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My Husband Doesn't Want Me Sexually Anymore | Paul Friedman
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- Опубликовано: 4 май 2020
- Are you experiencing that your husband is losing interest in sex and you think he doesn't want you sexually any more? Watch Paul shares some tips so you could discover why this is happening and for you to understand the situation.
I'm going to help you with this because there's a lot of misunderstandings in terms of what is really going on and I'm going to try and give you some insights into not just this particular problem that you're having but into your marriage because this is really where the problem lies.
It isn't that you're not sexy anymore even if you've gained weight or your figure has changed -- that doesn't matter to men. Truly, so I'm going to start with really what does matters, what makes a man feel sexually attracted to his wife because it's very interesting and the point is missed almost entirely.
I saw not too long ago a story that was on Facebook about a man who was marrying his fiancee even though she had cancer and was dying and my God, she the poor thing. She was completely emaciated and she was wearing her wedding gown and he was all smiles and you could see in his eye how much he loved her, how much he desired her. She was not sexy but to him, for sure
she was very sexy so that is much more of realistic reasoning for men who feel sexually
attracted to their wives is love -- it's love. Now let's go way back to why you got married in the first place because I'm going to show you what went wrong.
You got married to be happy and the ultimate way to achieve happiness and it isn't just the ultimate way honestly, it's the only way to achieve long-term happiness. Anything other than fleeting happiness, long-term deep happiness comes only from love. You could test this in
your own mind. You could write down examples of people who are happy and come up with some material reasons but if you dig deeper, you'll find that they're not. They always have to -- I mean people there are people who are very wealthy. They've got these fantastic lifestyles. They've got big yachts, jet planes, a staff to wait on them hand and foot and they're not happy.
How do I know?
Most of them are drinking alcohol or smoking pot. They're escaping somehow or they keep so busy that they have themselves deluded into thinking, "I am happy." That's not happiness. Happiness only comes from love. Now, it's true that human love is not the only happiness
creating an event. There are people who love God so much. There are even people who love art so much that they're completely absorbed but even that is somewhat fleeting. True love produces happiness. When you got married you are so happy. Remember at your wedding when you had that experience.
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I have never ever ever met someone who so encapsulated why I care so very much about sex with my husband before. It’s the only time I get to give him a part of my soul. That’s legitimately what it is for me. I haven’t ever been able to put this into words before - and it is why I am so absolutely crushed when we don’t get to take that very special time together. I feel like it’s the one pure way I can show him how I TRULY feel, and the one pure gift that I can give to him. It isn’t about me at all, but it hurts me when that is gone. Thank you so much for this video. I really needed to hear this.
He's talking about true love not the lust that's most commonly people mistake for love
That is exactly right!. I am glad you recognize the difference.
Lust and love must be balanced in a relationship, if lust is high he will just use you for his sexual needs but you wouldn't get any affection, love, comfort from it you would feel alone and if he loves you more then lust, he will support you, sacrifice his time for you.but you would feel unsatisfied because he is not meeting your sexual needs unfortunately majority of the time you will get those types of people, its rare to find a husband cares for you as in love and support also sexual support, intimacy both balanced
Yeah... This is utterly useless if you come here for the answer to the title text.
Sexual attraction can evaporate in a relationship independent of love.
He is right. I've stopped sleeping with my wife exactly because of my unhappiness, not because she not being sexy.
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Thank you for this video. I have tried everything. I know he's still in there somewhere. I just can't access him. I'm not sure if he can access himself. We seem like 2 people who are unhappy and waiting to die. But I am getting up to try again. Something must be done. I started praying for him everyday. Then your videos came up. It feels hopeless until I listen to you. You seem to have something. Maybe there is hope.
There is more than just hope when you learn how to be married there is success. I suggest you use the woman's course because you are at your wits end. You need good guidance which will create great results which will create more effort etc. You can do this!
Thank you so much for your wonderful advise
this has helped so much an eye opener ..
This is great! It's like returning to a relationships course that delves into deeper meaning and sustained interactions.
I am glad you recognize the basis of true happiness is LOVE, the deepest of all truths. Blessings 🙏😇
I have been married 38 1/2 years and I started dating my husband at 15 years old.. you are so Right!! It’s bigger than SEX... LOVE is the married having a connection..
Yes dear M, love is the proper foundation for happiness in marriage. There are just no worthwhile substitutes.
Just screw your husband, its not hard.
Thank you for this video 🙏
i feel sex is a time of connection and intimacy. to learn each other deeper. but for him he says he is “porn brained “ and that sex is just sex . i tried to talk to him about how empty and lonely i feel. and how i miss his touch and company . he doesn’t even tell me he loves me. i make sure to give him complements and be kind and helpful. and patient. nothing works he just says my advances remind him he can’t perform due to ed , even though i’ve assured him that sex is a small part of marital intimacy . but he avoids all intimacy.
If you look at it from his point of view you will see that you are critical and not loving. His view on sex are wrong but what is taught in society so you threaten his thinking, you are to be his wife, not his teacher...but I am going to far, here...get the course for women themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/ so you can heal everything w/love and soul
I love the entire content
I love the practically of your videos.
That is important. If the information is practical it means you can apply what you learn.
I wish I would have known about this 10 years ago. Sadly we are now getting divorced and I still love him so much but I screwed up too many times.
How is everything going?😮