Why you need a STARTER girlfriend in the Philippines

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  • Опубликовано: 10 апр 2024
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Комментарии • 149

  • @davidlevy6335
    @davidlevy6335 2 месяца назад +8

    I agree with a lot of the comments. Once you meet the family, and you WILL meet the entire family, she's no longer a starter girlfriend. She's going to be your girlfriend. And soon after, you will hear the words "I love you " 😅

    • @roymoxley2587
      @roymoxley2587 2 месяца назад +3

      And soon after that what’s you bank account number lol

  • @johnv5156
    @johnv5156 2 месяца назад +42

    Meet her family? NOOO Province Girls? NOOOOOOOOO They make a special meal for you? NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO All the relatives want to meet you? NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

    • @mikekinsella2822
      @mikekinsella2822 2 месяца назад +5

      Meeting the family is the worst thing you can do. Once you do that you tell them you are serious.

    • @stevend8785
      @stevend8785 2 месяца назад +5

      Buy a lechon, no wait, you are the lechon.

    • @BZ_Spy
      @BZ_Spy 2 месяца назад

      ​@@stevend8785A nice big, fat lechon ready to be picked clean🤣🤣👍

    • @Alleycat_67
      @Alleycat_67 2 месяца назад +3

      Curious, why not a province girl? I thought that was a good thing?? 🤷🏼

    • @bigjohnson7415
      @bigjohnson7415 2 месяца назад +2

      That's a lot of "O's!" 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Stew357
    @Stew357 2 месяца назад +42

    Reine, everything you're describing will make the Filipina think the foreigner is serious about them. If the foreigner meets the parents and family then later breaks up with the starter gf, which was the plan all along, she will be extremely embarrassed. Wouldn't it be better to be honest and say you just arrived in the Phils and are only dating for now.

    • @SmartGirlPhilippines
      @SmartGirlPhilippines  2 месяца назад +18

      The point of the video is:
      1. You need a FIRST girlfriend in the Philippines to get the ball rolling. Whether it's someone you meet online or in person.
      2. Being serious right away is a trap. Also saying you're not serious right away is a trap.
      3. Guys shouldn't be pressured into marrying the first girl they meet.
      4. Guys should treat their girlfriend and her family really good.
      5. They should move on when it's time to move on. That's how dating works.
      6. If they really love each other, then they should stay together and it's one of the success stories.
      7. This is how the real world works. Date, learn, move on or stay together.

    • @the_gilded_age_phoenix8717
      @the_gilded_age_phoenix8717 2 месяца назад +1

      You sooo nice, Stew. I bet all the "good girls" wanna be your gf!

    • @AaronOlafson
      @AaronOlafson 2 месяца назад

      No need for 1st gf. Just pump and dump one night stand.

    • @Stew357
      @Stew357 2 месяца назад +4

      @@the_gilded_age_phoenix8717 the bad girls too 😉

    • @andrewcarlson2178
      @andrewcarlson2178 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@@the_gilded_age_phoenix8717when you go to a new country you should try and integrate yourself into their culture not force your culture on to them. A lot of this is considered game playing in the Philippines

  • @PaulMcB873
    @PaulMcB873 2 месяца назад +11

    Finally the most honest helpful video of relationships. "When it's time to move on, move on. She helped you and you helped her."

  • @stevend8785
    @stevend8785 2 месяца назад +9

    Instead of buying a lechon you are the lechon.

    • @MarMarZ999
      @MarMarZ999 2 месяца назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @catsupchutney
    @catsupchutney 2 месяца назад +9

    I think if I said that was my plan, I'd get a lot of nasty comments. Not that I disagree.

  • @marknasia5293
    @marknasia5293 2 месяца назад +22

    you are describing a system that many Filipinas have experienced and it was negative for them. This also makes foreigners look bad also. Meeting the parents is a huge no no if you are not serious. this is really bad advice and if you plan ever on living in that area, it will not go well if you choose a different girl.

    • @AaronOlafson
      @AaronOlafson 2 месяца назад +2

      no problem. move to different province or island. Filipino men been doing it for a long time

    • @marknasia5293
      @marknasia5293 2 месяца назад

      @@AaronOlafson yes because the men that do that, do not have anything just hand carry bag and normally move in with another family member constantly dodging responsibilities where they left the last time. Even their own families get sick of this type of behavior. Gets expensive moving, when you have things to move.

  • @StarDust-vm1qs
    @StarDust-vm1qs 2 месяца назад +5

    Smart Girl - Lets be real, this was a great video!

  • @jeremiethomas8005
    @jeremiethomas8005 2 месяца назад +11

    How many starters are we allowed before it’s seen as unsavory in the public forum? ;)

    • @marknasia5293
      @marknasia5293 2 месяца назад +3

      0 if you do this, you won’t be able to ever live in the area, emphasis on the word live.

    • @jamesrose7281
      @jamesrose7281 2 месяца назад

      I hope over 20.

    • @jeremiethomas8005
      @jeremiethomas8005 2 месяца назад

      @@marknasia5293 why would I ever want to live in AC? My question was clearly meant in jest. I’m sorry you didn’t get that.

  • @erikschmitz1841
    @erikschmitz1841 2 месяца назад +10

    Travel guide. With benefits.

  • @RandyRhode-yq5hq
    @RandyRhode-yq5hq 2 месяца назад +1

    I liked "when it is time to move on, it is time to move on".

  • @cliffpearce9043
    @cliffpearce9043 2 месяца назад +4

    You will find your starter girlfriend at jollibee's😂😂😂

  • @GeecheeLionsJourney
    @GeecheeLionsJourney 2 месяца назад +21

    I do not think this is a course of action to promote. This is what Pookie, Rayray, Chad and Brads who have some money 💰 accumulated want to hear. This is 4Fs Find em, feed em, fuk em and Forget em.

    • @elijah7454
      @elijah7454 2 месяца назад +7

      Yes. This video is terrible advice. I hope she removes it

    • @rl8571
      @rl8571 2 месяца назад

      Pookie and rayray going on date with a starter gf in the Philippines.. just upon arriving at the airport her whole family and friends will be there to greet you and you also buying them dinner that day. If i was a pookie or rayray, i will stick with American women.. just a couple of drinks during happy hour and they usually pay for everything.

    • @trevorsmith7753
      @trevorsmith7753 2 месяца назад

      Selfish genes rule!

  • @jonshannon1025
    @jonshannon1025 2 месяца назад +21

    This is exactly what my fiancé did for years and made a lot of money doing it. She was a pro juggling multiple boyfriends for LDR while setting up temporary boyfriends for cash... This really screwed up her two children because they think others should pay for everything... Her two sisters did the same thing so I believe their mother taught them when they were teenagers. hahaha

    • @ericlee2931
      @ericlee2931 2 месяца назад

      And this is your fiancé? Lying 2 sisters? Scheming mother? messed up kids? Fiancée Lied and cheated multiple boyfriends out money and love for years. Good luck dude

    • @usaalways
      @usaalways 2 месяца назад

      Wow. And you admit to all this.
      Usually a single mother alone is enough to draw enough red flags for many men to stay away, but man I think you hit the jackpot ! I mean you are absorbing more red flags than a Communist China parade 😂😂😂

    • @AaronOlafson
      @AaronOlafson 2 месяца назад +5

      congrats marrying a traveling circus 304

    • @user-ex5jr5to6q
      @user-ex5jr5to6q 2 месяца назад +1

      @@AaronOlafson 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @TheFox808
      @TheFox808 2 месяца назад

      Not wife material, she's likely juggling you in one way or another too. Sounds like you're gonna get rekt one day my dude

  • @MJC_2112
    @MJC_2112 2 месяца назад +2

    Wouldn't be meeting her family if I knew she wasn't going to be my girlfriend for very long.

  • @captureitlive
    @captureitlive 2 месяца назад +32

    #1 check your bank account
    #2 find a girl with no family
    #3 move her to Vietnam

    • @ECA2
      @ECA2 2 месяца назад +1

      Now That's How You Do It!😂 Protect yourself at all times.

    • @robkey69
      @robkey69 2 месяца назад

      The family's financial burden is ridiculous. These province girls, other than young... are usually uneducated...and want to pop a kid out right away...in a way, bar girls are a better choice...

    • @davidlevy6335
      @davidlevy6335 2 месяца назад +1

      😂

    • @Helpfulsuggestions
      @Helpfulsuggestions 2 месяца назад +1

      ? So filipinos can move to Vietnam without any problems.
      And can Americans move to Vietnam with no problems?
      I like the structure of Vietnam along with the women, of course, but I also love the Filipino women. It would be nice to have the one I love with those. I love to see all in one spot with better infrastructure.

    • @Reno-4570
      @Reno-4570 2 месяца назад +2

      @@Helpfulsuggestions Thailand

  • @andrewcarlson2178
    @andrewcarlson2178 2 месяца назад +3

    Guys travel all the way to the Phillipines because they didn't like the dating culture where they came from. The Phillipines is typically more traditional than where they came from. So the "expert" advice is to turn the Phillipines into where you came from ? Be honest and upfront in everything that you do. Sure let the first couple know that you are just dating because you just got there and you are not looking to get locked down. But don't do things that are culturally considered serious relationship overtures in the philippines. Especially meeting their family

  • @the_gilded_age_phoenix8717
    @the_gilded_age_phoenix8717 2 месяца назад +4

    Lemme ask...If I go there and am looking for a "starter gf," can I ask a girl, "Hey, will you be my starter gf?"

  • @johnmfl61
    @johnmfl61 2 месяца назад +7

    Don't get suck.

  • @cedricnash7735
    @cedricnash7735 2 месяца назад +3

    Smart Girl Philippines Your content is amazing I totally understand what you're saying. You're so right. We never know who's gonna be the right one. We're gonna end up being with, but I'll do have some requirements. That will help me a lot and it will help her too I want a woman as honest. A woman is real a woman. It does not beat around the Bush that is straightforward. Not lying and really wanting to get to know me for me a lot of communication.
    And get to know each other. Nothing about money just about. Just a knowing who I am who she is and hopefully, that's a great start for something and let's see what happened. And if it doesn't work out, that's OK. Ay, we just go on to the next as we know. All know on this page. Relationships are not easy. Sometimes I don't mind putting in the work to make it better but it takes 2 of us.
    Thank you so much for this topic. You are the best. No wonder why your page is. Tops on RUclips because you care about a content you put out.I hope you have a good day and I'll see you in the next video.I'm cedric nash your number one fan

  • @jimmyhvy2277
    @jimmyhvy2277 2 месяца назад +2

    Ace's White Board !

  • @FrickinCCDeVileV
    @FrickinCCDeVileV 4 дня назад

    Sounds brutal to do that to a decent girl. I left one vn girlfriend and pure guilt still hounds me to this day.

  • @Bellaco886
    @Bellaco886 2 месяца назад +5

    Actually I NEED two pinay girlfriends. ❤❤❤

    • @MarMarZ999
      @MarMarZ999 2 месяца назад +1

      🤮

    • @Bellaco886
      @Bellaco886 2 месяца назад

      @@MarMarZ999 You can be my # uno. 😬

  • @bigjohnson7415
    @bigjohnson7415 2 месяца назад +1

    Meet, go eat, plow the garden, Next!😜 I could be wrong?🤔🤣

  • @XxArielxX986
    @XxArielxX986 2 месяца назад +9

    Take a trip withe out meeting her parents $$

  • @foreignermakingmoney-phili1458
    @foreignermakingmoney-phili1458 2 месяца назад +1

    great vid

  • @user-bf5fi4ss2q
    @user-bf5fi4ss2q 2 месяца назад +1

    Wise beyond your years.

  • @Gladne
    @Gladne 2 месяца назад

    That’s pretty cool.

  • @brucecampbellrbc
    @brucecampbellrbc 2 месяца назад

    Excellent video

  • @buddylewis2743
    @buddylewis2743 2 месяца назад +2

    Let's go get a Jollybee.

  • @vincenttay31617
    @vincenttay31617 2 месяца назад +1

    Hi rene
    I like your video

  • @MrSamadolfo
    @MrSamadolfo 5 дней назад

    😎👍 Start your Engines and GO! 😅

  • @koufax174
    @koufax174 Месяц назад

    You’re the absolute best advice in the Phillipines better than Pea❤. You have best personality ❤️

  • @TheRocketrob3
    @TheRocketrob3 2 месяца назад +2

    Uum let’s just call it dating
    Nothing serious 😅😅

  • @kimphilley621
    @kimphilley621 2 месяца назад +1

    Interestion Smart

  • @Whosurdaddy71
    @Whosurdaddy71 2 месяца назад +1

    Lots of starter girls smarter than this one 😂

  • @michaelallen4297
    @michaelallen4297 2 месяца назад +4

    That's exactly what I have planned. Subscribed and liked.

  • @dreadfuldonkey
    @dreadfuldonkey 2 месяца назад +2

    Did you use a ladder

  • @Helpfulsuggestions
    @Helpfulsuggestions 2 месяца назад

    The only thing I feel sorry for some of these extremely beautiful RUclipsrs
    They are constantly being hit on and stocked with guys that would love to date and play them, which causes jealousy issues for those that truly have the ability and finances to provide a wonderful life for them.

  • @thadlandry1165
    @thadlandry1165 Месяц назад

    Tell the girl you are not looking for GF , just a someone to help you see if the Philippines . I would like to Have a friend to help me navigate and share some adventures .

  • @davidpuente1368
    @davidpuente1368 2 месяца назад +2

    What are you doing later 😂

  • @Kosty19
    @Kosty19 2 месяца назад

    Do I find starter girlfriends at start-up dating sites? 😀

  • @pastordavequales4165
    @pastordavequales4165 2 месяца назад +1

    I'm sure you've been asked this but...can you be my starter girlfriend? So don't you think you're worth coming to meet there? Let me know. Blessings

  • @cpt.ahab_it7044
    @cpt.ahab_it7044 2 месяца назад +1

    I watch these on TV, but for the good ones I log onto my PC to comment. You are very motivational, nice video.

  • @coffeebotography
    @coffeebotography 2 месяца назад +4

    I had 12 starter and now I’m so smart!😊

  • @brucecampbellrbc
    @brucecampbellrbc 2 месяца назад

    ❤😊

  • @stuartcraigan7287
    @stuartcraigan7287 2 месяца назад +2

    Why didn't you tell me this 10yrs ago 😅😅😅😂 it's ok I learned my lesson

  • @el_lowell
    @el_lowell 2 месяца назад

    ABC < your #acoustics 😂 giving you away : )

  • @ephemarius
    @ephemarius 2 месяца назад +1

    The whole idea of a 'starter girlfriend' or intentionally temporary girlfriend is horrible. If I want to be with a girl, that is what dating is all about. Dating a girl and being in a relationship with a girl are 2 different things. How would you like it if you knew a person was only interested in you for what they could have temporarily? Shift that ficus onto the other person. Can you live with yourself knowing you intentionally used someone as a stepping stool?

  • @SimonT-il2js
    @SimonT-il2js 2 месяца назад

    So you have about a 1% chance of meeting someone special dating 'starter girlfriends '. Harsh...but true I think 🤔

  • @taalofaa
    @taalofaa 10 дней назад

    I choose you. Get me ready beginning sept 30

  • @silkdreads1
    @silkdreads1 2 месяца назад

    😆 Love the way you say "Let's be real" and "Girl"!! Nice deep accent on the "girl", sounded cooler like "gurl"!! 😃 Nice video!

    • @TheRocketrob3
      @TheRocketrob3 2 месяца назад

      Time stamps?

    • @silkdreads1
      @silkdreads1 2 месяца назад

      @@TheRocketrob3 What do you mean?

    • @TheRocketrob3
      @TheRocketrob3 2 месяца назад

      @@silkdreads1 time stamps mark the spot in the video it’s in the comments section just click it and the time stamp is recorded

    • @silkdreads1
      @silkdreads1 2 месяца назад +1

      @@TheRocketrob3 I know what time stamps are, just don't know what you mean. Are you asking where I hear her saying it?

    • @TheRocketrob3
      @TheRocketrob3 2 месяца назад

      @@silkdreads1 exactly 👍

  • @kindpanda1075
    @kindpanda1075 2 месяца назад

    If she is investing so much and you are also investing so much why would you plan to leave her?

  • @davidcadman4468
    @davidcadman4468 23 дня назад

    I'm 76, and want to visit the Philippines to experience the culture and get away from the Cold of The White North ie Canada. I hope to be in a position to do that when I'm 80. So I'm not likely to be looking for a gf. Will I have to negotiate a lot of girls/women looking for husband/bf.

  • @michaelmereday6791
    @michaelmereday6791 2 месяца назад +1

    Move there to get rich and dept free pay all my bills while living nice for a good price

  • @RobMcBean
    @RobMcBean 2 месяца назад

    How did @AceBachelorCool get so good looking all of a sudden?

  • @Jaykp123aol
    @Jaykp123aol 2 месяца назад +3

    Very exotic

  • @user-yc4nl1ox3c
    @user-yc4nl1ox3c 2 месяца назад

    play the game or get off the field
    You wont be able to change the rules of how its played

  • @j8nene178
    @j8nene178 2 месяца назад +1

    Super Exotic!

  • @allanfahrenhorst-jones6118
    @allanfahrenhorst-jones6118 2 месяца назад +1

    Any help they can get would be welcomed. I'm not American so I'm not a God lover. If the religion was banned everyone would be better off.

  • @brucecampbellrbc
    @brucecampbellrbc 2 месяца назад

    I need 3 girls 😊. Or 5?

  • @guinness718
    @guinness718 2 месяца назад +1

    ⚠I've watched a couple of videos from this channel.
    They give bad advice that makes no sense.
    I think these young girls don't know what you're talking about.
    This channel is only here to collect views.

  • @bryanlonger8646
    @bryanlonger8646 2 месяца назад +1

    I agree

  • @michaelmereday6791
    @michaelmereday6791 2 месяца назад +1

    Nice video

  • @SamWhodat-vh5fl
    @SamWhodat-vh5fl 2 месяца назад

    For Simps Only.

  • @curtisthomas-eg4th
    @curtisthomas-eg4th 2 месяца назад

    You've disappointed me. This is called using someone.

  • @Sahrokh
    @Sahrokh 2 месяца назад +4

    Pardon me but this approach is as selfish and predatory as "Starter husbands" are in America. Woman marries guy (usually a white collar employee) with the precise plan to use him as much as possible, divorce him, take half of his stuff and then dump him and go to her "real love".
    Same for the starter girlfriend in this video. She is *NOT* guilty if you've been scammed 50 times before. She believes you and your honey words. She takes you to her family and in the Philippine it's a BIG step and really puts her honor on the line. And then... once you decide she has outlived her usefulness, you just dump her like that?
    I see NO difference between this approach and "starter husband" and I am sure that this will taint foreigners acceptance in the Philippines for good.

  • @gerrycallo8125
    @gerrycallo8125 2 месяца назад +4

    You are Fine Smart Girl!

  • @GroundZeroFightClub
    @GroundZeroFightClub 2 месяца назад +1

    you need a dentist

  • @Steve-nu4sv
    @Steve-nu4sv 2 месяца назад

    You are a young Filipina.
    I am a mature guy from the UK. I have travelled a lot never to the Philippines but I'll be visiting to explore to see if I could retire there.
    STARTER GIRLFRIEND?
    NOT FOR ME.
    My list consists of
    1. Ensuring my income stream is stable and enough to live well there.
    2. Visit and explore to see if I'd be happy to settle somewhere.
    Look at options for accommodation.
    3. Ensure I am able to obtain diabetic medication there and the cost.
    I'd be happy to date filipinas but would not enter into a serious relationship until I was settled there. Doing so would not be fair to me or the Filipina.
    I'd take time getting to know her before making a commitment.
    A good relationship needs
    Trust,
    Honesty,
    Respect,
    Fidelity and
    Good Communication.
    Lying, disrespect or cheating would be a deal breaker for me.
    I don't do it and won't tolerate it.
    If that means I remain single or date casually or split my time between the UK and the Philippines or elsewhere I'm OK with that.
    Instead of looking for a starter girlfriend take time to find the RIGHT girlfriend and Don't rush into anything.😊

  • @danhunt3652
    @danhunt3652 Месяц назад

    🤎 I would like to travel to the Philippines and search up my soulmate, Phil Filipino women have the qualities that I like. Have a nice day. 🤎 💕

  • @ChupraCumbra
    @ChupraCumbra 2 месяца назад +1

    Show Tiddies