Sincere and determined people need truthful information and a good plan to escape the cycle and hole you are in. Incredible marriages ARE possible. They are achieved by: 1. Learning about the mind and mastering it so your changes are permanent and you are always growing. 2. Learning how to behave, and not behave in marriage friendly ways 3. Making unconditional love and ever-expanding happiness your primary and constant missions. Go to themarriagefoundation.org and get the course if you need it. Now is not the time to experiment. It is the time for positive action.
As a healthy, completely functioning male; I have always found sex in a union, to be a powerful motivator. I started a new life with a new wife and sex died, now I feel as if I am too. Four of more sexless years later, I have become like a cut cat, fat and feeling useless, I have lost so much joy and there is nothing to replace the lost love hormones, I tend to be moody and though I love life, it becomes filled with internal strife. I want my life back but it has become a taboo subject to mention these things to my "housemate". I love the femininity of woman as a man, there are no other options, not even self gratification. I do not know what to do.
I suggest you take an objective look at your situation, as nobody but you can do so. See if you are the cause of her disinterest and if so make changes. If there is nothing you can do to help move toward physical intimacy be objective about your options such as will be influenced If you were caught off-guard by deceit (as in pre-meditated) for instance. If there is nothing you can do for whatever reasons and the relationship will remain then you can always gain control over your mind to become happy in other ways. Despondency should never be an option for a person. You CAN do something to be happy.
You are good man to accept her debilitation without looking for the exit. One client was in a similar situation but worse because he discovered that his wife was clinically mentally ill only after 2 years of marriage. She hid it from him. He chose to use the course for men, particularly the first section that deals with the mind, to use his challenges as a spur to grow. The results of his determination were incredible. I never saw anyone grow as much or as fast as he did.
Sincere and determined people need truthful information and a good plan to escape the cycle and hole you are in. Incredible marriages ARE possible. They are achieved by:
1. Learning about the mind and mastering it so your changes are permanent and you are always growing.
2. Learning how to behave, and not behave in marriage friendly ways
3. Making unconditional love and ever-expanding happiness your primary and constant missions.
Go to themarriagefoundation.org and get the course if you need it. Now is not the time to experiment. It is the time for positive action.
As a healthy, completely functioning male; I have always found sex in a union, to be a powerful motivator.
I started a new life with a new wife and sex died, now I feel as if I am too. Four of more sexless years later, I have become like a cut cat, fat and feeling useless, I have lost so much joy and there is nothing to replace the lost love hormones, I tend to be moody and though I love life, it becomes filled with internal strife.
I want my life back but it has become a taboo subject to mention these things to my "housemate".
I love the femininity of woman as a man, there are no other options, not even self gratification. I do not know what to do.
I suggest you take an objective look at your situation, as nobody but you can do so. See if you are the cause of her disinterest and if so make changes. If there is nothing you can do to help move toward physical intimacy be objective about your options such as will be influenced If you were caught off-guard by deceit (as in pre-meditated) for instance.
If there is nothing you can do for whatever reasons and the relationship will remain then you can always gain control over your mind to become happy in other ways. Despondency should never be an option for a person. You CAN do something to be happy.
You are good man to accept her debilitation without looking for the exit. One client was in a similar situation but worse because he discovered that his wife was clinically mentally ill only after 2 years of marriage. She hid it from him. He chose to use the course for men, particularly the first section that deals with the mind, to use his challenges as a spur to grow. The results of his determination were incredible. I never saw anyone grow as much or as fast as he did.
The course for men is truly ideal themarriagefoundation.org/system/
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