This is Harder Than We Thought... Our Fertility Journey Ep. 1 | Between The Walls
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Let’s normalize having discussions about fertility in the black community. Thanks for sharing!
I agree.
her channel is not about being black. there are other race of people here that are subscribers. i wish you didnt say that.
@@spicynomad did I ask for your input? I wish you didn’t say that. 🤷🏿♀️ #STFU
I commend the strength it took to be vulnerable on this cruel place we call the internet
thank you
You never know who you're helping with your transparency.
Just to share a little of my fertility story. In Feb 2020 I had an ultrasound (I thought I was pregnant) turned out I had cysts on my ovaries the doctor turned the screen towards me and explained it and then after the ultrasound he explained to me that I had many symptoms of PCOS and it would very hard to conceive and if I did I wouldn't be able to carry to term In July I was menstruating and had VERY SEVERE pain and I actually went to the ER. Another ultrasound was done and all of my cysts had ruptured. October 2020 I found out I was almost 3 months pregnant. I had completely given up on the idea of having children. I was happy and terrified because yes I conceived but I remembered that doctor saying I wouldn't carry to term. My baby boy came at exactly 40 weeks 21inches 8lbs3oz (healthy and chunky) and his sister followed suit in December 2022
I say all of this to say everything is truly in God's timing ❤
This hit home. Husband and I have been trying for 3 years now 4 failed cycles at the fertility clinic. I can’t bring myself to take anymore medication I pray that God shows us the way. The worst thing in the world is when someone points out my age (32) and ask about children .
GOD IS ABLE
So many 32+ year olds aren’t even married yet (including myself), so God has already blessed you. I wish you the best.
32 is NOT old.
There are many 32 year olds who are child-free and unmarried.
Big up Mr and Mrs Wallace! Introduced my husband to Jessica's channel, and now her theme song is one of his favourite things to sing. 🥰 (We're newlyweds. Got married eight months ago). While Jessica's channel appeals to me, this podcast will (probably) appeal to us both given Jonathan's role as husband. Wishing you well on this journey, Mr and Mrs Wallace. 🙏🏾 Love from 🇯🇲
Thank you so much!! hopefully we can get a catchy theme song for this one too eventually lol
Great podcast! ❤I wish you well!!!
Jess you told us you cried BUT Babe I didn’t know it was going to affect MEEE like this because I have children who are almost 19 and 18 years old and I would LOVE to have more kids but of course this time I want to be Married. I’ve been engaged 3 times but they weren’t meant for me so I ended it and I’m now 38 with 2 children out of wedlock and dreaming and wanting to be married… But I know God is working on me to make me perfectly imperfect for my Husband 🖤 This touched me in sooo many ways I didn’t know how much I needed to hear this!!!!!!! Thank you to The Wallace’s #betweenthewalls
my good sisss, i completely understand that and I know God hears and cares about those desires of your heart!!
Amen sissss this is why I still and will always support and continue to watch your vlogs, podcasts and follow your streams! ♥️ I must say I absolutely LOVED how Jonathan supported and comforted you while you were speaking. God sent you him for sure ♥️
This is definitely a difficult topic and I commend you for being able to address it and speak about it with everyone. I know with my daughter it took a full year and it was honestly the worst year of my life. I constantly wondered “why me” after a year, my husband had a procedure done and we were pregnant soon after. My son however took 3 years and for some reason I wasn’t so upset by it, I just let the universe do it’s thing and told myself the right timing will come, and if I’m meant to have another child I will. I didn’t want to stress myself like I did with my first child. I wish you the best in your journey of becoming a mother ❤
Love seeing you two do this together ❤. You both did great and thanks for your vulnerability. I’m over 35 so they deem us infertile after 6 months. I remember asking God what am I missing after getting my period for the 5th time. I let it go and in target came across these fertility gummies called Pink Stork and on the bottle it says “this bottle has been prayed over”. I bought them and took them along with doing yoga and not timing sex and got pregnant. I gave the rest of the gummies to my friend and she got pregnant 2 weeks later! We now have our 2 babies 🙌🏾. Can’t 100% say it was the gummies but def could have played a role! Believing your time is on the way!
The WORD WAIT. has no timespan. We will never know why we or how long weve had to wait.
Come on now Pastor Jonathan!!! God bless both of you and be encouraged. He's definitely going to give you your heart's desire! This was a blessing!
This was an awesome episode. I felt all of your emotions. Not if, but when you become a mother, you will be a loving and wonderful one. Don't give up. Just start thanking God for your children. They are on the way. Blessed and healthy. There no way this won't happen for you guys. Praying for you.
I'm hugging you Jess...... Y'all Got This and God Got Y'all.... Lord bless dem Wallace's Lord....
Omgsh! I lost my first comment, but know that I am on the Wallace team! I'm rooting for you & know that all is well. You WILL see God's promises for your lives, be encouraged! 🙌🏾❤️
❤❤❤❤Thank you guys for the encouragement and support. I took my notebook and note those words, May the ALMIGHTY GOD continues to Bless you and your family. And really appreciate you guys.
I love y’all’s vulnerability! Looking forward to rejoicing with y’all when y’all share the news! This testimony is NOT over! Surrender the wait to God and watch how He prepares y’all for not just one but many babies to come. 🙌🏽 Praying that word infertility never eats at you in the low moments and that nobody else ever speaks it over y’all. And even if they do it’ll literally cause you to boldly say out loud “I don’t receive that!” In Jesus name.
I am walking your journey too. But like both mentioned, I am learning to count my current blessings now, embracing where I am now, not past nor future, but in the now because this to is a season in our lives. Y'alls story is mine. We are not alone.
Thank you for being so transparent. You all didn’t have to share your story, but we appreciate you! I’m praying for you both! God bless
REST AND WAIT WELLLL....A MESG. TO ME! THANK YOU BOTH...
I love you all’s transparency and I know this message is going to help so many others !!!!! I pray you all get that amazing news soon and I know with the marriage y’all have, you will get through it !!!!
I just love yall 💕. Been a long time watcher, haven't really commented or anything. But I feel so led to now. Your transparency and genuineness...wow. I pray the blessing of God on your marriage, your ministry and your family....little Jess or Jon 😊
It's when you least expect
It's God's timing
We got pregnant 4 years later and we now understand why / when God allowed
I’m still at the beginning of the video and you all are having fertility issues not infertility…if it’s not been tested that for assurance. But definitely in the fertility issues since 2017/2018 and I’ve been through so many emotions similar to you…trust me EVERY SINGLE FEELING. And you are justified in your feelings always…you’re human and anyone who has been in a similar situation know exactly what you mean when you’re expressing your feelings
This video came right on time. Me and my husband been married about a year and half but together for almost 5 years. We also wanted to enjoy each other our first year. We've been trying for almost 7 months now & I feel exactly what Jonathan said. You spend most of your life focusing on not getting pregnant that when you both decide okay let's do this that it will just happen. And it hasn't been the case. It's been a journey for the both of us accepting that getting pregnant is a lot harder than either of us thought. Thank you for sharing something so personal. Because TTC can feel so lonely. Sending my love to you & Jonathan has you go through this journey.
We’re sending our love to you as well! It’s gonna happen :)
Watching this on month 24 of our TTC journey...on the day of our "negative"....this is tough, and I understand everything you're feeling Jess.
Thanks so much to you both for sharing ❤
It's all about God's timing! You have the perfect plan. Enjoy each other, God, and just your process of this journey. I was 32 when I had my son, and it has been surely the best time ever!! I know God's timing is EVERYTHING!! Everything God spoke to me about what my son would bring to my life, has come to pass. God ALWAYS know what He's doing. Just trust in that. Don't be discouraged. It will happen exactly when it's time to. I know easier said than done, but I know God is faithful. Be blessed and stay encouraged!!! Prayers for you both!! ❤❤
Thank you
Thank you for sharing!! I know it isn't easy, especially when you're currently dealing with an issue. This was a lesson to me, to not just wait, but wait well. Also a lesson on stepping out on faith, like you said it's easier to talk about something after the promise has come to pass but to speak while you are dealing with it requires faith that God will come through. I'm praying for you guys & I can't wait to see how God works it out for ya'll ❤
Romans 8:18
The pain that you've been feeling, can not compare to the joy that is coming.
Hi Jess and Jonathan thank you for the strengh you have to put this subject out there. It must took you a lot of strengh to edit it, we respect that. Sending you love❤
I love y’all, that’s the comment. Just know that everything you said reached the right person at the right time in the fright place.
This is the most beautiful thing i have ever watched in my entire life,REAL,RAW,
Love it,soon Jess,soon
Lord Jess you’ve me crying at work! Praying for you
That's a Florida thing for sure
This podcast is so relatable. Thank you so much for sharing your Fertility Journey. ❤
I absolutely loved this first episode!!!!! We also are trying in our almost 3 years in. We just started trying this year though so we’re waiting as well and I just wanted to share sympathy with Jess because I also feel the same exact way and wanted to share the Bible verse That is keeping me grounded in this season Which is Second Samuel 22 verses 31 through 33 and also Isaiah 54 is a goodverse. to read Just thought I’d share these words of wisdom for a sister in need
Hi Jess and Jonathan! Just wanted to say that I’ve followed jess on her YT channel… And I loved the interaction y’all been having! And love the couple you have became! Continue to grow and love each other! I know God has a plan for you! I cannot wait for another podcast. Love you guys!! ❤❤
Good looking out for us as I’m from the UK 🇬🇧 and don’t understand any US slang. Blessed couple, everything’s going to be alright ✨
Haaa love yall. And so glad yall started the pod c. Yess Jess. He is def teaching us all to stop and embrace our season & portion.
I love that you Know God will come through. Because He Will, in Jesus Name!
Jit ( kid) is sooooo Florida😅. Love that Johnathan stopped and was like, "lets just make sure our viewers got this florida lingo translated " haaa
And yes, i feel like the Wu Tang dance is def Florida.
Im from cali but lived in Ft Lauderdale for a while around 2008 and 2012 and yeah.... Fl has its own lingo....
JIT, WU TANG, PIE, GREEN, haaaaa all things nobody anywhere else would know....
Love yall. ❤
When I'm asked I let them know about the 3 miscarriages. I have an 8 year old daughter and when she was 2 I got pregnant again but lost it then in July and November of last year had those. I got checked for everything and was told for my age (36) everything is good. My husband had 3 kids before me and we have the 1 together. He's 51.
hi jess! praying for you and your husband. everything will be alright god have yall cover. you will be blessed with beautiful kids. dont rush it enjoy while you in your waiting season. 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤❤
I know your pain Jess. My sister has 6 living 2 more she aborted because she didn't want more. She has PCOS and doctors told her she would NEVER have kids and to see her get pregnant so easily and me never having been on any type of birth control struggle for as long as i have been. Every month hurts when your period shows up.😢 Its been 6 loooonnnggg years.
Yoooo prayer does work!! && I have a testimony for that, thank you lord. 🙌🏾I wonder if at the conference that prayer did heal you. Alternatively, the doctors office could have mixed up your results with another patient - that is very common. That is a whole word, when Jonathan said you have to enjoy the season you're in now. Im glad ya'll found a podcast name, it's very clever and suits y'all. I never heard of that word/phrase -- it maybe a South Florida thing. Great first podcast, I love it 🤎#BlackLove (hang in there)
YT Niecey, God has brought you too far to leave you Now! Continue to trust Him and His perfect plan that He has for you and J.W. Now that you have shared with us, the intercessors are praying. ❤
Thanks for sharing your story . After my husband and I got married we decided that we don't want to have children . We wanted to enjoy each other and we have health issues( my husband thought that he was infertile)plus the financial part so we were very careful in the beginning and as soon as we slipped up I got pregnant and I wasn't happy about it but it's what God wanted for us .
Happy for you guys!! everything for a reason
you're a beautiful couple
What mic and audio system do you use? Looks and sounds so great! Congrats on your new show!
Because God is preparing you for your gifts and also is testing your faith....
Coming from MD I never heard of a “jit” lol but I get the concept 😂😂
Hello, Jess
I'm praying in agreement with The Most High, that he shall bless your womb. The Twins are coming! Ask,Believe it, and you shall receive Matthew 7🎉❤🤗
wait i really do wan twins so i am believingggggggg.
Drop the doctor’s office addy, we just wanna see sumn 😩 cause HELLOOOOO. Where was my phone CALL
LOLLL no literally like HELLOO????
Wheewww the ways my eyes were watering from the beginning. I’m not married or trying for kids but this was encouraging. Side note, idk what a JIT is 🫣🙈 does that stand for something lol
thank you!! and lol oops i guess he was aright hahah a jit is a kid
While pregnant with my oldest son I had an ultrasound and the tech saw something and called another tech in to confirm what the first tech saw. They wouldn't tell me anything but told me the doctor would call me. The doctor stated my sons foot was turned funny so a 2nd ultrasound was needed. That ultrasound confirmed my son would be born with a club foot. My mom told the assistant pastors wife who prayed for my son and she told me God is going to move and my son's foot would be fine. My son was born and his foot was fine as she said it would be because God told her it would be. There is power in prayer and God hears the prayers of the righteous and honors them. I'm praying God will bless you and that He will give you the desires of your heart. He's faithful and that's why He's worthy of our praise.
Hallelujah
PRAISE BE TO GOD...
Praise God!! Thanks for sharing your testimony!!
GLORY TO GOD!!! HE CAN DO ALL THINGS!!
Yes! My sister had the same thing said with her daughter, but she has no clubfoot at all! Praise Jesus!!!
Been married 10 years and when we first got married we found out that I couldn’t « carry a baby » (long story). My husband would put his hand on my belly and just pray and declare the blood of Jesus because we knew God had promised us children.
10 years on and we have 3 beautiful children, 3 very contested pregnancies BUT 3 very healthy children. Keep the faith and pray. What God promises he will fulfil. Don’t lose hope and trust HIS timing. In the meantime enjoy your marriage. You’re a wonderful couple.
Thanks for being so open and vulnerable, I pray your courage will be received with grace. ❤❤
As someone with PCOS and ovarian cysts who had her first baby 21mos ago at 34 please don’t be discouraged. What’s for you is what’s for you. Just remain positive and enjoy trying. As soon as you stop worrying about it. IT WILL HAPPEN FOR YOU!!! It took me almost 2.5yrs to conceive and I’d stopped trying the last year and got the greatest surprise. You and Johnathan are in my prayers
Definitely needed this ❤️ I also have PCOS
@@CurlsofaCPA I’m sending up lots of prayers for you sis. Your time is coming.
@CurlsofaCPA Sable I will keep you in my prayers God will do it for you too ❤
Very encouraging
Did you have positive tests during the 2.5 years?
You are fertile and you have a fruitful womb in Jesus name!
Amen
Wanting children is natural. There’s no explanation needed to why you want children. It’s human nature ❤
I’m still at the beginning of the podcast but I think people should stop asking “when yall havin kids!?” and let time tell them. U don’t have to ask you’ll c if u keep watching since you’re sooooo invested
girlll AMENNNN lol
And Jit is definitely a FL thang(broward county stand up ) 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Agreed.
I agree it is a question that I do not ask anyone. We never know someone's story.
I use to just tell people i had chemical pregnancy and a miscarriages. So They was aware that its not like we an’t trying! People don’t know how hard it can be.
As someone who got pregnant very easily I boohoo’d like a baby watching this. Thank you so much for sharing. I knew some couples struggled but I can’t believe how insensitive I’ve been around this subject. I will be better!
❤❤❤
Yea, I’ve learned to tread very lightly around this subject. Ya just never know who’s struggling
Jess I had two miscarriages and couldn’t get pregnant for 4 years ! And BOOM I got pregnant and had a healthy pregnancy and gave birth to my daughter in 2021. I thought it was due to infertility (I did have fibroids) but that wasn’t the case. I had to let go and let God do his thing. Girl y’all’s baby is already picked out by God he is just waiting for his time to provide. You will be a mother TRUST I know you will ❤.
I broke down when she said she bought 50 and she’s down to two. Praying so much for you guys . Honestly the sweetest couple ❤
thank you sissssss
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Me too
That hit HARD 🥺
Same
My husband and I waited 12 years for our daughter. The wait was HARD, but Father's (God's) timing is PERFECT! You may not understand it now, but I am a witness that you will understand it later! Stay encouraged and continue to trust Father. 💞
I started to comment in the beginning of the podcast, but the Lord told me to wait. Now that I’ve finished, I don’t need to say anything, you both get it. Just wait on him, he’s letting you know he sees you and your desires 🙏🏽 🙏🏽.
I wanted to get pregnant like 6 months after I got married…. I got pregnant 2 years later…. At that time my husband and I were not on good terms. We were literally on the cusp of divorce and then bam. I know that was God’s timing. She brought so much joy to our marriage and brought us closer together…. She’s now 4 and right after I had her I got pregnant again… she was like 6 months when I found out I was pregnant with him…
Trusting God can be a lot but his timing is everything! And once you have your first one they’re going to keep coming! Praying for you!!!
ahh God is so intentional!! i love this for you guys!!
He is… And We’ll never be able to fathom how or why he does the things that he do, but I’m grateful.
Jess, I don’t know why seeing you emotional always gets me emotional, but I totally feel always being the one who has to wait for things. I FEEL YOUU💀😭
im with you sisss
When you said I don’t want to call it infertility. I said exactly don’t call it that it’s just not in GOD timing. Think about it .Just bcuz u think your ready for something doesnt mean your ready for what you prayed for. God is not making you wait he’s preparing you.
I just watched your vlog last night and you said “I don’t know if I have enough space in my heart for a kid” bcuz u are so full from your nieces and nephews. God knows that so maybe he’s prepping your heart and making space for your child, testing if how bad you really want a baby, so when the time comes you do have a baby you put in so much effort and preparation that then you have space in your heart and appreciation for him or her!
God knows better than us! Now let me finish watching cuz I’m only 7 mins in
Yes, I was remembering she said too! Its all about timng
Hey Jess
To share my experience with your situation. This is long but I hope you and hubby read until the end.
My husband and I tried for almost 5 years before we had our 1st biological child. The doctors did diagnose me with POS and my periods were always irregular, but I never paid any attention to it before we were trying to have a baby. We tried all the fertility treatments except for invitro. It was a rough journey, but it only happened after we relaxed and let God. Enjoy your husband in the waiting and do all you can afford to do until God is ready for you to expand your family. It is going to be rough, especially when you hear about people getting pregnant whom you don't think deserves too... girl that is going to eat you to pieces. But shed your tears sis. Then perk yourself back up and keep on living. I have a cousin who didn't take care of any of her kids, and I know that because I took her 2nd child and then she had a 3rd, and that child came to me every weekend, every holiday and every summer break until she stopped coming. Then my cousin had a 4th child around the same time I was trying to get pregnant and get this she was almost 50 years old, and I was in my early 30. When I heard she was pregnant yet again I really felt like God was confused about who to bless with children. I cried like someone had died and my heart ached in my chest. A few years later my husband and I found we were 2 or 3 months pregnant. It was so random we got different due date every time I had a scan. We couldn't even pinpoint when it happened. Now we have 3 beautiful kids (16, 14, and 12 years old) along with the adopted son we had before. Yes, when the flood gates opened the kids kept coming. Only God knows when your situation is right for you to start your family. In the meantime, love God and love on your husband.
My personal advice for you though is to get rid of the pregnancy tests they will keep you anxious and you don't need that in your life.
Ah this is beautiful!! I could def understand how you felt, not that i am in that situation but i would have been so confuseddd like hello GOD?? lol but he is super faithful!
I have pcos too
Wow, this is beautiful!!!
I love this. And it’s definitely something I needed hear. What a blessing to end your journey the way God saw fit for you and your Husband. What a awesome God he is❤
For some people, no matter what it is, if you desire something so badly, pray about it and let go. Truly let it go and let God. Because once you believe and have faith, TAKE THE WORRY out and just be. It'll come when God wants you to have it 🙏🏾
Best and hardest advice to hear. Draw closer to Him, stop worrying, praise him, stay prayerful, and keep the faith. It's His Will and not yours that shall be done. When you live like this, life is more peaceful and in line with God's plan. I am speaking from a place of not having the control I wanted, but when I let go and let God, things changed for me. Thank you Jesus for my testimony!
A lot of hearts will be healed by this one, hopefully a lot of people will see why it’s important to just stay out of peoples wombs. I relate to you on so many levels. Sending love and light to you both God is working so much in your life 🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️
Thank you so so much!
I’m currently in the waiting for my own home. I keep seeing so many people, even people younger than me that are being blessed with homes and I’m like God what about me 😢. But you guys reminding me to enjoy now and find the beauty in today is sooo needed. So thank you.
Same here 😢
🙏🏽
I’m they too and the older my oldest daughter gets the harder the waiting is.
Sounds like the first doctor's office needs to be reported to the medical board for ethics violations. They were trying to to get paid at your expense with a false diagnosis. Good thing you got a new doctor to work with. You will be more blessed than you can handle in no time. No worries Jess and Jonathan. God's got you.
Right like idk what they were doing but glad I don't have to deal with them any longer. Looking forward to what God has for us
Proverbs 18:21 says, “Life and death are in the power of the tongue and those who love it will eat its fruit”. You both need to speak LIFE! There is LIFE in your womb in Jesus Name but please do not idolize having a baby! The reason your waiting could be because you haven’t been content in the your season your in. Practice patience and casting ALL your cares on Jesus! Trust that He has your best interest at heart ❤️ Wonderful podcast! Just remember to praise Him even in your hurt. He’s (Jesus) is your strength in weakness!
I pray that on your last one out of that 50 will be positive!!!!!! In Jesus’ Name ! Thanks for sharing. The wait is just a building up of the great news.
IT’S OFFICIAL!!🥹🥳we love you both and are so excited for this journey🫶🏾🤍
thank youuu!!! love y'all
The ending summed it. Allow our father to hold us in His arm and rest in His will.❤
Speaking as a practicing physician, it is not that “ we don’t want to help you yet.” It’s more of expressing that it is “normal” to not get medically concerned until 12 mo of not getting pregnant. Also we physicians also do not want to cause emotional stress during this journey because stress also affects the natural process.
I understand that. However, the first OB’s office was completely wrong for not contacting her when it came to the irregular ultrasound.
I was crying with you Jess , me and my husband are also struggling to conceive but believing God for our children to come soon . We have been married for 14yrs and yes the waiting on God to bless us with our own Children is very hard . Thank you for both your transparency I will keep you and Johnathan in my prayers love you guys ❤
A young & old lady whose wanting/desiring to be a Mother needed to hear this, so TY for your vulnerability. My Husband and I tried for 3 years, got married when I was 35. I woke up on my 38th bday and cried out to God to please bless my womb. I had a 18 yr old son but my Husband and I didn’t have any biological children together. The Elders at my church were touching & agreeing with me in prayer. My baby boy just turned 10 on May 3. You keep TRUSTING GOD! BELIEVING GOD! SERVING GOD! I’m already excited for your miracle!! 🙏🏾💙💖
Jess do not give up! Hang on you your faith. As someone with blocked tubes I feel this to the core. I have been trying for almost a decade and I finally decided to do IVF and just found out I’m pregnant yesterday. I’m overjoyed and I’m praying and believing God for you and your husband. It will for sure happen in his due time 💕
You get pregnant when you least expect it. You have to let it go! I took prenatals and just kind of manifested it on accident just believing In it and letting it go and two/three months later I was pregnant! Seemed like when I was TRYING it didn’t work but when I didn’t try it came to me. I also prayed to God for my second baby and left it in his hands. You got this babe. God will give it to you when you’re truly ready.
I find it very disrespectful to ask someone when you will be pregnant, why you do not have kids yet. What about if we turn that question into a prayer request. May God give you the strength that you need .
Literally my least favorite question! I was asked by someone that knew I had 5 losses too!! Wild!
@@EishaTaylore The audacity that people have to ask such a question is beyond my comprehension. I’m so sorry for your loss and may God fulfill your heart desires.
At 18 I had a cyst on my right ovary and it was removed and I was diagnosed with endometriosis. I was placed on birth control to regulate it. At 24 years of age with one ovary and endometriosis I became pregnant with my Son. A few years later I had my Daughter. To God be the Glory!🙌🏽
There are many ways to get to Chicago. Many roads lead there.
This is your path to pregnancy. Right where God wants you to be. Continue to Trust His plan and your path. 😊🙏🏽
This is so encouraging for someone who also had cysts removed through operations, suffered from PCOS, fibroid, had endometriosis diagnosis at 21 & doctors said my right ovary was clamped by endometriosis. I’m now 37 had my son at 25 & been praying for another child. Indeed God’s timing is best & will continue to trust in his timing.
Thank you both for being so transparent on this delicate subject. I have been where you are and it's not easy at all. Feel your emotions but don't allow them to take over. Blessings to you and your family 💕
Thank you!
Jessica, don't get discouraged. What God has for you and your husband is just for the two of you. My husband and I tried for ten years to have a baby. I had tons of procedures and surgeries questioning God, then we did IVF, and our first cycle, I got pregnant and had a healthy baby boy who is now 15 years old. God has a plan for our lives. Just stay the course, and he will give us our hearts' desires. I will continue to pray for both of you 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
I haven’t finished the podcast but I’m an embryologist in a reproductive clinic/lab and I just want you to know that you’re not alone. I think women tend to take the weight of fertility without realizing sometimes the male could play a part too. I would recommend Jonathan get a semen analysis if he’s comfortable, just to make sure everything is ok on his end. Sometimes you might just need a little more time too, but don’t beat yourself up. Fertility treatments and the talk of infertility is becoming more normalized since we are waiting a little longer to have babies.
“Glimpses of Glory in the waiting”. Jonathan you have a true gift and calling! I have a journal of quotes I jot down when the Spirit brings them to me. Several of them, have come from you Jonathan. TY.
I’ve been waiting for years, going into 11th year. We have received multiple prophecies and confirmation. We are Pastors too, holding on to his word and promises. But loving God more than my desires is key!
He is faithful and just, no matter what.
Be encouraged and remain focus on him, when our eyes begin to lose focus, we begin to sink into that dark place. Everyone around me has children sis!!!
Our waiting period is for his name sake- for his glory.
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I am so happy God blessed you with such a supportive God fearing husband Jess.
I can’t wait to hear your testimony of pregnancy and a healthy baby
Thank you so much!!
Thank you for sharing! I got pregnant naturally after being told I wouldn’t be able to. Enjoy each other and it will happen. Love you guys!
i loveeeee, God's plans are always greater
It’s in the waiting that I think we find our strength. I agree Jess he has given us so many good gifts. I will rest in the hands of the father and wait well. Prayers will continue to go up for y’all in your waiting season. I’m leaving this podcast encouraged and full! 🙏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾 God is good all the time even in our waiting ❤ Thank you both for sharing your journey.
thank youuuu
Watching this video got me emotional
Your own baby is on the way in Jesus name 🙏🏽👼❤️
Thank you :)
My husband and I got married almost 5 years ago. Our last name is Wallace too and my husband also does physically therapy, so your channel has been such a pleasure for us to watch together. The feelings you are describing are so relatable as I was also told I possibly wouldn’t be able to have children. I know that the God that we serve has a victorious plan regardless of how that plan compares to our own. Your union is definitely in our prayers🙏🏾
1.) Jit is a south Florida thing. Lol, I said it to a coworker and she looked at me like I was crazy. (live in Dallas now)
2.) Thank you both for being honest and transparent in this season, I know it was not easy.
3.)After watching this podcast a lot of Jess's vlogs are making sense.
Lastly, the best is yet to come for both of you and can't wait for the next podcasts.
I realized from the on/gyn appointments. She is one I always look forward to on RUclips. Hope you get the baby soon
Not just south Florida. I think it’s an all over Florida thing because we say it in central FL
So… help a non-Floridian out…. What is it? 😂😂😂
Whew chile, when you said you’re the poster child for waiting, I FEEL THAT! I’m in a waiting season as well. Not the same waiting season as you though. I can relate to the “God, what about me” feeling. You are not alone❤
Not sure if you’ve mentioned this, but have you tried tracking your LH levels & ovulation tests? The clear blue digital ovulation test and the strip tests at the same time are extremely helpful for knowing the perfect time to try. Also take Mucinex 2 days before you ovulate, the day you ovulate, and 2 days after. Also try preseed before intercourse. I hope this is helpful!
I have been married for 15 yrs now with no kids and the pressure people put on you is crazy!! I was a rapper so never wanted to bring kids in that lifestyle. But this is the first year we will be trying. Praying for you both. God will bless you with a beautiful baby when the time is right!! Speak it into Existence ❤
Baby girl, God is always on time. Enjoy your life, give yourself grace. He got you boo ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
absolutely
Fast - reset the body.....then "pray and stay"😊 an extended fast not a regular smegular fast
Please Read!❤
So I overheard my aunt talking about how she got pregnant😅 I was still too young for that conversation.
Anyway, I was having issues getting pregnant, and I used her method and it worked.
**After s-x, get to your bed or couch and tilt your body upside down, with your buttocks in the air. You may have a tilted womb and the sp-rm needs help traveling there.
It works.
When Jonathan read Isaiah 40:28 I burst into tears 😭 I didn’t know I needed that 💛
This episode floored me with the words of wisdom ☺️✨ 1) Don’t worry thyself because God is gonna give you what you want, when he sees it fit. 2) Live presently in the season that you’re in. 3)Even though you may not be able to soar now, walk with gratitude and trust that the Lord is working it out. 4) If you feel like you’re waiting ‘too long’ just know that God is probably still working on you. 5) Rest & Wait Well 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Lovely episode 🥰 The breakthrough is coming Mr & Mrs Wallace 🙏🏾
I understand exactly how you feel. Most days, i will wake up from bed crying, because i was praying and crying in my dreams. The Lord has done it for me. I am carrying the fruit of my womb.
Glory to God!!! 🎉