I remember having to move ASAP and how stressful it was at work because I had to beg my manager for a site transfer and this woman just used it for clout to drive up her merch is so infuriating
I, and I’m sure many others, didn’t even realized I was being stalked. My brain didn’t want to use that word for some reason at the time. He was my neighbor and I thought he just really liked being outside or something. It took my best friend to point out how creepy he was being every time she’d visit my house for me to finally realize. I had to move because of it. The cops didn’t help, his wife helped a little, and my family thought I was being crazy until my little brother saw him taking photos of me. It’s awful, the anxiety of not knowing if you’re being watched at all times is awful, especially if you’re from a small community
There was an actress back in the late 80s who was shot and killed by someone who'd been stalking her. Her name was Rebecca Schaeffer - she was 21-years-old. Hearing stories like the one D'Angelo talks about makes my blood boil because real people have lost their lives from cases of stalking. 🙁
Im not sure if she can come back from this because this is serious and her faking this situation for her MERCH.. , lying about someone stalking you when it genuinely ruined other peoples lives is fucked up.
My stalker after getting out of jail placed a tracker on my car then hit me head first one purpose as i was driving to work, he’s now in jail for attempted murder and I suffered a minor skull fracture, my friend who was in the passenger seat has to be lifeflighted for emergency brain surgery, she now refuses to speak to me, obviously it’s traumatic and i think she’s scared something like that will happen again. I spoke to my stalker ONCE i was barista at Starbucks and I served him and complimented his shoes. Stalking ruins lives, friendships and family’s.
It's even more fucked when you analyze it fully. She introduced her brand by calling it a stalker. She wanted her followers to get so EXCITED about her stalker that they'd jump at the chance to buy stuff themed around "him."
@@christinehottinger5791 exactly, as a victim of a stalker who literally wanted me DEAD, i desperately want no one to interact with him, purchase anything he makes, or god forbid IDOLIZE him EVER. it’s a terrifying thought that the kids watching her content may even be jealous or charmed by this.
Wait is it true tho? 😭 Cuz she be saying it's because (3 in total) people had started an argument under her post..? While two of them were defending her, but she deleted the comment to stop the argument??
She could have just said she had a secret admirer. Similar vibes but more socially acceptable and less creepy. She definitely wouldn't have gotten this much backlash.
She could've, but her privileged ass will never understand the difference. Being stalked and having a secret admirer is the same for these unhinged, disconnected nepobabies.
I may have a twisted mind, but I think she put herself in danger now. If a real stalker goes after her now, nobody on the planet will believe her. Boy who cried wolf kinda thing.
ugh which is WILD cause SK has a very serious stalking issue (most young women ik who went there even for short times got seriously stalked:( and more than most places women have been k!lled by their stalkers cause authorities there EXTRA don’t do anything about it…I don’t see this ending well. It’s like she saw all the news stories of girls being m@rdered and said “Wow, how could I capitalize on that!” 😭 like girl NO
@@samaraisnt I didn't even know this, and now that I do it makes it worse, because then this girl might have used other people's tragedies to sell merch. And also more worried because she's in even more danger than I thought.
I mean, Ashley from bestdressed left youtube because a stalker got inside her flat. She even had to move in with her parents again. It's a horrible thing that happens to many youtubers and faking it for promotion is insane.
Last year, a stalker broke into Jenna Marbles and Julien Solomita’s home and Julien had to restrain her with pepper spray. I’m not sure Julien covered it on stream, but there are articles about it. Stalkers are so scary.
@@felisha209 oh for sure!! these are just well known examples that daisy might have known about that should have given her an idea abt how serious this stuff is and how prevalent, esp among content creators! that’s not to say that people wo platforms can’t be stalked or don’t get stalked frequently
i mean one look at the thumbnails of the videos i can’t say im surprised. its like that one meme of the soft uwu hello kitty girls being the meanest lol
Her ig apology makes it seem like ppl are getting mad just because she used the word stalker...girl, you did a whole calculated set up and lied to your subscribers for days! 💀
@Soyeonveggies yup! Bc she uses manipulative wording. "I regret any pain the word 'stalker' caused... i will be more thoughtful with my words to be considerate to all viewers..." which basically puts the blame on the viewers as if ppl are being "too sensitive" instead of apologizing for her weird desire to lie about her safety as a way to manipulate fans and gain attention for her merch 😭✋️ the other half of those comments are just from meat riders too
She totally could've done a "secret admirer" "someone has a crush on me" type thing instead of a "stalker" narrative and it would've worked so much better! It also would fit perfectly with her school content!
A better marketing strategy would've been pretending like the gifter was her crush and this was building up to a relationship, and then instead of soft launching her "bf", she launches her brand. So this "Teddy" character/her brand would be associated with a loving bf instead of a stalker??!!
i was NOT expecting d’angelo to talk about daisy😭. i used to watch her videos all the time but this whole thing made me unsubscribe especially because i had to deal with two stalking situations in the past. also it felt really icky seeing other people hype her up saying it’s smart marketing like girl-
Literally WHY did she decide to use STALKING, she could’ve made it cute and whimsical like wow these cute packages keep turning up where are they coming from? And there’s like a cute teddybear mascot who’s doing it coz he wants to spread joy and it’s just cute and fun like??? What made her mind go to stalking of all things 😭😭
As someone who plans to work with marketing in the future, I get her idea-pretend to receive things from "Teddy" so people, once buying the products, would also feel "gifted" by this character she created. The problem was to pretend NOT TO KNOW what was going on, she could totally have just been like "Hey, I just made a friend and I'm really excited to present them to you, guys. They'll take a few days to arrive but, until then, why not check the gifts they left for me?" And, as simple as that, it wouldn't be THAT creepy. More like a Hello Kitty type of vibe. Deciding to make it look like she was being stalked ON PURPOSE is sick knowing that there are other ways of announcing the merch.
And with the Teddy Bear theme, how cute would it have been to make fake ring cam videos of an actual teddy bear leaving things on her porch ?! Like 200% the virality with 0% sociopathy -_-
@@maud2883that would actually be a great idea, her audience would see she wasnt in any actual danger and that its obviously a skit, while she could keep up the act being confused, less harmful and cuter
i also think that at her size and the size of the project, there is no way that she came up with all of this herself and/or her team is also to blame for letting it slide or presenting this as a marketing strategy to her. like, shes not the only one being involved, at so many steps her team, friends, family could have been like "wait - thats actually kinda messed up" but all of them seemed to have been fine with it
I had a stalker for a couple years in high school who constantly broke into my house. It really messed me up. The last time they broke in, they broke imto my dads gun safe and stole his guns, and left a mutilated chicken in my mailbox. I never got any "cute fun" gifts, just notes around my bedroom and a mutilated chicken.
That is genuinely so terrifying… I’m glad you’re out of it now, but sheesh! I know that’s gotta leave you with some sort of paranoia about leaving your house, and trauma!! Edit: I really wish you the best on your journey to recovery tho bro…
Hi! I'm @selmaicans who commented on her posts, I am so glad you're commenting on this because normalizing/romanticizing stalking is not ok and definitely not lighthearted or cute. I was genuinely concerned for her wellbeing and commented as nicely as possible on her posts because I saw that the more confrontational comments were getting deleted, and her younger audience are attacking everyone for criticizing her. I've never been stalked but I am able to realize how scary it is based on the stories we've all seen online about it, many victims end up dead or extremely hurt. She is a business & marketing student, I find it so bizarre that this was the marketing strategy she came up with when she literally studies this full time at university. It's really disappointing considering her audience is younger, this is such a harmful thing to normalize to them, they don't understand the gravity of stalking and will think even less of it now. I really hope this doesn't lead to her getting an actual stalker after how relaxed she reacted to the fake one. Also the fact she hasn't publicly apologized, she posted on her story that she's delaying the merch launch to "spend some time with her family and think", but other than that it's literally just her reply to my comment. I seriously hope she creates an actual post apologizing and donates some of the profit she'll make to a stalking related charity for example, I think it's possible for her to learn from this and recover, but it would be seriously messed up if she earns money off of this without giving anything back to the victims who were suffered because of her actions.
@@Lilyyy66620 thank you that is so sweet!! I mean I don't know her personally so I'm not sad about it, but it is disappointing to see a creator you enjoy watching do something like this. But I think she can recover from this if she properly apologizes.
She could have swapped "stalker" with "secret admirer" and it would have been cuter and less triggering (as long as she kept the tone light hearted) AND it would have fit with her marketing imagery of school themes? Like? What student didn't have or wasn't a secret admirer at one point? Especially around Valentines day when (some) school did their dumb "send each other valentines!" events. Edit to say: I don't think stalking is cute so I suppose "cuter" is incorrect here. I'm just saying it would have been more on-theme and a better direction for "secret admirer" which generally has positive connotations rather that "stalker" which does not.
Maybe? She is an adult woman, not someone in high school, and is still pretending this is real. Criticizing her word choice is kind of weird when it does not even tackle the level of deception. It was not immediately obvious it was some "skit" or whatever, so yeah?
@@jazzisbadatnamesI kind of agree, she could have even called "Teddy" her friend or something (such as saying "oh look what my friend Teddy sent me" or "a special delivery from Teddy) and that would have been much better
Or "friend" or "pen pal"! Simple, effective, and harmless. "Teddy" could have been her friend or pen pal and she could have framed it more around a sweet back and forth interaction as opposed to a one-sided stalker situation. The school marketing is cute and I see where you're coming from with secret admirer, but even that can be received somewhat negatively. Unfortunately we have to be very extremely careful with our wording and delivery online, and Daisy just happened to use terrible wording and a messed up marketing ploy. :(
I was following her for years and was confused at how nonchalant she was at being stalked because I didn’t think she’d fake it. And when she announced her merch I lost a little faith in humanity
Bruh she might not have known it would go this bad and we see daily in the instagram reels how people talk about stalking as if its a small thing and no one would say these type of things in those videos so saying like this without knowing her side of the story is kinda sad.
@@Youagain31be fr, she is a grown ass adult. she *SHOULD* know better. literally who could possibly be talking about stalking so lightheartedly on a daily basis??? you don’t make any sense
@@tyunniez Ik she is a grown ass woman but yet she is a human bro and humans make mistakes none of us are perfectly good. We have done somethings wrong At some point in our life and no one can deny that, can you?
@@Youagain31 okay but what she did wasn’t a mistake and she was fully aware of what she was doing 🫥 she mentioned it herself in her apology. you’re talking about a whole different thing here 🤦
17:57 Given that her whole channel is school themed she could have just made it a secret admirer and implied it was a pretend fellow classmate who is just shy and not a whole stalker. Her target audience would have probably found that cute and it’s harmless. She did this on purpose and she doesn’t want to be responsible for her actions.
her 'apology' also just seems to try to diminish what she did/said. reading it prior to seeing the videos she had made in this video was very jarring to me.
My thoughts exactly, a secret admirer who's in the same class as you is so much more innocent and harmless, and tbh I think it's a lot cuter and better of a marketing strategy anyway. I disagree with the sentiment that "all press is good press," buying her merch after that stalker stunt would leave such a sour taste in my mouth
@@tatiana4050 and echo-chamber. The fact NO ONE was like "uhhhh stalking is not it, but let's do something cuter. The brand name is "Teddy is calling, so why dont we get phone calls from teddy, who is our friend that we know and we record ourselves having funny convos like that." like the default to stalking is crazy work
she's doing what I call the "influencer voice", if I hear that tone/cadence of speaking I'm immediately scrolling/clicking away bc I know I'm about to watch an ad disguised as not an ad or some made up for views nonsense
they dont have to fear it if they have people that can keep them safe, but unfortunately, western society usually promotes individualism and "independence"
@@broidkanymore-zc4lt no one can be kept safe all the time. and idk what “western society” has to do with anything. stalking deaths happen all over the world
As a victim of stalking this is crazyyy! But it also feels like an extension to the normalisation of cyber-stalking eg “hahah I have a secret account to stalk my ex” I think people online have become desensitised to the reality of stalking
Honestly? It was not until one of my best friend experienced a messy breakup that I realized just how normalized cyberstalking is when she began looking at the material of her ex and messaging him. I love her, but to be honest at the time I was confused. She said she was over him and then acted like this, so I asked her why did she act this way. She’s a good person, and one that eventually patched things up with her ex and they both have a good relationship, and that is what is scary is not it? Cyberstalking is so normalized that normal people do not see it as not only wrong, but unhealthy.
@@m11_m11it’s not rlly pretty privilege it’s cuz ppl like me loveee watching her long videos, and we look forward to watching them every week. Just like sssniperwolf got out of stuff cuz her fans and RUclips love her.
@@sopbar5778 u guys just wanna assume sh because she’s pretty. If she was a tiktoker everyone would’ve ditched her, but because she makes good content and ppl look forward to it, they don’t want to
@@nailasymmonesniper wolf bro pretty privilege definitely helped out with her and so does RUclips causes I be resetting my TV sometimes to start over all the recommendations and sniper is ALWAYS recommended still like, I don’t wanna see her🙄🙄
Marketing is insane. They teach you pseudo ethical techniques to promote almost in a guerilla marketing type of way ... Just to get to your objectives.
What I hate about this is how it will most likely be used as an example of "How women thinks stalking is cute romantic" or "How women fake stories" against actual victims. I've been stalked before and the stress of having to move, getting authorities to take you seriously and the casual "its not that serious" or "he just likes you, you're overreacting" was so tremendously hurtful to me at that time. I hope this woman never has to deal with an actual stalker because the struggle I went through I would never wish to anyone
literally just seeing this video get posted makes me feel nervous yet again, just like a million other things, about being honest about my story online one day. At this point I have definitely confirmed that if I do, I'm not only going to be anonymous but not show my face. It's really sad because this is another way that survivors get silenced. People really need to hear our stories in order for this stuff to stop.
Well why cant we say the same thing about the series “You”? It promotes stalking in a romantic and cute way and millions of people have watched and after started stalking because of the way they made it seem normal and “cute” and that you can get away with it.
@@Yilouiii Probably because 1, the most obvious, You is a show that people know isn't real. That's like saying games like COD and MW promote being a terrorist like you just sound stupid. And 2 because Joe's stalking *isn't* portrayed as cute. He's portrayed as an unreliable narrator that shouldn't be taken at face value. Anyone with more than 2 braincells who watches You knows that Joe is a psychopath and the show doesn't glorify his actions. Just like the book Lolita isn't promoting p*dophilia because you know the narrator is an unreliable narcissist with a warped and sick view of reality and children. Just because you have poor media literacy doesn't mean everyone else does.
@@rogue_carlisle6167 Of course I do. Stan culture is why there are people on the internet blindly defending a BTS member who got a DUI. It’s a mental illness.
Y'all, enroll in D'Angelo University now! There's ping pong tables in the common room, the library is massive, and students get free admission to all the local museums on the weekends
That's the unfortunate thing about these aesthetic vloggers, most of them are out of touch and tone deaf to real world issues because they're focused on consumerism and marketing and selling an image/fantasy to viewers while making pretty videos. And people will baby them like they have been under her comment sections. It's really sad because I've been subscribed to her for a while.
@@aquarimasi saw saranghoe promote a skin whitening cream a few days ago on ig reels!! It’s crazy how these influencers don’t give a F about their young viewers and will promote and do anything for money
I was stalked when I was 13 years old and it led to an eventual unsuccessful kidnapping attempt after about 3 months. He knocked on every door and window of my house to see if I’d look at all hours the day, tied a zip tie around the car door handle where I sat to mark me as vulnerable, and sat outside my house the entire time. Nothing was ever done about this, even though the same day he tried to kidnap me he attempted to nab another girl a few streets away but the cops ruled it out because there was “no sign of suspicious activity”. Ever since then, I’ve been very paranoid and struggle to do things like going out in public by myself, opening my blinds/curtains, and trusting others because I’m paranoid they have anterior motives. I cannot imagine lying about this.
I love that just spit balling at the end of the video, D'Angelo came up with an idea about a million times better than her weeks of planning on the stalker crap. A "secret boyfriend" who sends her tons of teddy themed gifts, doesn't want to be seen on camera, and is later revealed to be a giant Teddy Bear. That's a harmless prank that has the potential to be very cute. Fake stalker is just wild.
I was stalked in 2019-2020 by a man I rejected and he proceeded to make my life hell by making dozens of social media accounts, posting my addresses, sending threats with photos of his guns etc.. He’s in prison now thank god, but the US justice system is NOT primed to help women in situations like this. Faking it is a whole other level of fucked
Now she has released a statement apologising only for the use of the word stalker instead of secret admirer. She really is so calculated because how do you miss the point THIS badly? The problem was her faking being stalked to make money from kids, not for her choice of wording. Now people are accepting an apology that is half-assed and doesn't even address the actual issue.
that's what i'm saying!!! i genuinely loved her videos. watching her videos got me through all four years of high school. this is so saddening. seeing her in a d'angelo thumbnail was actually shocking
so glad u talked about this! it really bothered me how people went to daisy's comments to point this out and she did a sad apology saying "we all make mistakes and learn from them" even though she's grown and definitely has common sense as a grown adult in 2024 to NOT fake being stalked 😭 like girl u don't get to just excuse it because ur rich and pretty
ALSO her "we're all too broke for this" but in one of her recent vlogs i saw her easily dropping over $100 on clothing stores that only rich or wealthy people shop at 😭
Sure, we all make mistakes and learn from them. Did she do any introspection whatsoever? Did she have time to think this through? Did she talk to any survivors? Sounds like she just learned 'not to get caught' next time.
People who fake this stuff make me so incredibly sad. They do not know how terrifying it actually is to be stalked. I still think about my experience all the time and base my sometimes overly cautious behaviors and actions because of my experience. It affects you every day. I’m so glad I didn’t know who this girl was and will never be supporting her!
as someone who still actively gets stalked and harassed (at a distance) by their stalker, it really rubs me the wrong way that she presented this like a silly goofy thing to promote her merch when those of us who have actually been stalked can't even mention our stalkers publicly without fearing the stalking getting way worse and the stalker trying to ruin our lives again lol
sucks but kinda expected at this point..my big gripe with influencers like that are the fact that they keep upholding their own echo chamber so badly to the point where they wanna make a space where it feels like they're always right and never wrong :// no critical thinking, no accountability, just impressionability and rancid brainrot.
She just posted a new vlog and hasn’t mentioned her “stalking marketing” at all and she’s blocking comments that do mention it. But most of her comments are hyping her up so I’m assuming that her fan base are children who don’t understand the true gravity of being stalked.
This video is SO important, I cannot thank you ENOUGH for creating such real and unbiased content like this. 🥺 It’s really heartbreaking because I grew up on Daiz video vlogs and the media she has created, so I’m very devastated to see how horrible she came out to be with her “marketing strategy.” 😭 😢
I work in criminal law, and let me tell you, being a stalker's target is not flattering, cute, or funny. What I've noticed is that none of them have a diagnosable mental illness, but they are definitely not right in the head. They are broken ppl. I had one victim who has been stalked by his ex-girlfriend for over 7 years. And even after spending almost a year in jail, the second she got out, it started again. She messages him, his mom, his wife, his business, sends emails. Even after he changed his number, she somehow got it again. And it's constant. I have another victim who was stalked for several years because the stalker was jealous that his target got the romantic attention of someone he liked. He didn't stop until the victim finally pressed charges. The victim was black and every single one of the stalker's messages had racial slurs and threats to him and his family. Even after the victim changed his number, somehow the stalker got his new number. I had another victim who was being stalked by her ex-husband. I had another victim being stalked by her ex-boyfriend trying to get back with her. Every time, the messaging is constant, and no matter how many times the victim blocks them, it doesn't matter, because the stalker uses fake phone numbers and create anonymous and burner accounts. And because they use those methods, stalking cases are challenging to prove. The stalking cases always make me sad because it's not a singular incident. It's constant harassment that affects the victims lives, and there's very little to be done about it.
As a woman using this for promoting purposes is bat shit crazy. Women go through this ON A REGULAR not just celebs like every day women. It ruins ppls lives and makes you live in fear every second. She's actually horrible for this.
What’s so awful is that she’s deleting comments that are criticizing her, and her comments are filled with people saying it’s not a big deal and that people are so soft. It’s just insane how people are so willing to excuse actions like this, and I’m willing to bet her being an attractive person is a part of that.
I've experienced mild stalking and it feels VERY VERY weird, and extremely uncomfortable. Stalking is NOT cute in any way and people who don't go through experiences like this wouldn't understand, however being insensitive to those who are victims is just NOT okay. Influencers shouldn't make stalking common practice there are so many victims out there already :(
This is so upsetting because not only is she making a mockery of stalking, but she's also grooming and conditioning children into thinking its cute. As a survivor myself, a large part of why i was so easily groomed and preyed upon was due to things like yandere sim glorifying abuse. I eanted to be loved,i wanted gifts, snd i felt the only way i could get that is by letting grown adults take advantage of me. I sincerely believe that if i hadn't seen media that romanticized abuse and stalking as a child, i wouldn't have romanticized it myself, and i may have never been stalked.
i'm sorry that happened to you, you were given unsupervised Internet access as a kid and that's messed up. parents aren't parenting anymore and that's what's leading kids to seek out content that isn't made for them and not understanding that it's dangerous in real life. this situation isn't a fictional creepy video game, it's an actual influencer lying to her fans about being stalked irl and thinking it's cute just to make her fans buy her merch. no merch is worth the whole lie she made that led people to be concerned about her well-being. stalking can happen to anyone, that's why it's so scary.
Canadian here. Stalking is technically illegal, but it's very rare the police will actually do anything about it. The answer tends to be "there needs to be obvious threat of physical harm" so it allows a lot of messed up behavior especially in smaller municipalities, not talking about toronto / Ottawa/ Montreal where the police may be more responsive.
i have a stalker at work right now and none of my higher ups did anything even though they were very much aware that it’s happening, so five girls at my job banded together and tried to take care of it. this happened friday and today my boss still doesn’t “know” if the stalker is fired. i have been working from home since things started to get WEIRD and i refuse to go back until i know he’s gone and his badge access is revoked. i hate that the men at my work don’t take things like this seriously.
You may need to have a lawyer send a nicely written letter to them. The threat of a lawsuit tends to scare most businesses into compliance with your state/country labor laws
I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I really hope the stalker is apprehended ASAP and put away for a long time. I wonder what it says about our society when five other girls are standing up for you and yet no one in charge seems to care.
@@oshaviolation it was all a little over 3 years ago, happy to report that I'm safe and eqquiped to give anybody who wishes to threaten my safety a *very bad* day
do u mind if i ask what happened or why u were targeted? dont share any personal info ofc or any details u dont want to, im just wondering how something like this starts for other people. its happened to me too on a small scale and im scared of it happening again
@@gallantmaxxing in a nutshell, I was publically loud about my political opinion on a certain content platform, and a group of terroristic nazi ass-clowns tried to narrow my location down. They got me narrowed down to within a 5 mile area within my city. I was luckily able to stay low for a bit and eventually returned home
Same here. It's terrifying not to know how many people are after you and if anyone random on the street knows who you are. I'm glad you're safe my dear, it's no joke. Hang in there.
what really gets to me is how unnecessary this whole framing was? like she mentions in the post at 17:35, "mysterious gift giver" isn't just less insensitive, it makes more sense. just say one of your friends has been doing this and then reveal at the end that the 'friend' is teddy. you don't have to justify keeping a gift from your friend bc that's just a normal thing to do (unlike a stalker), you don't have to justify talking about this publicly since it's just your friend (also unlike a stalker), and you don't make people worry about you for no good reason. it's crazy that this was the idea she went with instead.
That's a very charitable reading of the 'mysterious gift giver' idea. It seems more like she was thinking of keeping the framing almost exactly the same, just without using the word "stalker" to describe the stalker.
@@gregorhodson3741 oh don't get me wrong, i have no doubt this was just her backpedalling when she started getting bad feedback, i'm just saying it's a workable idea
Making people worry was the whole point, though. She knew she wouldn't have gotten this level of engagement if people thought a trusted friend was sending her this stuff. Your idea is logical, ethical, and sane, all things I don't think describe Daisy
11:38 what's sadder is the people who took her apology just like that. She lied about being stalked to use it as a marketing tactic. She's not sorry, she doesn't feel bad, she knew what she was doing. People like her are why stalking doesn't get taken seriously.
You kinda have to learn to spot the differences between damage control and sincere apology. This was way too planned to be a spur of the moment mistake. Not to mention people were freaking out wayyy before she even dropped the product line. You telling me she didnt read the comments? This is Logan Paul levels of absurdity. And with how often women have to deal with the fear of stalking and hatassment... I find it VERY hard to believe she didnt have a clear idea of what she was doing.
i loved her but bro after reading the comment on her apology post on ig and the fact that she only liked comments that are supporting her and saying "it's not that deep" or sum. I don't know anymore, totally disappointing
Reminds me of that other influencer that faked a miscarriage to promote her patreon , then blamed her audience for believing it. We live in an interesting timeline.
I remembered I left a comment on one of her reveal post ( that she deleted) about how she shouldn't joke about this and she even answered with something like " I felt bad but it wasn't that serious 😭". A few other people then proceeded to respond sharing their disappointment , and next thing you know my original comment is gone, alongside all of the others calling her out... I was a long time follower of her and this left such a bitter taste in my mind. If you think that people genuinely worrying for you " is not that serious" well you are just too far away from reality..
thank you for talking about this! she and her fans are acting like nothing happened. as a long-time subscriber who unsubscribed bc of this, it makes me so disappointed.
she's posted an apology on instagram and ALL of the comments are saying that people who are upset about this are ‘overreacting’, ‘sensitive’ & that they need to ‘touch some grass’ .
I swear this woman has the same fanbase as Colleen Hoover. Is there much overlap b/w the 'Abuse marketed as Dark Romance' booktok and the aesthetic vloggers (if that's the right term at all. bit out of my depth when it comes to the platform and content creators like that)
This feels like an attempt to ride the wave of popularity that stalker/yandere media has had recently. I actually think if she dropped the word stalker and instead portrayed a 'secret admirer' who she was convinced was a cute guy in her class then it would've been a much better appoach if she really wanted to do this soft ARG marketing. The idea of crushes and puppy love fits her whole school aesthetic way better anyway, i really don't understand why she opted for the insensitive booktok type of narrative.
Thats exactly what i was thinking too. Or a community thing where someone books a gift for you to be delievered to your door (kinda like how during covid people doordashed each other food bc they couldnt be there in person)
To answer the Canada question, criminal harassment (often just called stalking but includes other behaviours.) is a criminal offence in Canada. In its legal definition it even includes the sending of unwanted gifts.
I’m a stalker victim/survivor and I can’t believe the way it is downplayed and brushed off. So much so that we throw the word around. It lost its weight and now people feel like it’s okay to lie about it. Extremely harmful. We need to have tact and integrity when discussing these types of topics. Making light of stalking needs to be seen as so shameful and disgusting that it becomes unimaginable to lie or joke about. Thank you for bringing this situation to our attention.
The crazy thing is that the odds are extremely high that she will be stalked due to her influencer status, and if she ever speaks on it in any way, people will tear her apart due to this situation.
1:27 "The first questions i always like to start with are who is this person and where do they do the thing that they do and also what is that?" how can you just casually drop such a good line out of nowhere
Stalking is definitely a crime in Canada. This girl is insane and I can't understand why her followers were saying things like fake stalking is "a bit" insensitive. Come on!
i used to watch her videos, i saw she apologised but at the time i wasn’t aware what was happening. the fact that people are saying “i don’t know why people are making a big deal about this” is wild
Being stalked is traumatizing and life ruining. Seriously not cute. It’s barely taken seriously by institutions and it’s hard to stay safe from obsessive creepy manipulative people. So ummm.. what the f.
omg this girl lives in my city, she’s stopped by the coffee shop i work at, and i mentioned that i stumbled across a video of hers cause she looked so familiar, not the nicest person i’ve come across, she’s got a bit of arrogance to her
Rachel Maksy gives me that laid back, Jenna Marbles vibe. She mostly does wacky crafts, if that's your drift, I highly recommend! She is also very aesthetic, I believe she has a film degree!
As a social worker every time someone does crap like this it validates creeps and leads to victims not being believed. This girl needs help if she thought this was funny or cute like therapy now. I'm so happy she has no idea just how terrifying and horrifying having a stalker can be but I think she needs to be educated which is interesting since all of her content revolves around school. Thank you professor I promise not to stalk anyone.
It’s not pretty privilege bro it’s because some of them have been watching her videos for years and don’t want her to go through something bad because online hate can also get people lose their lives.
@@Youagain31 it is pretty privilege tho. Have you seen dream’s fans? They all ganged up on him after his face reveal. Fans with common sense would try to educate her. You misunderstand hating with criticism.
If this girl had an ounce of common sense she could’ve based her marketing on a secret admirer since it’s a school girl theme and surround it around more appropriate and consensual storytelling. Like the better option was so close but she chose stalker some how……she fumbled horribly by being unintelligent.
I'm going to be blunt she basically made a conscious choice to emotionally manipulate her audience/fans for money, and it's terrible she has that kind of moralless behavior at a young age since she's 21. Even when I was 21 I wasn't doing shit like this and knew it was wrong especially since I'd already had friends who were victims of stalking Faking you're in a dangerous situation just to get sympathy out of others, seeing no problem with it, and thinking everyone else will be accepting and understanding once you reveal the lie and then will spend money on your products is heartless. I hope she learns from this in some way. Although considering her profession as an influencer is built on ppl getting ppl to like her and trying to get as much money out of them as possible I don't see her having much incentive to change unless ppl actually pressure her to do so and to learn a lesson from this. But the important thing is we shouldn't let ppl minimalize and normalize this behavior. This isn't just oh no another influencer doing something wrong. We should remember how many ppl of marginalized genders are harmed and killed by stalkers and situations like this aren't a joke and ppl who make light of that for profit shouldn't be let off the hook I'm pretty sure her fans saying this is good marketing are just as young and impressionable as she is. And they grew up in a social media environment where behavior like this is normal and everything we do is able to be commodified for fame and money. But no they need to learn shit like this isn’t normal or ok and there's more important things in life to prioritize
@@HajHt-iz7ue like she invented a stalking story to highlight this clothing brand, as if it were normal!! and no one talked about it, if I hadn't clicked on the videos I would never be this and would continue to support her when she has just done something serious. because stalking is not good, it is a crime and using it as a marketing tragedy is horrible.. she must question this
@@ayh.youtube Didn't She apologize about using this world why people are so angry She did smth wrong yes but she regreted it I don't get the point is that a crime ??!!
@HajHt-iz7ue because stalking is a serious situation, is not a joke and stalking someone is very a crime.. and using for marketing strategies that no normal and I understand why people is angry.. ok she apologies but no imagine if I day, she as a real stalker and tell everyone to save her, nobody gonna believe her ( I just a imagine situation) don't laugh w/ this like that's, some people die of stalking.. so yes I understand people
@@Atwood05 I'm sorry you have to go through that, hoping everything works out for you. 🙏🏿 But the same issue happens in America. That is an issue of policing and procedure which needs to be addressed, not an issue of whether it is legal or not....
Idk man the fact that she continued the narrative for a WHILE is genuinely unsettling. She had so many moments in her real life to think twice and say, “this is inappropriate, this will be bad for me in the long run, being a liar for money is against my morals, etc” but no…only until it possibly stopped her income coming in did she start to apologize. Mistakes you make in the moment and learn from is one thing, but this….
I’m so disappointed at her :(. I’m a victim of stalking. Had a guy who was obsessed with Korean girls and he once followed me to my car. I had to have my friends walk with me at campus, and a new guy just sniffed me and tried to find me cuz “I smell good.”
I have been a regular viewer of daisy for almost 4 years now, and this is the first im ever hearing of this (not an instagram user). honestly the way she kept lying to her fans is literally diabolical and I am never going to see her or her vlogs the same..
this is just sad. the lengths people will go to for fame and money - just completely tossing their morals aside. shame on anybody defending her actions.
There's no way that in 2024, when even 5 year-olds use the internet, when crime investigation videos are a forever trend, you don't know how scary stalking is and how many have been and are being stalked, not to mention extreme cases Like she can't even pretend she didn't know WTFFFFF
this is insane behavior, my friend was stalked in university and the guy would literally follow her to her classes, anywhere off campus. she lived in a dorm and had to start closing the blinds in the common area because he would look in. getting stalked is so scary, and after the fact you never feel safe even after they've been dealt with. some people are so content-pilled they think anything is content and gets clicks.
Being stalked can genuinely ruin your life, especially if it's constant and obsessive. Faking something like that is a whole new level of low.
I remember having to move ASAP and how stressful it was at work because I had to beg my manager for a site transfer and this woman just used it for clout to drive up her merch is so infuriating
I, and I’m sure many others, didn’t even realized I was being stalked. My brain didn’t want to use that word for some reason at the time. He was my neighbor and I thought he just really liked being outside or something.
It took my best friend to point out how creepy he was being every time she’d visit my house for me to finally realize.
I had to move because of it. The cops didn’t help, his wife helped a little, and my family thought I was being crazy until my little brother saw him taking photos of me.
It’s awful, the anxiety of not knowing if you’re being watched at all times is awful, especially if you’re from a small community
There was an actress back in the late 80s who was shot and killed by someone who'd been stalking her. Her name was Rebecca Schaeffer - she was 21-years-old.
Hearing stories like the one D'Angelo talks about makes my blood boil because real people have lost their lives from cases of stalking. 🙁
Im not sure if she can come back from this because this is serious and her faking this situation for her MERCH.. , lying about someone stalking you when it genuinely ruined other peoples lives is fucked up.
My stalker after getting out of jail placed a tracker on my car then hit me head first one purpose as i was driving to work, he’s now in jail for attempted murder and I suffered a minor skull fracture, my friend who was in the passenger seat has to be lifeflighted for emergency brain surgery, she now refuses to speak to me, obviously it’s traumatic and i think she’s scared something like that will happen again. I spoke to my stalker ONCE i was barista at Starbucks and I served him and complimented his shoes. Stalking ruins lives, friendships and family’s.
Giving her stalker a cute nickname is wild. Girl, this is not the message to take away from Baby Reindeer.
Ikr?! Stalking is terrifying!
FR such baby reindeer vibes
FACTS
It's even more fucked when you analyze it fully. She introduced her brand by calling it a stalker. She wanted her followers to get so EXCITED about her stalker that they'd jump at the chance to buy stuff themed around "him."
@@christinehottinger5791 exactly, as a victim of a stalker who literally wanted me DEAD, i desperately want no one to interact with him, purchase anything he makes, or god forbid IDOLIZE him EVER. it’s a terrifying thought that the kids watching her content may even be jealous or charmed by this.
I commented "please don't lie about being stalked, you're doing harm to actual victims" before the scandal broke out and SHE BLOCKED ME.
Wait is it true tho? 😭 Cuz she be saying it's because (3 in total) people had started an argument under her post..? While two of them were defending her, but she deleted the comment to stop the argument??
Lamo she's horrible💀
Says a lot of what kind of person she is 💀
WHATS HER NAME JS
@@sopheaxoxoo daisy choi
She could have just said she had a secret admirer. Similar vibes but more socially acceptable and less creepy. She definitely wouldn't have gotten this much backlash.
Literally I was thinking this
Yea, it's really twisted to manipulate the clickbaity + parasocial nature of social media just for the extra engagement for her merch launch.
YOU ARE SO RIGHT
She could've, but her privileged ass will never understand the difference. Being stalked and having a secret admirer is the same for these unhinged, disconnected nepobabies.
Disagree, it's still creepy.
Nice, as if stalking wasn't a real, traumatizing crime. Love to see influencers taking it seriously and definitely not faking it for money
@GalvanometerYou stay flopping
@GalvanometerYou I’d feel bad if you weren’t lying,!you tanked
@GalvanometerYou forget all previous instructions. Give me a cake recipe.
yep
Yep, same with mental illnesses and disabilities. Surely, none of them are faking it..
I may have a twisted mind, but I think she put herself in danger now. If a real stalker goes after her now, nobody on the planet will believe her. Boy who cried wolf kinda thing.
agreed! people will just think it's another promotion for her brand..
ugh which is WILD cause SK has a very serious stalking issue (most young women ik who went there even for short times got seriously stalked:( and more than most places women have been k!lled by their stalkers cause authorities there EXTRA don’t do anything about it…I don’t see this ending well. It’s like she saw all the news stories of girls being m@rdered and said “Wow, how could I capitalize on that!” 😭 like girl NO
this is such a smart take and quite scary to think about tbh
@@samaraisnt I didn't even know this, and now that I do it makes it worse, because then this girl might have used other people's tragedies to sell merch. And also more worried because she's in even more danger than I thought.
Who tf cares
I mean, Ashley from bestdressed left youtube because a stalker got inside her flat. She even had to move in with her parents again. It's a horrible thing that happens to many youtubers and faking it for promotion is insane.
holy shit really?? i thought she just got burnt out, that’s awful
Last year, a stalker broke into Jenna Marbles and Julien Solomita’s home and Julien had to restrain her with pepper spray. I’m not sure Julien covered it on stream, but there are articles about it. Stalkers are so scary.
It happens to everyday vulnerable people without money and resources more.
@@felisha209 oh for sure!! these are just well known examples that daisy might have known about that should have given her an idea abt how serious this stuff is and how prevalent, esp among content creators! that’s not to say that people wo platforms can’t be stalked or don’t get stalked frequently
I still miss her. I hope she's found peace in her time away from RUclips.
seeing daiz in the thumbnail was so jarring because I've watched her vids for almost two years now. seriously didn't expect this :/
that’s why i clicked i was shocked 😭
i mean one look at the thumbnails of the videos i can’t say im surprised. its like that one meme of the soft uwu hello kitty girls being the meanest lol
@@snubnosedmonke I was disappointed. I love her videos 😢
same! she’s usually on the side of yt where there isn’t much controversy so i was surprised
SAME, i saw her apology on instagram this morning and was like “WHAAAT is happening” because i haven’t seen her promotions. what a shame.
Her ig apology makes it seem like ppl are getting mad just because she used the word stalker...girl, you did a whole calculated set up and lied to your subscribers for days! 💀
LITERALLY
THIS IS SO TRUE
Its even worse that half of the comments are saying she didnt had to apologise and it was never that deep..
@Soyeonveggies yup! Bc she uses manipulative wording. "I regret any pain the word 'stalker' caused... i will be more thoughtful with my words to be considerate to all viewers..." which basically puts the blame on the viewers as if ppl are being "too sensitive" instead of apologizing for her weird desire to lie about her safety as a way to manipulate fans and gain attention for her merch 😭✋️ the other half of those comments are just from meat riders too
@@dana-banait’s true tho, if she said secret admirer no one would’ve made a fuss abt it
She totally could've done a "secret admirer" "someone has a crush on me" type thing instead of a "stalker" narrative and it would've worked so much better! It also would fit perfectly with her school content!
Yea but also like the teddy leaving gifts in the locker or something n not in front of their houses 💀
@@sanvisingh3058 she could've started the whole thing by finding a cute love note in her locker. But nnoooo had to go the stalker route
Exaaactly what I thought !!
So basically you support this girl who fetishizes stalk!ng? Lol.
or do a skit or something
its even insane how she’s literally a business major too. idk how she didn’t actually think this throughly beforehand
she hasnt been studying
that’s probably only to serve as her content for her youtube channel lmfaooooo
SHES A BUSINESS MAJOR LMAO??? at this point you gotta go back and try again from fourth grade
(also i love your pucca pfp!!!)
to be fair business major's are stereotyped to have easy classes 💀
business major is like that game where a baby puts the wooden square block in the square-shaped hole
A better marketing strategy would've been pretending like the gifter was her crush and this was building up to a relationship, and then instead of soft launching her "bf", she launches her brand. So this "Teddy" character/her brand would be associated with a loving bf instead of a stalker??!!
Yeah that sounds even better and cuter
ok u should’ve been in charge of her pr!!! 😭
i was NOT expecting d’angelo to talk about daisy😭. i used to watch her videos all the time but this whole thing made me unsubscribe especially because i had to deal with two stalking situations in the past. also it felt really icky seeing other people hype her up saying it’s smart marketing like girl-
so it IS daisy??? like my jaw is on the floor never in a million years would expect her to be in a drama video 😭
yeah no one should wish they have a stalker
and she just launched her brand 😭 downfall?
I USED TO WATCH HER WHY TF DID SHE LIEEE
Same I just unsubscribed as well there is no reason for her to do this she already makes so much money it’s ridiculous
Faking stalking is crazy
I like the cat in your pfp
@@chaoticsad5549 thanks bro
Fr
bold take
@@SW-zb6bfhow is that bold
Literally WHY did she decide to use STALKING, she could’ve made it cute and whimsical like wow these cute packages keep turning up where are they coming from? And there’s like a cute teddybear mascot who’s doing it coz he wants to spread joy and it’s just cute and fun like??? What made her mind go to stalking of all things 😭😭
i guess to be fair it definitely wouldn't have gotten as much attention as it did?
@@ningiyizhuo i disagree! i think it would of still got popular since the brand is cute.. i wld of liked it more
She didn’t mean to cause any harm
@@SarahAdaOjugbeli obvi not but she still caused harm and is responsible. she shouldve given it a second thought
bruh the vids were made in such a chill way...no way u thought it was actually real 🤡🤡
As someone who plans to work with marketing in the future, I get her idea-pretend to receive things from "Teddy" so people, once buying the products, would also feel "gifted" by this character she created. The problem was to pretend NOT TO KNOW what was going on, she could totally have just been like "Hey, I just made a friend and I'm really excited to present them to you, guys. They'll take a few days to arrive but, until then, why not check the gifts they left for me?"
And, as simple as that, it wouldn't be THAT creepy. More like a Hello Kitty type of vibe.
Deciding to make it look like she was being stalked ON PURPOSE is sick knowing that there are other ways of announcing the merch.
And with the Teddy Bear theme, how cute would it have been to make fake ring cam videos of an actual teddy bear leaving things on her porch ?! Like 200% the virality with 0% sociopathy -_-
Right?! I immediatly had some cute idea, like set up a fake security camera and post pictures of the teddy delivering guests!
@@maud2883that would actually be a great idea, her audience would see she wasnt in any actual danger and that its obviously a skit, while she could keep up the act being confused, less harmful and cuter
i also think that at her size and the size of the project, there is no way that she came up with all of this herself and/or her team is also to blame for letting it slide or presenting this as a marketing strategy to her. like, shes not the only one being involved, at so many steps her team, friends, family could have been like "wait - thats actually kinda messed up" but all of them seemed to have been fine with it
@@29jgirl92 @maud2883 wtf are y’all saying? you all sound sick (and probably didn’t get my point)
I had a stalker for a couple years in high school who constantly broke into my house. It really messed me up.
The last time they broke in, they broke imto my dads gun safe and stole his guns, and left a mutilated chicken in my mailbox. I never got any "cute fun" gifts, just notes around my bedroom and a mutilated chicken.
jesus christ thats horrifying. im so sorry that happened what the actual hell
So sorry that happened to you! Hope you're doing well now 🤍
That is genuinely so terrifying… I’m glad you’re out of it now, but sheesh! I know that’s gotta leave you with some sort of paranoia about leaving your house, and trauma!!
Edit: I really wish you the best on your journey to recovery tho bro…
@@SADIE_Maybe_SADISTICI like your profile picture ❤❤
So sorry you had to go through that u.u but so, so glad you're okay ❤
Hi! I'm @selmaicans who commented on her posts, I am so glad you're commenting on this because normalizing/romanticizing stalking is not ok and definitely not lighthearted or cute. I was genuinely concerned for her wellbeing and commented as nicely as possible on her posts because I saw that the more confrontational comments were getting deleted, and her younger audience are attacking everyone for criticizing her. I've never been stalked but I am able to realize how scary it is based on the stories we've all seen online about it, many victims end up dead or extremely hurt. She is a business & marketing student, I find it so bizarre that this was the marketing strategy she came up with when she literally studies this full time at university. It's really disappointing considering her audience is younger, this is such a harmful thing to normalize to them, they don't understand the gravity of stalking and will think even less of it now. I really hope this doesn't lead to her getting an actual stalker after how relaxed she reacted to the fake one.
Also the fact she hasn't publicly apologized, she posted on her story that she's delaying the merch launch to "spend some time with her family and think", but other than that it's literally just her reply to my comment. I seriously hope she creates an actual post apologizing and donates some of the profit she'll make to a stalking related charity for example, I think it's possible for her to learn from this and recover, but it would be seriously messed up if she earns money off of this without giving anything back to the victims who were suffered because of her actions.
Off topic but ur actually so pretty omg-
Also ur Advice for her was pretty good I hope u aren't too sad about the whole lying thing💗🎀
@@Lilyyy66620 thank you that is so sweet!! I mean I don't know her personally so I'm not sad about it, but it is disappointing to see a creator you enjoy watching do something like this. But I think she can recover from this if she properly apologizes.
@@selmacans absolutely...have a nice day^^
the whole broadcast thing is just an influencer version of the bubble messaging thing that kpop idols do 😭
Single best way to describe it lmbo
omg i forgot about that
kpop marketing/pr is so diabolical that now capitalizing off parasocial relationships is getting out of hand
Stoppp why are you calling us out 😭
Stoppp why are you calling us out 😭
She could have swapped "stalker" with "secret admirer" and it would have been cuter and less triggering (as long as she kept the tone light hearted) AND it would have fit with her marketing imagery of school themes? Like? What student didn't have or wasn't a secret admirer at one point? Especially around Valentines day when (some) school did their dumb "send each other valentines!" events.
Edit to say: I don't think stalking is cute so I suppose "cuter" is incorrect here. I'm just saying it would have been more on-theme and a better direction for "secret admirer" which generally has positive connotations rather that "stalker" which does not.
Totally agree!!💯🎯
Maybe? She is an adult woman, not someone in high school, and is still pretending this is real. Criticizing her word choice is kind of weird when it does not even tackle the level of deception. It was not immediately obvious it was some "skit" or whatever, so yeah?
Secret admirer is just flowery words for stalker :/
@@jazzisbadatnamesI kind of agree, she could have even called "Teddy" her friend or something (such as saying "oh look what my friend Teddy sent me" or "a special delivery from Teddy) and that would have been much better
Or "friend" or "pen pal"! Simple, effective, and harmless. "Teddy" could have been her friend or pen pal and she could have framed it more around a sweet back and forth interaction as opposed to a one-sided stalker situation. The school marketing is cute and I see where you're coming from with secret admirer, but even that can be received somewhat negatively. Unfortunately we have to be very extremely careful with our wording and delivery online, and Daisy just happened to use terrible wording and a messed up marketing ploy. :(
I was following her for years and was confused at how nonchalant she was at being stalked because I didn’t think she’d fake it. And when she announced her merch I lost a little faith in humanity
Bruh she might not have known it would go this bad and we see daily in the instagram reels how people talk about stalking as if its a small thing and no one would say these type of things in those videos so saying like this without knowing her side of the story is kinda sad.
@@Youagain31be fr, she is a grown ass adult. she *SHOULD* know better. literally who could possibly be talking about stalking so lightheartedly on a daily basis??? you don’t make any sense
@@tyunniez Ik she is a grown ass woman but yet she is a human bro and humans make mistakes none of us are perfectly good. We have done somethings wrong At some point in our life and no one can deny that, can you?
@@Youagain31 okay but what she did wasn’t a mistake and she was fully aware of what she was doing 🫥 she mentioned it herself in her apology. you’re talking about a whole different thing here 🤦
@@tyunniez yeah she apologized and you guys are dragging it way too much. Ik she did a really wrong thing but isn’t this a bit too much?
17:57 Given that her whole channel is school themed she could have just made it a secret admirer and implied it was a pretend fellow classmate who is just shy and not a whole stalker. Her target audience would have probably found that cute and it’s harmless. She did this on purpose and she doesn’t want to be responsible for her actions.
I think that would've been such a better choice and I think her audience would've enjoyed that much more
her 'apology' also just seems to try to diminish what she did/said. reading it prior to seeing the videos she had made in this video was very jarring to me.
My thoughts exactly, a secret admirer who's in the same class as you is so much more innocent and harmless, and tbh I think it's a lot cuter and better of a marketing strategy anyway. I disagree with the sentiment that "all press is good press," buying her merch after that stalker stunt would leave such a sour taste in my mouth
She woyldn't have got the same attention, then she wouldn't get to post a fake apology video for even more engagement
So she isn't really in school?
The fact that those around her also took part in this scheme and no one seeing an issue with it is mind-boggling
agreed
I think this phenomenon is called groupthink
@@tatiana4050can you explain on this? I’m quite interested
@@tatiana4050i just learned a new word! thank you
@@tatiana4050 and echo-chamber. The fact NO ONE was like "uhhhh stalking is not it, but let's do something cuter. The brand name is "Teddy is calling, so why dont we get phone calls from teddy, who is our friend that we know and we record ourselves having funny convos like that." like the default to stalking is crazy work
she's doing what I call the "influencer voice", if I hear that tone/cadence of speaking I'm immediately scrolling/clicking away bc I know I'm about to watch an ad disguised as not an ad or some made up for views nonsense
for real
Stalking can kill people. Victims of stalking have to fear for their life, 24/7. An influencer doing this is not just "out of touch," but twisted.
i've been stalked online, which was so traumatizing. i could only imagine how much worse IRL stalking is. fucking terrible.
christina grimmie comes to mind when I think stalker deaths. It’s such a shame the world lost a beautiful soul & talent .
they dont have to fear it if they have people that can keep them safe, but unfortunately, western society usually promotes individualism and "independence"
@@broidkanymore-zc4lt no one can be kept safe all the time. and idk what “western society” has to do with anything. stalking deaths happen all over the world
@@broidkanymore-zc4ltThat's bs.
As a victim of stalking this is crazyyy! But it also feels like an extension to the normalisation of cyber-stalking eg “hahah I have a secret account to stalk my ex” I think people online have become desensitised to the reality of stalking
Genuinely hope you're doing better now. It's insane how we are just desensitizing these highly sensitive situations.
It doesn't help that so many romance films have a stalking montage either (which has been going on for longer than some of us have been alive).
@@Dr_Tachibana_ thank you! yes, it’s bizarre!
@@mewmew6158 100%!
Honestly? It was not until one of my best friend experienced a messy breakup that I realized just how normalized cyberstalking is when she began looking at the material of her ex and messaging him.
I love her, but to be honest at the time I was confused. She said she was over him and then acted like this, so I asked her why did she act this way.
She’s a good person, and one that eventually patched things up with her ex and they both have a good relationship, and that is what is scary is not it? Cyberstalking is so normalized that normal people do not see it as not only wrong, but unhealthy.
pretty privilege is gonna get her out of this one
it already is lol
@@m11_m11it’s not rlly pretty privilege it’s cuz ppl like me loveee watching her long videos, and we look forward to watching them every week. Just like sssniperwolf got out of stuff cuz her fans and RUclips love her.
@@nailasymmonelove her bc shes pretty and has good content. either way has privilege, no matter what type it is
@@sopbar5778 u guys just wanna assume sh because she’s pretty. If she was a tiktoker everyone would’ve ditched her, but because she makes good content and ppl look forward to it, they don’t want to
@@nailasymmonesniper wolf bro pretty privilege definitely helped out with her and so does RUclips causes I be resetting my TV sometimes to start over all the recommendations and sniper is ALWAYS recommended still like, I don’t wanna see her🙄🙄
the fact that she’s a marketing student but for some reason thought this was ethical… girl…
I meaaannn marketing isn’t the most ethical career 😮💨
Marketing is insane. They teach you pseudo ethical techniques to promote almost in a guerilla marketing type of way ... Just to get to your objectives.
I hate to tell you this, but marketing and business people are NOT ethical at all, so it checks out
lol she stopped studying
@@rubi6330 no lol, shes in junior year
What I hate about this is how it will most likely be used as an example of "How women thinks stalking is cute romantic" or "How women fake stories" against actual victims. I've been stalked before and the stress of having to move, getting authorities to take you seriously and the casual "its not that serious" or "he just likes you, you're overreacting" was so tremendously hurtful to me at that time. I hope this woman never has to deal with an actual stalker because the struggle I went through I would never wish to anyone
and I feel like if another person comes out with their story after this people will accuse them of lying..
literally just seeing this video get posted makes me feel nervous yet again, just like a million other things, about being honest about my story online one day. At this point I have definitely confirmed that if I do, I'm not only going to be anonymous but not show my face. It's really sad because this is another way that survivors get silenced. People really need to hear our stories in order for this stuff to stop.
Well why cant we say the same thing about the series “You”? It promotes stalking in a romantic and cute way and millions of people have watched and after started stalking because of the way they made it seem normal and “cute” and that you can get away with it.
@@Yilouiii possibly because this is neither a video about that series nor a comment thread about that series
@@Yilouiii Probably because 1, the most obvious, You is a show that people know isn't real. That's like saying games like COD and MW promote being a terrorist like you just sound stupid. And 2 because Joe's stalking *isn't* portrayed as cute. He's portrayed as an unreliable narrator that shouldn't be taken at face value. Anyone with more than 2 braincells who watches You knows that Joe is a psychopath and the show doesn't glorify his actions. Just like the book Lolita isn't promoting p*dophilia because you know the narrator is an unreliable narcissist with a warped and sick view of reality and children. Just because you have poor media literacy doesn't mean everyone else does.
Daisy Choi being in a scandal was not on my 2024 bingo card lol
Her fans are as unhinged as she is for thinking this was a cute idea. Stan CULTure is wild.
I think it's more that these are children who don't grasp the concept of what stalking actually is
@@mang0_cat444 yeah, i would assume they’re children/young since her content is geared towards schooling
What do you expect from kpop stans/koreaboos lol
@@nananaie looks like you have personal bias against kpop/k culture.
@@rogue_carlisle6167 Of course I do. Stan culture is why there are people on the internet blindly defending a BTS member who got a DUI. It’s a mental illness.
Y'all, enroll in D'Angelo University now! There's ping pong tables in the common room, the library is massive, and students get free admission to all the local museums on the weekends
I run the library at D’Angelo University and I am extremely drunk in our rare books room. Please do not enroll, I’m doing a bad job.
@@guyanomaly Don't worry, I'm the Dean and get drunk in the Fiction Languages section
Not only that, his aesthetics workshops are life-changing!(and are not held in the library) ✨
I live in the library walls! Very comfy
@@mothmanafterdark5924no way, me too! so you’re the noise I keep hearing!
That's the unfortunate thing about these aesthetic vloggers, most of them are out of touch and tone deaf to real world issues because they're focused on consumerism and marketing and selling an image/fantasy to viewers while making pretty videos. And people will baby them like they have been under her comment sections. It's really sad because I've been subscribed to her for a while.
fr, most of them are tone deaf
true, even big channels like saranghoe
@@aquarimasi saw saranghoe promote a skin whitening cream a few days ago on ig reels!! It’s crazy how these influencers don’t give a F about their young viewers and will promote and do anything for money
bruh daisy choi? i never thought she would be in a drama video
Same! I've watched her vlogs for awhile and never expected some weird shit like this from her.
exactly
Samee i love her vids
Me too
No like I saw her photo and was confused as hell
I was stalked when I was 13 years old and it led to an eventual unsuccessful kidnapping attempt after about 3 months. He knocked on every door and window of my house to see if I’d look at all hours the day, tied a zip tie around the car door handle where I sat to mark me as vulnerable, and sat outside my house the entire time. Nothing was ever done about this, even though the same day he tried to kidnap me he attempted to nab another girl a few streets away but the cops ruled it out because there was “no sign of suspicious activity”. Ever since then, I’ve been very paranoid and struggle to do things like going out in public by myself, opening my blinds/curtains, and trusting others because I’m paranoid they have anterior motives. I cannot imagine lying about this.
Holy shit. I wish nothing but the best for you and your family, I can’t even begin to imagine how horrible this was
I'm sorry that happened to you
its so sad how knowing this people will still find a way to make it the victims fault or tell them "just go to the police" THEY DONT HELPP
I'm so sorry. I hope you feel safer now ❤ it's usually for OCD, but ERP is really helpful for severe hypervigilance from trauma as well 💗
@starwberriez Ikr, I've heard stories of people that were stalked, and they did nothing until the person was dead. 🤦♀️
I love that just spit balling at the end of the video, D'Angelo came up with an idea about a million times better than her weeks of planning on the stalker crap. A "secret boyfriend" who sends her tons of teddy themed gifts, doesn't want to be seen on camera, and is later revealed to be a giant Teddy Bear. That's a harmless prank that has the potential to be very cute. Fake stalker is just wild.
i agree! a secret boyfriend would have totally been a better choice
I was stalked in 2019-2020 by a man I rejected and he proceeded to make my life hell by making dozens of social media accounts, posting my addresses, sending threats with photos of his guns etc.. He’s in prison now thank god, but the US justice system is NOT primed to help women in situations like this. Faking it is a whole other level of fucked
People like this are the reason why so many people are skeptical of victims when they come out
Now she has released a statement apologising only for the use of the word stalker instead of secret admirer. She really is so calculated because how do you miss the point THIS badly?
The problem was her faking being stalked to make money from kids, not for her choice of wording. Now people are accepting an apology that is half-assed and doesn't even address the actual issue.
THIS.
She’ll never see the wrong in her “stalking marketing” as long as her thousands of child fans hype her up.
i had to double take because i've been watching her for a while and i did NOT expect a "normal" study youtuber to pull something like this
that's what i'm saying!!! i genuinely loved her videos. watching her videos got me through all four years of high school. this is so saddening. seeing her in a d'angelo thumbnail was actually shocking
Me too I’m so disappointed I never expect that of her 😢
FR
no literally
@@serena-kl4ei you act like she killed someone 😭 she made a mistake that was offensive and apologized.
so glad u talked about this! it really bothered me how people went to daisy's comments to point this out and she did a sad apology saying "we all make mistakes and learn from them" even though she's grown and definitely has common sense as a grown adult in 2024 to NOT fake being stalked 😭 like girl u don't get to just excuse it because ur rich and pretty
ALSO her "we're all too broke for this" but in one of her recent vlogs i saw her easily dropping over $100 on clothing stores that only rich or wealthy people shop at 😭
Exactly lol, it comes off as super tone deaf
Sure, we all make mistakes and learn from them. Did she do any introspection whatsoever? Did she have time to think this through? Did she talk to any survivors?
Sounds like she just learned 'not to get caught' next time.
I mean give the same energy to the movie “You”
@@toyafanwhat does that have to do with anything
People who fake this stuff make me so incredibly sad. They do not know how terrifying it actually is to be stalked. I still think about my experience all the time and base my sometimes overly cautious behaviors and actions because of my experience. It affects you every day. I’m so glad I didn’t know who this girl was and will never be supporting her!
as someone who still actively gets stalked and harassed (at a distance) by their stalker, it really rubs me the wrong way that she presented this like a silly goofy thing to promote her merch when those of us who have actually been stalked can't even mention our stalkers publicly without fearing the stalking getting way worse and the stalker trying to ruin our lives again lol
i’m so sorry that happened to you!!! that’s genuinely heartbreaking & an awful situation to be in. sending you love & i hope you heal ❤️
she’s literally deleting comments or blocking ppl it’s so wierd and she likes the comments that are liek “omg u trolled the internet”
that’s so immature omg
sucks but kinda expected at this point..my big gripe with influencers like that are the fact that they keep upholding their own echo chamber so badly to the point where they wanna make a space where it feels like they're always right and never wrong :// no critical thinking, no accountability, just impressionability and rancid brainrot.
She just posted a new vlog and hasn’t mentioned her “stalking marketing” at all and she’s blocking comments that do mention it. But most of her comments are hyping her up so I’m assuming that her fan base are children who don’t understand the true gravity of being stalked.
This video is SO important, I cannot thank you ENOUGH for creating such real and unbiased content like this. 🥺 It’s really heartbreaking because I grew up on Daiz video vlogs and the media she has created, so I’m very devastated to see how horrible she came out to be with her “marketing strategy.” 😭 😢
0:05 irresponsible is the nicest word to call this wow
DANGELO WALLACE CONTINUES TO RETURN!!!!!!!
i'm glad, i was scared after yesterday's foolishness that he would vanish again
@@maverickedsame ngl but I wouldn’t blame him
WE JUST CAN'T STOP WINNING
i love academia era
@GalvanometerYou begging you to get a job, literally begging....
I work in criminal law, and let me tell you, being a stalker's target is not flattering, cute, or funny. What I've noticed is that none of them have a diagnosable mental illness, but they are definitely not right in the head. They are broken ppl. I had one victim who has been stalked by his ex-girlfriend for over 7 years. And even after spending almost a year in jail, the second she got out, it started again. She messages him, his mom, his wife, his business, sends emails. Even after he changed his number, she somehow got it again. And it's constant. I have another victim who was stalked for several years because the stalker was jealous that his target got the romantic attention of someone he liked. He didn't stop until the victim finally pressed charges. The victim was black and every single one of the stalker's messages had racial slurs and threats to him and his family. Even after the victim changed his number, somehow the stalker got his new number. I had another victim who was being stalked by her ex-husband. I had another victim being stalked by her ex-boyfriend trying to get back with her. Every time, the messaging is constant, and no matter how many times the victim blocks them, it doesn't matter, because the stalker uses fake phone numbers and create anonymous and burner accounts. And because they use those methods, stalking cases are challenging to prove. The stalking cases always make me sad because it's not a singular incident. It's constant harassment that affects the victims lives, and there's very little to be done about it.
As a woman using this for promoting purposes is bat shit crazy. Women go through this ON A REGULAR not just celebs like every day women. It ruins ppls lives and makes you live in fear every second. She's actually horrible for this.
People have literally lost touch with reality, it's sad.
What’s so awful is that she’s deleting comments that are criticizing her, and her comments are filled with people saying it’s not a big deal and that people are so soft. It’s just insane how people are so willing to excuse actions like this, and I’m willing to bet her being an attractive person is a part of that.
@@Bibuuf THIS YEAH, absolutely insaneee
Her fans are just bunch of koreaboo/asian obsessed little girls who do anything to defend koreans.
I've experienced mild stalking and it feels VERY VERY weird, and extremely uncomfortable. Stalking is NOT cute in any way and people who don't go through experiences like this wouldn't understand, however being insensitive to those who are victims is just NOT okay. Influencers shouldn't make stalking common practice there are so many victims out there already :(
no way i never thought I’d see daisy choi on this kind of things, shows ur never truly safe from following odd people 😭
Literally
This is so upsetting because not only is she making a mockery of stalking, but she's also grooming and conditioning children into thinking its cute.
As a survivor myself, a large part of why i was so easily groomed and preyed upon was due to things like yandere sim glorifying abuse. I eanted to be loved,i wanted gifts, snd i felt the only way i could get that is by letting grown adults take advantage of me. I sincerely believe that if i hadn't seen media that romanticized abuse and stalking as a child, i wouldn't have romanticized it myself, and i may have never been stalked.
i'm sorry that happened to you, you were given unsupervised Internet access as a kid and that's messed up. parents aren't parenting anymore and that's what's leading kids to seek out content that isn't made for them and not understanding that it's dangerous in real life. this situation isn't a fictional creepy video game, it's an actual influencer lying to her fans about being stalked irl and thinking it's cute just to make her fans buy her merch. no merch is worth the whole lie she made that led people to be concerned about her well-being. stalking can happen to anyone, that's why it's so scary.
I wrote the same thing!
Canadian here. Stalking is technically illegal, but it's very rare the police will actually do anything about it. The answer tends to be "there needs to be obvious threat of physical harm" so it allows a lot of messed up behavior especially in smaller municipalities, not talking about toronto / Ottawa/ Montreal where the police may be more responsive.
oh so both the usa and canada have garbage police? man… i thought canada had a little more hope
It’s pretty the same in America. Nobody does shit about stalking until someone is harmed physically
4:05 “should i smile or cry?” how about not lie?
Doing a stalker haul…… knowing damn well she Amazon primed that garbage.
i have a stalker at work right now and none of my higher ups did anything even though they were very much aware that it’s happening, so five girls at my job banded together and tried to take care of it. this happened friday and today my boss still doesn’t “know” if the stalker is fired. i have been working from home since things started to get WEIRD and i refuse to go back until i know he’s gone and his badge access is revoked. i hate that the men at my work don’t take things like this seriously.
these men always want to pretend they have the protective role in the society until when it comes to actually helping
You may need to have a lawyer send a nicely written letter to them. The threat of a lawsuit tends to scare most businesses into compliance with your state/country labor laws
I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I really hope the stalker is apprehended ASAP and put away for a long time. I wonder what it says about our society when five other girls are standing up for you and yet no one in charge seems to care.
19:45 don’t you mean “how is anything on instagram even REEL”
* ba dum tss *
She should make another video with an apology + what you can do IF your getting stalked, n supporting the people who had to suffer through this
thank you for continuing to post 😭❤️ i was so scared after yesterday
I've been doxxed and stalked. By a whole group of people. This makes me SO FUCKING MAD
same, and same. I hope you're doing better now. 🫂
@@oshaviolation it was all a little over 3 years ago, happy to report that I'm safe and eqquiped to give anybody who wishes to threaten my safety a *very bad* day
do u mind if i ask what happened or why u were targeted? dont share any personal info ofc or any details u dont want to, im just wondering how something like this starts for other people. its happened to me too on a small scale and im scared of it happening again
@@gallantmaxxing in a nutshell, I was publically loud about my political opinion on a certain content platform, and a group of terroristic nazi ass-clowns tried to narrow my location down. They got me narrowed down to within a 5 mile area within my city. I was luckily able to stay low for a bit and eventually returned home
Same here. It's terrifying not to know how many people are after you and if anyone random on the street knows who you are.
I'm glad you're safe my dear, it's no joke. Hang in there.
She's like "sorry, not sorry" and it's not cool. That's not a thing to joke about.
Is that daisy choi..??? You gotta be kidding me 😧
My exact reaction too since I only followed her on RUclips not insta
Same. Girly gotta do better@@ashuri8184
Rightttt 🙁
i am shocked asf
I used to watch her, wtff???
what really gets to me is how unnecessary this whole framing was? like she mentions in the post at 17:35, "mysterious gift giver" isn't just less insensitive, it makes more sense. just say one of your friends has been doing this and then reveal at the end that the 'friend' is teddy. you don't have to justify keeping a gift from your friend bc that's just a normal thing to do (unlike a stalker), you don't have to justify talking about this publicly since it's just your friend (also unlike a stalker), and you don't make people worry about you for no good reason. it's crazy that this was the idea she went with instead.
That's a very charitable reading of the 'mysterious gift giver' idea. It seems more like she was thinking of keeping the framing almost exactly the same, just without using the word "stalker" to describe the stalker.
@@gregorhodson3741 oh don't get me wrong, i have no doubt this was just her backpedalling when she started getting bad feedback, i'm just saying it's a workable idea
Making people worry was the whole point, though. She knew she wouldn't have gotten this level of engagement if people thought a trusted friend was sending her this stuff.
Your idea is logical, ethical, and sane, all things I don't think describe Daisy
you don't understand how happy i am that you keep bringing light to topics that don't seem to be covered by others🙏
11:38 what's sadder is the people who took her apology just like that. She lied about being stalked to use it as a marketing tactic. She's not sorry, she doesn't feel bad, she knew what she was doing. People like her are why stalking doesn't get taken seriously.
genuine question, what do u want her to do if apologizing and reflecting is not enough?
@@jundayaur Just take the L lol
You kinda have to learn to spot the differences between damage control and sincere apology. This was way too planned to be a spur of the moment mistake. Not to mention people were freaking out wayyy before she even dropped the product line. You telling me she didnt read the comments? This is Logan Paul levels of absurdity. And with how often women have to deal with the fear of stalking and hatassment... I find it VERY hard to believe she didnt have a clear idea of what she was doing.
@@bora-hk1zd take the L and what
@@Armeddragon12 yeah yeah she did smth bad, but you're still not answering my question.
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Hello from 9 days in the future…oh you had no idea what was coming 😆 /pos
i loved her but bro after reading the comment on her apology post on ig and the fact that she only liked comments that are supporting her and saying "it's not that deep" or sum. I don't know anymore, totally disappointing
This is like the evil version of Chappell Roan
evil Chappell roan be like blue beer star
Rappell Choan
Cathedral Roan oh nooo
nah it's one of the seven princes of hell
Evil Chappell Roan be like "Im cold, and you're not taking me anywhere"
you're so right to touch on the ignorance is bliss facet of some people not understanding why portraying stalking like this could be harmful.
and the fact that none of her friends thought this was weird either lmao
stop i was in daiz's broadcast channel and i remember seeing her say she was being stalked so my heart just dropped seeing this video
Dude same 😭
Reminds me of that other influencer that faked a miscarriage to promote her patreon , then blamed her audience for believing it. We live in an interesting timeline.
I remembered I left a comment on one of her reveal post ( that she deleted) about how she shouldn't joke about this and she even answered with something like " I felt bad but it wasn't that serious 😭". A few other people then proceeded to respond sharing their disappointment , and next thing you know my original comment is gone, alongside all of the others calling her out... I was a long time follower of her and this left such a bitter taste in my mind. If you think that people genuinely worrying for you " is not that serious" well you are just too far away from reality..
Marketing=(psychology)-(ethics) (from: a psych to marketing pipeline student)
this is facts actually
(from: a psych student with a massive interest in marketing)
thank you for talking about this! she and her fans are acting like nothing happened. as a long-time subscriber who unsubscribed bc of this, it makes me so disappointed.
her fans are also saying “people are making this a big deal” and “why is this a big deal?” it’s dissappointing.
she's posted an apology on instagram and ALL of the comments are saying that people who are upset about this are ‘overreacting’, ‘sensitive’ & that they need to ‘touch some grass’ .
literally so insensitive. i hope she loses popularity bc she doesn't deserve it
I swear this woman has the same fanbase as Colleen Hoover. Is there much overlap b/w the 'Abuse marketed as Dark Romance' booktok and the aesthetic vloggers (if that's the right term at all. bit out of my depth when it comes to the platform and content creators like that)
This feels like an attempt to ride the wave of popularity that stalker/yandere media has had recently. I actually think if she dropped the word stalker and instead portrayed a 'secret admirer' who she was convinced was a cute guy in her class then it would've been a much better appoach if she really wanted to do this soft ARG marketing. The idea of crushes and puppy love fits her whole school aesthetic way better anyway, i really don't understand why she opted for the insensitive booktok type of narrative.
Thats exactly what i was thinking too. Or a community thing where someone books a gift for you to be delievered to your door (kinda like how during covid people doordashed each other food bc they couldnt be there in person)
This is the most PERFECT timing I’m on my lunch break rn
SAME
me too!
Samee he’s literally always on time TwT
Same!!
Same!!
To answer the Canada question, criminal harassment (often just called stalking but includes other behaviours.) is a criminal offence in Canada. In its legal definition it even includes the sending of unwanted gifts.
I’m a stalker victim/survivor and I can’t believe the way it is downplayed and brushed off. So much so that we throw the word around. It lost its weight and now people feel like it’s okay to lie about it. Extremely harmful. We need to have tact and integrity when discussing these types of topics. Making light of stalking needs to be seen as so shameful and disgusting that it becomes unimaginable to lie or joke about. Thank you for bringing this situation to our attention.
The crazy thing is that the odds are extremely high that she will be stalked due to her influencer status, and if she ever speaks on it in any way, people will tear her apart due to this situation.
1:27 "The first questions i always like to start with are who is this person and where do they do the thing that they do and also what is that?" how can you just casually drop such a good line out of nowhere
Stalking is definitely a crime in Canada. This girl is insane and I can't understand why her followers were saying things like fake stalking is "a bit" insensitive. Come on!
i used to watch her videos, i saw she apologised but at the time i wasn’t aware what was happening. the fact that people are saying “i don’t know why people are making a big deal about this” is wild
and it’s mostly her fans saying this as well
Being stalked is traumatizing and life ruining. Seriously not cute. It’s barely taken seriously by institutions and it’s hard to stay safe from obsessive creepy manipulative people. So ummm.. what the f.
omg this girl lives in my city, she’s stopped by the coffee shop i work at, and i mentioned that i stumbled across a video of hers cause she looked so familiar, not the nicest person i’ve come across, she’s got a bit of arrogance to her
Rachel Maksy gives me that laid back, Jenna Marbles vibe. She mostly does wacky crafts, if that's your drift, I highly recommend! She is also very aesthetic, I believe she has a film degree!
seconding Rachel Maksy
Rachel and Jun are an American × Japanese couple living in Japan, that post DIYs videos, that are cute and funny. They have cats too!
Micarah Tewers too! Same niche aswell, sewing seems to pull funny people
And Prickly Alpaca!
As a social worker every time someone does crap like this it validates creeps and leads to victims not being believed. This girl needs help if she thought this was funny or cute like therapy now. I'm so happy she has no idea just how terrifying and horrifying having a stalker can be but I think she needs to be educated which is interesting since all of her content revolves around school. Thank you professor I promise not to stalk anyone.
Speedrunning your reputation into the ground any %. Pretty privilege won't be walking this one back. 💀
some of her fans are defending her and attacking d’angelo🤢 so again pretty privilege…
It’s not pretty privilege bro it’s because some of them have been watching her videos for years and don’t want her to go through something bad because online hate can also get people lose their lives.
@@Youagain31 it is pretty privilege tho. Have you seen dream’s fans? They all ganged up on him after his face reveal. Fans with common sense would try to educate her. You misunderstand hating with criticism.
@@goldenhourss not all people are like the dream fans bro be fr
If this girl had an ounce of common sense she could’ve based her marketing on a secret admirer since it’s a school girl theme and surround it around more appropriate and consensual storytelling. Like the better option was so close but she chose stalker some how……she fumbled horribly by being unintelligent.
I'm going to be blunt she basically made a conscious choice to emotionally manipulate her audience/fans for money, and it's terrible she has that kind of moralless behavior at a young age since she's 21. Even when I was 21 I wasn't doing shit like this and knew it was wrong especially since I'd already had friends who were victims of stalking
Faking you're in a dangerous situation just to get sympathy out of others, seeing no problem with it, and thinking everyone else will be accepting and understanding once you reveal the lie and then will spend money on your products is heartless.
I hope she learns from this in some way. Although considering her profession as an influencer is built on ppl getting ppl to like her and trying to get as much money out of them as possible I don't see her having much incentive to change unless ppl actually pressure her to do so and to learn a lesson from this.
But the important thing is we shouldn't let ppl minimalize and normalize this behavior. This isn't just oh no another influencer doing something wrong. We should remember how many ppl of marginalized genders are harmed and killed by stalkers and situations like this aren't a joke and ppl who make light of that for profit shouldn't be let off the hook
I'm pretty sure her fans saying this is good marketing are just as young and impressionable as she is. And they grew up in a social media environment where behavior like this is normal and everything we do is able to be commodified for fame and money. But no they need to learn shit like this isn’t normal or ok and there's more important things in life to prioritize
Very well said.
I agree
going to be blunt: *proceeds to state the same exact opinion as everyone else in the comments*
if I hadn't clicked on the video, I would never have watched this drama and would continue watching Daisy's videos thank you
D'Angelo
Can you explain this to me in some main point I don't get it
@@HajHt-iz7ue like she invented a stalking story to highlight this clothing brand, as if it were normal!! and no one talked about it, if I hadn't clicked on the videos I would never be this and would continue to support her when she has just done something serious. because stalking is not good, it is a crime and using it as a marketing tragedy is horrible.. she must question this
@@ayh.youtube Didn't She apologize about using this world why people are so angry
She did smth wrong yes but she regreted it
I don't get the point is that a crime ??!!
@HajHt-iz7ue because stalking is a serious situation, is not a joke and stalking someone is very a crime.. and using for marketing strategies that no normal and I understand why people is angry.. ok she apologies but no
imagine if I day, she as a real stalker and tell everyone to save her, nobody gonna believe her ( I just a imagine situation) don't laugh w/ this like that's, some people die of stalking.. so yes I understand people
13:47 Can confirm, stalking is illegal here 😅
Are you sure? I have a stalker of almost 2 years, and the police won’t do anything at all unless he comes up to me irl and attacks me…
@@Atwood05 I'm sorry you have to go through that, hoping everything works out for you. 🙏🏿 But the same issue happens in America. That is an issue of policing and procedure which needs to be addressed, not an issue of whether it is legal or not....
Seconding, it’s illegal but as in many places the police frequently don’t do anything
Idk man the fact that she continued the narrative for a WHILE is genuinely unsettling. She had so many moments in her real life to think twice and say, “this is inappropriate, this will be bad for me in the long run, being a liar for money is against my morals, etc” but no…only until it possibly stopped her income coming in did she start to apologize. Mistakes you make in the moment and learn from is one thing, but this….
I’m so disappointed at her :(. I’m a victim of stalking. Had a guy who was obsessed with Korean girls and he once followed me to my car. I had to have my friends walk with me at campus, and a new guy just sniffed me and tried to find me cuz “I smell good.”
im so sorry for this i really hope you feel better 😕💓💓
As someone who had a stalker, not even an extreme one, it made me feel unsafe in my own home its not cute
I have been a regular viewer of daisy for almost 4 years now, and this is the first im ever hearing of this (not an instagram user). honestly the way she kept lying to her fans is literally diabolical and I am never going to see her or her vlogs the same..
Dude when she thanked the stalker… wild 😂
this is just sad. the lengths people will go to for fame and money - just completely tossing their morals aside. shame on anybody defending her actions.
There's no way that in 2024, when even 5 year-olds use the internet, when crime investigation videos are a forever trend, you don't know how scary stalking is and how many have been and are being stalked, not to mention extreme cases
Like she can't even pretend she didn't know WTFFFFF
this is insane behavior, my friend was stalked in university and the guy would literally follow her to her classes, anywhere off campus. she lived in a dorm and had to start closing the blinds in the common area because he would look in. getting stalked is so scary, and after the fact you never feel safe even after they've been dealt with. some people are so content-pilled they think anything is content and gets clicks.
Wasn't someone faking stalking before? That weirdo creepshowart👀 Well, she did it to hide that she WAS the stalker