I love that you and Arrow's father continue to prioritize her. The fact that you both value what is healthiest for her over the challenges of your relationship. Even though you co-parent you are still technically a "single mom." I think people misconstrue that concept to mean that a single mom is doing everything alone all of the time. I'm in a healthy marriage and I'm still the primary caregiver which is why I still find your videos relatable.
@@marilynlambert7255 I can totally understand. My husband is a great husband and dad but we are a single income household and that means I do most of the parenting. It's a trade-off that doesn't feel "fair". We try to be intentional about recognizing each other's contributions to our family and making sure we each get alone time.
My parents divorced when I was three. I am now 36. To this day my parents and step parents hang out and go to dinners together. Now, as a parent, I am in awe of how my parents were able to put parenting as top priority no matter what. Coparenting is a super power. 💖
My friend growing up had divorced parents that were really good friends. They would always greet eachother with a hug and do dinners/holidays together and I know that is a difficult thing to do for sure but I always thought they were so cool for that
As a product of co parenting… my parents had issues. But always kept them away from me and we did everything together. All my birthdays, always together. Holidays, we always spent some part of the holidays together as a family. We did school events together. We would go out to dinner together at least once a week, sometimes more. I saw the healthy version of co parenting. My dad would still go around my moms family without my mom, just me and him. And then my mom would go around my dads family without him, just her and me. Co Parenting is hard, but finding a way to be parents together, through the good and bad and not putting Arrow in the middle, is the best way to co parent. You’re doing great. Keep it up!!
Dearest Brittany and all singlemothers out there!! I have been singlemom for two kids. My childrens father betrayed me with another woman for whole year without me knowing it. She was pregnant,when I found out. I was 25 then,all by myself,without family support or anything,with 3years old boy and 5year old girl. Beeing singlemom IS HARD!! I respect everyone of you,because we sacrifice SO MUCH to have better life to our kids. I didn't think that I could be ever marrief,didn't think I was good enough etc..my mental state was so low. I'm so glad that you Brittany bring this up,it's SO IMPORTANT!! My kids are adults now and they have been thanking me over and over again,for being present,to play and laugh with them etc. They have called me superwoman 😭😭🥺❤ My point is this: everyone of you is superwoman,you give so much and you don't hesitate anything to protect your kids. God bless you my sisters out there,you are doing amazing job!! P.s. my kids are now 28 and 26 😃 and I'm married to the love of my life (we met already when we were teen,falled in love then,but life did split us -until year ago we got married) DO NOT GIVE UP ON YOUR DREAMS!!!Your children wants you to be happy,I'm happy at the moment. Remember you did your best,everyday is a new opportunity to start again. Don't blame yourself,you're your kuds superhero!! ❤❤❤🙋♀️
Oh babe I felt the same way when my marriage ended. We had one son together and I was so sad and angry in thinking that I was robbed of the opportunity to have another baby because I wasn’t sure I was ever going to. But of course that wasn’t true. I now have a 21 month old daughter with my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years after so much heartache. It will happen. You are such a kind soul and good mom, just be open and trust the timing.
Being a mom that suffers with mental health has been the biggest struggle of my life. I love my kiddos so much and they come first but yet no matter how much you love you’re kids, spouse, life, overall situation…. Stuffing with mental health doesn’t ever just go away no matter how amazing your life can be in every aspect. It’s the fact that you can’t just turn it off and not worry or not replay every moment of the day, good or bad. We’ve got this! The best thing to ever happen is to find out I’m not the only one who suffers with mental health and that it’s going to be okay! ❤️
Brittany, I had my daughter in June and I just wanted to let you know that during my pregnancy and navigating the life change as a new mom, you have been such a source of comfort, knowledge/advice…basically the friend I needed and was able to have by watching your content. You have the beautiful gift of guidance and I cannot reiterate enough how much you helped me believe in myself by seeing you believe (or struggle to) in yourself. Being a mother is such a journey and the transparency you have shared online has helped so many. Please know that your community admires and cherishes your vulnerability, honesty, spirit and kindness. As someone who feels like we have grown and continue to do so together, I am amazed that you are able to do so through RUclips. I and so many others are so grateful for sharing your experiences online. You are amazing. You are brilliant. You are strong. You are an amazing mother. You are an incredible woman and a beautiful person.
As someone who’s been around since the daily vlogging days, my heart truly fell into my ass when you were talking about the uncertainty of your future. And as someone who is a relatively young divorcee and now remarried with someone who was worth the wait…your future is so so SO much worth waiting for.
After I had my daughter I realized I needed to make my mental health a priority. I was in a really dark place dealing with depression I had before I had a baby and then on top of that I got PPD and PPA. I'm now in therapy and on meds that have helped me so much. I think it's super important to have someone you can confined in, like a therapist. I knew I needed help so I could be the best mom I could be for my daughter. Therapy has been a blessing I didn't know I needed. I honestly thought if I ignored it, It would go away, it didn't. Hearing other moms talk about mental health is so refreshing and it makes me feel less alone. Thank you. :)
Being a mother is an absolute honor and complete spiritual experience. I started watching you right after my husband and I separated and it has been so helpful to see that I am not alone in my feelings. You are an amazing mom!
I really appreciate you being so open. Your words are my exact emotions. I became a single mom at 19, my son wasn’t even 2 weeks old yet & honestly I had felt single since I found out I got pregnant. It sucks taking a loss / win on your own. No one to confine in the losses with & no one to celebrate the wins. I also understand when you feel so far fetched from ever being able to get pregnant again. I love watching your videos ❤️ Keep it up mama! You’re amazing.
You’re so good at articulating your feelings. You’re so strong and humble. Your mama fam will celebrate all your wins and be here for you on your lows too. You’re an inspiration and super tough! We ❤️ you B
You've helped me as a first time mom and a mom who works from home (way harder than people think especially with a team of co-workers and several meetings a day). My daughter is just 6 weeks behind Arrow so every video you've posted has helped me in some way, especially BLW! Just want to say thank you soooooo much. And you are seriously doing an incredible job as a mother/human being! Appreciate yooooooou!
You’re so inspirational 🧡 you’re doing great mama! I love when you tell us what your thoughts are and how you’re feeling. Even though you may feel like you don’t have anyone to share your success & your struggles with, just know we are all here for you and support you!! Don’t stop yourself from feeling your feelings. It’s okay to cry, laugh, be upset etc. But once you’ve let it all out remind yourself that you’re that Boss Mom!! 🥰
I’ve struggled with mental health my whole life. Looking back, I’ve been depressed + other things forever. My family also struggles with it for many generations on the same level, but here we are kicking depressions ass & being amazing mommas at the same time 💁🏻♀️
I related to you so much when you talked about never having another baby again! It’s nice knowing there’s someone else feeling the exact same way. My baby girl will be 3 months this week and even though I’ve been alone since finding out I was pregnant, pregnancy was the most special beautiful time of my life and it devastates me feeling like I’ll never get to experience it again.
Your raw moment on the bed talking about motherhood...wow. You nailed it. I'm married and still feel like a single parent. Also, I cried with you. Seriously, I love the real and raw filming. It helps me feel less alone. I also grew up in a separated home with divorced parents and I love how you are trying to coparent. I honestly think it's a healthy way of doing it! For Arrow, it will seem so natural for her family to be set up the way you guys are doing it and that will help as she gets older!
I'm sure you get lonely, I've been with my partner for 11 years & have never felt so alone in my adult life. I eat alone, I go every where alone, I talk to myself more than anyone else because I have nobody to talk to. My family is gone, they have passed including my children. Listening to you talk about mental health & reaching out for help has motivated me to do that. Wanted to say thank you for sharing & I get it.
Feel you, especially about the wanting another Baby situation..i feel that so so bad. I am feeling a lot better everytime i watch your honest, raw and reallife vlogs! Stay strong girl, you are loved and a very valuable Human💜 Greetings from Germany😘
I started tearing up when you spoke about yearning for another baby. My sons father and I split up recently and I wish with all my heart I could experience this again but I know this is life’s plan for me right now and things can change in the future. Thank you for these videos💗
Ugh girl you’re amazing 🥰🙌🏼 I hear you trying to explain and maybe please or acknowledge everyone. Not easy. Love you girl You are inspiring, love following ❤️🙏🏼
I lost my dad when I was 19. He took his own life. It’s been 10 years. So I felt that mental health segment, deeply. So glad you are shedding light on mental health ♥️
@@brittanybalyn appreciate that 🙏🏼 it’s still a struggle, but makes me want to be and do better for my daughter so she never has to experience loss the way I have
Thank you for the little words on coparenting. My husband just left me and our 16 month old and it’s so hard. I have no idea how to navigate this. Thank you for the transparency about it all. I don’t make a single decision without considering what’s best for my little girl.
I have watched your channel since you were first pregnant with Arrow and to see you now is so inspiring. I am a new mom myself and I just ended my relationship with my baby’s father and it has been difficult navigating through it, but your videos are informational and also very inspiring and helpful. I aspire to create a coparenting relationship such as your with my child’s father because I grew up in a situation with my parents divorced and they never got along. I want my child to know and see that her parents love one another (as the mother/father of their child) and can get along for her sake. It changes the child’s perspective.
You are doing amazing! My son turned one yesterday and it made me so emotional. I sometimes feel very alone even with a supportive husband. I think you and Arrow are just adorable, love your videos ❤️❤️❤️
You're an inspiration. I also work from home and have a 16 month old who doesn't go to daycare. I have a husband who helps out, yet I get way less done than you. I'm so impressed you manage to upload on YT and post on IG as much as you do while taking care of your daughter as a single mom (don't listen to snarks who say you aren't do it alone - you are). I really don't know how you do it. Watching you do all this while also struggling mentally, is like I said, an inspiration. It's really motivating me to get more done in my day as well. I hope you know you're doing an amazing job & Arrow is lucky to have you as her mom. I rarely leave comments but I just wanted you to know that's how I see you.
I think it's so human to feel unsure about the future when things arent guaranteed, I've felt that way on my fertility journey. While we are so grateful for what we do have, it's ok to want more too. What's helped me is hearing stories of people who are on the other side of what I'm struggling with. I know it doesnt always work out that way for everyone but hearing those stories gives me hope. You're a beautiful person and mom and I hope you're life is blessed with the things you desire in time 💙
You are being the best mom for your daughter and are such an inspiration for all the new moms our there (me being one of them). Noone knows what the future holds. We, as humans, love to have control of everything, but we can't, so please try to enjoy the present moment and know that it is very impermanent (These are the things I tell myself) 💗
Congrats to 500K Brittany! Been a follower for years and just love seeing you grow and it's very inspiring for me as I am expecting a son in March. You are a huge inspiration for my current and future self. Much love
One of My Favourite Videos Of Urs Brittany Where U Are Raw And Think Us As A Family To Share So Much Details About Your Thought Process U Have No Idea How Much strength U Are Giving To People Who Need It So Badly I Love U Sissy And We Are In This Together ❤️
Aw *HUGS* you are a strong mom ❤️ I always look forward for your next video. You are beautiful & strong. Love the respect you had for your daughter’s dad.
Sending love and all the good juju! I’m in a very similar space and have to say that anyone shaming you for accurately describing yourself as a single mom doesn’t deserve your time or attention. ❤️
I want to give you the biggest hug through the screen! You are a phenomenal Mum and so, so strong. Arrow is blessed to have you 💓 I feel like you were born to be a mother, I see you with multiple kiddo's running round in the future, in time - it'll happen for you. Lots of love xxx
This video was really sweet and definitely appreciated in all of its rawness. I appreciate your willingness and strength to share your experience with all of us. I can connect with this in a multitude of ways. I am not a single mom, but I did 100% singularly care for my child for his first year of life....alone. It was such a learning curve for me in the sense of who I am, who I want to be for myself as myself, but more importantly for my child; as a mom. The struggle is real, but that's okay in my book. The growth that comes from it is bitter sweet and I would surely do it all over again for my child. You touched my heart when describing your love for your daughter. Keep on doing what you're doing love. You're doing an amazing job and will only learn more and more :) Much love to all
You are doing so great! I was a single co- parenting mom for 8 years and married my soulmate. I have 2 bonus kids and miraculously I got pregnant with our baby who was born 11August 2020. It is a very big blessing to have been pregnant again and we are so happy. One day... You will find someone to share that moment with. You are an amazing mom and I take my hat off to you! It's hard to co-parent.
If I can say one thing, my parents divorced when I was 3 years old and they did an amazing job co-parenting for my brother and I. I don't have a single memory of them being together so it hasn't really had too much of a negative impact on me! Just wanted to tell you my story for reassurance and let you know you're amazing
Thank you for this video I can relate in many things I’m 19 years old a mother of a 10 month old and married and a college student it can feel very stressful when you want to do many thing but motherhood comes first and all I can do is try my best everyday so thank you for this video. You are a inspiration to many mothers❤️
This is the first time I've ever commented on a RUclips video. Ever. Only to say that you amaze me and inspire me. Anyone would feel overwhelmed in your situation.. There's lots in store for you in future so don't think that you won't experience childbirth again, Arrow would soon go off to school, you'd have more time and energy to meet a great guy again. Sending love and respect 💝
Love love love your desire to share and help other moms and dad see that there is happiness beyond separation and while yes it’s absolutely painful, it’s possible to be civil, to be friends and to share the responsibility of raising a child. She is going to thank you both one day and that will definitely make it all worth it!! I hope today is treating you well ❤️
You are so amazing and personable. Thank you so much for being you. It’s so honorable that you are a single Mom and prioritize your daughter while taking some time (even though limited), for yourself. For taking on the challenges while doing things for your mental health. My Mom was never a single mom. She prioritized men over her own children. It’s just so powerful to see you being such a strong independent women!!! Thank you!!
Congrats on the 500k britt! So proud of your journey. You are still young and will get everything you want and more in this life! Keep kicking ass and embrace the unknown.
Your videos are always so refreshing and real. Life isn’t easy and it’s overwhelming especially if your living on your own with a little one. Thank you for being so open. Sending you all the positive vibes ✨
Giving you a hug for all that you are doing. I recently went through a sad breakup and forced myself to pick myself up and move on my own. May not be a Mom yet however I felt everything you are feeling and doing everything alone. Sending you love 🤎
IT IS HARD and you are Amazing! I'm Hungarian living in the US with my 14 months old girl, far from my mother land, language, family, friends, and from Monday to Friday all alone. (My husband works in a film industry). It is hard mentally, physically, emotionally. It is such a huge responsibility to raise a little human. Girl you are so young, let yourself feel miserable at the hard days and enjoy everything on the good ones! It is ALL gonna be fine! You already have the greatest thing in life. :)) Btw how funny how Arrow is talking to herself at the background lol, my daughter does the same hahaha.
Most of us are here just to route for you, and enjoy your company. You are doing great mama. So glad that you are so strong and you choose to share your story.
can you please when you feel comfortable talking about it, talk about your coparenting relationship? because i just went through a separation with my S/O when my baby was 5 months old and i wish there were more you tubers that’s showed how they coparent because even if everyone’s situation is different it is not normalized enough!! coparenting is so hard and it would be nice to have some sort of guidance or at least could see that so many others are in the same boat and you’re not alone 💗💗💗 love you and your channel so much though, do whatever is best for you
definitely understand how uncertainty can be so daunting especially with all ur wants for the future and having a small baby like you do.. i hope youre able to work thru it and continue being a source of inspiration and force for lots of moms out there! thank you for sharing your life :-) big hugs
You are so humbling and honest. THANK YOU!!!! Keep going, I know that it might not mean much, but your videos have made so much to so many, including me. Arrow is getting so big, I have a love it and hate it. #sendingyoulove
I was compelled to comment. The talk- I feel it so deeply. I was engaged to my 14 month old little girl's father and I recently called off the wedding 2 months before. I feel these same feelings you are having also. Especially being 34 and wanting to be a mom again, but I don't know if that will happen for me. Thank you for sharing this and everything about dating... it helps me feel like I am not the only one. Much love!!
Thank you Britanny for being so raw and true. I am also a new mom and insomnia is something I struggle with every night. eventho my baby is already sleeping thru the night, my brain still can’t relax. I used to love sleep and because of insomnia the night time scares me because I’m afraid to just lay down and wait for the time to go by.
Thank you for sharing the struggles and the wins of your week, I found it so amazing that you talked about mental health, it made me feel like yeah we're all juggling all sorts of things and it can be overwhelming and lonely. Sending lots of love your way!
I look forward to your videos each week. I relate so much to everything you say and its so nice to see that my crazy hectic life with my son is normal. So thank you for being so real
You are seriously so amazing! I hope i can be as good of a mom as you are! Just had my first! he is 3 months and excited and nervous to start baby lead weaning in 3 months! Thanks for all the advice you give out!
I get thinking that having another child feels so far away. I felt that way too and it made me so sad.. But now my first baby is almost ten and I have a newborn daughter and step kids too! Life changes so quickly ❤️
Thank you for the vid and for all your hard work. You are amazing and it has been great to see you grow as a mum. I hope you will be able to have more kids in the future because you are a great mumma. xxx
I commend you Brittany for being so mature and putting Arrow first. You are amazing! I see that you’ve been sad n I’m praying for you n hoping you have happier days ahead♥️Everything happens for a reason and you are exactly where you are supposed to be. You have such a happy future ahead. Xo
I swear arrow says “happy Thursday” DONT tell me otherwise SHE SAID IT 😤 I also noticed when Brit was in her appt I SWEAR she says “less”. This girl smart af
I love your leopard pj’s! Where did you get them? You are doing AMAZING Brittany. I have loved your videos and I share your experiences with my daughter who has two girls age 2 and 11 mths, and is in a coparenting situation as well. You set an amazing example of what can be done in these circumstances. ❤️
I love that you and Arrow's father continue to prioritize her. The fact that you both value what is healthiest for her over the challenges of your relationship. Even though you co-parent you are still technically a "single mom." I think people misconstrue that concept to mean that a single mom is doing everything alone all of the time. I'm in a healthy marriage and I'm still the primary caregiver which is why I still find your videos relatable.
I am also married and feel like a single mom! My Husband works so hard to support us but unfortunately it feels like he works all the time.
@@marilynlambert7255 I can totally understand. My husband is a great husband and dad but we are a single income household and that means I do most of the parenting. It's a trade-off that doesn't feel "fair". We try to be intentional about recognizing each other's contributions to our family and making sure we each get alone time.
So relate to that! 💗
My parents divorced when I was three. I am now 36. To this day my parents and step parents hang out and go to dinners together. Now, as a parent, I am in awe of how my parents were able to put parenting as top priority no matter what. Coparenting is a super power. 💖
My friend growing up had divorced parents that were really good friends. They would always greet eachother with a hug and do dinners/holidays together and I know that is a difficult thing to do for sure but I always thought they were so cool for that
As a product of co parenting… my parents had issues. But always kept them away from me and we did everything together. All my birthdays, always together. Holidays, we always spent some part of the holidays together as a family. We did school events together. We would go out to dinner together at least once a week, sometimes more. I saw the healthy version of co parenting. My dad would still go around my moms family without my mom, just me and him. And then my mom would go around my dads family without him, just her and me.
Co Parenting is hard, but finding a way to be parents together, through the good and bad and not putting Arrow in the middle, is the best way to co parent. You’re doing great. Keep it up!!
Dearest Brittany and all singlemothers out there!! I have been singlemom for two kids. My childrens father betrayed me with another woman for whole year without me knowing it. She was pregnant,when I found out. I was 25 then,all by myself,without family support or anything,with 3years old boy and 5year old girl.
Beeing singlemom IS HARD!! I respect everyone of you,because we sacrifice SO MUCH to have better life to our kids.
I didn't think that I could be ever marrief,didn't think I was good enough etc..my mental state was so low. I'm so glad that you Brittany bring this up,it's SO IMPORTANT!! My kids are adults now and they have been thanking me over and over again,for being present,to play and laugh with them etc. They have called me superwoman 😭😭🥺❤
My point is this: everyone of you is superwoman,you give so much and you don't hesitate anything to protect your kids. God bless you my sisters out there,you are doing amazing job!!
P.s. my kids are now 28 and 26 😃 and I'm married to the love of my life (we met already when we were teen,falled in love then,but life did split us -until year ago we got married)
DO NOT GIVE UP ON YOUR DREAMS!!!Your children wants you to be happy,I'm happy at the moment. Remember you did your best,everyday is a new opportunity to start again. Don't blame yourself,you're your kuds superhero!! ❤❤❤🙋♀️
Oh babe I felt the same way when my marriage ended. We had one son together and I was so sad and angry in thinking that I was robbed of the opportunity to have another baby because I wasn’t sure I was ever going to. But of course that wasn’t true. I now have a 21 month old daughter with my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years after so much heartache. It will happen. You are such a kind soul and good mom, just be open and trust the timing.
Being a mom that suffers with mental health has been the biggest struggle of my life. I love my kiddos so much and they come first but yet no matter how much you love you’re kids, spouse, life, overall situation…. Stuffing with mental health doesn’t ever just go away no matter how amazing your life can be in every aspect. It’s the fact that you can’t just turn it off and not worry or not replay every moment of the day, good or bad. We’ve got this! The best thing to ever happen is to find out I’m not the only one who suffers with mental health and that it’s going to be okay! ❤️
Brittany, I had my daughter in June and I just wanted to let you know that during my pregnancy and navigating the life change as a new mom, you have been such a source of comfort, knowledge/advice…basically the friend I needed and was able to have by watching your content. You have the beautiful gift of guidance and I cannot reiterate enough how much you helped me believe in myself by seeing you believe (or struggle to) in yourself. Being a mother is such a journey and the transparency you have shared online has helped so many. Please know that your community admires and cherishes your vulnerability, honesty, spirit and kindness. As someone who feels like we have grown and continue to do so together, I am amazed that you are able to do so through RUclips. I and so many others are so grateful for sharing your experiences online. You are amazing. You are brilliant. You are strong. You are an amazing mother. You are an incredible woman and a beautiful person.
Someone loved you once.. you will be loved again🥰 this saying has helped me so much..
As someone who’s been around since the daily vlogging days, my heart truly fell into my ass when you were talking about the uncertainty of your future. And as someone who is a relatively young divorcee and now remarried with someone who was worth the wait…your future is so so SO much worth waiting for.
After I had my daughter I realized I needed to make my mental health a priority. I was in a really dark place dealing with depression I had before I had a baby and then on top of that I got PPD and PPA. I'm now in therapy and on meds that have helped me so much. I think it's super important to have someone you can confined in, like a therapist. I knew I needed help so I could be the best mom I could be for my daughter. Therapy has been a blessing I didn't know I needed. I honestly thought if I ignored it, It would go away, it didn't. Hearing other moms talk about mental health is so refreshing and it makes me feel less alone. Thank you. :)
8:19 that was so cute when she said “happy Thursday” 🥰
Being a mother is an absolute honor and complete spiritual experience. I started watching you right after my husband and I separated and it has been so helpful to see that I am not alone in my feelings. You are an amazing mom!
I really appreciate you being so open. Your words are my exact emotions. I became a single mom at 19, my son wasn’t even 2 weeks old yet & honestly I had felt single since I found out I got pregnant. It sucks taking a loss / win on your own. No one to confine in the losses with & no one to celebrate the wins. I also understand when you feel so far fetched from ever being able to get pregnant again. I love watching your videos ❤️ Keep it up mama! You’re amazing.
You’re so good at articulating your feelings. You’re so strong and humble. Your mama fam will celebrate all your wins and be here for you on your lows too. You’re an inspiration and super tough! We ❤️ you B
Aww thank you so so much 🥺❤️
I SOOOOO agree with you!! ❤
You've helped me as a first time mom and a mom who works from home (way harder than people think especially with a team of co-workers and several meetings a day). My daughter is just 6 weeks behind Arrow so every video you've posted has helped me in some way, especially BLW! Just want to say thank you soooooo much. And you are seriously doing an incredible job as a mother/human being! Appreciate yooooooou!
You’re so inspirational 🧡 you’re doing great mama! I love when you tell us what your thoughts are and how you’re feeling. Even though you may feel like you don’t have anyone to share your success & your struggles with, just know we are all here for you and support you!! Don’t stop yourself from feeling your feelings. It’s okay to cry, laugh, be upset etc. But once you’ve let it all out remind yourself that you’re that Boss Mom!! 🥰
I’ve struggled with mental health my whole life. Looking back, I’ve been depressed + other things forever. My family also struggles with it for many generations on the same level, but here we are kicking depressions ass & being amazing mommas at the same time 💁🏻♀️
love this for us ❤️ you are so strong!
I related to you so much when you talked about never having another baby again! It’s nice knowing there’s someone else feeling the exact same way. My baby girl will be 3 months this week and even though I’ve been alone since finding out I was pregnant, pregnancy was the most special beautiful time of my life and it devastates me feeling like I’ll never get to experience it again.
Your raw moment on the bed talking about motherhood...wow. You nailed it. I'm married and still feel like a single parent. Also, I cried with you. Seriously, I love the real and raw filming. It helps me feel less alone.
I also grew up in a separated home with divorced parents and I love how you are trying to coparent. I honestly think it's a healthy way of doing it! For Arrow, it will seem so natural for her family to be set up the way you guys are doing it and that will help as she gets older!
I'm sure you get lonely, I've been with my partner for 11 years & have never felt so alone in my adult life. I eat alone, I go every where alone, I talk to myself more than anyone else because I have nobody to talk to. My family is gone, they have passed including my children. Listening to you talk about mental health & reaching out for help has motivated me to do that. Wanted to say thank you for sharing & I get it.
I am so sorry for your losses, I’m so happy you were able to reach out for help ❤️
Feel you, especially about the wanting another Baby situation..i feel that so so bad.
I am feeling a lot better everytime i watch your honest, raw and reallife vlogs!
Stay strong girl, you are loved and a very valuable Human💜
Greetings from Germany😘
I started tearing up when you spoke about yearning for another baby. My sons father and I split up recently and I wish with all my heart I could experience this again but I know this is life’s plan for me right now and things can change in the future. Thank you for these videos💗
Ugh girl you’re amazing 🥰🙌🏼
I hear you trying to explain and maybe please or acknowledge everyone. Not easy.
Love you girl
You are inspiring, love following ❤️🙏🏼
Loved this video! Made me cry, being a mum is 100% the best gift x
I lost my dad when I was 19. He took his own life. It’s been 10 years. So I felt that mental health segment, deeply. So glad you are shedding light on mental health ♥️
I am so sorry for your loss ❤️
@@brittanybalyn appreciate that 🙏🏼 it’s still a struggle, but makes me want to be and do better for my daughter so she never has to experience loss the way I have
Aww loved the video Brittany. I laughed and I cried right along you with you. I admire your strength.
Thank you for the little words on coparenting. My husband just left me and our 16 month old and it’s so hard. I have no idea how to navigate this. Thank you for the transparency about it all. I don’t make a single decision without considering what’s best for my little girl.
I have so much respect and admiration for you as a mother and person.
Your videos help so much!❤️
I have watched your channel since you were first pregnant with Arrow and to see you now is so inspiring. I am a new mom myself and I just ended my relationship with my baby’s father and it has been difficult navigating through it, but your videos are informational and also very inspiring and helpful. I aspire to create a coparenting relationship such as your with my child’s father because I grew up in a situation with my parents divorced and they never got along. I want my child to know and see that her parents love one another (as the mother/father of their child) and can get along for her sake. It changes the child’s perspective.
Arrow talking is the cutest thing ever!!!! how special you and your daughter get to grow and learn this whole life thing out together 🤍
You are doing amazing! My son turned one yesterday and it made me so emotional. I sometimes feel very alone even with a supportive husband. I think you and Arrow are just adorable, love your videos ❤️❤️❤️
I feel alone as well sometimes... I have a 8 months old baby and a husband who works all day long..
I love how open and honest you are. You really provide quality content xx
You're an inspiration. I also work from home and have a 16 month old who doesn't go to daycare. I have a husband who helps out, yet I get way less done than you. I'm so impressed you manage to upload on YT and post on IG as much as you do while taking care of your daughter as a single mom (don't listen to snarks who say you aren't do it alone - you are). I really don't know how you do it. Watching you do all this while also struggling mentally, is like I said, an inspiration. It's really motivating me to get more done in my day as well. I hope you know you're doing an amazing job & Arrow is lucky to have you as her mom. I rarely leave comments but I just wanted you to know that's how I see you.
You didn't have to make me cry!!!
No really, thank you so so much for such a sweet message. I welcome these tears. ❤️
@@brittanybalyn ❤️
I think it's so human to feel unsure about the future when things arent guaranteed, I've felt that way on my fertility journey. While we are so grateful for what we do have, it's ok to want more too. What's helped me is hearing stories of people who are on the other side of what I'm struggling with. I know it doesnt always work out that way for everyone but hearing those stories gives me hope. You're a beautiful person and mom and I hope you're life is blessed with the things you desire in time 💙
You are being the best mom for your daughter and are such an inspiration for all the new moms our there (me being one of them). Noone knows what the future holds. We, as humans, love to have control of everything, but we can't, so please try to enjoy the present moment and know that it is very impermanent (These are the things I tell myself) 💗
And also congratulations on 500k!!!🍰🍰🍰
Congrats to 500K Brittany! Been a follower for years and just love seeing you grow and it's very inspiring for me as I am expecting a son in March. You are a huge inspiration for my current and future self. Much love
One of My Favourite Videos Of Urs Brittany Where U Are Raw And Think Us As A Family To Share So Much Details About Your Thought Process U Have No Idea How Much strength U Are Giving To People Who Need It So Badly I Love U Sissy And We Are In This Together ❤️
Aw *HUGS* you are a strong mom ❤️ I always look forward for your next video. You are beautiful & strong. Love the respect you had for your daughter’s dad.
Thank you so much! ❤️
Thank you again for sharing 💙 you're doing amazing and everything will be okay 🙏🏼 also congrats on exceeding 500k!!
Thank you so much!!❤️
Sending love and all the good juju!
I’m in a very similar space and have to say that anyone shaming you for accurately describing yourself as a single mom doesn’t deserve your time or attention. ❤️
I want to give you the biggest hug through the screen! You are a phenomenal Mum and so, so strong. Arrow is blessed to have you 💓
I feel like you were born to be a mother, I see you with multiple kiddo's running round in the future, in time - it'll happen for you. Lots of love xxx
This video was really sweet and definitely appreciated in all of its rawness. I appreciate your willingness and strength to share your experience with all of us. I can connect with this in a multitude of ways. I am not a single mom, but I did 100% singularly care for my child for his first year of life....alone. It was such a learning curve for me in the sense of who I am, who I want to be for myself as myself, but more importantly for my child; as a mom. The struggle is real, but that's okay in my book. The growth that comes from it is bitter sweet and I would surely do it all over again for my child. You touched my heart when describing your love for your daughter. Keep on doing what you're doing love. You're doing an amazing job and will only learn more and more :) Much love to all
Hugs! You're doing good mama! As a mom of 3 I just want to say, you can do this. You're doing well. Hang in there Mama!
You are doing so great! I was a single co- parenting mom for 8 years and married my soulmate. I have 2 bonus kids and miraculously I got pregnant with our baby who was born 11August 2020. It is a very big blessing to have been pregnant again and we are so happy. One day... You will find someone to share that moment with. You are an amazing mom and I take my hat off to you! It's hard to co-parent.
Co parenting dinners sounds like such a nice and fun experience for a child growing up with separated parents 💓 arrow is so lucky
Arrow is so blessed to have you as a mama💗
If I can say one thing, my parents divorced when I was 3 years old and they did an amazing job co-parenting for my brother and I. I don't have a single memory of them being together so it hasn't really had too much of a negative impact on me! Just wanted to tell you my story for reassurance and let you know you're amazing
Thank you for this video I can relate in many things I’m 19 years old a mother of a 10 month old and married and a college student it can feel very stressful when you want to do many thing but motherhood comes first and all I can do is try my best everyday so thank you for this video. You are a inspiration to many mothers❤️
You’re a great momma. You motivate me and I appreciate your candidness regarding your mental health struggles.
I loooooove hearing Arrow talk 💖 She's growing up too fast tho! I feel like you just gave birth!!
This is the first time I've ever commented on a RUclips video. Ever. Only to say that you amaze me and inspire me. Anyone would feel overwhelmed in your situation..
There's lots in store for you in future so don't think that you won't experience childbirth again, Arrow would soon go off to school, you'd have more time and energy to meet a great guy again. Sending love and respect 💝
Love love love your desire to share and help other moms and dad see that there is happiness beyond separation and while yes it’s absolutely painful, it’s possible to be civil, to be friends and to share the responsibility of raising a child. She is going to thank you both one day and that will definitely make it all worth it!! I hope today is treating you well ❤️
You are so amazing and personable. Thank you so much for being you. It’s so honorable that you are a single Mom and prioritize your daughter while taking some time (even though limited), for yourself. For taking on the challenges while doing things for your mental health.
My Mom was never a single mom. She prioritized men over her own children.
It’s just so powerful to see you being such a strong independent women!!!
Thank you!!
All in all, you’re doing great mama!! The tough times will pass❤️❤️❤️
Congrats on the 500k britt! So proud of your journey. You are still young and will get everything you want and more in this life! Keep kicking ass and embrace the unknown.
Your videos are always so refreshing and real. Life isn’t easy and it’s overwhelming especially if your living on your own with a little one. Thank you for being so open. Sending you all the positive vibes ✨
Giving you a hug for all that you are doing. I recently went through a sad breakup and forced myself to pick myself up and move on my own. May not be a Mom yet however I felt everything you are feeling and doing everything alone. Sending you love 🤎
Great timing. 3 hours to get my 1year to sleep. Finally he's gone down and you upload! 🙏🙏
yayy I finally have a napping baby too!! Go us!!
@@brittanybalyn we are winning at life 😂
My babe is napping now too! Hahaha
IT IS HARD and you are Amazing! I'm Hungarian living in the US with my 14 months old girl, far from my mother land, language, family, friends, and from Monday to Friday all alone. (My husband works in a film industry). It is hard mentally, physically, emotionally. It is such a huge responsibility to raise a little human. Girl you are so young, let yourself feel miserable at the hard days and enjoy everything on the good ones! It is ALL gonna be fine! You already have the greatest thing in life. :)) Btw how funny how Arrow is talking to herself at the background lol, my daughter does the same hahaha.
I COULDN'T HAVE CLICKED THE SUBSCRIBE BUTTON SO FAST OR SO HARD. Thank you for your realness! God knows our society needs it. Thank you again
Loved this raw and honest vlog!!!!
Thank you for even on bad days, you show positivity and make everything so relatable!!!
You Rock mama! ♥️
Most of us are here just to route for you, and enjoy your company. You are doing great mama. So glad that you are so strong and you choose to share your story.
can you please when you feel comfortable talking about it, talk about your coparenting relationship? because i just went through a separation with my S/O when my baby was 5 months old and i wish there were more you tubers that’s showed how they coparent because even if everyone’s situation is different it is not normalized enough!! coparenting is so hard and it would be nice to have some sort of guidance or at least could see that so many others are in the same boat and you’re not alone 💗💗💗 love you and your channel so much though, do whatever is best for you
You are a beautiful person inside and out. I pray that your hopes are right around the corner. Thanks for your authentic self! 💗
You are such a beautiful strong mother, you are so inspiring
I've been loving your channel so much lately. I love how open and honest you are. Love to see how brave you are, it really encourages me!
You are a super mom. So often it feels like we are overstretching ourselves. It will pay off Britney 🤲🏼
Brittany always makes my day 10x better 🙌🏻
aww thank you!!
Praying that everyone falls asleep quickly and has a peaceful sleep. Hope you all wake up happy and well rested 😘😍😜
I just wanted to say your thursday wearing cozy sweater is so lovely, I liked it (the one watching all your videos but never comment 🙊)
Omg girl I just watched your video 🥰🤩😭❤️ So many emotions! From one mama to another you are doing amazing! Sending you and Arrow so much love 💕
I hope that everything works out amazingly for you. You are a beautiful person inside and out- and deserve it.
definitely understand how uncertainty can be so daunting especially with all ur wants for the future and having a small baby like you do.. i hope youre able to work thru it and continue being a source of inspiration and force for lots of moms out there! thank you for sharing your life :-) big hugs
You are so humbling and honest. THANK YOU!!!! Keep going, I know that it might not mean much, but your videos have made so much to so many, including me. Arrow is getting so big, I have a love it and hate it. #sendingyoulove
Brittany where did you get that beautiful pastel sweater/jumper, love it 💗
I was compelled to comment. The talk- I feel it so deeply. I was engaged to my 14 month old little girl's father and I recently called off the wedding 2 months before. I feel these same feelings you are having also. Especially being 34 and wanting to be a mom again, but I don't know if that will happen for me. Thank you for sharing this and everything about dating... it helps me feel like I am not the only one. Much love!!
Thank you for being so honest. We love you girl! You're doing amazing!
Thank you Britanny for being so raw and true. I am also a new mom and insomnia is something I struggle with every night. eventho my baby is already sleeping thru the night, my brain still can’t relax. I used to love sleep and because of insomnia the night time scares me because I’m afraid to just lay down and wait for the time to go by.
You are so strong and a great mama! Your baby girl will be there by your side celebrating with you soon! My son is 3 and he is my little buddy now.
This video is completely relateable. Thank you for this! Good to know I'm not the only new mama who feels this way.
sending you so much love, yes to the honesty and the longer videos. from one momma to another, you are doing a wonderful job 💕
Have you looked into daycare? When you have a second, doesn’t have to be every day. I think it would come in handy for editing days
Thank you for sharing the struggles and the wins of your week, I found it so amazing that you talked about mental health, it made me feel like yeah we're all juggling all sorts of things and it can be overwhelming and lonely. Sending lots of love your way!
I look forward to your videos each week. I relate so much to everything you say and its so nice to see that my crazy hectic life with my son is normal. So thank you for being so real
Love this so much! Could you please tell me, where is your jumper Jacket in beige (1:20) from?
You are an amazing woman. Arrow is lucky to have you and that you have the perspective you have.
You are seriously so amazing! I hope i can be as good of a mom as you are! Just had my first! he is 3 months and excited and nervous to start baby lead weaning in 3 months! Thanks for all the advice you give out!
I get thinking that having another child feels so far away. I felt that way too and it made me so sad.. But now my first baby is almost ten and I have a newborn daughter and step kids too! Life changes so quickly ❤️
Thank you for the vid and for all your hard work. You are amazing and it has been great to see you grow as a mum. I hope you will be able to have more kids in the future because you are a great mumma. xxx
This video has my crying! You’re so strong, love! ♥️
I commend you Brittany for being so mature and putting Arrow first. You are amazing! I see that you’ve been sad n I’m praying for you n hoping you have happier days ahead♥️Everything happens for a reason and you are exactly where you are supposed to be. You have such a happy future ahead. Xo
Arrow grows more and more adorable every video! 💙
I agreeeeee 💘
& congratulations on 500K!!❤️ You deserve it girl!!
I swear arrow says “happy Thursday” DONT tell me otherwise SHE SAID IT 😤 I also noticed when Brit was in her appt I SWEAR she says “less”. This girl smart af
I heard happy Thursday too!!!
I watched Arrow saying hi like 20 times. So cute!!!
she's obsessed lol
Arrow said happy Thursday she talks so well
I love your leopard pj’s! Where did you get them? You are doing AMAZING Brittany. I have loved your videos and I share your experiences with my daughter who has two girls age 2 and 11 mths, and is in a coparenting situation as well. You set an amazing example of what can be done in these circumstances. ❤️
aww, i truly believe you will meet a great partner one day, fall in love and have more siblings for Arrow! 💓 you’re such a great person!
Arrow talking is adorable! Sending you love Brittany ♥️🖤