but at least those you trust know both of you & hopefully, CARE about you being happy. Websites, tour guides, clubs & restaurants that serve alcohol-just don’t. 🌸♥️🌱
@Sharon P not blaming her, but never tell your left hand what your right hand is doing. She should have never threatened him or told him anything.... that's a dangerous game... I have been in this situation and I literally disappeared once I found out.... no argument, no telling the man what I know, I don't care about feelings, actions and behaviors tell you all you need to know about someone... and if you'll dishonor your wife, you'll do worse to me... no need to threaten him for not answering calls and trying to stick around with threats... let go and move on.
@@Czipporah you know what sis..I totally agree...She should have took it as he's a clown and just moved on... Especially knowing how these men are quick to kill us over feelings...I understand how she felt because she probably really liked him and was making future plans for them to get serious...She found out that he basically scammed her and was blindsided....So she wanted to hurt him like she was...That was his loss because she was beautiful and had her life going on a successful path and she could have easily got another man. I am tripping how he killed and buried her that day and later on the same night he made date's with 3 more women...He gave 0 fcks about her...smmfh... He's the simp!!
I understand that it was shocking to find out that the man she had been dating had been lieing by giving her a alias name & found out about him being married as well, but she should have just moved on instead of deciding to blackmail him because of the fact that would not be taken lightly by him and it wasn’t 🤷🏽♀️ he killed her over it but my thing is, how in the hell he thought he would get away with this is beyond me but his trifling Azz knows now he didn’t get away with that evil lieing azz Monster 👹
A lot of people think they can manipulate others into giving them or doing what they want. Whether that was money or him leaving his wife, it's just as u said: you can't control others, only yourself. People would do well to learn this lesson PDQ. If she wanted to continue to be with him free and clear, what kinda BS relationship would THAT have been? Like my mama used to say, how you get em is how you'll lose em.
@@KikiW89 if you decide to cheat on your partner for whatever reason will that give anyone the right to blackmail you? What are you saying? People cheat. It happens, but this woman lost her life. Doesn’t that mean anything to you?
Let me say he is wrong! But once she found out he was married, she should have left him alone period! The whole "im going to black mail him." Certainly didnt help her at all! If she had walked away with her dignity and respect instead of trying to tell the wife in hopes that he was going to leave the wife for her landed her dead, her dog alone, and her familu hurting! We have to make good choices
When a man is done with you, let it go, He doesn't have to talk to you move on and blackmailing someone be for real it's was a desperate ploy for attention and conversation that backfired on her horribly. And the wife obviously didn't give a damn either she didn't reply to the text. She should've left them people alone, and looking at him she wouldn't have lossed much. I'm sorry this happened to her.
Poor woman. She didn't deserve to die ladies stay away from toxic controlling narcissistic prideful selfish and abusive monsters RIP Beautiful Woman if anyone who is in a Domestic Violence situation get help before it's too late I give my condolences to the family and friends of the woman
Why get married when you want a girlfriend? Duh you can date many women at the same time as long as you let people know it’s only a date and not a commitment
@@staceywilliams1863 you as a woman must say No when you tell a man No it tells you exactly who he is always tell men that you are dating and not looking for a commitment and it makes it much easier to get rid of the dusty men who only want you know what and it will not even give them a chance to use or abuse you
What could a blackmail do, more than make that man more angry. She should've just walked away and call it a loss. If you have to go that far it isn't worth it. Just walk away! Been through the same thing. Only thing I never allowed that man to know where I live. He wouldn't know where to find me even if he tried. One has to tread carefully when it comes onto your personal space.
The fact that he kept the text message is unbelievable cuz it proves that the affair occured making him the #1 suspect.... Damn Shame... He wanted to get caught. This whole story is just sad
@@ViperBOSS74they have data bases on these phones now nothing is deleted lol. Maybe in 2002 you could but now nah. These companies store data tests etc ping locations every 10 minutes just in case the police wanna investigate you.
Did he think someone good was gonna come out of cheating on his wife..what a dummy he was… he could have just left his wife..now he has committed murder..all for some sex… and the sad part is that these dating apps are full of lying ass married men..
@@KikiW89 blackmail is better than cheating? Millions of people cheat every day. Let’s all make smart decisions and not excuse some. This could’ve been avoided on both ends period. Cheating - wrong, blackmail - wrong period
Speaking as a wife, single ladies please don’t believe he will leave, investigate a man thoroughly b4 allowing yourself to get involved to the point where you feel the need to threaten him. Men that cheat are generally narcissistic in nature and don’t care. If he can cheat on his WIFE imagine what he could do to you. Side pieces are not going to be anything but a side piece and even if he does leave his wife what makes you think he won’t do you wrong as well. It’s easier and safer to just find out what is what b4 you get involved to deep
I love how she ran a background check on the dude😂 Can't trust ppl these days.. but unfortunately it back fired on her😢 that dude is a straight up coward
What in the HELL that has to do with him murdering her ?? Rather he was married/single these demons don’t care about black women . He married that woman she didn’t go before God and confess her love His Dusty As Did ! Black women and children are being murdered every 4 1/2 hours and your As$ talking about leave married men alone ?!! Like black men even care about marriage
Did you even watch the video 😳?Married people need to leave single people alone. In this situation, she did not know he was married until after they had been in a relationship.
All she could had done was to block him from all communications she had with him and probably change of home address and move on with her life and but the mistake she made was treating him about telling his wife that when she opened the door for devil in him to come out and her life ended up being taken for just no good reason and This is a lesson never go on these dating website too many devils on this dating websites just pray to the good lord one day your husband will come no matter how long you wait. Rest in Peace beautiful.
And if I was the wife I would get away from the bastard in a heartbeat because he might try to hurt her next. You can’t trust jokers nowadays. R.I.P. my dear🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
You act like women don't cheat. Stop being a feminist and call a spade a spade. He deleted her because she was going to BLACKMAIL him. She should have just walked away and continued with her beautiful, successful life. Now everybody loses.
“If they lie, they’ll cheat, if they cheat, they’ll steal, if they steal they’ll kill!” Run and don’t look back. My condolences to her loved ones, looks like she had a good life 🙏🏾
Leave these monsters alone!!! Trust your intuition. The red flags and signs were there. Anytime you can’t go to someone’s home and their always coming to yours; you already know what it is…a lot of affairs end tragically.
So sad this happened to her. May she rest in peace. She was hurt, and thought she would get him back by black mailing him, but didn't know he was so evil. We have to be careful ladies. Especially in these dating apps.
I keep saying do your homework ladies. My Pastor use to say "look deep before you leap." We live in a digital age. Anything you need to know is at your fingertips! He wasted not just the demised life but his own - over his sexual immorality (sin). 😢
Thanks for sharing so sad 😢 I love how this podcast does so professional and my favorite thanks for keeping us on what's going on and I love the music you use and no when to let us here the story very good job. Condolences to Kayla's loved ones
She was thriving and successful before her life intersected with a lying, felonious bandit. Black women take note of who your enemy is and avoid at all costs. Rest In Peace Sis 🕊😢
I live in GP and this is truly heartbreaking. Listen: Men and Women lie on these dating sites. Men and Women lie when you meet them in person. (NOT all people lie.) However, if you find out the person you are with is married…. Leave the spouse out of the foolishness. It will ALWAYS be something about that person that will leave you wondering, just leave them alone. As we see, these married folks will go to drastic measures to make sure the spouse doesn’t finds out, however, the spouse already knows he’s a cheater. (Maybe not at first, however, eventually the spouse finds out.) This young lady was brilliant. I only wish she had walked away from the situation instead of wanting answers that would have only been lies.
Okay once I found out the real truth it’s a wrap. I have to admit I have never seek revenge for a person that did me wrong! I have found out later the person went through some rough times physically mentally financially! I believe in Karma but I let the Lord handle mine 🙏🏾💯!
Stay away from these married men and women. If you're not the main course refuse to be the side dish. May God rest her soul RIP. Condolences to the family 🙏🙏🙏
The fact that a lot of people are blaming her for telling his wife. She did t have a clue he would kill her. Telling his wife is the right thing to do, he was just too angry to accept his actions. Not fair to blame her. Sad that she passed away for trying to do the right thing.
It's messy. She slept with a married man, she does not know the wife, she does not owe the wife anything. She most definitely did not deserve to lose her life. Ppl, commenters, society leave ppl alone that aren't bothering u!
STAYYYYYYYY OFFF THESE DATING APPS. WHYYYYYYYYYY would you not just walk away, move on and forward. WHYYYY involve the wife, she had nothing to do with yall relationship. SMDH! RIP
Truthfully, the wife already knows how her husband is, and just like I read in one of the comments on here that the wife must have been the bread winner.
OMG My condolences to the family. I know of her brother Travis from his shows on RUclips. Awesome guy who recently spoke about his sister being missing. I am so saddened to hear that she lost her life to a COWARD. My prayers go out to the family. May GOD be with you in your time of sorrow.
That's messed up and he didn't have to kill her just because he was the liar and the cheater, and he didn't want to be exposed for who he really is!!! It's really sad that she got caught up with this monster!!! May she rest peacefully and my condolences to the family and the loved ones of the victim!!!
Most men capable of this level of adultery, willing to go as far as using a fake alias, are sociopathic narcissist that don’t want the facade of their phony “family man” persona to crumble around them. Trust, they are willing to murder to keep the good guy image. Not victim blaming at all. She had every right to say things out of anger after learning she’d been deceived. She just didn’t realize how far he’d go. 😢
Sadly, she decided to play games with a person that wasn't interested in playing her game. It's sad that her and Chili just couldn't continue traveling.💯
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If you find out that you're a side piece, just leave. Don't threaten; "teach a lesson"; etc. Your pride will recover. You only have one life. My condolences to Kayla's friends and family.
Exactly
Leave in silence and block
Nope! I called his wife and ready for all the smoke
Absolutely
She should have just left instead of trying to blackmail him...smh
So he prefers that his wife knows that he’s a murderer over her knowing he’s a cheater 🤔? Got it 🫤
Right? Crazy mind
@@cocobenji6123 Dusty mind. All emotions and violence. No logic or critical thinking skills.
And now about to get his bussy dugout on a regular.
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Right! Make it make sense!
Girl not only did you find out he was married but that he was using a fake name to and you thought it would be smart to threaten him with blackmail? His lies and the way he lied would have been enough for me to drop the situation with him immediately pack my stuff and move without saying a word. Men like this are dangerous and women threatening them is a BAD idea. I don’t care how strong of a woman you think you are or how in control of the situation you think you are these types of men will hurt/kill you and not think twice about it. If anyone ever finds themselves in this situation it’s best to just disappear and never talk to them again 😮😮
THANK YOU!! What's the point in blackmailing him
@@jessesgirlwhite484 Absolutely nothing …smh
Exactly! She should have just left him alone instead of trying to get revenge.
why you victim blaming
I don’t think it’s victim blaming, it’s sound advice on how to move accordingly with these liars and cheaters. My mom would say first you lie, then you steal then you kill.
I don’t understand how people think killing someone will hide their secrets 🙄
Yk how many ppl get away with this same thing he did 😭😭😭☠️u woudknt bekeive
it does hide it in most cases , only few cases came to light
They still didn't find Jimmy Hoffa
@@idkyou370yeah but in this day and age, your chances of being caught are higher than if it were 30+ years back when forensics weren’t as advanced
It will come to light with our modern day forensics.
Let me seeeeee 👀. He loved his wife enough to KILL for her, but not enough to be faithful to her!!🤔🤔🤨🤨
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@Regina Eiland is was not about. He is an Jamaican with a green card and his wife is his sponsor.....
😂😂😂
@@st.anthonythegreat4936oh really. So he didn't want his business plan to be spoilt
Loyalty and faithfulness are two different things. This scumbag killed this woman but she should NOT have tried to blackmail him. Just walk away. People are crazy and if you threaten their reputation and livelihood...then they may decide to tie up loose ends. Be careful out there.
I wish she would’ve took that “L” and moved on with her life. She looked like she had a lot going for her self.Your life isn’t worth exposing these fools.
Zero sympathy for home wreckers.
@@KikiW89 If wishes were horses, beggars would ride.
@@carpediem4512 Ok.
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Black women can't accept L's
This man was definitely wrong for cheating on his wife and pretending to be a single available man, however, when you know or when you find out a man is married - you charge that sh!t to the game and move on with your life. You don't call the wife (because most likely she already knows about her husband's cheating ways). You don't threaten the man with blackmail - you leave!
Your 1 and only life is certainly worth more than trying to prove a point to a married man and his wife.
right
Absolutely 💯💯💯💯
Exactly!
You don’t know if she knew or not. This whole paragraph feels like you’re blaming the victim. If I was getting cheated on I would want to know!
@@yamama5158 If you're with a man, and you cant sense something is off, that's on you! No one needs to tell you anything, cause 9 times of 10, the wife aint going nowhere! What he did was wrong, but she should have just moved on. We dont get to gauge the response of other people, or what they might do.
You find out your guy is married, don’t threaten to expose, don’t call his wife/girlfriend, don’t give him a piece of your mind……LEAVE….just leave. He ran game, you caught on, take the lesson and leave. This NEVER turns out well. There’s no comin back from dead.
She should've stayed out the way once she found out dude was married. Too many crazy people on these dating apps.
That part
No, it sure isn't!!! Until Jesus comes to wake you up!!!
@@thechosenone2623 exactly. I've been single for years and I refuse to try online dating 🤦🏽♀️
For real, I was seeing a guy after two weeks I found out he was married. I confronted he denied it, I even showed him the marriage license this guy still denied it. I said ok then changed my numbers
Wow! My cousin is 28 & is now having twins by a married man. After almost a year & even moving in with her, he told her he is going back to his wife. She was so hurt as expected but he was making it seem as though he & his wife were separated. He even "proposed" to my cousin. The twins are due in June & I just don't understand it.
A guy tried dating me saying he was separated but Idc & that I don't deal with married men separated or not because 95% of the time, it's a lie. He deleted me when he realized I wasn't entertaining him as I stated.
Ladies, don't even bother. Send married men back where they belong. Know your worth!
He has nerve knowing he was the one lying!!! Smh
Exactly 🎯
Yes seperated=still married
Pretty much most married men are just looking for play things. Let them go play with their dirty🍆 or wives.
I had a man do that to me as well. They are having whole families. What saved me was that after he got my number, he asked me, "What do you think about the men and women being friends?" Then he proceeded to tell me about his wife and how she thinks that he is running to the gym to talk to females. I immediately told him that he was being shady and that his wife had every reason to think that and blocked his number right after.
Have some integrity, ladies, and figure these men out before getting too deep.
Some women know that he's married and still don't care.
Never contact the wife, I have seen this happen before. These men will never leave their wives for you, it’s sad that this guy killed Kayla for something that was his fault.
His fault? She should’ve shut her mouth and kept it pushing the moment she found out that he was married.. but y’all’s PRIDE is y’all’s downfall. Instead of taking that big ass L and moving on, she thought opening her mouth was wise. No sympathy🤷🏾♂️
She should have shut up when she found out
@@brendanvasquez thank God for the justice system! He will serve his time!
He shouldn’t have e out there f ing around!!
Yes his fault!! I swear to god you BMW!!! This is why black men aren’t accountable, women like u
This happened where I live and it’s very sad and heartbreaking. I did a dating site several years ago and I was scammed and learned my lesson and never went back to that mess again. I’m single and happy alone until God blesses me.
Absolutely...I agree 💯
Amen!!❤
Omg how did you get scammed?
@@Butterfly_47
The scammer would always claim to travel for work and one day he stated that his credit card wasn’t working and he was hungry and couldn’t buy any food/drink so goofy me fell for it and wired over some funds. I felt something wrong afterwards so I did some investigating and found out that he was in Cali and had scammed several women. I was a dummy but no more I blocked and deleted and never looked back.
And He will bless you 🙏
And now his wife is going to move on… and he may become someone BF behind bars 😮
Pretty much
Yep
LOL YES! HE'S A DUMMY!
Lets hope sooo😂
Exactly
Men & Women please stop putting yourself in dangerous situations. Once you find out something just cut all ties and move on. Your Life is more important than exposing that person. You never know what is on that persons mind and heart. Condolences & Prayers to her family. 🙏
Never bring people to your home also unless you know for years
Ain't that the truth ✊🏿
You never know what a person will go through to keep their secret. The lesson to take away is to just walk away it's not worth it to blackmail the other person for any reason. The best revenge will be you leaving them alone and moving on with your life.
Is like what point will ppl learn. This situation plays out many times..in life and movies it doesnt end well..he a scumbag leave..and block him..its sad
@@empressleesa2252 ppl think it will never happen to them. The fake name and being married I would have immediately blocked him
“The best revenge will be leaving them alone and you moving on with your life.” He was ignoring her because he was done with her. She got angry and wanted to get back at him.
Let’s say if she did move on with her life and blocked him. How would that be revenge if he discarded her? Not trying to start something, just curious.
People will kill just to keep their deep dark secrets hidden
#1- If you're married/serious relationship and can't stay faithful, GET A DIVORCE, JUST LEAVE!
#2- DO NOT ever mess with someone in a committed relationship, especially marriage.
#3- If you find out someone is in another relationship or married, JUST LEAVE THEM ALONE!!
#4- NEVER, NEVER, NEVER contact that persons significant other! NEVER threaten them in any way! It is NOT your moral obligation to expose their infidelity. Their lifestyle will be found out in time. You just go on with your life like they never existed!
With all that said, this is still no legitimate reason this young lady lost her life. He was in the wrong by even being out there looking for another relationship when he's already with someone. Both of them could still be going on with their lives had he done the right and respectful thing by honoring his marriage.
I love the passion and energy in your comment. Wish you had closed it out to include specifically how Kayla could've held herself in check though. You pointed all fingers at what ole boy did wrong. While by no means her life should've been tragically taken in this manner, Kayla plays a pivotal role in her own death. She triggered a savage based on her OVER-REACTION to disappointment. This cannot be overlooked.
I only share this thought provoking perspective because of how powerful these platforms are from an educational and influential standpoint. #Respect
That won’t happen.
@factz8874 I've done that before on other videos, and I was verbally attacked for "victim shaming." That's why in each point I made, I pointed out what she did wrong and what she should have done in a roundabout way, indirectly. Can't watch this video without seeing all the wrong things she did too. But ultimately, he's the only one that took it way too far, and he's the only one that committed a crime.
Always contact the significant other and let them know. That's all.
I know you better PREACH 🙏
Listen.....
If you are involved with a guy or girl you met online and find out that not only are they using a fake name, but also married...... Trying to blackmail that person is not a smart move. They are the definition of potential danger.
Just cut your losses and run.
Facts 💯 it's more rewarding to leave that situation from a liar and cheat than to expose them. You literally get nothing for exposing someone to their partner who probably already knows they're dealing with a cheater.
Fact’s!
@@thechosenone2623 No expose the cheater but before you do. MOVE!
YES!!! BECAUSE BLACKMAIL WILL CARRY YOU TO AN EARLY GRAVE AS IT DID THIS YOUNG WOMAN AND HE'LL STILL BE BREATHIN' . CLUE-UP, LADIES...THIS IS DUMB!!!!
@@dharts5497 You mean a BLACK MALE. They put in you in the grave just for saying "not interested". Nah it doesn't matter these days so everyone trying to act like " Ohh I'll just take those oozing herpes lesions and keep my mouth shut in peace and I'll be ok". Nah. Stay away from THESE DUDES altogether!!!! Let them get their passport and go over there acting crazy!
That’s why I don’t do dating sites..these men literally be married but have created fake profiles just to meet women… it’s very disturbing that this is actually a thing happening
The same men on these dating sites is the same men on the street. This could of easily happened by meeting someone in a coffee shop.
@@ericadixon1471 It's less mystery when you meet face to face.
@@FeliciaQueen17I met my boyfriend of 3 years online and he just popped the question. I did a background check on him before we met in person and we would only meet publicly for a while. You just have to practice common sense and use caution.
@@BigReddSouthernGal25 You young lady used discretion and good ole common sense. I was going to comment that women need to start doing background checks on these guys - it will tell you everything you need to know and some things you didn't think you'd know about.
@@FeliciaQueen17 Careful tho, some men can be squeaky clean and you find nothing but have a sinister demeanor more time you spend, pay attention to red flags behavior, too its sad how its like that :(
Well damn.. if your relationship is that serious… why even cheat?!? 🤦🏽♀️
I wonder what his wife thinks of him now, this is scary , not only the fact that your husband cheated, but also killed a woman like this is sad on both ends
What if he decided that he wanted to be with Kayla instead of his wife? I wonder if he would have done the same thing to her😳
I wonder has he done this before or was this his first killing
@@teneikalaprincess2669Very scary 😲 On both ends!
exactly
Just a word of advice to all woman on the side, telling a Man’s
Wife do you no good because all the wife is going to do is stick closer to her husband so telling her is pointless. You will always be the homewrecker no manner what.
Not true. I left my husband. He is a serial cheater and possibly a murderer too to keep his secret.
@@shanias.3915 serial means he constantly cheated at that point you knew your husband maybe wanted his freedom from you. Some husbands continue to cheat because they want a divorce
@@tamekae1755 they’re cowards
@@crunchyblack7991 which makes them become narcissists.
@@shanias.3915 ...GREAT YOU LEFT, ALL US WOMEN WILL NOT ACCEPT THIS...
So sorry this happened to her. When you threaten someone you don't how they will respond. RIP.
She Was A Beautiful Woman. She Didn’t Deserve That. She Should’ve Cut Him Loose and Never Talk To Him Again Ever In Life. No Need To Threat Anybody. Just Remove Yourself From The Equation. My Condolences To Kayla’s Family and Friends.
Once you find out a man has been telling serious lies just let that jerk go! You'll lose your life trying to settle scores and seek revenge. Not worth it at all. 😒
The fact that the day he killed her, he texted 3 other women. This man was a serial cheater. Smh and married on top of that.
Why would she try to blackmail this man? Him being married was her way out of it, and she could have just met someone new. It doesn't pay to be trifling. RIP Kayla.
She probably was expecting the wife to leave and she can be with him.
@Blackina gingerpurrin BINGO! Because they said in the text messages she told him she would tell his wife IF HE DIDNT ANSWER HER. smh
Doesn't pay one bit!! 💔
I think she probably grew to develop feelings for him and even contemplated a future with him. Once she found out he was married, she more than likely felt humiliated and shattered. After reaching out to him for answers, only for him to ignore her probably enraged her. She snapped and wanted revenge for getting played. Can’t blame her for feeling exploited and angry. However, she didn’t know what he was capable of which led to her demise.
She probably had fell in love and was hurt
So now his wife knows and she’s going to divorce him. People really don’t think these things through
Most of those people are impulsive and dumb as fuck which is why they make rash dumb decisions
She may not divorce him. You know how people are
Kayla was doing just great without that piece of sh*t. Very sad that she had to go that way 😢. MSRIP
Ladies leave that married man alone I don't care what you tell his wife they still gon be together. He is not leaving her I don't care what he tells you!!!
She should have just left him, healed from the betrayal, and moved on with her life. This happens too many times when the side piece decides to be messy. RIP Queen!
This is why you don't go online for a boyfriend or girlfriend. Fantasy is not what it used to be. "Dont talk to strangers" just as Mom told us.
I agree
Women, when you are going to make a move such as this or to leave a man for whatever reason, do not tell the other party, inform friends and possibly cops and ensure you have a plan in place.
I'm not telling the wife anything or threatening him. If anything, I find out he's married, I will address him and I'm out✌️✌️🏃♀️🏃♀️ vengeance is mine says the lord, I will repay!! Walk away ,hurt ,heal and move on with your life.
Very well said!👏👏👏
@Kiki Williamson I never condoned him cheating. Looked what her revenge got her. We as women have to learn to walk away, instead of trying to get closure and revenge, it's not going to change anything, you're still going to be hurt, mad ,angry and upset. Especially dealing with these men these days that will take your life at the drop of a hat,so why put all that energy into destroying them,when you can just move on.
@@KikiW89PAY ATTENTION when wise people are speaking. It will save your life. Get out of your feelings and learn to LISTEN.
@@ValTravels16FACTS! You are very wise.
Exactly!!!!
Ladies, take note. NEVER threaten these people with exposing them because as we can see in many cases, they truly don’t give af and will stab, shoot, chop up and burn you alive sometimes!! Horrific things you couldn’t even imagine they would do. Chose wisely
Very true.
I don't know how she thought blackmailing a cheating liar would produce a loving outcome.
@@jh7456 no one said it warrants murder, the point is, it precipitated murder.
She just wanted to get revenge but it backfired, literally.
She didn't. he lied to her, she found out, she told him to contact her " most likely to chew him out". He refused so she sent that text to his wife. He came to meet up with her to "murk her". That makes no sense seeing as his wife already knew.
@@GoddessBlueYozakura7she never got the chance to tell her that news
Who said that murder was the answer to his problem 🤔 🙄?
Once you find out they married. Walk away. Don’t ask why, you know why. Don’t force or blackmail these people. Just walk away.
Everyone dumping on this lady is fkn gross, she definitely did NOT make the wisest choices but she is NOT the killer here, she is the VICTIM. Never confront CHEATERS period or try to threaten them by outing them because man OR woman they will do whatever to keep that image/secret safe. I’ve heard of women doing this as well, and my heart goes out to her family.
It’s so tragic but I think some of the posts are warnings or cautionary tales so this doesn’t happen again
So, let me get thus straight. You were that worried about getting found out by your wife that you would risk murdering someone and going to jail FOREVER?? 🙄🤦🏽♀️
Don't make no damn sense clown kills her cause he a damn liar....CRAZY AS HELL. 😢
-- She should have just moved on with her life instead of blackmailing him.
@@VAIO294That still doesn't mean he needed to kill her!!
@@theoneandonlyK01 I mean really....peoples mentalities get on my nerves....thank you for the supportive clap back....he shouldn't have been cheating...involving other innocent people in on his foolishness 😒
@@VAIO294 you can't be serious 😒
@@theoneandonlyK01 - It's not about if he "NEEDED" to kill her.
Oh Lawd, when will women learn? Never reach out to the wife or gf! It’s a VERY dangerous thing to do, even if you believe it’s the right thing to do! I promise you, most men that cheat, their partners either know or don’t want to believe it. Men like this are SLOPPY, and he thought lying about his name would sustain a long term relationship with her, while MARRIED?! People are so damn diluted and delusional today. Ugh I hate this happened to her! May he rot!
Sad story! I was dating a guy in the past. He wasn't married when I met him but 6 month of us dating he had gotten married. Therefore he was dating me while in a serious relationship with another. I didn't find out until a year after we had been dating. I found out through his brother!!
I'm sorry
Same way a LOT of people find out these days, via third-parties & background checks!! Sad to see that Dateline, 20/20 & other programs have had the opposite effect originally intended: giving Narcs ideas.
The BEST way to meet a potential mate/spouse is still the old way: a formal introduction by Family or trusted friends. Sounds “corny” to many, but at least those you trust know both of you & hopefully, CARE about you being happy. Websites, tour guides, clubs & restaurants that serve alcohol-just don’t. 🌸♥️🌱
@@ahnraemenkhera7451 I definitely agree 💯
She should have just moved on
My sincere condolences goes to Kayla’s loved ones. 🤲🏽💜
His wife mustve been the bread winner and taking care of him....🤷🏾♀️
Name like ocaster?
I dont think hed get a decent job without a nickname
Like butch, skip, Duke, etc..
Mostly the case
I think they said he was Jamaican married on a green card visa.
I grew up with this young lady. Such a sweet soul. Gone too soon. Please continue to uplift her family in prayer. May she RIP 🙏🏾
See I always think a person is capable of these exact type of things…. I never put anything past anyone! This is so unfortunate 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Omg … these women love these men more than they love themselves…. It’s sad… she had a good life … wow
She didn't know that he was married...He gave her a fake name....
Ig it’s all bout feeling
@Sharon P not blaming her, but never tell your left hand what your right hand is doing. She should have never threatened him or told him anything.... that's a dangerous game... I have been in this situation and I literally disappeared once I found out.... no argument, no telling the man what I know, I don't care about feelings, actions and behaviors tell you all you need to know about someone... and if you'll dishonor your wife, you'll do worse to me... no need to threaten him for not answering calls and trying to stick around with threats... let go and move on.
@@Czipporah you know what sis..I totally agree...She should have took it as he's a clown and just moved on... Especially knowing how these men are quick to kill us over feelings...I understand how she felt because she probably really liked him and was making future plans for them to get serious...She found out that he basically scammed her and was blindsided....So she wanted to hurt him like she was...That was his loss because she was beautiful and had her life going on a successful path and she could have easily got another man. I am tripping how he killed and buried her that day and later on the same night he made date's with 3 more women...He gave 0 fcks about her...smmfh... He's the simp!!
DUST BUCKET FAKE BLACK LOVE 🪦💪🏿💪🏽💪🏻🤣🤣 ,.....glad I'm into White Men! & Others! ...Just watching others suffer! 😂🤣 The KAAAANGZ!
This story was so sad…on many levels
Right?
I understand that it was shocking to find out that the man she had been dating had been lieing by giving her a alias name & found out about him being married as well, but she should have just moved on instead of deciding to blackmail him because of the fact that would not be taken lightly by him and it wasn’t 🤷🏽♀️ he killed her over it but my thing is, how in the hell he thought he would get away with this is beyond me but his trifling Azz knows now he didn’t get away with that evil lieing azz Monster 👹
Appreciate your hard work & time you put in these videos I really be learning a lot thanks 🙏🏽
NEVER NEVER EVER MESS WITH SOMEONE MARRIED. Soon as u find out STOP. Dangerous game people are SICK IN THE HEAD OUT HERE.
This just happened not too long ago too… right up the street from where I live. RIP to her ❤
What?! Omygoodness
This man was unstable to begin with … her threatening him just drove his already crazy ass over the edge … very sad
Stop playing. You can’t control what people do, but you can control your emotions and actions. What did she want from him? Why contact his wife?
Agreed just let it go because she would be alive today .
@@KikiW89 why are you ignoring the initial question? You’re giving “ I’m being cheated on” vibes
But u cant control what other people do....only yourself. She shoulda blocked that fool and moved on.
A lot of people think they can manipulate others into giving them or doing what they want. Whether that was money or him leaving his wife, it's just as u said: you can't control others, only yourself. People would do well to learn this lesson PDQ.
If she wanted to continue to be with him free and clear, what kinda BS relationship would THAT have been?
Like my mama used to say, how you get em is how you'll lose em.
@@KikiW89 if you decide to cheat on your partner for whatever reason will that give anyone the right to blackmail you? What are you saying? People cheat. It happens, but this woman lost her life. Doesn’t that mean anything to you?
Let me say he is wrong! But once she found out he was married, she should have left him alone period! The whole "im going to black mail him." Certainly didnt help her at all! If she had walked away with her dignity and respect instead of trying to tell the wife in hopes that he was going to leave the wife for her landed her dead, her dog alone, and her familu hurting! We have to make good choices
EPIC COMMENT!!! Accountability on all fronts. Men and women are responsible for their actions. FACTS!
When a man is done with you, let it go, He doesn't have to talk to you move on and blackmailing someone be for real it's was a desperate ploy for attention and conversation that backfired on her horribly. And the wife obviously didn't give a damn either she didn't reply to the text. She should've left them people alone, and looking at him she wouldn't have lossed much. I'm sorry this happened to her.
Poor woman. She didn't deserve to die ladies stay away from toxic controlling narcissistic prideful selfish and abusive monsters RIP Beautiful Woman if anyone who is in a Domestic Violence situation get help before it's too late I give my condolences to the family and friends of the woman
She was trying to blackmail someone she deserved whatever came behind it.
Why?😂
ALso...MARRIED MEN!!! Periodt!
Lol Who said he was controlling and abusive? On the contrary she appeared to be narcissistic controlling and abusive if she's threatening him.
@@ekbankshe’s definitely controlling! He took a life.
She should have just left him alone once she found out he was married. Case closed
Why get married when you want a girlfriend? Duh you can date many women at the same time as long as you let people know it’s only a date and not a commitment
Men want the security and perks of a relationship while they still live a single life on the side.
@@staceywilliams1863 you as a woman must say No when you tell a man No it tells you exactly who he is always tell men that you are dating and not looking for a commitment and it makes it much easier to get rid of the dusty men who only want you know what and it will not even give them a chance to use or abuse you
What could a blackmail do, more than make that man more angry. She should've just walked away and call it a loss. If you have to go that far it isn't worth it. Just walk away! Been through the same thing. Only thing I never allowed that man to know where I live. He wouldn't know where to find me even if he tried. One has to tread carefully when it comes onto your personal space.
The fact that he kept the text message is unbelievable cuz it proves that the affair occured making him the #1 suspect.... Damn Shame... He wanted to get caught. This whole story is just sad
Just because you delete the text doesn't mean it's gone. It's still there!
@@ViperBOSS74they have data bases on these phones now nothing is deleted lol. Maybe in 2002 you could but now nah. These companies store data tests etc ping locations every 10 minutes just in case the police wanna investigate you.
My prayers are with victim and family. Ladies do background checks he lied about his name and being married strangers danger..
Did she think something GOOD was gonna come out of threatening to blackmail that man?
Ofcourse not but when you're in your feelings you can make the dumbest decisions, that does not mean she deserved to get killed
Did he think someone good was gonna come out of cheating on his wife..what a dummy he was… he could have just left his wife..now he has committed murder..all for some sex… and the sad part is that these dating apps are full of lying ass married men..
@@denisemitchell6034 or she could have just walked away no matter how much it hurt
@@newthing26 Correct
@@KikiW89 blackmail is better than cheating? Millions of people cheat every day. Let’s all make smart decisions and not excuse some. This could’ve been avoided on both ends period. Cheating - wrong, blackmail - wrong period
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes
Speaking as a wife, single ladies please don’t believe he will leave, investigate a man thoroughly b4 allowing yourself to get involved to the point where you feel the need to threaten him. Men that cheat are generally narcissistic in nature and don’t care. If he can cheat on his WIFE imagine what he could do to you. Side pieces are not going to be anything but a side piece and even if he does leave his wife what makes you think he won’t do you wrong as well. It’s easier and safer to just find out what is what b4 you get involved to deep
Preach it!! 💯
And give us single men your love, please single ladies becaus us men who aren't taken need you.
I love how she ran a background check on the dude😂 Can't trust ppl these days.. but unfortunately it back fired on her😢 that dude is a straight up coward
LEAVE MARRIED PEOPLE ALONE LOVE YOURSELF.
What in the HELL that has to do with him murdering her ?? Rather he was married/single these demons don’t care about black women . He married that woman she didn’t go before God and confess her love His Dusty As Did ! Black women and children are being murdered every 4 1/2 hours and your As$ talking about leave married men alone ?!! Like black men even care about marriage
@@EvolvingWisdom dude shut up
Did you even watch the video 😳?Married people need to leave single people alone. In this situation, she did not know he was married until after they had been in a relationship.
You are so ignorant
Married men need to stay off of dating sites and living double lives!!! How about THAT! He lied!!!
She should have left him. Just kept quiet.
All she could had done was to block him from all communications she had with him and probably change of home address and move on with her life and but the mistake she made was treating him about telling his wife that when she opened the door for devil in him to come out and her life ended up being taken for just no good reason and This is a lesson never go on these dating website too many devils on this dating websites just pray to the good lord one day your husband will come no matter how long you wait. Rest in Peace beautiful.
And if I was the wife I would get away from the bastard in a heartbeat because he might try to hurt her next. You can’t trust jokers nowadays. R.I.P. my dear🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
When she threaten him' to tell his wife's that's what made him DO IT!!! HE WAS SCARED OF HIS WIFE ' eye wondered why they haven't spoken with her
Why do these women threaten to tell on these men. Just leave
Imagine if men didn't cheat, fathers didn't abandon their daughters and leave them vulnerable and people in general respected marriage again. Smh.
You act like women don't cheat. Stop being a feminist and call a spade a spade. He deleted her because she was going to BLACKMAIL him. She should have just walked away and continued with her beautiful, successful life. Now everybody loses.
“If they lie, they’ll cheat, if they cheat, they’ll steal, if they steal they’ll kill!” Run and don’t look back. My condolences to her loved ones, looks like she had a good life 🙏🏾
She wasn't going to blackmail him. That would have been their secret. She communicated with the wife.
Leave these monsters alone!!! Trust your intuition. The red flags and signs were there. Anytime you can’t go to someone’s home and their always coming to yours; you already know what it is…a lot of affairs end tragically.
So sad this happened to her. May she rest in peace.
She was hurt, and thought she would get him back by black mailing him, but didn't know he was so evil. We have to be careful ladies. Especially in these dating apps.
I keep saying do your homework ladies. My Pastor use to say "look deep before you leap." We live in a digital age. Anything you need to know is at your fingertips! He wasted not just the demised life but his own - over his sexual immorality (sin). 😢
Thanks for sharing so sad 😢 I love how this podcast does so professional and my favorite thanks for keeping us on what's going on and I love the music you use and no when to let us here the story very good job. Condolences to Kayla's loved ones
She was thriving and successful before her life intersected with a lying, felonious bandit. Black women take note of who your enemy is and avoid at all costs. Rest In Peace Sis 🕊😢
Threatening sociopaths can be dangerous.
It's a thin line between love and hate
I doubt he loved her
@@Imnotinterested0123 I agree but she might at some point felt love for him
Vito Corleone in the Godfather Movie said it best- Never let your enemy know what you’re thinking..
I live in GP and this is truly heartbreaking. Listen: Men and Women lie on these dating sites. Men and Women lie when you meet them in person. (NOT all people lie.)
However, if you find out the person you are with is married…. Leave the spouse out of the foolishness. It will ALWAYS be something about that person that will leave you wondering, just leave them alone.
As we see, these married folks will go to drastic measures to make sure the spouse doesn’t finds out, however, the spouse already knows he’s a cheater. (Maybe not at first, however, eventually the spouse finds out.)
This young lady was brilliant. I only wish she had walked away from the situation instead of wanting answers that would have only been lies.
Sending prayers to her family and friends at this very difficult time 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Okay once I found out the real truth it’s a wrap. I have to admit I have never seek revenge for a person that did me wrong! I have found out later the person went through some rough times physically mentally financially! I believe in Karma but I let the Lord handle mine 🙏🏾💯!
I love how y'all showed her living a full life 💯🙏🏾
Stay away from these married men and women. If you're not the main course refuse to be the side dish. May God rest her soul RIP. Condolences to the family 🙏🙏🙏
The fact that a lot of people are blaming her for telling his wife. She did t have a clue he would kill her. Telling his wife is the right thing to do, he was just too angry to accept his actions. Not fair to blame her. Sad that she passed away for trying to do the right thing.
So she’s dead - yet you say it was the right thing to do. Should had moved on.
Both are at fault.
Ma'am she said she was going to BLACKMAIL him!!! What you don't get? She just should have LEFT....telling the wife is never the move! Smh.
TRIPPING CUH!!
It's messy. She slept with a married man, she does not know the wife, she does not owe the wife anything. She most definitely did not deserve to lose her life. Ppl, commenters, society leave ppl alone that aren't bothering u!
This could of been avoided on both sides we got to take accountability and learn from this… God rest her soul
STAYYYYYYYY OFFF THESE DATING APPS.
WHYYYYYYYYYY would you not just walk away, move on and forward. WHYYYY involve the wife, she had nothing to do with yall relationship. SMDH! RIP
Truthfully, the wife already knows how her husband is, and just like I read in one of the comments on here that the wife must have been the bread winner.
OMG
My condolences to the family. I know of her brother Travis from his shows on RUclips.
Awesome guy who recently spoke about his sister being missing.
I am so saddened to hear that she lost her life to a COWARD.
My prayers go out to the family.
May GOD be with you in your time of sorrow.
That's what happens when you mess with a married man.
Everyone sucks here. Kayla shouldn't have tried to blackmail Kevin. Kevin shouldn't have been chasing after anyone but his wife.
He’s the one who lied about being married. He deserves to be outed and morally it wasn’t wrong for her to do that.
But it wasn’t worth her life
That's messed up and he didn't have to kill her just because he was the liar and the cheater, and he didn't want to be exposed for who he really is!!! It's really sad that she got caught up with this monster!!! May she rest peacefully and my condolences to the family and the loved ones of the victim!!!
Most men capable of this level of adultery, willing to go as far as using a fake alias, are sociopathic narcissist that don’t want the facade of their phony “family man” persona to crumble around them. Trust, they are willing to murder to keep the good guy image. Not victim blaming at all. She had every right to say things out of anger after learning she’d been deceived. She just didn’t realize how far he’d go. 😢
Blackmailing is dangerous!
Sadly, she decided to play games with a person that wasn't interested in playing her game. It's sad that her and Chili just couldn't continue traveling.💯
Dated for several months and you didn't go to is house?? 🚩
Love is powerful and this young lady isn't at fault he's a grown man and he was wrong. The wife knew what was up
👑God at work!