1. Are you sure that the person is ignoring you? 2. Give them the space they need. 3. Make sure you're not being needy or clingy. 4. Keep yourself busy. 5. Be open to meeting other people. 6. Be ready to have an honest conversation. 7. Be willing to walk away. 8. Create your own happiness.
If you walk away and never look back just because they ignore you doesn't always mean they don't care about you. You sound like a petulant child. If you love someone and you want to have a long loving relationship you have to be prepared that there will be somedays when either one of you are not in such a good place and accept this, without going into childish rants "I'm not going to speak to him ever again" 😞
@@sawneybean8011 but it's so hard to keep expecting right? I can't concentrate on important things or be happy, I keep calling him but he blocks my number every time I reach out. I stopped it. I gave him the space. But I'm so exhausted. I feel so restless
I like Step 7 too. I will never let someone treat me like that or screw with me again. I will leave, I will divorce, and I don't care. The Bible says you can't leave your spouse for treating you like this, that you have no grounds for divorce for somebody hurting you like that. WELL I DON'T CARE ANYMORE! NO!
If a person is ignoring us we shouldn’t take it too personally unless we know (even deep down) why they are ignoring us. We may have done something to offend them in which case we should accept they just don’t want to interact with us right now or maybe never again. If you know you’ve done nothing wrong just leave them be, get on with your life and be happy.
If you are being ignored, do the same! Respect, pamper, love, take care of, enjoy your self! You get only one life. Don't waste it on some body who is not bothered about you. Indulge, be extravagant, entertain, read, travel, pursue your hobbies, learn something new, make tonnes of money. That's it bro. You are living your life. You deserve it. Forget undeserving people.
@@mgjayasankar7196 Such a shame to think like this. My husband and I were married for 49 years before he died ten years ago. It was not always smooth, we were married very young and still childish in some ways but I feel that ours was true love. I believe that, because we always showed respect for each other, it was one of the main reasons that we were like best friends as well as lovers. I hope that you will eventually be as fortunate as I.
great point. Since everything is energy it might even be a "compliment" since someone might ignore you to show he or she envies your higher vibration and their energy wants to see your energy on their level ("pull down"). But that doesn't have to be on purpose since they still might not know how to raise their vibration.
I never ignore people who I care about. I don't expect the exact same in return but ignoring me 2 days after a nornal conversation and me telling him if I was there I would cool for him ( after him telling me he missed having me around) is very confusing and painful. I feel stressed and hurt all day. Also bc he is abroad for a while and only called me in the 1st week of our contact. I feel so much heart ache all day 😢 For me ignoring ppl 2 or 3 days in some contexts is damaging. I miss him but he is quiet. I keep wondering etc. Hurts a lot. We never argued but he was unpredictable from the start. I was understanding and patient respecting his space. He said he wants to build sonething beautiful with me but then goes quiet again. He did tell me he is a disaster as relationship material but is it a reason to leave someone in uncertainty. Nope. I told him how I felt today decently. I just conclude he is gone and first few days it will hurt badly.
Value yourself, if some bastard is purposely ignoring you then you don’t need them in your life. Love yourself and find people who treat you the way you deserve
I ignore the one who ignores me, there is nothing I can do. I can't make them as I wish. I understood this simple trick at the age of 38, now I am 39. For so many years, I was really wandering why people ignore me. The answer was simple, they don't want to interact. Sky won't fall if they ignore.
As a man in his 20's in a small and rural area with not too many options when it comes to girls, being ignored hurts a lot. I've normally let that hurt feeling control me too much, and that has lead me to mess up many times in the past. I am currently kind of being ignored by someone I like, and showed interest towards me. I am gratefull that this is happening, and all that has happened in the past, I've come to the realisation this situations force people to grow, and learn more how to respect themselves. Thanks for the video!
Kind of being ignored is a strange statement. If you can say "Hey I am going to for dinner, would you like to join me?" and not get no response then are you being ignored? Is it that she turns you down nicely every time? Once in a while is normal, she has a life and its unhealthy if you have to be part of every iota however if she NEVER wants to hang out then yes, she is ignoring or maybe setting a boundary? (if you are work buddies or the like) If you like them but they are setting a boundary then you might need an honest conversation. It is possible they also like you but whatever other relationship (like being work buddies) is present is stopping her from progressing? As in she might think it looks bad to date a colleague? Or she just likes being on good terms with people in that bubble so she is setting boundaries so you don't get the wrong idea. Either way after the conversation you would understand.
Bullshit society games my man, when u want someone, you go after, you don't play stupid ignoring games. All that garbage has been polluting everyone's mind for a while.
If she was into you brother, and you did nothing to trigger the change. After self evaluating, don't be hard on yourself. Or do like what it sounds like other fellas here, and myself have done. Which is make excuses for her by blaming yourself. It's her loss and we have all been through it many times. It sucks when you invest and give yourself in such a way. Then they do that nonsense. If you've talked to her already about it. Then she's given you her reason's/excuses. That don't sit well or make much sense (I lost my money in investment, busy with working, etc). Time to let go which is easier said then done. But you deserve much more and far better. Do go out and meet other's. Don't tie yourself down either again in the near future. No matter how much potential other's may make it seem good. The right one to commit yourself to. She will be eager to prove herself and worth to you. Don't let them bait you into it first. The right one is always going to make time for you. Even if she seriously has to cancel a date or meet up. 9/10 times she is still going to contact you. If not find a way to bring her work to you. To work in your vicinity cause she wishes to be in your company. Trust me. No one is ever that busy. Keep yourself busy moving forward bro. She'll be in your face once she sees your absent. As well as that you're busy too and have options. She doesn't value you right now. Even if she starts making efforts bro. I'd seriously not take her back or tread lightly. Cause the second you lower your guard. It'll happen again faster than last time. People can change for the better. But, that is very slim and grim. Don't count on it, and she deserves no more of your time.
When somebody ignores me! I just walk, and I never look back because it gives them time and space to think about their actions when they know you was trying to be good to them. Now that you decided to move on with your life now they’re mad.
If someone wants to be in your life, they will find a way. If they don't, you have your answer. Treat people the way they treat you. It is surprising how many people DON'T LIKE being treated the way they treat others.
It is so painful when someone you have loved all your life has suddenly started ignoring you. Because you have always believed that this person would definitely be there for you till you die.. When that confidence is shattered, your entire life seems worthless. Very difficult to follow these principles when you are not thinking clearly. But all the points mentioned here are correct and valid. Problem is our mindset.
Choose someone who chooses to be with you in the physical, psychological, emotional and spiritual sense. I had to learn this lesson about a quarter of a century ago and it has served me well. I have learned to spot users, emotionally damaged and inaccessible people, mentally ill and unavailable people. Choose wisely and use discretion, discernment and your head to get a good relationship in your life.
If someone ignores you then let them be happy in their life and you start your own life the right person will come in any situation to you that's why let them go who ignores you. You only have one life live it peacefully and happily and be independent 😊
People always change when they meet new people. So if you're hurt, just meet new people, it'll be faster to detach your emotion from the person you're attached to. That's what I used to do when someone I liked hurt me emotionally, I always let myself meet new people wether in online or offline, and that makes me feel really better and think that he's not the only person in the universe. 🙂
I'm sorry if that's how you both understood it. English is not my first language, but I'll try to explain why I've said that comment.... I don't mean to use other people. I mean, we should explore, or leave the things that don't bring us happiness anymore. We're so deep hurt by someone because we made them our world, and we have this thought that we only have them and so we rely on them too much coz we feel like we don't have anything anymore when we lose them & that made us think that we're not worth of anything anymore. But when we become open to new things & new people, we realize that there's a lot of people who really cares & will take care of your heart, we realize that there's so many things more than that heartbreaks that kills some of our years. Also, when I meet new people I don't use them, I open my heart again & forgot all the bitterness. When I love someone, I love genuinely, I don't use people just to get over that pain from the past. There's a difference from using someone and opening yourself again to someone new.
Never mind. But I would definitely say when it comes to pain you are on your on. I don't know if it's just me or other people face this too. But for me it's a fact, saying out of experience.
Walk away and never speak to them again. Never call, text, or pursue. Go into no contact. Do nothing. If they come around and hit you up, great! "It's great to hear from you again! When can we get together?" She says, I don't know. I have to check my schedule. Then you respond, "When you got it all figured out, give me a call!" Bye! Doesn't guarantee she'll come back. You'll probably never hear from her again. But at least she'll respect you for having boundaries!
This is perfection. Just recently went through this with someone very special to me. I would advise waiting for a week or two, then reach out to them and ask if they're willing to talk. Don't wait. You initiating the conversation is taking back your power. But yes, calm and unemotional is crucial. In my case, the person said we're fine, and they never meant to hurt me. However, weeks later, they still weren't being "normal" with me. Then they insulted one of my daughters and I just have to be done. I just quietly stopped paying them any attention. Hurts, but I did all I could. Best of luck everyone!!!🙏💜
But unfortunately this was obvious from the getgo. He basically ignored you for that length of time with no explanantion? and just told you we're fine? Something is not right with this picture. I always say you cannot downgrade your self worth. Yes things happen I understand but people should be able to communicate with one another and explain their feelings. There is no reason not to do so
@@K.Vee.Shanker No, absolutely not. I'm a very strong woman who knows her mind and heart. However, I have been friends with this person for 12 years...... so it was hard to let go because of all the great times and memories. But I have let go. And I'm fine. Low self esteem is not the answer to everything. I'm a grown woman of some age, and fully possessed of myself. I have cut many people out of my life through the years as needed. But as I said, this was different because of the long standing friendship.
I will typically start to feel bad about myself or like I did something wrong to make someone ignore me. I have learned that when I'm in that situation, it's time to start focusing on making my own happiness.
The worst thing in life is when you are being ignored by someone you married. You also feel alone, rejected and betrayed. You feel like you are not important to that person, and the more you try, the more you hurt yourself. Ignoring that person sometimes cannot fix things, as there are some people who are always unsatisfied, always want the most out of you. Sounds like you always have to beg them to treat you well. You are always wrong and they are always right. And you know you are a good person, you care so much, you always want a fix instead of just leaving, but that person who was supposed to feel fortunate does not care at all.
This is another thing, you literally describing someone in a narcissistic relationship. Anyone married that ignores their spouse is killing the relationship, end of story. When you marry, you have a duty to tend to your spouse, you are not just you anymore.
WHAT???? ARE YOU KIDDING??? WHAT IF THAT PERSON WAS TIRED ALL DAY AND DIDN'T CHECK THEIR PHONE OR THEY PERSON IS DEALING WITH A FUNERAL OR SOMETHING??? THAT'S SI IMMATURE OF YOU TBH
I don't play games. If someone isn't sure they want me around, I'm assuming they don't and moving on. Sadly, if they then decide they do want me it's too late. I do not play games. If they did this once, they will probably, at some point, do it again.
Doesn't work when your living together 😂🤣 Just end up locked in my room 24/7 and then the only conversation is when I get asked, "what's for dinner?" Or, "do we need anything from the shops". Stuck in a foreign country, completely isolated, and under these conditions.... After thousands of honest conversations..... Wish I could leave, yesterday!
I honestly consider this video extremely helpful. There have always been times where a lot of people are ignoring me in my life and doesn’t seem to be interested. The most important thing is that I can’t rely on them to do something that makes me happy. It’s all about myself and to find my happy place.
Believe me every single words of this video worth it. I already done all the same steps mentioned in the video from 8 September to 20 September and today I watch this video. It's a COINCIDENCE that all the steps which I take explained or covered in this video, and I am still working on step 8.(create your own happiness) but I am still feeling low because I cares about her and i don't know how she is.
When I perceive someone I know is ignoring me I feel hurt and then angry. Your points are right one and worth to consider. Also some who ignore others is to hurt them whether they know them or not. It could be a passive agressive act or if they know us, ignoring us may mean they don't feel they need us anymore, so they were never worth associating with or relating. Thanks for a most educational and eyeopening video!
When ever I would feel ignored by someone in the past, I would get so hurt and post subliminals on Facebook about it 🥴 I was so clingy and needy 😫 it’s legit cringe just thinking about it 😂 I needed so much healing and so the work began… Now when I feel I’m being ignored, I give the person space and when they reach out I’m respectful and receptive…I have one friend right now who, after me giving her space for about 1 month, is just now starting to initiate contact (right now it’s just through sending a song to me via the messenger app) It does still hurt me when I feel ignored by someone that I care about! But I have grown to realize that it is truly their loss and they will eventually see that. When and how long it takes is not my concern anymore 🤷🏾♀️ Healing is possible and learning to love and accept yourself really makes this easier!! I loved this video and it really confirmed to me that I’m headed in the right direction on my healing journey 💕 Love and Light to you ❤✨
When I got ignored on social media I stopped responding to them back and I made new friends because my mom was right because she wanted me to be happy and not stressed over the situation so this video helps me a lot and thank you👍
If a person close to you repeatedly ignores you, it's time to remind him/her gently and make it known it is unsettling and ask if you've done anything to upset the person. If this unsocial behavior still continues or is intermittent, tell the person it's time to take a break and don't just stop texting or calling the person without notice. Be upfront and tell the person, you'll stop calling or texting because a one way traffic in a relationship is unbalanced. Do it politely and don't forget to praise the person's good qualities. Stop texting and calling reduce physical meetings and when you meet don't raise the troubling issue and talk causally asking about the person's welfare and leave in a few minutes. Go less often to meet the person. The spiritual angle of sentient beings locking onto the human sentience is usually the cause of an upsetting change in behavior and relationships and is the key to understanding this volatile phenomenon and is not what the stupid scientists say. If one has a highly activated sixth sense or psychic awareness then it's easy to spot the root cause and remedy it using a spiritual approach that invariably works and if in the process one discovers the spiritual cause is getting overpowering in a toxic way and is beyond one's spiritual capacity to correct or tame it then it's best to maintain a safe distance for one's own wellbeing and much more....
having an honest conversation is the best step. Sometimes we're not ready to see what's going on in another's life and we think that he's taking us for granted but having an honest and non-argumental conversation can save many bonds. don't follow these steps just because you want them back but also for your self respect, living your life for yourself and see how much fun you can have without them.
There are lot of ways to communicate. Possibilities : No phone, then visit or write letter. No internet, then try to ask friends and family Not responding on text messages, then call doesn't matter if local or overseas. Because if this person truly cares. He or she knows your feelings! He will find ways no matter how busy he or she is even sickness. Tbh the reason why I let go of someone. I didn't communicate for month now and that month only once I receive message. I always the one who reach out 98percent of the time. I can't call even after the work, lots of reasons and I realize I deserve better..not worth to stay.
"Create your own happiness. You're in control of your own happiness." I don't enjoy doing anything alone. Nothing is fun or interesting to me if I am doing it alone. This is the hardest thing I'm dealing with right now and it's only hitting me because all of my friends and family have their own lives, and aren't always able to do things.
I met someone a while back, and we were so inlove with each other. She woud call me every morning upon waking up, or I would. Whoever woke up first, and we would talk about everything, and how much we loved each other and how we were so into each other. But one day, she just decided to cut me off without a reason. I chased her and after a couple of weeks, she came back, but things changed. She didn't love me the same way. At times, she gave me small messages and signs that she did, but then tried to cut us down to being just friends after explaining to me that she was too addicted to me to the point she wouldn't handle priorities in her life, so we remained friends with the romance still at play, but then she stopped responding and reaching out again out of nowhere. After almost two weeks, I finally tried to find out what the issue was, and she simply said we should just remain friends, again no real reason, just that she knows she is hurting me and it's unfair. After how close we were, I left her a final message about how hurt I was thinking about how close we were and her just changing on me. I am now left all alone deppressed about the situation. I contacted her believing it would be time to walk away, and knowing it would hurt more than I believed even though I was prepared for it. I wish people would just be honest with each other, and we didn't have to play these stupid mind games to keep each other. The whole concept of dating with these silly games is ridiculous. When you think about it, there is never any honesty if you have to go through all these steps
You got played by a narcissist. Consider yourself very lucky you got discarded. Learn about this personality type..the "love bombing " gives them away. Be..sadder budweiser!
When you are sure that the other person is ignoring you)doesn't value you or takes you for granted or you are not important for them but they always pretend that you are important,then in such cases , simply delete their contact , unfollow them from social medias , and delete all photos and memories of their from your device , this will help to move on and never talk with them anymore , because they will say sorry and when you again start paying attention then they will ignore you more , and last thing never ever come in front of them always try to stay away from their eyesight , this is the best punishment for toxic people .
I pretty much do everything in the video already. Very good advice but definitely don't play the blame game because they might have a reason why they aren't responding. Sometimes people need time and space to fix something they are going threw/dealing with or just need a little more alone time than most others.
I feel steps 4 and 10 are the most important ways to deal with someone ignoring you. And if they later on decide to come back Iam sorry but I would end it-would not take them back. If they cut you out cold w/o any communication or explanantion whatsoever, its time to let go. There is no reason to down grade your self worth
I’ve gotten ignored by quite a few people in the past. Tbh I either just stop bothering them right away or ignore them the next time they call or text me 🤷🏻♂️
OMG I LOVE THIS!! Thank you!! I've been struggling with a sibling that has dramatically pulled back after we had a great conversation and connection. The next day, things were different BUT because of the previous conversation, I thought it was other things going on in their life. So I didn't do anything else. Just went on with my life knowing something was off with them. THEN today like 7 days later, my other sibling told me they're upset about something I'd previously apologized for and they forgave me. Yet it seems like they really haven't but they're also not responding in a good way. So I can't force anything but I can make myself happy and take care of myself during these days. Maybe they'll come around, maybe not. Maybe I'm just the focus of their other anger or frustrations. Either way, I'm going to focus on me. Thanks again! I feel better already!!
This has been extremely helpful! Excellent counsel. I usually spiral into deep depression when feeling ignored. To the point of getting angry and desiring to get back at them in some way. But the advice here on this video has helped me to take on a different attitude and see things in a different light. Thankyou to the channel operator.
Omg im feeling ya been thr too i also hope thrs gonna help coz the Person whos ignoring means so much to me i know this Person for so many years a friend of mine gone thru the good & Bad Times in Life thats why it hurts even more May God help us And Our selflove
Communication is the key ...I must say... when we're getting through some restrictions from my side, he supported me...I'm very ambitious and he is ready to accept it...in whatever I do he supports...so, when it happened he was not approaching me as he had already decided to give me some space. After 1 week, I contacted him and he was like ...communicating with me as if there's an Ocean of words he wanted to say.. Whenever there comes anything you just communicate with each other..☺️
It's useless to waste your time on who ignores you, or makes you feel like they own you and that you owe them. Just focus your energy on yourself, many people are not worth it if they can't even find a minute to check out on you
I found this very interesting and reassuring. I have learned this lession the hard way by walking away from some people I knew during my schooltime, who've largely been ignoring me (or rather, who were scarce with me for a long time). It really hurt me because I cared about these people a lot and reminisced frequently about what an awesome friendship we had back then, but all my attempts to revive the connection - at least to some extent - have all proven futile in the end. Especially the phases 6-8 have helped me overcome this nostalgia fallacy, as I call it, meaning that if I reminisce about old times a lot and value the relationship to people from that time, that they'd have to feel alike. They don't, and most likely they will have moved on since then. It's time you do, too.
Yes, I am ignoring them. I’m tired of being an “after thought” and being generous to a fault when they’ve proven to me they don’t have the time nor inkling for a friendship.
Thanks for this video. I'm having a situation where people I thought were friends turned out not to be that. I genuinely have a big heart and care for others. So it's hard to see people do us like this. But I'm learning to just focus on me. It's hard being the nice guy sometimes. People tend to use it against me. But life goes on and what didn't kill me is making me stronger.
What a wonderful video. Whatever said in the video, I am experiencing now. I have being ignored without any reason by my female coworker inspite of constantly chasing her for her attention as she is a very nice person who is so loving and caring towards her colleagues. That kindness made me to attach with her emotionally. But she took advantage of me. she never responds when I text her or ping her. One day she speaks very friendly and one day she is behaving very wierd by not responding to me and avoiding me. I am heavily disturbed for the last couple of months. My heart broke down. After seeing this video, my mind was very clear. I am not going to chase her anymore.
One thing i really “hate” is is a manners problem. If people ask me for my time to go out with and while doing so, they ignore me by using their phones while I’m trying to talk to them. I’m fine with them sending and receiving calls, thats ok but when they start playing games or watching videos, i get irritated. I say: “if you want my time, you’ve got it but i dont want your phones.”
Yes I came along way but now I'm calm and I just do my own thing and it's working but I just have to keep reminding myself every time and people say when you learn to master it you are winning
This is true.doing things to make you happy, being busy,keeping distance with them..yeah they do work.slowly you are going to get yourself not want them in your life to be happy 😊..
Hi as someone who is experienced in these matters myself-best thing to do is really focus on yourself and keep yourself busy. That will definitely take your mind away from these types of people. Its not worth it you deserve better. People should be able to communicate their feelings. Those that are not able to, you need to let them go
@@ziratamar6488 You are very welcome Zira anytime:) Anytime you have any questions feel free to ask. I have alot of experience over the years both professional as well as personal with degrees in Education and Psychology
@@stevecavusoglu163 My friend told a girl to stop saying hi to him anytime they meet at the gym because she trying to put my friend on friend zoom after two dinner dates. Now they always ignore each other anytime they meet at the gym. What is your advice for him ?
If you love somebody with true love, you ARE NOT ABLE TO IGNORE THEM. The first manifestation will be respect towards that person and fear of losing them.
This subject is really important to most of us, as this happens one time or other in our Life. I agree that the most important of all your points is the last one that says 'You must be prepared to leave' or live without anyone/anything when desirable and possible. I belive that this idea is essential in all situations of Life. Failure here is probably the main reason for any suffering!
those points mention are almost exactly to what ive done for myself...i just vant lose to something that doesnt belongs to me..am on my way of being strongly alone/single..it makes feel the best!!!
I know the feeling-not easy but you need to keep busy and focus on you and only you and in doing so you will have forgotten about those indivuiduals that treat you in this shameful manner. I also ask myself why people can't communicate their feelings onto the other person. I rid myself of people who are not good communicators plain and simple. Life is too short. Focus on yourself
When someone ignores me it makes feel like I’m not good enough or just that they don’t want me in their life…yeah it does get rough sometimes for anyone and everyone but when the only person you can talk to about it that actually listens ignores you that’s a whole different type of pain
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My wife ignores my flirting or sexual texts and she hasnt done that before. Yes the sex is gone.
@@denniscraig2027 That sad broe wish the best for you…
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Thank you so much
1. Are you sure that the person is ignoring you? 2. Give them the space they need. 3. Make sure you're not being needy or clingy. 4. Keep yourself busy. 5. Be open to meeting other people. 6. Be ready to have an honest conversation. 7. Be willing to walk away. 8. Create your own happiness.
Thanks
Thanks
When someone ignores you?
💯✔️ True 👍
Thanks
Start ignoring them back & move on - you deserve better
Thank you, I needed to hear that.
@@spookyvegan1402 yeah I'm reaching this point.
@spookyvegan1402
Is difficult when you work with them and they are just a rude person
If they ignore you, it’s because they don’t care about you. Walk away and never look back.
If you walk away and never look back just because they ignore you doesn't always mean they don't care about you. You sound like a petulant child. If you love someone and you want to have a long loving relationship you have to be prepared that there will be somedays when either one of you are not in such a good place and accept this, without going into childish rants "I'm not going to speak to him ever again" 😞
@@sawneybean8011 but it's so hard to keep expecting right? I can't concentrate on important things or be happy, I keep calling him but he blocks my number every time I reach out. I stopped it. I gave him the space. But I'm so exhausted. I feel so restless
@@perrywinkle3728 how are you now? How are things like?
I like Step 7 too. I will never let someone treat me like that or screw with me again. I will leave, I will divorce, and I don't care. The Bible says you can't leave your spouse for treating you like this, that you have no grounds for divorce for somebody hurting you like that. WELL I DON'T CARE ANYMORE! NO!
If a person is ignoring us we shouldn’t take it too personally unless we know (even deep down) why they are ignoring us. We may have done something to offend them in which case we should accept they just don’t want to interact with us right now or maybe never again.
If you know you’ve done nothing wrong just leave them be, get on with your life and be happy.
The Right person will never ignore you They will always make an effort to include you in their life 💯
LOL. The "Right" person is now spamming you. And that line was from other vids. Maybe on Just pearly or Tribe
There is no sunch thing as a right person.
Well spoken
The right friends won't ignore you, but check in on you. Big difference.
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ignore someone who ignores you and love someone who loves you .
Yes
God bless you
What if no one is left that loves you :)
@@Night_Bird6 Then love urself!
Very true words God bless us all 🙏
If there is no one to hold your hand put your hands in your pocket and continue your walk.... 🙌🏻
Yep 💜
Damn truth❤
Walk away and never look back.... and forget that person
The right person will never ignore you.
My bff is ignoring me 😢
@@user-pearla12345 same 😢😢😢
@@user-pearla12345 if they're ignoring you then they were never your bff! Please save your self respect and move on.
I'm like a mirror. Love me,.. I'll love you back. Ignore me,.. I ignore you.
Such a coincidence that I saw this video while feeling so down coz someone is indeed ignoring me, being ignored by someone you adore hurts a lot
If you are being ignored, do the same! Respect, pamper, love, take care of, enjoy your self! You get only one life. Don't waste it on some body who is not bothered about you. Indulge, be extravagant, entertain, read, travel, pursue your hobbies, learn something new, make tonnes of money. That's it bro. You are living your life. You deserve it. Forget undeserving people.
Very true.True love is bull shit
Like andrew tate would say this.
That's true,throw them out ......
Yes yes you are quite right. Live the best life for one's self.
@@mgjayasankar7196 Such a shame to think like this. My husband and I were married for 49 years before he died ten years ago. It was not always smooth, we were married very young and still childish in some ways but I feel that ours was true love. I believe that, because we always showed respect for each other, it was one of the main reasons that we were like best friends as well as lovers. I hope that you will eventually be as fortunate as I.
I don’t need anyone in my life who ignores me.
Learn to be indepedent and you will not care if somebody ignore you or not.
Bingo. Self love is first love.
great point. Since everything is energy it might even be a "compliment" since someone might ignore you to show he or she envies your higher vibration and their energy wants to see your energy on their level ("pull down"). But that doesn't have to be on purpose since they still might not know how to raise their vibration.
Independent people also fall in love, also get attached and also can feel ignored....
@@ogad84 right, for me life is a roller coaster. I think that's just the way it is. Tide go's out. Tide comes in. Full circle. Yin and yang.
I’ve been independent since 18 and it still hurts to be ignored or rejected. Money helps but it definitely doesn’t buy happiness.
The right person will never ignore you
I never ignore people who I care about. I don't expect the exact same in return but ignoring me 2 days after a nornal conversation and me telling him if I was there I would cool for him ( after him telling me he missed having me around) is very confusing and painful. I feel stressed and hurt all day. Also bc he is abroad for a while and only called me in the 1st week of our contact. I feel so much heart ache all day 😢
For me ignoring ppl 2 or 3 days in some contexts is damaging.
I miss him but he is quiet. I keep wondering etc. Hurts a lot. We never argued but he was unpredictable from the start. I was understanding and patient respecting his space. He said he wants to build sonething beautiful with me but then goes quiet again.
He did tell me he is a disaster as relationship material but is it a reason to leave someone in uncertainty. Nope.
I told him how I felt today decently.
I just conclude he is gone and first few days it will hurt badly.
@@msqueen85 you do not know for sure, avoidants may ghost you and still love you
@@msqueen85 Well said. Games are for fake people.
Value yourself, if some bastard is purposely ignoring you then you don’t need them in your life. Love yourself and find people who treat you the way you deserve
Ur msg made my day, thankyou
Yes your message too made me smile 😊
Love your message
I ignore the one who ignores me, there is nothing I can do. I can't make them as I wish. I understood this simple trick at the age of 38, now I am 39. For so many years, I was really wandering why people ignore me. The answer was simple, they don't want to interact. Sky won't fall if they ignore.
As a man in his 20's in a small and rural area with not too many options when it comes to girls, being ignored hurts a lot. I've normally let that hurt feeling control me too much, and that has lead me to mess up many times in the past. I am currently kind of being ignored by someone I like, and showed interest towards me. I am gratefull that this is happening, and all that has happened in the past, I've come to the realisation this situations force people to grow, and learn more how to respect themselves. Thanks for the video!
Kind of being ignored is a strange statement. If you can say "Hey I am going to for dinner, would you like to join me?" and not get no response then are you being ignored? Is it that she turns you down nicely every time? Once in a while is normal, she has a life and its unhealthy if you have to be part of every iota however if she NEVER wants to hang out then yes, she is ignoring or maybe setting a boundary? (if you are work buddies or the like)
If you like them but they are setting a boundary then you might need an honest conversation. It is possible they also like you but whatever other relationship (like being work buddies) is present is stopping her from progressing? As in she might think it looks bad to date a colleague? Or she just likes being on good terms with people in that bubble so she is setting boundaries so you don't get the wrong idea. Either way after the conversation you would understand.
Just walk away bruh
Bullshit society games my man, when u want someone, you go after, you don't play stupid ignoring games. All that garbage has been polluting everyone's mind for a while.
Everybody goes through such phases. Just see the last point in the video...create your own happiness..nobody is more important than you.
If she was into you brother, and you did nothing to trigger the change. After self evaluating, don't be hard on yourself. Or do like what it sounds like other fellas here, and myself have done. Which is make excuses for her by blaming yourself.
It's her loss and we have all been through it many times. It sucks when you invest and give yourself in such a way. Then they do that nonsense. If you've talked to her already about it. Then she's given you her reason's/excuses. That don't sit well or make much sense (I lost my money in investment, busy with working, etc). Time to let go which is easier said then done. But you deserve much more and far better. Do go out and meet other's. Don't tie yourself down either again in the near future.
No matter how much potential other's may make it seem good. The right one to commit yourself to. She will be eager to prove herself and worth to you. Don't let them bait you into it first. The right one is always going to make time for you. Even if she seriously has to cancel a date or meet up. 9/10 times she is still going to contact you. If not find a way to bring her work to you. To work in your vicinity cause she wishes to be in your company. Trust me. No one is ever that busy. Keep yourself busy moving forward bro. She'll be in your face once she sees your absent. As well as that you're busy too and have options.
She doesn't value you right now. Even if she starts making efforts bro. I'd seriously not take her back or tread lightly. Cause the second you lower your guard. It'll happen again faster than last time. People can change for the better. But, that is very slim and grim. Don't count on it, and she deserves no more of your time.
When somebody ignores me! I just walk, and I never look back because it gives them time and space to think about their actions when they know you was trying to be good to them. Now that you decided to move on with your life now they’re mad.
Whenever I felt that am ingored, i pray to my god,I find a deep relief from what made my heart injured
When someone ignores you just find another person, you'll forget the previous individual trust me
If someone wants to be in your life, they will find a way. If they don't, you have your answer. Treat people the way they treat you. It is surprising how many people DON'T LIKE being treated the way they treat others.
People who are not "on their purpose" struggle the most with being ignore whereas your purpose must always come before anything else. This is key.
Ppl are not heartless sometimes being heartless is key to happiness love and care for your family and dont give a damn abt others
Well said
It is so painful when someone you have loved all your life has suddenly started ignoring you. Because you have always believed that this person would definitely be there for you till you die.. When that confidence is shattered, your entire life seems worthless. Very difficult to follow these principles when you are not thinking clearly. But all the points mentioned here are correct and valid. Problem is our mindset.
I really understand how you feel, It's been a month, I hope you're doing well now..
That is so true
Choose someone who chooses to be with you in the physical, psychological, emotional and spiritual sense. I had to learn this lesson about a quarter of a century ago and it has served me well. I have learned to spot users, emotionally damaged and inaccessible people, mentally ill and unavailable people. Choose wisely and use discretion, discernment and your head to get a good relationship in your life.
If someone ignores you then let them be happy in their life and you start your own life the right person will come in any situation to you that's why let them go who ignores you.
You only have one life live it peacefully and happily and be independent 😊
People always change when they meet new people. So if you're hurt, just meet new people, it'll be faster to detach your emotion from the person you're attached to. That's what I used to do when someone I liked hurt me emotionally, I always let myself meet new people wether in online or offline, and that makes me feel really better and think that he's not the only person in the universe. 🙂
We should definitely not use other person to get over someone who hurt you.
This is being selfish. Remember you are playing with others feelings.
I'm sorry if that's how you both understood it. English is not my first language, but I'll try to explain why I've said that comment....
I don't mean to use other people. I mean, we should explore, or leave the things that don't bring us happiness anymore. We're so deep hurt by someone because we made them our world, and we have this thought that we only have them and so we rely on them too much coz we feel like we don't have anything anymore when we lose them & that made us think that we're not worth of anything anymore. But when we become open to new things & new people, we realize that there's a lot of people who really cares & will take care of your heart, we realize that there's so many things more than that heartbreaks that kills some of our years. Also, when I meet new people I don't use them, I open my heart again & forgot all the bitterness. When I love someone, I love genuinely, I don't use people just to get over that pain from the past. There's a difference from using someone and opening yourself again to someone new.
Never mind. But I would definitely say when it comes to pain you are on your on. I don't know if it's just me or other people face this too. But for me it's a fact, saying out of experience.
@@aaqifshafi yep, I know it & I agree on that.
The right person will never ignore you, got it well thanks .
Walk away and never speak to them again. Never call, text, or pursue. Go into no contact. Do nothing. If they come around and hit you up, great! "It's great to hear from you again! When can we get together?" She says, I don't know. I have to check my schedule. Then you respond, "When you got it all figured out, give me a call!" Bye! Doesn't guarantee she'll come back. You'll probably never hear from her again. But at least she'll respect you for having boundaries!
This is perfection. Just recently went through this with someone very special to me. I would advise waiting for a week or two, then reach out to them and ask if they're willing to talk. Don't wait. You initiating the conversation is taking back your power. But yes, calm and unemotional is crucial.
In my case, the person said we're fine, and they never meant to hurt me. However, weeks later, they still weren't being "normal" with me. Then they insulted one of my daughters and I just have to be done. I just quietly stopped paying them any attention. Hurts, but I did all I could.
Best of luck everyone!!!🙏💜
But unfortunately this was obvious from the getgo. He basically ignored you for that length of time with no explanantion? and just told you we're fine? Something is not right with this picture. I always say you cannot downgrade your self worth. Yes things happen I understand but people should be able to communicate with one another and explain their feelings. There is no reason not to do so
This is not to do
Buh with God all will be possible for me because am passing through pains because of the one I really love
I'm curious to know why ditching an undeserving person should hurt you? Are you basing your self-worth on that person's liking you?
@@stevecavusoglu163 Agreed. I thought the lack of communication was ridiculous. Emotionally stunted.
@@K.Vee.Shanker No, absolutely not. I'm a very strong woman who knows her mind and heart. However, I have been friends with this person for 12 years...... so it was hard to let go because of all the great times and memories. But I have let go. And I'm fine. Low self esteem is not the answer to everything. I'm a grown woman of some age, and fully possessed of myself. I have cut many people out of my life through the years as needed. But as I said, this was different because of the long standing friendship.
If someone ignores you, then maybe you should just leave that person alone.
Thank you. Exactly. A no answer is just that: no.
I will typically start to feel bad about myself or like I did something wrong to make someone ignore me. I have learned that when I'm in that situation, it's time to start focusing on making my own happiness.
The worst thing in life is when you are being ignored by someone you married. You also feel alone, rejected and betrayed. You feel like you are not important to that person, and the more you try, the more you hurt yourself. Ignoring that person sometimes cannot fix things, as there are some people who are always unsatisfied, always want the most out of you. Sounds like you always have to beg them to treat you well. You are always wrong and they are always right. And you know you are a good person, you care so much, you always want a fix instead of just leaving, but that person who was supposed to feel fortunate does not care at all.
My heart saying by your mouth each and every word true now iam facing this problem my husband same to same like this
This is another thing, you literally describing someone in a narcissistic relationship. Anyone married that ignores their spouse is killing the relationship, end of story. When you marry, you have a duty to tend to your spouse, you are not just you anymore.
I feel you l don’t even know what one is supoz to do because walking away in marriage is a huge step
It's so true
You are married to a narcisist than tbh
"If they care about you they will put effort to reach u"
Exactly it takes 10 seconds to send a message
When they ignore you,let them rest in peace,respect dead with silence.
I literally feel good to spend 9 mins in this video since it taught me what is neccessary to do in life and from today I'll start applying in my life
Awesome
If someone ignores you for a day,leave them for a lifetime because they will regret ignoring you at least once in their life✨
WHAT???? ARE YOU KIDDING??? WHAT IF THAT PERSON WAS TIRED ALL DAY AND DIDN'T CHECK THEIR PHONE OR THEY PERSON IS DEALING WITH A FUNERAL OR SOMETHING??? THAT'S SI IMMATURE OF YOU TBH
Damn, you crazy
@@nxbxxha_1764 hey
That's not what I meant
If someone is deliberately neglectful despite being with us,we should definitely leave them
@@mayureee_b.k272 Yeah cuz they're not our problem.
That's really true.....
I don't play games. If someone isn't sure they want me around, I'm assuming they don't and moving on. Sadly, if they then decide they do want me it's too late. I do not play games. If they did this once, they will probably, at some point, do it again.
Yes it's hard but I do exactly this. It really does work. It also make them realise it's their loss 😂
I just stop communicating with them. Then they'll call back. This I learned from her and applying to all.
Doesn't work when your living together 😂🤣
Just end up locked in my room 24/7 and then the only conversation is when I get asked, "what's for dinner?" Or, "do we need anything from the shops".
Stuck in a foreign country, completely isolated, and under these conditions....
After thousands of honest conversations.....
Wish I could leave, yesterday!
I honestly consider this video extremely helpful. There have always been times where a lot of people are ignoring me in my life and doesn’t seem to be interested. The most important thing is that I can’t rely on them to do something that makes me happy. It’s all about myself and to find my happy place.
I used to feel upset but now I am trying to be strong and to look at situations from a positive perspective.
The right person will never ignore you ❤️🔥🌍🇰🇪 GENIUNE 💯✍️
Believe me every single words of this video worth it.
I already done all the same steps mentioned in the video from 8 September to 20 September and today I watch this video.
It's a COINCIDENCE that all the steps which I take explained or covered in this video, and I am still working on step 8.(create your own happiness) but I am still feeling low because I cares about her and i don't know how she is.
Glad you found the video helpful! Best of luck 👍
How is it going now?
Wise words. Hurts so much when this happens. No ending no conclusion.
When I perceive someone I know is ignoring me I feel hurt and then angry. Your points are right one and worth to consider. Also some who ignore others is to hurt them whether they know them or not. It could be a passive agressive act or if they know us, ignoring us may mean they don't feel they need us anymore, so they were never worth associating with or relating. Thanks for a most educational and eyeopening video!
When ever I would feel ignored by someone in the past, I would get so hurt and post subliminals on Facebook about it 🥴
I was so clingy and needy 😫 it’s legit cringe just thinking about it 😂
I needed so much healing and so the work began…
Now when I feel I’m being ignored, I give the person space and when they reach out I’m respectful and receptive…I have one friend right now who, after me giving her space for about 1 month, is just now starting to initiate contact (right now it’s just through sending a song to me via the messenger app)
It does still hurt me when I feel ignored by someone that I care about! But I have grown to realize that it is truly their loss and they will eventually see that. When and how long it takes is not my concern anymore 🤷🏾♀️
Healing is possible and learning to love and accept yourself really makes this easier!!
I loved this video and it really confirmed to me that I’m headed in the right direction on my healing journey 💕
Love and Light to you ❤✨
If i find someone is ignoring me, i just enjoy my self and think thats their loss... But its not easy to stay away from whom u miss the most...
You never know what you have in a relationship and who have in that relationship until you lose it. 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
When anybody ignores , me too I ignore that person...if they come back to me well and good if they don't then too it's good for me
When I got ignored on social media I stopped responding to them back and I made new friends because my mom was right because she wanted me to be happy and not stressed over the situation so this video helps me a lot and thank you👍
If a person close to you repeatedly ignores you, it's time to remind him/her gently and make it known it is unsettling and ask if you've done anything to upset the person. If this unsocial behavior still continues or is intermittent, tell the person it's time to take a break and don't just stop texting or calling the person without notice. Be upfront and tell the person, you'll stop calling or texting because a one way traffic in a relationship is unbalanced. Do it politely and don't forget to praise the person's good qualities. Stop texting and calling reduce physical meetings and when you meet don't raise the troubling issue and talk causally asking about the person's welfare and leave in a few minutes. Go less often to meet the person. The spiritual angle of sentient beings locking onto the human sentience is usually the cause of an upsetting change in behavior and relationships and is the key to understanding this volatile phenomenon and is not what the stupid scientists say. If one has a highly activated sixth sense or psychic awareness then it's easy to spot the root cause and remedy it using a spiritual approach that invariably works and if in the process one discovers the spiritual cause is getting overpowering in a toxic way and is beyond one's spiritual capacity to correct or tame it then it's best to maintain a safe distance for one's own wellbeing and much more....
A no answer is just that: no.
When someone ignores you it's very painful and it's abusive I'm learning to back away and be silent because silence is the best medicine❤
Why would you want to be with someone who gives you silent treatment. High school drama grow up.
having an honest conversation is the best step. Sometimes we're not ready to see what's going on in another's life and we think that he's taking us for granted but having an honest and non-argumental conversation can save many bonds. don't follow these steps just because you want them back but also for your self respect, living your life for yourself and see how much fun you can have without them.
There are lot of ways to communicate.
Possibilities :
No phone, then visit or write letter.
No internet, then try to ask friends and family
Not responding on text messages, then call doesn't matter if local or overseas.
Because if this person truly cares. He or she knows your feelings! He will find ways no matter how busy he or she is even sickness.
Tbh the reason why I let go of someone.
I didn't communicate for month now and that month only once I receive message. I always the one who reach out 98percent of the time. I can't call even after the work, lots of reasons and I realize I deserve better..not worth to stay.
"Create your own happiness. You're in control of your own happiness." I don't enjoy doing anything alone. Nothing is fun or interesting to me if I am doing it alone. This is the hardest thing I'm dealing with right now and it's only hitting me because all of my friends and family have their own lives, and aren't always able to do things.
It's truly useful and practical, specially the end tip about not trying to control and focusing on your own happiness.
I met someone a while back, and we were so inlove with each other. She woud call me every morning upon waking up, or I would. Whoever woke up first, and we would talk about everything, and how much we loved each other and how we were so into each other. But one day, she just decided to cut me off without a reason. I chased her and after a couple of weeks, she came back, but things changed. She didn't love me the same way. At times, she gave me small messages and signs that she did, but then tried to cut us down to being just friends after explaining to me that she was too addicted to me to the point she wouldn't handle priorities in her life, so we remained friends with the romance still at play, but then she stopped responding and reaching out again out of nowhere. After almost two weeks, I finally tried to find out what the issue was, and she simply said we should just remain friends, again no real reason, just that she knows she is hurting me and it's unfair. After how close we were, I left her a final message about how hurt I was thinking about how close we were and her just changing on me. I am now left all alone deppressed about the situation. I contacted her believing it would be time to walk away, and knowing it would hurt more than I believed even though I was prepared for it. I wish people would just be honest with each other, and we didn't have to play these stupid mind games to keep each other. The whole concept of dating with these silly games is ridiculous. When you think about it, there is never any honesty if you have to go through all these steps
You got played by a narcissist. Consider yourself very lucky you got discarded. Learn about this personality type..the "love bombing " gives them away. Be..sadder budweiser!
When you are sure that the other person is ignoring you)doesn't value you or takes you for granted or you are not important for them but they always pretend that you are important,then in such cases , simply delete their contact , unfollow them from social medias , and delete all photos and memories of their from your device , this will help to move on and never talk with them anymore , because they will say sorry and when you again start paying attention then they will ignore you more , and last thing never ever come in front of them always try to stay away from their eyesight , this is the best punishment for toxic people .
Being Ignored by our Loved One is Abuse. It's Emotional Neglect.
Very much so. I'm sorry if you had to go through that.
It’s easy to say ignore them back and stuffs like that .
But it’s not so easy to do it , especially when you care so much 😪
Thanks for your advice. This video came at the right time when I needed it most.
Happy to hear that 😊
I pretty much do everything in the video already. Very good advice but definitely don't play the blame game because they might have a reason why they aren't responding. Sometimes people need time and space to fix something they are going threw/dealing with or just need a little more alone time than most others.
What if they’re always out though? And clearly not going thru something
@@nadinegomez8858 I'd say anxiety and or depression or they are just not interested in interacting much.
Nah they could just communicate instead of ignoring us
I feel steps 4 and 10 are the most important ways to deal with someone ignoring you. And if they later on decide to come back Iam sorry but I would end it-would not take them back. If they cut you out cold w/o any communication or explanantion whatsoever, its time to let go. There is no reason to down grade your self worth
There is no 10 🤔
@@dilukshierandathidharmadas9412 there actually is-watch the video again:)
I’ve gotten ignored by quite a few people in the past. Tbh I either just stop bothering them right away or ignore them the next time they call or text me 🤷🏻♂️
i listen to this on a loop, his voice is so calm and helped me mostly get over my break up.. sleep to it and you'll know exactly what to do
So happy to hear that! 🌟
OMG I LOVE THIS!! Thank you!!
I've been struggling with a sibling that has dramatically pulled back after we had a great conversation and connection. The next day, things were different BUT because of the previous conversation, I thought it was other things going on in their life. So I didn't do anything else. Just went on with my life knowing something was off with them. THEN today like 7 days later, my other sibling told me they're upset about something I'd previously apologized for and they forgave me. Yet it seems like they really haven't but they're also not responding in a good way. So I can't force anything but I can make myself happy and take care of myself during these days. Maybe they'll come around, maybe not. Maybe I'm just the focus of their other anger or frustrations. Either way, I'm going to focus on me. Thanks again! I feel better already!!
This has been extremely helpful! Excellent counsel.
I usually spiral into deep depression when feeling ignored. To the point of getting angry and desiring to get back at them in some way. But the advice here on this video has helped me to take on a different attitude and see things in a different light.
Thankyou to the channel operator.
Omg im feeling ya been thr too i also hope thrs gonna help coz the Person whos ignoring means so much to me i know this Person for so many years a friend of mine gone thru the good & Bad Times in Life thats why it hurts even more
May God help us
And Our selflove
Communication is the key ...I must say... when we're getting through some restrictions from my side, he supported me...I'm very ambitious and he is ready to accept it...in whatever I do he supports...so, when it happened he was not approaching me as he had already decided to give me some space. After 1 week, I contacted him and he was like ...communicating with me as if there's an Ocean of words he wanted to say.. Whenever there comes anything you just communicate with each other..☺️
It's useless to waste your time on who ignores you, or makes you feel like they own you and that you owe them. Just focus your energy on yourself, many people are not worth it if they can't even find a minute to check out on you
You have literally healed me. I owe a lot of gratitude to you and this channel that's a blessing ...huge one !❤
Thanks for this lesson. You know how much relief it has brought to me
You're very welcome!
I found this very interesting and reassuring. I have learned this lession the hard way by walking away from some people I knew during my schooltime, who've largely been ignoring me (or rather, who were scarce with me for a long time). It really hurt me because I cared about these people a lot and reminisced frequently about what an awesome friendship we had back then, but all my attempts to revive the connection - at least to some extent - have all proven futile in the end. Especially the phases 6-8 have helped me overcome this nostalgia fallacy, as I call it, meaning that if I reminisce about old times a lot and value the relationship to people from that time, that they'd have to feel alike. They don't, and most likely they will have moved on since then. It's time you do, too.
When someone ignores me I try to go to sleep for a few hours. And then I wake up , good as new.
Yes, I am ignoring them. I’m tired of being an “after thought” and being generous to a fault when they’ve proven to me they don’t have the time nor inkling for a friendship.
Thanks for this video. I'm having a situation where people I thought were friends turned out not to be that. I genuinely have a big heart and care for others. So it's hard to see people do us like this. But I'm learning to just focus on me. It's hard being the nice guy sometimes. People tend to use it against me. But life goes on and what didn't kill me is making me stronger.
What a wonderful video. Whatever said in the video, I am experiencing now. I have being ignored without any reason by my female coworker inspite of constantly chasing her for her attention as she is a very nice person who is so loving and caring towards her colleagues. That kindness made me to attach with her emotionally. But she took advantage of me. she never responds when I text her or ping her. One day she speaks very friendly and one day she is behaving very wierd by not responding to me and avoiding me. I am heavily disturbed for the last couple of months. My heart broke down. After seeing this video, my mind was very clear. I am not going to chase her anymore.
Me: I can do it all on my own.
My heart: she's the love of my life. 🤣
One thing i really “hate” is is a manners problem.
If people ask me for my time to go out with and while doing so, they ignore me by using their phones while I’m trying to talk to them. I’m fine with them sending and receiving calls, thats ok but when they start playing games or watching videos, i get irritated.
I say: “if you want my time, you’ve got it but i dont want your phones.”
Yes I came along way but now I'm calm and I just do my own thing and it's working but I just have to keep reminding myself every time and people say when you learn to master it you are winning
when someone ignores me...i silently distance myself and move on and i will focus on my career
This channel deserves an Oscar
Oh thank you so much!
I subscribed ♥️
I totally agree! A man differs from a woman, in thinking, in behavior, in feelings.. So there should never be an assumption.
This is true.doing things to make you happy, being busy,keeping distance with them..yeah they do work.slowly you are going to get yourself not want them in your life to be happy 😊..
I love this altruistic view on love; bur anybody is going to be sad when they can't function through their day without closure
Such a touching story. but yes, we have all felt this before. Where people forget how important their real friends or spouse is until they are gone.
This video pop up exactly at the right situation
Awesome! 🌟
Like my dad told me years ago, anyone that claims to be that busy is a natural born liar
This is exactly what i needed this sunday 18/09/22 cos im feeling rejected from people now i knw what to do thanks🙏🙏
Glad you found the video helpful 🌟
Hi as someone who is experienced in these matters myself-best thing to do is really focus on yourself and keep yourself busy. That will definitely take your mind away from these types of people. Its not worth it you deserve better. People should be able to communicate their feelings. Those that are not able to, you need to let them go
@@stevecavusoglu163 thanks so much sir i really Appreciate 🙏🥺
@@ziratamar6488 You are very welcome Zira anytime:) Anytime you have any questions feel free to ask. I have alot of experience over the years both professional as well as personal with degrees in Education and Psychology
@@stevecavusoglu163 My friend told a girl to stop saying hi to him anytime they meet at the gym because she trying to put my friend on friend zoom after two dinner dates. Now they always ignore each other anytime they meet at the gym. What is your advice for him ?
if we give them space they might just leave because sometimes we fall in love with a selfish person, and they just dont care about our feelings
I am glad that I have watched this video because I needed to. I am currently going through this right now
Hope you find peace soon
I just loved all the comments. Really taught me how to live when people ignore us. Thank you all.
If you love somebody with true love, you ARE NOT ABLE TO IGNORE THEM. The first manifestation will be respect towards that person and fear of losing them.
Number 2. What if they don't reach out to you at all??
This subject is really important to most of us, as this happens one time or other in our Life. I agree that the most important of all your points is the last one that says 'You must be prepared to leave' or live without anyone/anything when desirable and possible. I belive that this idea is essential in all situations of Life. Failure here is probably the main reason for any suffering!
those points mention are almost exactly to what ive done for myself...i just vant lose to something that doesnt belongs to me..am on my way of being strongly alone/single..it makes feel the best!!!
Better to be distant...but at times" not taking personally " seems a bit difficult for me ( both officially and personally )
I know the feeling-not easy but you need to keep busy and focus on you and only you and in doing so you will have forgotten about those indivuiduals that treat you in this shameful manner. I also ask myself why people can't communicate their feelings onto the other person. I rid myself of people who are not good communicators plain and simple. Life is too short. Focus on yourself
When you’re around toxic being ignored by them is a dream come true 👍👍
When someone ignores me it makes feel like I’m not good enough or just that they don’t want me in their life…yeah it does get rough sometimes for anyone and everyone but when the only person you can talk to about it that actually listens ignores you that’s a whole different type of pain
You are perfect as you are! 💜
Such Lovely advice... nothing better than this... very well explained