I think you need to reevaluate your selling technique. Cutting clips short mid sentence of important delivery Leaving people hanging.feels old school & manipulative. It destroys trust. It's counter intuitive. You are destroying your goodwill. rethink this. I came away feeling shortchanged and frustrated. Only to find a paywall. No.
The best way to deal with rejections , is to accept the rejection , stop pursuing and maintain friendship on your part , she doesn't have to maintain , you just make sure that you maintain some kind of freindship . We must learn some times rejection is GOD'S protection 🤔 so fix not suddenly , your present choice can determined on your future happeness 🤔 But rejection is GOD'S protection ! You better recognized !
@@mademenchronicles2335 of course not , just because you been rejected doesnt mean that you have to walk around feeling hurt and feeling inferior ! You can maintain your dignity ! You can't walk around with your butt hurt 😅😂😅😂 You can just maintain friendship .
online maybe, in real life a few attempts over a few weeks then forget about it. or else over those weeks improve ur status and resources so showing more each time. Not saying be a simp just don't be defeatist. remember she could have been on her period, got bad news from family or work, constipated haha.
@@darksideofthebright4284 Yes. I had females coming back asking how I'm doing after that and why I act non-chalant speaking all kind of grammar all because I can detect she wants to waste my time and My Time as a Man isn't for Free. Respect Earned. When females respects you, they automatically like you. Checkmate.
I’ve had that happen to me and still got the girl sometimes it’s an automatic reaction I’m a good salesperson by trade so I think if you are super smooth and decently handsome you can still get her
As a man, not a boy. I can't chase women, that is I don't need alternatives and options. I don't want to waste anymore of my time playing games and chasing rabbits. Yeah sure, if I feel I'm getting played on, better be able to move on but I wouldn't necessarily go straight into "look for something better". I'm putting my fucking effort to build something healthy here, not to play games to find out if she's worth it and if not should I move on to the next one. Don't fucking waste my time if you're gonna make me feel this way. It's that simple. I would say both of ours (but women don't give a shit of you respecting them) either way you put it it's a problem You're either thinking too little of yourself or too much. So fuck that, I only care what you make me feel like if it's about playing games. So instead of don't waste yours and mine, I'd happily Say don't waste MY time.
When my wife (then my girlfriend) rejected me, I only responded with just 3 words "OK, no problem" ... I didn't try to reason with her, persuade her, convince her.... I simply walked away and went completely no contact. 2 days after, she came back to me with full force begging and pleading that she said what she said out of emotion etc.... we've been happily married for 10 years now!
Crazy same with my wife lol,she rejected me then i stopped talking to her,she texted me 2 weeks later asking if i already have a girlfriend and if i still love her, we been together 10years now.
@@thesocksguy4467 it is the message bro. The guys who chase after women like that put them on a pedestal and treat them like they’re goddesses who can do no wrong. They’re human beings. If she doesn’t want to be with you, move on. Cry about it if need be, but move on.
She absolutely right! This happened to me in my 20’s, my father said Don’t be a puppy to women, they’ll walk all over you. That was 41 years ago, my dad was a smart man, I still miss him today
The best thing my uncle taught me. Just say Ok, then walk away! A man’s ability to remain stoic and stable with or without anyone is what makes men mountains. You can’t move them or shake them. No need to yell. Or belittle or retaliate in any way. There’s 8 billion people in this world. Go find another who’s worthy. Some of yall might find it first try while others have to look through the depths of the earth. But your person is out there somewhere. Pain only last forever if you give up.
@freshbrd1 she doesn't deserve it because she's no into you? It's like a woman feeling that man doesn't deserve it because he's not into her. If you're not compatible it's not that big of a deal. Saying she doesn't deserve it is a response of someone who doesn't handle rejection well and takes it too personal
My dad told me the trick to being a high value man. Honesty, integrity, self-discipline, and self-love. If you don't love yourself you can't give someone else the love they deserve and need. Don't ever complain and let everyone know your limits. Never had a woman break up with or cheat on me because I set boundaries. Love yourself more than you love anyone else is the bottom line.
@@tudorbucharestlol someone got rejected. You gotta get to 150k+ level before some young woman will swallow her disgust in order to get that bag. But whatever helps you sleep at night I guess
Biggest problem with women is that they don’t outright reject men. They may leave him on read, or ignore when he reaches out, but at the same time they will also continue to talk to him on their own time. A women never has the fortitude to outright reject you, instead they will dangle the carrot for attention when they sense you are moving on.
Women are taught very early in life to always be nice, in any given situation because rejecting a guy can often get us severally injured or killed. Just think of all the women who get acid thrown in their faces after rejecting guys. At the very least, when you reject a guy, they will most likely go around and tell everyone you're a wh0re, which is something every woman has experienced at some point. I always do my best to let a man know in the nicest, kindest way I'm not intererested and they keep persisting. It's almost like they beg for a brutal rejection in order to excuse their malicious behavior afterwards.
@@diana.290 That's not what I am talking about. That's a different matter all together. A number of times woman have rejected me. However, after the rejection I will move on to find somebody interested, and they will continue to pursue me. Whether that is friend requests on social media. Continuing to flirt with me via physical touch. Attempting to conversate with me etc... when they don't actually want to be with me. They want their cake and eat it too.
If a woman outright rejects you(rare, they’ll usually try to keep you as a “friend” to extract resources from you) take it as the blessing it is and walk away.
Honestly. Last break up first thing I said is I'm not friends with my ex's. Then when she thought she made a mistake, I allowed doubt to enter my mind as well and am recovering from that seed of doubt. But I have no doubt of bright future. Rejection sucks, but dodging a bullet is a blessing.
i think you are the only one commenter mentioning that! The best way is to leave without any attachments ! especially to a woman! if a male can reach to that level it realy shows his high level and his usefulness
@worldexplorer1016 my father left my mom when I was 4, for another woman that he married. Taking me from her to live with a new family. I stand by what I said.
@worldexplorer1016 you're missing the point. Men don't gain value by trying to please women. Or trying to get them to agree with us. If you are a Man of Integrity you do what you know is right and need to. And the right woman follows. You don't follow a woman. We don't play by the same rules. We aren't playing the same game.
I was ignored all my young life by women who wanted the “fun” irresponsible guys. So I worked hard and built a large company. Now all the women want me. I can’t help but be disturbed by this. Women don’t want to help a guy become successful, they just want to enjoy the winnings after he has made it.
When women have rejected me I’ve simply smiled and wish her well as I left her presence. I didn’t talk bad about her and was always respectful in how I addressed her whether in person or about her. Keep you integrity gents. Women talk to each other and word will get around about the calibre of man you are. Sometimes that same woman who rejected you will start to see you differently in a good way. Your internal strength will be noticed. I won’t lie, being rejected sucks Azz but stay focused and strong and the fruits of that labour will present itself to you.
There is no point wanting a woman that once didn't what you. Sure keep your integrity but if nothing touches you and unballances you then there was nothing worth pursuing there to begin with. If you don't need a woman for anything you lack, why bother at all?
I agree with your opinion a hundred percent friend. I also think it's better to treat someone with respect after this because, if you were attracted to them, you probably loved them for their kind and virtuous persona anyways. It's more respectful to respect her and your feelings for her, even in leaving. Leaving in peace, perhaps
Thank you for being respectful and gentleman-ly! Compatibility is important. She's being honest and not wasting the man's time or hers! TIME is another type of CURRENCY. She's respecting his time & hers. Saving heartache later on in life. Best to say outright as soon as 1 knows it won't work. It should PUSH him to HIS wife to be more than ever! Win win situ both ways
@@bobballard387 way better to get rejected & closure & move on… not the nonsense in the video ‘oh he handled my rejection maturely son I want him now’, if that’s as shallow & easily swayed a girl is then she’s going to be so easy for guys with a bit of game to pick up whenever they please…
@@saneman7177 I don't really give a fuck I'm glad and fucking happy to by single I was dead before none of this Garbo mean anything to me it's just somebody else who didn't like me I don't mind it's does not get to me I move on faster then any women on this planet I learn and love to by alone I just love it idont chase nobody I don't owe anything to anybody and that it someday everybody will die nothing serious here enjoy life while you have it someday will by all over with a women or not I move on with my life easely because I felt that pain from the bottom of my heart so that today it's doesn't matter to me
Practical reason? Because women talk to each other. If she respects how you handle it, you may have a chance with other women she knows. If you get desperate or abusive, no way.
Years ago, I dated a woman for 2 months. Met the family and even had intercourse. Then, one day, she said. "I think we should just be friends," and I was pretty much like, "Okay!" and dismissed myself from her gracefully. She called me later that evening, yelling at me, saying, "Why didn't I fight for our relationship?" I told her,"Because a woman doesn't have to tell me TWICE if she's no longer interested in me. "
I get what she’s saying but there’s a difference in rejection between being with someone you’ve known for almost a year or more versus approaching a woman in public you haven’t met before. But the reason why guys fight is because that’s in our nature. The real men who fight will stand up for his boys, his family, his mother, his girlfriend, his wife, etc. because he truly cares. If he doesn’t even attempt to fight a bit let’s say for a day or two just to show her he’s willing to, if he doesn’t women will talk amongst their friends and say “yea he didn’t care”. Women are emotional and immature, if she’s not willing to fight for you I think that’s your biggest answer right there. But to guys reading this, we have all tried to fight for a girl we cared about and she still rejected us despite our caring nature. But if you go about it with maturity she will regret down the road how she treated you because she will likely get karma back to her when she assumes she met someone better only for that new guy in her life to not give a fuck about her. Essentially whatever goes around comes around 🔁 There are women who reject because she has a hurt past even if she likes the guy. Women are more complicated. At least for me, I give everyone the benefit of the doubt. I believe anyone can change. Like I said if it’s a girl or woman you barely know and she rejects you, yea say ok and move on. But in fairness when you INVESTED time in a girl or woman, that is a deflating, horrible feeling. You ask anyone woman what she wants in life from a guy or man they will say someone who is loyal, hard working, protects her, treats her well. But even if you give that, women are still indecisive. And let me be real - how many live a luxurious, fulfilling life? Many of us go to work, clock out, go home, spend a few hrs doing whatever and do the same thing. A lot of guys suffer in silence because even society doesn’t give a shit about us. But to any guy reading this who is hurting from a recent break up or bad rejection. Get closer to God, get in better shape, be the better/maturer person, travel, and live your life with purpose. Your time and your value should MATTER. If she’s stupid and ignorant that’s a HER problem not you problem, she doesn’t see the great qualities in you. Women are far from perfect. Look at how many women sleep around, swear/insult guys, that shows her pathetic nature also.
@@prince.laurett i think its not cause that it's cause its all about that "games" that we needs to ignore them and cannot ignore them at the same time at the precise amount, at least that's my reason for now
I thank them for their honesty and wish them best in life and keep it moving. Dating and getting laid is a numbers game, it's not a scarcity commodity.
Handling the rejection only tells half the story. How the rejection was delivered is as important as the rejection. Specifically, everyone wants to be respected. If a couple spent time together (months or years) , and the woman (in the case of this clip) decides it's over, then a mature, honest discussion is the best respect between the two parties. Just sending a text, video clip, or ghosting is totally disrespectful of the time spent together. If they both cared, they still want happiness for each other. So it is important to know what is the true cause of anger after.
She is right. I've been on dates with lots of women and when they want to move on to the next . I just say ok and keep it pushin. Go where you're celebrated, not where you're tolerated.
Yeah I broke up with a girl once and she went around claiming I made her... you know. Almost destroyed my relationship with my best friend who asked me about it while recording me cause she made me out to be a scum bag. Nuts.
I’ve been rejected most of life, and have adjusted to being a lone till the point I don’t find the point of a relationship. I over analyze till the point I conclude women are just a headache. It’s true, most men need learn how to be a lone because that’s how you’re going to spend the most of year. Especially if you’re not consider to be attractive.
@LEDlightisNasty 90% of all h0m!cides in the world are committed by men so that pretty much disproves your point of women being emotional. Also should we check all the statistic that say women have a much higher emotional intelligence than men?
@@alokafernando44 not that simple, its fine to understand but you shouldnt take advice from women. Like her she is talking 100% from selfish female pov. Male and female sexual strategies and interests are different.
Women don’t outright reject… they ghost. While claiming they don’t want games: meaning they want you to give while they play games. Most women are not to be taken seriously
Yeah no. The times have changed. No high value man would play a game on a woman’s terms. It’s about equal footing and not the man chasing breadcrumbs. Id say the same from the woman’s perspective.
My partner of 7 years rejected me after a couple of weeks of dating. It stung me bad and the natural response was to push back.. I decided to cut contact with her. I said okay sorry it didn’t work out and good luck for the future. A week later she came back grovelling with a card and presents 😂 can’t help but remind her of this! We now have a son together and are closer than ever so just goes to show this is solid advice.
Greatest way to handle rejection is to find someone hotter and make sure she sees it. Bet she won’t want to reject you then. Then you reject her. 🤷♂️ Stay petty my friends
Respect your own view but not necessarily only a woman/hot but getting other things that makes you happy with or without a woman. Self improvement and self-respect is important
Women will sometimes reject you if they think you’re out of their league. It’s like they’re rejecting you before you have a chance to reject them. That’s how much they fear rejection. This chick needs to focus on getting women up to par.
Agree with her on what? That she wants the guy that’s not into her to be persistent (cause she’s showing interest). But the guy who’s actually into her needs to get a clue and back the fuck off cause she’s waiting for the guy that doesn’t want her. Her soft spokeness is a form of manipulation, not femininity!
I was an somewhat awkward teenager with little confidence and didnt approach women figuring they would reject me. I had my virginity broke at 22 by a sexy 30 year old married woman who approached me. She seen my potential and made me her project. We lasted a year and after that i gained confidence and went from a 6'2" avg slim body to add 20 lbs of muscle to 215 lbs. I grew my black hair long and being italian i tanned very easily outside with no shirt. I would get attention from women all the time that i never got as a teenager. Most men would have jumped on that. But i was a little vindictive and loved rejecting good looking women to make them feel the way they made me feel as a teenager.
Behaving badly won't carry you far. Seek out the one you're interested. One of those you treat poorly may have a cousin or friend that you really want and lose her due to the poor treatment of her cousin or friend.
They say men have more emotional intelligence but you don't. You are saying you are trying to punish women for not pursuing you s3xually when you were a kid. 😅
@@johnre5342 "to make them feel the way they made you feel as a teenager" Women don't want to have to be mean when we reject men. The thing men fail to understand is that many girls are pursued by men before we even hit puberty. I was 8 on a playground when what turned out to be a registered s3x offender tried to coerce me into going to his apartment. We learn quickly that sweet innocent kind and niave attracts predators. Even as a teen being kind when trying to let a man down got me stalked for 3 YEARS. I'm talking death threats on recording bomb threat called into my high-school. Him showing up at my prom to make sure I was alone. This was a grown man. I was 16 to 19 during that time. Women can act mean and aggressive because we've been conditioned to have to be. I'm still kind when I reject but at the slightest sign he didn't respect my rejection I'm prepared to turn into a shrew
When men start focusing on their careers and purpose, women start chasing men. And then we don't want anything to do with them. At all. Because we're too busy focusing on what actually fulfills us and makes us happy.
Sometimes in the phase of rejection you discover who they really are, and that is not the same as finding negative things about them to make yourself feel better. You sometimes realize you never really knew them and you are better off without them.
Cheat code: just focus on yourself, your hobbies and your friends. Create an awesome life and watch the right person come to you. That's all that it is. Looking after yourself is a catch all way to get what you want in most aspects of life. Just do that.
If a woman doesn't want you, just walk away. For all of you weak men, you don't need an explanation or closure. That's the movies, not real life. If you're a man, you know rejection well.
I think she's right. When I was 17 I liked a girl in my class and sent her a friend request on fb. Lmao, she rejected my request. That was my first and only rejection. I was hurt for a week but then I was like fuc* it. A few months later that same girl wanted me but I gave her a taste of her own medicine and it felt like redemption. Self-respect is what makes them like you. However, I strongly advise you to only seek out traditional women if you want to raise a family. There's plenty of good women in rural america. Don't chase the average city gal, most of them aren't marriage material and come from broken families.
embrace rejection it’s the exercise that will build your confidence and character. Also keep in mind that you are not every woman’s cup of tea. Keep your head up and keep it moving.
Very true and very well explained. I sometimes wonder what we all need to have in order these days. 250k job , fulfilling life, six pack. Just be weary of what you wish for. If a man has all those things he might decide that being in a relationship is not worth it.
True. Women that are very picky eventually meet their match. They become the one rejected and they don't handle it as good as they want you to handle it when they reject you.
My advice is to talk to as many Women as you so please. This in turn lessens the crushing impact that comes with rejection. Because you have a plethora of other options to choose from. Works for me till this day. I gotta stable of at least 10 women in my rotation, and its all good so far.
When a woman rejects you walk away and never look back. After she's been ran thru by a few guys she will come back looking for you. I have yet to see anything different in my 56 years on this planet.
In short. When she pulls away, and becomes disrespectful, it’s time to go. No arguments, no tears no yelling no accusations just bye. Don’t ask for or accept a second chance. remember women have their back ups in their DM’s. Could be five ten 15 guys. Seems as though we’re easily replaced. But no one can replace yourself. The more you become who you want to be the more irreplaceable you are to yourself. Once you love yourself enough to self actualize, to love yourself as much as you think you loved her, then you can live with yourself without anyone else. Then you’ll understand there’s always another woman coming around the mountain when she comes.
I have found the best way to treat anyone who treats you as a rejection, is do the exact same back, they always fold first, and then i just show no interest at all!!
Facts, I got a coworker who is in love with me, we are really close and I like him, but as a person not in a romantic way…I told him MULTIPLE TIMES, that I didn’t like him like that, and he proceeds to tell me that “yes, I do like him”🤦🏽♀️ I den had to stop talking to him multiple times, cause he’s overbearing, comes to talk to me every chance he gets etc…I think now he gets it, after 1 year of me tellin him that I don’t like him lol 😅 men sometimes are clueless and think women play hard to get, but when a woman really wants you, you will know, and you won’t have to wonder about it.
Yall are close? You just don’t like him romantically? You’ve straight up said this to him multiple times? How are yall close then, if he wants a relationship and you don’t?
@@travmarquee3213 YES! I’ve told him multiple times straight up, and other coworkers even have asked me why I don’t like him like that…we are close because he’s like one of the main people I talk to at work, he’s easy to talk to and understanding, and we literally can talk about everything but there’s other things about him that I don’t want in a partner and ikno we wouldn’t work in a romantic relationship. He even has invited me out a couple times but I always tell him no.
idk... Women are too Complex creatures to understand so i don't bother. I will simply just marry the first woman who takes interest into getting to know me.
Everyone who is reading this comment. Please don't listen to people on the internet. Back then when we didn't had the social media Everyone was just them selfs and happy. People tried to just be good humans. Now Everyone is on the internet Please let go.
Men need to just ignore women who play games of any kind. Playing "hard to get" is a red flag. If they cant be open and honest at the beginning of the relationship they never will. Leave them to their box wine and cats and move on King.
After rejecting me , she said, I can’t believe you didn’t fight for me. I said no I didn’t , time and effort I was going to put into you , I’m going to put in my projects , work and gym. She was not happy and I didn’t care .
There’s a difference between acknowledging a woman’s beauty and us actually wanting you. A stuck up woman is in our eyes the worst of the worst. The reason men become abusive is because it’s very disrespectful in our eyes for you to 1. Assume just because we compliment you we actually want you. 2. Ignore us as if you didn’t hear the compliment (stuck up) in our eyes the beauty you thought you had drops below the sloppiest woman that’s why you see men with ladies you feel as why did he pick her well because beauty is also on the inside. 3. They become abusive because they feel disrespected by your attitude. I’m not saying their reactions are right. I’m just giving you the male perspective because women think differently for men.❤
from she reject you move on to the next one simple lol dont play mind games with women now if she comes back and lets you in give her that same energy then leave her alone because she was letting other dudes crak her when all of that was going on😂dnt be fooled by women gents
What about using common sense, no means no, and facts don‘t care about your feelings. Rejection is way more honest than landing in her friendzone. You should never ever try to start a relationship with the goal to get you out of your misery or out of a state of being needy. Might be a booster at first, even if it just exists inside your head, but the fall is even harder, if your desires remain unfulfilled. Maybe it‘s just you need a little extra time to take the next step (e.g. seeing relationships as a journey to grow with someone else instead of seeking them for validation or maybe being talked into it by others) in becoming who you really are and your time to shine will come with that.
This is a great note, living your best life and not having a fragile ego. People who can't handle rejection are not only egotistical, they don't even know how to connect, it is all about "I" to them..when rejected the smoke is lifted and they expose their true self....Men, do the work, remove the ego.
She was right about most of this, except one thing... If a man starts to insult a woman after rejection it doesn't show low self esteem; it shows he noticed her flaws, but chose to ignore them over the need to explore his sexual desires.
@@RahulCKapatkar I'm a man and we notice all flaws, but choose to overlook them. Everyone has flaws so you don't make sense. Some guys choose to overlook them just for the possibility of sex. He probably thought she wasn't all that to begin with to reject anyone.
I guess I'm completely screwed then. I don't find anything enjoyable, my life is boring and dull. Work, gym, sleep. So I guess I'll never have a woman be interested in me.
Not accepting our rejection is not about a guy not having a life, it's the not listening, not hearing, becoming super creepy by pushing for a self-centered agenda that I don't share in. It gives me rapist vibes. If you are not respecting my no when I reject you, you will not respect my other no's either.
It's not about rejection,it is the mind games women play with men,keeping men in friend zone as back up boyfriends or getting if he moves on after you rejected him.these things make us angry as we can handle rejection but not we can't tolerate someone being an outright hypocrite and an emotional abusive narcissist.also women resort to reputation destruction when rejected and many times start sexually abusing the men who rejected them. This gives of creepy psycho criminally insane vibes.if you can't handle rejection and are a hypocrite then you will be an abusive hypocrite resorting to maniacal ways then you also will not respect his other no's as well and will start those tactics narcissists employ
@@plawandey3715that’s on you to allow someone to treat you that way. A girl will treat you like dog shit but you stay because she’s hot and land in her friend zone. This is showing me that you are weak. A woman will respect you more when you act indifferent and walk away
@@plawandey3715 Sucks that you have such bad experiences with women. I'm a woman that never played mindgames and never had back up boyfriends. In fact I have been single and celibate since 2016 due to the pain of breaking up with a man that I was with for a long time and betrayed me. But yea generalizations have their place.
Take Rejection graciously don't abuse her and don't say bad about her One girl reject me 4years ago till today I have very good relationship with her I play with her son sometimes I pick her son from school and drop him whenever her husband is out of town she need anything she call me I always gave gift her on b.day .We share very good bonding
I think it also depends on people's wounds and past experiences. Sometimes women do want someone who tries again a couple of times after an initial rejection just to make sure if he's actually interested in "you" or just throwing a fishing line and seeing what gets caught. Things can be so confusing these days and there's a lot of pain and hurt and self-preservation around ☹️
Fight Harder? He'll NO ! NO MEANS NO, Lonely Cat Lady. I Thank GOD for EVERYTHING I GET and EVERYTHING I DON'T ! What I DON'T Care for is the Second Chances, and NEW INTREST. You said NO, Then Move On , Bye Felicia. Women DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT. That is why So Many are Sad and Lonely.
Just make sure the rejection is clear. Some rejections are confusing and some women play with men's interest and affection because they may want something out of it in the future.
Oh and another thing for you good men when these women are flirting with you they want something out of you just remember they're sleeping with someone else in the background
Funny you say that. That's what i used to do. When you have someone on the side then the one you like is not that important. And when she sees that she will be more interested in you.
As a woman I've seen that backfire badly on more than one man. My boss for one. He had several good women interested in him. He would always go for good girls who didn't party and they would get devoted to him and he would tell them he was just dating her exclusively. Then they would find out about eacbother. He lose both and have to go hunting again. Then he lost his good job too and hasn't found a decent job since. Also my ex did the same. He had a wife (me) who he described as being built like a Victoria Secret model and a good girl who never partied and was totally devoted to him. Cheated while I was pregnant with the child he asked for. Now he's alone living in the same crappy apartment he was in 15 years ago.
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I think you need to reevaluate your selling technique. Cutting clips short mid sentence of important delivery Leaving people hanging.feels old school & manipulative. It destroys trust. It's counter intuitive. You are destroying your goodwill. rethink this. I came away feeling shortchanged and frustrated. Only to find a paywall. No.
The best way to deal with rejections , is to accept the rejection , stop pursuing and maintain friendship on your part , she doesn't have to maintain , you just make sure that you maintain some kind of freindship .
We must learn some times rejection is GOD'S protection 🤔
so fix not suddenly , your present choice can determined on your future happeness 🤔
But rejection is GOD'S protection !
You better recognized !
@@jeffbillings-el6110we are to maintain friendship even when she does not. Hope you don't advise we meet her needs when she calls after rejection
@@mademenchronicles2335 of course not , just because you been rejected doesnt mean that you have to walk around feeling hurt and feeling inferior !
You can maintain your dignity !
You can't walk around with your butt hurt 😅😂😅😂
You can just maintain friendship .
No friendship! Keep it moving!!!
The "gracious way to handle rejection" is to delete her number and never talk to her again.
Perfect solution 😊 just chill and enjoy long lasting peace from constant nagging 😜
Also never respond to her if she ever reaches out to you again.
online maybe, in real life a few attempts over a few weeks then forget about it. or else over those weeks improve ur status and resources so showing more each time. Not saying be a simp just don't be defeatist. remember she could have been on her period, got bad news from family or work, constipated haha.
@@johnre5342I find this more difficult lol.
Let the church say.......
Greatest way to handle rejection is the ability to Walk Away and Go No Contact
Sure but what when 100% of girls reject you?
Absolutely
@@darksideofthebright4284 Yes. I had females coming back asking how I'm doing after that and why I act non-chalant speaking all kind of grammar all because I can detect she wants to waste my time and My Time as a Man isn't for Free.
Respect Earned.
When females respects you, they automatically like you.
Checkmate.
Well said
Just say fine enjoy the rest of your evening and as you walk away say your a bit chubby anyway those shoes don't match your dress😅
If a woman shows or delivers outright rejection. Accept it, become indifferent to her, then jog on to better horizons.
I’ve had that happen to me and still got the girl sometimes it’s an automatic reaction I’m a good salesperson by trade so I think if you are super smooth and decently handsome you can still get her
Youre assuming they offer outright rejection, often times they dont.
Bro you're talking about woman😂😂
You mean she will jog on to toxicity
As a man, not a boy. I can't chase women, that is I don't need alternatives and options. I don't want to waste anymore of my time playing games and chasing rabbits.
Yeah sure, if I feel I'm getting played on, better be able to move on but I wouldn't necessarily go straight into "look for something better".
I'm putting my fucking effort to build something healthy here, not to play games to find out if she's worth it and if not should I move on to the next one.
Don't fucking waste my time if you're gonna make me feel this way. It's that simple. I would say both of ours (but women don't give a shit of you respecting them) either way you put it it's a problem
You're either thinking too little of yourself or too much. So fuck that, I only care what you make me feel like if it's about playing games. So instead of don't waste yours and mine, I'd happily Say don't waste MY time.
If you chase a woman that rejects you and she agrees to be with you, it's going to be a very expensive relationship :)
Expensive in all format mate, emotionally and 😂😂😂😂financially
When my wife (then my girlfriend) rejected me, I only responded with just 3 words "OK, no problem" ... I didn't try to reason with her, persuade her, convince her.... I simply walked away and went completely no contact. 2 days after, she came back to me with full force begging and pleading that she said what she said out of emotion etc.... we've been happily married for 10 years now!
What a G 🫡
Real G ☝️
I go copy this message send your to your wife 😂
Crazy same with my wife lol,she rejected me then i stopped talking to her,she texted me 2 weeks later asking if i already have a girlfriend and if i still love her, we been together 10years now.
good to know you understand the game ❤
That's why I don't chase women. Why should I? I chase my dreams.
So she is not ur dream 😂
Very true!
I chase nothing and I do not have dreams.
I agree with you 100% .... Chase your goals.... Women will follow.... We need you on our AFFIRM TODAY TEAM!!!
The book 30 Days to Overcome Rejection by Harper Daniels was pretty insightful I thought
So don’t put women on a pedestal. I completely agree
lol that's not the message bro
@@thesocksguy4467 it is the message bro. The guys who chase after women like that put them on a pedestal and treat them like they’re goddesses who can do no wrong. They’re human beings. If she doesn’t want to be with you, move on. Cry about it if need be, but move on.
@@thesocksguy4467Thats the message. Be a loser and chase her haha
However some rejections are really terrible.
Common ladies persistence is an issue you know,😮😮
Well, it's no fun if I can't put her on a pedestal.
But that has little to do (for me) with turning her into an idol.
She absolutely right! This happened to me in my 20’s, my father said Don’t be a puppy to women, they’ll walk all over you. That was 41 years ago, my dad was a smart man, I still miss him today
It's a father like this that alot of boys are missing
he tought you good bro
What a good dad 👊🏼
@@richivity one who knows how to get their child to listen to good advice
That is not me. If she rejects me I move on. I would never do that. She sure isn’t talking about men like me. 😂🤣😂
The best thing my uncle taught me. Just say Ok, then walk away!
A man’s ability to remain stoic and stable with or without anyone is what makes men mountains. You can’t move them or shake them.
No need to yell. Or belittle or retaliate in any way.
There’s 8 billion people in this world. Go find another who’s worthy. Some of yall might find it first try while others have to look through the depths of the earth. But your person is out there somewhere.
Pain only last forever if you give up.
Well said 👏
"Pain only lasts forever if you give up."
That's a solid af quote.
PLEASE LADY NO ONE WANTS TO CHASE A GOLD DIGGER WHO ONLY CARES ABOUT HER SELF AND WAHAT A MAN HAS AS FAR AS MONEY,PERIOD!
In a nutshell, if a woman rejects you don't give her attention anymore
Yep. Never seem desperate
She doesn't deserve it
@freshbrd1 she doesn't deserve it because she's no into you? It's like a woman feeling that man doesn't deserve it because he's not into her. If you're not compatible it's not that big of a deal. Saying she doesn't deserve it is a response of someone who doesn't handle rejection well and takes it too personal
My dad told me the trick to being a high value man.
Honesty, integrity, self-discipline, and self-love.
If you don't love yourself you can't give someone else the love they deserve and need.
Don't ever complain and let everyone know your limits.
Never had a woman break up with or cheat on me because I set boundaries.
Love yourself more than you love anyone else is the bottom line.
Wow 👏
No chance that your father used the term self love.
@h.sowandegray2913 it's probably a euphemism or paraphrasing
4) After self-love, wash your hands.
@@sleazybtd 😂🤣
If you're rejected, remember it's their loss. Become very successful in your life. It's the best revenge.
Why do you need to revenge a woman who doesn't want you? Not everyone has to want you. Check your ego friend
@@Gerald321 They are talking about mentally its not exactly revenge that she will see or feel.
Facts!
💯 she gets older while we get successful and with young hot girls
@@tudorbucharestlol someone got rejected. You gotta get to 150k+ level before some young woman will swallow her disgust in order to get that bag. But whatever helps you sleep at night I guess
Biggest problem with women is that they don’t outright reject men. They may leave him on read, or ignore when he reaches out, but at the same time they will also continue to talk to him on their own time. A women never has the fortitude to outright reject you, instead they will dangle the carrot for attention when they sense you are moving on.
True dat…
If she is leaving you on read and hitting you up when she needs your help or attention.. you don't need anyone to tell you she is only using you.
Women are taught very early in life to always be nice, in any given situation because rejecting a guy can often get us severally injured or killed. Just think of all the women who get acid thrown in their faces after rejecting guys. At the very least, when you reject a guy, they will most likely go around and tell everyone you're a wh0re, which is something every woman has experienced at some point. I always do my best to let a man know in the nicest, kindest way I'm not intererested and they keep persisting. It's almost like they beg for a brutal rejection in order to excuse their malicious behavior afterwards.
@@diana.290 That's not what I am talking about. That's a different matter all together. A number of times woman have rejected me. However, after the rejection I will move on to find somebody interested, and they will continue to pursue me. Whether that is friend requests on social media. Continuing to flirt with me via physical touch. Attempting to conversate with me etc... when they don't actually want to be with me. They want their cake and eat it too.
hello? is the signs not obvious?? DISAPPEAR and she will chase tf out of u because u value urself ❤
As a man I agree. If she rejects you, that's it. Never approach her again. Have dignity and walk away and live your life
If a woman outright rejects you(rare, they’ll usually try to keep you as a “friend” to extract resources from you) take it as the blessing it is and walk away.
Honestly. Last break up first thing I said is I'm not friends with my ex's.
Then when she thought she made a mistake, I allowed doubt to enter my mind as well and am recovering from that seed of doubt.
But I have no doubt of bright future.
Rejection sucks, but dodging a bullet is a blessing.
Must be you! No woman I know rejects a man only to “extract resources” from him. She sees him as a failure and not worthy of her.
@@rockyalliston1122 big facts my guy
Tell her she can lose a few pounds they'll never forget you they'll talk about you all night
Speak.
Rejection. In my mind, Cool just means there's something better out there for me. Tell her have a good day and comfidently walk away. Maturity
Focus on yourself King. The Right woman will follow you. Shel see your worth and let you know. But it's best to learn to live without a Woman.
i think you are the only one commenter mentioning that!
The best way is to leave without any attachments ! especially to a woman!
if a male can reach to that level it realy shows his high level and his usefulness
If your father said that to your mom, you wouldn't be here. Dont you agree,😂
@worldexplorer1016 my father left my mom when I was 4, for another woman that he married. Taking me from her to live with a new family. I stand by what I said.
@worldexplorer1016 you're missing the point. Men don't gain value by trying to please women. Or trying to get them to agree with us. If you are a Man of Integrity you do what you know is right and need to. And the right woman follows. You don't follow a woman. We don't play by the same rules. We aren't playing the same game.
I was ignored all my young life by women who wanted the “fun” irresponsible guys. So I worked hard and built a large company. Now all the women want me. I can’t help but be disturbed by this. Women don’t want to help a guy become successful, they just want to enjoy the winnings after he has made it.
Huh? I'm in the $10M+ club and I am completely invisible to women.
Where are "all these women want me" coming from?
How about you stay by his side when he has nothing but when he makes it he upgrades to another woman
Model type
@@yourlogicalnightmare1014 you need to flaunt the money, then only they see you
I felt that
They will reject you at their best, and will all come back when they hit the wall and your value is higher.
Best comment on here fact
Sometimes, there is a reason to reject you. Look at yourselves too. Mutual agreement is beautiful. Both should work on oneanother
If by high value you mean bald with a big belly then sure 😂
@@ChristinaGina I agree!
@diana.290 money and stability, and let's not get into the effects of aging women are equally affected
When women have rejected me I’ve simply smiled and wish her well as I left her presence. I didn’t talk bad about her and was always respectful in how I addressed her whether in person or about her. Keep you integrity gents. Women talk to each other and word will get around about the calibre of man you are. Sometimes that same woman who rejected you will start to see you differently in a good way. Your internal strength will be noticed. I won’t lie, being rejected sucks Azz but stay focused and strong and the fruits of that labour will present itself to you.
I don’t want a woman who wants me because of the lifestyle. I would divorce that gold digger..
There is no point wanting a woman that once didn't what you. Sure keep your integrity but if nothing touches you and unballances you then there was nothing worth pursuing there to begin with. If you don't need a woman for anything you lack, why bother at all?
I agree with your opinion a hundred percent friend. I also think it's better to treat someone with respect after this because, if you were attracted to them, you probably loved them for their kind and virtuous persona anyways.
It's more respectful to respect her and your feelings for her, even in leaving. Leaving in peace, perhaps
Thank you for being respectful and gentleman-ly! Compatibility is important. She's being honest and not wasting the man's time or hers! TIME is another type of CURRENCY. She's respecting his time & hers. Saving heartache later on in life. Best to say outright as soon as 1 knows it won't work. It should PUSH him to HIS wife to be more than ever! Win win situ both ways
That the way my dude I never argue with poeple waste of time u did the right thing mate
Greatest way to deal with rejection is to work on yourself and improve yourself, that’s all! No great secret there.
A rejection is a rejection who cares how she feels about how you handled the rejection, just move along with your life.
Agree it's doesn't make me loose sleep it's no big deal with a girl reject me 5 second later I'm thinking about something else already
@@bobballard387 way better to get rejected & closure & move on… not the nonsense in the video ‘oh he handled my rejection maturely son I want him now’, if that’s as shallow & easily swayed a girl is then she’s going to be so easy for guys with a bit of game to pick up whenever they please…
@@saneman7177 I don't really give a fuck I'm glad and fucking happy to by single I was dead before none of this Garbo mean anything to me it's just somebody else who didn't like me I don't mind it's does not get to me I move on faster then any women on this planet I learn and love to by alone I just love it idont chase nobody I don't owe anything to anybody and that it someday everybody will die nothing serious here enjoy life while you have it someday will by all over with a women or not I move on with my life easely because I felt that pain from the bottom of my heart so that today it's doesn't matter to me
Practical reason? Because women talk to each other. If she respects how you handle it, you may have a chance with other women she knows. If you get desperate or abusive, no way.
Meanwhile they can't handle rejections but telling other mans, be strong And mature with this sure 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Years ago, I dated a woman for 2 months. Met the family and even had intercourse. Then, one day, she said. "I think we should just be friends," and I was pretty much like, "Okay!" and dismissed myself from her gracefully. She called me later that evening, yelling at me, saying, "Why didn't I fight for our relationship?" I told her,"Because a woman doesn't have to tell me TWICE if she's no longer interested in me. "
Brilliant
Intercourse in 2 months 😮
The heck she was thingkinf lol
Please don't tell that you didn't dismiss her for playing this shitty game..😮
If she doesn’t love you, walk away and don’t even look back man. Look forward to some new somebody.
Kings, build your kingdom and don’t let a woman tell you how to run it
I get what she’s saying but there’s a difference in rejection between being with someone you’ve known for almost a year or more versus approaching a woman in public you haven’t met before. But the reason why guys fight is because that’s in our nature. The real men who fight will stand up for his boys, his family, his mother, his girlfriend, his wife, etc. because he truly cares. If he doesn’t even attempt to fight a bit let’s say for a day or two just to show her he’s willing to, if he doesn’t women will talk amongst their friends and say “yea he didn’t care”. Women are emotional and immature, if she’s not willing to fight for you I think that’s your biggest answer right there.
But to guys reading this, we have all tried to fight for a girl we cared about and she still rejected us despite our caring nature. But if you go about it with maturity she will regret down the road how she treated you because she will likely get karma back to her when she assumes she met someone better only for that new guy in her life to not give a fuck about her. Essentially whatever goes around comes around 🔁 There are women who reject because she has a hurt past even if she likes the guy.
Women are more complicated. At least for me, I give everyone the benefit of the doubt. I believe anyone can change. Like I said if it’s a girl or woman you barely know and she rejects you, yea say ok and move on. But in fairness when you INVESTED time in a girl or woman, that is a deflating, horrible feeling. You ask anyone woman what she wants in life from a guy or man they will say someone who is loyal, hard working, protects her, treats her well. But even if you give that, women are still indecisive. And let me be real - how many live a luxurious, fulfilling life? Many of us go to work, clock out, go home, spend a few hrs doing whatever and do the same thing.
A lot of guys suffer in silence because even society doesn’t give a shit about us. But to any guy reading this who is hurting from a recent break up or bad rejection. Get closer to God, get in better shape, be the better/maturer person, travel, and live your life with purpose. Your time and your value should MATTER. If she’s stupid and ignorant that’s a HER problem not you problem, she doesn’t see the great qualities in you. Women are far from perfect. Look at how many women sleep around, swear/insult guys, that shows her pathetic nature also.
Thank you brother.... u made my day
Wen aren't even complicated fr, they just make no sense and in that way it's simple. But you basically are right
Negative minds attracts negative.
Positive minds attract positive. That's all i can say ...
can you elaborate on what you mean by the woman rejects due to hurtful past please?
Ah...she just pointed out why I don't try anymore and stopped giving a fuck
😂
Cause u got rejected? Not that deep
@@prince.laurett i think its not cause that it's cause its all about that "games" that we needs to ignore them and cannot ignore them at the same time at the precise amount, at least that's my reason for now
@@gonenkitaroo1772that sounds complicated...😢
Don't listen to the simps here. I'm in the same place bro
what she's basically saying, is never chase women.
I honestly don’t know what she’s saying…. She confused the crap outta me
She told you the solution: Just have other women lined up. PERIOD!
😂
No she said have a life with or without a woman, which is much better advice.
That’s not what she said lol
Agree!…if you want a relationship and she rejects you, then she’s telling you to go get your relationship with other women somewhere else! Simple!
hypergamy
Rejection is God‘s way of saving you from the nightmare that would’ve been your life with that woman
I thank them for their honesty and wish them best in life and keep it moving.
Dating and getting laid is a numbers game, it's not a scarcity commodity.
Actually a very good point.
Handling the rejection only tells half the story. How the rejection was delivered is as important as the rejection. Specifically, everyone wants to be respected. If a couple spent time together (months or years) , and the woman (in the case of this clip) decides it's over, then a mature, honest discussion is the best respect between the two parties. Just sending a text, video clip, or ghosting is totally disrespectful of the time spent together. If they both cared, they still want happiness for each other.
So it is important to know what is the true cause of anger after.
The idea is that the love interest may be perceived as irreplaceable, not that there are not other options
She is right. I've been on dates with lots of women and when they want to move on to the next . I just say ok and keep it pushin. Go where you're celebrated, not where you're tolerated.
Rejected? Don't block her. Join a gym, make good money, dress well and practice your rizz. Make her see everything she missed
delete number and move on immediately. Its important to maintain self-respect. I apply the same to potential employers.
When you reject a woman she takes more personal 😂
Yeah I broke up with a girl once and she went around claiming I made her... you know. Almost destroyed my relationship with my best friend who asked me about it while recording me cause she made me out to be a scum bag. Nuts.
She really like to take everything personal actually 😅 not just rejection 😂
Always have always will
Bad bz come to the nizz🫣
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
I’ve been rejected most of life, and have adjusted to being a lone till the point I don’t find the point of a relationship. I over analyze till the point I conclude women are just a headache. It’s true, most men need learn how to be a lone because that’s how you’re going to spend the most of year. Especially if you’re not consider to be attractive.
Never take a relationship advice from women
But we want to know how they think patterns.
@LEDlightisNasty 90% of all h0m!cides in the world are committed by men so that pretty much disproves your point of women being emotional. Also should we check all the statistic that say women have a much higher emotional intelligence than men?
@@alokafernando44 not that simple, its fine to understand but you shouldnt take advice from women. Like her she is talking 100% from selfish female pov. Male and female sexual strategies and interests are different.
Women don’t outright reject… they ghost. While claiming they don’t want games: meaning they want you to give while they play games. Most women are not to be taken seriously
Always pursue a woman gracefully and respectfully but only once. Never twice. There’s more good work to be done.
When life gives you tea......teabag her....
Yeah no. The times have changed. No high value man would play a game on a woman’s terms. It’s about equal footing and not the man chasing breadcrumbs. Id say the same from the woman’s perspective.
The gracious way to handle rejection is to improve yourself until u find someone that admires you for you and vice versa.
No man should be getting rejected because they shouldn't be approaching women in the first place.
My partner of 7 years rejected me after a couple of weeks of dating. It stung me bad and the natural response was to push back.. I decided to cut contact with her. I said okay sorry it didn’t work out and good luck for the future. A week later she came back grovelling with a card and presents 😂 can’t help but remind her of this! We now have a son together and are closer than ever so just goes to show this is solid advice.
Greatest way to handle rejection is to find someone hotter and make sure she sees it. Bet she won’t want to reject you then. Then you reject her. 🤷♂️
Stay petty my friends
Respect your own view but not necessarily only a woman/hot but getting other things that makes you happy with or without a woman. Self improvement and self-respect is important
Women need to teach each other how to reject a man's approach gracefully. Too many women are downright rude.
I wonder why? Men usually don’t know when to quit and it’s annoying
@@amazinggrace313no offense but how would you know.
@@amazinggrace313
your comments are annoying
@@artvallejos1460 you’re welcome 😉
@@amazinggrace313 women should just say yes then?
Imagine being straight forward. It eliminates all the games and mixed signals
I hear you F#$% the games be straight up
I would like for women to actually see how it feels to be rejected, like we do
They freak out most of the time but it's totally exceptable when they do it.
Women will sometimes reject you if they think you’re out of their league. It’s like they’re rejecting you before you have a chance to reject them. That’s how much they fear rejection. This chick needs to focus on getting women up to par.
When you reject a women she will be obsessive over you witch will cause you to reject her even more. No matter how hot she is
I catch myself agreeing a lot more with this women than all the red pill podcasts. She is spot on every time.
Agree with her on what?
That she wants the guy that’s not into her to be persistent (cause she’s showing interest). But the guy who’s actually into her needs to get a clue and back the fuck off cause she’s waiting for the guy that doesn’t want her.
Her soft spokeness is a form of manipulation, not femininity!
I was an somewhat awkward teenager with little confidence and didnt approach women figuring they would reject me. I had my virginity broke at 22 by a sexy 30 year old married woman who approached me. She seen my potential and made me her project. We lasted a year and after that i gained confidence and went from a 6'2" avg slim body to add 20 lbs of muscle to 215 lbs. I grew my black hair long and being italian i tanned very easily outside with no shirt. I would get attention from women all the time that i never got as a teenager. Most men would have jumped on that. But i was a little vindictive and loved rejecting good looking women to make them feel the way they made me feel as a teenager.
dated a married woman, made me feel sick. lost all respect for her when realised what we were doing.
Behaving badly won't carry you far. Seek out the one you're interested. One of those you treat poorly may have a cousin or friend that you really want and lose her due to the poor treatment of her cousin or friend.
They say men have more emotional intelligence but you don't. You are saying you are trying to punish women for not pursuing you s3xually when you were a kid. 😅
@@johnre5342 "to make them feel the way they made you feel as a teenager"
Women don't want to have to be mean when we reject men. The thing men fail to understand is that many girls are pursued by men before we even hit puberty. I was 8 on a playground when what turned out to be a registered s3x offender tried to coerce me into going to his apartment. We learn quickly that sweet innocent kind and niave attracts predators. Even as a teen being kind when trying to let a man down got me stalked for 3 YEARS. I'm talking death threats on recording bomb threat called into my high-school. Him showing up at my prom to make sure I was alone. This was a grown man. I was 16 to 19 during that time.
Women can act mean and aggressive because we've been conditioned to have to be. I'm still kind when I reject but at the slightest sign he didn't respect my rejection I'm prepared to turn into a shrew
So you move from your wounds instead of healing them. You’re still broken no matter how you look outwardly
When men start focusing on their careers and purpose, women start chasing men. And then we don't want anything to do with them. At all. Because we're too busy focusing on what actually fulfills us and makes us happy.
The worst is when you do this have everything to gather and a "Conferfiet " loves comes to mislead you .
Sometimes in the phase of rejection you discover who they really are, and that is not the same as finding negative things about them to make yourself feel better. You sometimes realize you never really knew them and you are better off without them.
Cheat code: just focus on yourself, your hobbies and your friends. Create an awesome life and watch the right person come to you. That's all that it is. Looking after yourself is a catch all way to get what you want in most aspects of life. Just do that.
If a woman doesn't want you, just walk away. For all of you weak men, you don't need an explanation or closure. That's the movies, not real life. If you're a man, you know rejection well.
Why would a man listen to a lesson on rejection by someone who's never been rejected?
I think she's right. When I was 17 I liked a girl in my class and sent her a friend request on fb. Lmao, she rejected my request. That was my first and only rejection. I was hurt for a week but then I was like fuc* it. A few months later that same girl wanted me but I gave her a taste of her own medicine and it felt like redemption. Self-respect is what makes them like you. However, I strongly advise you to only seek out traditional women if you want to raise a family. There's plenty of good women in rural america. Don't chase the average city gal, most of them aren't marriage material and come from broken families.
embrace rejection it’s the exercise that will build your confidence and character. Also keep in mind that you are not every woman’s cup of tea. Keep your head up and keep it moving.
Walk away quickly, and never look back. You'll save your soul.
Rejection = delete. I don’t believe in second chance.
First chance = natural attraction
I made the mistake and give a women a seconds chance now im permanently damaged. NEVER FORGIVE WOMEN.
Narcissistic females think like this. The best way to handle rejection from these types of women; is to say, thank you.
Very true and very well explained. I sometimes wonder what we all need to have in order these days. 250k job , fulfilling life, six pack. Just be weary of what you wish for. If a man has all those things he might decide that being in a relationship is not worth it.
Honestly
A well paying job, fulfilling life and a six pack are not the replacement for a healthy romantic relationship.
Salty?
@@Thoughts54no but many men are struggling to “attract” in the first place so that is a significant barrier to begin with.
True. Women that are very picky eventually meet their match. They become the one rejected and they don't handle it as good as they want you to handle it when they reject you.
The gracious way to handle rejection is " block him permanently not only from mobile but also from your heart" and never ever talk again 😌
My advice is to talk to as many Women as you so please. This in turn lessens the crushing impact that comes with rejection. Because you have a plethora of other options to choose from. Works for me till this day. I gotta stable of at least 10 women in my rotation, and its all good so far.
When a woman rejects you walk away and never look back. After she's been ran thru by a few guys she will come back looking for you.
I have yet to see anything different in my 56 years on this planet.
This is true. It’s actually quite annoying when a rejection isn’t accepted or understood for what it is.
You actually like the persistent, because by nature women love attention
@@Ivanzter that's a misconception.
She is always on point
In short. When she pulls away, and becomes disrespectful, it’s time to go. No arguments, no tears no yelling no accusations just
bye. Don’t ask for or accept a second chance. remember women have their back ups in their DM’s. Could be five ten 15 guys. Seems as though we’re easily replaced. But no one can replace yourself. The more you become who you want to be the more irreplaceable you are to yourself. Once you love yourself enough to self actualize, to love yourself as much as you think you loved her, then you can live with yourself without anyone else. Then you’ll understand there’s always another woman coming around the mountain when she comes.
I have found the best way to treat anyone who treats you as a rejection, is do the exact same back, they always fold first, and then i just show no interest at all!!
Never chase them !!!!!
As humans we have the tendency to get attached and when the woman feels that they don’t like it.
Facts, I got a coworker who is in love with me, we are really close and I like him, but as a person not in a romantic way…I told him MULTIPLE TIMES, that I didn’t like him like that, and he proceeds to tell me that “yes, I do like him”🤦🏽♀️ I den had to stop talking to him multiple times, cause he’s overbearing, comes to talk to me every chance he gets etc…I think now he gets it, after 1 year of me tellin him that I don’t like him lol 😅 men sometimes are clueless and think women play hard to get, but when a woman really wants you, you will know, and you won’t have to wonder about it.
Yall are close? You just don’t like him romantically? You’ve straight up said this to him multiple times? How are yall close then, if he wants a relationship and you don’t?
@@travmarquee3213 YES! I’ve told him multiple times straight up, and other coworkers even have asked me why I don’t like him like that…we are close because he’s like one of the main people I talk to at work, he’s easy to talk to and understanding, and we literally can talk about everything but there’s other things about him that I don’t want in a partner and ikno we wouldn’t work in a romantic relationship. He even has invited me out a couple times but I always tell him no.
idk... Women are too Complex creatures to understand so i don't bother. I will simply just marry the first woman who takes interest into getting to know me.
Everyone who is reading this comment. Please don't listen to people on the internet.
Back then when we didn't had the social media Everyone was just them selfs and happy. People tried to just be good humans. Now Everyone is on the internet Please let go.
That's because these are the men without options.
Men need to just ignore women who play games of any kind. Playing "hard to get" is a red flag. If they cant be open and honest at the beginning of the relationship they never will. Leave them to their box wine and cats and move on King.
After rejecting me , she said, I can’t believe you didn’t fight for me. I said no I didn’t , time and effort I was going to put into you , I’m going to put in my projects , work and gym. She was not happy and I didn’t care .
There’s a difference between acknowledging a woman’s beauty and us actually wanting you. A stuck up woman is in our eyes the worst of the worst. The reason men become abusive is because it’s very disrespectful in our eyes for you to
1. Assume just because we compliment you we actually want you.
2. Ignore us as if you didn’t hear the compliment (stuck up) in our eyes the beauty you thought you had drops below the sloppiest woman that’s why you see men with ladies you feel as why did he pick her well because beauty is also on the inside.
3. They become abusive because they feel disrespected by your attitude. I’m not saying their reactions are right. I’m just giving you the male perspective because women think differently for men.❤
First rule: Never listen what a woman says... Just dont be a simp...
Great way to handle rejection is to never recognise her again 😂
from she reject you move on to the next one simple lol dont play mind games with women now if she comes back and lets you in give her that same energy then leave her alone because she was letting other dudes crak her when all of that was going on😂dnt be fooled by women gents
What about using common sense, no means no, and facts don‘t care about your feelings. Rejection is way more honest than landing in her friendzone. You should never ever try to start a relationship with the goal to get you out of your misery or out of a state of being needy. Might be a booster at first, even if it just exists inside your head, but the fall is even harder, if your desires remain unfulfilled. Maybe it‘s just you need a little extra time to take the next step (e.g. seeing relationships as a journey to grow with someone else instead of seeking them for validation or maybe being talked into it by others) in becoming who you really are and your time to shine will come with that.
Well said
can't trust half of what women say.
We're human desire for validation from others is natural and we all need it to some degree otherwise it affects our mental health..
This is a great note, living your best life and not having a fragile ego. People who can't handle rejection are not only egotistical, they don't even know how to connect, it is all about "I" to them..when rejected the smoke is lifted and they expose their true self....Men, do the work, remove the ego.
This needs to be taught early in school years so kids grow up to be more sensitive of others feelings
She was right about most of this, except one thing... If a man starts to insult a woman after rejection it doesn't show low self esteem; it shows he noticed her flaws, but chose to ignore them over the need to explore his sexual desires.
@ricoburnett He accepted her as for what she was, until she rejected him.
@@RahulCKapatkar I'm a man and we notice all flaws, but choose to overlook them. Everyone has flaws so you don't make sense. Some guys choose to overlook them just for the possibility of sex. He probably thought she wasn't all that to begin with to reject anyone.
I guess I'm completely screwed then. I don't find anything enjoyable, my life is boring and dull. Work, gym, sleep. So I guess I'll never have a woman be interested in me.
You will, friend
Not accepting our rejection is not about a guy not having a life, it's the not listening, not hearing, becoming super creepy by pushing for a self-centered agenda that I don't share in. It gives me rapist vibes. If you are not respecting my no when I reject you, you will not respect my other no's either.
It's not about rejection,it is the mind games women play with men,keeping men in friend zone as back up boyfriends or getting if he moves on after you rejected him.these things make us angry as we can handle rejection but not we can't tolerate someone being an outright hypocrite and an emotional abusive narcissist.also women resort to reputation destruction when rejected and many times start sexually abusing the men who rejected them.
This gives of creepy psycho criminally insane vibes.if you can't handle rejection and are a hypocrite then you will be an abusive hypocrite resorting to maniacal ways then you also will not respect his other no's as well and will start those tactics narcissists employ
@@plawandey3715that’s on you to allow someone to treat you that way. A girl will treat you like dog shit but you stay because she’s hot and land in her friend zone. This is showing me that you are weak. A woman will respect you more when you act indifferent and walk away
@@plawandey3715 Sucks that you have such bad experiences with women. I'm a woman that never played mindgames and never had back up boyfriends. In fact I have been single and celibate since 2016 due to the pain of breaking up with a man that I was with for a long time and betrayed me. But yea generalizations have their place.
Yeah it’s all situational and relative. I’ve never lingered in anyone’s friend zone. ThT would be my fault.
Agreed and it’s concerning his many men here are seeing rejection as game playing. Thats rapey as hell
Take Rejection graciously don't abuse her and don't say bad about her
One girl reject me 4years ago till today I have very good relationship with her I play with her son sometimes I pick her son from school and drop him whenever her husband is out of town she need anything she call me I always gave gift her on b.day .We share very good bonding
Hey You 👋 You spoke the truth ; I have experience both of them... Peace 🕊️
I think it also depends on people's wounds and past experiences. Sometimes women do want someone who tries again a couple of times after an initial rejection just to make sure if he's actually interested in "you" or just throwing a fishing line and seeing what gets caught.
Things can be so confusing these days and there's a lot of pain and hurt and self-preservation around ☹️
Fight Harder? He'll NO ! NO MEANS NO, Lonely Cat Lady. I Thank GOD for EVERYTHING I GET and EVERYTHING I DON'T ! What I DON'T Care for is the Second Chances, and NEW INTREST. You said NO, Then Move On , Bye Felicia. Women DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT. That is why So Many are Sad and Lonely.
You sound sad and lonely
Women need to stop all the games!
Rejection is a womans right not a game
@@LN-jr6njno he ment what he mentioned. WOMEN PLAYING GAMES IS THE ISSUSE
Coach Corey Wayne is spot on....
Just make sure the rejection is clear. Some rejections are confusing and some women play with men's interest and affection because they may want something out of it in the future.
Those are the validation seeker. Absent father, + a lot of male orbiters. Just ignore them.
Fellas women in general are a waste of time. If she rejects you, find a new chick. There's no dearth of them !!
Oh and another thing for you good men when these women are flirting with you they want something out of you just remember they're sleeping with someone else in the background
the more partners a female has had the more damaged she will be
You do have to have other women lined up. That’s the secret to abundance (or common sense)
I say take back some of that power and always have a side chick. It's simple fellas just level up the game
Funny you say that. That's what i used to do. When you have someone on the side then the one you like is not that important. And when she sees that she will be more interested in you.
i really hate that idea. sadly though women just a bad bet now unless been living in a convent on a dessert island.
Your Mindsets are so incorrect. Just heal for another woman. You cannot survive ALONE.
lol. You are adorably naive.
As a woman I've seen that backfire badly on more than one man. My boss for one. He had several good women interested in him. He would always go for good girls who didn't party and they would get devoted to him and he would tell them he was just dating her exclusively. Then they would find out about eacbother. He lose both and have to go hunting again. Then he lost his good job too and hasn't found a decent job since. Also my ex did the same. He had a wife (me) who he described as being built like a Victoria Secret model and a good girl who never partied and was totally devoted to him. Cheated while I was pregnant with the child he asked for. Now he's alone living in the same crappy apartment he was in 15 years ago.
There is no weak men in this world. Never underestimate any man.