You can get a less attractive man and when another woman aside from you shows him attention he’ll go wagging his tail over there. Can’t leave that list unchecked.
@Nia V The prize is a term, but if a woman chooses a man who provides both needs and wants a woman benefits. We are not talking about the non productive men. Men with means we don't care what a woman makes. We know that women won't and in many cases don't share what they earn. Men are providers solely for who we choose. Women benefit greatly if they choose the right man.
I keep telling ppl you should be attracted to your spouse. A lot of people are getting married and getting into relationships with folks they are not attracted to
I met a guy in college like 10 years ago & he was everything a man should be but I was not attracted to him & I felt so shallow because of it. We ran into each other 4 years ago & he was still the same guy but I still couldn't get past his looks 🤦🏾♀️
I think the compatibility zone is real and fluid to a degree. It changes as we get older, or at least it has for me. I tend to look at a man's spirit and heart. Lil ugly can be handsome from the inside out ☺️
Tony went off in the last minute 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 he sick of yall going off in the comments and talking about ads! Get 👏🏾your 👏🏾coins 👏🏾Tony👏🏾! I’m here for it!
It was the "She look like the Help, and he look like a dope boy/rapper" for me😂which means ✋ no compatibility😂. Tony we enjoy all your lessons & special effects😭🔥
This is a very important message, ladies! Sometimes you aren't a man you find handsome's "type." It might be hard to accept, but rather than see it as you are not beautiful enough for him, understand that there's a spiritual reason to it as well. If you can, then you will be able to open your eyes to the kind of men who are truly compatible with you, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. When I started to pay attention to the men I used to find handsome's type, I would realize those kind of men aren't the one I wanted anyway and it made me see that I wasn't understanding the Lord had a different kind of man in store for me. He wasn't going to look like what I had been brainwashed to think of as an attractive man in this world. It's not that he would be unattractive, but just different from the image in my mind... because most men who were my former "type" don't have the character I desired and weren't looks-compatible with me. And Tony is right: if you put a man's looks on a pedestal--in other words, if you think he is just so fine and feel he is way above you looks-wise--that likely is not the man for you. Be with a man you find attractive, but who is also looks-compatible with you (not someone you find otherworldly attractive or "little ugly" as Tony says, lol). When you mature, your type will evolve to fit what is true for you & if you're with someone who's looks-compatible with you, the attraction will be balanced as well. So the lesson in this is to be with someone who is compatible with you in the looks department while also being able to see beyond appearances. 🤵🏾🪞
This👆🏾. Although I am very confident in my appearance, some of the guys I have been attracted to in the past were not compatible with me. Looks compatibility was probably not the problem but their character was. I could tell we wouldn’t fit well together spiritually and mentally. I’ve always been a nerd and Ik I’m not compatible with a jock type.
@@kilimanjaro5537 Yeah, I've also realized someone may not be out of your league looks-wise but the looks and character may not match you. In other words, both of you may even be above average-looking but have totally different values.
This makes total sense, I can look at a very handsome man and think on a subconscious level, that we wouldn’t be compatible so I literally don’t pay attention to them. Even if they seem interested I can not get myself to imagine us together because of looks compatibility.
This video is hard truth to a lot of ladies... I used to listen to girls in college even now say what they want and I’m like girl he want someone on his level .. your a 5 he’s and 8... be realistic but girls don’t like to hear that.. they think I’m hating but I was trying to save their feelings now you can learn the hard way...
I’m not totally disagreeing with your comment however if God places two people together they’ll be together regardless of looks because it’s by spirit. I’ve witnessed this and have heard people stating that they weren’t initially attracted to their spouse. Also looks and beauty fades but character will be!
"You're not dating the Lord". Yooo I know you not trying to be funny Tony but I have to pause the video on you sometimes to get myself together. Thanks for all you do.
This is so true. My old personal trainer said he love him some BBW's who are dark skinned. I asked why? You're a whole trainer. He said growing up in the south that's all he seen not to mentioned his family (mom and sister) is like this as well. Here he is 6'1, body built figure but date and even married a BBW. So in his eyes that was beautiful. I feel like men who grow up around certain types (colors and sizes) tend to be attractive to that type. But some like "variety" and want to try different types as well.
Tony, every time I get discouraged about finding a relationship, I remember “ got to watch some of my life’s coaches videos” and once again you remind me of how much more I can do with my life, how far I can go. You make people believe in themselves. I know you are tired of giving so much, but believe me, this is changing lives, I pray God gives you the strength to continue. Know that your words are reaching many, even if there are many who still don’t get it and ask the same stupid questions on your q&a, I promise you , your wise words are mending those who actually LISTEN and humbly accept the truth. Thank you .
Idk if it’s just me but when you been with someone for a long time y’all do start looking like...Honestly speaking Tony you and you’re wife are a perfect match for each other y’all compliment each other so well I couldn’t imagine seeing you with someone other than her ❤️
Y'all gotta look at their parents too. Most of the time people are similar like their parents. Also, you have to pick someone who is put to together when you meet them so there is space for change. You can't get with someone who is already busted because most likely they will only look worse overtime.
I feel beauty is the eye of the beholder definitely. Being evenly yoked has little to do with looks (in my opinion), but simply what their spirit holds. There are some really good looking, nice job having, degreed UP men that I am simply not attracted to. Nothing wrong with them but I'm just not drawn to them. Pure attraction is such a tricky chemical and spiritual balance but it is something that's already programmed within you! I do believe that lust plays a huge factor in basic attraction, it changes as you grow but eventually water will find its own level.
That's right Tony! Make it 20 minutes and make your money!!! In the meanwhile, I'm learning everything I can. How to make better choices in men and how to conduct business! ❤
Lol!!! I loved this video because this is str8 facts and I hate when people say well you need to stop being picky and .......stop worrying about looks and what a man got.....(Clearing throat) .....In my Tony Voice "You must be Slap Crazy"
Right on mr. Gaskin I even feel upset that man I don't feel attracted try to talk to me and not just that but they act mad when you don't reciprocate the interest.😌🤔
Tony, Thank you for caring about all of us! May OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST BLESS ABUNDANTLY AND KEEP SAFE You Tony and Your Family members, Your Loved Ones in everything you do IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST!!! AMEN!!!!
In a world where people are honest with themselves and others, You’d never have to wonder; are they REALLY attracted to me? Are they just trying to use me? 🤦🏾♀️🤔 It’s really sad! But definitely something to consider when meeting people!
I am about to do the My Mentor and this is an amazing sign from God. I just so happen to be on my computer when I was looking at my budget for the class. I am so excited. Okay now I will pay attention to video.
@@sylviasalcedo8569 amen sis I receive that. I’m excited to share my testimony one day. Been studying Tony for two years and he and his wife have freed me so much. I’m excited to help others get there. Boom 💥 I’m praising God now. God is so good.
Tony Gaskins is telling the 100% truth. Back in highschool, most guys wouldn't try to talk to me because I was of a darker skin tone, but over the last couple of years as an adult, they flood my FB messages trying to holla. Their type didn't look my way back then, but as an adult they see I'm prosperous without baggage and they want to get on my level and be with me. I TURN THEM DOWN EVERYTIME. "Now I'm hot, they all on me. Back then, they didn't want me!" 😋
I almost lost it... You're not dating the Lord! We should examine how we are being treated and not fantasize how we want to be treated! Thanks TG I'm learning so much from your videos! God Bless you
Everybody always says I'm attracted to ugly dudes lol but this is so true because every guy I did date always was in amazement about the way I looked, I thought it was a bit creepy.
My opinion is,the first thing you see is how a man or woman look. It's not until you have been talking with the person you can find out about him or her. It's not the first time you are talking with him or her, everyone has a mask of how they are,the truth about how they really are, can show up much later. Because of that it's so hard to know if you met the one who you really want to spend the rest of your life with ☺️
I remember when I was younger this very nice looking pastor, married this looks challenged lady (respectfully) . So I use to think maybe some ppl don’t see looks 😕 lies. Later found out he was a brokey and she owned land and had a lot of connections. Good looking men rarely date a ugly women unless she benefits them. Now women they’ll date a lil ugly 🙄 not me . He gotta be handsome and a lil ugly for me to date him 😂
They not looks compatible. She was already an associate at a big law firm when he came as a summer intern. She was his boss. She went to high school with Jesse Jackson's daughter. She had the connections & he wanted to get into politics. In fact, all of his girlfriends when Barack was younger and in college were well to do white women. As Tony says who was Barack checking for in high school and in college? White girls like Genevieve Cook. He proposed to Shelia Miyoshi Jager twice but her parents wouldn't allow it b/c she was too young. He begged her to come to Harvard with him. He met Michelle & knew to have a non-black spouse would not help him become president if he wanted to identify with African Americans. However, Michelle was the 1st black woman Barack ever dated!
Yes!!! I've had noticed this compatibility looks in the past, your soul mate looks like you, like if the 2 are bother and sister, twins ☺ I thought I was crazy in noticing this 😂
As a married woman my compatability zone are other married Christian women that are into fitness,eats healthy,doesn't use foul language,has a daughter(s) around my daughters age,are encouraging,are prayer warriors,embraces their natural beauty,very cheerful like Myra from Family Matters,are invitive,can drive her husbands vehicle(s)are grateful,loves to converse by phone more than just text,are stay at home wives,are confident,looks better than me physically,are honest,apologetic&forgiving.😀🙂😃
Wow! Tony nothing like a old fool. This really hit home. I was attractive to my husband mind but in the end he was using all the time. I am going to be single soon. Thank you for the truth.
I don't agree . A couple may not appear compatible to the outside world but they can find commonalities and compatibility once they get to know each other. Interracial dating spans the color spectrum.
Again Tony you are always on time! I have become more hopeful lately because I am seeing more & more examples of differing “compatibility zones” and I started to think maybe guys are becoming more humble & acknowledging nobody is perfect. I hear your perspective and I’m thinking it’s about 50/50 there are exceptions and there are guys looking for a come up of some sort. Pray for discernment ladies!
Now that I'm divorced my ex husband have completely changed.. he's with a white woman, and from the sounds of things she pays for everything.. Which I do know she makes more money than I did. I only know that because I'm the 4yrs we've been apart, we talked daily, all day, until I ended the conversations at the begining of covid. I felt it wasn't fair to have so much of my time and use me as emotional support when that's what she's supposed to be for. Once I did that he grew angry and short when we do see each other ( due to child visitations). I discovered that he wasn't with me for love and told me he never wanted to get married in the first place... But we made a child and he thought he would go ahead and marry me because he could not afford child support. I gave my all and raised his son, as he was a single dad prior . It turns out he was only looking for a roommate he could bed. It's taken me 4yrs and counseling to try to heal and I still have moments I get angry.. But I stay faithful in my 4yr celibacy. I've finally reached a point where I don't have anger in my heart towards strangers and want to have someone in my life... But it looks like I will be celibate longer since we're dealing with covid... 🤷
Well, I know you should be attracted to the man, but the women are right. Keep basing everything off physical attraction alone and you'll never get it right. Who cares if he is fine when he treats you like trash. How he treats you and his character is more important than looks.
To anyone who complains about the ads, I got premium RUclips for free for three months. I don't know if I'll keep it, but it has been glorious. I remember when youtube first came out and it was just brave people putting themselves out there for fun. But it's monetized now, which makes sense because like Tony said, these people are giving us their time. Time is money but even more importantly, time given to us is time taken away from their life.
I had a "friend" that told me I wasn't good enough for her cousin who was a star football player 😑 it hurt my feelings but the funny is that he turned into a dope boy who ended up in and out of jail 💁🏾♀️
Thats why you need to become what you want to attract.
Yes ! Best comment 👌 👏
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This is so true girrrrl okayyyyyy
I stopped watching comedy and started listening to Tony 😄😭🙆🏾
I’m learning and laughing at the same time 😂
Same here!😂
I dont want a man more attractive than me, otherwise he will think he’s the prize.
Hello!
Thats not always true.
You can get a less attractive man and when another woman aside from you shows him attention he’ll go wagging his tail over there. Can’t leave that list unchecked.
@Nia V The prize is a term, but if a woman chooses a man who provides both needs and wants a woman benefits. We are not talking about the non productive men. Men with means we don't care what a woman makes. We know that women won't and in many cases don't share what they earn. Men are providers solely for who we choose. Women benefit greatly if they choose the right man.
@Aminah Ali Why not a handsome man then?
Tony stays inventing new terminology!! He needs his own dictionary 😆!! The Compatibility Zone is REAL ❗️
Best one is looks challenged and loose booty 901
This man is a living genius
Your man need to look like a set of binoculars 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m going to start saying “ you are uniquely designed by the lord” 😅
I was thinking this the other day. His new book should be Tony's Dictionary. (Ima get a book soon as I move to my new address)
This is true, scripture says that man judges the outward appearance but The Lord judges the heart.
💯💯💯
Oohhh so true
Yes. Like how this ex friend is not in love with my low voice. Totally not compatible.
I swear this man saves me from a heartbreak
I keep telling ppl you should be attracted to your spouse. A lot of people are getting married and getting into relationships with folks they are not attracted to
They're brave lol
Only a broke woman would lay down with someone theyre not attracted to
It's a lie we flirt with ....in my 20s I tried dating "ugly guys" to see if they would appreciate me more than attractive guys....it didn't work
@Kellee Avery I figured give them a shot....gurl lol
I met a guy in college like 10 years ago & he was everything a man should be but I was not attracted to him & I felt so shallow because of it. We ran into each other 4 years ago & he was still the same guy but I still couldn't get past his looks 🤦🏾♀️
“Women do not want to hear, his type is not attractive to your type.” TG
I think the compatibility zone is real and fluid to a degree.
It changes as we get older, or at least it has for me.
I tend to look at a man's spirit and heart. Lil ugly can be handsome from the inside out ☺️
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You are right I rather be by myself before i be with somebody that want to take advantage of me
Tony went off in the last minute 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 he sick of yall going off in the comments and talking about ads! Get 👏🏾your 👏🏾coins 👏🏾Tony👏🏾! I’m here for it!
It was the "She look like the Help, and he look like a dope boy/rapper" for me😂which means ✋ no compatibility😂. Tony we enjoy all your lessons & special effects😭🔥
Tew funny smh🤣🤣🤣
I couldn’t even 😭😄😄🙆🏾
Yeah I got out my popcorn 🍿🥤🍫😂
This is a very important message, ladies!
Sometimes you aren't a man you find handsome's "type." It might be hard to accept, but rather than see it as you are not beautiful enough for him, understand that there's a spiritual reason to it as well. If you can, then you will be able to open your eyes to the kind of men who are truly compatible with you, physically, emotionally, and spiritually.
When I started to pay attention to the men I used to find handsome's type, I would realize those kind of men aren't the one I wanted anyway and it made me see that I wasn't understanding the Lord had a different kind of man in store for me. He wasn't going to look like what I had been brainwashed to think of as an attractive man in this world. It's not that he would be unattractive, but just different from the image in my mind... because most men who were my former "type" don't have the character I desired and weren't looks-compatible with me.
And Tony is right: if you put a man's looks on a pedestal--in other words, if you think he is just so fine and feel he is way above you looks-wise--that likely is not the man for you.
Be with a man you find attractive, but who is also looks-compatible with you (not someone you find otherworldly attractive or "little ugly" as Tony says, lol).
When you mature, your type will evolve to fit what is true for you & if you're with someone who's looks-compatible with you, the attraction will be balanced as well.
So the lesson in this is to be with someone who is compatible with you in the looks department while also being able to see beyond appearances. 🤵🏾🪞
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This👆🏾. Although I am very confident in my appearance, some of the guys I have been attracted to in the past were not compatible with me. Looks compatibility was probably not the problem but their character was. I could tell we wouldn’t fit well together spiritually and mentally. I’ve always been a nerd and Ik I’m not compatible with a jock type.
@@kilimanjaro5537 Yeah, I've also realized someone may not be out of your league looks-wise but the looks and character may not match you. In other words, both of you may even be above average-looking but have totally different values.
Not equally yoked financially equals deal breaker. Definitely one of my greatest mistakes.
This makes total sense, I can look at a very handsome man and think on a subconscious level, that we wouldn’t be compatible so I literally don’t pay attention to them. Even if they seem interested I can not get myself to imagine us together because of looks compatibility.
Omg same with me 😅
Yes, I thought I was the only one.
Truth. And the “truth will hurt you before it helps you.” 💯 so ...bring on the truth. ✨✨
We gotta get Tony a charger so these videos can be longer 😂
Stay in your league, you ain't dating the Lord. Amen!! 😭😂😂
In summary, “Y’all do not go together good.” Lol.
"Uniquely designed by the Lord!!" 😂😂😂
I laughed so hard, my stomach hurting;)
😂😂😂😂😂😂
This video is hard truth to a lot of ladies... I used to listen to girls in college even now say what they want and I’m like girl he want someone on his level .. your a 5 he’s and 8... be realistic but girls don’t like to hear that.. they think I’m hating but I was trying to save their feelings now you can learn the hard way...
I’m not totally disagreeing with your comment however if God places two people together they’ll be together regardless of looks because it’s by spirit. I’ve witnessed this and have heard people stating that they weren’t initially attracted to their spouse. Also looks and beauty fades but character will be!
Sometimes they don't even be the 8 ,the girl be the 8 & he a damn 2
Theresa Murphy faxxxx
Book smart and street smart relationships need a lot of work and a lot of compromise. Take it from me..... don’t waste your time.
Yesss!!
You took the words right out of my mouth. Been there. Done that. Never again. Too much work and not enough reward.
Very true!
Right! Too much work
i don't understand this statement. I guess education levels??? because I have both.
People always say it's superficial to be concerned about looks! I'm so glad you're talking about this!
This man has the uncanny ability to speak the truth and make you laugh like crazy at the same time.
"You're not dating the Lord". Yooo I know you not trying to be funny Tony but I have to pause the video on you sometimes to get myself together. Thanks for all you do.
Hello and absolutely!!
Facts. I be dying laughing!!!!!!! So much truth and I love each and every moment.
This messed me up 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is so true. My old personal trainer said he love him some BBW's who are dark skinned. I asked why? You're a whole trainer. He said growing up in the south that's all he seen not to mentioned his family (mom and sister) is like this as well. Here he is 6'1, body built figure but date and even married a BBW. So in his eyes that was beautiful. I feel like men who grow up around certain types (colors and sizes) tend to be attractive to that type. But some like "variety" and want to try different types as well.
Please explain what BBW means-I'm Jamaican
@@julietjohnsonclarke3941 Big Black Women
@@julietjohnsonclarke3941 BBW.....Big Beautiful Woman
@@julietjohnsonclarke3941 lol Big Beautiful Women
Great message! Had me rolling on the floor towards the end. My boi be going thru it in the comment sections! 😂😂😂
Why did the beginning sound like the plot of a Tyler Perry movie?
🤣🤣🤣🤣
It was A fall from grace 😂
I had to listen to the end twice 😂😂😩😩 “y’all go to your job for free” 😂😩
Tony, every time I get discouraged about finding a relationship, I remember “ got to watch some of my life’s coaches videos” and once again you remind me of how much more I can do with my life, how far I can go. You make people believe in themselves. I know you are tired of giving so much, but believe me, this is changing lives, I pray God gives you the strength to continue. Know that your words are reaching many, even if there are many who still don’t get it and ask the same stupid questions on your q&a, I promise you , your wise words are mending those who actually LISTEN and humbly accept the truth. Thank you .
Basically TONY is saying know your lane and stay in it!! Because everyone ain’t yo match
This video came right on time , I’m so focus on myself and want to be with someone that is equally yoke instead of trying to attract confusion .
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Idk if it’s just me but when you been with someone for a long time y’all do start looking like...Honestly speaking Tony you and you’re wife are a perfect match for each other y’all compliment each other so well I couldn’t imagine seeing you with someone other than her ❤️
Not the Help TG😂😂😂😂
He is sooo funny I just crack up each video 🤦🏽♀️😂
@@msdenise218 Me too. His wisdom and knowledge is one of a kind. But Hilarious!!!
Exactly🤣 Viola with Lil Baby😩
@@kikic7637 😂😭🤣🤣🤣
Like why?! 🥴🤣🤣
Agreed, and everyone “carries” themselves on different levels as well
I am so happy this is an amazing community. Boom
Y'all gotta look at their parents too. Most of the time people are similar like their parents. Also, you have to pick someone who is put to together when you meet them so there is space for change. You can't get with someone who is already busted because most likely they will only look worse overtime.
I feel beauty is the eye of the beholder definitely. Being evenly yoked has little to do with looks (in my opinion), but simply what their spirit holds.
There are some really good looking, nice job having, degreed UP men that I am simply not attracted to. Nothing wrong with them but I'm just not drawn to them. Pure attraction is such a tricky chemical and spiritual balance but it is something that's already programmed within you!
I do believe that lust plays a huge factor in basic attraction, it changes as you grow but eventually water will find its own level.
I definitely feel the same way I’m not attracted to those types of men.
That's right Tony! Make it 20 minutes and make your money!!! In the meanwhile, I'm learning everything I can. How to make better choices in men and how to conduct business! ❤
This video is straight comedy 😂
Lol!!! I loved this video because this is str8 facts and I hate when people say well you need to stop being picky and .......stop worrying about looks and what a man got.....(Clearing throat) .....In my Tony Voice "You must be Slap Crazy"
Right on mr. Gaskin I even feel upset that man I don't feel attracted try to talk to me and not just that but they act mad when you don't reciprocate the interest.😌🤔
In other words, I keep attracting Bums because I am a Bum... ok got it 👌🏾 Let me go book a life coach so that I can get my life together 😩😩
Tony, Thank you for caring about all of us!
May OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST BLESS ABUNDANTLY AND KEEP SAFE You Tony and Your Family members, Your Loved Ones in everything you do IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST!!!
AMEN!!!!
In a world where people are honest with themselves and others, You’d never have to wonder; are they REALLY attracted to me? Are they just trying to use me? 🤦🏾♀️🤔 It’s really sad! But definitely something to consider when meeting people!
Speak Tony!! I see it all the time...especially with older men and younger women. And not just older, but older and looks challenged/out of shape. 🧐😕
I am about to do the My Mentor and this is an amazing sign from God. I just so happen to be on my computer when I was looking at my budget for the class. I am so excited. Okay now I will pay attention to video.
Happy for you! God will bless and give you increase!
@@sylviasalcedo8569 amen sis I receive that. I’m excited to share my testimony one day. Been studying Tony for two years and he and his wife have freed me so much. I’m excited to help others get there. Boom 💥 I’m praising God now. God is so good.
God bless you Sis
Tony Gaskins is telling the 100% truth. Back in highschool, most guys wouldn't try to talk to me because I was of a darker skin tone, but over the last couple of years as an adult, they flood my FB messages trying to holla. Their type didn't look my way back then, but as an adult they see I'm prosperous without baggage and they want to get on my level and be with me. I TURN THEM DOWN EVERYTIME. "Now I'm hot, they all on me. Back then, they didn't want me!" 😋
Here to learn. Thank you again Uncle Tony.
I almost lost it... You're not dating the Lord!
We should examine how we are being treated and not fantasize how we want to be treated! Thanks TG I'm learning so much from your videos! God Bless you
Everybody always says I'm attracted to ugly dudes lol but this is so true because every guy I did date always was in amazement about the way I looked, I thought it was a bit creepy.
When he say you just like to 🗣ARGUH! I fall out every time😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Tony you’re comparison is Hilarious 😂😂😂
My opinion is,the first thing you see is how a man or woman look.
It's not until you have been talking with the person you can find out about him or her.
It's not the first time you are talking with him or her, everyone has a mask of how they are,the truth about how they really are, can show up much later.
Because of that it's so hard to know if you met the one who you really want to spend the rest of your life with ☺️
True
We in this thanggg! Notification gang⚡️
I remember when I was younger this very nice looking pastor, married this looks challenged lady (respectfully) . So I use to think maybe some ppl don’t see looks 😕 lies. Later found out he was a brokey and she owned land and had a lot of connections. Good looking men rarely date a ugly women unless she benefits them. Now women they’ll date a lil ugly 🙄 not me . He gotta be handsome and a lil ugly for me to date him 😂
'Compatibility Zone' sounds like a book! Great upload!
Just like Barack and Michelle. Perfect combo
They not looks compatible. She was already an associate at a big law firm when he came as a summer intern. She was his boss. She went to high school with Jesse Jackson's daughter. She had the connections & he wanted to get into politics. In fact, all of his girlfriends when Barack was younger and in college were well to do white women. As Tony says who was Barack checking for in high school and in college? White girls like Genevieve Cook. He proposed to Shelia Miyoshi Jager twice but her parents wouldn't allow it b/c she was too young. He begged her to come to Harvard with him. He met Michelle & knew to have a non-black spouse would not help him become president if he wanted to identify with African Americans. However, Michelle was the 1st black woman Barack ever dated!
You know its going to be a good video if Tony gets on and says he doesn't have much time!! 🤣🤣
All knowledge!!! Definitely appreciate this ‼️this is our men all day and tony is right on point
You just took Equally Yoked to whole new Level😃😃. We are learning!
That can vary regionally at times. Folks that dont match in DC do in San Diego. See it with my own eyes.
Always good advice
Yes!!! I've had noticed this compatibility looks in the past, your soul mate looks like you, like if the 2 are bother and sister, twins ☺ I thought I was crazy in noticing this 😂
Tony is the only person that gives you a lesson & humor at the same time! It's natural for him 🤣🤣🤣
We as women fall for the Yokie Dok all the time you keep it real all the time I love it...
As a married woman my compatability zone are other married Christian women that are into fitness,eats healthy,doesn't use foul language,has a daughter(s) around my daughters age,are encouraging,are prayer warriors,embraces their natural beauty,very cheerful like Myra from Family Matters,are invitive,can drive her husbands vehicle(s)are grateful,loves to converse by phone more than just text,are stay at home wives,are confident,looks better than me physically,are honest,apologetic&forgiving.😀🙂😃
Wow! Tony nothing like a old fool. This really hit home. I was attractive to my husband mind but in the end he was using all the time. I am going to be single soon. Thank you for the truth.
Tony, PLEASE make a longer video about this! 🙌🏾
I don't agree . A couple may not appear compatible to the outside world but they can find commonalities and compatibility once they get to know each other. Interracial dating spans the color spectrum.
Looks isn’t such a big deal tho! As long as he confident!
As long as he has a job and willing to bring something to the table that's all that matters
@@djackson2243 how does what fit for me?
Again Tony you are always on time! I have become more hopeful lately because I am seeing more & more examples of differing “compatibility zones” and I started to think maybe guys are becoming more humble & acknowledging nobody is perfect. I hear your perspective and I’m thinking it’s about 50/50 there are exceptions and there are guys looking for a come up of some sort. Pray for discernment ladies!
This video right here!!!! Please know your Compatibility Zone plain and simple
"Zerothousand" LMAO...I love all these sayins
EVERYONE has preferences! Regardless of where you were raised. Everyone has a type. Right on though Tony. Tell the UGLY TRUTH!!
I know somebody just like this. You’d think she would have learned 25 years ago the first time he dogged her. But that’s thirsty for you.
Thank you Tony, your truly a blessing to society 🙏💯💪
This is so true! Meanwhile the Mike Jones song started to play in my head!
It ain’t bout dat but it is bout that ‼️‼️
😂😂😂😂 Binoculars......you a mess . 😂 Be Blessed.
Loose Booty Keisha😂😂😂😂😂
I mean come on Tony. OHHHH NOOOO
If the phone cut off, the video just gonna be short... (pier-re-odd) 😂😂
Compatibility Zone! That's the word y'all, take it and run with it! Stay in yo' zone👊🏿
Amen🙏🏼thank Mr. Gaskins bless you & the family
Now that I'm divorced my ex husband have completely changed.. he's with a white woman, and from the sounds of things she pays for everything.. Which I do know she makes more money than I did. I only know that because I'm the 4yrs we've been apart, we talked daily, all day, until I ended the conversations at the begining of covid. I felt it wasn't fair to have so much of my time and use me as emotional support when that's what she's supposed to be for. Once I did that he grew angry and short when we do see each other ( due to child visitations). I discovered that he wasn't with me for love and told me he never wanted to get married in the first place... But we made a child and he thought he would go ahead and marry me because he could not afford child support. I gave my all and raised his son, as he was a single dad prior
. It turns out he was only looking for a roommate he could bed.
It's taken me 4yrs and counseling to try to heal and I still have moments I get angry.. But I stay faithful in my 4yr celibacy. I've finally reached a point where I don't have anger in my heart towards strangers and want to have someone in my life... But it looks like I will be celibate longer since we're dealing with covid... 🤷
“Yo man need to look like binoculars” amen Tony 😂
This video just reminded me to NOT settle !!!! Amen! Thank you Tony
Tony you should charge people for compatibility evaluations! 😂 I’d surly pay for that! 🙌🏿
I’ve had Older Women at my job tell me don’t worry about the looks. Marriage is for security, how he treats you and takes care of you... 🤦🏾♀️ 😩🥴
Lawd, they still operating from a place of oppression too.
@@talicialee 😂
Well, I know you should be attracted to the man, but the women are right. Keep basing everything off physical attraction alone and you'll never get it right. Who cares if he is fine when he treats you like trash. How he treats you and his character is more important than looks.
To anyone who complains about the ads, I got premium RUclips for free for three months. I don't know if I'll keep it, but it has been glorious. I remember when youtube first came out and it was just brave people putting themselves out there for fun. But it's monetized now, which makes sense because like Tony said, these people are giving us their time. Time is money but even more importantly, time given to us is time taken away from their life.
Thank you Tony. Appreciate these gems of wisdom. 🇿🇦🙏🏾
I had a "friend" that told me I wasn't good enough for her cousin who was a star football player 😑 it hurt my feelings but the funny is that he turned into a dope boy who ended up in and out of jail 💁🏾♀️
I love Tony Gaskin and his videos. He gives us women great advice. He actually cares for us not to get hurt by men who don’t deserve us.
Got to admit it, I got a thing for guys with brown eyes and beards...tho at my age, its more like brown eyes and grey beards! 😂😂😂
Thank you for the transparency Tony Amen.
Really you may my day 😂😂😂😂😂 . At the end of the video I busted out laughing
I took time to grow into my looks , you hear me ( tony voice ) .. i need to find out what my compatibly zone is forreal 😫😫😫
Grown boys have looked at me because i have my own and they have nothing. Not own my level!!!!!
The ending took me out 😂 not Uncle Tony going off! Another day, another great message
I’m done with Tony G😂🤣. Nothing but the truth but too funny!!!
So correct. Must be equally yoked. Thanks for all the information, Tony. Your the most helpful guy for girls like us. Amen.