If you're NOT in the Philippines you have an advantage to finding a genuine Filipina
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I've just checked the site..but after filling everything, i noticed that we have to give our personal phone number and with all the scams from the Philippines...i finally pass on that site.
Ive started looking online since i gave up on any girl in the west 15 years ago, and discovering filipino culture last year. Ive had no problem finding genuine girls, even getting a visit from a girl this summer. She's an OFW and makes a little more than most in the ph and decided to take a vacation in Norway.
Wow that's amazing! Yes there are many genuine girls here for sure and if you can find a good one and it's mutual it's so much more ideal than most options in the west
I should've clarified that this phenomenon applies more to girls in the province, if you are in Cebu city and you're using one of the common apps there are endless girls that will want to meet you right away. And of course there are girls in the province that will also meet you. The point of sharing this phenomenon that I've experienced many times is just to share that there are many good Filipinas that fall into this category and are just very cautious. Because it's so easy for many foreigners to 'hook up' in Cebu city for example this is well known to those girls and that's why they avoid guys that are here. They figured once you are already here you've had your fun and they just want a guy that doesn't even have an opportunity to do that. It's not my opinion or preference I'm just sharing what I'm learning. if someone can use this to their advantage then that's awesome. Thanks for watching everyone!
@chadfosterexplores Women also get themselves hurt by doing this. The man thinks you're a 9 then get to the Philippines and quickly realizes you're a 5 and 9s are checking him out. Then he might start to think (especially if you aren't in love) that he just randomly chose someone out of loneliness and did himself a disservice. Now he's thinking ok you're nice I'm glad we met but I need to explore my options to find who best fits my personality and goals. Basically intentionally ruining your shot because you tried to force an LDR with someone you haven't met instead of getting to know someone who is already there. Maybe you would have a better chance of it working out if you would have waited and been the 4th person he met after he was already there. Point is you can't assume. TIME getting to know each other IN PERSON is the only way to know. A smart person has a few people lined up to meet when they get there anyway. you might get along great online then you meet and they have bad hygiene or they were FAKE nice to you. But, when you see how they interact with other people you see they're toxic. There are pros and cons to both ways so you could be doing yourself a disservice to say one way is the only way and not give others a chance. All you can do is take the time to really get to know them in person. Doesn't matter where you meet them.
That is very weird logic Filipina's have. I don't doubt what you are saying, but I think they are hurting their own chances by limiting themselves to online guys instead of what is standing right in front of them
Online interest is often not passion based. It's just good for $imps and Sub-5's who have to pay for love via marriage and family. Handsome young men don't need family or supporting half a village.
Dating in any country with any ethnicity takes time. There is no formula. Just enjoy being in the Philippines!
@@phoenixhydra If they are sooo easy to meet in Cebu City then why does the smart guy need a few lined up for when he lands? Genuine question.
If you're coming to the Philippines come for "YOU!" not a piece of patch. “Getting your shit together requires a level of honesty you can’t even imagine. There’s nothing easy about realizing you’re the one that’s been holding you back this whole time.” -Unknown
I’m a former therapist, turned online coach and your suggestions are 100% on point! The adage: wherever you go, there you are is ALWAYS true. I’ve been working my plan patiently and each day I’m another day closer to meeting my OFW (Hong Kong) - we met on CF and will be meeting for the first time this coming August in the Philly Willy 😁 we’ve been connected for nearly 3 months and it’s been a satisfying process thus far. Patience literally is my best friend in all this! Along with determination, and discipline. Great content here Chad! Peace ☮️
First of all thank you for saying that I appreciate it and that is fantastic glad you found someone great and it's going well... enjoy it and enjoy the Philippines!
@@ChadFosterExplores you’re welcome. I’ve been watching you for many many months. You have an inviting presence and honest personality. I appreciate your work ethic to continue to offer us men solid content.
Pushing the services of an overpriced dating site as an affiliate doesn't present an unbiased view of why it is ok to choose that service. If men are so lonely & desperate to find "love" and are willing to waste up to $2500 USD subscribing to CF then by all means waste that money, but just know that there are still a lot of scammers on that site as well ... I know from experience. To find a woman you can use any dating site or just use FB. Most times you will see the same women on multiple sites so, they are all the same at the end of the day. Just use logic and discernment and save your money for a plane ticket!!
Just go to Pinalove. Its free and I am going to meet my LDR later this year. Do not waste any money on CF. Sorry Chad!
I've never been there ...I have a lovely little province girl I'm going to meet in August .. one of the first things she said was ... When I go home ...you go home too ... She did not want me staying there after our holiday ...and I wont .. I love this girl ..
Many would say you cannot “love” someone you yet to even meet but it’s your life and your call ✌️
Man, meet her first before you say you love her.
thank you for another nice video. I, being 74, am coming to Cebu in February from Texas and plan on settling there. I'm coming there to live a nice life in a beautiful country with friendly people. I'm not looking for a young Filipina as a mate, for all I want is to have a place of my own, enjoy walking around Cebu, and even have a little cat for a companion. However, my Filipina daughter in-law told me not to rule out finding a nice Filipina. If I were to eventually look for a nice Filipina, it would be after I've been there for many months. But as you stated, many Filipina women would rather the foreigners haven't even been there yet. And this will be my first trip to this beautiful country. perhaps I could check online just to see what I find. curiosity can be so darn annoying, lol.
the onething thats not discussed enough is health , ive seen many come to philippines not understanding if they in bad health this might not be a good choice . the heat is going to be a issue , if someone isnt healthy enough to walk much and taking medications that require you to not get hot then you will have problems in the philippines . this will also play into the cost of what it does to your budget if you require aircon alot or always bcoz of the heat . so many cant sleep at night bcoz of the heat bcoz they lived in places were aircon wasnt necessary at night or wasnt as hot and humid as the philippines . the philippines has no seasons , its summer year round and humid , with occasioanlly rainy days but still humid . so those wanting to come to philippines and live very cheap on fixed income might be shocked .when they start looking for a place to live that will be comfortable to them and have the amenities they want it could quickly become out of your budget . the health care isnt great and the health care facilities that are good cost money , they want money and if you on fixed income you wont be able to afford it if you have serious health issue . so best to look into health insurance that will be accepted by the best hospitals in the philippines if you want quality healthcare . ive seen men come and quickly get into trouble financially bcoz they needed a place to live with aircon , furnished and with things they were accustom to in USA . then they also didnt like the food and would try to eat like they did back in there home country or eating out in restaurants with western style cuisine . all those things are going to cost more and not be as cheap as you think not to mention the medications you may need daily might not be available or the price you expected . ive met foreigners before that were in philippines and they were wanting to leave after just a few months bcoz they didnt realize how much the cost would actually be and the heat was hard for them . ive also known men die in philippines before they could even get to hospital bcoz ambulances dont arrive fast and the traffic so bad it could take too long .you cant exxpect the things from your country to be same or even close to the same in philippines , they tend to be slow doing anythiing and late for work or appointments . they would even joke about this themselves saying PAL which i thought they meant philippine airlines but they joke and said it was filipinos always late , lmao . its common to see foreigners losing there calm in philippines in malls , restaraunts , etc bcoz they get annoyed with slow service . so yes philippines can fun and exciting , it also can be a nightmare if you dont under the reality of life here in the philippines and you not going to change it you just have to accept it and stay calm . but health and the heat can have a big effect on you and your budget if you come here expecting things to be like back home . these guys saying they live great on $800 dollars a month not being honest how they able to do it and most will not want to live like that .
Great video...and timely for me. Just last night I saw a RUclips video of a guy interviewing a BEAUTIFUL Filipina province girl who spoke great English and seemed very sweet. I seriously considered reaching out to her on Instagram (it was easy to find her page with her first and middle name and "Philippines"). But the reality is that she isn't who I am looking for.
1. She is only 18.
2. She talked about liking to go to the club and do shots with her three roommates.
That isn't what I want. She still wants to sow her wild oats and I am done with that life. I'm 59, but am fit and everyone says I look about 15 years younger. So I can get a date here in the west (obviously I can't pull an 18-year-old though 😂). The problem I have is in finding a woman I WANT to date. When I travel to the Philippines next year, God willing, it isn't to find a girl who loves doing shots with her girlfriends at the local bar. I can find that here.
My point is that I almost gave in to the lure of the girl's beauty instead of keeping my eyes on the real prize I'm looking for.
You're so right DO NOT go for the ones who drink or party. Mine was a homebody. She's conservative all her "dance" moves are conservative too, she couldn't dance salaciously or sexily really, there's a regimentation to her dance like a majorette which she was as well in high school.
You work your whole life then in your 50s and 60s think spending your money on a 20 something Filapina and her family?? Yea smart move.... NOT
Good call on bringing the baggage with you. Gotta deal with you own B's before dragging another person into it. This was honestly one of the most insightful videos I've watched. It's very appreciated.
Thanks I'm glad it's appreciated I'm just speaking from my own experiences, figuring it all out as I go on this life journey haha
@ChadFosterExplores living our dreams, with the roller-coaster ride, Hang On!
Good post Chad - glad to hear/see that your experience is bearing fruit. Everyone's journey is different and I think a new vlog as a reminder of the steps you took in order to get you to this phase.....the discovery. Thanks buddy - look forward to viewing the next one stateside. EW.
Thank you. I’ve really started looking into myself about a year ago. I don’t want to bring an issues with me. I’m coming to restart my life.
Really appreciate your perspectives. As you say clearly it’s not 100% it’s a percentage…exactly the percentage who knows. Yet it’s high enough you have noticed it enough to share. Great info. Cheers.
Thank you for the video. You seem like a honest guy.
You're welcome and thank you
Hi Chad, so I have been to the Philippines 5 times now and I’m going back in September to be with my LDR that I met in January. So I was very aware of the “red flag” bit, but you know what? I found myself inventing red flags. The culture is different and especially if you’re in the west and she’s in the Philippines. Also if your LDR does not have real good English skills there’s gonna be a real problem, even with video chats. I have come very close to breaking it off with a wonderful woman who has had a bad relationship experience with a foreigner in her past because of several misunderstandings. We are in a very good place now and we are both really looking forward to September. But the gist of this is not just looking for red flags but inventing them.
I’m seeing a lot of red flags here 🤷♂️
Chad, this video is excellent. A bit heavy, but appropriately so. Thank you
Great advice!
Super informative and wise points you made. My situation is almost exactly like you discussed. Trying to get money right, fighting depression/anxiety and looking toward restarting my life's journey on a more positive streak. I know it takes time. I'm glad you shared that perspective Chad. Thanks brutha 🤙
You're welcome! It's a common thing especially nowadays...better roads ahead 🤙
Why not let a man be a man. He may have been married and divorced and is looking overseas for a new and hopfully final love. The filipina would need to understand and respect where he is coming from. They are both from very different cultures and finding a good balance needs to happen. It is not all about the foreigner and it is not all about the filipina...........it is about two mature people uniting and sharing life as husband and wife and respect both cultures................nothing more.
I met my wife online 18 years ago on Yahoo Messenger. It obviously turned out good for me. We had decided to marry before physically meeting. On my first visit, we were married 3 weeks after I arrived. She also prior in our 6 month LDR never asked for money. I tried to give it, but she refused. She said it wasn't proper.
Sounds like a Muslim marriage. Lucky you. Congrats bro
Well, Chad, you definitely are living the dream… Those views look amazing. And again very informative. Interesting perspective. In your travels so far where’s your favourite spot?🇨🇦
Awesome pictures.
I think some good advice there Chad.
Hard to be serious about any sort of relationship if your head is a mess.
Personally i prefer to look in person than the online way, unless of course I'm say in Thailand and just looking for company/leisure activity 🙂.
It's a big commitment to go for on into a new relationship and you really need to be sure that's what you really want.
Thanks for great video 👍
Very nice and informative video, Chad. I am a widower planning to travel to the Philippines to experience the culture and the wonderful people there. I don’t do dating sites and I am not looking for a girlfriend or wife. I have become accustomed to living and traveling on my own and recently returned from a trip to Thailand. I am planning my next trip to Cambodia, and after watching many RUclips videos on the Philippines, yours included, I became interested in adding the Philippines to my travel plans. Keep up your great videos and those views of the Philippines in your videos are amazing!
You know what Chad, you say you're not a counsellor, but in a very niche environment which 90% of your subs cannot see, because we are not there, and haven't been there, I believe you are a counsellor of sorts. Because you really put some thought into what guys need to consider in their head before making the jump, where other channels may just show us the sights, lifestyle, dating opportunities etc. Thanks my friend for really opening up your experiences to us and putting some real thought into this.
Interesting point of view.
I have been to the Philippines many times when I was in the Navy, it's not about if you have been to the Philippines before it's all about how you treat people.
I am happily married so this will not apply to me. Here is my thought. I will not know the character of a person unless I personally have physically interaction. The more interactions, major disagreements may arise. The question is how easy these disagreement can reconcile between the 2 individuals.
this describes us. it worked out great!!! 😀
Right. I met my fiancé online and had an LDR relationship with her for 1.5 years before I met her in person. We have been dating for 3 years, she has a job, and she does not want me to feel obligated to support her until we are married. But, before I met her, I had to avoid few online scammers and other situations.
Chad,
Enjoyed your video and topic.
Some of the best videos I’ve seen on the Philippines are interviews done with Filipinas about their life and struggles.
I’ve been on Christian Filipina the past two months and it is difficult to avoid the few scammers on the site. CF does a good job to remove profiles that are questionable.
I have 25 yrs experience conducting interviews and investigations with a LE agency and it took me several days to assess the Filipinas were not genuine. I can see why normal guys fall for their charm and schemes.
Keep living your dream.
I met my filipina wife on Date in Asia in 2008 and the first question she asked me was if I have ever been to Thailand. I said no, so she said she would like to know more about me. If I would have been to Thailand, she said she wouldn't have nothing to do with me. That was 16 years ago.
That’s a naive assumption but she’s probably right 😅
I get where she's coming from but my reply to her would have been, have you ever been to Angela's City ? ..... 😂
I met one on Date in Asia is 2023, went to her island, she mislead about having kids, still she was nice and apologized. She now stalks me on social media after I found my forever.
Beautiful scenery
Chad, this video is truth! Last year I had not a clear plan but the start of one. I had to start over @60. I did a lot of traveling and soul searching met many women in different countries that were beautiful and young and tried dating apps and services in the US. Several were good candidates but in the end I felt as though I was settling for what was convenient. I found Christian Filipina and always thought Asian women were beautiful so I signed up. OMG it was like turning on a firehouse, and there services are amazing. I found a match I think and we have been chatting at least 2x daily for 4 months. She seems to be my unicorn and plan on seeing her in August. Good luck to you in finding yours as well dude. I always have in my head that even if this does not work, I have 1000s of options
This sounds like one of their advertising
@mikesolns1364 my personal story sounds like advertising? Believe me I had to wade through a bunch of bad apples and CF does a good job getting rid of them. The key is looking for what you want and being choosy. You initiate contact, you can pretty much ignore anyone you did not talk or wink at first. You may not believe my story but it's my life and good luck in your search...be careful!
I tried CF for free just this past weekend and didn’t care for their search design at all. It takes tons of time to view even two or three dozen thumbnails
Chad, good insight that is obvious once you hear it. The reason I didn’t think of it is that I didn’t realize there is a subset of women who are averse to a foreigner who is already there. Once you point it out, it is obvious there would be that subset of women. Once you are aware, it is obvious that men who have not yet arrived in PH have an advantage in meeting those women. Thanks for that insight, though I feel silly for not being aware of it before you pointed it out. Sometimes what should be obvious, isn’t.
Good advise about knowing yourself first. Get you sh*t in one bag and know what you want.
Oh my lord those nature shots and arial views are SPECTACULAR !! Thank you for sharing them. Muted you (sorry , not into dating subject ) but I watched this like 3x for the scenery . How long did it take you to stack those rocks ?? kidding 🤣🤣
Safe & Happy travels 🏝️
Christian Filippina website sounds good if a guy is looking for a lady. But some guys just want to travel and see the country and maybe later look for that special someone. Spending a few months alone and reconnecting maybe best while figuring out the next move. Love yourself first and then share that love with that special lady.
Thanks for another awesome video😊
Thank You Chad for being so open and honest about your failed gf experiences there in the Philippines 🇵🇭. Great advice for us who are seeking the right girl for the optimal relationship. Yes it’s paramount we are not running away from our problems, but landing lightly at a place with potential peace, happiness and love. Timing, readiness and patience is most importantly for facing those moments when you begin to have doubts and question “what am I doing?”.
Hey thanks yeah as mentioning the other response just trying to share my thoughts as they come to me and things I'm learning and hope that it can relate to someone else or help someone else
Ask yourself does she bring more positive to your life than negative. Does she give you peace or strife.
Chad, where’s the backdrop scenery in this video? What’s your recommended way to get there from Cebu?
Thanks
It's in Padre Burgos southern leyte. I took a scooter there from Cebu city there are a couple of different Ferry options. Hilongos in leyte most logical. But to get from there to Padre Burgos I'm not sure because like I said I had my own scooter. But there's likely a van, a bus, could hire a driver etc. or rent a scooter
Thanks Chad.....great video editing. Use sunscreen. Never fall in love with a bar girl. I did.
That is a completely unexpected observation. Interesting perspective.
Yeah everyone is surprised when I tell them about this phenomenon. When it first started happening to me I was so confused, I would ask them so you would rather match with someone thousands of miles away even though I'm right here in the same town and they would say Yep that's right I don't trust guys who are here haha. it literally just happened to me again the other day and I asked her about it and she said yeah I'm sorry for judging it just makes her feel uneasy me being here and she seemed like the nicest sweetest girl. It happens somewhat frequently like this. Now Tinder matches in the cities aren't worried about it they'll meet you right away. This happens more on like ChristianFilipina and sites where the girls are really looking for serious. Not all I like this but I'm just saying it happens somewhat frequently
Chad it seems like you updated us with another evolving phase of dating Filipinas. Your best advice is….all of us need to get to know who we really are and what we really want with a Filipina partner.
@@samuelmendoza8585 yeah I'm just sharing my own experiences and I'm definitely learning as I go, my advice is kind of like me advising myself too haha
@@ChadFosterExploresYes and you’re coming across as a person with pure honesty and helpful advice. So keep up the good work 👍👍
Tankaan Beach, wow the views and pace of life there looks so damn relaxing. Will add that place to my bucket list when my Filipina wife and I relocate to the Philippines in September.
Will add, took me a few Filipina Cupid LDR chats and a few flights to the Philippines before I met the one. If I settled for the first one and now looking back glad I didn't, for sure we would have been broken up if we lived together. Just asked my wife Gennalyn on what meeting foreigners there or via online LDR and she said, more that likely if they have lived in the Philippines for awhile they might be playing the field and could be a playboy LOL. Case by case as each persons situation is different.
PS: She knows about the first one where I am so glad I said "Adios" too and gave 100% of my time to her from that point going forward as I knew I hit the Lottery. Patience, knowing what you want and little to no baggage will go a long way to a chill and happy life.
Sounds like you are figuring out yourself and are slowly getting there. Will be interesting to see when Chad finds the one and you two will settle down. 🤩Another good vlog with amazing views thanks for the share and keep them coming as we know it takes time to do these YT videos brother!
Met mine on Tinder, which is bizarre. She'd never been on a dating app 2 months before we started messaging. Married within 2 weeks of our first message first trip. Her family accepts me I accept them.
Thanks Chad, from Maasin. Would appreciate very much if you could promote further Southern Leyte. Take care.
I can see where you are coming from and there may be some truth in what you say, but the chances of dealing with a Scammer are certainly real with ANY online relationship. The fact that you are supported by Christian Filapina is questionable. The serious Scammers are becoming more and more sophisticated and any relationship you have with someone online, even doing FaceTime, Skype, ect. cannot be considered genuine. ONLY after being where the person is, spending quantity and quality time, can you really find out who that person really is. Just my opinion. Mileage may vary! As Always, May God Bless you and yours! 😇
Understand that it usually takes 5 years to get over or past a long term relationship. Whether it ended by death or divorce, if you start a relationship before then, it may not work out because you jumped for what was available, you are on the rebound, etc;.
Liked talking to my wife online first, finding out what she was like and learning about her. We talked for just over a year before I met her in person. Did not want to go to UAE to meet her, had to wait till she went back to Cebu the following summer. It was hard to find the right girl online. The pay service mentioned above may be better though.
Heres an idea for a video. How to lose weight in the Philippines! Am about 40 pounds overweight and heard it is possible to lose weight there. maybe the heat? Do like my White Claws though with low carbs and 100 calories a drink.
Great Video, you better get ready to high tail it out of there when the typhoons start..lol Thanks, Chad...Jim
Be careful in the sun my Canadian brother 😊
You're pissing off Reekay right now. It's his boots on the ground, mall rat way or the highway. 😀
Funny. I had a similar thought. I think both men are correct. BOG is the best way to meet women who are not averse to men in PH. For those women who are averse to men who are in PH, online meeting before you arrive is best. Sounds obvious once you hear it.
ha ha ha
Have fun , you will find . Just not when you want . But it will happen . Crazy its so hard to find q great gal these days in the big P. Hang in there you know shes out there.
Great info. I'm moving to Cebu city in the fall 2025. At what point do I go online to meet someone? 3 months, 6 months before I arrive?
FILIPINAS LOVE LDR BC THEY CAN CHAT MANY MANY FOREIGNERS AND BEGGING FOR MONTHLY MONETARY GIFTS
I see make sense why it was difficult to find a girl when i was there. But I met my girlfriend in the philippines and i am glad i did, because spending time with her in person saved me the troubles of trying to find out if she is genuine or not.
I saw you skiing bro, so cool and you know Swift Brothers roll in pairs God bless you, sir
Hey Chad
I always liked your video but I think you have got off the great things you used to do and the adventures you were doing . It seems all about meeting Filipinas a dating . It’s nice to hear about that but after a while it’s get boring. Just a heads up you should get back you those great videos you have at the beginning. I think you need to find a women soon stop being to picky and worrying about getting taken advantage of . Sometimes you just have to put your trust in someone and go with the flow .
Hope to seem more of your good videos. 😊
I visited the Philippines on May 1 through May 15 with my brother I met a beautiful Filipina and I tried LDR but it was too hard for me. We are still dating Long distance but I had to take the LDR out of it so I didn’t stress about communicating with her all the time if she find someone else that’s OK but we still message each other every day.
yeah you have to be married imo if you're gonna be messaging every day, it's the obligation, mine hasn't missed a day messaging for over a year, not only a day but morning, afternoon, and evening.
As filipina yes being a foreigner here around already in my views he already explore various pearl so it turns into 7 a 10 advantage but its good to the foriegn side to know personnaly and deeply a girl he wants in his life seriously cuz mostly a expectation on videocalls did not match in the reality personality...
How would someone decide what province to live in and look for a partner
Don't agree with your POV. Been living here for 8 years and I can find a decent girl to date within 48 hours. LDR are a big waste of time because she might have a bf here in the Philippines... Always always better to have boots on the ground.
That's great I think everyone has a different experience. And that's all I'm really sharing is my experience with this phenomenon. It's not to say that this is the best way to approach meeting a Filipina I think it is going to be different for everyone. But there are definitely some girls particularly in the province who would much prefer meeting someone in their own country. Of course there are plenty that are here that will date you right away. Especially in the cities. Fact is the main reason why a lot of these girls do not want to bother with foreigners who are already here because they know how easy it is for them to hop on Tinder in Cebu city for example and have fun every 48 hours if they wanted to. So yeah I think it is easy to date here there's no question but I don't believe that finding wife material is something that's just easy to find quickly. Again this is just my opinion
@@ChadFosterExplores Many of these girls that only want a LDR are in it for the money. The smart ones don't ask for money they just tell the nice foreigner about all of their money problems and family hardships. They can have as many a 4 guys send her money every month. Its great for the Filipina because she doesn't have to sleep with him and she can give her Filipino bf money for beer. Harder for her to scam you when you are actually here in the Philippines in my opinion..
Maybe it's our age that makes us see things the same way but definitely a guy who I would like to have a beer with someday
which island are these images from, beautiful beaches
Oh well, a segment wont be interested in me. No interest in meeting online while in my country
This Video is the reverse advise given by most of the old Philippine Vloggers. Everyone says to do the boots on the ground and meet them in person and spend time with them. Yes there are good girls online also but there are definitely a very high percentage of professional scammers as well. One thing I always think about is that what if I do a LDR for a few month and once we meet, it is all awkward and there is no connection, I have wasted all that time, energy and most likely money. LDR is most cases comes down to send me money and support me and you don't even know if she is the right girl or an honest person and she doesn't have bunch of other guys sending her money as well. I was in the PH last year for a month and a half, for the first time, learned a lot but too short of a time to meet a good girl. I am working on my finances right now to do a longer trip this year maybe for six month, hopefully better luck this time.
Truth. But, what is said here I also experienced. The ladies online seeking so-called genuine relationships just want that green card to be an OFW to send money home or to have babies as their 401K plan. If you say, you want genuine hot burning desire (which only hot young men can offer) then it will fizzle out. All the boots on the ground types also admit the ladies are just after the financial security, not real love. They speak of how many who cheated on them, took money, left after a large gift, etc.
Do you find many girls who are willing to long term travel outside the Philippines?
ARE YOU & RUclipsR TIM K. HAVING FUN TOGETHER??
lol... walk around the airports with your suitcase and tell filipina's that your LDR is a no show ......
Haha
A Filipina here, what is a LDR?
@@luzvimindaedwards9286
an NR of course !
Long distance relationship @@luzvimindaedwards9286
The sad thing about a foreigner is that we are in a sex depraved life so when we get there we go way overboard and waste a lot of money.
Girls like that I wouldn’t want anyway. The fact that I would travel thousands of dollars travel thousands of miles to meet one girl is totally and completely absurd, especially one that I’ve never met before.
seems like the feeling is mutual. ha ha haha
uh, I spent 1000s of dollas early last year to travel 1000s of miles to meet one girl and she wasn't who she categorized herself as (single without children), BUT I wasn't to meet her until my second week there, so the first week, I explored the area around my hotel that I'd mistakenly booked in the poorer parts of Cebu. So that first experience I wouldn't have traded for Anything. It primed me for REAL Filipino life showing me through all the senses, this way of life, Before I met "the one" when I flew to the island that the original gal (who misrepresented) lived on, 2nd day realizing that we wouldn't meet because she and I both knew over the phone that that was a deal-breaker. However, I was excited to continue being there and knew that I would be going to yet another island the next week to explore. It was vacation to an unknown world. The further west I've gone in my life after growing up in Tennessee, the more good things have happened to me. I got married that third week there, but the Philippines, their way of life, I think especially that first week in Cebu, shaped me or "got me ready" to meet the one. Being immersed into their action-filled ways about them, primed me, to meet her. The stars aligned, a miracle, but it takes 2 to tango.
0 chance I'm dating online. Girls avoiding me because I'm already there is a good litmus test for avoiding drama and general dumbness.
You mentioned in a video that you do consultation with people…do you still offer that service and if so how does that work?
Yeah for sure you can email me at ChadFosterexplores@gmail.com and we can discuss there to see if I can help you out and I can let you know the process. Thanks for watching
@@ChadFosterExplores thanks
Great B-roll shots........if more YT's used these types it would enhance the final product......also nice framing.....
I don’t like meeting Filipinas online for the same reasons they don’t like foreigners who are currently in their country. I would prefer to meet a lady through a referral of a Filipino friend. Online dating tells me she has several fish on the hook. She may have personally met them already and just shopping around. Online dating is a no no for me.
what websited do you recommend
both ways work. dating sites / LDR (leading ASAP to in person) takes more skill. that's why less men succeed at it.
Thanks thats something I already knew but there are plenty of guys including Vloggers been living there for like since the Dinosaurs were still roaming that are totally convinced they are experts in dating advice but in fact they are not. You can meet people in person or online. Been guys to pull them out of a bar but the odds are against u. Online dating isn’t that hard and yes if u spend a week doing it u should meet someone who isn’t looking for gold or fun. In fact I found them regularly. Of course there was days I’d get scammers or even naked pictures I didn’t ask for and never ask for. Sometimes it takes a week to realize she ain’t for u but online dating is very effective and these girls can be serious.
if it's really true that Filipina's prefer to meet someone online, wouldn't guys just go to Manila and match with girls in other places like Cebu and pretend that they're flying in just to meet her when they've actually been there checking out all their options???
To me it seems like a very strange preference to have to prefer meeting a guy who's not in the country, especially when I often see girls on the vids complaining about foriegners not knowing or understanding their culture. I'd think they'd actually appreciate knowing that you make an effort to know their country and you chose them, not cause they're the only decent online match but beause you've been there you really chose her over everyone else!!!
You make some good points. But twice I've travelled to Ph from UK and been ghosted, and I was dumb enough to have no backup plan, so I just used the time as holiday, plus tried the dating sites ( mostly waste of time ) For me it wasn't big deal as I can travel easy multiple times per year. But what about guys taking holiday from work? it's big risk for them doing LDR unless they have the time to chat to several ladies in the same area.
Yeah there are so many factors to consider on what the right approaches are to meeting a good Filipina I think it's different for everyone. And the truth is it is a wild world here when it comes to relationships it is so different than what we are used to and there are many challenges and pitfalls. I have met several couples that met online had LDR and it worked out great and I've met couples that met here boots on the ground and I've heard so many horror stories from both sides as well.
If it too good to be true it probably is…there’s so many Filipina here I’ve no idea how guys have a hard time finding one. Unfortunately men just don’t help themselves when dating..ie be rigid ..single ..no kids ..educated, your more likely to be scammed by very poor Filipina than say a nurse or teacher. Ask for all there detail too..certificate of being single etc.
Sounds like entertainment to me
Chad do some more travel, island hopping videos. Looking forward when you have a girlfriend with you on your travels 👍
Maybe it is because their intentions are not to meet a BF. Maybe its because their intent is to scam one without ever meeting one. Thats why the odds drop. Fewer are looking than it appears online. Just a guess.
No brainer. Once a guy realizes he has many options, most don’t want to commit. Variety is the spice of life. Don’t let the whamen and trad con beta males shame you for this.
Interesting point I observed when dating there years ago. But, those are the ones that are not looking for a hot romantic passion based love relationship. Those types seek perpetuation of human growth, marriage, babies, family and Green Cards to send money home like an OFW. Handsome young men want genuine hot burning desire going both ways. Not being a walking ATM to half a village.
It''s important to tell Filipinas that you aren't serious and have no intention to take anything to any serious level from the first moment you meet.
Tell her that the only family that's important to you is the one you'd create with her based on merit of the relationship itself NOT tradition nor obligation.
Tell her that marriage is EARNED based on years of loyalty, respect and sacrifices.
That marriage isn't about the two parties involved but is a government contract that you want no part of.
REMEMBER that same Filipina has already slept with many local men who weren't held to the same standards.
Do they feel the same way when they sleep around with local men?
Do they not like their Filipino men the same way they like us foreigners?
Is sleeping with a local NOT an investment like it is with us?
Do they not want to go to the next level when they sleep with their countrymen?
PLEASE NO LDR's!!!
OPEN your eyes to the game that they play so you don't become a victim in shark infested waters!!!!!!!
good luck finding a genuine loving partner here. Your attitude is pure Narcissism
Lol sounds like you’ve had a bad experience or listened to too many bad experiences. Your coming to a country where dating standards are mostly very different especially if there a poor girl ..your not in the west now. Ya cannot have it both ways..ya need to compromise, most guys could not even get a women in the west lol 😂
@@Eric-qm5xw
Speak for yourself because YOU couldn't get a woman in the west.
STAY AWAY especially if they're poor!
Read my comment before writing nonsense.
That hasn't worked out for most foreigners.
You have to make untraditional adjustments for self preservation or be the chum in shark infested waters.😂
@@Eric-qm5xw
Nonsense.
That hasn't worked out for most foreigners.
You have to make untraditional adjustments for self preservation or be the chum in shark infested waters.
@@Eric-qm5xw
STAY AWAY especially if they're poor!
I'm 64 .. been married here in Australia 3 times ..
Very interesting. Thank you 👍
on one hand you are saying ldr is the way to go while on the other come over and get situated . It is hard to get situated when you have somone meeting you at the airport. ask all these vloggers if they are with their original partners. most have admitted this is not the case. just because they are so called good girls doesn't mean she will be right for you and it is hard to shake one that meets you at the airport once you arrive and then see red flags going off left and right. imo
Well to be honest I'm not saying one is better than the other or at least that's not what I intended. But what I wanted to share is I have found through my own experience that there are many Filipinas that would either only consider or highly prefer guys who are still in their country. When this first started happening to me I just assumed they were not serious and just wanted a long distance ATM or something. But for many of them that is not the case. I have an interview on my channel actually of a girl who talks about it. But of course there are many examples of guys finding great girlfriends or wives after being here. But that main topic at the beginning was just to share that phenomenon that's common here. I appreciate you watching and leaving your thoughts. Cheers
@@ChadFosterExploresLots of poor women online love asking men from thousands of miles away for money. Great advice, and you're a stud with women
You only need to use these sites when you have your ticket booked and are going to be in the PI within two weeks.
@@ChadFosterExplores yea not a critique just an observation. from my experience there are a couple reasons, one being a newbie in usa once hooked has her full attention. From my 20 years here the biggest complaint and even in my case jealousy is the biggest driver of conflict in a relationship. she thinks everybody is hunting her man so goes overboard with the protection and allegations which drive somebody who isn't messing around crazy. and the ones that are messing around give the girl ammuntition to keep making accusations and the such. many have been scarred by previous betrayals or have heard of them from others.if she isn't jealous than probably doesn't really care but there are exceptions. just my experience
@@robertmorison3137 a Lot of their soap operas and shows that they watch are heavily laced with CHEATING left, right, and center, the media that they imbibe is chock-full of this crap, is it "reflecting the culture" or "social engineering the culture?" Who's behind these shows they all watch? Korean shows too they watch. She had me watch a few while in Palawan and other high-end resorts over the past year. I don't watch ANY TV back home. It totally doesn't interest me, but it certainly captivates THEM (just like many Western peoples, especially Americans who must have their shows).
Christian Philipina is much more that "Just" a dating site. They provide side services/marketing for arrangine your trip and stay.
At $100usd a month. For the dating site side. Its a bit much unless you have that disposable income.
Where are you getting your information from? Scammers? Even if it's true, I wouldn't recommend it. There have been countless vloggers who recommend coming here first, boots on the ground is best.
100% no I'm not referring to scammers actually referring to normal girls who want a genuine relationship. Now of course there are scammers that love to meet guys online and have long distance ATMs, the reality is here there's a little bit of everything but I am specifically referring to a certain type. It sounds crazy but this phenomenon is common here for I'd say a decent amount of good intention girls. I make a lot of videos where I talk about boots on the ground I talk about online there's good and bad to both, the point of this video is just to share this phenomenon that is common. I literally just met someone the other day who was amazing I wish she was single but she met her guy online and she is so committed to him she wanted to meet someone in his country for this reason I shared the video. I also have an interview on my channel with a good friend of mine a great girl and she shared the same opinion on this. Anyways I know it's weird but it's true. of course boots on the ground can be a great option as well it's different for everyone. I think boots on the ground is great if you stay in one place get to know people enjoy your life and the right girl will come along at the right time
@@ChadFosterExplores lol of course the girl should not consider another if she’s with another guy..merely talking to another guy would be considered cheating here in the phil’s if they are a nice girl.
both ways work. dating sites / LDR (leading ASAP to in person) takes more skill. that's why less men succeed at it.
@@ChadFosterExplores Thank you for sharing your experiences. I will keep an open mind on this.
If you are a good human, the woman won't care how much you've traveled. Get here first, and don't do the stupid online dating.
where's the typhoon?
Done it online before, with mixed results, going boots on the ground my next try. My take is find a few places you could stand to live first. Spend a bit of time in those places, that great gal will be already there.
I agree this is probably the best way to do it in my opinion. If you can stay in that place for a while and just l live your life happily good things will happen with finding the right one
Spot on.
I am a 67 100% disabled veteran and I met my future wife on Christian Filipina, I went to Panabo City for 4 months to meet her, she is 62, well we hit it off and I am going back next month to get married and live with her in Panabo City, I love the Philippines and I am going there for good this time! screw the states and their high taxes and prices, oh I also received better medical care there but at a fraction of what it would cost me in the states also!
Over the last 6 years .. I've chatted many girls .. I know what I want and don't want ..
Isn't Christian Filipina 1000 to 2000 USD for a membership?
Meeting at the Airport is the worst thing to do.
why?
Lol if you’ve met online it’s no problem meeting at the airport, even if it does not work out your not wedded to them.
You can't avoid it if she works at the airport. Haha. This literally happened to me the first time I went to the philippines. A woman working there was flirting, chatting with me and following me around the airport. Was a long time ago though . Probably wouldn't get that much attention nowadays
@ronaldtaylor4530 Go to any large forum and ask that same question. And you'll get 50 replies of why not to meet her at the airport. They ate horror stories.
Was great for me, still so.
Fair enough. It seems to me that behavior comes from a worrying lack of self worth. And that would generate some serious issues.
We know women hate competition, but not even considering a guy already there because he's there?
Sounds as if we guys would only consider dating virgin girls.
Complete nonsense, and not something I would be willing to subject myself to.
Yeah it's crazy, many of these girls that I've encountered this issue with are late 20s, often as they get older they are even more cautious because of bad experiences with players here in the Philippines
@@ChadFosterExplores Sounds like that.
@@ChadFosterExploresYes it makes you wonder 🤔 if dating younger is better to avoid the tainted ones who had bad experiences with foreigners. Getting those questions answered in the beginning of meeting them would help save time and heartache.
I suggest you only consider virgin girls, mine was, but I didn't know that until we were married.
@@blockaderunner even better
Be careful to not get too much skin exposure. You are looking very red.
Keep up the good vids.
how many vacation filipino boyfriends have yoy had ?
So given the fact that this guy has a Christian Filipina link….. I don’t believe it
Haha OK. I do one video per month with them and I only implement it into a topic that it relates to...the video content for all of my videos including this one is inspired by me and my personal experiences and what I'm learning. It's not made up to cater to a partner for the video. Thanks for watching.
I wish