Lucas Hedges Discusses How His Sexual Identity Exists On A Spectrum

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  • Опубликовано: 26 окт 2024
  • “Boy Erased” co-stars Lucas Hedges and Nicole Kidman talked with Ellen about their new drama, and the young actor discussed how he views sexuality on a spectrum, and not as black and white as most people believe.
    #LucasHedges
    #NicoleKidman
    #BoyErased

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  • @mathieulachapelle5744
    @mathieulachapelle5744 6 лет назад +2129

    "Fluid" does not mean "confused" people. It just means that he will embrace whoever comes at him without asking himself any questions. Love at its finest.

    • @AliceP.
      @AliceP. 6 лет назад +15

      Sorry in advance if I misinterpreted your comment, but I don't think she implied that fluid means confused.

    • @mathieulachapelle5744
      @mathieulachapelle5744 6 лет назад +32

      @@AliceP. She did not indeed. I'm only responding to some comments I've read :)

    • @alankarjoey258
      @alankarjoey258 6 лет назад +1

      Love at it's finest

    • @mathieulachapelle5744
      @mathieulachapelle5744 6 лет назад

      @@alankarjoey258 Saw my mistake. Woops!

    • @raindropsneverfall
      @raindropsneverfall 6 лет назад +13

      Oh, you mean bisexual.

  • @weasley2o13
    @weasley2o13 6 лет назад +202

    I love how respectful Lucas is and how emotional and exposed he was when he talked about his own sexuality. The word 'fluid' is a word I've never heard before in that context and I will let it guide me through my future relationships (95% hetero at the moment but his courage and choice of words had definitely just inspired me to be more open to experience). So thank you, sweetheart. Just thank you.

  • @chiarazero8
    @chiarazero8 6 лет назад +867

    To all of you saying “so he’s just bi and confused”, You still don’t get it, do you? To me he didn’t sound confused at all when he said he identifies somewhere in the spectrum and no, it’s not the same as saying “I’m bisexual”.

    • @onelia3058
      @onelia3058 6 лет назад +7

      chiarazero8 so what is he?

    • @mirandapow2230
      @mirandapow2230 6 лет назад +6

      so what does it mean

    • @LeeKeels
      @LeeKeels 6 лет назад +51

      @@onelia3058 We aren't "whats". Why do you need to know something so specific. It's sooooo simple. You can be attracted to ANYONE, ANYTIME.

    • @LeeKeels
      @LeeKeels 6 лет назад +33

      @@mirandapow2230 What is there not to understand? You can be attracted to anyone, anytime, regardless of their gender or sexuality.

    • @laceyrein3223
      @laceyrein3223 6 лет назад +32

      Lee Keels that's the same thing as bi

  • @ipshita154
    @ipshita154 6 лет назад +1405

    A health teacher explaining the sexuality spectrum to 6th graders ❤
    I wish we had these kind of people in our country.

    • @AsheshDubey
      @AsheshDubey 6 лет назад +14

      I agree.

    • @abrasivespongebob9073
      @abrasivespongebob9073 6 лет назад +30

      Yeah, it would have saved me years of misery and confusion to have heard that as a kid.

    • @kaishing-hon2692
      @kaishing-hon2692 6 лет назад +4

      He's from New York. So there are, at least one.

    • @masalahunty
      @masalahunty 6 лет назад +2

      Bharat Mein ye hona abhi ke liye asambhav he 😑
      ... atleast we need 10 yrs more 😶

    • @ipshita154
      @ipshita154 6 лет назад +6

      India has recently made homosexuality legal so yes it will take a little more time to make it _normal_ in the eyes of Indians. But I'll still say you're lucky, because in my country homosexuality is still punishable by law so...

  • @bradley583
    @bradley583 6 лет назад +214

    Nicole Kidman looks so beautiful!

    • @Disney65Fan
      @Disney65Fan 6 лет назад

      She reminds me of Amy Adams(When Nicole had red hair)

    • @iraklisinger
      @iraklisinger 3 года назад

      Yes! I admire her so much!

  • @katykins2010
    @katykins2010 4 года назад +29

    I will watch anything with Lucas Hedges. He’s so wholesome and can play any type of role you hand him

  • @VitoriaAlves258
    @VitoriaAlves258 6 лет назад +460

    i'm surprised ellen didn't mention ryan gosling cause we know that crush it's real

    • @Murgatroydian
      @Murgatroydian 6 лет назад +16

      Vitória Alves She might be playing hard to get.

    • @sethmorgan5767
      @sethmorgan5767 5 лет назад +5

      Jensen Ackles 😍😍😍😍😮❤️

  • @ChickenAlfredo.
    @ChickenAlfredo. 6 лет назад +375

    Seriously what's the point of him explaining his sexuality when everyone is just gonna define him how they want.

    • @da96103
      @da96103 6 лет назад +68

      It is not for the ignorant. It is for the young people who feels alone (and also the not so young as well).

    • @jazzyroly
      @jazzyroly 6 лет назад +8

      Because he’s doing a movie about conversion therapy where people are told their sexualities are wrong.

    • @lisakwan3770
      @lisakwan3770 6 лет назад +18

      Sexuality is something that's deeply personal, not a label for others to give you. This is how he understands his sexuality and he's allowed to talk about it if he wants to !!

    • @ChickenAlfredo.
      @ChickenAlfredo. 6 лет назад +9

      ​@@lisakwan3770 I don't think anyone said he wasn't allowed to talk about his sexuality, at least not in my comment. My comment was directed to the people commenting about his sexuality and labeling him how they wanted even though he explained how he really identifies. My issue was with the ignorant people commenting, not him. I support him completely because I also exist in that same spectrum as well.

    • @gayvanguard3937
      @gayvanguard3937 5 лет назад +2

      Because he thinks people can change their sexuality which is just wrong

  • @infinitesprings
    @infinitesprings 6 лет назад +63

    Seriously people! What right do any of us have to define what Lucas is or isn't. Only he has that right. Only he knows what he is. Not us. We are not in his head reading his thoughts, or in his heart feeling his emotions. We cannot define what anyone is sexually, except ourselves. So seriously, quit twisting what he says and acting like you know what he is better than he does. You don't.

  • @Nazaba09
    @Nazaba09 6 лет назад +122

    I actually believe ellen when she says she’s confused around justin Timberlake. 😂

  • @eilrahc101
    @eilrahc101 5 лет назад +10

    I saw this movie last night. It gave me anxiety watching it, I was having full on palpitations it got me so angry. They did a fantastic job. Can’t wait to read the book. Beautifully written, beautifully portrayed, just beautiful. Even with the anxiety ❤️

  • @Olivia-co9ok
    @Olivia-co9ok 6 лет назад +211

    I believe everyone is on that spectrum they just never admit it just my opinion

    • @nellsea8086
      @nellsea8086 5 лет назад +22

      My thoughts exactly it's just their ego and morals that won't let them accept the fact that humans can literally be attracted to any gender they want to people love to put themselves in categories

    • @RosePetal17
      @RosePetal17 5 лет назад +2

      I agree with you Olivia. I've always been attracted to both sexes!

    • @inkyguy
      @inkyguy 5 лет назад +1

      I believe humanity is on that continuum. I don't believe every person is because that is not my experience nor the experience of a number of individuals I've known very personally. However, I think far, far more people fall on somewhere more in the middle of that spectrum than they care to admit.

    • @neamhdhlisteanach6720
      @neamhdhlisteanach6720 5 лет назад +3

      not really.. I can only find attraction in men and it’s never worked with women.

    • @alexarose6292
      @alexarose6292 5 лет назад +1

      i’m gonna say no on that one chief

  • @RosePetal17
    @RosePetal17 5 лет назад +5

    Lucas mentioned his Gym teacher and I believe Masters and Johnson talked about sexuality and the spectrum. I agree with this philosophy.

  • @talia8515
    @talia8515 5 лет назад +48

    he’s not confused his sexuality fluidity is valid; love lucas so much 💖

  • @hinhwood1629
    @hinhwood1629 6 лет назад +303

    Conversion therapy doesn't work. God works though. And God loves you as you are. No other human has the right to tell another how to be or who to be. That's is against God's plan.

    • @atrixsauza2068
      @atrixsauza2068 6 лет назад +3

      HinHwood that's apparently your god

    • @neamhdhlisteanach6720
      @neamhdhlisteanach6720 5 лет назад +2

      Conversion therapy is usually done through “god”

    • @mirage6222
      @mirage6222 5 лет назад

      @Dan C. Who said that, cuz we don't have really proofs of that, except for you know....the Catholic Church 😂

    • @mirage6222
      @mirage6222 5 лет назад +2

      @Dan C. Who do you think manipulated the Bible to say slavery is good, women should do what a men say, when it was convenient 😂?
      Yeah, sure it was Jesus 😂

    • @shaan0121
      @shaan0121 4 года назад

      @Dan C. oh and you know the people that study into peoples mental wellbeing, conversion therapy and depression correlates. If your God supposedly doesnt agree with who you are then whys that.

  • @myvalley109
    @myvalley109 5 лет назад +9

    I love the way he explains his own sexuality, because I actually find myself in a similar situation.

  • @veryeyeofnight
    @veryeyeofnight 4 года назад +5

    This knowledge could clear a lot of people's minds. My god, what a relief to say that. A SPECTRUM.

  • @niveditabhalla7230
    @niveditabhalla7230 5 лет назад +7

    Idkw but I was just like ' lucas don't be so nervous Ellen won't eat u up'
    Such a sweet guy.

  • @TimeIdle
    @TimeIdle 5 лет назад +8

    Nicole Kidman looks lovely and relaxed and natural here.

  • @Whooadizz
    @Whooadizz 6 лет назад +201

    So he confirmed 'fluid'. No more confused to Ellen. Congrats for everyone

  • @dandindan
    @dandindan 6 лет назад +8

    i need the longer version of this video, Ellen!!! i want to see Lucas more!

  • @carlosdanielreyesmartinez8063
    @carlosdanielreyesmartinez8063 5 лет назад +3

    Honestlt i really needed to hear this I sometimes get those days where I feel like I'm faking something cause I dont want to admit I'm something else. And today was one of those days I'm happy this showed up in my recommended

  • @gracetaylor4429
    @gracetaylor4429 5 лет назад +3

    Nicole Kidman always dresses so beautifully . ( also just watched the movie , dark but beautiful )

  • @GuillaumeHadjean
    @GuillaumeHadjean 5 лет назад +4

    I can't even explain how much I love these three persons

  • @JoaoVictor-me8fq
    @JoaoVictor-me8fq 6 лет назад +11

    Nicole keeps getting even more stunning

    • @lee-annebarrett366
      @lee-annebarrett366 2 года назад

      She isnt naturality stunning anymore, plenty of money for her regular cosmetic procedures helps..

  • @rizzy2120
    @rizzy2120 5 лет назад +2

    He is what is nobody can define him a label only he can honestly

  • @edvinkingston5912
    @edvinkingston5912 6 лет назад +42

    HIS SO CUTE!!! 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

  • @SimplyyDaniell
    @SimplyyDaniell 6 лет назад +7

    He’s so beautiful Omg

  • @gautamsinha878
    @gautamsinha878 5 лет назад +2

    Lucas Hedges was Good in Boy Erased.....Brilliant in Ben is Back !! Cheers from India!!

    • @adolfoalbornoz3730
      @adolfoalbornoz3730 5 лет назад +1

      also in "lady bird" he played excellent! in few words: he's a very talented young actor who will reach many goals and awards!

  • @somescrub8951
    @somescrub8951 5 лет назад +7

    Just watched the movie yesterday I cried

  • @ayush9791
    @ayush9791 6 лет назад +22

    I was so scared Ellen was going to say Tom Cruise

    • @da96103
      @da96103 6 лет назад +6

      Tom Cruise does not want to come to Ellen's show anymore.

  • @datemike1021
    @datemike1021 6 лет назад +32

    No clip with Troye? AAAARGH!

  • @Pos608
    @Pos608 5 лет назад +8

    Protect this man

  • @river165
    @river165 6 лет назад +2

    sexuality is fluid and if you can not grasp that, then keep your opinions to yourself, especially if you feel the need to say something negative. each person loves differently. i’m sure i don’t love the same as you, just as you don’t love the same as the next. it doesn’t mean anyone is confused, it simply means they ware open to love; and love is love, after all. no gender or sexuality, no matter how much you press for there to be.

  • @kirajai4774
    @kirajai4774 6 лет назад +36

    THANK YOU ELLEN!

    • @kirajai4774
      @kirajai4774 6 лет назад +3

      Ans THANK YOU LUCAS for even being willing saying such "controversial" stuff on tv!

  • @maeinureyes
    @maeinureyes 6 лет назад +51

    Omg you generation today always making things so complicated.... look as long as he’s happy I’m happy for him! Also Nicole looking so beautiful love her!

  • @erenkutluk
    @erenkutluk 6 лет назад +31

    Please it's middle East I love my closet

    • @samar2621
      @samar2621 6 лет назад +4

      same

    • @chidozienkemdirim6393
      @chidozienkemdirim6393 5 лет назад +2

      i hope you love yourself but i know you also realize how dangerous it is to come out in a plac like that

  • @MrGyftario
    @MrGyftario 5 лет назад +3

    Aaah. Just saw the movie. Thank you for my new eye bags. Nooot!!! This movie is a diamont.

  • @jobaholiday9829
    @jobaholiday9829 6 лет назад +3

    seriously ? the miseducation of cameron post came out before this and no ones talking about that. it’s like the same story line

  • @MoMo-MCMLXXXVI
    @MoMo-MCMLXXXVI 4 года назад +2

    I loved this movie Boy Erased 💜🧡💙💛💚❤️

  • @sw9618
    @sw9618 6 лет назад +5

    Totally off topic here, but anytime I see calf-length white socks and plain white shoes, I just imagine nurses or patients in a mental health institution? Does anyone else get that vibe? Way too white for me so I cringed a bit when the camera zoomed out. Anyway, back on topic, I may be confused about a lot of things, but whatever anyone says about her face bc of surgery, I still think Nicole Kidman is beautiful.

  • @AHeartsCalling
    @AHeartsCalling 3 года назад +1

    This film is amazing. Highly recommend others to watch it.

  • @aaronhedges4082
    @aaronhedges4082 6 лет назад +82

    Look at that we have the same last name

  • @Aimzy
    @Aimzy 6 лет назад +22

    I can't wait to see it.

  • @thethebest3263
    @thethebest3263 4 года назад +2

    Lucas is such a great actor

  • @mp3holder94
    @mp3holder94 6 лет назад +3

    Nicole Kidman’s laugh lol

  • @rameenjk
    @rameenjk 5 лет назад +7

    Has she called troye yet? She needsss to bring troyeee!!!!

  • @joelvasquezvillanueva4997
    @joelvasquezvillanueva4997 6 лет назад +15

    I love nicole

  • @bloodyhetza
    @bloodyhetza 5 лет назад +2

    Nicole Kidman is a spectacular actress.

  • @mayaarana4283
    @mayaarana4283 6 лет назад +1

    His teacher sounds amazing.

  • @rebeccabeebe1
    @rebeccabeebe1 6 лет назад +1

    What's even more messed up is the director of Love in Action( the one portrayed in the movie) is now happily married to a man

  • @mirandapow2230
    @mirandapow2230 6 лет назад +8

    did ellen just come out as fluid

    • @LeeKeels
      @LeeKeels 6 лет назад +25

      The thing you need to understand, that will help you make sense of this, is that we are ALL fluid. You may lean far to one end of the spectrum, and I may lean far to the other, but we are ALL fluid. Sexuality is not defined 100% in any direction.

    • @da96103
      @da96103 6 лет назад +2

      Professionally, I bet Portia tells her that Ellen can flirt with the guys on the show but flirting with the girls. Same as Mrs Corden telling James that he can flirt with the guys but not the girls.

    • @LittleHomieLightningtech
      @LittleHomieLightningtech 5 лет назад

      @@LeeKeels were not all fluid idiot

  • @simonesun2390
    @simonesun2390 6 лет назад +20

    I miss troye🤩

  • @rajumb4178
    @rajumb4178 6 лет назад +2

    you.r the inspiration form every one mam I like you do this thing's for people I hope you do more for people thanks 👌

  • @widowswail888
    @widowswail888 6 лет назад +1

    Ahh excited for this guy!!

  • @anajuliaribeiroderezende1437
    @anajuliaribeiroderezende1437 3 года назад

    The movie is amazing. And scaring, of course.

  • @estadoagridulce
    @estadoagridulce 6 лет назад +1

    i love him so much right now.

  • @vikrantkulkarni1241
    @vikrantkulkarni1241 3 года назад +1

    Well, so guys do have a chance. Good to know.

  • @michaelasuorsa
    @michaelasuorsa 6 лет назад +1

    Him:sexuality is a spectrum
    Ellen:Yeah I get confused when I’m around Ryan Reynolds, Justin Timberlake, it could go on.
    HAHAHA

  • @despicable-ali
    @despicable-ali 6 лет назад +3

    Haha I'm confused anytime I look at ryan Reynolds or justin Timberlake too 🤣🤣

  • @deprataone389
    @deprataone389 6 лет назад +16

    I don't care if he's bi, straight, or g*y, He's such a best actor and I can't wait to see his movie.

  • @raxxit18
    @raxxit18 5 лет назад +1

    On reel and in reel. Same hand holding move :) 1:40

  • @rushdialrashed9627
    @rushdialrashed9627 5 лет назад +2

    Greetings from Dubai.

  • @yangcc2956
    @yangcc2956 5 лет назад +1

    I love him he is so handsome and cute

  • @ahnyaevans4507
    @ahnyaevans4507 6 лет назад

    Normally that would be pansexual but I understand that some people don't like labels

  • @momohachmy9837
    @momohachmy9837 6 лет назад +1

    I just saw the movie 3 best actors Russel and Kidman
    there's two things can't be changed my sexuality and you being my father

  • @schannstewart9385
    @schannstewart9385 6 лет назад

    Had a friend a long time ago go to conversion camp. He was bunking witj many boys at a time in one room and could not communicate with family or friends.

  • @icepalmhearthgold338
    @icepalmhearthgold338 6 лет назад +7

    I love Lucas!!! ;-)

  • @JA-hj4fj
    @JA-hj4fj 3 года назад

    what site can this movie be watched on

  • @gayvanguard3937
    @gayvanguard3937 5 лет назад

    Isn't he playing in a movie about how messed up conversion therapy is yet he says he is sexually fluid implying that everyone is which is just wrong and homophobic

    • @inkyguy
      @inkyguy 5 лет назад +3

      You're making a huge logical leap there. Describing his own sexuality implies NOTHING about anyone else's.

  • @wl03bu
    @wl03bu 5 лет назад +1

    We only want to know if we have a chance with him.

  • @btw2217
    @btw2217 6 лет назад +7

    Queen Atlanna💙

  • @JoeyBoya
    @JoeyBoya 6 лет назад +1

    Love ❤️ this

  • @abena__kinaataba7546
    @abena__kinaataba7546 6 лет назад +6

    It my dream to see u ,Ellen

  • @vosharap
    @vosharap 4 года назад +1

    Hedges!

  • @ElegantSkies
    @ElegantSkies 5 лет назад +1

    So he's basically Pan? :∆

  • @posmaster22
    @posmaster22 5 лет назад

    as long as there are people willing to pay for conversion therapy it will exist, legal or not.

  • @korribier-lo3nm
    @korribier-lo3nm Год назад

    I love it

  • @Roy-G-Biv
    @Roy-G-Biv 6 лет назад +4

    beautiful!!

  • @rajmondnemeth
    @rajmondnemeth 3 месяца назад

    You just have to look at him and you can see that he doesn't like girls!
    But, he is very handsome, he suits me very well, but very.

  • @Disney65Fan
    @Disney65Fan 6 лет назад

    This sounds like Love Simon

    • @thanostsarbos1197
      @thanostsarbos1197 6 лет назад

      Disney65Fan Um...completely different

    • @ahnyaevans4507
      @ahnyaevans4507 6 лет назад +1

      No it doesn't......
      They are both about LGBT that doesn't mean it's the same plot

  • @juju_daughteroftheKing
    @juju_daughteroftheKing 4 года назад +1

    Only Jesus Christ the creator can change us... you just have to ask... God bless you 💙💜

  • @suzannaramirez9689
    @suzannaramirez9689 6 лет назад +2

    Thank you👍😘
    ellen😙😙

  • @ItsChurchieYall
    @ItsChurchieYall 6 лет назад

    What about leelahs law?

  • @andrealugo6524
    @andrealugo6524 6 лет назад +2

    That’s cool tho

  • @alexandrafranco5752
    @alexandrafranco5752 5 лет назад

    Is he considered pansexual?

  • @paolo2803
    @paolo2803 6 лет назад

    *So i have confusion*

  • @pjtiger10
    @pjtiger10 5 лет назад +1

    Who....edited this? It’s a disaster

  • @Azarath_Metrion_Zinthos
    @Azarath_Metrion_Zinthos 5 лет назад

    So Lucas is Pansexual ?

    • @lt3111
      @lt3111 3 года назад

      possibly

  • @dxmxo9427
    @dxmxo9427 6 лет назад

    He so Cute

  • @Nickstrtube
    @Nickstrtube 6 лет назад +13

    it's called 'pansexual'

    • @zerobudgetproductions4201
      @zerobudgetproductions4201 6 лет назад +7

      Nick Simpson no it isn't

    • @noms341
      @noms341 6 лет назад +1

      @@zerobudgetproductions4201 it seems useless not to use a label that defines exactly what he just explains for no reason

    • @arod1577
      @arod1577 6 лет назад +6

      You really don’t understand what a spectrum means, do you? Lol
      He didn’t say his sexuality, or even specify where exactly on the spectrum he fell. He simply said that he views sexuality as one, rather than simple Black & White.

    • @rben3832
      @rben3832 6 лет назад

      You're right.

    • @userkeepinglock
      @userkeepinglock 5 лет назад +2

      no it’s called being “fluid”

  • @iwnunn7999
    @iwnunn7999 6 лет назад

    Ellen does have a thing for hot guys it would seem

  • @anoklongshir7485
    @anoklongshir7485 Год назад

    The movie got me so mad at Those people who tired to change them, jsut ....

  • @best-movieclips
    @best-movieclips 5 лет назад

    Abomination of an ideology

  • @kalidrummond8878
    @kalidrummond8878 4 года назад

    ashes of creation

  • @marionlove100
    @marionlove100 6 лет назад +4

    👍👏👏👏

  • @cedrickoh3162
    @cedrickoh3162 6 лет назад

    He's hot

  • @myplaylist7007
    @myplaylist7007 2 года назад

    * Double facepalm * I am scared for the future of the human race.

  • @alejandrafidalgo6710
    @alejandrafidalgo6710 5 лет назад +1

    hormons Ellen, hormons :)

  • @nelyang5862
    @nelyang5862 5 лет назад

    it's frustrating seeing ellen use the film so blatantly as a political platform.