Men who need more than one woman doesn’t know how to regulate his own emotions. Most women don’t know this. Once you get this you’ll never blame yourself for a man cheating and you def won’t stand for a polygamous relationship. And you def won’t settle for nothing less period. Tony giving us the game. This is psychology 1 on 1 without having to pay for the class. 🙌🏾🙌🏾
@@a.b5625 No man can juggle multiple women sucessfully. Look at sister wives and how that's turning out. The man can not give his attention equally to all the women in his life. There will always be a woman that feel left out of the equation. The only one that wins in this case is the man. Thats why Kody from sister wives is now down to TWO "wives" I would never accept such stupidity. I rather be alone and rest in my feminine without the drama some dusty wants to bring me.
@@Bri-nc8ypThe truth is finally coming out that God does not tolerate polygamy. This was a lie from the enemy and it is unraveling before millions of people. The truth always comes out. PTL🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
He better think twice before he suggests a girlfriend or a second wife or third one for that matter. I just divorced an individual who thought that his philandering would be going on forever and now he's begging me to go back. Think twice before you mess up!
Tony is preaching, here! I recently read "A man who lacks self control is like a city without walls" in Proverbs. There's no security, honor, or protection there --- none. And eventually, it results in an emasculated man. Bottom line: our community needs Jesus.
“We should never do what an animal does” Thank you! I could never take seriously a debased man who compares himself to an animal. He will view his woman as an animal to be conquered too. It’s ridiculous. I’m not marrying into an animal kingdom I’m marrying into the kingdom of the Lord and nothing less.
70% of women do not orgasm and the other 30% may be lying! You better advocate for us Tony! 😂 ….I truly heard this whole message not just the sex part. Lol Thank you for these messages. I genuinely think men have to get to a place where they value and honor themselves before they can get to a place where they value and honor us. When I think about even my parents, they were the two that were supposed to value and protect me more than anyone. I deserved that much from them but they could not treat me with regard because they didn’t have it for themselves. I grew up not having it for me either. It was when I couldn’t take the suffering and dehumanization anymore that put forth the effort to heal.
Lord we just lift Tony up right now- his heart, his mind, his body, his family, his purpose. Thank you for his focus, his resilience and his conviction to selflessly serve your people. Lord protect him and all who are connected to him. We ask for peace when he needs to rest and for vigor when it’s time to be in gear. Protect him and his family in their travels. We bind the adversary and his cunning tactics. The enemy has no place here and we claim victory over the people, places and things that have been dispatched to delay Tony’s message. Thank you God for speaking to us through Tony- for growing his platform and for giving him the strength to stand alone and to stand for you in love, growth and community. Bless and guard his upcoming opportunities. We also pray a special blessing over his wife- his personal woman of influence… that she stay ready and armed to support, love and stand in battle with him. Your Kingdom Come and Will be Done. We love you Jesus. Amen
Therapist here!!! 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾Therapist approved message! ♥I've worked with over one thousand men and everything in this message is absolutely correct. Healing is required in our community, it can no longer be optional.
This level of self awareness and accountability in men I haven't seen before. Men really struggle with acknowledging trauma and seeing how it has effected their mindset set. They seem to just say it's how they are. And all the healing stops there
Well said. They are living off their ego and pride. I don’t know any man that is self aware and/or in the path of self improvement in an emotional/mental level. The majority are focused in improving their money/social status only. 😞 so disheartening.
@@Missybella92227 it's because those are the men women choose....ever heard of nice guys finish last...guys are literally just adapting to women and if you keep seeing the same type of nigga get the girls...why would I stay the same nice guy...why would I not adjust to the times I'm in...in order to even get a woman attention.......the nice guy literally will to get the left overs.. dealing with broke women dealing with broke homes...and expect to be superman and save the day..
The problem is, the men that need to hear this but don’t listen to Tony. It’s clearly majority (if not all) women in the comments. Only mature/healed men that understand their purpose or seeking to, listen to messages such as this one.
There are men who listen... they pop up rarely, but they are here... listening and responding are two very different things. Tony did a video about the fact that men grow in the dark... quietly, out of public sight, because they cannot afford to be seen as deficient publicly.
So true! My biological father paraded other women in front of us, he abused my mother and I. He bragged about his mistresses. He allowed a 15 year old male teenager to sexually abuse me when I was 7 years old because I questioned his Catholic & sexist beliefs. Thankfully he passed away, bit I still struggle with my self esteem, I'm still learning how to stop operating from my pain and to stop allowing some people to treat me like an option.
This explaination makes perfect sense! I've always said that the men that want multiple women do not understand the responsibility that comes along with taking care of ALL those women. It's his responsibility to take care of each of those Women's needs emotionally and physically, which is pretty difficult to do for just one woman. One of the other videos I was watching you mentioned that you are still learning your wife... Which makes sense because if we operate in marriage how it was designed, it takes a lifetime to learn your helpmate. Both of you will change over time, grow and mature etc. I appreciate this message thank you to the Gaskin family for leading by example. Wishing you all many many many more successful years growing and learning together and sharing with us along the way. 🙏🏽
Men who say they want polygamy forget that in the old days the man had to buy every woman a separate house on top of taking care of them and all kids they have. These men can barely afford one house for themselves and want multiple women. Makes no logical sense.
@@la6136 Even in Islam if a man can't afford, and can't EQUALLY balance physically and emotionally between his women, he can to ONLY have ONE. Not to mention he has to pay all the bills, pay for the kids from each wife, pay for food, cloths, rent.. etc. Some of the Manosphere podcasts talk about polygamy in Islam but they never like to mention how strick and hard the conditions are to meet. Plus, polygamy was a thing because many men went to war and died so the men who stayed took care of the widows through marriage. Another case is when a man would marry a second wife if his first wife was barren, so he doesn't have to divorce the first one if he wanted kids. It's a great RESPONSIBLITY more than just lust and having a harem! On the day of judgment, God will hold each man accountable if he treated one wife good and the other bad. I hate when people make Islam as this barbaric, men serving religion when in reality it's very sophisticated and holds both men and women accountable. In the end women get to CHOOSE if they want to be in these marriages or not. They aren't forced to stay and can find another man or stay single.
I’m glad you spoke on this because when I seen the video of Dr … talk on alpha subject and how it’s “unnatural” for a man to have one woman. I just rolled my eyes 🙄 The 1st person I thought of was you talking about alpha and beta labels in past videos and some need to take heed to what your saying here👌🏾
My mind went there as well I that’s the 1st person I thought of and I just Shake my head when he starts with that mess. And I’m 1st generation American both my parents are from West Africa and I’m tired of black American men acting like this is a norm…. It’s not at all
Much needed message Tony! I wonder if there ever will be stats on how many diseases or unplanned pregnancies are spread from this lifestyle. Ladies please don't settle for this trap
It takes two to tango! This is a righteous message! Please do a video on the importance of women healing and not settling for this selfish and degrading lifestyle that is destroying our communities. 🐍 It’s about building the Kingdom and we must UNITE as legacy women on this issue! Preach it Preacher! I have to admit, I was a little hesitant to watch this today, but remembered you are a man of God who knows and lives the word. I wanted to engage and support. I stayed opened. I’m so very glad I did! It blessed me to see you be transparent about your weaknesses. That’s what healthy humans do. You’re speaking the facts in truth and love. It was prophetically foretold that men would become lovers of themselves. It’s sad that so many BM selling their souls by leaving a legacy of destruction and dysfunction. It is so very sad to see what’s happening and the influence some with this lifestyle have. We know them by their fruit! Get to the root of the fruit! Likewise, Black women must heal and open their hearts to true love. Once you know who you are is more than enough, the right man with the right character and values (from any race) will show up. It’s time to live the truely abundant life that God Promised! May God continue to cover and protect you. ✨🙏🏽✨
NOTHING BUT FACTS!!!! People please understand Tony is coming from a place of real TRUTH AND HONESTY!!! Unfortunately I have personally lived some of this,,, Please listen and take heed to what's being taught!!!!🙏🙏🙏💯
Great message. I know of the intellectual phd you are referencing and that is so sad that even our so called intellectuals are controlled by their lustful desires.
I’m so happy TG come on and school both men and women with his common sense and ain’t afraid to speak on it!!! Kudos to you TG and May God continue to Bless you and your Family!
Tony G I love ❤️ your directness. I’m the same way and it bothers folks at times but I am also respected because of it. Keep on keeping on sir!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I believe you are spot on with what your saying.Both men and women are to have self control. Both are to love themselves first before they can love someone else.
Thank you so much Tony ! I am sharing this video on my social media platform and to male friends. This is very powerful. I love what God is doing through you and in you 🙏🏾
Your understanding of the spiritual vs carnal warfare amazes me sometimes. No one is perfect, so I know that you have your faults, but the called will always feel the battle more because they are aware. Keep fighting the good fight with your family. If I could suggest that you not read the comments during this time in order to protect your mental space ( not that your tribe would say anything negative). This may be a good time to fast. Keep doing the hard work & lean into your support system. Great message!
Tony, NZINGHA from Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹. Please make a video for younger women ages 16 and up. I have young male associates who are taking this red pill movement seriously and saying their history of rejection and being used for sex experiences, justifies their not leading in love and waiting for females to shoot their shot etc. I have young female friends who like me were never taught that males and females are very different and that's why we have to have restrictions and boundaries with males, not let them be friends. I am 41 years old and if it is possible I would like to prevent the damage that happened to me from happening to the current generation 20 years old. You are definitely like my dad Morgan Job if they telling you you too harsh, he was always accused of that too and he also used to say... you can't solve a problem you don't admit you have! Thanks for spreading this message to the world, it was his too. Love always from Trinbago 🇹🇹
I seen a question one time on FB that asked what are the biggest problems people deal with within poly relationships? To my surprise, at least 85 percent of the comments said side relationships outside of the poly one and jealously cause one woman being desired more than the others. Lol...
Let the Spirit use you, Coach Tony!! Praying for you as you lead this spiritual war🙏✝️ This message was on the level of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr's "I Have a Dream" speech...if you ask me. Keep hope alive, my brother. Believing in Jesus and following his ways brings the grace and mercy needed to have successful relationships. NO CAP. Always has been. Always will be. God bless you and your family.
I literally just watched a video with another RUclipsr speak about the situation with the coach that got caught cheating again. He stated that it’s not in a man’s nature to be with just one woman and women need to stay out of a man’s business and take care of home. We should not be concerned with what he’s doing. Smh!
I guess they want to be Solomon in this day and age. It’s crazy. Adam had dominion over the animals. God gave him the right to name them. Loyalty means so much more than the marriage. The fruit of the spirit is also necessary in marriage. But when you are broken your don’t see it. There’s no healing that took place. Women sometimes crave more loyalty than men are able to give. It hurts us. Chris Brown had it backwards. It’s many men who aren’t loyal.
Proverbs 31:17 vs Isaiah 32:11 Strong and Secure woman vs. Emotionally unstable. A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: But she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones. Proverbs 24:11 (A KING NEEDS A CROWN)
Sending prayers of protection and focus for you Tony! Great message! You will walk successfully in your divine purpose, your family is divinely guided and protected, in the name of Jesus, Amen
As for as Devil attack, you said the devil try to do to you I dealt with that too. My son has dealt with that a lot of my friends has dealt with that I think it’s just the spiritual warfare that’s going on now , but the good thing is you’re aware of it and you know how to block it out and things to do to get it away. people that are not aware of the spiritual warfare fall victim to this and fall into that black 🕳️..
Tony I am praying for you and your family 🙏🙏. Your messages are so spiritual and deep, best believe it's shaking up the adversary. Keep pushing although I know it's not easy , it's so neccessary💪🏾🙏🙏💖🙌🏽
God bless You for this content. It always makes me look deeper . I watched relatives & friends settle choose willingly to be the other women over and over again. And honestly I have played the field but I soon learned to walk away and not settle and to value myself more. I stuck by someone on and off 18 years many of which I suffered oppression and depression wondering why I was never enough ! Not anymore God Ladies & gents you don't have to suffer or adapt to this foolery. (Mindset)
This is by far one of the realist videos that you have produced! I don’t even know which part to quote! This entire message is GOLD. I just hope that the majority of people listen, and take your advice. 🙌
This video was so so good! Black men, PLEASE heal! Until you do, you will not have access to me. I know who I am and whom I belong to. I am worthy to be 🧔🏾♂️ one and only! I am a👸🏽!!!
Coach Tony you are absolutely correct. God spoke this to me earlier this year. He told me that the African American race will become extinct. I have been praying for African Americans, especially men, all year.
STAY STRONG TONY, THIS IS JUST A OPPORTUNITY TO GROW STRONGER IN PRAYER AND TO ASK FOR MORE, BIGGER AND UNBELIEVABLE THINGS ‼️ GOD GOT YOU ‼️ KEEP WORKING ‼️
6:49 lions will also kill baby lion cubs in order to force the lioness to mate with them and produce more offspring after he murders them… but they seem to leave that part out for some reason.
Good Morning Coach TG...much love and respect to you for ALL of this knowledge that GOD bestowed upon you...❤💯🙏...may GOD forever bless you and your beautiful family...smile
The blueprint that The Most High designed is one man, one woman. Both Adam and Eve were perfect in design and had bodies that lived almost a thousand years even after the fall. If multiple spouses were required at the beginning, surely The Creator, Architect, and Designer of the entire universe would have created and ordained that in the beginning. However, He created one man and one woman, and Adam reiterated and spoke that into the earth when he saw Eve. He said "This is bone of my bones, flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. Therefore, Shall A Man Leave His Father And His Mother, And Shall Cleave Unto His Wife: And They Shall Be One Flesh." Genesis 2:21-24 These men and women that Tony is speaking of operate out of their lower, lustful natures. And The Bible says"lust is never satisfied."
Like you said God want us to have one wife and one husband and not lust after another one he only want us eyes on a one spouse lust can leave you to sin and to death and we all have consequences
May God cover you and your family and marraige by the Blood of Jesus Christ. Your mind and your work and your future to be protected by the Redeeming Blood of Jesus Christ🙌 Continue on this journey, I speak blessings and success on your life and this ministry. Your ministry is directly from God and please continue in this 🙏 Strength to you 🙏
Praying for you Tony and your family. Spiritual warfare is real. But God is greater and has defeated all of our enemies eternally. Never fret over temporary things and opposition.
God bless and strengthen you, Tony. Many relationship coaches do not ever truly share of their issues, their failings, etc. Who would have thought you were under attack by the adversary as much as you just shared here? Us viewers would never know, were it not for your forthrightness. Your work is appreciated.
@ 12:00 mark U speaking Yes Sur!! Most of us dont know how to relay wut we really wanna say from the heart. It shuld not feel good for you too hurt another. Check that. Im talking about all of us. Not pointing the finger. We all deal with this.
The devil just mad bc Tony is letting The Lord use him in a mighty positive & influential way. Keep the faith and be strong in The Lord, Tony--keep it up! We appreciate you!💯💯👍🏼👍🏼
Yes the broken consciousness of man and woman. I can admit to the part I played with my ex. Lust was chased and I convinced myself it was okay and I would turn a blind eye to his nonsense. He wanted poly, I entertained the idea but a part of me started to despise him. I knew better I know God and He was most definitely chasing me still! Thank you Jesus for your grace! I am now content in my singleness and I coparent with him we have a 1 year old son. It was a struggle to get here I was so angry, our relationship became toxic in every way. We ended up in court for custody. I was so angry with him. BUT God. Only when I let the power of God do it did my situation truly changed. And everyday I have to make conscious decisions to keep on this way! I pray for Gods will to be done in his life now and that he may come to know and truly experience the life changing love of Jesus Christ!
I'm glad you said we shouldn't be compared to animals. I can't stand to hear humans have animal instincts. We have intuition. We have the ability to reason and decide on a proper mate. We get to choose.
Men who need more than one woman doesn’t know how to regulate his own emotions. Most women don’t know this. Once you get this you’ll never blame yourself for a man cheating and you def won’t stand for a polygamous relationship. And you def won’t settle for nothing less period. Tony giving us the game. This is psychology 1 on 1 without having to pay for the class. 🙌🏾🙌🏾
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@@a.b5625 this shouldn’t be normalized at all .
Very well articulated sis 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@a.b5625 No man can juggle multiple women sucessfully. Look at sister wives and how that's turning out. The man can not give his attention equally to all the women in his life. There will always be a woman that feel left out of the equation. The only one that wins in this case is the man. Thats why Kody from sister wives is now down to TWO "wives" I would never accept such stupidity. I rather be alone and rest in my feminine without the drama some dusty wants to bring me.
@@Bri-nc8ypThe truth is finally coming out that God does not tolerate polygamy. This was a lie from the enemy and it is unraveling before millions of people. The truth always comes out. PTL🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
He better think twice before he suggests a girlfriend or a second wife or third one for that matter. I just divorced an individual who thought that his philandering would be going on forever and now he's begging me to go back. Think twice before you mess up!
They are using this as a ploy to not take accountability and be discipline with their urges
Preach
If you watch the show Sister Wives, one of the more recent episodes and you can see the outcome of having multiple lives/wives.
Amen, I know exactly. It’s the greatest lie. Such a sick & unhealthy dynamic.
Yes they are completely falling apart or waking up depending how you look at it.
What was the outcome?
Tony is preaching, here! I recently read "A man who lacks self control is like a city without walls" in Proverbs. There's no security, honor, or protection there --- none. And eventually, it results in an emasculated man. Bottom line: our community needs Jesus.
“We should never do what an animal does”
Thank you! I could never take seriously a debased man who compares himself to an animal. He will view his woman as an animal to be conquered too. It’s ridiculous. I’m not marrying into an animal kingdom I’m marrying into the kingdom of the Lord and nothing less.
Amen!!!!
“It’s about self-control, discipline and healing”. Amen 🙏🏽 💯
70% of women do not orgasm and the other 30% may be lying! You better advocate for us Tony! 😂 ….I truly heard this whole message not just the sex part. Lol Thank you for these messages. I genuinely think men have to get to a place where they value and honor themselves before they can get to a place where they value and honor us. When I think about even my parents, they were the two that were supposed to value and protect me more than anyone. I deserved that much from them but they could not treat me with regard because they didn’t have it for themselves. I grew up not having it for me either. It was when I couldn’t take the suffering and dehumanization anymore that put forth the effort to heal.
Lord we just lift Tony up right now- his heart, his mind, his body, his family, his purpose. Thank you for his focus, his resilience and his conviction to selflessly serve your people. Lord protect him and all who are connected to him. We ask for peace when he needs to rest and for vigor when it’s time to be in gear. Protect him and his family in their travels. We bind the adversary and his cunning tactics. The enemy has no place here and we claim victory over the people, places and things that have been dispatched to delay Tony’s message. Thank you God for speaking to us through Tony- for growing his platform and for giving him the strength to stand alone and to stand for you in love, growth and community. Bless and guard his upcoming opportunities. We also pray a special blessing over his wife- his personal woman of influence… that she stay ready and armed to support, love and stand in battle with him. Your Kingdom Come and Will be Done. We love you Jesus. Amen
In Jesus name Amen 🙏🙏❤️🙌
Hallelujah!!!
Amen 🙏🏾 💜
Amen I agree 🙏🏾❤️
In agreement!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Therapist here!!! 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾Therapist approved message! ♥I've worked with over one thousand men and everything in this message is absolutely correct. Healing is required in our community, it can no longer be optional.
Thanks for having the courage to intercept this foolish with the truth.
If she knows you only see her as a pawn on the chess board, then she will see you the same way, too.
This level of self awareness and accountability in men I haven't seen before. Men really struggle with acknowledging trauma and seeing how it has effected their mindset set. They seem to just say it's how they are. And all the healing stops there
Well said.
They are living off their ego and pride. I don’t know any man that is self aware and/or in the path of self improvement in an emotional/mental level. The majority are focused in improving their money/social status only.
😞 so disheartening.
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Yup. It’s a cop out!
@@Missybella92227 it's because those are the men women choose....ever heard of nice guys finish last...guys are literally just adapting to women and if you keep seeing the same type of nigga get the girls...why would I stay the same nice guy...why would I not adjust to the times I'm in...in order to even get a woman attention.......the nice guy literally will to get the left overs.. dealing with broke women dealing with broke homes...and expect to be superman and save the day..
The problem is, the men that need to hear this but don’t listen to Tony. It’s clearly majority (if not all) women in the comments. Only mature/healed men that understand their purpose or seeking to, listen to messages such as this one.
These are the last days. There is no cure for these issues among men and women but the return of our Savior. It is what it is.
There are men who listen... they pop up rarely, but they are here... listening and responding are two very different things. Tony did a video about the fact that men grow in the dark... quietly, out of public sight, because they cannot afford to be seen as deficient publicly.
Coach Tony is a true relationship scientist and life psychologist. Wasn't a lie told!
So true! My biological father paraded other women in front of us, he abused my mother and I. He bragged about his mistresses. He allowed a 15 year old male teenager to sexually abuse me when I was 7 years old because I questioned his Catholic & sexist beliefs. Thankfully he passed away, bit I still struggle with my self esteem, I'm still learning how to stop operating from my pain and to stop allowing some people to treat me like an option.
@tonygaskins544 get a life
This explaination makes perfect sense! I've always said that the men that want multiple women do not understand the responsibility that comes along with taking care of ALL those women. It's his responsibility to take care of each of those Women's needs emotionally and physically, which is pretty difficult to do for just one woman. One of the other videos I was watching you mentioned that you are still learning your wife... Which makes sense because if we operate in marriage how it was designed, it takes a lifetime to learn your helpmate. Both of you will change over time, grow and mature etc.
I appreciate this message thank you to the Gaskin family for leading by example. Wishing you all many many many more successful years growing and learning together and sharing with us along the way. 🙏🏽
Men who say they want polygamy forget that in the old days the man had to buy every woman a separate house on top of taking care of them and all kids they have. These men can barely afford one house for themselves and want multiple women. Makes no logical sense.
@@la6136 Even in Islam if a man can't afford, and can't EQUALLY balance physically and emotionally between his women, he can to ONLY have ONE. Not to mention he has to pay all the bills, pay for the kids from each wife, pay for food, cloths, rent.. etc. Some of the Manosphere podcasts talk about polygamy in Islam but they never like to mention how strick and hard the conditions are to meet.
Plus, polygamy was a thing because many men went to war and died so the men who stayed took care of the widows through marriage. Another case is when a man would marry a second wife if his first wife was barren, so he doesn't have to divorce the first one if he wanted kids. It's a great RESPONSIBLITY more than just lust and having a harem! On the day of judgment, God will hold each man accountable if he treated one wife good and the other bad.
I hate when people make Islam as this barbaric, men serving religion when in reality it's very sophisticated and holds both men and women accountable. In the end women get to CHOOSE if they want to be in these marriages or not. They aren't forced to stay and can find another man or stay single.
@@la6136 makes no sense what so ever.
This requires us to guard our ears and eyes and really walk in wisdom daily.
I’m glad you spoke on this because when I seen the video of Dr … talk on alpha subject and how it’s “unnatural” for a man to have one woman. I just rolled my eyes 🙄 The 1st person I thought of was you talking about alpha and beta labels in past videos and some need to take heed to what your saying here👌🏾
Same
My mind went there as well I that’s the 1st person I thought of and I just Shake my head when he starts with that mess. And I’m 1st generation American both my parents are from West Africa and I’m tired of black American men acting like this is a norm…. It’s not at all
Much needed message Tony! I wonder if there ever will be stats on how many diseases or unplanned pregnancies are spread from this lifestyle. Ladies please don't settle for this trap
Men do not need 2 women! The devil have these people fooled.... Keep speaking the truth...
I thought it is illegal to have multiple wives in America!
I was thinking the same thing, but maybe it’s polygamy and multiple girlfriends. 🤷🏾♀️
Certain jurisdictions allow for it, typically with Mormon communities (ie. Utah). Still a hot mess tho, nonetheless
It is 😂
We do alot of things illegal 😮
They cannot be legally married.
Amazing! This should be taught in schools.Early. Ethics.
It certainly isn’t being taught at home.
This is a word!!
It takes two to tango! This is a righteous message! Please do a video on the importance of women healing and not settling for this selfish and degrading lifestyle that is destroying our communities. 🐍 It’s about building the Kingdom and we must UNITE as legacy women on this issue! Preach it Preacher! I have to admit, I was a little hesitant to watch this today, but remembered you are a man of God who knows and lives the word. I wanted to engage and support. I stayed opened. I’m so very glad I did! It blessed me to see you be transparent about your weaknesses. That’s what healthy humans do.
You’re speaking the facts in truth and love. It was prophetically foretold that men would become lovers of themselves. It’s sad that so many BM selling their souls by leaving a legacy of destruction and dysfunction. It is so very sad to see what’s happening and the influence some with this lifestyle have. We know them by their fruit! Get to the root of the fruit!
Likewise, Black women must heal and open their hearts to true love. Once you know who you are is more than enough, the right man with the right character and values (from any race) will show up. It’s time to live the truely abundant life that God Promised!
May God continue to cover and protect you. ✨🙏🏽✨
NOTHING BUT FACTS!!!! People please understand Tony is coming from a place of real TRUTH AND HONESTY!!! Unfortunately I have personally lived some of this,,, Please listen and take heed to what's being taught!!!!🙏🙏🙏💯
Great message. I know of the intellectual phd you are referencing and that is so sad that even our so called intellectuals are controlled by their lustful desires.
I’m so happy TG come on and school both men and women with his common sense and ain’t afraid to speak on it!!! Kudos to you TG and May God continue to Bless you and your Family!
Tony G I love ❤️ your directness. I’m the same way and it bothers folks at times but I am also respected because of it. Keep on keeping on sir!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Thank you Tony!!!
So true about the blasphemy and evil in the world.
Thank you Tony for staying true to your mission!
Back working out and listening Tony because of your message last night.
I believe you are spot on with what your saying.Both men and women are to have self control. Both are to love themselves first before they can love someone else.
The bedroom part !!! So true! On point sir! It certainly gets old !
keep fighting the good fight Tony, pull through, will have you in prayers !
Thank you so much Tony ! I am sharing this video on my social media platform and to male friends. This is very powerful. I love what God is doing through you and in you 🙏🏾
Your understanding of the spiritual vs carnal warfare amazes me sometimes. No one is perfect, so I know that you have your faults, but the called will always feel the battle more because they are aware. Keep fighting the good fight with your family. If I could suggest that you not read the comments during this time in order to protect your mental space ( not that your tribe would say anything negative). This may be a good time to fast. Keep doing the hard work & lean into your support system. Great message!
This aint nothing but the TRUTH! Sheesh!!!!! Appreciate you Uncle Tony.
Amen! "If you cannot feel it, you cannot heal it.". ❤️👍🏿💯
Excellent and informative breakdown on this subject. You are most definitely anointed 🙌🏾
Tony, NZINGHA from Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹. Please make a video for younger women ages 16 and up. I have young male associates who are taking this red pill movement seriously and saying their history of rejection and being used for sex experiences, justifies their not leading in love and waiting for females to shoot their shot etc. I have young female friends who like me were never taught that males and females are very different and that's why we have to have restrictions and boundaries with males, not let them be friends. I am 41 years old and if it is possible I would like to prevent the damage that happened to me from happening to the current generation 20 years old. You are definitely like my dad Morgan Job if they telling you you too harsh, he was always accused of that too and he also used to say... you can't solve a problem you don't admit you have! Thanks for spreading this message to the world, it was his too. Love always from Trinbago 🇹🇹
They think that is an alpha male. I think that is a dawg roaming the streets.
That is Ego.
The perfect example of an alpha male is Tony Gaskins.
TONY YOUR COMMUNICATION IS NEEDED....denial from black women is their defensive mechanism they KNOW the truth...they need to live their truth already
I seen a question one time on FB that asked what are the biggest problems people deal with within poly relationships? To my surprise, at least 85 percent of the comments said side relationships outside of the poly one and jealously cause one woman being desired more than the others. Lol...
Hilarious
That’s because it’s lust !! Lust can never be fulfilled! So no matter how many women a man has, he’ll want more !! It’s alll lust!!
Let the Spirit use you, Coach Tony!! Praying for you as you lead this spiritual war🙏✝️ This message was on the level of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr's "I Have a Dream" speech...if you ask me. Keep hope alive, my brother. Believing in Jesus and following his ways brings the grace and mercy needed to have successful relationships. NO CAP. Always has been. Always will be. God bless you and your family.
Completed agree!
I literally just watched a video with another RUclipsr speak about the situation with the coach that got caught cheating again. He stated that it’s not in a man’s nature to be with just one woman and women need to stay out of a man’s business and take care of home. We should not be concerned with what he’s doing. Smh!
I guess they want to be Solomon in this day and age. It’s crazy. Adam had dominion over the animals. God gave him the right to name them. Loyalty means so much more than the marriage. The fruit of the spirit is also necessary in marriage. But when you are broken your don’t see it. There’s no healing that took place. Women sometimes crave more loyalty than men are able to give. It hurts us. Chris Brown had it backwards. It’s many men who aren’t loyal.
They can’t even spell loyalty
Adam love and loyalty got him kicked out of the garden.
Probably because women are attracted to them and because they are men its hard to resist options..
That's definitely part of it. The cute ones usually have a bunch of kids from different places
You preaching sir!!! Proverbs talks about this woman and she ain’t no joke! She take your life and you won’t see it coming!!!
Yesss just read this proverb this morning in my devotional proverbs 2 talks about it!
Proverbs 31:17 vs Isaiah 32:11
Strong and Secure woman vs. Emotionally unstable.
A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: But she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones.
Proverbs 24:11
(A KING NEEDS A CROWN)
Thanks 🙏🏽 for always dropping gems 💎 Tony! These are deep and hard conversations to have but are well needed!
Sending prayers of protection and focus for you Tony! Great message! You will walk successfully in your divine purpose, your family is divinely guided and protected, in the name of Jesus, Amen
Driving and listening. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Me too...🙏😊
Mr. Gaskins, I pray 🙏 God blesses you and Mrs.Gaskins with two virtuous "Daughters-in-Laws" because of your faithful mentoring of us and our children.
I wake up every day waiting for another wisdom message from Mr Gaskons.
As for as Devil attack, you said the devil try to do to you I dealt with that too. My son has dealt with that a lot of my friends has dealt with that I think it’s just the spiritual warfare that’s going on now , but the good thing is you’re aware of it and you know how to block it out and things to do to get it away. people that are not aware of the spiritual warfare fall victim to this and fall into that black 🕳️..
Tony I am praying for you and your family 🙏🙏. Your messages are so spiritual and deep, best believe it's shaking up the adversary. Keep pushing although I know it's not easy , it's so neccessary💪🏾🙏🙏💖🙌🏽
Cooking breakfast & listening! ✨
God bless You for this content.
It always makes me look deeper .
I watched relatives & friends settle choose willingly to be the other women over and over again.
And honestly I have played the field but I soon learned to walk away and not settle and to value myself more.
I stuck by someone on and off 18 years many of which I suffered oppression and depression wondering why I was never enough !
Not anymore God Ladies & gents you don't have to suffer or adapt to this foolery. (Mindset)
This is by far one of the realist videos that you have produced! I don’t even know which part to quote! This entire message is GOLD. I just hope that the majority of people listen, and take your advice. 🙌
When the devil can’t get to you spiritually he’ll work through someone to physically do something to you ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️ THIS THE TRUTH ‼️
This video was so so good! Black men, PLEASE heal! Until you do, you will not have access to me. I know who I am and whom I belong to. I am worthy to be 🧔🏾♂️ one and only! I am a👸🏽!!!
I don't have a problem with anyone being direct as long as you can also handle me being direct with you
Tony!! Your videos get better by the day!!!! I really appreciate your candor. Thank you for these gems!!!
Thank you Tony for another Great Message! I am sending prayers that God continues to give you strength and perseverance 🙏🏽
I’m a woman and I really appreciate what you say to men on your videos!! 🙌🏼
Yes Tony yesssssss! We are not to be compared to animals!!!! Thank you!!!
I pray Yah bless you and your family continually. May he continue to grant you wisdom beyond your years. We appreciate you, Tony!
Wondering video. Preach. I say it all the time ive never in my life seen a healed and healthy individual in an open relationship or poly relationship.
You will be in my Prayers Tony ! Thank you for being a servant /vessel 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Tony you are KING.
Thank you for your message
A powerful message sent by God thank you and continue doing an great job 👏👍
May the Lord Bless you and protect the truth you speak. May the Lord continue to speak truth for you and may He be glorified through your videos.
Coach Tony you are absolutely correct. God spoke this to me earlier this year. He told me that the African American race will become extinct. I have been praying for African Americans, especially men, all year.
STAY STRONG TONY, THIS IS JUST A OPPORTUNITY TO GROW STRONGER IN PRAYER AND TO ASK FOR MORE, BIGGER AND UNBELIEVABLE THINGS ‼️ GOD GOT YOU ‼️ KEEP WORKING ‼️
6:49 lions will also kill baby lion cubs in order to force the lioness to mate with them and produce more offspring after he murders them… but they seem to leave that part out for some reason.
Good Morning Coach TG...much love and respect to you for ALL of this knowledge that GOD bestowed upon you...❤💯🙏...may GOD forever bless you and your beautiful family...smile
Psy Major here: 93% of all poly relationships fail.
The blueprint that The Most High designed is one man, one woman. Both Adam and Eve were perfect in design and had bodies that lived almost a thousand years even after the fall. If multiple spouses were required at the beginning, surely The Creator, Architect, and Designer of the entire universe would have created and ordained that in the beginning. However, He created one man and one woman, and Adam reiterated and spoke that into the earth when he saw Eve. He said "This is bone of my bones, flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. Therefore, Shall A Man Leave His Father And His Mother, And Shall Cleave Unto His Wife: And They Shall Be One Flesh." Genesis 2:21-24 These men and women that Tony is speaking of operate out of their lower, lustful natures. And The Bible says"lust is never satisfied."
Preach!
Lord, I pray for my brother in Christ Tony & the Gaskin family. Please restore peace, communication, & understanding between them. Amen. 🙏🏾
Sister Wives on TLC is an example of a white man with multiple wives and it’s a hot mess. I also believe the Morman religion practices polygamy.
Like you said God want us to have one wife and one husband and not lust after another one he only want us eyes on a one spouse lust can leave you to sin and to death and we all have consequences
@tonygaskins544 I will be listening to all your videos😄
@tonygaskins544 good morning to you and your family all you going to sent videos to share
@tonygaskins544 do you still be on RUclips though
@tonygaskins544 do you have more videos to share
Keep moving forward Tony….The prayers of the righteous availeth much….Absolutely no weapon formed against you or your family shall prosper.
Excellent!
Continued Blessings Tony!
You are direct but not harsh!
You try to help and not hurt!
Thank you.
Say less Tony. Prayers up 🙏🏽 for you and all around you 💕
Great Message!🤎
Continued covering from the Most High God in Jesus Name.🙏🏽
Thanks Tony for continuing to spread your wisdom and requesting we all level up!
A round of applause 👏
Praying against any attack on you! ♥️The spiritual leader of the family has a great responsibility.
May God cover you and your family and marraige by the Blood of Jesus Christ. Your mind and your work and your future to be protected by the Redeeming Blood of Jesus Christ🙌 Continue on this journey, I speak blessings and success on your life and this ministry. Your ministry is directly from God and please continue in this 🙏 Strength to you 🙏
Mentor Tony preaching hard , thank you sir 👏🏾
Praying for you Tony and your family. Spiritual warfare is real. But God is greater and has defeated all of our enemies eternally. Never fret over temporary things and opposition.
God bless and strengthen you, Tony. Many relationship coaches do not ever truly share of their issues, their failings, etc. Who would have thought you were under attack by the adversary as much as you just shared here? Us viewers would never know, were it not for your forthrightness. Your work is appreciated.
@ 12:00 mark U speaking Yes Sur!! Most of us dont know how to relay wut we really wanna say from the heart. It shuld not feel good for you too hurt another. Check that. Im talking about all of us. Not pointing the finger. We all deal with this.
Rooting for you & your family!
Tony, keep doing the work! It's rough out here.
Mr. Gaskins 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏. Thank you for this.
The devil just mad bc Tony is letting The Lord use him in a mighty positive & influential way. Keep the faith and be strong in The Lord, Tony--keep it up! We appreciate you!💯💯👍🏼👍🏼
Yes the broken consciousness of man and woman. I can admit to the part I played with my ex. Lust was chased and I convinced myself it was okay and I would turn a blind eye to his nonsense. He wanted poly, I entertained the idea but a part of me started to despise him. I knew better I know God and He was most definitely chasing me still! Thank you Jesus for your grace! I am now content in my singleness and I coparent with him we have a 1 year old son. It was a struggle to get here I was so angry, our relationship became toxic in every way. We ended up in court for custody. I was so angry with him. BUT God. Only when I let the power of God do it did my situation truly changed. And everyday I have to make conscious decisions to keep on this way! I pray for Gods will to be done in his life now and that he may come to know and truly experience the life changing love of Jesus Christ!
I'm glad you said we shouldn't be compared to animals. I can't stand to hear humans have animal instincts. We have intuition. We have the ability to reason and decide on a proper mate. We get to choose.
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