The Story of Dr. Cindy Hoeflinger | The Hoeflinger Podcast 2

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  • Опубликовано: 15 июл 2024
  • In this episode, we dive into the inspiring life story of Dr. Cindy Hoeflinger and how she courageously navigated the intricate tapestry of motherhood, career ambitions, and societal expectations on her path to becoming a full time forensic pathologist. Join us as we explore what it was like for her as a woman navigating the male-dominated realm of medicine. Candidly, she shares the pressures, triumphs, and pivotal moments that shaped her journey, including her impactful role as a deputy medical examiner.
    As we delve deeper, we uncover a layer of Dr. Hoeflinger's life that speaks to the indomitable human spirit - her remarkable ability to overcome grief. We navigate through the raw and unspoken emotions surrounding grief and loss - unspoken topics that touch all of our lives - and explore how she found solace and strength amidst the most challenging of times. Her journey becomes a testament to the power of the human heart to heal and find hope even in the face of profound loss.
    So, brace yourself for a rollercoaster of emotions, triumphs, and profound shared human experiences. Tune in to this remarkable episode of The Hoeflinger Podcast as we unravel the layers of a life well-lived.
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Комментарии • 84

  • @karencramer6491
    @karencramer6491 11 месяцев назад +43

    You're doing a wonderful job, Kevin. Watching you and your parents speak to each other tells me you are an amazing family. I'm so sorry your brother could not stay to be a part of it.

  • @TheJanice52
    @TheJanice52 Месяц назад +1

    To your son: You did it!!❤❤❤❤

  • @TheJanice52
    @TheJanice52 Месяц назад +1

    What a tremendous contribution. Thank you.

  • @yolandaperez9427
    @yolandaperez9427 11 месяцев назад +18

    Fantastic! Thanks for having your mom as your special guest. She is special.

  • @AMELINAMERIKIA1
    @AMELINAMERIKIA1 5 месяцев назад +19

    Dr Cindy Hoeflinger, thank you for all your contributions to society not only as a fellow medical professional, but as a Mother. You are truly an inspiration to each of us. May God continue to abundantly bless your family and continue to give you strength and peace.

    • @doctorhoeflinger
      @doctorhoeflinger  4 месяца назад +2

      We sure is a blessing in our lives!!

    • @mollyblair6347
      @mollyblair6347 2 месяца назад

      You are both amazing compassionate people who have gone through the abyss of grief and kept your family together

  • @karicr1
    @karicr1 11 месяцев назад +33

    I can’t imagine all the things your mother has accomplished and the heartbreak she has gone through. Truly an amazing lady! So much admiration and respect for her.
    Kevin, you do such a great job interviewing! I think you’re wonderful, and I know your parents are so proud of you. Keep up the good work.

  • @DW-bc2gl
    @DW-bc2gl 11 месяцев назад +18

    A beautiful woman. Great life story.

  • @geaninatudose4063
    @geaninatudose4063 11 месяцев назад +20

    Dr. Cindy, you are an inspiration for the strength you showed in the most difficult time for a mother. My very best wishes!

  • @RG-hf4et
    @RG-hf4et 4 месяца назад +6

    I am 67 years old & am still working in the medical profession. Graduated high school in 1974. My parents were supportive & said do whatever you would like to do. Times were definately different. I can remember several old grandma patients saying, "I don't want a female doctor" to my face. "I want to see a male doctor."...😅...At first, I was insulted but after a while we would take bets ti see what old lady grandmas would diss me or embrace me. 😅
    If they were in pain & I was the only one available, they reluctantly agreed for me to treat them. Then they became my biggest fans. The old men never ever gave me a hard time. 😂

  • @lindalauragouws6424
    @lindalauragouws6424 5 месяцев назад +9

    What a beautiful family. God bless you. ❤

  • @noelsimon1430
    @noelsimon1430 2 месяца назад

    This is a wonderful story! True Grit, Love, Open Minds, Hearts. Deep love for one another! Honesty! ❤

  • @cindyhoeflinger
    @cindyhoeflinger Месяц назад +1

    And all these months later, I am now on RUclips. Thanks everyone for all the kind words and positive feedback! Women are amazing ❤

  • @RedCatt423
    @RedCatt423 10 месяцев назад +9

    I feel strongly that these podcast are important. It is healing to listen to others process their existence of grief in their life.

  • @sandradee3958
    @sandradee3958 11 месяцев назад +13

    Mrs H.what a kind son u have and inspiring spirit u have. I enjoy watching your husbands podcasts and now that i was able to watch yours i enjoy it as equal. I truly am sorry 4 the loss of your son there are no words but u certainly seem like just a wonderful amazing family and sure do have a darling grandson. Thank-you peace and blessings

    • @doctorhoeflinger
      @doctorhoeflinger  11 месяцев назад +5

      Thanks for watching and sharing that, means a lot :) - Cindy

  • @barbarap8580
    @barbarap8580 11 месяцев назад +21

    This was so interesting!! I could listen to both Dr. Hs talk all day. 😊😊They have such interesting lives. I love how Cindy explains her thought processes through all her major life changes. Keep these episodes coming ❤❤❤❤

  • @diahannsimms2476
    @diahannsimms2476 3 месяца назад

    OMG, I love this conversation.
    Your family is amazing. Thank you all!!!

  • @naomimorse6455
    @naomimorse6455 5 месяцев назад +8

    This interview is beautiful and special . It appeared on my feed and inspired me.
    A wonderful brilliant mother coupled with an articulate and eloquent son. Much admiration and awe for this family.

  • @authenticallyamber99
    @authenticallyamber99 6 месяцев назад +7

    Thanks so much for sharing your story! Brilliant and inspiring! My condolences to you and your family. Truly God sustains us. ♥️🙏

  • @17topaz
    @17topaz 5 месяцев назад +6

    So sorry for your loss . Thank you for sharing your life and experiences . 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @Vicooptem
    @Vicooptem 11 месяцев назад +8

    An amazing Mom!!❤❤❤

  • @user-xz9wj9ys2l
    @user-xz9wj9ys2l 11 месяцев назад +10

    I could completely relate to so much of your conversation! One of the most enjoyable podcasts I’ve listened to …so real and genuine! Dr. Cindy - really great hearing your story!

  • @diannastafford1241
    @diannastafford1241 11 месяцев назад +11

    Dr. Cindy, I think it would be so hard to be so capable, work so hard and have so many interesting experiences in your career and give it up to do the most important job in the world, knowing it is not respected as the most important job in the world. I think it would be hard to have all that education and experience and have most people not know your accomplishments. Your children are so blessed to have you for their mom!! It seems like you love them more than yourself and what you want.
    I am sorry for the children you have lost❣️
    Your stories are very interesting.

  • @Katherine-g4t
    @Katherine-g4t 22 дня назад

    Good visit. It was really candid how you spoke about the pain and things you felt after your Brother and son passing. A lot of wisdom was shared.
    Thank you for doing that pod cast. I look forward to more.

  • @odettedemedeiros7486
    @odettedemedeiros7486 5 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you for your story and the strong family unit that you have. God Bless .

  • @corneliaarendsen1358
    @corneliaarendsen1358 10 месяцев назад +6

    You are an amazing and inspiring woman. I am an old lady, living in Spain and it was very difficult to raise children and work in those times. I admire you.❤

  • @hibbahmalik3473
    @hibbahmalik3473 11 месяцев назад +10

    I admire and look up to you guys everyday. Your courage to share you story gives me inspiration to keep going despite my health issues. Honestly, Kevin is such a mature and well-spoken man which is rare. Thank you for being so candid Dr. Hs. I see where the kind and caring children come from. May God bless you ❤.

  • @Betty-mm9gz
    @Betty-mm9gz 4 месяца назад +3

    Good interview. Your mom is awesome and inspiring.

  • @medinamatu2
    @medinamatu2 11 месяцев назад +11

    I admire this woman so much. Thank you for sharing your amazing story. I’m starting premed this year, and I have decided to pursue forensic pathology in the future. You are my role model !

  • @TURTLEORIGINAL
    @TURTLEORIGINAL 5 месяцев назад +3

    Wow, talk about being so blessed, having such overachieving parents! I’m so happy for your family. God bless you all.

  • @RG-hf4et
    @RG-hf4et 4 месяца назад +2

    Dr.H had great parents to encourage her that she can do anything.

  • @helenbotelho9517
    @helenbotelho9517 5 месяцев назад +4

    Love listening to you both. Great!

  • @lisanobel2496
    @lisanobel2496 4 месяца назад +2

    Wonderful to hear the stories of other double doctor couples. We are still in the training years ...

  • @TheJanice52
    @TheJanice52 Месяц назад

    I am enthralled ❤

  • @staceybouchervirgin4025
    @staceybouchervirgin4025 11 месяцев назад +5

    Most enjoyable 👍

  • @caroh1944
    @caroh1944 11 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you for sharing

  • @jnev8089
    @jnev8089 11 месяцев назад +6

    really enjoyed this, thank you!

  • @carolynadkins1887
    @carolynadkins1887 6 месяцев назад +3

    My nephew made a bad mistake drinking & driving. His best friend was killed instantly. A nightmare he lives w every day. The friend’s parents love my nephew & new it could have been the other way around. They supported him at his trial or it would have been a very different outcome. He was spared jail time. He lives w the decision he made that night & he’s such a good, kind, & gentle kid. So was his friend. 💔

  • @js_fitness4life
    @js_fitness4life 11 месяцев назад +7

    Wow That was phenomenal! Very relatable as a mom with a career. I would love to hear more about this incredible woman! I also felt “seen” when she talked about choosing family over career and how profoundly difficult it was on top not having the support from her mom in that decision. Very relatable. Thank you for sharing!❤

  • @user-ry4vi6ur7b
    @user-ry4vi6ur7b 3 месяца назад +2

    Hey Cindy...I grew up in Genoa...my dad owns a trucking company... I went to school to become a rn...I work at the same hospital as your husband does...so does my mom...she's one of the neuro techs there...

  • @nancynelosn5830
    @nancynelosn5830 5 месяцев назад +5

    Dr. Cindy you are amazing. Such a lovely family.

  • @noone-mc3or
    @noone-mc3or 11 месяцев назад +5

    That was great love ur podcast and luv u Kevin

  • @jenandreb
    @jenandreb 10 месяцев назад +7

    Speaking about your grief is so valuable to others.

  • @barbarap8580
    @barbarap8580 11 месяцев назад +7

    I like the video version. Glad you’re on YT!! New subscriber here🙋‍♀️

  • @pamwarren7422
    @pamwarren7422 5 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks for your honest sharing .

  • @joychiare711
    @joychiare711 11 месяцев назад +7

    Cindy thanks for sharing your background! You have lived a million lifetimes ❤️
    I believe the universe (God) does provide insight that a person will verbalize before they die. It’s always in retrospect family and friends remember the little things that were said/done that then make sense.
    It’s comforting to realize they knew that they were going to pass on. So when that moment comes they are prepared to leave, at peace, and encompassed with love. That provides me comfort, knowing there is an energy or light guiding their spirit so they are not alone❤️
    Again, thank you for sharing. Would love to hear more about your background. Wondering if you’ve ever thought of teaching at the college level?
    Great Podcast! Interesting, emotional, raw and real.
    Sending good vibes. Looking forward to more content.💕

  • @emeksb4823
    @emeksb4823 10 месяцев назад +2

    Wow she has a great memory to still remember the years of schooling and names of her professors.

  • @kimberlyleavitt6247
    @kimberlyleavitt6247 4 месяца назад +1

    This is such a wonderfully insightful and interesting conversation. The depth and insight into your heart, mind and emotional connnection is a blessing. Thank you for time well spent.

  • @jenandreb
    @jenandreb 10 месяцев назад +6

    I can’t imagine how hard it was to have babies while you were in residency!

  • @robglendenning4636
    @robglendenning4636 5 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for sharing this
    I pray God gives you all peace
    I think you are a strong family

  • @milenamoreno6190
    @milenamoreno6190 2 месяца назад

    Amazing seeing this podcast

  • @skyz3160
    @skyz3160 4 месяца назад +1

    The time, the sacrifice and the lack of sleep and common sense considerations and decency from the hospitals puts doctors on such a high level in my opinion. We, are the benefactors of your hard earned work to achieve your goals.
    God's richest blessings on you both and all the other doctors, nurses and other medical staff. I appreciate you.

  • @dawnb7457
    @dawnb7457 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your family journey. I enjoy all of the stories. God bless.

  • @catholicpeaces6257
    @catholicpeaces6257 3 месяца назад +1

    I’m in awe of you and your family’s heartbreaking losses. It takes one’s breath away of what you all have endured yet by having such an open platform for us all it helps your viewers to not feel so alone in our grief over our loved ones. One of the common experiences of all humans-loss, grief and enduring. Recently, my brother lost his wife from a brain aneurysm. Leaving 2 young men in their early 20 to mid 20s. My sister in law was found outside her workplace in the snow and us not knowing how long as the brain bled before someone found her. Marina had brain surgery but passed 4 days after. Surgeon was so upset so I can only imagine he felt. Tough to go home with that that he also knew my sister in law as a kid. This has shattered the family and we are in such disbelief and pain I pray that my brother and his sons can put one foot in front of the other. ✨

    • @doctorhoeflinger
      @doctorhoeflinger  3 месяца назад

      🩵💙

    • @catholicpeaces6257
      @catholicpeaces6257 3 месяца назад

      @@doctorhoeflinger Thank you for reading. Praying you and your family and patients many good blessings.

  • @flipflops4sherri
    @flipflops4sherri 2 месяца назад

    I’ve discovered you both! You’ve been through so much! I cant imagine! Thank you for sharing!

  • @daltongregory6805
    @daltongregory6805 10 месяцев назад +4

    You do a great job interviewing your Mom. What is your career?

  • @melanietempleton2605
    @melanietempleton2605 5 месяцев назад +2

  • @TheJanice52
    @TheJanice52 Месяц назад

    God bless

  • @user-kx7ge7pe5h
    @user-kx7ge7pe5h 10 месяцев назад +2

    I'm really enjoying the podcast and short videos. I feel very similar to Cindy and can resonate with a lot of things she discussed. If you ever wish to do something from a patient's perspective of how to prepare to have a successful surgery, I'd be more than willing to provide my input. Tips to do ahead of time to help make recovery "easier". Thank you for sharing your knowledge - both Dr. Hoeflingers!

  • @josephineadams5403
    @josephineadams5403 6 месяцев назад +6

    Thank you very much for sharing your story Dr. Cindy Hoeflinger 🙏🏾❤

  • @TheJanice52
    @TheJanice52 Месяц назад

    Amen❤

  • @larameem7104
    @larameem7104 Месяц назад

    About your daughter writing about death before your Brian died: “On Death and Dying” (Elizabeth Kubler Ross) tells about the phenomenon that often before the death of a loved one or oneself, people talk openly about death. It happens whether they know that dying is on the way. Blessings to you all! 💙🤟🏼

  • @huyphan2510
    @huyphan2510 11 месяцев назад +5

    Listened to both episodes of the podcasts while working on some research and 2 hrs went by so quickly! As a med student, I thank you Kevin and Drs Hoeflinger for showing us that we can achieve both our career and family dreams, and mentoring us through your stories that there'll always be light and hope even in the darkest corners. I hope I can be as insightful and empathetic as you duo when I become an attending. Would love to hear more stories!!!

    • @doctorhoeflinger
      @doctorhoeflinger  11 месяцев назад +4

      Thank you for the very nice comment. Best wishes for you in your own career

  • @user-er3ps7ef6q
    @user-er3ps7ef6q 4 месяца назад +1

    Hi, fun and interesting interview, good job, In 1979 there were tons of women in medicine. I always laugh a bit when young people refer to the not so distance past as if it were primitive , computers existed too.. no internet yet, 10 years later dial up began, ask your mom what kind of a first car she had? It may be a muscle car in someone’s collection but their still on the road, we celebrated birthdays ate cake and ice cream, opened presents, had parties, some drank and smoked pot, everyone wore underwear, socks , shoes, we all tried to get 8 hours of sleep a night , went to work everyday,dated, fell in love got married, they even had barbecue potato chips and Cheetos, pizza and sushi. We who lived in the city got dropped off at the mall, went to the movies ate fake butter popcorn and giant boxes of candy. Not much has really changed, you momma is really a very young chicky , boy.. 😂

  • @suzannefl6nn806
    @suzannefl6nn806 2 месяца назад

    Although.I.love being a nurse and love my specialty in nursing, Neurosurgery and Neurology,. I love forensics, as.well as three of my friends also love forensics.
    I always watch dateline, 48 hrs.
    I have such respect for uou and your husband.
    Some of friends would ask me why I love the brain.They were perplexed that after a conference I presented at, the courses afterwards were different areas of Neurology.I chose the brain cutting
    This blew my friends away.They thought I was.crazy

  • @sigvald11
    @sigvald11 11 месяцев назад +2

    Both of the podcast so far a really great keep up the good work. As a question for a short video, I was wondering what nerves look like? And how do you reattach them?

  • @ElviraSongalla
    @ElviraSongalla 5 месяцев назад

    I am a mother of two bactidol i inherent to my parents thats it when kids start coughing dried i always tell bactidol to killed bacteria in thyroid gland and its effective see you next time

  • @Internal.Inferno
    @Internal.Inferno 11 месяцев назад

    not taking questions?

  • @seanyboy94
    @seanyboy94 5 месяцев назад

    Enjoyed listening to this. The only thing that I'll note is that actually women are no longer under represented in medicine. In fact, women make up almost 55% of physicians in the US. Over 80% of nurses are women as well. So if anything, males are actually under represented in medicine.

  • @JohnJohn-fd5jq
    @JohnJohn-fd5jq 2 месяца назад

    This family is missing Jesus

  • @Sandra-lh9tg
    @Sandra-lh9tg 3 месяца назад +1

    My sister committed suicide in 1987 she was 28. She hung herself in the hallway.Her husband found her when he came home from work.
    I have alway's said
    "NO ONE CAN EVER KNOW HOW TORMENTED ONE'S MIND CAN BE."
    TORMENTED ONE'S MIND CAN BE