He marries 19 year old Filipina, then has a stroke. "You can leave me if you want."

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  • @ChadFosterExplores
    @ChadFosterExplores  Год назад +362

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    • @WhenTheManComesAround
      @WhenTheManComesAround Год назад +18

      I always appreciate interviews with Monte and would love to see a part 2. Excellent video good sir, and I look forward to more of your videos 😁👍👍

    • @steveperyer4850
      @steveperyer4850 Год назад +25

      Monte, an his wife, are very loving and devoted couple. Love their channel, and follow them. Great story of true love😊

    • @DarthRevan-rp5sn
      @DarthRevan-rp5sn Год назад +23

      If you do make a Part 2 include his Wife in the video i would love to hear her insight and thoughts Chad.

    • @hillbillyintheasia6122
      @hillbillyintheasia6122 Год назад +17

      why marry any girl under 21 silly she no college not even rdy for marry. she can,t get his ss . only the child can get his ss for 18 years he die she on the street. he dies before have any kids she back to nothing if going a teen women at lest pay her a college are start a business for her future are just using her.

    • @Mila-lj5ty
      @Mila-lj5ty Год назад +3

      😅

  • @stevebrown218
    @stevebrown218 Год назад +2655

    I also met my wife when she was 18 and I was 59. Stayed with her 1 week, then a month later we stayed together for 1 month. Then 4 months later she came to Australia while pregnant and has stayed the last 7 years. I had major surgery for Liver cancer when we had 2 kids and she was pregnant with our third child. She took care of us all without complaining. Now I am a retired father taking care of our 3 children while my wife is studying to be a nurse (6 months to go) and she also works part time to support the family.

    • @thenotoriousgryyn342
      @thenotoriousgryyn342 Год назад +119

      Good Fortune to you and your family.

    • @donh5794
      @donh5794 Год назад +117

      That's nice family building. She probably will have no problem becoming a nurse.

    • @armieg.1575
      @armieg.1575 Год назад +80

      God bless your Family ❤❤

    • @suepari
      @suepari Год назад +162

      you are wealthy and/or she is having her fun on the side. No other explanation, I am afraid.

    • @stevebrown218
      @stevebrown218 Год назад +166

      Not all women are like you@@suepari

  • @cooknematics9395
    @cooknematics9395 Год назад +475

    Im 52 filipina my American hubby 82 we're good together 20 years now..he got a stroke in 2010 took good care of him too❤ God bless you both more years to come❣️

    • @bozicayanc1932
      @bozicayanc1932 Год назад

      Poor you...!!! Giving your body to touch, an OLD donkey...!!!

    • @ehawolczecki8759
      @ehawolczecki8759 Год назад +3

    • @tymesho
      @tymesho Год назад +4

      Kiss to you, Ms. cook. (You know what's up. When he pass's, he'll take care of you.)

    • @bozicayanc1932
      @bozicayanc1932 Год назад +4

      and the REST of the Family...!!!@@tymesho

    • @djbabygggudani7911
      @djbabygggudani7911 Год назад +1

      Ewwwww

  • @sickoako6463
    @sickoako6463 11 месяцев назад +51

    Monte is very lucky for finding true love..glad he found a home in the Philippines. So happy for him 💗💓💞

  • @emkeicastillo8430
    @emkeicastillo8430 Год назад +223

    I am a pilipino , married to a pilipina , we been together for 35 years , I can say that she truly love me and I love Her more than I love my self , true love is the most precious thing in the world one can find

    • @everlastingc1134
      @everlastingc1134 Год назад +4

      Woww,,, 😊😊😊

    • @vitalucas9452
      @vitalucas9452 Год назад +4

      What do you think of women marrying old white men? How many do? Half? Less or more?

    • @TonyRule
      @TonyRule Год назад +5

      @@vitalucas9452 *_"Half?"_* Really? It's very much a minority.

    • @vitalucas9452
      @vitalucas9452 Год назад +1

      @@TonyRule It seems odd to me. Every other ethnic group seems to encourage marriage between people of their own ethnicity. Not so much in the last generation, but parents prefer that.

    • @clivefernando6636
      @clivefernando6636 10 месяцев назад

      You must be white.

  • @Jeni23-k6u
    @Jeni23-k6u Год назад +48

    Fantastic story, it's nice to see that Filipinas are not all money diggers.
    Best of luck with your health Sir.

    • @jbcelis
      @jbcelis Год назад +2

      you're right to say that, sir, not everyone. u'll find rotten tomatoes in a basket (goes w/ the others), but there are a great number of fresh ones in there. one only has to be keen on spotting the rots from not.

    • @annabellebasoy5058
      @annabellebasoy5058 7 месяцев назад

      Money diggers Filipinos are usually those that are engaging in flesh trade.

    • @IslanderloverBKK
      @IslanderloverBKK 4 месяца назад

      If all Filipinas are gold diggers then the Philippines won't have poor people, just keep that in mind.

    • @kevinadams9468
      @kevinadams9468 9 дней назад

      No, not all.... but..

  • @hazylmcknight9098
    @hazylmcknight9098 Год назад +145

    I am proud as Filipina im married to american man too,,he loves me so much, and thats the reason why i love him more myself, i respect him more than anyone coz he loves and accepts my family and most my children he love them...Hope GOD WILL BLESS US HEALTHY HEALTH so that we can stay together long.

    • @ErlindaAnajao
      @ErlindaAnajao 6 месяцев назад +2

      kindness of heart surely goes a long way for people who are born with one thank the heavens by practicing charity i n words n in deeds

    • @Twitch_Moderator
      @Twitch_Moderator 6 месяцев назад +5

      I am Canadian. I wish our women were like you. Although some would say they ARE like you, they definitely are not.
      Canadian men trust them to add. That is disturbing. All my friends and most of my family are divorced and have kids with different partners.

    • @td6137
      @td6137 5 месяцев назад +4

      Only for his money that the truth

    • @chevyjoee
      @chevyjoee 5 месяцев назад

      God bless Amen and Amen.

    • @scoutman
      @scoutman 5 месяцев назад

      @@hazylmcknight9098 happy for you hazel.im american in malasiqui with my gal built house here on 356sq meter plot.we are 8yrs together her 3boys are with her mom&dad right up the road 2minutes and her brother next door.i like my privacy she always seems to know my moods.i don't say anything cause it's her family...but she knows..I cannot complain.have a very good life with her.she never demands anything from me.

  • @veronicawatson3728
    @veronicawatson3728 Год назад +93

    I met my man here in Florida by coincidence after 5 years steady we get married in Las Vegas and now we been 23 years together ♥️even we don’t have children but Love and care communicate to each other is important to us! We retired early @60 years old, now we are happy here in the Philippines 🇵🇭 more fun and traveling, we drive all the way to Boracay, Gigantes island, Palawan, Siargao and enjoy life! Happy to hear your Love story

    • @thinkie12
      @thinkie12 11 месяцев назад +1

      Maybe having no children is a blessing for you as you are more free to do what you want.

    • @SuperCuriosities
      @SuperCuriosities 11 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@thinkie12no

    • @clivefernando6636
      @clivefernando6636 10 месяцев назад

      He must be white then. Because you guys go for white priviledge. You guys think it's a priviledge to have a white husband regardless of his background. Even if he is a truck driver. Shame on you guys.😂

    • @galerichards493
      @galerichards493 9 месяцев назад

      God bless her amazing woman God blessings to you family healing prayers

  • @abepagtama3803
    @abepagtama3803 Год назад +43

    Great interview, I’m a FilAm and reside in Beaumont CA, and have investment the Philippines, so I travel in the Philippines a lot stories like this makes me proud of my Kababayan. I’m a 76 years old, so sometimes I feel like a 76 years old. #AbePagtamaActor

  • @judithriggs4725
    @judithriggs4725 4 месяца назад +20

    I'm also from dumaguete and my husband is from USA Wichita. We've been married for 21 yrs and we are living here for good. They love it here.

  • @juliusjuispais7926
    @juliusjuispais7926 Год назад +30

    Monte? You struck a diamond Squire😊
    All the best to you and your family. Try to see if you can do anything to extend a life of happiness Brother. 😊🎉

  • @matttillman7430
    @matttillman7430 Год назад +19

    This story is heartening and so beautiful.

  • @Jesus.Bridged.The__Gap
    @Jesus.Bridged.The__Gap Год назад +70

    I’m American, and a rare breed. I’m far from perfect, but I’m a take care of my man type of girl. I would have never left you either!! I’m so happy you found true love!

  • @vickycaramat3359
    @vickycaramat3359 Год назад +140

    Proud to be a Filipina. That's what we are and you're very lucky sir. Congratulations and God bless you and your family

    • @KlodFather
      @KlodFather Год назад +4

      Her father said as long as you don't hurt her or abuse her... I told one girls father I do not beat women. If they are bad I will lock them in the CR after I used it. He laughed and said his wife should be locked in there. She was saying No No No and I was saying yes yes yes... Im going to the police store for the handcuffs LOL Mama laughed and said I was bad ha ha

    • @regnorse
      @regnorse Год назад

      CR?@@KlodFather

    • @KlodFather
      @KlodFather Год назад +1

      @@regnorse - Comfort Room. CR is short for the toilet or the Comfort Room. A Philippine term.

    • @ptyh27
      @ptyh27 11 месяцев назад +2

      Haha not all are like this 😂. Most marry an old man for his money

    • @regnorse
      @regnorse 11 месяцев назад

      not for bigger bananas?@@ptyh27

  • @edithalbrecht809
    @edithalbrecht809 Год назад +82

    What a beautiful story, ❤, I love the Filipino people, they are intelligent, witty, loyal and great companions.

    • @bozicayanc1932
      @bozicayanc1932 Год назад +1

      and 'LOVE' rich, all for fist of $$$

    • @edithalbrecht809
      @edithalbrecht809 11 месяцев назад +1

      “ Do not squander your pearls before swine, unless they trample on them and kill you.” The swine is you in this biblical prophecy. Unless you are the pearls though..

    • @NLR759
      @NLR759 3 месяца назад

      just a like a golden retriever - intelligent, loyal, and great companion. Thanks, but I'll stick with a golden retriever and marry someone my own age.

    • @roselynrabadon9148
      @roselynrabadon9148 2 месяца назад

      ​@@bozicayanc1932 don't talk in general that filipina like that . And advantage of dollars.. thats ridiculous .. if you think that

  • @nidacartago3340
    @nidacartago3340 Год назад +21

    You're so lucky sir to your wife❤ love is everywhere 🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @ceciliajuaton7536
    @ceciliajuaton7536 Год назад +12

    Wow! INSPIRING STORY, GOD BLESS YOU SIR & TO YOUR WHOLE FAMILY... PRAYING FOR YOUR FULL RECOVERY. SHE'S ONE IN A MILLION❤ ...
    PROUD FILIPINA HERE.

  • @ramalley5601
    @ramalley5601 Год назад +637

    I'm a filipina and also married to an English guy. I look after my husband the same way. It has something to do with how we were raised by our parents. That love, care, and respect is deeply rooted to how we were looked after by our parents.

    • @AngieLina-ou3gr
      @AngieLina-ou3gr Год назад +27

      Kultura na Kasi ntin ang mas pinapahalagahan ang pamilya. Asawa mo means pamilya mo n Yun. Nasa moral values n natin ang mentalidad ng buo ang pamilya. Nag hihiwalay lng kung may sakitan n. Di rin Tayo mpghangad ng super yaman. Yung sapat ay ok n.

    • @catchie-df1op
      @catchie-df1op Год назад +13

      ​@@AngieLina-ou3grtotoo yan , mas mahalaga sa atin yung saan ka maligaya, age doesn't matter sa atin kahit mahirapan pa tayo sa buhay ang mahalaga mahal matin yung tao❤

    • @neilonthemove1481
      @neilonthemove1481 Год назад +7

      Bless you 🙏

    • @GeraldWoodford
      @GeraldWoodford Год назад +6

      thank you so much for doing this video 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️☮️👍🏻May I 🙏🏻 pray for you that GOD will heal and bless you every day to be fully recovered to enjoy your times with your loving wife and little girl 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️☮️👍🏻 I feel for you Mr. Monte because I had a major heart valve surgery 3 years ago and suffered a mild stroke already 3 times and struggled to walk on my own with a walking stick daily. I can say it’s terrible when I used to be very active physically but now can’t walk normally on my own. I Prayed that as time goes on I can be normal again with medications, right diet and walking exercises. I’m not married and don’t have any kids but I have to keep on going and hopefully meet a woman kind and loving to accept me. When I’m already 64 years old 🙏🏻🙏🏻 do take good care Mr. Monte❤☮️🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @iluvmoney6767
      @iluvmoney6767 Год назад +20

      So you are more of a caretaker than a wife then?

  • @marialogan8786
    @marialogan8786 Год назад +6

    Blessings to you both! 🙏🏼
    Praying for a full recovery. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @camia2444
    @camia2444 Год назад +9

    You are blessed with a real Filipina , I hope she will not change. God bless your family ❣️

  • @narusaku7023
    @narusaku7023 Год назад +42

    You're a lucky guy!that's it!you find a very special gem here in the Philippines,I pray for your full recovery and live your life to the fullest❤

  • @mortegasr
    @mortegasr 8 месяцев назад +31

    So many horror stories about Filipinas have all been offset by this one story. Thank you for that possibility existing.

    • @IamPINKIEDaniels
      @IamPINKIEDaniels 6 месяцев назад +1

      In my town I’ve seen lots of happy families over the years where the husband was an older Australian man and his wife was a lot younger from the Phillipines and they all lasted, had kids, grandkids etc

  • @tuzaguilar4201
    @tuzaguilar4201 Год назад +97

    This is a good guy who got what he deserves - a good wife and a family that will be there with him thru thick and thin. The young wife is what a true Filipina is - trustworthy, loyal, faithful. Great story. Thank you for sharing.

    • @deborahbeltz718
      @deborahbeltz718 11 месяцев назад +1

      Privy to an old man

    • @NLR759
      @NLR759 9 месяцев назад

      Lots of women are trustworthy, loyal and faithful. Even women of your own age.

  • @Robert8455
    @Robert8455 Год назад +86

    Really an incredible story. I was not sure if I wanted to watch just because of the age differences but I listened, tried not to judge and I'm glad I did. I hope and pray that Monte is able to maintain if not improve his health and enjoy seeing his daughter grow and experience the love he gets from his wife. The big take away is really how wonderful his wife is... He for sure found a one in a million match I think. I also respect him for seeking out her family as well as his own kid's feelings and approvals.

  • @markportzer5004
    @markportzer5004 11 месяцев назад +2

    I found your video most interesting. I am married to a filipina for 23 years and we reside in Siquijor. Thank you for sharing your information and knowledge with us. We travel to Dumaguete at least once a month primarily for my health issues. Would love to know who your cardiologist is. At present, I have none.

  • @thegrincechannel9187
    @thegrincechannel9187 Год назад +360

    My wife is 38 phillipino, I'm 66 we have been married for 5 years she has no kids or past boyfriends ,she now lives in the UK and has full time employment as a chef ,remarkable lady doesn't smoke or drink swear or take the Lords name in vain ,the best addition to my life ever , I dont deserve her but she is here with me in the UK and the pure love we have is undiscribable.

    • @harrishardy5632
      @harrishardy5632 Год назад +1

      A1a

    • @TimeToTravel-u2x
      @TimeToTravel-u2x Год назад +15

      If you dont deserve her then you are a dirtbag for manipulating her to be with you

    • @KoolHandJuke
      @KoolHandJuke 11 месяцев назад +49

      ​@@TimeToTravel-u2xYou totally misconstrued his humble statement
      What a shame.

    • @gregtucker2892
      @gregtucker2892 9 месяцев назад +4

      Every Filipina I chat with has kids

    • @janetneuhaus4206
      @janetneuhaus4206 7 месяцев назад

      @@gregtucker2892no matter if she has a child just learned her first before your gonna fall on her.Sorry of my English😆Anyways goodluck n hope u will find a good one no matter what in Gods wilß

  • @JoWinderman
    @JoWinderman Год назад +62

    Real Filipina woman quality. I am married to my husband 15 yrs older than me and we doing ok.

    • @chris_89_24
      @chris_89_24 Год назад +5

      Hopefully, by ok, you mean good. Ok sounds like it's working but not ideal.

    • @bradleymiller7375
      @bradleymiller7375 Год назад +1

      ​@chris2489001 ur a negative person! Should of kept ur opinion off of here! Tooo much negatively!

    • @FemiNelson-sb1em
      @FemiNelson-sb1em 7 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@chris_89_24 many marriages are "ok" & it may be sad to many, however who knows other than the couple in question. Peace be with us all 🙏. "Isa"

    • @RavenMobile
      @RavenMobile 6 месяцев назад +5

      @@chris_89_24 That's a pessimistic interpretation of the word "okay".

  • @MonaHilton319
    @MonaHilton319 Год назад +240

    I am a Filipina. If a Filipino girl asks money, leave her. There are a lot of good Filipino women out there. If you offer money, and she does not accept it, she's a good one.

    • @Jaysingle41
      @Jaysingle41 5 месяцев назад +4

      Are you a good one?

    • @Kccaro999
      @Kccaro999 5 месяцев назад +12

      I believe you. Had a wife who God took because of a terrible cancer. She was awesome, supportive, and a good wife. Now I'm a widower at 54

    • @Paul-bb1ih
      @Paul-bb1ih 5 месяцев назад

      Good morning from Europe and how are you doing?

    • @FromTheDeepTitanic
      @FromTheDeepTitanic 5 месяцев назад +5

      They all ask for money from day 1

    • @JCarey-uv3bb
      @JCarey-uv3bb 5 месяцев назад +5

      What if she lives in the slums of Davao. Has two teenagers, and she never asked for anything. Doesn’t work. Doesn’t disclose her pre diabetes and thyroid issues until the 3rd week when I’ve told her about my health issues from day one.
      I sent her 5000 pesos and she accepted.
      She uses her money For her phone communication with me. She bought food for her family with what I sent.

  • @nickgillon2625
    @nickgillon2625 Год назад +107

    Monte my man , From the depths of my heart I wish you and your wife and daughter all the very best for the future.
    As you would be aware, we hear so many stories...many conflicting.
    But your story my friend touched me deeply. The trials and tribulations , the clinging to life by a mere thread and to recover with you wife and daughter still by your side providing every reason to fight on and cope with the obstacles that remain.
    Bless you and you family Monte.
    Kind regards
    Nick

    • @BULLARDtheOKIE
      @BULLARDtheOKIE Год назад +12

      I agree and wish Monty and family the best!
      Monty is a great guy with a miraculous story!!!
      He looks great in the video and is healing...Thank God!

    • @irwan3064
      @irwan3064 Год назад +4

      He's a lucky man

    • @whitneyanders5945
      @whitneyanders5945 11 месяцев назад +2

      The poor kid though. Will only know a sick and old father. That’s quite anxiety inducing for the child.

    • @BULLARDtheOKIE
      @BULLARDtheOKIE 11 месяцев назад +1

      Whitney Anders- What a negative, terrible, critical, unthoughtful, disrespectful comment about my friend Monty Crew. You should be ashamed of yourself.
      God has blessed Aragel and He with a beautiful little daughter. Little Faith has a promising future and parents who love her. I cannot believe an individual could with a clear conscience make such a terrible comment.

    • @Nenita-c8n
      @Nenita-c8n 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@whitneyanders5945 Indeed! Not very considerate towards the child. If he was able to leave at minimum $100,000 USD and SSA child survivors benefits then at least it gives the child a fighting chance to have a better future and existence.

  • @DHarri9977
    @DHarri9977 Год назад +35

    Hey Chad, nice interview, Monty has had both an interesting and at times, a hard life as many of us minus the medical issues. I like others wish him well in his future endeavors in maintaining or improving his health as with completing his current home and being happy with his family.

  • @leohandsome2973
    @leohandsome2973 4 дня назад

    Great interview. Thank you for all that information it’s good to know that Filipina women are more loyal .

  • @prebensvensson3078
    @prebensvensson3078 Год назад +53

    Married to an angel....what a heartwarming story....

    • @scoutman
      @scoutman 4 месяца назад

      @@prebensvensson3078 imagine

  • @flordelizaramirez2373
    @flordelizaramirez2373 Год назад +14

    New subscriber, from Laguna. Beautiful love story and praise God He gave you a good wife.

  • @lor201
    @lor201 5 месяцев назад +2

    You made me cry, reminds me of my husband. I just love him that I treat him like a king as he always said to people. But God took him away from me, I guess He loves him too and He don't want him to suffer a lot . Get well sir.

  • @kevink1214
    @kevink1214 Год назад +96

    Monty has overcome a lot. Good for him and his wife for sticking together thru the ups and downs. Also a reminder to get yearly checkups with a full blood work, especially as we get older.

    • @lhogie1962
      @lhogie1962 Год назад +2

      Good advice

    • @MY-ce2qt
      @MY-ce2qt Год назад

      To watch what you eat and keep active physically are the key to be healthy in any age.

  • @Scotts_Story
    @Scotts_Story Год назад +55

    Chad this is a great interview with Monty and inspiring to hear his story
    The thing is his wife is what we all hope we find in a wife and she must be a genuinely amazing person 😊

  • @Happywife226
    @Happywife226 Год назад +2

    She’s one of a kind. I’m happy for people who found true love and happiness. Experience how to be loved and know how to love others genuinely, then you’ll see the good side of the story.

  • @stevetuck6106
    @stevetuck6106 Год назад +7

    Excellent video. I appreciate you both for your honesty.

  • @billschepers2696
    @billschepers2696 Год назад +104

    As someone also married to a beautiful Filipina who is the most beautiful woman in the world i truly relate to every single word. God bless

    • @ormlongman266
      @ormlongman266 Год назад +4

      good for you, i love filipenia ladies, they are special, & i only wish for a caring one could be mine, i lost my dear wife to cancer.

    • @Landis_Grant
      @Landis_Grant Год назад +4

      Filipinas aren’t rated the world’s most beautiful Asians. Koreans are.

    • @kt9190
      @kt9190 Год назад +1

      @@Landis_Grantthat’s Forsure !

    • @kt9190
      @kt9190 Год назад

      @@ormlongman266The woman will do anything marry anyone to get a foot in here It amazes me how gullible you Men are also my friends Dad was taken to the cleaners by one of
      And they are not the most attractive woman by far

    • @Robin-xt7yo
      @Robin-xt7yo 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@Landis_Grant There's beauty in every group.

  • @hoanpham2757
    @hoanpham2757 Год назад +2

    Wow. Thank you for sharing this beautiful story. May God bless you, your beautiful wife and your daughter

  • @dannynicart2389
    @dannynicart2389 Год назад +493

    I'm married to a Filipina I met during our graduate studies at the University of British Columbia for 35 years now. The marriage is not perfect, but we get along amazingly well!

    • @megancentro3878
      @megancentro3878 Год назад +34

      There's no such thing like perfect marriage...

    • @JesusDureso
      @JesusDureso Год назад +14

      Its a miracle

    • @alice_agogo
      @alice_agogo Год назад

      ​@@megancentro3878obviously

    • @dellcruz2818
      @dellcruz2818 Год назад +16

      important is you.get along well. there is no perfect marriage.. in the philippines what matters most are the children.. yes even grown up children .. why? when a filipina or filipino die... who will fix the burial ? the children. and on Nov. 1.. children will visit the cementary.. your wife? if still living and can walk ...

    • @neliaa.4386
      @neliaa.4386 Год назад

      ​@@dellcruz2818l

  • @rowenamates967
    @rowenamates967 Год назад +144

    I am a Filipina . I married to a Filipino man , also . We separated ways when he went abroad as a seaman. That is how he changes his character and everything . He becomes bad. He becomes more a cheater. Then that is how my life becomes so miserable. Sometimes our own ambitions will only kill us and that is if we have more money. Money changes everything . So , be it, if we married our own race and color or we married a foreigner , i can conclude that it is the man who is the culprit of everything because he carries the decisions to leave his family. .We didnt discussed anything because he refused to talk to me. When he went abroad again , he didn't go home to us anymore. We have two children.I carry the burden. Unluckily for me , i choose the wrong man...Until now , i dont have the desire to have another man in my life.He left me when i was 35 years old. I am now 62 . Life is pretty tough though but we survived against all the sufferings with my 2 children. So , it doesnt matter whom you marry . But for me i blamed it all to my husband' s fault. We don' t communicate well during our marriage . Because he thinks he is always right and he didn't give me a chance to settle our marriage and voice out my own side. It was very unfair. Money rules, maybe because he earned much than me. Thank you for reading my old sentiments. I already moved on .

    • @khenglim
      @khenglim Год назад +17

      Sorry to hear of your bad experience and having to raise 2 kids single handedly on your own. This is what happen when men are given free reign or having some spare changes while their wife work and toil to support the family. Money changes everything in every form and is indeed the root of all evils when not managed or used carefully.
      I wish you well...minus your ex because you are worthy of more. Good luck.

    • @TonyRule
      @TonyRule Год назад +14

      It sure doesn't sound like you've 'moved on', just that time has passed.

    • @josephsassone3753
      @josephsassone3753 Год назад

      I feel your pain. Many Filipino men are babaero and lasingero.

    • @CandyCane-mk3zk
      @CandyCane-mk3zk Год назад +19

      As a divorced woman who raised a daughter. I married a man 14 years older than ,myself. He was rich, I was a young struggling acto/writer. I thought I was in love with him. He was abusive, cheap and mean. Without discussing it with me, right after I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl, he had a vasectomy, thus denying my child of full siblings (he had one grown older son) and a woman of 25 more children. A few months after giving birth he hit me hard on the mouth. He was an evil man who plotted and did end up destroying my life. It was a long time ago. You cant carry around hatred and disappointment. You just find little pleasures and are thankful for small joys. I have so much and yet old and poor....I send you love and a soothing balm for your heart aches and disappointent....Please lovely lady...let it go....let God, love and laughter in....remember if you have a roof over your head, a meal to eat and one good meal to enjoy....you are rich....and it doesnt hurt to have a companion like a dog or cat....they will love you always unconditionally....go save and animal....the life you save may be your own.

    • @kathymc234
      @kathymc234 11 месяцев назад +3

      Bless you for trying to make it work. I'm glad you were able to raise those children alone. I hope they understand how hard it was for you.

  • @bubbay.1610
    @bubbay.1610 Год назад +1

    May Monte's days continue to blessed with Good Health, God speed to Monte's healthy recovery,

  • @WhenTheManComesAround
    @WhenTheManComesAround Год назад +184

    That's why I love Monte, he's just plain honest. He admits that he did everything wrong and knows that he's lucky as the year is long. Knowing the long version of his story (from his channel and other interviews he's done) really shows how lucky he got. Could another guy get as lucky, maybe but I wouldn't bet my farm on it. The quality of character of his wife is a true gem. She stayed with him during his major health issues, current health issues and money worries from when Monte had his business arrangements (US business income) hit a rough patch. But when you see them together as a family it all just connects, and it's easy to see they love each other. I wish Monte and family all the best both now and many years to come. Stay blessed my friend, as it's easy to see that even though life has dealt you a tough hand, you still have a true Ace of a wife that comes through regardless of the circumstances. 👍👍

    • @Jesus-The-Everlasting-Father
      @Jesus-The-Everlasting-Father Год назад

      He is ugly, he has a child bride (at that time), he has a helper, he has a personal Nurse, yes, he is very lucky.

    • @hillbillyintheasia6122
      @hillbillyintheasia6122 Год назад +2

      why marry any girl under 21 silly she no college not even rdy for marry. she can,t get his ss . only the child can get his ss for 18 years he die she on the street. he dies before have any kids she back to nothing if going a teen women at lest pay her a college are start a business for her future are just using her.

    • @jackyjelai
      @jackyjelai Год назад

      ​@@hillbillyintheasia6122college is not important, many educated got professionals but they're jobless,

    • @ronnielola6594
      @ronnielola6594 Год назад +8

      @@hillbillyintheasia6122stop projecting your inner issues on others… death has non age .. same when it comes to love… how many younger people who are widows or widowers… divorced or married their fellow age for money 🤦‍♂️😡

    • @WhenTheManComesAround
      @WhenTheManComesAround Год назад +8

      @@hillbillyintheasia6122 @hillbillyintheasia6122 Simple, once someone turns 18 its none of anyone's business who they love. Everyone can have am opinion sure but once they legally become "consenting adults" then it's up to them. Also just as you said his child can get his SS for 18 years. That alone brings up the quality of life substantially from a regular person on the street. You talk about college, but it's just as possible college wasn't an option for her in the first place. You are making a lot of assumptions based upon a western mindset, and your assuming capability when it's possible her options weren't that broad. Even if his life comes to a close a woman with her quality of character is in demand, and their RUclips videos act as a testament to the quality of her character as well. Most men would give their right kidney to have a woman so dedicated even if she was a widow with a child. Her future isn't even close to as bleak as you assume. She's got a path to income through their RUclips channel and there could even be more things Monte has put in place to make sure her and her child are taken care of, we just don't know. But all that said I wish you all the best 👍

  • @J.Demp6979
    @J.Demp6979 Год назад +6

    Chad, you are great at this youtube gig! I have watched you on other channels as well. Keep up the great work and I hope to visit there soon.

  • @mariamitchell50
    @mariamitchell50 11 месяцев назад +5

    Totally informative video content. Thank you for sharing it.

  • @richardhowe5583
    @richardhowe5583 Год назад +10

    I have always liked Monty and his wife from the first time I have seen them.. first time I saw him he had a yellow house he was renting in Valencia and his wife gave us a tour of the place and it was cheap and beautiful.. I was sold on the Philippines when I saw that video of a house that cheap in the mountains of Valencia and such a nice and beautiful wife.I think it was 200 or 250 dollars a month.. great guy great girl and now they have a wonderful and beautiful little girl..😊😊

  • @CaliforniaBear619
    @CaliforniaBear619 Год назад +8

    I've followed this man for several months after his stroke. He looks a lot better today 🙏

  • @pinkhearts197
    @pinkhearts197 9 месяцев назад +47

    Wow! This woman deserves respect!

  • @AlstonSD
    @AlstonSD Год назад +5

    Excellent information Chad! This guy Monte is very honest and inspiring! Thank you

  • @DC-sh3be
    @DC-sh3be Год назад +17

    Very nice story,,thanks for sharing Chad😊

  • @anniebaliang8353
    @anniebaliang8353 Год назад +1

    So nice to hear your story, honesty true not everybody is the same, majority Filipinos if you respect them they will RESPECT you. Filipino values are Our no. One that we carry wherever you go. Thank you for sharing your story.👍

  • @Andre-iv7ys
    @Andre-iv7ys Год назад +17

    Out of all the stories I’ve heard from the Philippines, that was the most inspirational😳

  • @mikee5654
    @mikee5654 Год назад +44

    Monty, 11yrs ago I found out I had had 12 strokes. I had 10 minutes of mobility ability at that time. Here 11 yrs later I can work up to 2 hrs with breaks and the improvements I take as a blessing. I'm your age and feel confident that with time you will only improve more and more my friend. Take care and Salamat Chad for the sit down. Amping!

  • @user-DrJoe-Future
    @user-DrJoe-Future 9 месяцев назад +11

    Excellent story. I was 70 and married a 35-year-old Filipina. We are doing great. So far I'm in very good shape. No major medical issues. Most 18 and 19- year old girls are unstable and unpredictable. You are lucky. I was NOT wanting or looking for a 18-19 year old girl, but was introduced to one. A true genuine connection never formed. She was too immature and it did not work out -- thankfully. I made the right decision for me.

  • @ThePuma687
    @ThePuma687 Год назад +5

    Great video guys... i too got very LUCKY with my Beautiful filipina wife.. we now have a 2 year old daughter and we're living our best life. Cheers Monty

  • @Snoopy1817-y6w
    @Snoopy1817-y6w Год назад +30

    Hey Chad, nice interview with Monty. I salute Monty for his honesty. He’s a very down to earth guy. God bless him more!

  • @themacker894
    @themacker894 11 месяцев назад +1

    Good to see he is doing well.

  • @PhoenicianinthePhilippines
    @PhoenicianinthePhilippines Год назад +6

    Chad nice line-up of questions.
    Very good flow to the interview 👍👍

  • @pacitagratil1084
    @pacitagratil1084 Год назад +12

    You're blessed, Sir, to have this Filipina wife, my kababayan! She's an amazing woman! I know you love her too as to give her freedom if she wishes to be freed...but her love for is not a skin-deep thing. It's real love! Congratulations!

  • @suesokoloski6644
    @suesokoloski6644 Год назад +1

    She is a special woman you have there love her with all your heart as she loves you with all her

  • @mayolinhilliard8517
    @mayolinhilliard8517 Год назад +49

    I've been married to an American.Now we are 7years and doing good in our relationship.I promise to my husband i will take care of him.Now his turning 73 yrs.old.

    • @bozicayanc1932
      @bozicayanc1932 Год назад +8

      all for $$$...!!! Sold your Body and Soul...!!!

    • @andysnyder4603
      @andysnyder4603 10 месяцев назад +3

      @@bozicayanc1932 American woman marries a rich man for money too. It happens all of the world. Every relationship is different and if the two parts of the couple are benefiting, that seems to be good enough right?

    • @bozicayanc1932
      @bozicayanc1932 10 месяцев назад

      but, those 'ones' are so OBVIOUS...!!! @@andysnyder4603

    • @MYChannel-ip5xo
      @MYChannel-ip5xo 9 месяцев назад

      Why are you burning. You can't marry your own country girl ?​@@bozicayanc1932

    • @mymaria888
      @mymaria888 7 месяцев назад +3

      ​@bozicayanc1932-- those of us who work for a living sell our bodies and soul.

  • @EdwinCV-dh8qc
    @EdwinCV-dh8qc Год назад +4

    Great interview,I have seen other interviews on this subject and you handled it well congrats.

  • @pinoychristianpilgrim
    @pinoychristianpilgrim Год назад +2

    Great content! I am proud of your wife!

  • @robertotero7155
    @robertotero7155 Год назад +8

    Stay well! God bless you always!

  • @Anime_gif
    @Anime_gif Год назад +4

    Have a speedy recovery sir, sure you're lucky enough for some other guys out there. God bless always and your family.

  • @Hugebear222
    @Hugebear222 Год назад +1

    That's one fortunate guy who happened to find someone who happened to love him for who he is and is willing to stick it out to the end. I'm happy for you sir, You're blessed.

  • @richsanossian8675
    @richsanossian8675 Год назад +72

    Love this interview. You describe my Filipino wife to a tee and I consider myself very blessed

    • @PollyDollyBabe
      @PollyDollyBabe Год назад

      A young girl with a old man. Ask any young girl they laugh at you. Yuk
      Sorry . Very obvious. Like a old Woman with a young boy . Blah blah . Wake up people. The World lost there marbles.

  • @torbjrnmelbye6823
    @torbjrnmelbye6823 Год назад +31

    A real good woman he is married to. I was in the Philippines in August and my neighbours cousin 19 years old living with an 62 year old American. I saw so many very young girls with older men. I heard them talk together and it was good conversations, not superficial at all

  • @FLS-ld8bb
    @FLS-ld8bb 6 месяцев назад

    This gentleman's story is so moving. I am sure his wife loves him so much but I am also quite certain that this man's kindness, love, caring, open-mindedness, and trust are some of the qualities that made him a 'hero' in the eyes of his beloved wife. Both of them, in my opinion, are exceptional in so many respects. Thank you Mr. Chad Foster for this story. A big thumbs up also to the gentleman who is continuing the fight to get back to health. I admire his strength.

  • @jannarkiewicz633
    @jannarkiewicz633 Год назад +7

    I was at dinner in Quezon City with an expat friend. We were talking about this channel and others and we both agreed, "St. Luke's" -- we are 8 km from St. Luke's... Just another view of living in the Philippines. AND WE TALKED ABOUT ASYMETRIC FILIPINO STEPS. You guys read our minds!!!!

  • @asdfgh3625
    @asdfgh3625 Год назад +6

    Hi Monty, I’ve been following your videos! Loved it!!! Pls continue to do more !! Always pray for you in your journey of good health & enjoife!!

  • @Thephilipcartmelexperience
    @Thephilipcartmelexperience Год назад

    Good interview, Chad. Monty is a kind soul. I relate to him as I'm 70 and my Filipina is 34. It's been 11 years together.

  • @julieann2546
    @julieann2546 Год назад +12

    Thanks again sir chad and sir monty for sharing this episode of life 🙋‍♀️salute you guys and Godbless u more!🙏🏼

    • @juliusjuispais7926
      @juliusjuispais7926 Год назад +3

      Wow similar name to my daughter - Julienne 😊

    • @julieann2546
      @julieann2546 Год назад +2

      @juliusjuispais7926 😍oh that's cool, sir🙋‍♀️but I'm from the northern part of the Philippines 👍

    • @cheekymonkeygirl3378
      @cheekymonkeygirl3378 10 месяцев назад

      @@julieann2546 In the West, we do not treat these loser men with respect.

  • @alicia3108
    @alicia3108 Год назад +4

    Awesome story . You are so blessed to have a beautiful in and out good and godly woman who loves you till the end. God bless you and your family 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏

  • @cecilefigueras2765
    @cecilefigueras2765 Год назад

    Very touching story..made me cry. I’m from Dgte as well and I salute you and your wife. God bless your family 🙏

  • @doorbob1392
    @doorbob1392 Год назад +498

    As a Filipino, our culture is family-oriented. We prefer to live with our family. The parents take care of their children. And when the parents get old, their children and grandchildren will take care of them. We are selfless specially to our family. That is just the way it is and I personally love it. Cheers!

    • @charlieneks4534
      @charlieneks4534 Год назад +11

      Same with Naga Tribes from Nagaland Northeast India

    • @ppac300
      @ppac300 Год назад +10

      @@charlieneks4534 Filipinos even look like Naga. Very similar culture, including indigenous dress code. There's a genetic and cultural link someplace.

    • @BusinessChatWithRob
      @BusinessChatWithRob Год назад +6

      Just like anywhere else, there are those who take commitment seriously and an equal number who do not. The "culture" promoted about the Philippines is fading fast and will soon be a thing of the past. It's a sad reality we all need to accept.

    • @emilycammagay
      @emilycammagay Год назад

      Hi Guys

    • @bredbornraised808hawaii4
      @bredbornraised808hawaii4 Год назад +17

      Sadly NOT ALL Filipinos and Filipinas are that way! My ex MIL is Filipino from the Philippines. She & her husband moved to Alaska for a few years then settled in Honolulu HI in the 70s maybe late 60s. Anyway, they worked there a$$e$ off! Rain or shine sick and all they worked worked worked! Im a part Hawaiian/Asian Local girl born n raised here in HI and to me it was a bit MUCH! I just didnt see where they’d find the time to ENJOY anything! Just LIFE! U know? Anyway, long story short. They had 5 children the youngest son is my ex (father of my sons) they absolutely LOVED their father. He was a very hard working man and a loving one at that! The mom was a hard working woman but she cracked the whip! NONE of her kids help her with almost anything. The father passed away many years ago from cancer, but she had to do ALOT of things on her own as none had there own lives and just didn’t help her. It’s very sad how they treated her and still do today. Yes they love her, however idk if they will “take care of her” when she’s unable to care for herself. All they want is what they can get from her after she passes. Im afraid it’ll be a real shit show when that happens. So my 2 cents is this. Not all Filipinos are the same. Don’t label a gender or a nationality. Unconditional love is found EVERYWHERE and all over the world.

  • @sallopez-zw4nn
    @sallopez-zw4nn Год назад +9

    A beautiful story that many don’t get to experience. True love is very powerful 🙏

  • @rednegsnartevoli5737
    @rednegsnartevoli5737 Год назад +1

    Great video 👍
    Monte & Wife are a great couple 🌱
    Thanks for uploading 💐
    Greetings from Ireland 🎉

  • @TomTheCopywriter
    @TomTheCopywriter Год назад +11

    Your story sounds a LOT like mine.Great find for a wife, Great family, and, thanks to a major heart problem, she is right here by my side taking the same level of care of me that you describe. If you ever want to talk with a guy who "gets it" hit me up my friend...

  • @tedrobertson1344
    @tedrobertson1344 Год назад +5

    Chad, thank you for this interview. I love the Crew Family, Monty is a great honest man and so is Aragel. And their lovely doughter Faith. I contacted them, they always replied. Now, I am soon getting married to a wonderful Pinay babae. God Bless

  • @minannettegraham2059
    @minannettegraham2059 6 месяцев назад +1

    My prayeris that you will be here for your wife and daughter for years. God bless you and family for many, many years to come. Always in my prayers, Atlanta, GA

  • @markyokubonis272
    @markyokubonis272 Год назад +7

    Such a great story. If only I can share this with all the single men I know

  • @RJ-iy4es
    @RJ-iy4es Год назад +8

    I heard facial exercises help with stroke patients. Lovely story!

  • @carolparker2392
    @carolparker2392 Год назад +1

    What a wonderful wonderful love story

  • @Dragonfly1969
    @Dragonfly1969 Год назад +8

    She’s definitely a treasure worth keeping, one in a million

  • @joban7851
    @joban7851 Год назад +4

    Monty is blessed with family 🙏🏼

  • @maealipio-valdez5313
    @maealipio-valdez5313 6 месяцев назад

    Your story is amazing..I salute your wife..She is kind hearted and very responsible..I hope she will not change her attitude and you are also understanding..I wish you all the best..

  • @JoeannAndDave
    @JoeannAndDave Год назад +4

    This touched me because I also had a few life threatening circumstances, one of which was a stroke. The X-wife I was with was trying to put me in the ground versus save my life.
    But as God would have it, I survived all of it and you'd never know any of that happened to see me. Fast forward a few years and I met my perfect match, a Filipina. We have a huge age gap as well. I'm much older than her mother (father died a few years back ) and I was shocked her mom was ok with us.
    I congratulate you for finding a good woman and to Chad for doing this interview. It gives all men hope that there are actual decent women out there. 👍

  • @mariaknows2792
    @mariaknows2792 Год назад +193

    Filipinas, when treated right and with love, they will return the same, ten folds. God bless you both.🎉

  • @Fighterforjustice-l6y
    @Fighterforjustice-l6y 11 месяцев назад +1

    This is one of the best inspiration stories from Phillipines. He is very lucky man. His young Filipino wife didn't see him as walking ATM. Good luck to him and his family.

  • @prilrosalestv
    @prilrosalestv Год назад +12

    We Filipina really takes care of our partner because what are parents treats us and we've seen from them. I love my parents and to my future husband your lucky😊❤🇵🇭💚

    • @theboyisgood-2017
      @theboyisgood-2017 4 месяца назад

      Das the most important thing in life 🎉🎉❤

  • @gicellegarcia8006
    @gicellegarcia8006 Год назад +4

    i can relate with his story same happen to my late husband except that i dont want to have children cos i have 2 lovely children from past relationship my husband adopted my 2 kids legally and send them to school and here we are having and living in American independently dream My late husband is our Angel from heaven above thanks to him.

  • @freespirit9652
    @freespirit9652 Год назад

    This brought tears to my Eye's, Dreams and Love can come True in this Lifetime! Thank U 4 this Wonderful Life inspiring Video!🥰🙏🏼💪🏾

  • @PierreBAZBazinet
    @PierreBAZBazinet Год назад +11

    Filipinas are real partner for life...❤
    Happy for you sir...😊

  • @tanethpalma4818
    @tanethpalma4818 Год назад +6

    You deserved to be take care, you're blessed by God with good and kind hearted woman.

  • @ElizabethMina-z4q
    @ElizabethMina-z4q Год назад

    I am very touch with your story you got a wife that is a gem. God bless you both…be happy and thankful for each day that you got a very blessed family that God is the head.

  • @burningcalmness
    @burningcalmness Год назад +6

    Praying for your best recovery. Keep kicking! You are absolutely right. Observe the actions, values and ways of living.

  • @juergenernst1320
    @juergenernst1320 Год назад +25

    Very happy for Monty. He’s such a down to earth guy. He did do everything wrong and did get very lucky; but if a gf is frugal with your money or even refuses gifts, you might have a keeper. My wife is 24 years my junior and I had concerns about it but we are madly in love after 5 years. She was 29 when we met. You’re very blessed Monty and you deserve it.

    • @eddieBoxer
      @eddieBoxer Год назад

      She married him out of necessity, she's poor, desperate, uneducated looking for a ricket out of poverty, so she took what ever guy that came. Look at this guy he has no looks, Filipina ladies are very desperate, these white men come here to prey on these 3rd world country poor ladies.

  • @connoroleary591
    @connoroleary591 Год назад +1

    What a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing.