How Does The Narcissist Feel Once You've Moved On

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  • Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2024

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  • @chuckratcliff2429
    @chuckratcliff2429 5 лет назад +447

    You can’t keep a good person down!!! We will rise above the pain!!

  • @gothangel68
    @gothangel68 5 лет назад +669

    NO ONE WILL EVER DESTROY ME AGAIN. EVER!!! I COME FIRST FROM NOW ON!!

  • @tammyfoster-sapanara8043
    @tammyfoster-sapanara8043 5 лет назад +1294

    Once I left my life quickly started to get better. I had no idea how much damage he was doing. to me physically and psychologically. Since I discarded him I sleep better, my skin looks better, I feel better, I am more calm, little things don't upset me, I don't yell, my body getting stronger from regular exercise, my relationships with everyone better, it's amazing! At first I was bitter and angry looking for revenge but then I realized he already is suffering. Stay strong survivors! You can and will heal. I am living proof.

    • @KandyKoatedKrafts
      @KandyKoatedKrafts 5 лет назад +12

      ♡♡♡♡

    • @edwardstevenson9071
      @edwardstevenson9071 5 лет назад +18

      So am I.......... ..A Survivor !!!!!TG !!!!!

    • @msalcaples1
      @msalcaples1 5 лет назад +5

      Tammy Sapanara ✨🙏🏽✨

    • @liseelliot1976
      @liseelliot1976 5 лет назад +45

      Congrats! It's the same for me.
      I have all this new found energy that I put into lifting weights. When I first met my narc I had all the patience in the world and then I turned into a bomb, I am now back to my somewhat normal self, it's amazing.

    • @tammyfoster-sapanara8043
      @tammyfoster-sapanara8043 5 лет назад +21

      @@liseelliot1976 you are already thriving which is wonderful! Like you, I am more patient, calm and above all else happy again. What he stole I took back. They deserve no more of our space. Let them live in their constant hell. It eats them up every day but it doesn't have to do that to us anymore.

  • @robertolsen4140
    @robertolsen4140 5 лет назад +213

    Once you get your life together and distance yourself from a narcissist, that is the best revenge. Their goal was to destroy you to the point where you either die or never recover. Because the narcissist was not successful, they feel like a total failure.

    • @jackiepowell7513
      @jackiepowell7513 4 года назад +3

      My mom died with one.

    • @denisehorn8780
      @denisehorn8780 3 года назад +11

      I always say, "he won't be happy until he has his boot on my grave." He's tried, but I'm winning. :)

    • @san4950
      @san4950 3 года назад +2

      @@denisehorn8780 I know that feeling

    • @mehranmossaddad1656
      @mehranmossaddad1656 3 года назад +7

      That's one thing I never understood, I was the best thing that ever happened to her, the only one that ever gave her a break. Rescued her from a dump brought her to the US, every one's dream over seas. Her dreams came true but she openly destroyed me, did what ever she could to ruin my life hurt me and our daughter. To this day I wonder why. I never wronged her, I am very spiritual and believe in good thoughts, deeds and words. I threw away 13 years of my life trying to help her but she is my mortal enemy. No logic.

    • @mehranmossaddad1656
      @mehranmossaddad1656 3 года назад +3

      @John Smith yes most unfortunate

  • @Lovelyelizabeth12
    @Lovelyelizabeth12 5 лет назад +573

    My ex narcissist tried so hard to destroy me. Once I moved on a lot of positive things started to happen. I’m doing so well 😁. You’re absolutely right “They weren’t about shit!”.

    • @ricabassinger7124
      @ricabassinger7124 5 лет назад +19

      I noticed that myself. I wasnt prospering until I let him go. It hurt so bad to say goodbye after 7yrs. Every since I let him go . Good things happen to me and for me. Dont get me wrong im still in the stage of forgiving him. But im also happy everyday now.

    • @tonyhinds9855
      @tonyhinds9855 5 лет назад +15

      All power you, they are so jealous envious they want to destroy your spirit your soul everything, mine was a b**** Queen from hell..

    • @QponHoney
      @QponHoney 5 лет назад +18

      Preach....my ex husband is a narcissist..it took me a long time but I'm free..my hair grew back, my skin cleared up, I'm so relaxed and free. I once wanted revenge but now I just want peace and sanity and that's what I'm getting away from him.

    • @peacetkwgo5510
      @peacetkwgo5510 5 лет назад +15

      Basically the demons in them can see the god in you God first...

    • @tonyhinds9855
      @tonyhinds9855 5 лет назад +4

      @@peacetkwgo5510 real talk

  • @shirleyakpelu1831
    @shirleyakpelu1831 5 лет назад +775

    who gives a hoot what it feels? I am a survivor. I am not going to give up! Success is the best revenge!

    • @cubbiesmith4505
      @cubbiesmith4505 5 лет назад +8

      Yes we have been giving faith graceful ly , what a disappointment it would be to waste such glorious gift given on demonic souls narcissist. Not on my life and time.

    • @oscarmannheim7434
      @oscarmannheim7434 5 лет назад +2

      Shirley Akpelu hi, me too! I want to remember so I don’t get hurt so badly again.

    • @terridavis-cole7178
      @terridavis-cole7178 5 лет назад +11

      Shirley Akpelu ,yes!! Living a good life is the Best revenge!!

    • @derochemiles4136
      @derochemiles4136 5 лет назад

      Right lol!!!

    • @thiery572
      @thiery572 5 лет назад +2

      Shirley Akpelu Then why are you watching this? In my case, I think he moves on too, but not a good life, just like before he met me.

  • @marciagittens4480
    @marciagittens4480 5 лет назад +339

    I am narc free for 2 yrs, but still enjoy these videos

    • @Richard-vq7ud
      @Richard-vq7ud 5 лет назад +8

      Marcia Gittens me too. I never get tired of them

    • @deebow0872
      @deebow0872 5 лет назад +18

      This is a life long experience you will never forget.

    • @kanatapaw
      @kanatapaw 5 лет назад +8

      It's something that makes a big impact on us.
      And people are still suffering and are unaware.
      I hope they see the light and run like the wind.

    • @katemcl1124
      @katemcl1124 5 лет назад +8

      Six months no contact and still binge-watching narc videos!

    • @faithhope6891
      @faithhope6891 5 лет назад +2

      Marcia Gittens no all I know is that they continue to make life hell for the kids even after a divorce is been final for almost 10 years

  • @franciscoanaya1207
    @franciscoanaya1207 5 лет назад +305

    Totally agree, your best revenge is to be a successful happy person without the burden of their toxic being

    • @pippipster6767
      @pippipster6767 4 года назад +2

      Francisco Anaya
      💯

    • @StevieRay_0328
      @StevieRay_0328 4 года назад +2

      Exactly

    • @chineseslaves1971
      @chineseslaves1971 4 года назад +2

      Right if they were jealous before they haven’t seen it all yet! Motivation to do even more. However, get out of their presence ASAP before they injure you for life. Signs...false belief system that someone else, you, will take care care of them when they don’t deserve it and are a beast of burden. A vice that greatly shows it’s abuse on their body. The vice will be dangerous to their well being and anyone’s who they are near. Lack of discipline and control over finances, consumption and their unjustified spoiled brat behavior to others who won’t let them continue their misinterpretation and mishandling of situations. Very huge ego which explains severe retaliation over not getting what they are not entitled to. This is also to cover their crime that they are in the process of committing. Drama queens and Kings to deflect from it and their complete worthlessness. Basically they want to live off of you in some form and on their crazy terms when they are beggars only seeing what they need and offering nothing but trouble in return to deflect again from their lazy worthlessness. So an obese woman may try to force herself into your housing (when she has no excuse to be poor and needs devices to support body at way too young of an age), or a man may scapegoat employees to deflect from his stealing at work as well as his inability to do his job. Either one will skin you alive and take you down if you let them. They are smart asses who are disgustingly irresponsible and childlike in behavior. They end up homeless, in poverty, or prison. They had chances with people but were so selfish they couldn’t survive any of them. They underestimate you and think you and others are stupid. Their looks in past bought them a lot but they failed each chance. They think they still command this but they can’t and they never did get away with it for long. Call them on what they are doing and you’ll see the rattlesnake come out. They are really nasty spoiled children whose stupidity creates dangerous situations for all, including themselves. They don’t learn overall. They can learn to not do this or that again, so they can still connect but they won’t change overall. Having contact with one is like activating a parasite. To feed themselves they want to destroy you and have no remorse because they are entitled and think everything should be about their needs which are highly overindulgent. No matter any bad while being raised, someone overindulged and spoiled them. This is not to say all spoiled people are unkind or selfish, some hold it very well and are very classy. The narc isn’t a sincere, genuine or real person. They can have multiple personality disorder and other mental disorders like schizophrenia. Again not all of these disordered are narcissistic.

  • @tauruswinds37
    @tauruswinds37 5 лет назад +114

    Protect your mind .. and most importantly your soul.

  • @darlalong1957
    @darlalong1957 4 года назад +43

    When I was told..," your too nice", I should have taken it as a warning not a compliment...

  • @monicanath4859
    @monicanath4859 5 лет назад +245

    Narcissists are extraordinary people. They can teach us a lot about ourselves, especially when they start showing signs of being jealous of you, by constantly lashing out at you.

    • @dianacampbell5433
      @dianacampbell5433 5 лет назад +39

      Nothing extraordinary about them they are demons and energy vampires they are here to destroy you.

    • @nelliecebekhulu498
      @nelliecebekhulu498 5 лет назад +9

      Mine confessed that he hate me and he wish I was dead. . But how am I suppose to live when you dead cause I need you..I chose you cause you unique. .in shock I said nothing but I smiled so he can tell me more. .he said a lot and I realised he is my enemy. .I showed no emotions started to play along mainwhile I was packing my things now he stalking me but why. ? He made me hate him insulted me devalued me said I'm short tempered. Still trying to get used to be normal

    • @tdjakesfaith8410
      @tdjakesfaith8410 5 лет назад +10

      They are EXTRA demons that come to steal(what we have and they desire to obtain)..kill(our character..joy..livelihood)..destroy(relationships..stability..self worth)..

    • @rambleon9478
      @rambleon9478 5 лет назад +12

      @@nelliecebekhulu498 that is scary. Run and never look back!

    • @Kabaselefh
      @Kabaselefh 4 года назад +7

      I will not say extraordinary, we are extraordinary not them

  • @jimpanse5450
    @jimpanse5450 5 лет назад +385

    Its so hard to see that everything was a lie. Still struggling to find myself. Your vids help me a lot!

    • @phoenixd9679
      @phoenixd9679 5 лет назад +7

      Jim Panse Going true it now trying to understand the narc intense act of fake interesting to have relation . He knew he was fake ,narcs are monsters and to many of them , hard to believe but true! I pray 🙏🏽 for us !

    • @michelesacks2168
      @michelesacks2168 5 лет назад +14

      Jim I’m right there with ya , it’s definitely a struggle but we will get there . I listen to these types of videos everyday . They help me get through each day , one day at a time . It’s my therapy

    • @bettinawillam4120
      @bettinawillam4120 5 лет назад +10

      I have been were you are one year ago. Very ill from this devilish abuse. It took me this very year to get over the worst. Watching these videos and reading about the subject was and still IS the greatest help to UNDERSTAND (at least try the impossible.. 😉) , that NO matter WHAT...NOTHING EVER YOU COULD HAVE DONE, COULD HAVE AVOIDED YOUR DISCARD. Watching and reading is "positive brainwashing", to get over this deception, pain, self-doubt and solitude. It works..Promised. 😘 AND go out..Meet people..ALONE. ONE DOOR SHUTS..ANOTHER ONE WILL OPEN. 🎈❤

    • @courtneyn.5910
      @courtneyn.5910 5 лет назад +3

      r.c blakes also does awesome videos about the narcissist. helped me alot. hope it helps. God bless

    • @michelesacks2168
      @michelesacks2168 5 лет назад

      courtney n. Agree, he is amazing

  • @CatherineScarborough
    @CatherineScarborough 3 года назад +35

    Accountability is like a needle to the eye to the narcassist. Emotional immaturity is guaranteed. Pay no mind to what they say, their words are empty and baseless anyway. God knows. 🙏🏼❤🕊

  • @AbsoluteMdot
    @AbsoluteMdot 5 лет назад +400

    They feel like shit because they lost a good supply.

    • @11357ca
      @11357ca 5 лет назад +14

      Thank you for this .

    • @doreencapone2461
      @doreencapone2461 5 лет назад +23

      I don't think they care even if you were grade A supply. He's probably moved on to someone else.

    • @Richard-vq7ud
      @Richard-vq7ud 5 лет назад +58

      Doreen Capone i think supply is getting harder and harder for them to find. The world is onto them.

    • @ahhzayah4413
      @ahhzayah4413 4 года назад +15

      Their is not such thing as a good fuel suppy because no one is enough.

    • @ludmilamaksimova5516
      @ludmilamaksimova5516 4 года назад +3

      @@Richard-vq7ud 👍🏿😇

  • @gildataylor145
    @gildataylor145 5 лет назад +119

    If you're. waiting for karma to kick in dont. They are miserable loveless bitter and jealous. Their karma is you moving on and living your best life. They hate that. If you want to get pay back ignore them.

  • @TheYouthquaker
    @TheYouthquaker 5 лет назад +107

    When my ex-narc was still living 2 blocks away from me, I would go get some stuff or a snack for lunch and would have to pass the shitty bar I met him at. One time, after I already got a lot of myself back, I knocked on the window of the bar and waved to him with this big grin on my face. At this time, I had lost the 55 lbs I gained when I was with him and was back to being a fitness lover and healthy eater. He took one look at me and my newfound glory and had the most shocked look on his face and then ignored me.

    • @RhiceyHarierar
      @RhiceyHarierar 5 лет назад +25

      Never flaunt or show off for the scumbag. It shows that your still interested in what he thinks. Just move on block him on social media change number and go nc for life, never look back..

    • @madelinebigio7565
      @madelinebigio7565 5 лет назад +1

      Amen

  • @mariamimi8934
    @mariamimi8934 5 лет назад +128

    Took me a while to realise how empty he was inside and that every name calling he used was how he felt about himself. Poor them!

    • @lightbeingpontifex
      @lightbeingpontifex 3 года назад +7

      'how they felt about themselves,,,' this makes more sense to me bc I was called every name in the book and couldn't understand why someone would do that to me I'm a wonderful person,,,

    • @emmaharper860
      @emmaharper860 2 года назад +1

      Unbelievable

  • @HoneyDropsForever
    @HoneyDropsForever 3 года назад +35

    "They are like buckets with a leak," damn, I felt that. Nothing I ever did was good enough, yet everything he did I had to worship for years. Now wanting out. With two children to think of, it's hard.

  • @Thehighwaymurderers
    @Thehighwaymurderers 5 лет назад +513

    They sure do pick healthy good genuine real people with cool things going on,talents,hobbies,persona,happy with charisma and good character,loving and loyal with empathy to mirror you call you “The love of your life” to then idolize,devalue,discard you as you are catching on or at a your weakest. They destroy all the great qualities of you to repeat the same cycle on you over and over again till they get bored again. They love bomb you with words on top of all of that to keep you off guard and balance as they slowly withdraw love and intimacy and affection. You don’t go from being called “The love of someone’s life” “Cant live without them” and future fake plans,marriage,baby’s to then ghost,be indifferent and discard someone like a drop of a dime and silent treatment someone throwing them away like trash. That is not normal and most definitely not love or loyalty or someone who cares about you. That’s not someone who values you.

    • @CH-in8dm
      @CH-in8dm 5 лет назад +18

      All true...hope your doing ok

    • @tonyhinds9855
      @tonyhinds9855 5 лет назад +10

      Couldn't have said it better myself my brother mine was a b**** queen from hell, evil..

    • @BankruptBassplayer
      @BankruptBassplayer 5 лет назад +15

      That´s exactly what happened to me.

    • @tonyhinds9855
      @tonyhinds9855 5 лет назад +10

      You, have to be so careful, & vet people..

    • @franklinstarks8181
      @franklinstarks8181 5 лет назад +21

      Forgive Yourself Forgive Them Wish Them Peace From The Bottom Of Your And Finally No Contact For Life .

  • @creator2149
    @creator2149 5 лет назад +59

    They never say anything about your feelings of concern .You're always wrong.

  • @Zamstein
    @Zamstein 5 лет назад +369

    Sounds like Demons searching for a host.

    • @teetrustyah1849
      @teetrustyah1849 4 года назад +19

      Yessssssss that's it

    • @bluginberry
      @bluginberry 4 года назад +23

      It is a demon and demons. They hang in a demon gang. Other humans with the same types of demons hang around each other. I lived through it. I have pics of the demon and demons.....

    • @teetrustyah1849
      @teetrustyah1849 4 года назад +14

      @@bluginberry uses that's what they are they come to Steal Kill and to Destroy

    • @bluginberry
      @bluginberry 4 года назад +7

      I have a pic of one on My Ex. I changed the light filters on the picture and there it is big ol head looking back at you... Messed up bad......

    • @teetrustyah1849
      @teetrustyah1849 4 года назад +14

      @@bluginberry yes you can capture them and pictures it's all in the eyes all in the eyes

  • @iamdejabluegypsy39
    @iamdejabluegypsy39 5 лет назад +85

    My biggest thing was denial I really couldn’t believe I fell for someone like this. I’m pregnant with my first baby and he tried to take me down the whole time! But It made my belief in God that much stronger 💪🏼
    I had to get a restraining order 😳and choose my life and health over his abuse. I’m healing and doors are opening again. Finally 😌💜

    • @sandraward4005
      @sandraward4005 4 года назад

      BOYFRIEND ALWAYS RANDY

    • @notpunishmentbutdevelopmen8260
      @notpunishmentbutdevelopmen8260 4 года назад +2

      AMEN AN GOD BLESS YOU

    • @tezz2713
      @tezz2713 4 года назад +1

      God bless u

    • @tariqahmed7244
      @tariqahmed7244 3 года назад

      Once again he might Repeat the cycle . So use firewall technic . Understand the type note the traits patterns .
      Watch Dr A Ramani .
      Or lisa on Narcissist .
      Dont get into manipulations become financially independent u will be happy .
      He wont be able to spend on u .
      Will make him angry initially dont listen dont react.
      Be calm

    • @charissemcbroom6766
      @charissemcbroom6766 2 года назад

      🙏 Amen God bless you your baby and stay no contact the devil is real but God Jehovah is Greater.

  • @brandonoats3493
    @brandonoats3493 5 лет назад +92

    Never be jealous of the new supply. Because the new supply is getting played just like you did. The new supply won't be around for the narcissistic ex to long.

  • @honeywest
    @honeywest 5 лет назад +257

    my narcissist was never able to show
    real affection, always felt fake, especially at life events, such as babies birth, marriage, losses, etc.

    • @sanramoncali
      @sanramoncali 5 лет назад +11

      Anna Hutton Even my "sister" when calling me to report that our other poor sweet loving sister has "committed suicide "she has a completely strange intonation as if she's calling to tell me hey I have some news I bought a house house and then no tears no shock no crying no nothing. like almost upbeat with satisfaction it is disturbing. especially disturbing because she has encouraged me to kill myself when I wasn't even suicidal and gotten angry when I haven't done it she keeps causing more more problems in my life I think with the goal to see if I can either just go myself as well, that's really what she wants the power rush of causing sadistic suffering.

    • @LoveLove-cf3xj
      @LoveLove-cf3xj 5 лет назад +5

      @@sanramoncali she might be jealous of the beauty you and your sister had. Just saying.

    • @icgreener
      @icgreener 5 лет назад +7

      Anna Hutton, Right??!!!! It’s so weird to witness, they don’t cry, or try to comfort you 😨 it’s a very strange experience, it’s so obvious they can’t feel anything.. any tearing comes from them rubbing their eyes or putting something irritating in them so they look sad 🤯🥶

    • @rohithreddy75
      @rohithreddy75 5 лет назад +1

      Love Love No it goes beyond that.

    • @robertbarone272
      @robertbarone272 5 лет назад

      @Elham M n

  • @tylerallen8753
    @tylerallen8753 5 лет назад +48

    Clash horns with them, and they'll hide and gossip behind you're back like cowards they are.

  • @lauriejackson8351
    @lauriejackson8351 5 лет назад +74

    Who cares how they feel they don't give a damn how we feel

  • @jensbasement3862
    @jensbasement3862 5 лет назад +59

    This video resonated deeply for me. Thank you it was beautiful. These narcissists need to project their jealousy and insecurity onto you to keep you down. Thing was, I always knew those manufactured feelings weren't mine. They try to make you feel ugly on the inside to control you. But once you leave them and go on to succeed, it DOES destroy their false narrative they created for you. They don't want to see you as a beautiful person, with talents and qualities that don't revolve around them

  • @katemcl1124
    @katemcl1124 5 лет назад +118

    All that future faking and dangling carrots 🥕 “One day you will see how much I love you...” “Just bear with me, I’ve got a lot going on right now...” Nothing ever happens and you spend your life waiting, waiting, waiting.

    • @lenovo1851
      @lenovo1851 5 лет назад +9

      Kate MCL
      Agreed. Demon narcissists, purposely wasting Souled peoples time, making them forever wait & wait, to waste as many years as possible, try stop the Souled people from fulfilling their life calling, depleting them from all they are in efforts to try stop Souled people from reaching their potential.

    • @silenceofthelambs6911
      @silenceofthelambs6911 4 года назад +5

      Waiting, waiting & waiting for what will never come
      Sad

    • @rebeccajohnson5658
      @rebeccajohnson5658 4 года назад +6

      I been waiting for years. For my ex Narcissist Nick to come back he did came back several times to me then left.

    • @starlaeuropa
      @starlaeuropa 4 года назад +10

      He used that all the time - "We can cuddle/have sex when my mental health is better - in the meantime, I will make you feel unwanted/ugly, because I am inadequate and feel threatened by you.", "I will look after you one day - but for now, you have to put up with being treated like crap and having your energy constantly drained to replenish my own.", "One day, we can do this/that/the other - you know, the thing you want, but I repeatedly deny you to make myself feel powerful?" Best thing to do is put as much physical distance as possible between them and you, and then BLOCK!

    • @Tony-dh
      @Tony-dh 4 года назад +1

      rebecca johnson i hope you are still not waiting doing the yoyo effect. Best to move on. I was in a similar situation and got told to forget about her.
      After 20 years.
      Yea right.

  • @narcdramaunwanted4291
    @narcdramaunwanted4291 5 лет назад +60

    They get a narc injury,with anger and a primitive narc rage .
    They want to punish you,and they will sabotage all your effort for to start a new life with LOVE and HAPPINESS..💛

  • @mcjordaniesaintelus9726
    @mcjordaniesaintelus9726 5 лет назад +175

    Wow! Powerful .The Jealousy & anger are so real , indeed they were about nothing. Yes nothing great never manifested when I was with "them" always felt something was missing.

    • @QponHoney
      @QponHoney 5 лет назад +8

      Always felt like something was missing. Why I never could get ahead. It was because of him. I needed to get away from him

    • @mcjordaniesaintelus9726
      @mcjordaniesaintelus9726 5 лет назад +6

      @@QponHoney exactly there's always something missing with them . because we give all they don't they only mirroring us

    • @lendrury2771
      @lendrury2771 5 лет назад +3

      jostl,monmon zoumakoukou same here. Even during what I thought were the good times. Deep down inside I never felt fulfilled and I always felt something was missing

  • @mummabearcuddles7956
    @mummabearcuddles7956 5 лет назад +103

    Putting urself first isn’t selfish it’s an act of survival. Narcissist make us look like the insane ones. Run fast they don’t change. Hope kept me trying hope keeps u like a prisoner ...helping him was killing me didn’t take my husband of 30yrs back. So he left earth 28/4/18.
    Narcs hate being ignored. They loose the control. Stay strong. Beleive in urself. if I can do it so can you. Peace to all ✌🏻🥰👍🤗💌

    • @magdulenholley6790
      @magdulenholley6790 5 лет назад +1

      How did he leave earth? Did he committed suicide or overdose or something?

    • @flowersfromh-evanlakshmi7577
      @flowersfromh-evanlakshmi7577 5 лет назад +1

      I was going crazy dealing with mt narc bf. My son had passed away and I was dealing with all his shit. I am surprised I didn't end up in a mental hospital. My son always told me.he admired how strong I was and I was not going to allow this man to bring me down. I pray every day that he does not return. He mentally abused me through the whole relationship.

  • @daughteroftherisenking3165
    @daughteroftherisenking3165 5 лет назад +195

    You can not give what you do not have, narcissist are vessels Filled with evil They have no love In Them and is unable to give love no point giving them love or explaining Anything to them ❤️🕊

    • @tirzahdoveheshbon3618
      @tirzahdoveheshbon3618 5 лет назад +12

      You are so right.

    • @infoguy1978
      @infoguy1978 5 лет назад +7

      Daughter of the risen king- do you think they are demon possessed?

    • @Sweetieee
      @Sweetieee 5 лет назад +4

      They’re not always evil, yes my ex absolutely destroyed me and did evil things, but he went through horrible abuse as a child that was not his fault, and this is the outcome, he’s just hurting and it’s sad that they will never be happy, even after everything he did to me, I feel he deserves to be happy and it’s not his fault he turned out this way, there were times where he would be so built up and lost and hurt, saying why am I like this, I don’t understand, no one understands me, I don’t want to be like this, it must be hard being a prisoner to your own mind, I wish I could save him when he was a child then maybe we’d be great for each other, I’ll always love him for those reasons but I know he’s not good for me and never will change because he is a narc and that’s what hurts the most

    • @daughteroftherisenking3165
      @daughteroftherisenking3165 5 лет назад +10

      The true narcissist plans to do evil everyday they live. They Choose to do so because they believe they are better then their victims .They will even tell you what they think you want to hear to keep you In the cycle of abuse.

    • @daughteroftherisenking3165
      @daughteroftherisenking3165 5 лет назад +7

      @@infoguy1978 Yes I Truly Believe They have Serious Spiritual Problems

  • @kellyupshaw6598
    @kellyupshaw6598 5 лет назад +90

    I couldn't care less! They should feel ashamed of themselves!

  • @nakiacorbin8350
    @nakiacorbin8350 5 лет назад +17

    I feel stronger when I listen to these videos...Thank you.I smile every time you say something that hits home.

  • @eguzkiloreanaglez
    @eguzkiloreanaglez 5 лет назад +52

    This is true, run away quickly from narcisist

  • @michelleclark8099
    @michelleclark8099 5 лет назад +206

    Dear Narc Survivor: Excellent detailed video. Now that I know what I am dealing with, and now that I am fighting to move on, now that the narc fog is clearing, I am astonished at how much I let go, during the past couple of years. I have bills and tax and lease paperwork, that I have neglected, clutter that I never tossed in my apartment, nutritional and diet needs that I have to rework, out of date clothing and shoes, dis-organization in closets and cabinets. It seems so much to just get to normal. Overwhelming.

    • @narcdramaunwanted4291
      @narcdramaunwanted4291 5 лет назад +23

      Yes,very similar...My healing journey has been long and hard, long time in that "narc fog" so I could not move FORWARD .
      Been stuck in that fog,comfortable numb for so long.
      See narc survivour s videos has helped me so MUCH too in those last weeks🤗,I see more clearly now than for 2 weeks ago.
      My healing journey has been long and hard,but I got pay off now..🤗👍

    • @cubbiesmith4505
      @cubbiesmith4505 5 лет назад +19

      The recovery is to organization of everything you allowed to clutter back to normal time heals wounds. I was a their he just couldnt break me down he was already broken. I didn't allow X husband to take me down with him once the devalue I was up on him I discarded and divorced this nut case.

    • @cholhoknaam1539
      @cholhoknaam1539 5 лет назад +13

      Gosh that’s taking me 2 years.

    • @MotherRecords13
      @MotherRecords13 5 лет назад +21

      Michelle Clark, a Narc will deliberately drain you of everything you have with absolutely no regard whatsoever for your well being. It took me a year of being angry and hurt, after their discard, to begin my full healing process. That’s when I discovered narcissistic personality disorder. For me, understanding and accepting NPD helped me to remove the fog and get my life back on track. Everyone is different though. But trust me when I tell you, videos like this are a tremendous help to your healing process. You are definitely headed in the right direction. Allow yourself the time you need to heal. You will be better and stronger for it.🙏🏿💗

    • @mostpeoplearebots
      @mostpeoplearebots 5 лет назад +4

      Michelle Clark
      lol my monster finally is gone as of this week after 15 yrs and im what you said times ten right now wow.
      so true

  • @gretaklaput6383
    @gretaklaput6383 3 года назад +11

    Sometimes it still amazes me when I think back on the abuse how bad it still hurts. He was one sick man . I truly feel sorry for the new supply he left me for. He married her, I was gifted freedom. I almost lost everything but it was worth every penny because he finally went away. I'm now very happily married to a man who waters our love everyday.

  • @DaurcKnyte
    @DaurcKnyte 5 лет назад +156

    Thanks for the good laugh, "they weren't about shit" so true

    • @haitiantonice2722
      @haitiantonice2722 5 лет назад

      Beats by Daurc Knyte I don’t cares how they feel. Those narcissist out there. Are the real devil’s.

    • @royalbohemian9757
      @royalbohemian9757 3 года назад +1

      I thought that too in my bones; give me just a little boost of affirmation.

  • @williamheinsinger7390
    @williamheinsinger7390 5 лет назад +49

    How do These Fools feel ? They Hate it Big time. They wanted US to be DOWN to Their level.We Ain't. WE ARE ALL MUCH ABOVE THESE POS CREATURES ARE.STAY NO CONTACT FOREVER AND MOVE FORWARD WITH YOUR LIFE. 🖐

  • @shewins3775
    @shewins3775 4 года назад +16

    I felt that when he said, “They ain’t about SHIT!!.” 😆. FACTS!!!

  • @ariesariesfearless4810
    @ariesariesfearless4810 5 лет назад +190

    Im dealing with silent treatment with my bf
    but im not chasing him nooooo
    He will get his own karma sooner or later

    • @KB-rp7nr
      @KB-rp7nr 5 лет назад +44

      No don't chase him that's exactly what he wants. When you chase he will continue giving you the silent treatment throughout the relationship. Silent treatment is abuse and people who use it are unhappy, unhealthy, miserable inside....Stay Strong.

    • @deeprollingriver5820
      @deeprollingriver5820 5 лет назад +10

      ARIES #Aries#Fearless Sorry to say this. Sometimes they never get what they really deserve.

    • @tgibson003
      @tgibson003 5 лет назад +4

      Bella Bijou very true!!!! Some folks never get their karma!!

    • @thiery572
      @thiery572 5 лет назад +1

      @@deeprollingriver5820 Exactly.

    • @thiery572
      @thiery572 5 лет назад +1

      @Gameitup Tothemax Exactly. This is more realistic.

  • @cubbiesmith4505
    @cubbiesmith4505 5 лет назад +137

    Scripture reads , let the dead bury the dead.

    • @reesedaniel5835
      @reesedaniel5835 5 лет назад +19

      Jesus said "Let the dead bury their own dead. You follow Me." Matthew 8:22 When you follow the Truth, you are following the real Jesus.

    • @shirleyakpelu1831
      @shirleyakpelu1831 5 лет назад +4

      Amen and amen!

    • @cubbiesmith4505
      @cubbiesmith4505 5 лет назад +2

      @@reesedaniel5835 Amen.

    • @liftheart84
      @liftheart84 5 лет назад +1

      What does that verse mean?
      🤔😊Thank you, if you don't mind explaining it!😃

    • @vavavoomsp1
      @vavavoomsp1 5 лет назад +1

      AMEN

  • @giovannilevoci941
    @giovannilevoci941 5 лет назад +20

    From a 500k home i had to eat out of restaurant dumpster, lost everything. 23 years later no contact. Much better now...

  • @tauruswinds37
    @tauruswinds37 5 лет назад +38

    The quicker you awaken ... the quicker you can make adjustments to protecting yourself ... ur spirit and ur mental health. Luck and finding a person to support you is essential in escaping and removing the emshment they have deeply bonded you with them.

    • @tauruswinds37
      @tauruswinds37 5 лет назад +2

      Spiritually call on and develope a relationship with Jesus Christ !!!!

    • @lightbeingpontifex
      @lightbeingpontifex 3 года назад

      @@tauruswinds37 I agree but you can't pray to Jesus because you are using mind just follow his teachings and words,, has nothing to do with church or religion,,,

  • @flutefun999
    @flutefun999 5 лет назад +90

    I didn't even know a thing like this existed before I met him and the irony is that HE is the one who told me I should watch these videos after I left him. I'm glad he did. By doing so, I learned who he really is. It helped immensely to clear the fog of his lies and manipulations and I am indeed moving on with my life with a deeper appreciation FOR life than I ever had before. I don't wish this experience on anyone, but in the end, it has made me stronger and wiser to the true evil that is in this world. Wolves do indeed hide in sheep's clothing. The key to overcoming them and thrive is to remain harmless as doves but to also become wise as serpents. I now know what that means.

    • @nowhereman3717
      @nowhereman3717 5 лет назад +7

      It's funny he told you to watch these videos. My ex wife told me I was the one that was abusing her and put me on the place of the narc in front of my friends and family. When I wanted to talk about problems she used to say I was "gaslighting" her. After she discarded me in the most cruelest way a person can imagine, I realized why she knew these concepts so well. I didn't even know what gaslighting was but she managed these narc concepts perfectly because she was the one applying them.

    • @Kabaselefh
      @Kabaselefh 4 года назад +1

      Wow 😳, he did tell you that

    • @Duncanexgirlfriend
      @Duncanexgirlfriend 4 года назад +3

      Oh my,same as me.. I had no idea what a narcissist was until he told me that he was abused by “ his ex narcissist “. Then I started researching and watching these videos, and I found that it sounds more like him. He’s was doing exactly the same thing to me as what he claims his “ex narcissist “ was doing to him. Talk about projection and always playing the victim when he was the perpetrator all along!

    • @barbeegirl7196
      @barbeegirl7196 4 года назад +2

      @flutefun999,I had no idea as well,Like living in hell with them..TGBTG,IM FREE..2 WEEKS AND COUNTING...

    • @royalbohemian9757
      @royalbohemian9757 3 года назад +1

      Your word has stopped me in my tracks...from devising revenge.

  • @theamazingfish222
    @theamazingfish222 5 лет назад +18

    Dude you give the most indept, clear discriptions of Narcissism, narcissistic,narcissist I have discovered. I finally am 100 percent clear that I was dealing with a narcissist! Thank u so much for what you do. Thank u. By the way I'm over it and will not open the door for that fool again. Done.

    • @connihutton2739
      @connihutton2739 2 года назад

      Me too. I have absolutely no doubt this piece of nothing a sick sick piece ofnothing

  • @You_can_do_itt
    @You_can_do_itt 5 лет назад +86

    So true!. He called me many times worthles piece of s***t.I graduated with masters degree (2 diploma). He ridiculed my accent (english is not my mother language), when he was emigrant with dislexia 🤣🤣🤣He always put me down, never was supportive only his carrer and needs was important. Also he was in better position for a while, coz I moved to his house where I clean&cook, bought a lot of flowers, nice things which one he never had before. He was super confident with friends and family arround. I was 2000 km from my home and need deal with all that shit bymyself. This was super exhausting.

    • @ringostarrs3rdwifeyxoxo869
      @ringostarrs3rdwifeyxoxo869 5 лет назад +8

      I'm so sorry :( You sound like an incredible person. Have you been able to work on your boundaries and meet someone new?

    • @You_can_do_itt
      @You_can_do_itt 5 лет назад +2

      Enemy, drug addict (white collar), alco addict, psycho...just poor lost guy 😥. All his family had some mental problems. His brother heavily abused his ex wife. Abusive, possesiv people.

    • @You_can_do_itt
      @You_can_do_itt 5 лет назад +5

      Thank you! 👋☺. Always had strong boundries but first time someone try to just destroy them. It wasn't as that long coz discovered the real face of this guy and start running from him. It wasn't easy coz he was agressive and unpretictable so always need have safe plan to escape. I'm surrounded by my family now still need time to recovery and find myself again in new place.

    • @Mroberts818
      @Mroberts818 5 лет назад +1

      Damn your situation was the same as min. My narc was 2000 miles away. I had many career options, she was never satisfied and I couldn't figure out why God wasn't letting it workout. It wasn't God, it was her!!

    • @scratchingthesurface5589
      @scratchingthesurface5589 5 лет назад +5

      One thing about them... when you live with them it's like they're a room mate and not a love partner

  • @The_Real_Christian
    @The_Real_Christian 5 лет назад +13

    Absolutely the best video I’ve seen about narcissism. Every single thing he mentions is True about the narcissist I wasted three years of my life with. Please keep up the awesome videos

  • @davila3989
    @davila3989 5 лет назад +107

    After being discarded by my wife , I learned about narcissist behavior and its lead me to these amazing videos.
    She's taken my soul , I'm still heartbroken for sure. It's been few weeks and no contact. I do miss my wife ... but shes just heartless.The hardest part is replaying the shit she has told me. Always been accused of cheating not holding her hand the right way. 🙄 then I find shes been with and old supply!

    • @pamelaoconnell1171
      @pamelaoconnell1171 5 лет назад +12

      It’s very hard to understand how a narcissist operates and it’s so frustrating that they can’t even see it themselves or will they ever! I’ve been in the same position as u and watching these videos explains a lot of unanswered questions. But hopefully for you, you’ll look back and be thankful some day. Who doesn’t treat u right is not for you!

    • @mostpeoplearebots
      @mostpeoplearebots 5 лет назад +6

      Michael Davila
      mine just finally split out of here in the middle of the night after 15 yrs, after contacting the police pretending she was a victim of me and needed police escort to get away from me etc. and then filed a restraining order on me lol.
      im now discovering she didn't pay bills she said were paid and owes me literally over $125,000 she was pretending to try to pay in tiny doses of which is what kept me dealing with her when i wanted her far the f out and away from me after discovering she was a covert narc all along.
      anyways i at least managed in the end to reverse torture her to run in the middle of the night. lol

    • @mostpeoplearebots
      @mostpeoplearebots 5 лет назад +8

      Michael Davila
      you must must must not care or ever let her in your heart and mind again.
      you just categorize her in your head for life as a complete fake demonic lying fraud who will destroy you in ways only satan knows how to do to you.
      you are learning lessons from God.
      find Jesus in this. i did- it's the ONLY reason i'm surviving.

    • @wadeplumlee735
      @wadeplumlee735 5 лет назад +3

      I know what you mean it is a very bed feeling,
      Dazed And confused,
      I know I did not see it coming, Did not realize it was there. Lot of pain and a lot of trauma.
      When you think somebody Loves you And out of nowhere They Treat you like a piece of trash.

    • @andapetani
      @andapetani 5 лет назад +7

      You are not alone in this battle. Please keep going on no contact. I have almost 2 month no contact. Feel so much better.

  • @our2012journey
    @our2012journey 5 лет назад +26

    I just left my Narcissist of 8 years, 7 of which was a descent into Hell ! It's not the first time I've left, but it is the last ! Now that I'm educating myself on Narcissism. I knew he had mental and emotional problems but I didn't understand what they were until I listened to videos on Narcissism and a light bulb went on!! Suddenly the puzzle pieces all fit together and the picture was clear. It isn't just a cycle that comes and goes, it's not just former abuse or dysfunctional family life. All of the symptoms I can check off and its him everyday all the time! Now I understand and I will protect myself and more importantly my little grandson. Never again will he have a violent angry outburst and threaten me, call me names, abuse,use and manipulate and all the rest!! I've gone No Contact, not playing the game or getting hooked, not feeling sorry for him!!! It's all lies! Take care everyone and stay the Hell away from the Narcissist! He's started the voicemails and calls. Ignore them!

    • @cherubs5177
      @cherubs5177 5 лет назад +4

      I am recovering too. I am angry with myself for wasting my time. All on the name of love x

    • @lightbeingpontifex
      @lightbeingpontifex 3 года назад

      Some people enjoy being abused by their narcissist,,, 😁

    • @tariqahmed7244
      @tariqahmed7244 3 года назад

      Keep him away till his death else will manipulate your grandson to ctrl u .
      Think has passed away in covid .
      Its painful though but do it I did it mentally cleaned 9 people out of life .
      After my mother passing away .

  • @godstomper
    @godstomper 5 лет назад +33

    These are very sick creatures.

  • @gailyhanna510
    @gailyhanna510 Год назад +1

    We all had to go through this experience to teach us about ourselves and our own healing. A narcissist will never heal, because they don't think there's anything wrong with them. They will continue putting out this horrible energy, and trying to destroy people. Don't let these creatures take your light, beautiful souls!❤

  • @Plumduff3303
    @Plumduff3303 5 лет назад +36

    I fell in love with a female narcissist
    After 8 years I had a nervous breakdown
    She took thousands
    Called me every name and humiliated me.
    She did rather well since she dumped me she is now marrying a new guy. Poor guy

    • @ChineseChicken1
      @ChineseChicken1 5 лет назад +3

      because it's not right Lol, poor dumb bastard. At least it’s not us anymore.

    • @Tony-dh
      @Tony-dh 4 года назад +3

      Plum Duff how are you getting on a year later?

    • @pspcraft
      @pspcraft 4 года назад

      How have you faired since she tried to take it all... You still have a soul and can spend eternity in heaven with our Father. The Scriptures: Whosoever calls on the name of the Lord Jesus WILL be saved into glory/eternity. Hope to meet you on the other side. Still praying for you.

    • @Respect2theFallen
      @Respect2theFallen 3 года назад

      Sorry to hear that. Smh

  • @AnikoLK
    @AnikoLK 5 лет назад +117

    He love bombed me, manipulated me, stole from me, constantly lied to me, abused me mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually, tried to take me for everything I had, drained me, held me hostage, stocked me, threatened suicide, accused me of cheating all the time, and begged me not to leave him and all the other nonsense push pull that went on. I had to grieve the illusion of the amazing love and life we had planned. I went through major cpstd, dissociation, anxiety, depression, fatigue, and heartbreak. I wanted all the good stuff he gave me but he always brought back the evil so I had to leave. My love was real and I'm going to find it with someone until then I'll give it to myself. He is angry, envious and can't stand the fact that I won't talk to him. He's embarrassed of the new supply because she was a panic pic and I won't triangulate. He has gone off the rails with his drug use and has 11 new felonies!! I'm so grateful to be free of this nightmare. I'm not going to lie.... I still miss him, the good times and the fake love but I will never be treated like that again. I have Jesus and his grace is sufficient and his love is more that enough!! Thanks for your videos, your helping a lot of people!!

    • @nonamecassidy6290
      @nonamecassidy6290 5 лет назад +2

      God Bless you...I am still trying to move on...it makes my heart smile to know you have Jesus...He's the only reason I was not destroyed...

    • @AnikoLK
      @AnikoLK 5 лет назад +1

      @love 0919 Thanks for sharing your story!! i'm so sorry you went through this and are probably still healing. Than God we got away and don't ever have to feel trapped with someone like this again. The healing process takes a while, I'm still going through it but feeling so much more peace. Keep moving forward because God has a plan for your life. You are a survivor and I pray for you to have amazing things coming your way!!

    • @sherryfews4132
      @sherryfews4132 5 лет назад +1

      Prayer still works
      Forgiveness is the key 🔐
      In Jesus mighty name

    • @parul209
      @parul209 5 лет назад +2

      Yes these narcs play with our minds so hard that we miss them even after we leave them.

    • @allainaheve
      @allainaheve 5 лет назад +1

      @@AnikoLK This is the story of Paul's thorn in his flesh. God allowed it. So we would seek Him and start living the life we were called to live. For God! The narc was a blessing!! Amen!

  • @valeriehodge8408
    @valeriehodge8408 5 лет назад +44

    The demon is well disguised. I wish I knew then what I know now. I'm so glad that I did not fall in love with him and realized pretty early on that this was a temporary relationship. I didn't take him seriously but knew that when I got tired of him, it had to be a clean break with no contact. Then 3 years later I found these videos which explained life with a vampire. Thank God I got out and away from this sh t pile.

    • @Tony-dh
      @Tony-dh 4 года назад +1

      Demons have thousands of years experience so they are clever

  • @threethrushes
    @threethrushes 5 лет назад +54

    Trick question: narcs don't feel like humans. They feel like computer programs who are instructed to follow simple 'if x, then y' commands.
    Move on with your life.

    • @mostpeoplearebots
      @mostpeoplearebots 5 лет назад +1

      Gerhard Symons
      yesssssss

    • @reesedaniel5835
      @reesedaniel5835 5 лет назад +6

      Narcs are hive minds controlled by demonic principalities. Like little "worker bees" for the head demon controlling them, which is why they all do and say the same things.

    • @mostpeoplearebots
      @mostpeoplearebots 5 лет назад +2

      Reese Daniel
      yessss.... again lol

    • @misslovelybrown8664
      @misslovelybrown8664 5 лет назад +2

      These things are Demons

  • @IO-hg7oe
    @IO-hg7oe 5 лет назад +156

    We are just a faded memory to them. They are busy with their new conquests.

    • @williamheinsinger7390
      @williamheinsinger7390 5 лет назад +55

      But Remember this Dear, The only thing that We lost is a Problem.

    • @mostpeoplearebots
      @mostpeoplearebots 5 лет назад +41

      Ioanna _oneandonly
      yes but yet they will remember and think of you in the back of their mind forever.
      craving to know if you're up or down like they tried to make you be permanently.
      when they find out you're up and not down... and thriving instead etc....
      they lose their minds.

    • @reesedaniel5835
      @reesedaniel5835 5 лет назад +36

      They will run out of "new conquests" as people wake up, one by one. Then they will have to devour each other. Evil contains the seeds of it's own destruction.

    • @mostpeoplearebots
      @mostpeoplearebots 5 лет назад +10

      Reese Daniel
      yes needed to hear this right now.
      i was just destroyed by the most powerfully demonic jezebel over the weekend- after a 15 yr relationship from liars hell.
      she ran off already slandering, stealing property agreed not hers, claiming she's scared of me lol, and owing me over $100k etc and hundreds of things more as you already know, if you know narcs.
      she sitting pretty right now...and i'm sitting here homeless in 2 months, jobless because we worked together and she destroyed it.
      (way too many details)
      basically i'm screwed and she's happy.
      thanks for the scriptural post i needed to read

    • @LOL-pw5ji
      @LOL-pw5ji 5 лет назад +5

      Then thank God we have won as kindly they have moved on. Best outcome you could wish for

  • @kishacalhoun6414
    @kishacalhoun6414 4 года назад +5

    I fell for every last thing I even believed I wasn't good enough for that parasite come to find out I was always the prize looks, style, personality, class, and grace.

  • @justme_lo
    @justme_lo 5 лет назад +149

    You got that right!!! They aren't about SHIT!! Lmao 😅 All illusion. I love your videos so much ❤️

    • @hydrocrab74
      @hydrocrab74 5 лет назад +5

      The SHIT parts the way he says it ....priceless...

    • @justme_lo
      @justme_lo 5 лет назад +3

      @@hydrocrab74 Lol...hilarious! I love his content 😊

    • @AngelKrystalStar
      @AngelKrystalStar 5 лет назад +3

      Lolo 🤣 so true!

    • @raptorsraptorize5674
      @raptorsraptorize5674 5 лет назад

      I enjoy the music on all your videos

  • @demigaines5644
    @demigaines5644 5 лет назад +36

    Thank You So Very Much For Sharing
    It Took Me Four Years Of Chasing This Person For His
    Acceptance.wanting To Be With Him, It Took Lots
    Of lonely Days Crying To Realize That This Person
    Never Wanted Me After Four Yrs Of Being Humiliated,
    Belittled Horribly Abused.I Have Gone A Month
    Of No Contact Going No Contact Saved My Life.

  • @cherrybacon5154
    @cherrybacon5154 5 лет назад +9

    These videos keep me going every day. They help me get up and smile and not contact my narcissistic ex who I've recently left. Thanks Coach, Cherry

  • @mocali7250
    @mocali7250 3 года назад +2

    Please RUN Beautiful people break though ❤️🙏🏽

  • @pameladurhal5575
    @pameladurhal5575 5 лет назад +34

    I've found the best revenge is no contact it drives them crazy i did it twice to my narcissist put a Ppo out on him stay far away from them and start your healing process!!!

  • @ladonnawilliams6794
    @ladonnawilliams6794 5 лет назад +51

    NO CONTACT WITH HIM FOR 6MOS..I DON'T AND I'M TRYING NOT TO CARE, EVEN THOUGH I THINK ABOUT HIM SOMETIMES AN THAT'S BECAUSE I WAS WITH HIM OFF & ON FOR 16YRS. THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO NS BLESS YOU😊❤❤AND I'M SURE HE'S NOT THINKING OF ME BECAUSE HE ACTS LIKE HIS SHIT DON'T STINK LOL!!!

    • @KB-rp7nr
      @KB-rp7nr 5 лет назад +11

      You're doing good with no contact keep going don't look back. There will be days you think about it and that's ok. It took 16yrs to develop so it don't just go away overnight. The most important thing is that you've started your healing journey and continue traveling with Jesus in front. Before you know it you're going to be amaze at the strength you have....Stage Encourage.

    • @ladonnawilliams6794
      @ladonnawilliams6794 5 лет назад +4

      K B Thank you i appreciate your advice, im trying very hard and with God on my side I know I will get thru this nightmare.

    • @ringostarrs3rdwifeyxoxo869
      @ringostarrs3rdwifeyxoxo869 5 лет назад +1

      Good for you! Check out Assc Direct also. He's amazing. If you can handle an actual greater narccists explanations of why they do these things theres HG Tudor. When I realized I had boundary management issues I woke up!

    • @ladonnawilliams6794
      @ladonnawilliams6794 5 лет назад +1

      Ahava ..yes Assc Direct Quinn was the first videos that i watch a month ago on NARCS God must have sent me to Quinn, because I didn't or never heard of a narc person, and my X is every bit of what I'm hearing about narcs..so I Sub Assc Direct and NS. But thank you for the reply😊❤❤

    • @assanacoopper1192
      @assanacoopper1192 5 лет назад

      I never kno what naricissist behaviour was . Till someone have spoken to about a two year confused relatiobnship im with this crazy guy . Just dont know where to start explaining how this guy suck the hell of my energy. Thank God after watching loads of narcissist video and knowing everything have listen to gave me the clue i was dealing with a monster i was tortured, abused . If i started explaining it wont stop , Now I have a guts to leave on no contact for 3weeks his bombarding me with calls . Im just stalking on you tube video to gain my strength . Pls Im drained

  • @VogonPoetry
    @VogonPoetry 5 лет назад +17

    I just want to thank you for your awesome, well planned, unbiased presentation on these creatures. Your channel is growing faster than some others who have taken years to get where you are. I see great things in your future and i am thrilled to be here watching you grow and help so many people. A gentleman among men.

    • @ayandacebekhulu3313
      @ayandacebekhulu3313 5 лет назад

      he was physical and emotional abusing he didn't even give me the money to go to the doctor instead he said doctors are expensive and he took the money and payed his accounts stating that he doesn't want his accounts. to be in arrears ,he never cared about me

  • @Deity_DeVine
    @Deity_DeVine 2 года назад +1

    Peace beautiful SOULS! Iam a survivor, I survived the abused, I'm rebuilding and healing! I'm working on forgiving me, I was beyond stupid! I'm struggling with what I allowed for six long years🙁😔😟 I've moved in, and I'm mainly focused on me! I'm in school and working, You are right, he was/is poop! THANK GOD!! Thank you Mr. for HELPING ME WITH MY HEALING PROCESS, you are truly a blessing, THANK YOU ENDLESSLY Mr. 😊

  • @sagenosnibor9173
    @sagenosnibor9173 3 года назад +14

    I became someone I wasnt, just to cope with who he really was!
    I totally lost my identity while with him, but found myself only after the discard, - like a shocking jolt back into reality!
    (It's hard to believe in the beginning of the discard, but when they leave, it is a BLESSING and OPPORTUNITY for you to save yourself)
    NEVER CLOSE YOUR EYES TO THE TRUTH ONCE YOU SEE IT.
    IT WILL BE LIFE SAVING!
    God bless 💗💪

    • @Respect2theFallen
      @Respect2theFallen 3 года назад

      Same I became something else then others saw it & the narc spread rumors that everyone easily believed because they are a covert narc & really good at seeming nice & harmless.

    • @sagenosnibor9173
      @sagenosnibor9173 3 года назад

      @@Respect2theFallen 💗

  • @mook360
    @mook360 5 лет назад +30

    Wish narcissist just go away for good

  • @relandmcclure1038
    @relandmcclure1038 5 лет назад +4

    This is so very true! I was a shell of who I once was & left homeless. I will never forget the lesson or what I’ve endured..After 26+ years with my ex narc, my healing journey has been an emotional roller coaster ride from hell. I’m 41/2 years out & still haven’t figured out all the triggers he installed but I can recognize when I am triggered so I can rethink the current situation. I’m no longer a victim but a survivor aiming for the warrior status! I watch these videos to better understand me & to gain insight so I don’t fall into another narcissist trap.

  • @Zidaaan1
    @Zidaaan1 5 лет назад +24

    RUclips videos saved my life !

    • @barbeegirl7196
      @barbeegirl7196 4 года назад

      You too?God actually revealed these videos to me one night after 7 years oh pure torture,I am 2 weeks Free,I know I am being bashed and stalked right now but I am Free!!!TGBTG AND HARIO OVADTOP..

    • @barbeegirl7196
      @barbeegirl7196 4 года назад

      @sol omer,I Thank God they saved you too...

  • @clairegordon2109
    @clairegordon2109 5 лет назад +24

    My ex called me the worst names and he made fun of my car my apartment eye looks how I did the chores nothing was ever good enough he was verbally and physically abusive he played mind games but he discarded me three times and twice I know was for homeless girl and a prostitute. I was so hurt so so hurt but now I realize that he did it for power and control and that he wants to feel the superior he doesn't want anyone who is superior to him because he is so envious and angry and he puts other people down but it's only a projection awesome video

    • @beatriceli4615
      @beatriceli4615 2 года назад

      They put their primary supply with the homeless, prostitutes in the same cockpit to feel superior and powerful.

  • @sharonlain3956
    @sharonlain3956 5 лет назад +13

    They find a new target. They only think of themselves. You are just an object.

  • @natrlgrl
    @natrlgrl 5 лет назад +66

    How does the narcissist feel once I've moved on... "Who cares?"

    • @Chahlie
      @Chahlie 5 лет назад +4

      I hate saying "I don't care" about my mom and siblings, but you know what? after what they've put me through, caring would be so self-destructive for me. It's time for me. :)

    • @ahhzayah4413
      @ahhzayah4413 4 года назад +4

      Good answer

    • @reginaldrichardson4678
      @reginaldrichardson4678 4 года назад +1

      That part

    • @gordanamajor9109
      @gordanamajor9109 3 года назад +1

      Feel nothing...they jave not emotions

  • @danielsubaday435
    @danielsubaday435 2 года назад +2

    I wish all victims of gang stalking and unjust hate like me will unite to share ideas and resources.

  • @robertswift6101
    @robertswift6101 5 лет назад +18

    i dont think they ever really cared about you and move on to their next victim

  • @nickf2170
    @nickf2170 2 месяца назад +1

    The best way to forget about them, is to refocus your energies somewhere else. When you were with them, they consumed all of your time and energy. Now is the right time......push those memories out, and fill that space with the things you did, before you met them. Because that is who you really are, and you need to reconnect to that.

  • @crossroadslivingmybestlife28
    @crossroadslivingmybestlife28 4 года назад +3

    When you can feel for them feel compassion for them and understanding what they are and how they are created and the sad existence that they actually live everyday. When you can forgive them and be grateful for the lessons you learned from them for the strength you gained from all you went through. When you can think of them without hatred then you are healed and you can go in to live your dreams.

  • @janicemurphy4373
    @janicemurphy4373 2 года назад

    THAT IS SO VERY VERY SICK, ITS LIKE THEY STUMP ON YOU AND DARE YOU TO HOLLER, YOU ARE WRONG IF YOU HOLLER FROM THE PAIN!!!!! I SEE THE DYSFUNCTION SO VERY VERY CLEAR AND THANK GOD I GOT OUT OF IT!!!!!!!! I HAVE COME A LONG WAY SINCE YOU PENN THIS VIDEO NS, THANK YOU SO VERY VERY MUCH FOR YOUR UNDERSTANDING AND EMPATHY NS, SINCE THIS VIDEO YOU HAVE MADE SERIOUS PROGRESS AND WE ARE SO HAPPY FOR YOU, KEEP GROWING AND REMEMBER WE ALL LOVE YOU, YOU ARE TRULY WONDERFUL, GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!!!!!!

  • @JK-ly6wu
    @JK-ly6wu 5 лет назад +55

    Use and Destroy .... on repeat
    They ain’t 💩😝😂👌🏻💯

  • @susanfromsanantonio3873
    @susanfromsanantonio3873 5 лет назад +4

    Who cares what they feel? The best thing after a narcissist is to become indifferent towards them. Don't worry about how they feel, don't even think "what would they think if they saw you now", don't even focus one thought on them after they are out of your life.

  • @mostpeoplearebots
    @mostpeoplearebots 5 лет назад +15

    been a happy follower of yours almost since your beginning.
    this video is off the charts for me personally and even shockingly directly at the moment as well.
    way too long of a story (which all narc stories are), but i finally just split and got away from a narc female jezebel monster demon after 15 very very long hell filled years.
    i'm planning to move far away from everyone with my dogs now and be alone for many years and try to figure wtf just happened to me my entire life- since my parents and golden child brother were the first narcs to me.
    i literally just watched this twice in a row.
    so healing right now to hear everything i just lived being said finally by not just me saying it to the empty brain people around me that don't have a clue. nor want one.
    anyways- thank you for all your work and time on these. they are so appreciated especially at certain times.

    • @classicearthmoverschannel9910
      @classicearthmoverschannel9910 5 лет назад +4

      You're not alone - same - But once you learn the truth you can never go back too the lie! Its Gods pruning - its painful - but its to ensure we blossom :-)

  • @tinnnn1
    @tinnnn1 5 лет назад +3

    My life has been turned upside down because of my ex. I have had to involve the police because I couldn't take the 40+ No Caller ID phone calls that he bombarded me with 24/7. I couldn't cope with his insulting emails calling me a whore, drug addict, prostitute and liar. The only way to get him to stop was to contact the police. It's been 4 days without receiving any more abusive emails and I changed my phone number for the second time. I'm a survivor of hell and I will rise and rise. Thank you for this video.

  • @DamnItHeadJedi
    @DamnItHeadJedi 5 лет назад +70

    The real question is: How do you feel once you’ve moved on.

    • @mirosawpiskorz9820
      @mirosawpiskorz9820 5 лет назад +8

      true. ways better

    • @sarairivera-cintronmsw1548
      @sarairivera-cintronmsw1548 4 года назад +8

      Amazing, light, free, strong, courageous, powerful, a winner, and just simply happy that I made the right choice to discard him after 12 years of marriage. Blessings

    • @2034916
      @2034916 4 года назад +6

      Great response. It’s difficult, but so worth moving on, letting go and being free.

    • @in_vino_veritas7938
      @in_vino_veritas7938 4 года назад +7

      Happy and content

    • @Butterflyyyy9
      @Butterflyyyy9 4 года назад +5

      Numb but free

  • @jerrinaplourde5778
    @jerrinaplourde5778 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for shedding light on the truth about who these people really are

  • @sonic1192
    @sonic1192 5 лет назад +3

    Your videos have saved me from the brink, it’s been daily therapy and I can’t thank you enough. This was the first video in 3 weeks I watched and finally smiled while listening at some points. Thank you.

  • @nancyragbir6442
    @nancyragbir6442 3 года назад +1

    My life has gotten so much better,after a year an a half after my break up I can actually smile an enjoy my life,it was a horrible feeling but now I am happy with my children n my friends n family

  • @DrBiohack
    @DrBiohack 5 лет назад +28

    I found your channel from Ralph and it is really interesting, thanks for the wealth of info on here🙌🏽

  • @debraanncastro1285
    @debraanncastro1285 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Narc Survivor your a huge blessing to us. Omgosh may the good Lord bless you even more!!

  • @andrewpratten
    @andrewpratten 5 лет назад +28

    I'm sure that in their quiet moments, they know what they have done..

    • @hazeleyes2381
      @hazeleyes2381 4 года назад +7

      They do know what they have done or are doing. They just do not care about you or your feelings. It's all about them.

  • @deborahwillis9835
    @deborahwillis9835 2 года назад

    Thanks for another Great Teaching👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

  • @shinethelight897
    @shinethelight897 5 лет назад +22

    The music you play in your videos make me feel like I’m watching this in some dream land lol
    Great content 👌

  • @vinceraver7764
    @vinceraver7764 2 года назад +1

    You made a great video. When did you realize that you could help other people like this? Changed my life. Thank you. Lonely. Missing my daughter.

    • @carlogambino1979
      @carlogambino1979 2 года назад

      When I left my ex narcissist in 2016 I never got to see my daughter again. She's 10 now. I think about her everyday. We will be together again someday.

  • @markmedeiros6584
    @markmedeiros6584 5 лет назад +6

    32 yrs with this Lady. Left me for a so-called friend . It’s never enough. Never right. Never what they needed. Only Christ can help them and fill their great void. No person can it will!!

  • @scottlopez9822
    @scottlopez9822 5 лет назад +6

    Once You Know, You Go ... Get Out and Stay Out ...

  • @thornethistleandtear5415
    @thornethistleandtear5415 5 лет назад +175

    U got the creepist music but it goes with tthe topic!!! #geeperscreepers

    • @navigategoodluck9069
      @navigategoodluck9069 5 лет назад +2

      Lol ikr

    • @isonovoso8312
      @isonovoso8312 5 лет назад +3

      hahahahaha! waiting for chucky

    • @katemcl1124
      @katemcl1124 5 лет назад +2

      I love the music too 👍🏻

    • @ms.x1669
      @ms.x1669 5 лет назад +5

      @@navigategoodluck9069 sometimes I just come here for the music

    • @pspcraft
      @pspcraft 5 лет назад +5

      I really enjoy the intro music and wish it was longer. Actually, I enjoy all of the music...

  • @kimberlylee6205
    @kimberlylee6205 2 года назад

    I’m a survivor and rebuilding my life. This Narcissist tried to kill me and stripped me of all my talents/self. It has taken a lot of work but my life is turning around for the better. I will have all I want for myself. I’m blessed and protected. Leave and never look back , do the work , heal and truly live your life in peace.

  • @cristobalhuerta1504
    @cristobalhuerta1504 5 лет назад +5

    Great video , brother u hit it right on the nail , once u become mentally and Spiritually strong they can no longer play with ur life because u are in charge , they will continue to get u back ( BUT ) UR PASSED HAS MADE U STRONG , GOD BLESS ,.......

  • @hydrocrab74
    @hydrocrab74 5 лет назад +18

    Thanks sooooo much for making these videos . you're so on point and make such great sense out of all this craziness.....

  • @kelleyjackson2064
    @kelleyjackson2064 5 лет назад +8

    Yes I survived. I'm rebuilding my life. You confirmed everything he did.

  • @Jenesaiqoui
    @Jenesaiqoui 3 года назад +1

    Best explanation I heard in 3 years. I moved to Florida with 6 job offers and he called every job had ppl follow me created group chats about me even falsely arrested me I beat the case with not guilty and he then sent women to bully me by gods grace I was able to be a homeowner n he hated me for it - I am so grateful to this vid