I’m glad I watched this video, I’m hurting by my husbands unfaithfulness. He’s cheating and still cheating. I can’t believe I Ioved him even when he takes off his wedding ring each time he’s cheating on me.😭😭😭😭
In the words of Jonny Depp...’if you love two people choose the second, because if you really loved the first you wouldn’t have fallen in love with the second to begin with’
Choose the second one? Yes because relationships and love are a competition in committed relationships. In that case the "chosen" one will be back in competition in not time....again 💅
I swear i agree with that. Trust me i have two wives and i have children from both and i do love them. What can i do about it? I do love them both i care for them and care for my children. Am a polygamous
Don't you Ever in your life talk to a man who is talking to other women..... As soon as you hear him talking to other women PACK your bags and leave.... You hear Me, I hear you, Tony
There ain't gonna b no bags to pack cos if we ain't married we ain't gonna b living in the same house and if we is married...he gon do the packing and leaving ....point blank period !
If a man loves you rather you his girl friend, fiance or wife. Another woman shouldn't be an option. Don't entertain he selfish behavior. Love yourself. BE BLESSED 🙏🙏🙏
Wanting a man to yourself isn't being jealous; it's being territorial. Jealousy is wanting something that isn't yours, being territorial is protecting what is.
As soon as my husband and I became official one specific female friend became extremely jealous to the point we had to cut her off. My husband cut off all his friends just because I come first. PeriodT. He doesn’t regret it, he’s at home happy with me. We are each others best friends and that’s that. 💘
Yvonne Transformer Update : My problem is, he didn’t nor would he ever cut her off. Doesn’t even want to have boundaries when it comes to her. So it’s over. We’re done.
That means leave men alone altogether then cuz they all entertaining other women. A man will not put himself in a deficit when it comes to receiving attention & affection from a woman
JjWsgirl potz this was a direct quote from the video. However, what I infer Tony was saying is...that if a man really likes you/loves you/thinks you’re the one, he will drop any other women he may be entertaining, and focus only on you. If you are one of many, or if he is talking to you and other women at the same time, you are not the one and you should not continue to date him.
This man is the prime example of a man who is worth waiting for. We have to continue to wait in faith knowing that this type of Love is the real deal. Thanks Tony.
Tony did not get like this overnight, it was a process. As women we need to ask ourselves if we would be willing to take a mediocre man and mold him into a great man. Cuz it takes work to reach to the level Tony is at
God made me a jealous and selfish woman....if he wants to entertain another woman he can go right ahead. My heart and legs are shut, and I'm on to the next endeavor, period!! Be blessed🙏
Tamika Mayes Like I tell women and I’m 21 years old if a man want to entertain another woman “purposely” then it ain’t no sense of me getting jealous and getting into unnecessary battles which can alll be avoided. if he’s opening that door and entertaining her I’ll just step‼️ Now the only time I will get jealous of my husband because “he’s mine”is when he’s not opening that door for that other woman and he’s telling me that she’s trying to seduce him on so many levels so in that case I’m going to check her. Also if he’s naive and don’t even think to comprehend a woman trying to seduce him I’m going to tell him and I’m going to talk to them both for 1. So he can know what’s he’s dealing with and about to come up against and 2. To let her know to back off.
@@ci.ci.1998 The only people I would fight for are my children. Never over a man...... My jealousy and not wanting to share is why I wouldn't entertain a man as such. That includes my husband. Just saying!
Tamika Mayes Yeah I can see it from your perspective if he’s not putting you first then I’ll just focus on my kids and not him worry about him at all. But if he’s telling you that he’s doesn’t want that other woman then he’s yours all to yourself I’m not saying go crazy and keep him from associating with other women because they are going to be everywhere lol in the workplace etc As Long he know how to control himself around them.
Tony, I think this has been your best video yet! Everything you said is the absolute truth. This is exactly why I am divorced today. My ex put everyone before me, he even let his brothers disrespect me. That is when I knew that he did not love me. Ladies listen to Tony he is dropping some jewels. Be Blessed!!!
I appreciate this so much! My mom told me growing up as soon as you find out he’s talking to someone else excuse yourself from the situation, he’s not that into you...
That is literally the trick of the enemy, the devil wants you to believe the lie that men aren't made to love just one woman. This is a lie from the pit of hell. DEVIL YOU LIE!
Why are you accusing the devil of lying when is clearly the man that lied? By accusing the devil for the man's lies, you are absolving the man from his responsibility to tell the truth.
People think it is a joke when they allow these men and women to be with them and someone else, you could end up paying for someone's mistakes in a permanent way. HIV and all these other diseases are no joke, you can end up dying people, let's all get smarter in 2020 and pick better partners.
It's sad when the man/woman you're married to "lays it low and spreads it wide" with someone else and then expects you to "bust it open" for them! What the what?!!
Psychologist and Psychiatrist are constantly telling women that a man can love you and still cheat. Thank you for saying that it’s not possible, I have felt this way. I told my friend this and she said that her marriage counselor said, “he loves me, but he cheats because something is missing in our marriage.” Now this woman out here buying lingerie, taking pole dancing lessons and cooking lessons. Lawdy, lawdy help us! 🙏🏾
Yes, something is missing from her marriage ! .....LOVE! Lol. Some counselors make the situation worse, because they are trying to keep marriages together at all costs or the patients point the finger at counselor and say they suck and counseling didnt work. The people going have to be willing to change. Or no it wont work. Most men dont even love themselves, so how the hell are they supposed to love another?
...not IN love sis. Not the understanding you have. Anyone can love multiple things or people at once but not BE IN love with the multiple things or people. BIG DIFFERENCE. Wanted to emphasize 👌!
39:12 💀😂😂 I’m laughing but in all honesty it’s sad. We’ve gotta do better and raise our standards. Everyone’s situation is different... My last relationship and dealings w that person was NOT a smart decision on my part. I won’t sit up here and throw him under the bus because I chose to deal w him... but he “forgets” he WILL be held accountable even if he chooses not to be. Continues to live his life disregarding God and what’s right. But that situation taught me what I DO NOT want... and made me focus on loving and taking care of myself more. LOVE IS What love does. Love is not neglectful and careless either. Single until my heart gets what it deserves. Thank you Tony🙏🏽
Raised with three brothers; getting more knowledge from this messages Tony will never know how much he is helping me. Ordering my book can’t wait what wife says. Be blessed
The only other woman a man supposed love is his mother if not his mother his daughter and will whip butt about his daughter that unconditional love... No man in a relationship should be entertaining another woman if he doesn’t want his woman entertaining another man.. Periodt.. Love the content in your video
For real. A middle eastern man once told me he had several wives because he could afford to provide for them. It’s not my thing but I kind of respected him for that.
When you start doing the impressions. I can't I fall out laughing every time! You are speaking straight facts! My cousin who is about 17 years older than me (I'm 36 and shes 53) said something like what you said: She said I don't care if my man cheats as long as he still gives me money and respects me enough to use a condom (insert, hand on my head emoji). I thought, she needs therapy! You confirmed this for me. Be BLESSED!
If you are talking to a man that's talking to multiple women or hanging out with his baby mama, lace up your track shoes and start running, don't even stretch. I got it Tony. I'm one of God's daughters and He has a whole man just for me. Be Blessed!
When you are truly in love with your spouse you can't even think of or image yourself seeing someone else. I think some people get lust and love confused .ijs
The guy I was with said he “love me” then confessed that he’s starting to fall “in love with me” we’re 3 months in.. yet he’s still entertaining his “bms” and his female “bestie” lol... love is an action word! Needless to say, I broke it off last night. I’m not Competing with Any One but the old Me.
Yes, you hit this out the park. A man who is truly in love with you, the thought of entertaining another woman won’t happen. He’ll make sure his wife and his seeds are provided for, without being told to do this. Just know, TG, Mrs. Gaskins will not be the only one with a whole man to herself. I’m claiming it and already put it out there in the universe. I am a child of the most highest god. I definitely know my worth and full value.
Thank you Tony. I just found out my husband of 9yrs is cheating on me. While he was at work I put all of his things outside on the Porch, change all my the locks on the door and told his ass he is no longer welcome in this house. He tried to tell me he want to come and do this and do that. I said not even in garage that he is welcome back in my home. I'm waiting for the courts to open to file for divorce. Nope I love him but I love me more. Not putting up with that crap.
Let that damn man be and why even entertain a fool who don't even know what he wants. I refuse to lower myself to such foolery. He can keep them diseases to himself.
Be blessed. Tony when I say you’ve been hitting the nail on the head with these videos I can’t even tell you. Free coaching praise be to God. Tony may you be blessed beyond measure all the days of your life. May your wife and your children and your children’s children be blessed all the days of their lives in Jesus name.
Yo....you are hysterical!!!! I’m crying 😂😂😂😂😂. You ain’t Never lie. You helping someone right now. I Pray they listen to you. Keep giving what God gives you. Peace & Bessings
BIG FACTS BROTHER TONY! If I Even Suspect he's with someone else, I am O-U-T, track shoes, heals, slides, Barefoot! I am to be the Only one. If I choose to be with only one, he Must reciprocate...I will wait. Only need one! Thank you for honesty and Keeping It REEEAAAL.✌🙏❤🌻
I found out last summer while I was pregnant with my son that my ex is in a relationship with his ex, with who he has a daughter with. He left me while finding out we weer expecting. I didnt about her, because otherwise I would leave him . He wouldnt let me go and hid my pregnancy from everybody in his family. When his ex now girlfriend heard about it. She went along with him and is now expecting a baby herself. Our children are 4 monts apart. Also I just recently found out they were already together when we were in a relationship taking holidays etc. For me I am very angry, but I need to heal and be happy for my kids. I will never tolerante this narcissist again.
I know you speaking truth. One of my ex a few years ago explained this exact thing to me, even after his divorced because she cheated but never stop loving her. Unfortunately many women still go thru and try to compete over the same man who don't give 2 f's. Real stuff, but I have some of my girlfriends playing the game, have 2 men fighting for her a mess. Be Blessed
I believe EVERY BIT of this! A man will let any and everything happen to you when they don't love or give a crap about you! Big Facts! Don't even bother dealing with him if he can't choose you over anybody else and especially if he DOES NOT HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD. He's damaged goods until GOD makes him a man!
When he's not in love with you, he will steal your rent money, and let you get evicted with two babies on your hips, with nowhere to go yeah story of my past life, but God has established me and ain't never had rent issues 15 years now. Listen to the man of God so that you don't fall for those snares.
@@true4585 Good black men such as myself force black women to look in the mirror and be accountable. And we don't feed their need for drama. I'm a black man that most black women don't like.
I am glad you brought up levels to this thing. The Bible made these things clear. I pray people seek enlightenment. Don't let a man water a lawn where he does not care for. So on the phone call each woman is telling the other what each one needs to hear. Treating women liked rotated tires.
I think when you allow your spouse to sleep around your self esteem is at rock bottom and usually the man know it and that's why men can only behave this way with certain women.
Tony.....you said a MOUTHFUL!!! Any man who has the audacity to feel as if a good woman is expendable because they’ve been dealing with women who accept less than their worth....is NOT WORTH IT!!! A man who truly loves a woman WILL NOT!!! Walk away ladies. Know your worth!!!
Your so right. One of my greatest pet peeves is my husband of 27years never defended me through words or deeds and he cheated all of those years while we raised 5 children and he made more children outside of us, thus I'm divorcing him and he can't believe I'm done with him. I have men friends and my brothers and uncles who have went to war for me physically and verbally. But my husband left me out on a limb to be slayed. Smh, it's the truth.
Lust yeah, love, NO!!!! More than likely he don’t really love himself because if he knows what real love is he is Godly, and messiness is far removed from the Lord.
😂😂😂 while I’m watching this the entire time I’m 😂😂😂. This is so true. Everything you said is so true. I’ve had disagreements over this in my younger years but all I had to do was keep on living and the proof was there.
This is why I had to stop communicating with this man who claimed to want to be with me, but had a closer than close relationship with his child’s mother. It’s fine that they didn’t hate each other but something in my gut said that he was still in love with her. Be blessed tony.
The message is something I have needed to hear. I ended a relationship that was exactly what Tony is talking about. I feel at peace and know my worth! Moving forward with the rest of my life. Happy, single and blessed. So ladies know your worth and move on down the road if your man wants two women. That doesn’t make any sense and is completely unacceptable. So don’t accept it. Any man that doesn’t want just you isn’t worthy of you, your time, most importantly your love and affections.
Nope just not taught have to love God, themselves, and others properly. Most people live their life based off of what they see, or what they don't see unfortunately.
Tony said 😂🤣🤣🤣 saved, sanctified, and Holy Ghost filled I got to sit the the Holy Ghost down for a min and Lord I’ll be right back. I got to sit him down for a sec & pick the Holy Ghost back up 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
Tony thanks for all that you do. I was dating a guy that I found out wasn't truthful with me from the get go. When he knew I was in love with him,he thought he had me, it's because of watching your videos and the fact that he realized he couldn't play me for a fool anymore that he knew I was hip to his games. Some men will play you like a fiddle. If a woman doesn't know the game, it's like she's swimming with sharks.
I ain’t competing with nobody or fighting over no man. I wish I would argue with another woman over a man on the phone or anything else. I was married 20 something yrs and never went through that and I ain’t about to start.
A real man who knows the importance of being a real man will not stray , because his knows deep within his roll of protecting and being in love means . Tony has explained it perfectly. God bless you Tony
I had a guy tell me he was in love with me while entertaining another woman. I figured a man couldn't love two women at the same time because if he loved either one, there would be no room for three! Well said Tony, When a man truly loves you, he wont hurt you intentionally. 🙌🏽
That requires maturity, self control, self discipline. When a man cheats it has nothing to do with his wife, or dificiencys in his relationship at home. He is damaged from the environment he was raised in or what he saw or sees his peers do. It is not to excuse this behavior at all. He is not grounded and he has to grow up or keep it moving.
"Breaking news he does not love you"! LOL I wish I could get my cousin to watch you Tony, She has been with her kids father for 13 years but she says he has never cheated but the family knows he has because we know the girl. I told her she is a fool and to leave but every time she kicks him out he comes back and she lets him SMH.
Breaking news 😂😂😂😂 I’m over here dying. Thank youuuuuu Tony from Los Angeles. You done hit me straight between the eyes! I’m binge watching all your videos. Thanks for helping a sistah
I could have watched this for 2 hours! This is the BEST video you have ever done and that's saying a lot! I love how down to earth you are and how you tell it like it is, but it's your delivery that separates you from anyone else. I don't know if you intend for your videos to be funny, but the message is that much more impactful because your delivery is hilarious. I mean tears running down my face hilarious. I watch every video from beginning to end and they just keep getting better and better. Ladies, this man makes thousands of dollars for the knowledge he is dropping on us for FREE. Recognize and appreciate this public service.
Blessed Tribe! A man cries because of his on demise oooh! Do not ever compete with another woman ! If you hear about a woman it’s time to go! We don’t choose our parents, but we choose our spouse and children! God Bless you!
I went through this for 4yrs. I was so in denial because he kept telling me that she needed help and somewhere to stay because she was staying in her car. Me and the woman did speak but we still stayed because he continued to lie to us both. 6 months later me and her spoke again but this time we both decided to leave his ass alone because we both realized that he loves no one but himself. I respect this video because is so raw and honest. Thank you Tony ! I wish someone would have told me this 4 yrs ago. He can't love two women.... He doesn't no love you ! Queens
Tony be blessed! This message is so real!!!! I totally agree... it resonates with me on so many levels! I felt it in my soul when you said if he is seeing you and another woman, he loves you on the same level as his favorite pair of 🧦 !!! Lol! That is sad but so true! Thanks for all you do! We need to hear this truth!!!!
When Tony started imitating a conversation with two women arguing over the loser... I lost it😂🤣🤣🤣🤣. Wheeeww, we gotta do better as women... That is just ridiculous now
“DON’T EVER ENTERTAIN A MAN WHOSE ENTERTAINING OTHER WOMEN”- TONY GASKINS ( POINT BLANK PERIOOOOD)!
Lol🤣🤣🤣🤣🤩
You are absolutely right
I’m glad I watched this video, I’m hurting by my husbands unfaithfulness. He’s cheating and still cheating. I can’t believe I Ioved him even when he takes off his wedding ring each time he’s cheating on me.😭😭😭😭
"If you talking to a man and he also talking to another woman and you in competition with the other woman, he don't love either one of y'all."
Nontobeko Mncwabe wish my niece would understand this 🙄
TRUTH AF!
P-E-R-I-AAAD...
Say it again
And he’s selfish and greedy.
If a man has two women, he don’t deserve neither one ☝️ No way !!
In the words of Jonny Depp...’if you love two people choose the second, because if you really loved the first you wouldn’t have fallen in love with the second to begin with’
Das deep
He does not love either of them!
Father!!!
Choose the second one? Yes because relationships and love are a competition in committed relationships. In that case the "chosen" one will be back in competition in not time....again 💅
Good one!!
WHEN A MAN TRULY LOVES YOU AND IS IN LOVE WITH YOU, HE WILL NOT HURT YOU‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
AMEN!SO RIGHT!YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
I swear i agree with that. Trust me i have two wives and i have children from both and i do love them. What can i do about it? I do love them both i care for them and care for my children. Am a polygamous
That's no true
Lies, why you need to have 2 if the first one was enough. You just selfish need to satisfy your desires. About if you wifes have other men
If a Man says he loves two women he probably loves his self too much .. Selfish Greedy
Bingo
Terry Bolton That’s a very nice way to put it.🤬
BOOM 💥
To me he doesn't the meaning of be in love. He just loves WOMEN
I don’t think it’s even “Love” it’s LUST in my opinion. I hate how grown boys will look at women as possessions. It’s Heartless.
Don't you Ever in your life talk to a man who is talking to other women..... As soon as you hear him talking to other women PACK your bags and leave.... You hear Me, I hear you, Tony
There ain't gonna b no bags to pack cos if we ain't married we ain't gonna b living in the same house and if we is married...he gon do the packing and leaving ....point blank period !
💯🗣🗣
If a man loves you rather you his girl friend, fiance or wife. Another woman shouldn't be an option. Don't entertain he selfish behavior. Love yourself. BE BLESSED 🙏🙏🙏
Ever heard of a Narcissist?! These sad, sorry creatures really think that they can afford 2 women. SMH!!
@Geneva Sanders Not "shouldn't be an option," COULDN'T BE!!!
Wanting a man to yourself isn't being jealous; it's being territorial. Jealousy is wanting something that isn't yours, being territorial is protecting what is.
And a lot of diseases out there also
3 min into this video and im just tired of men all over again😓
I felt the same, it's sad times looking for a decent partner these days!
@@nickycurtis6378 it's sad looking for a partner who's not entertaining other people
Right! 😩
Stephanie Orona 😩😆
I so understand....
As soon as my husband and I became official one specific female friend became extremely jealous to the point we had to cut her off. My husband cut off all his friends just because I come first. PeriodT. He doesn’t regret it, he’s at home happy with me. We are each others best friends and that’s that. 💘
God bless you both!
Jade Dometita so awesome. My husband and I are divorcing over the his female friend. He chose that relationship over our 20 year marriage.
Yvonne Transformer Update : My problem is, he didn’t nor would he ever cut her off. Doesn’t even want to have boundaries when it comes to her. So it’s over. We’re done.
Everything he’s saying is TRUE!!
@Jessica Webb c
Don’t you ever compete with another woman! Say that Tony! Thank You & be blessed!
Sis they do compare with another. I dont like that at all....
Some people do not know the definition of love and will confuse it with lust.
True
Agreed
Exactly! So much so they spell it wrong..i.e LUV!!
Most*
People literally use “love” and “sex” interchangeably in songs and poems and literature, then people wonder why they’re confused Lol
“Don’t ever entertain a man, that’s entertaining other women.”
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That means leave men alone altogether then cuz they all entertaining other women. A man will not put himself in a deficit when it comes to receiving attention & affection from a woman
JjWsgirl potz this was a direct quote from the video. However, what I infer Tony was saying is...that if a man really likes you/loves you/thinks you’re the one, he will drop any other women he may be entertaining, and focus only on you. If you are one of many, or if he is talking to you and other women at the same time, you are not the one and you should not continue to date him.
Most black women sleeping with the same men.
Ever!!! Yes!!!
This man is the prime example of a man who is worth waiting for. We have to continue to wait in faith knowing that this type of Love is the real deal. Thanks Tony.
Agreed
Truth!!!
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Str8 truth good men out here
Tony did not get like this overnight, it was a process. As women we need to ask ourselves if we would be willing to take a mediocre man and mold him into a great man. Cuz it takes work to reach to the level Tony is at
Tony: “You hear meeeeeeeeee” You hear meeeeeeeeeee?
Everyone: “ YES TONY WE HEAR YOUUUUUUUUUUUU‼️‼️‼️‼️
Tish Cody Loud and clear 😂
We hear u brother Tony Gaskins
I love when he says that😂
😂😂😂😂😂
@Glamrocsmakeup yesssssss, good to me🤣🤣👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
33:35
“I will die for my wife..
now for another woman..?
Jesus died for you”😂😂😂
Let the church say Amen. 😂
I hollered😅😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂
Newday 2C yea for 21 years I’ve heard I die for you, now I guess he would die for a gf half his age 😏🤦🏻♀️🤷♀️🤣
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@@anyap3154 wow🥲
It's sex and a soul tie that makes a man thinks he is in love with two women. He don't love either one of them.
True!
Soulties are real
If you're man truly love you it will be only you 💞
Honey Latte ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
Perioooddddd!!
People can feel any way they want about anyone...but the important part is A man would not do anything to hurt someone he Big Loves!
God made me a jealous and selfish woman....if he wants to entertain another woman he can go right ahead. My heart and legs are shut, and I'm on to the next endeavor, period!! Be blessed🙏
Tamika Mayes Like I tell women and I’m 21 years old if a man want to entertain another woman “purposely” then it ain’t no sense of me getting jealous and getting into unnecessary battles which can alll be avoided. if he’s opening that door and entertaining her I’ll just step‼️ Now the only time I will get jealous of my husband because “he’s mine”is when he’s not opening that door for that other woman and he’s telling me that she’s trying to seduce him on so many levels so in that case I’m going to check her. Also if he’s naive and don’t even think to comprehend a woman trying to seduce him I’m going to tell him and I’m going to talk to them both for 1. So he can know what’s he’s dealing with and about to come up against and 2. To let her know to back off.
@@ci.ci.1998 The only people I would fight for are my children. Never over a man...... My jealousy and not wanting to share is why I wouldn't entertain a man as such. That includes my husband. Just saying!
Tamika Mayes Yeah I can see it from your perspective if he’s not putting you first then I’ll just focus on my kids and not him worry about him at all. But if he’s telling you that he’s doesn’t want that other woman then he’s yours all to yourself I’m not saying go crazy and keep him from associating with other women because they are going to be everywhere lol in the workplace etc As Long he know how to control himself around them.
I'm so there with you!
@@ci.ci.1998 Hi Tameka please listen to this over and over. Saying this out of love.
Tony, I think this has been your best video yet! Everything you said is the absolute truth. This is exactly why I am divorced today. My ex put everyone before me, he even let his brothers disrespect me. That is when I knew that he did not love me. Ladies listen to Tony he is dropping some jewels. Be Blessed!!!
Same reason I'm divorced. 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
@@Beautifullybyg It's hard out here, but I believe that God is with us no matter what! Be Blessed!
This is exactly why I am getting divorce. It took the Holy Spirit to slap me upside my head. Now he wants me back, NO THANK YOU!!!
Yes mam... my ex did me the exact same way... never understood why he did that
@@Beautifullybyg same thing
I appreciate this so much! My mom told me growing up as soon as you find out he’s talking to someone else excuse yourself from the situation, he’s not that into you...
DAM!!! LOOKING BACK HOW STUPID I WAS AND JUST SMDH!! THIS CAN'T REACH ME AGAIN LESSONS LEARNED
Stings 2kno I was dum
I'm aware I'll do bettr
Same here I was looking so stupid
I have the highest respect for you Tony. May God bless you, your wife and children always.
That is literally the trick of the enemy, the devil wants you to believe the lie that men aren't made to love just one woman. This is a lie from the pit of hell. DEVIL YOU LIE!
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@@neicylove820 its true, we forget that the devils job is to kill steal and destroy and he is good at his job!
Amen
Why are you accusing the devil of lying when is clearly the man that lied? By accusing the devil for the man's lies, you are absolving the man from his responsibility to tell the truth.
These men so broken by they parents 😭🌹That's why They can't or won't love no one
People think it is a joke when they allow these men and women to be with them and someone else, you could end up paying for someone's mistakes in a permanent way. HIV and all these other diseases are no joke, you can end up dying people, let's all get smarter in 2020 and pick better partners.
It's sad when the man/woman you're married to "lays it low and spreads it wide" with someone else and then expects you to "bust it open" for them! What the what?!!
You better tell em!
Niecy Love what?😌😂that’s a new one for me, I’m not catching whatever you got from them, bye boy!
@@simplyart24 lol
HPV
Psychologist and Psychiatrist are constantly telling women that a man can love you and still cheat. Thank you for saying that it’s not possible, I have felt this way. I told my friend this and she said that her marriage counselor said, “he loves me, but he cheats because something is missing in our marriage.”
Now this woman out here buying lingerie, taking pole dancing lessons and cooking lessons. Lawdy, lawdy help us! 🙏🏾
Yes, something is missing from her marriage ! .....LOVE! Lol. Some counselors make the situation worse, because they are trying to keep marriages together at all costs or the patients point the finger at counselor and say they suck and counseling didnt work. The people going have to be willing to change. Or no it wont work. Most men dont even love themselves, so how the hell are they supposed to love another?
After he drove that truck you think he is coming back here hell no
...not IN love sis. Not the understanding you have. Anyone can love multiple things or people at once but not BE IN love with the multiple things or people. BIG DIFFERENCE.
Wanted to emphasize 👌!
Pathetic
These "medical professionals" have to get paid too...
Liken to, can a man serve two Master's? No, he will love one and hate the other. ✌🏾
Teasha Stewart ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
Good point!
If he doing it to her he will do it to you...period
Amen
39:12 💀😂😂 I’m laughing but in all honesty it’s sad. We’ve gotta do better and raise our standards. Everyone’s situation is different... My last relationship and dealings w that person was NOT a smart decision on my part. I won’t sit up here and throw him under the bus because I chose to deal w him... but he “forgets” he WILL be held accountable even if he chooses not to be. Continues to live his life disregarding God and what’s right. But that situation taught me what I DO NOT want... and made me focus on loving and taking care of myself more. LOVE IS What love does. Love is not neglectful and careless either. Single until my heart gets what it deserves.
Thank you Tony🙏🏽
Raised with three brothers; getting more knowledge from this messages Tony will never know how much he is helping me. Ordering my book can’t wait what wife says. Be blessed
The only other woman a man supposed love is his mother if not his mother his daughter and will whip butt about his daughter that unconditional love... No man in a relationship should be entertaining another woman if he doesn’t want his woman entertaining another man.. Periodt.. Love the content in your video
🗣screaming: TONY!!! I know you've hurt some folks feelings with this good word..... ALL FACTS💯
Mines include but I'll keep my grown on top
Constructive criticism!!
"He gonna be in the Bahamas swimming in something other than water!"😂😂😂
Angie Dee 🤣🤣🤣
Lol!!! 😂😂😂
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Men can't afford two women
Men will always find a way to pay for what they want! Perrriooodddttt!
For real. A middle eastern man once told me he had several wives because he could afford to provide for them. It’s not my thing but I kind of respected him for that.
Meant to be that wau
😊😊😊😊😊😊😳😳😳😳💘 that note.
@@gma904 slap crazy
When you start doing the impressions. I can't I fall out laughing every time! You are speaking straight facts! My cousin who is about 17 years older than me (I'm 36 and shes 53) said something like what you said: She said I don't care if my man cheats as long as he still gives me money and respects me enough to use a condom (insert, hand on my head emoji). I thought, she needs therapy! You confirmed this for me. Be BLESSED!
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He love you like his favorite pair of socks and that’s why he change you out every couple of days-stanky feet 🤣😂
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The crazy thing is some don’t mind
Glamrocs Makeup you’re right and it’s very crazy. It’s some in the comments justifying it 🤦🏾♀️
Marisha Lewis I know 🤦🏾♀️
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If you are talking to a man that's talking to multiple women or hanging out with his baby mama, lace up your track shoes and start running, don't even stretch. I got it Tony. I'm one of God's daughters and He has a whole man just for me. Be Blessed!
When you are truly in love with your spouse you can't even think of or image yourself seeing someone else. I think some people get lust and love confused .ijs
Love your wife and love the other woman
Tony you are spot on in the video.... and bruh you are hilarious. New name “Funny Tony” // Blessings on you sir!!
"Don't you ever in yo life entertain a man that is talking to multiple women"....I'm listenin' Tony! Point blank PERIOOOOD
The guy I was with said he “love me” then confessed that he’s starting to fall “in love with me” we’re 3 months in.. yet he’s still entertaining his “bms” and his female “bestie” lol... love is an action word! Needless to say, I broke it off last night. I’m not Competing with Any One but the old Me.
My God my God my God!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽.....got me clapping my hands and stumping my feet at work......acting a straight fool smh 🤦🏽♀️ PREEEAAACCCHHH!! LOLOL 😂
Yes, you hit this out the park. A man who is truly in love with you, the thought of entertaining another woman won’t happen. He’ll make sure his wife and his seeds are provided for, without being told to do this.
Just know, TG, Mrs. Gaskins will not be the only one with a whole man to herself. I’m claiming it and already put it out there in the universe. I am a child of the most highest god. I definitely know my worth and full value.
Thank you Tony. I just found out my husband of 9yrs is cheating on me. While he was at work I put all of his things outside on the Porch, change all my the locks on the door and told his ass he is no longer welcome in this house. He tried to tell me he want to come and do this and do that. I said not even in garage that he is welcome back in my home. I'm waiting for the courts to open to file for divorce. Nope I love him but I love me more. Not putting up with that crap.
@@ruferojohnson8362 good for you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Let that damn man be and why even entertain a fool who don't even know what he wants. I refuse to lower myself to such foolery. He can keep them diseases to himself.
Be blessed. Tony when I say you’ve been hitting the nail on the head with these videos I can’t even tell you. Free coaching praise be to God. Tony may you be blessed beyond measure all the days of your life. May your wife and your children and your children’s children be blessed all the days of their lives in Jesus name.
Amen!!
Amen 🙏🏾
Amen
Amen
Yo....you are hysterical!!!! I’m crying 😂😂😂😂😂. You ain’t Never lie. You helping someone right now. I Pray they listen to you. Keep giving what God gives you. Peace & Bessings
BIG FACTS BROTHER TONY! If I Even Suspect he's with someone else, I am O-U-T, track shoes, heals, slides, Barefoot! I am to be the Only one. If I choose to be with only one, he Must reciprocate...I will wait. Only need one!
Thank you for honesty and Keeping It REEEAAAL.✌🙏❤🌻
I found out last summer while I was pregnant with my son that my ex is in a relationship with his ex, with who he has a daughter with. He left me while finding out we weer expecting. I didnt about her, because otherwise I would leave him . He wouldnt let me go and hid my pregnancy from everybody in his family. When his ex now girlfriend heard about it. She went along with him and is now expecting a baby herself. Our children are 4 monts apart. Also I just recently found out they were already together when we were in a relationship taking holidays etc.
For me I am very angry, but I need to heal and be happy for my kids. I will never tolerante this narcissist again.
I'm so sorry sweety. May God heal you. 💛
Cathy be strong, keep pressing your way, and let that man go. Day by day it will get easier.
@@nontobekomncwabe4976 thank you, I will stay close to God. Becaus He will never leave me
@@koastalpeach4535 I hope it will❤ thank you
KoastalPeach pleas right let him go.
We as women really don’t know our worth! Definitely time to do some reevaluating! Tony makes this shit sound incredible man o man. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I know you speaking truth. One of my ex a few years ago explained this exact thing to me, even after his divorced because she cheated but never stop loving her. Unfortunately many women still go thru and try to compete over the same man who don't give 2 f's. Real stuff, but I have some of my girlfriends playing the game, have 2 men fighting for her a mess. Be Blessed
Heya, Blessed tribe!!! Good morning Bigbro Tony, Listen 👑👑QUEENS👑👑.. A man cannot love two women. Know your👑 self worths& Value.
You are so right about the males and females not being friends. They don’t want to be your friend. And so right about the 2 women thing
I believe EVERY BIT of this! A man will let any and everything happen to you when they don't love or give a crap about you! Big Facts! Don't even bother dealing with him if he can't choose you over anybody else and especially if he DOES NOT HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD. He's damaged goods until GOD makes him a man!
"unless you look at that woman and it turns your stomach" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Tony always keeps it real
Nicole T I can’t with him 🤣🤣🤣
When he's not in love with you, he will steal your rent money, and let you get evicted with two babies on your hips, with nowhere to go yeah story of my past life, but God has established me and ain't never had rent issues 15 years now. Listen to the man of God so that you don't fall for those snares.
@heynowhey yes hun only God
Black women love God but can't seem to stop having kids out of wedlock
Phyoomz
You must be that type of man 😂 bitter self
@@true4585 Good black men such as myself force black women to look in the mirror and be accountable. And we don't feed their need for drama. I'm a black man that most black women don't like.
@@phyoomz7841 At that time I did not love God because the bible says when you love God you keep His commandments which I didn't.
Choose me or lose me!!!
Father your daughter's in trouble please help her🤣🤣🤣
I am glad you brought up levels to this thing. The Bible made these things clear. I pray people seek enlightenment. Don't let a man water a lawn where he does not care for. So on the phone call each woman is telling the other what each one needs to hear. Treating women liked rotated tires.
I think when you allow your spouse to sleep around your self esteem is at rock bottom and usually the man know it and that's why men can only behave this way with certain women.
Tonnnnnyyyyyyyy Im hollering, In my 20's I used to be that fool talking to another Woman on the phone
Tony.....you said a MOUTHFUL!!! Any man who has the audacity to feel as if a good woman is expendable because they’ve been dealing with women who accept less than their worth....is NOT WORTH IT!!! A man who truly loves a woman WILL NOT!!! Walk away ladies. Know your worth!!!
Takesha Feagin Agreed-You definitely have to be able to walk away.
Marisha Lewis FACTS!!! Being comfortable with your decision is growth. No matter how much you like a person. You HAVE to like yourself more.
Your so right. One of my greatest pet peeves is my husband of 27years never defended me through words or deeds and he cheated all of those years while we raised 5 children and he made more children outside of us, thus I'm divorcing him and he can't believe I'm done with him.
I have men friends and my brothers and uncles who have went to war for me physically and verbally. But my husband left me out on a limb to be slayed. Smh, it's the truth.
Man do I feel your pain. Walking a similar walk...
Aww man, I hope you find the strength to leave and that the man you deserve is on his way
@@JRenee-Sings Thank you.
Ladies, Never play yourself like a fiddle!! Pack you bags and leave him. "NEPHEW TONY" is not playing. BOOOMM POWWWW A MAN CAN NOT LOVE 2 WOMEN.
Lust yeah, love, NO!!!! More than likely he don’t really love himself because if he knows what real love is he is Godly, and messiness is far removed from the Lord.
Amen all day
Love your comment. Real men who really love their women are far above the messiness of it all!
“We have breaking news this just in HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU” Hahahahahah omg
God bless you Tony! I appreciate hearing the beautiful truth on this beautiful morning!🙏🏻💛✨✨✨
😂😂😂 while I’m watching this the entire time I’m 😂😂😂. This is so true. Everything you said is so true. I’ve had disagreements over this in my younger years but all I had to do was keep on living and the proof was there.
This is why I had to stop communicating with this man who claimed to want to be with me, but had a closer than close relationship with his child’s mother. It’s fine that they didn’t hate each other but something in my gut said that he was still in love with her. Be blessed tony.
2 FRIES SHORT OF A HAPPY MEAL !! I CANT WITH TONY GASKINS!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
They having that Shirley Brown Woman to Woman conversation🤣🤣🤣
This Man is the REAL Deal....he is unveiling the games while telling us what Healthy Love is. Thank you Tony!!!
Love that comment "joining the mental health movement" Tony. I'm stealing 💛👌.
The message is something I have needed to hear. I ended a relationship that was exactly what Tony is talking about. I feel at peace and know my worth! Moving forward with the rest of my life. Happy, single and blessed. So ladies know your worth and move on down the road if your man wants two women. That doesn’t make any sense and is completely unacceptable. So don’t accept it. Any man that doesn’t want just you isn’t worthy of you, your time, most importantly your love and affections.
Being in love takes up the ENTIRE heart ❤️
Yes!!
This is a very Desperate generation of people. Smh
100%! The thirst is real.
Nope just not taught have to love God, themselves, and others properly. Most people live their life based off of what they see, or what they don't see unfortunately.
I have never felt hurt and empowered at the same time!!!.. Thank you for this raw uncut footage!
Can you please do a video on mommas boy & family influences on your partner!!
Family influences and momma boy 👦 please
Yes, your take on that would be appreciated! Good suggestion!
Tony said 😂🤣🤣🤣 saved, sanctified, and Holy Ghost filled I got to sit the the Holy Ghost down for a min and Lord I’ll be right back. I got to sit him down for a sec & pick the Holy Ghost back up 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
I will be feeling like that sometimes. 😆😆
Miss J I do too, so I know what you mean. It’s certain things that can take you there.
Its real😂😂😂
That's the best thing I heard in life
“Ethos and ergos and everybody os”, 😂 Tony is funny
Sashisroyal One 😂😂
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"You hear me"...☺️
Yes we hear you Tony!! lol👌🏽
We hear him loud and clear
@@nickbry7357 Sure do☺️☺️
Tony thanks for all that you do. I was dating a guy that I found out wasn't truthful with me from the get go. When he knew I was in love with him,he thought he had me, it's because of watching your videos and the fact that he realized he couldn't play me for a fool anymore that he knew I was hip to his games. Some men will play you like a fiddle. If a woman doesn't know the game, it's like she's swimming with sharks.
I ain’t competing with nobody or fighting over no man. I wish I would argue with another woman over a man on the phone or anything else. I was married 20 something yrs and never went through that and I ain’t about to start.
A real man who knows the importance of being a real man will not stray , because his knows deep within his roll of protecting and being in love means .
Tony has explained it perfectly.
God bless you Tony
I had a guy tell me he was in love with me while entertaining another woman. I figured a man couldn't love two women at the same time because if he loved either one, there would be no room for three! Well said Tony, When a man truly loves you, he wont hurt you intentionally. 🙌🏽
Entertaining them in what way?
That requires maturity, self control, self discipline. When a man cheats it has nothing to do with his wife, or dificiencys in his relationship at home. He is damaged from the environment he was raised in or what he saw or sees his peers do. It is not to excuse this behavior at all. He is not grounded and he has to grow up or keep it moving.
Sooo many gems and truth in this video! Thanks 🙏🏾
"Breaking news he does not love you"! LOL I wish I could get my cousin to watch you Tony, She has been with her kids father for 13 years but she says he has never cheated but the family knows he has because we know the girl. I told her she is a fool and to leave but every time she kicks him out he comes back and she lets him SMH.
Breaking news 😂😂😂😂 I’m over here dying. Thank youuuuuu Tony from Los Angeles. You done hit me straight between the eyes! I’m binge watching all your videos. Thanks for helping a sistah
He's so insightful and funny at the same time 😂😂😂
“Breaking news” 😂😂😂😂
Tony, thank you! All facts!
Patrice Jones me too! I appreciate Tony so much. So much truth with great delivery.
I could have watched this for 2 hours! This is the BEST video you have ever done and that's saying a lot! I love how down to earth you are and how you tell it like it is, but it's your delivery that separates you from anyone else. I don't know if you intend for your videos to be funny, but the message is that much more impactful because your delivery is hilarious. I mean tears running down my face hilarious. I watch every video from beginning to end and they just keep getting better and better. Ladies, this man makes thousands of dollars for the knowledge he is dropping on us for FREE. Recognize and appreciate this public service.
Blessed Tribe! A man cries because of his on demise oooh! Do not ever compete with another woman ! If you hear about a woman it’s time to go! We don’t choose our parents, but we choose our spouse and children! God Bless you!
I went through this for 4yrs. I was so in denial because he kept telling me that she needed help and somewhere to stay because she was staying in her car. Me and the woman did speak but we still stayed because he continued to lie to us both. 6 months later me and her spoke again but this time we both decided to leave his ass alone because we both realized that he loves no one but himself. I respect this video because is so raw and honest. Thank you Tony ! I wish someone would have told me this 4 yrs ago.
He can't love two women.... He doesn't no love you ! Queens
Tony be blessed! This message is so real!!!! I totally agree... it resonates with me on so many levels! I felt it in my soul when you said if he is seeing you and another woman, he loves you on the same level as his favorite pair of 🧦 !!! Lol! That is sad but so true! Thanks for all you do! We need to hear this truth!!!!
Thank you so much for these messages GOD BLESS YOU FOREVER AN ALWAYS TONY GASKINS 💞💜💜💞💜💞💜💞💜💞💞
I should not be laughing as much as I am watching this. You are a comedian low key. 😭😂😂 Great advice as always!
"Two fries short of a Happy Meal"...That's facts. Can't take risks with people's hearts and emotions. That's a very dangerous game...everyone loses.
I just love Tony.. he so point blank and thee periot.He said you need to join a mental health movement.. you NEED therapy.. you are lost. 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Tony, you always speaks the truth. Your voice when speaking in a woman voice is sooooo funny!!!!. Thank you for sharing your wisdom
This WHOLE video is 🔥🔥🔥 spitting all truth, raw and uncut....breaking news 📢📢📢
When Tony started imitating a conversation with two women arguing over the loser... I lost it😂🤣🤣🤣🤣. Wheeeww, we gotta do better as women... That is just ridiculous now
Listen here "Will cheat on you in the name of your injury" 😬😆😂 Tell em Gaskins!
abeja0201 I hollered‼️‼️‼️🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@tishloftco same here Tish😂😂😂