Never Fight For Someone's Attention (Do This Instead...)
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- Never Fight For Someone's Attention (Do This Instead...)
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In this video, you'll learn an easy way to get someone's attention and make them want you more. It doesn't involve fighting or manipulation - in fact, it's much easier than that. So watch this video and follow these 9 proven steps and start getting the attention you deserve!
How to get someone’s attention? How to deal with someone who’s ignoring you? How to make them want you more? In this video we will answer all these questions and you will learn the proven 9 steps on how to make them chase you and get their attention according to psychology.
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I saw this one, ... its way way too verbose and repetitive!! Cut down on the no of words and make another audio/video pls ...
Show my boyfriend that
I subscribed
But they are the ones that make you happy so what do i do when in the meantime she is draining my finances
I'm in love with someone who is broken and damaged. She has three kids.
Detachment makes you free but
Attachment makes you suffer..
Detachment, free it makes you. But attachment, only suffering it brings.
Sounds like something Yoda should've told Anakin before he went nuts.
I don't understand people who get attached very easily.
Both are our own mental status... suffering or happiness is our own choice. You can detach and still suffer and vice versa.
@@ananddeshmukh9503 exactly ive been attached to someone that i loved and was very happy in my life at the time!
Facts
Cautioun : If both of the couple watch this and apply the same technique there is a huge possibility of starting to hate each other
Right😂😂😂
Just like two magnets same sides facing against each other
just like i expected xDDDD
Most likely one would give in
😂😂
1.Understand the problem.Dont be afraid for rejection.STOP CHASING.give them space
2.Take responsibility of your emotions
3.Live according to your values
4.Show you are interested but not needy
5.Become best version of yourself
6.Be patient with them.Give them time
7.Never take things personally
8.Show them that you are wanted by others
9.Be willing to walk away
Ty!🤗
malayali aanow :)
But what if you're not wanted by others lol
All fax
@@howboutdis3908 Then, just keep doing you and being yourself. After all, there are many people out there just asking to be manipulated to meet your professional ends. That's how you become a powerful banker in the commerce sector: deceit. Everyone loves a good story.
I tried to distance myself from this girl that I like because she stopped me from courting her. One day we met at a park and as we're walking, she's so close to me like we rub skins. And I 100% feel she wanna hold me cause she keeps on getting close to me. Showing less attention is effective.
Wow that's nice bro
@@marloubaja5772 yea bro. I'm sitting next to her cold af. I don't even talk. Now it bothers her.
@@jamesradan I will try this in the nearest future . Its hard to appreciate my efforts to her it because she is a introvert person . kudos to the channel by the way .
@@marloubaja5772 it's ok to entertain a woman bro, just don't make her your world. Don't put all you effort, attention and time to her. Most probably they'll lost interest. Instead, make them earn your attention or atleast show attention but not too
much. It's also for your peace of mind. Try that and comeback here to tell me what happened. Keep safe!
@@jamesradan you have a point on that bro I will try this .
Being rude is easy. It does not take any effort and is a sign of weakness and insecurity. Kindness shows great self-discipline and strong self-esteem. Being kind is not always easy when dealing with rude people. Kindness is a sign of a person who has done a lot of personal work and has come to a great self-understanding and wisdom. Choose to be kind over being right, and you'll be right every time because kindness is a sign of strength.
when i do this ppl around me (not necessarily the rude ones in question) just accuse me of being a doormat & making excuses for rude people
Ty. I definitely do my best, however don't allow yourself to be walked on either. Everyone has limits. But yes, I feel being "kind" is better than "bitter " regardless. Kill them with kindness. 🤗
I started off kind, then ended up rude because of how I was treated over time. You expect me to be kind from the outset? How naive. You'd have to prove to me you're worth me being kind first, then we can talk philosophy on kindness.
This is the coolest thing I’ve heard this month
theres this one time, i was in relationship. shes pretty abusive towards me and lied about many things. she didnt cheat but its like kind of pathological lies she made that really irritates me in the long run. I rarely got angry. I remain who I am until the last time we met, I killed her with kindness havent replied or talked to her for years until she tried to make the move again but I simply ignore. Think, i hv never been feeling more stronger since then
“You are responsible for your happiness “- dang it hit hard
I think that last point, be willing to walk away, is very important. Sometimes we like someone who doesn't reciprocate that interest, and we should be willing to respect that and move on to someone else. If we don't, we put our happiness in the hands of someone else. Ultimately, the goal isn't to get that specific person, but to be the type of person that attracts others; it's never about winning over a specific friend, but to be the type of person who others want to be friends with.
This is well said. I shouldnt let someone else dictate my happiness
Facts
Agree
@adamlevy8971 💯correct
Totally agree !
*If they really like/love you, as friends or lovers, don't worry, they will eventually come back to you* . They need time for them, or to think about themselves before making a move. They can also be passing through difficult times in their own lives, and it consumes a lot of their energy and time (and maybe they don't want you to see them in that state). It's hard for us, because we want them, and without answers, our mind is going crazy, thinking about the worst and disgusting things, but it's how it is. You and them must pass through that period of silence.
As an exemple : it took four months to one of my closest girlfriend (12 years of friendship, we met in hightschool), after an argument, to call me back. I didn't tried to win her back during this period, I just sent her a message for her birthday, or an important date, or just something simple like "take care of you, I hope you are happy and doing fine, and look out for your back pains at work", and stuff like that. Which means 1-2 messages per month at best, but shown her I was still caring for her, even with the distance. When she felt better and had put some order in her life, she was ready to call me back, and did so. The first thing she said was to thank me for all my messages, it helped her during that bad period.
Right bro
❤
Thank you for that great advice, it helped.
Man, thank you for this advice! Truly appreciate it
Best advice on internet. I know that. It's hard but there is no better way than that.
These rules are not bad, but people are very different. What will cause one to pursue another will in another case cause him to retreat. Playing with people's feelings is a double-edged sword - be careful not to cut yourself! That's why I would say - just be yourself, because that's how (and not through any rules) you will attract the right person for you.
true..playing games will back fire. Just be yourself..and whatever happens , happens.
The worst part is that it might be too late since you’ve already chased them a lot and they don’t give a shit what you do. (But this video did help, thanks)
I've been single and now I'm happily in a relationship so I've seen both ends of the spectrum. I think I owe some insight because relationships from the outside are often misleading and have an illusion about them which makes them seem something out of a fairy tale.
It's never as easy as it looks. Staying in a relationship is a job that you do 24*7, 365 days. Your actual job isn't half as challenging as staying in a relationship. I would suggest before getting into a relationship work on yourself, get a job or start a business, and put yourself in different situations and difficult situations. Know yourself better. Become a well-put-together person. If you can't keep yourself happy no one can. You need all that to understand the depth of your character because without that you can't possibly understand anothers'. Because love doesn't last. After a few years, you'll be left with sheer mutual understanding and respect. People who extemporaneously rush into a relationship eventually find the rope slipping through their fingers in a game of tug of war.
Love is a fake , the true love is the mother love her children. There is no love between husband and wife is only respect is each other and have tolerance take care each other and patience.
Wow! I couldn't agree more!
In the end, if she likes you she likes you. No effort needed. We can’t force or create emotions.
that's not true. I once gave a chance to a really ugly girl, with a big nose, small eyes, and glasses, because it felt really nice talking to her, and some girl saw that I was happy so he told me, why don't you ask her out? I did to see what will happen and she was the sweetest girl and I fell in love with her completely. My friends were confused, they thought that she must have a really good body or something. I didn't care. She started using makeup, dressing better, look better. And then she went to the party while I was out of town and met some guy, had sex with him... So that was the end. Later I met that better guy than me. It turns out he was really ugly... It was years ago, but the girl is writing to me from time to time. Well, she did, until I stopped writing back. But yeah at the beginning of the story, my feelings were changed from completely not interested to she is the one.
This is very important to me at this point right now, I really need to learn it
Happy to help! 🌟
This is very effective I do this since day 1 of our relationship before watching this video. And I can say it is all true.. Being a strong independent woman that's the man really want for them you are rare precious jewel
Depends on the man. Many men are afraid of strong women because they know they cannot meet their criteria.
Working on yourself cannot be overstated enough 💯
I would like to stop chasing people , but the more I stop giving them atention and focusing on myself the less they care about me. I don’t need them but I would like them to show a little interest in our friendship or relationship .
Simply put. Do all you can in your capacity. If it's meant to be, it will be. And if it doesn't work out, well one door closes for another one to open.
I got pushed away because they were scared of their own feelings and emotions. Fear was their e enemy.
I'm in that exact situation. And trying to wait and be patient is pure torture.
No 10: have an open talk about your feelings with the person you desire and see the reaction. In case of denial you can move on without questioning yourself if there would have been a chance… and, yes, with no 10 I‘m addressing men AND women!
Thanks for the video. I wish when I was young man I know this content. But luckily I am doing much better now in my older years and still find lots of success. Below are some good mindset tidbit I’ve collected and they help me a lot. Since I cannot share with my “younger self” I want to share these with others:
- There is no such thing as a singular soulmate. The world is populated with many great people, so if someone doesn’t reciprocate, it’s ok. Be gracious but move on.
- We don’t need others to complete us. We build a lifestyle for ourselves that is productive and fun. Invite others to join us on our adventure.
- We should not beg others for the chance to be an extra in their movie. Be the main character in our own story.
- We should always give clear signal of interest. That does not mean we give up our mystery, but being bold is much better than creeping in as a “friend.” If we don’t feel the vibe from the other, accept it with grace and move on. They might be attracted to us later-or not, but our fulfillment doesn’t hinge on someone else’s validation.
- Be genuinely interested in other people. Speak less, listen more- REALLY listen. How many times have we caught ourselves only listening because we panic about what to say next, and then the other person said something and we’re like “aha! Now I know what to say next,” and then mentally shut down what they are saying until it’s our turn to speak. But then I realize if I listen, there are so many cool things I learn about the other person, because behind every person is a story. When our conversation is about the other person, we can truly build a strong connection even with strangers.
- “Looks maxing” is very important and not hard to do. Get in the best shape, get more stylish. Some people are born with godly good looks, but fortunately for men we can easily up ourselves 2-3points on a 1 to 10 scale just by taking care of ourselves.
I would also like to hear what others find useful!
There is this woman I like, we became friends over the last couple of years. Recently, I showed that I am interested in her more than what we are right now, friends. I can feel that she likes me, she shares with me the most personal details about her life, but she rejected me the couple of times I asked her for a drink, a meal, or cofee. I didn't force it, I backed down, because I felt she is not there yet in sense whether she is ready to actually become more than friends. I am giving her space, I'm showing that I am not desperate, or needy. There are times when our conversations don't end on a happy note, but I used to took that personally until I realized that it wasn't about me. She has her life, her issues, and I'm not the most important person in the room on every occasion. That is absolutely fine.
I love this video, it brings out many important points that people forget when trying to form a relationship with someone. Sometimes, people need time to develop feelings for you. Patient has always been a virtue.
Hi there, Ratnik. I know it may be hard to hear this, and I hate to say it because you seem like a great guy. But dating is not about getting one specific person. There is a saying - "honesty is the best policy". From what I've gathered, you've already communicated you're interested in her, but it seems as if she is not interested in you, and I think it is best for you not to put your happiness in the hope that she will one day change her mind. While this video seems to be geared towards getting that specific person to become attracted to you, you can also use it to become the type of person that you want to be - the kind that attracts others, and does not waste his time on those who aren't interested in him (unless the mutual understand is friendship and nothing more!) I think that is a much healthier mindset, and will put you at ease with yourself. Best wishes.
@@adamlevy8971 Hi Adam, thanks for responding. I agree with you. I probably should have ended my interest some time ago, but somehow I am stuck in that hopeful feeling that something will change when I know deep in my heart that it will not. That's the problem I have, and something I need to deal with. Letting go is sometimes the hardest thing to do, but it has to be done.
Hello Ratnik! Your experiences sound similar to what I am facing right now. I wish you good luck with handing the situations you are facing. I would love to take yours as a lesson for me. Would you mind letting me do it?
I walked away from a guy last year that pursed me first then didn’t make any effort what so ever back after I put interest in.. Didn’t hear from him in five months and also found out he already had a girlfriend at the time we we’re talking. I really never understand these people that lead others on just for an ego boost or a hook up, it’s sooo wrong and I’m about over it.
I'm saving this video for everytime I need to increase my self esteem and not feel worthless
I believe there shouldn't be ego and superiority issues in a relationship. At times both need to value and care for each other, call it attention or pamper. Without equal bow-down from both counterparts relationship won't last even if there is love. This video is really beneficial in respect to valuing the other person's need more than bragging about oneself.
Women are attracted to men with ego
Yeah whatever is told in the video is actually right.Ignorance is the key to make someone chase you.This is the ultimate case where reverse psychology works.So, yes maintaining a distance from someone is directly proportional to the person coming more closer in your life.
We often overestimate people as well. You may value loyalty and friendship and presume everyone else does as well. The reality is that many people were spoiled as children and grow up with an immature and narcissistic mindset.
I not only enjoyed it but it energized me as well as prevent me from taking the wrong steps forward.
I've always been there for them, but I never hear from them till they want something, mainly money. My motto in life is,... ALWAYS take advantage of a good thing, but NEVER, take a good thing for granted. No more, will I do all the calling or texting to get them to acknowledge me. No more, will I "instantly" answer my phone when they call out of the blue, not hearing from them in months. No more, will I let their absence in my life control my emotions. Silence IS golden. Thank you for this video..subbed.
Before you love someone else, you gotta learn to love yourself. Before you share your life with someone else, you gotta love your life as it already is. Before you get stuck fantasizing abt them too much, you should stop and stare at yourself in the mirror, just to reflect upon yourself and smile genuinely for who you already are.
Self improvement is the key
this randomly appeared in my recommendations and i do not regret watching. keep up the videos. there are alot of people that i hope get to see this.
Glad you found the video helpful
Oh my god you have no idea how much I needed this video!!!!! Thank you so much this is gonna change my life!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Reality: They might never chase 😆😆😆😆 Do this for yourself and forget the other. Otherwise, we will still be focusing on a potential response from them. Just dont think about it. You will be surprised if things do happen.
Reality is often dissapointing😂
Do this for yourself yall is someone wants you they will do better by you it hurts but Leave!
The question is why i have to do all this to win my love ... while most average people get their love without giving this much effort
Yes during the first few months of our relationship,I was so clingy that he made a lot of excuses,so I distance myself and showed him I had other things to keep my attention,much better!!!I now notice he was the one chasing...
This is a very good video for self improvement! It's a really good confidence boost, and a good reminder to live my own life and to make myself the best version of myself that I can be :)
Glad you enjoyed the video
Yes it helped so much.
You're right
Step 1
Understanding the problem: Stop chasing the partner when he / she ignoring you. Be strong and give space
Step 2
Take control of your emotions and be happy without the ignoring partner
Step 3
Live according to values. True to yourself. Be non compromising.
Step 4
Show that your are interested but not needy of that particular partner.
Step 5
Become the best version of yourself. Strive to be the best. Set goal and strive
Step 6
Being patient with the partner.
Step 7
Never take things personally. There may be plenty of other reasons for ignoring you. Give space to them
Step 8
Show them you are wanted by others as well.
Step 9
Be willing to walk away.
Don't fall in love with someone whose not available, it can be very difficult & complicated. I'm not needy, desperate or thriving for attention. Yes, I want to be loved, but I can walk away if needed & I like my space as well. I don't chase anyone. Lol. Usually im the one being chased. Make sure u fall in love with someone u can give all this too & can be loved back. For future reference. I definitely value myself & won't be minipulated. U can love someone from a distance, but still move on to someone who can love u & vs versa. It may be hard, but I've walked away multiple times in relationships that I knew I deserved better in.
@@amandalidey329 I don't know what you are talking 🤭🤭🤭😛.
Step 9 😂
she will move on also after seeing myself happy
yes I showed interest but he was taken and I walked away when he let me go. It sucks as he has no wedding ring and he d never know my legs and home are closed until marriage. He is good though.
I needed exactly this video at this moment, it helps me to move on a lot. Thank you for creating this video! And this is probably the first time I would like to thank the RUclips algorithm haha
Glad it was helpful!
Iam writing this comment after i got rejected by a girl whom I loved and proposed today. I got this video at a right time. I got a hope and it is sense to me after watching this video and Iam gonna follow this and share the comments for sure. Thank you!
good luck, and let us know if you succeed.
So true!! Needed this so much ❤
Happy to help
But when you walk away, don't expect them to chase you. That's called being selfish. You left them. They have all the right to do so too.
I thought i was being cool and Nice and he made me a fool. I left with a broken heart and shame. Love IS when two people make It happen and put effort together. I wish one Day someone believe I worth the time and effort 🥰💔🥀
Someone at work fell for me hard! Little did I know that she was the one playing me emotionally and I later felt hard for her…she was 22 and let everyone our business…now she’s moved on to the next person and I want her still but now after seeing this I’m keeping true to myself now!
This all points relate to person who only wants to active and busy in their personal life and business but if you want someone come and loving you it's not easy for that you have to give time , pay attention and make them realize that I'm the only who care you .but but but we have to check other person loving me same or not
Thank You so much for this. You're saving lives,I feel much better now❤️
Thank you so much! Glad you found the video helpful! 🌟
Exactly!!! Time is precious... Once gone can't get it back... Never waste time on people's attention.... It can only lead to disappointment and frustration... Utilise the time with the people who are close to you and try to keep them happy... That will definitely give u peace of mind and true happiness... I appreciate your advice... Thank you🌹
Thank you so much. Glad you enjoyed the video 😊
@@SocialPsychologyMasters 😊
I’m not even going to lie but this video has just refreshed my mind and given me proper confidence. I’m going to start these rules as of right now. Thank you
Thanks! This is very helpful!!! Now I know what I have to do and change
Glad it was helpful 😊
This is the pure true.
Amazing video with big facts in only 8 minutes.
I agree to all points!
Happy to help 🌟
I’m only new to the channel, however I have learnt these lessons through self reflection and support from the people I have around me. What would be really useful is to break down each point into the steps needed to achieve that strength of self in the structure that you have presented them well done.
As a guy in his early 20s, I’ve always been the one that’s been pushing towards a relationship. My first ended horribly because I got into my head too soon and too quickly. The second back fired before I even got started. Now I’m stuck in a 3rd one where I feel like she’s just replying to my messages but not actually chatting to me. We have went back and forth for 5 months now from once a day messages to like 5-6 times a day. But with this one, I know my shortcomings and know she won’t accept me the way I am. But at the same time, I don’t know if it’s worth pursuing her either. I’m at the stage now, where I’m focusing on my priorities and am willing to just cut it off if she gets bored and stops talking for whatever reason.
I’ll try the ones like you’ve said, hopefully it leads to some results. If not then I guess I wasn’t lucky.
Thank you so much for this video, i was really having a hard time to cope up regarding to this stuff, in short, i always chased them and i felt that, i was a loser, and when i change the whole me, i do believe that tables turn, and now i’m not the one who’s chasing, however, i don’t want to be abusive, because i know exactly what it feels like, so i just genuinely approaching/interacting with them without them feel or think that i control them, just want to have fun with them and be real.
That is where true love ❤️ come from
This is the best information on this topic I’ve ever heard on RUclips.. Thank you so much
I have seen loads of these and this one is the only good one with genuine points!
I feel so much relieved and I'm enjoying a peaceful life. I'm really okay
I think it’s also important to read into attachment theory. It has made me realize a lot that some people are not right for you and behaviorism shows for different attachments.
Self improvement is the key ❤
Thanks for giving me that level of confidence 🙂❤️
Happy to help! 😊
"Once they notice that you're happy without them, they will start to chase you."
Nah, they would just leave me if I were happy with or without them, they just don't care.😢
Just move on bro,
Think about it. Will u really want to spend ur whole life with a girl that doesnt really care for u?
As a man you always have to chase her. Be like a zombie “come back! I just want to talk to you, why are you walking away from me? come back!” 🧟♂️ 😂🤣😅
My friend really needs this video. He's in chasing his girl now.
Become the best version of yourself. Ooooh, what a devious trick.
thats so correct, playing care and not care next day would make the girl curious and ended up craving for our attention lol. we were texting all night and the next day i tried not to make eye contact with her in the class and focused on other things but i aware she lookin at me, eventho when she called me i pretend not to hear it until she called my name for the second time lol. well its so effective
Great video! Thank you for sharing! A lot of great points. Definitely relatable! Life’s too short to not be happy! Live life on your own terms. 👍😎👍
Thank you so much! Glad to help!
I also learned that I need to stop chasing and let them come to me
Even i usually do not watch like kinds of videos in my mother language, this explanation is amazing and clear to hear and can be understood
As an avoidant person I would just add something. Be careful about who you pursue. If you are super needy and anxious and need constant reassurance, there’s girls that will absolutely love that. Coming to the quiet independent girl that finds you funny but doesn’t want to be suffocated just isn’t the best option for you. I often feel like guys see me as a ‘safe’ option to talk to and see me as ‘fixable’. No, I just don’t need so much affection and to be talking about love all the time and if you do, then find someone who likes that.
Well.. You have an exception.. My husband.. If I try to ignore him and stay away for a while to get his attention, what he would do is go away from me and enjoy hanging around with friends, going for tours, (and some other personal hobbies) . He just don't mind whether I'm there or not. Always want me to say sorry and begg him even if it is his mistake. He says I'm the one who's supposed to do that😟
Well said, same happened in my life too
This honestly can be twisted into good breakup advice. The values here are good for improving self-worth, good vid.
This is not for the people who are in a serious relationship. This video is for one sided lovers or you can say people in situationship .
Thanks for the point
I subscribed. And to be honest, all those points you said I really felt that and I realised that it really works. I have experienced this personally. Useful content. Keep going 🙌❤️
Happy to help! 🌟
Hey 🙃
Profound video indeed. It just saved me my self-esteem. Thank you 🙏
Glad it was helpful!
Thank u for this i needed that❤
This is the most meaningful and effective video on this topic,
Subscribed at 4th step.
Thank you
While watching this video, I got 5-6 messages from her and calls too,
I'm not lying or joking
Thank you so much! Glad to hear that 😊
Personally I don't think I can put that much effort in someone who doesn't like me at the first place.
Exactly the video that I needed to feel me that i,m on the right track
That's what I'm following since my Teenage
very very useful! finally someone that tell the real truth
Glad you enjoyed the video 😊
Everything this guy said is 💯 true! Witnessing from personal experience 😊
You did all those things and you won the person after that?
It’s not about winning or losing, it’s about winning your value. Not only that works with a partner but also with everyone around you, Even your close friends. Never show a person that you need them all the time because they will leave you.
@@Ayatjamal05 thanks, it looks like I learned that too late.
@@kboid5919 same here! But I also learned that it’s it’s not too late and everything happens for a reason:)
Very well explained 👏🏻👏🏻✨
And I needed this today!!!! Thank you!!!
You are so welcome!
Thank you for the advices! Really usefull
Btw, I subscribed
Welcome to the channel! Glad you enjoyed the video
Other words...Relationships are Completly Useless Thing...better being Single, Bitter and Stupid so that I am Myself then Feel Free to Love me or hate me...
True words man
Thanks a lot for this video. I needed it
Ngl so true , I did this most of the time last year when I fr didn't give a shit about anything cus depression n stuff , I went to help others because I didn't want them to feel bad like me , I speak the truth so people know I'm being honest and I'm not he type of people who would tell a beautiful lie and somehow I made a girl fell for me . After she fell for me and we hung out (at this point I still didn't know she liked me so yeah I didn't really chase her or anything ) I noticed when I hung out with her and her sis , other girls would keep coming up and confessing they like me and well because I didn't know them , ofc I rejected them and then my friend who's the girl would get jealous and try to get me more and this goes on for quite some time , maybe a month or something before I brought up the topic and she confessed she liked me and yeah things started to go downhill , I wanted to be extremely nice to her since she liked me so yeah that's what I did and u know what? That's how she left me , honestly still hurt but yeah , it is what it is
That's what I tried with my study.... and my study is now chasing me 😂😂😂😂
Haha
Thank you sooooo much, I just can't thank you more😭
There is a friend in my life I have just given him all the love I had and I had noticed that he doesn't seem to have respected it because I used to become sad when he was with other, do everything as he said but today as soon as I saw this video I applied most of them and it works like magic, I haven't got his 100% love but yes slow and steady wins the race I am glad I came across this video
One last time Thanks a lot this video really means a lott to me that I can't even describe it in words🥺♥️
This comment is so heartwarming! We are so happy to hear that! Best wishes ❤️
@@SocialPsychologyMasters Thank you so much ☺️♥️
@@aasthajain18 please explain what to do
How did it go
Same here!!
My case is hard and worst but this video really worked
Needed this video, thank you so much❤😊
Happy to help
This is what happened to me - we both pretended not to be interested in each other. Our eyes, however, said otherwise. I was angry that a man (in my opinion) should know how to show a woman that he wants her, and not act like a clown. His behavior was not mature in my opinion, so I've completely lost interest.
How do I talk to my crush and ask her out? I see her almost every week so it’d be awkward whenever we see each other if things didn’t go well. We’re not friends right now. I’ve talked to her in a group setting and made sure to only focus on her and ask only her questions in the group and I did feel a connection on her end but i’m always asking myself, what if she’s just being nice??
@@BenefitExploits Be confident and be yourself, build the friendship first. If you wanna confess at some point do it face to face and be cool even if she rejects you, if she rejects you... Don't bring up the topic to her again, but be cool with her and do not avoid her.
Must be a covert narc
@@Elithewalkingwardrobe i feel like this video is for crushes. We are all different. Going through a couple heartbreaks, it’s not healthy to dream. If a girl likes you , you’ll know. But once you know it’s games.
sure, the guy should do that, while you are giving him signs that he will fail. Great deduction. How about you make some effort too? "your eyes said otherwise" That's great, but guys are not mind readers, and you acted not interested... with your women's logic I guess if you were not interested you will be smiling and showing him how special he is? you girls are crazy.
Thank you for this video. A must needed one for me. Recently I entered into a relationship with someone who was after me for the last one year. But currently I found him less caring, ignorant and always busy in work and even most of the things once he said to me is now being altered by him and his actions do not match his words and he always keep blaming me for most of the things he himself has done. If I complain or even express my thoughts he starts blaming on me. Don't know why. The relationship is quite new and already I am loosing interest on him. But still I want to give him a chance. Surprisingly I am doing the things you have told already without knowing the results. But now I am more confident after watching this video. Thank you once again.
Glad you found the video helpful! Wishing you best of luck 👍
I was friendzoned by a woman I wanted for a long time. This new year's eve i got a new year's handshake from her which put me over the edge, telling her how I've felt about her and how i cant handle the way she humiliates me in certain situations like the handshake for instance and how i can't be around her anymore if I want to regain my mental health and have any self worth at all. Boy, did she start backpedalling when she thought she was losing a friendzone sucker, chauffer, shoulder to cry on etc. She acted like she never knew i had feelings for her, while all along would feel the need to remind me "we're just friends". Women friendzone men because although we're good enough to use, we're not all good enough to choose.
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You are right yaar. It happens with me too. Your video is superb thank you RUclips for recommending it.
To me the most important is learning to submit to the Universe's will. And let other people not love you. Because attraction is such a delicate thing. It cannot be forced absolutely. It's okay for other people to not love me.. Lately I repeat to myself these two sayings like a mantra: 1) When the Universe wants two hearts to meet, It moves both of them, not just one. 2) I don't want anything in this life that doesn't want me back. I am not willing to take anything that is not mine. That is not given to me specifically by the Universe. Because wanting something that doesn't belong to me feels like being a thief. Thiefs also at first want something that doesn't belong to them and then they steal it. So, wanting someone who doesn't belong to me is like being a 50% thief..
Amazing video, i truly needed to hear this ❤️ thank you so much
You are so welcome
Bro, you actually spit a lot of cool facts. Imma try all these steps and gonna come back one day, with her....
Threat and realistic advice. Love it, thank you
Glad you enjoyed the video
Think I've learnt that the more you chase the more they run. We will always wonder why did we get blocked? Why did the communication stopped? And it hurts. It does psychology hurt you emotionally and the victim hasn't done anything. It's unsettling and selfish , the silent treatment hurts so I sympathise anyone going through this. Not only is it hurtful but it's confusing for anyone when someone you’ve been talking to suddenly stops. It can often leave us feeling like we did something wrong or that something is wrong with us. The truth is, communication is a two-way street. We never will know what happened from their end that led them to make that decision and remember that communication is a two-way street.
If this happens to you, don't blame yourself. If they want to get back to you they will.
The more you go on pushing it will back fire and there's no point. Just believe me it's not your fault and be grateful for the times you've had together if they miss you they will in time reach out.
There are people out there that will use you, they will use that to sabotage anything and destroy relationships and they will turn people against you and I believe that's what's happening with me. I know who I am, my conscious is clear, I'd never hurt anyone, just be careful some will hold it against you and make you out as the bad guy and your not!
Stay strong, be yourself, and let them chase you. You've done what you can and that's effort right there.
How long does it usually take for them to get back to you bc they miss you
It's like saying how long is a piece of string really 😕. Im afraid I cant answer that, thats up to them really and how long they can keep up the protense for because its just hurting the other person involved its probably unintentional but it does hurt. They cant hide away forever if they miss you they will find a way of reaching out somehow or another hope this helps. Im in same position as you. Your not on your own. They need to think about your feelings aswell as themselves really. Its called being a mature responsible individual! Mature men wont keep you waiting forever I promise you. Hope this helps. They dont realise how lucky they are really. They needs to listen to our needs aswell as their own. Just dont let them control you and manipulate you. Its 50/50 always.