Exactly!! Please make it make sense. In almost every case, the woman was dating a man who dating down in looks to sleep with her. Or she was looking for a check from a high earner/uncle sam. She sounds like she wanted Uncle Sam's check 😂
4 kids by 3 men. STRIKE ONE. 1 Baby Daddy was shot to death, and 1 Baby Daddy is in prison. STRIKE TWO. Wants to be celibate for 2024. STRIKE THREE! You're Out!
Gaaaht damn, walking 🚩🤣🤣 I just love a SULTRY YELLABONES though. Other than Latinas, this is a nibbas kryptonite. Damn, I've even been so weak, as to deal with a chick who moved from New York to get away from her kids dad who was abusive and looking for her even after she got papers. She was so damn sexy... She was just as ratchet... I've been doing better, haven't dealt with a crazy ass YELLABONE in a while now.
@user-vj6pw9my8xcelibacy after multiple kids out of wedlock makes no sense. Why do I have to wait for something you have away for free….to the point that 4 kids have came out of it. You can be celibate, but it won’t make sense to a man with standards.
That’s cause after they got done fighting they would have makeup sex . She said he messed her face up so in return as makeup all he can give her is another baby
They always do. The absolute worst men have the most children and we wonder why our community never gets better? A black man has better luck fathering children by coming out of prison than university.
@@user-vg8ox3he1iThat's true all the women ignored me and the other brothers when I was in college they only wanted the athletes or Pookies. Some of them got with women of other races some of them have gone #Passportbros as for me I'm undecided but it seems all the attractive women are single mothers from Pookie so I'm leaning to going overseas.
@@kaciousrobinson440 you should. There are philosophies in that book that you can apply immediately to your life. If you don't buy the book, listen to the audiobook on RUclips. Once you're done with that, read 50th Law of Power, a colab with the author and 50 Cent.
Im so tired of this "I was young" excuse. Having a child as a teen is being young. Having a child 1 or two years ago and its child #4 is a result of poor decision-making
@@mikosue8694 I mean, I do wish her the best but most women like this have these outlandish standards and expectations from a man after having multiple kids from pookies who didn't meet those same requirements lol. It's okay to grow and learn from your mistakes but once you have kids from 2 men, where is that line drawn? You need to be realistic ya know?
@@A-Thomasdon't know how old your son is but I'm 27 and all the attractive women want Pookies my Dad tells me to get my passport and look overseas because I have no interest in dating outside of my race (I would be fine with a Biracial woman).
God fearing men tend to be suckers who will believe anything they are told. They have poor boundaries and are often motivated by guilt. They can also be manipulated by the Bible.
Because they aren't so bright in general. That's why men picked there daughters mate. We've lost our way.its a double standard yes...but they're necessary
If you don't believe in birth control, get married and have all the babies you want! Then those kids will be the responsibility of you and your husband and not the next man 🤦🏾♀️🙄
These people get on this show wanting someone Whole, healed and damn near perfect! But they be low vibrational, toxic, and never dealt with their trauma! Make it make sense!
lol, I said the same thing, she can't be real. and then the critique the other man and say he has no self accountability....Pot calling the kettle black..😅😂😅😂😅
After they're done with being passed around like a blunt between pookies, they start talking about being ready for a hardworking, responsible, educated man.
She waited to get ran through and now she wants a good man that’s willing to put up with her, her kids and her foolishness. Not to mention her crazy baby daddies. Lady move around with the foolishness. Find you another pookie so he can put two more babies in you 😅😅😅😅😅
In most major Midwest cities dudes are wilding out Milwaukee is not an exception in fact they're pretty bad when it comes to a lot of stats for criminality@@jucyjay8398
Not really directed towards the woman in the vid, just saying: Yall learned the word narcissist in 2023, now learn the term accountability in '24. Signed, a woman💅
With that stupid birth control answer and there is over 30 pregnant prevention and eliminations to not have a kid... no dayam excuse but she said the guy with 6 month old wouldn't hold himself accountable? Do she even know what accountable means?😂
Literally there are over 200 brands of brand name and generic birth control variations she could have tried. She could have also gotten the hormone free IUD. But nope ima let Pookie nutt in me raw with no care about H- I- V she’s disgusting
Planned parenthood is what’s destroyed black America and kept it from growing unlike other races. You do know planned parenthood was started by a racist white woman that wanted to delete all minorities, especially blacks right? A liberal of course but y’all keep voting for them and our own destruction. But unfortunately today since families is a dying custom, planned parenthood could eliminate the ratchet behaviors
She mentioned side effects from using birth control. People do have complications from birth control pills, intrauterine devices (IUD's) ,allergic reaction to shots and condoms. I wish her the best. There are a lot of methods to prevent pregnancy; it is about taking time to do the research. Be safe at there folks and protect yourself STI - sexually transmitted infections are on the rise.💞🙏🏾
@@trishag.971 there are over 35 pregnancy prevention besides abortion, and can give the kids up with No questions asked... so there is NO EXCUSE to birth kids she really don't want, in today's society. But she jumped on public assistance, and how much child support is her kids getting? Now she need help from a new man, a stepfather, a supporter, and hoping to get married.
Girl... if you don't believe in abortions and don't believe in birth control, you HAVE to believe in being selective with who you give it up to. Start judging people. Use discernment.
Seems like there are a lot of women that appear on Kendra G that either make 100k plus or they have multiple kids by incarcerated men who always seemed to be narcissists…they should form a trauma union.
@@E14days826 I said she comes off as sincere, as in she truly wants to come from a good place despite her situation. I didn’t say it would be easy for her. I’m choosing to not just slam every woman that comes on the show even if they are in over their heads, as long as they are honest about their situation and don’t come off as stuck up
Right. The things she talk about sounded cool BUT the kids and fathers. Now let’s add the character of the fathers. We also I haven’t got to the behavior of the kids. They possibly could be pure terrors.
@@TheMuscleMan2244you seem like a caring person. So I’ll let you know now. People like this young lady don’t change ever. Jesus can’t change her I promise you that.
So she expects some great man to be the first to marry her, but the 4th to have a child with her. It's very sad and still quite bizarre this has become the norm in our community.
Many of them expect this and I ask the same thing as you no husband wants to be baby daddy number 3/4 once a woman have 2 baby daddies it’s over no husband cause no man of worth or quality will come in 3rd or 4th place he didn’t work hard his whole life to be 3rd to guys who less than him hell no 😅😅😅😅
@@CliqueBait-kt9qi So are you trying to say there aren't at least 5 different Black women on this show every single week with the same situation and the exact same story? There is a reason why other people can come among us with this nonsense, they know it's normalized behavior in the Black community.
This was right on brand for most women. If a woman brings in a million dollars a year, she won't date a man that makes $250k/yr. If she has a kid, she isn't looking for a man with a kid.😏
Too bad he is no longer living and can no longer speak to or about women, whilst being an uninvolved non-financially contributing baby daddy himself that sleeps with sex workers. Ouch!
She was “young”, Nursish job, toxic relationships , was engaged, narcissistic multiple BD’s, one BD killed, one in jail, healing, dealt with domestic violence, no controlling men, be “generous”. This has to be a Kendra Bingo winner 🤦🏾♂️
BUT BUT, SHES A YELLA BONE, WITH AN ASS, KINDA CUTE, REALLY SULTRY, not gonna lie I fall for her type all the time, but younger with no kids. Many men will still go after that ass and do what it takes to get it.
These chicks fail to realize a traditional man has control, it’s called boundaries to protect women from themselves. Don’t ask for a provider and protector and leader but not have control. You don’t have to be treated like a slave but boundaries are in place to protect you
@@Scam-ishthat's literally what most men say they want so ofc women are gonna think y'all want what y'all say y'all want doofus. Unless y'all want us to do the opposite of what y'all say cuz everything you say is a lie
@@Scam-ishtrue which is probably due to the fact that so many are saying "we don't care about your education or how much money you make...can you cook and clean?" You're right it shouldn't be reduced down to just that but a lot of folks are confused because of the constant conflicting messages. I'll be the first to admit I don't know and I have yet to hear it said explicitly
@@DreamsInBlue Because no one gets better with only love and understanding. Black America is that nice broke guy that wants to be your man. You keep rejecting him because you know at some point he had opportunities to improve his situation and he didn’t avail himself of them. You don’t sit around and listen to his sob stories, either he gets right or he doesn’t, either way you’ve got more productive things to do. Am I wrong?
@@Roccofan I think that was an insightful response. I mentioned strays (or sniper fire 🫠) because this woman isn't even Black... maybe because she procreated with BM?
She responds to her baby daddy being unalived with “it’s life.” Such a nurturing woman to have in your life. Who wouldn’t want to sign up for this? 🤷🏾♂️
Youre reading too much into it. There was a male guest whose wife died of cancer that said the exact same thing and no one said a word. Youre reaching..
For real...I was like, Heffa if you were that allergic to birth control, condoms and common sense, why not just swallow the damn 🥜? Excuses, excuses and excuses
Stop. Milwaukee is a fantastic city, but just like anywhere else there is a class of people that live these type of lives. You attract what you are and when I lived in the Mil I attracted smart, thoughtful, and genuine people. Just like when I lived in Houston (college), Atlanta (grad school) and now in Chicago. Blessings
She needs that therapist, plus an exorcist, Jesus, Buddha, the Dalai Lama, Moses, Zeus, Thor, Santa Claus, Superman, Wonder Woman, Thanos, Captain America, He-Man, G.I. Joe, King Leonidis from 300, Xerses, Optimus Prime and all the angels in Heaven COMBINED together like the Power Rangers Megazord and it still wouldn’t be enough.
She claimed that she wasn't judgmental but threw the last guest completely under the bus saying that he was not accountable ans made excuses, SHE DID THE SAME THING. Has a 1 year old and kept saying I was young when it came to her ill made decisions
Ladies and gentlemen every person you get into a relationship with does not need to have a baby with you. It’s nothing wrong with just parting ways without sharing a child with an ex.
Birth control is not healthy it stops a Woman's natural flow & causes blood clots & other health problems. Not having sex & using a condom is a form of birth control as well. Smh
I want Kendra to do better with remembering which questions she already asked. Is there not a checklist ? 😩 I sit here and say the answers twice for her 😂
YEAH BABY GIRL AINT NOBODY SAVING YOU, GET BACK WITH YA LAST BABY DAD N WORK IT OUT… YOU MOVING ON TO TO MANY MEN TO FAST… HOLD THAT MAN DOWN IN PRISON
As a member of the African American community. We appreciate the love but we reject your application. Maybe Brad,chad Kyle,Luis,Paco and baljeet will take this pookiesha on 😂
We know they aren't going for this foolishness which is why their women don't do it. Black men need to follow suit and abandon these baby mamas until they get it through their dumb ass heads that good men won't tolerate used scraps.
Girl copper IUD.. they’re non hormonal. As someone that spent weeks in the ER after 6 weeks of oral contraceptives.. it can be scary but most health care professionals will talk you through alternative options.. or you can track it.. there’s really no excuse in this day and age
@@ghorn1217 or honestly.. condoms. I’m a huge advocate for sexual protection but since she has multiple children by multiple men she seems like the type that doesn’t use them
One thing that always grinds my gears is the way that these ladies explain their pregnancy. Ma'am you have an entire movement called My body My choice. This movement tells men we have zero say so on a woman's uterus yet we watched daily these ladies get on here and act as if they shouldn't be responsible for the very choice that they tell us guys we have no say so on. Make it make sense
Every excuse given except "i made poor decisions, which I regret" ... i also find it interesting how they always manage to get engaged, have the baby then miraculously no wedding . But take credit for the engagement like it was real.
“Too good just to be giving out” say the woman after 4 kids by 3 men. Now she said her cookies is worth even more after 4 babies. Make it make sense! Smh 🤦♂️
The main reason KS said you won't get anyone better than your baby daddy is because you can't have zero standards for guys who ain't shit then magically have them for someone who's actually on his business.
@@draya.7441 life isn’t linear. It’s ebs & flows. Live a little longer. Grow up some & you’ll see. Her bad choices and misjudgments are behind her NOT in front of her as long as she continues to grow in wisdom.
@@love_reka_8877 word salad just to say ya past dont matter lol typical reply from woman...we men care about yall past ...nothing u say will change that.....the shaming attempts , dont work lol
theres a part of me that wants to feel sorry for her. Mentally shes still 18, i sense struggle or abuse in her dialect. Almost certain im familiar with how she came up lol
@@mikeyy425 Undoubtedly she is emotionally immature, but feeling sorry for her doesn’t change that. She doesn’t feel sorry for those of us who will surely be impacted by the consequences of her reckless decisions. She will keep having children and half ass parent them because she is more focused on having a man, and we will pay the taxes to feed, clothe, and shelter them all. And then deal with their juvenile delinquent behavior. 🤷🏾♀️
Most ppl can see the wrongs in others but can't see it in themselves because they are "different"... shocks me everytime... that was a stay in her lane moment 😂
Thank you, Kendra, for mentioning birth control. People are having the abortion conversation like it is birth control. No one is responsible for their own bodies until it's time to consider abortion. Make it make sense!
Well there is already a high abortion rate in the black community, more have been aborted since the early 70’s to now than all other forms of deaths for bp combined the same time. That don’t include what babies weren’t formed due to birth control lol. 25% of the black population has been wiped out due to abortion. Unfortunately the majority would have lived in poverty but someone great could have been created also🤷🏾♂️🥴🥴
"I don't believe in birth control" doesn't match with "I have serious effects from birth control". How is your adverse effects from something a belief? She just wanted to have Pookies kids.
Yeah she just making shit up just like how she kept leaning on her baby daddy getting killed claiming that's why they aren't together. But she slipped up and said they broke up right before he was killed and they were "working on it" when he was killed smh . I swear if these ladies can't use the "i was young" then its the "he's a narcissist , abusive" , then its jail , then if that fails its he's dead . But they never detail if he died before they split up
@@originaldelta your right, just get a two bedroom apartment and make all six kids live in the same bedroom. Also, there's the kitchen and living room they could sleep in
This has to stop! This is becoming normalized where younger women think this is just life or can be chocked up to "mistakes" or simple immaturity, ITS NOT. You decided to selfish get into a seggual relationship with someone you did not vet, that was not worthy of a relationship, without contraception, and gave him not one top prize of continuing his legacy but 2 prizes. Leaving your child with a convict "narcissistic" father who is the devil(in her words). Do yall ever think of your childrens feeling and future? You ever think maybe try to give your children the best possible father instead of searchinh for the best possible nut. This would be the reason for me to not date you as a man. This sequence of events. Boy our future🤦🏽♀️. This is sad 😔
Yeah that's why we tell single mothers to go back to the guys they had those kids with because majority of the time the guy wasn't father material in the first place.
It’s so interesting to me that people have strong morals when it comes to abortion but not strong morals about sex. There needs to be study done.
The results are in already; they prefer raw sex and kids out of wedlock
I don't even think science can make sense of this 😂
Exactly!! Please make it make sense. In almost every case, the woman was dating a man who dating down in looks to sleep with her. Or she was looking for a check from a high earner/uncle sam.
She sounds like she wanted Uncle Sam's check 😂
They draw the line at terminating a fetus but are ok with cursing these kids with a fatherless home, chaos and poverty
Ask them if they swallowed, left seeds on their body or bedsheets, that’s abortion lol
4 kids by 3 men. STRIKE ONE. 1 Baby Daddy was shot to death, and 1 Baby Daddy is in prison. STRIKE TWO. Wants to be celibate for 2024. STRIKE THREE! You're Out!
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She probably got him shot..
Gaaaht damn, walking 🚩🤣🤣
I just love a SULTRY YELLABONES though. Other than Latinas, this is a nibbas kryptonite.
Damn, I've even been so weak, as to deal with a chick who moved from New York to get away from her kids dad who was abusive and looking for her even after she got papers. She was so damn sexy... She was just as ratchet... I've been doing better, haven't dealt with a crazy ass YELLABONE in a while now.
DOESNT EVER USE PROTECTION
@user-vj6pw9my8xcelibacy after multiple kids out of wedlock makes no sense. Why do I have to wait for something you have away for free….to the point that 4 kids have came out of it. You can be celibate, but it won’t make sense to a man with standards.
She said her baby daddy getting murdered is just life?😅 Girl no, it's literally death😅
Right 😂 hood normal 😂 just a other day!😂
Holy smokes 🤣🤣🤣
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Lol!
Hey Just Bree 👋. You be in the comments. help these young ladies out
"Why'd you have two babies by Satan?" .... Kendra hilarious 😂
It was a great question though.
Pookie Must had that satan d
Valid question
She messed up her whole mental with that question 🤯
She almost made me fall off of the treadmill with that on 😂
mind u she gave her “worst” bd the most children
That’s cause after they got done fighting they would have makeup sex . She said he messed her face up so in return as makeup all he can give her is another baby
Good sex is messing these women up
They always do. The absolute worst men have the most children and we wonder why our community never gets better? A black man has better luck fathering children by coming out of prison than university.
@@user-vg8ox3he1iThat's true all the women ignored me and the other brothers when I was in college they only wanted the athletes or Pookies. Some of them got with women of other races some of them have gone #Passportbros as for me I'm undecided but it seems all the attractive women are single mothers from Pookie so I'm leaning to going overseas.
Right 😂
This woman made me remember a law I read about from the 48 Laws of Power: Always avoid the unhappy and the unlucky.
Law # 10
I think I’m about to read that book…
@@kaciousrobinson440 you should. There are philosophies in that book that you can apply immediately to your life. If you don't buy the book, listen to the audiobook on RUclips. Once you're done with that, read 50th Law of Power, a colab with the author and 50 Cent.
Law #43 has worked for many in many situations 😉
I always avoid unlucky people too if they always have bad stuff happens it’s not coincidence it’s THEM
Not “ judging “ people is why she’s in the predicament she’s in. Smart people use discernment.
😂😮😅! I'm dead 😂
😂😂😂😂 love this comment make sense
It’s not judging when it’s your opinion that majority feels the same way
😂😂😂😂😂facts
Exactly!
Im so tired of this "I was young" excuse. Having a child as a teen is being young. Having a child 1 or two years ago and its child #4 is a result of poor decision-making
I'm with you when you right
Men accept this excuse from men at all times. It can stand for her. Immaturity can have a major effect.
@@lastnamefirst9423 I hold men to the same standards. I don't pick sides or play favorites.
@@lastnamefirst9423?????? Most of us aren’t surrounded by pookies. Take that “most men” shit somewhere else.
In a fwb relationship. Also, as we know, these women are going to do it with guys that already have women chasing them.
“I was young.” Huh? It was basically yesterday.
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I hate when they say that. The dumbest excuse ever.
😂😂
Right! That baby probably still wants breast milk!
She literally has a 1 yr old
Sigh.... What's the point of commenting on these videos anymore? I have nothing left... Nothing lol
😂😂😂 you don't think she's a good catch to have a husband? 😂
@@mikosue8694 I mean, I do wish her the best but most women like this have these outlandish standards and expectations from a man after having multiple kids from pookies who didn't meet those same requirements lol. It's okay to grow and learn from your mistakes but once you have kids from 2 men, where is that line drawn? You need to be realistic ya know?
@@mikosue8694😂😂😂😂😂😂
I feel the same way, I’m just exhausted. I told my son to just get his passport. I’m losing hope.
@@A-Thomasdon't know how old your son is but I'm 27 and all the attractive women want Pookies my Dad tells me to get my passport and look overseas because I have no interest in dating outside of my race (I would be fine with a Biracial woman).
Why do they always say they want a God fearing man after 2 or 3 baby daddies and 4 or 5 kids. SMDH
After the neighborhood had they fun , she need saving lmao
These clowns don't believe in God to them is something pretty to say
sunk cost fallacy but too late.
God fearing men tend to be suckers who will believe anything they are told. They have poor boundaries and are often motivated by guilt. They can also be manipulated by the Bible.
Because they aren't so bright in general. That's why men picked there daughters mate. We've lost our way.its a double standard yes...but they're necessary
It’s bad luck dealing with this woman. You either dead or in jail.
That's her options!
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It’s not funny, but you’re right!
I swear I know a chick like that. Like 4 dudes she was messing wit got killed or shot. 2 of them her baby father and all in front of her house. No cap
If you don't believe in birth control, get married and have all the babies you want! Then those kids will be the responsibility of you and your husband and not the next man 🤦🏾♀️🙄
Or not have sex at all!
She could tie her tubes.
@@TGFriosania23 that too
You can get get married to 3 men have 4 children and still end up in her predicament
@@akishapeters7632 it is possible but a woman with 3 ex-husbands is also a red flag 🤷🏾♀️
These people get on this show wanting someone Whole, healed and damn near perfect! But they be low vibrational, toxic, and never dealt with their trauma! Make it make sense!
No doubt you can't make this shit up I don't no what real man checking for her
maybe pookie or ray ray that's it
Then they have a while list of qualities....😂smh
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@@brianlauderdale7840 she read that list out very clearly, but didn't require that from men she allowed to impregnate her. 🙄
Right! She said she wants someone educated, but she sounds uneducated when she talks. 🤔🥴
Sometimes I pray that these are skits and are not real situations. But the sad truth is that these folks really exist.
Sorry but it’s real and this is what we deal with, even from attractive women
lol, I said the same thing, she can't be real. and then the critique the other man and say he has no self accountability....Pot calling the kettle black..😅😂😅😂😅
Naw this is the many people in the black community unfortunately
exactly lol
After they're done with being passed around like a blunt between pookies, they start talking about being ready for a hardworking, responsible, educated man.
Don't forgot God fearing...
You cant make this shit up😂😂😂😂
Lol
She waited to get ran through and now she wants a good man that’s willing to put up with her, her kids and her foolishness.
Not to mention her crazy baby daddies. Lady move around with the foolishness.
Find you another pookie so he can put two more babies in you 😅😅😅😅😅
@@brianlauderdale7840Also 6’9 an a half, who drives a rolls Royce as his daily vehicle with no baby mothers banking in around 350 Thousand per month.
Prefer him not to be in Milwaukee. Because half of Milwaukee done ran through me. Lol
Giving her too much credit like half of Milwaukee wants her in the first place 😒
😩😩😩😩 these comments
Those men are crazy that's what I heard. I have never been there personally.
In most major Midwest cities dudes are wilding out Milwaukee is not an exception in fact they're pretty bad when it comes to a lot of stats for criminality@@jucyjay8398
@jucyjay8398 i been there and it is wild
Not really directed towards the woman in the vid, just saying: Yall learned the word narcissist in 2023, now learn the term accountability in '24. Signed, a woman💅
She learned that word already. She said that the 42 year old comedian made a lot of excuses and didn't hold himself accountable 😂😂😂
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Love it! It’s overdue.
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Thank you!
Fellas, DO NOT invite all of that drama into your life. Leave her with the consequences of her decisions.
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Absolutely. This is a bad deal for any man. A complete nightmare
I would have to send my grandson to the pearly gates smdh
DAMN RIGHT!! Leave her for the streets!!!
Please my brother's enough is enough!!🙏
They love that narcissist word.
Yes most of them says that 🙄 I don't think they do enough self reflection 😢
Yet don’t even know the definition of narcissist. They just repeat what another woman stated on the show and on social media lol
They do.
And most don’t even know what that means 😂
And the "nobody should be judging me" because someone called them out on their bs!
😂😂😂😂😂 whole time be the narcissist!
Nevermind, THIS one here puts the TOE in ghetto 😭😭🫠 Can’t believe this is real life 😩🤦🏾♂️
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No lie, this video deserved the famous “Brace yourself, This was a lot!” title 😂🥴😮💨
Absolutely!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@tyronestephens4896 Lol this needed a warning, because I was not ready 😂💀
Kendra's face and stuttering had me weak asf she was unprepared for the ratchetry😂
@@elizabethclarke4981 😂😂😂
@@nmmboyword! I had to pause the video after 1:30 😂
“Cause I’m not done; I want SIX kids! 💁🏽♀️”
KENDRA’S FACE TOOK ME OUT! 😩🤣😂😭😭😭💀
Planned parenthood has so many options for birth control. It's also okay to have your man wear a condom. Protect yourself, please.
With that stupid birth control answer and there is over 30 pregnant prevention and eliminations to not have a kid... no dayam excuse but she said the guy with 6 month old wouldn't hold himself accountable? Do she even know what accountable means?😂
Literally there are over 200 brands of brand name and generic birth control variations she could have tried. She could have also gotten the hormone free IUD. But nope ima let Pookie nutt in me raw with no care about H- I- V she’s disgusting
Planned parenthood is what’s destroyed black America and kept it from growing unlike other races. You do know planned parenthood was started by a racist white woman that wanted to delete all minorities, especially blacks right? A liberal of course but y’all keep voting for them and our own destruction. But unfortunately today since families is a dying custom, planned parenthood could eliminate the ratchet behaviors
She mentioned side effects from using birth control. People do have complications from birth control pills, intrauterine devices (IUD's) ,allergic reaction to shots and condoms. I wish her the best. There are a lot of methods to prevent pregnancy; it is about taking time to do the research. Be safe at there folks and protect yourself STI - sexually transmitted infections are on the rise.💞🙏🏾
@@trishag.971 there are over 35 pregnancy prevention besides abortion, and can give the kids up with No questions asked... so there is NO EXCUSE to birth kids she really don't want, in today's society. But she jumped on public assistance, and how much child support is her kids getting? Now she need help from a new man, a stepfather, a supporter, and hoping to get married.
Girl... if you don't believe in abortions and don't believe in birth control, you HAVE to believe in being selective with who you give it up to. Start judging people. Use discernment.
Sorry! But we Judge ppl! Lol
Her reasoning made absolutely no sense. 🤦🏾♀️
@@Quinten4M so when "we" judge you for being a mean -gay- bottom- is that fair game?
Seems like there are a lot of women that appear on Kendra G that either make 100k plus or they have multiple kids by incarcerated men who always seemed to be narcissists…they should form a trauma union.
Not the trauma union 😭😭😭😭
😂😂😂 too far
Ayyy 😂😂😂😂
They ain't never seen 100K
1 requests a 100 k she just follows.
Monkey see, Monkey do
She learned her lesson three times fellas but this time she really means it🙄
😂😂
Lol 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🎉😂😂
She is fighting an uphill battle, but she does come off as sincere 🤷🏾♂️
Please tell me you’re being sarcastic. Women like this live for drama. You’re gullible lol
@@E14days826 I said she comes off as sincere, as in she truly wants to come from a good place despite her situation. I didn’t say it would be easy for her. I’m choosing to not just slam every woman that comes on the show even if they are in over their heads, as long as they are honest about their situation and don’t come off as stuck up
please reach out to her...
Right. The things she talk about sounded cool BUT the kids and fathers. Now let’s add the character of the fathers. We also I haven’t got to the behavior of the kids. They possibly could be pure terrors.
@@TheMuscleMan2244you seem like a caring person. So I’ll let you know now. People like this young lady don’t change ever. Jesus can’t change her I promise you that.
Pookie...come get your queen...
😂😅 right
Lol
Kendra be shading these women in they don't even realize it! Smh
She trying to be nice 😅
All the time. Luv it
So she expects some great man to be the first to marry her, but the 4th to have a child with her. It's very sad and still quite bizarre this has become the norm in our community.
Many of them expect this and I ask the same thing as you no husband wants to be baby daddy number 3/4 once a woman have 2 baby daddies it’s over no husband cause no man of worth or quality will come in 3rd or 4th place he didn’t work hard his whole life to be 3rd to guys who less than him hell no 😅😅😅😅
@@CliqueBait-kt9qi So are you trying to say there aren't at least 5 different Black women on this show every single week with the same situation and the exact same story? There is a reason why other people can come among us with this nonsense, they know it's normalized behavior in the Black community.
Wish her the best... you can actually see the arrested development in her
How dare she look down on the last highlight that had a 6 month old as if she doesn’t have a 1 and 2 year old herself
Right! She was too bold with how she spoke about him considering her own situation!
@@LadyK007 acting like she’s above him with 4 kids compared to his 3
The two of them are actually in the same boat and should date
😂😂😂
This was right on brand for most women. If a woman brings in a million dollars a year, she won't date a man that makes $250k/yr. If she has a kid, she isn't looking for a man with a kid.😏
This is where KS would say you don't get better than your baby daddy!
Ouch!!
Too bad he is no longer living and can no longer speak to or about women, whilst being an uninvolved non-financially contributing baby daddy himself that sleeps with sex workers. Ouch!
She was “young”, Nursish job, toxic relationships , was engaged, narcissistic multiple BD’s, one BD killed, one in jail, healing, dealt with domestic violence, no controlling men, be “generous”. This has to be a Kendra Bingo winner 🤦🏾♂️
i know right. she literally hit all the sistahood talking points. she memorized the script well; gotta give her that 🤣
BUT BUT, SHES A YELLA BONE, WITH AN ASS, KINDA CUTE, REALLY SULTRY, not gonna lie I fall for her type all the time, but younger with no kids. Many men will still go after that ass and do what it takes to get it.
These chicks fail to realize a traditional man has control, it’s called boundaries to protect women from themselves. Don’t ask for a provider and protector and leader but not have control. You don’t have to be treated like a slave but boundaries are in place to protect you
@@kane99560she’s a byproduct of ww and bm so 🤷🏽♀️
@@vegannn7178 so its a ww and bm's fault for her situation? Accountability really is kryptonite for bw🙄
This ain't right, getting kidnapped and murdered is not, "just a part of life". She sound like a toxic mess.
She probably helped to set up the hit.
@@focknfreeShe looks like the type of woman to do something like that
The way she said “ HEs DECEASED “
If government assistance wasn’t a thing, you would believe in abortion.
Oop
Right! I doubt she can fully support all four of her kids by herself with an average admin job
That part!!!
If that aint the biggest FACT ive heard all day
Not Necessarily
Cooking and cleaning does not make you a wife! You should know how to do that anyways! Every person should… Kendra should ask that differently
It shows you what that woman thinks a man wants.
@@Scam-ishthat's literally what most men say they want so ofc women are gonna think y'all want what y'all say y'all want doofus. Unless y'all want us to do the opposite of what y'all say cuz everything you say is a lie
@@Scam-ishtrue which is probably due to the fact that so many are saying "we don't care about your education or how much money you make...can you cook and clean?" You're right it shouldn't be reduced down to just that but a lot of folks are confused because of the constant conflicting messages. I'll be the first to admit I don't know and I have yet to hear it said explicitly
@@junawallace7315 yeah I hear cooking and cleaning being something men want a lot as well . The goal post constantly gets moved to fit the complainant
Oh When they stop wanting CHEFS BABYSITTERS CALL GIRLS and MAIDS?😂 damn I'm behind this is news to me
The black community needs to judge each other a lot more and give grace a lot less.
Why is the Black community catching strays??
@@DreamsInBlue Strays? No, this was sniper fire.
@@Roccofan why do we have to get sniper fire then?
@@DreamsInBlue Because no one gets better with only love and understanding. Black America is that nice broke guy that wants to be your man. You keep rejecting him because you know at some point he had opportunities to improve his situation and he didn’t avail himself of them. You don’t sit around and listen to his sob stories, either he gets right or he doesn’t, either way you’ve got more productive things to do. Am I wrong?
@@Roccofan I think that was an insightful response. I mentioned strays (or sniper fire 🫠) because this woman isn't even Black... maybe because she procreated with BM?
damn...she special even among Kendra callers 😂
She responds to her baby daddy being unalived with “it’s life.” Such a nurturing woman to have in your life. Who wouldn’t want to sign up for this? 🤷🏾♂️
Right. I’m almost 40. I don’t personally know anyone that has met an untimely doom.
Youre reading too much into it. There was a male guest whose wife died of cancer that said the exact same thing and no one said a word. Youre reaching..
@@Godsbackhand7Good for you, what does that have to do with her?
@@lastnamefirst9423 I don’t remember asking you for my opinion.
It's amazing how much clarity these Baby mamas get after they have been ran through by a few pookies! 🤣
A few?? A few pookies gave her kids but I'm sure she got more bodies than a cemetery on her reseme.
And rubbing Pookies feet while he didn't deserve it.
Some people have to learn the hard way
Girl the excuses about birth control
She was filled with excuses, but no accountability. The fact she wants to keep breeding is wild 😭🤦🏾♂️
Also ladies cooking and cleaning does not make you wifey material. Come up with a better reason as to why you are an asset and not a liability
@@TerrijennipherThat is an Understatement..
For real...I was like, Heffa if you were that allergic to birth control, condoms and common sense, why not just swallow the damn 🥜?
Excuses, excuses and excuses
Real talk😂😂... I was like , HEFFA since you are allergic to birth control condoms and common sense, why not just swallow the damn 🥜 instead?
KENDRA’S FACIAL EXPRESSIONS ARE THE BEST‼️😂
😂😂😂😂 I said tht same thing….i be so weak
Always!! 😅
I haven't lived in the Midwest for over 15 years , I see Milwaukee has not changed much 👀
Stop. Milwaukee is a fantastic city, but just like anywhere else there is a class of people that live these type of lives. You attract what you are and when I lived in the Mil I attracted smart, thoughtful, and genuine people. Just like when I lived in Houston (college), Atlanta (grad school) and now in Chicago. Blessings
She is definitely not healed 😂
Not healed.. is the new excuse term for NOT accepting Accountability...
Beckeisha’s daughter needs to take a break from dating.
😅😅😅 you know I'm jacking this one! Sorry gonna claim this as my own😅😅😅
You ain’t never lied!
😂😂😂 "Beckeisha"
@@missvalisha When I saw her i immediately knew she was from Beckeisha.
@@tenderbrown74 😂😂
I hate "narsissix" too! Lol
This girl had like 6 classmates her whole life. With chocolate milk canister.
You are in time-out!!!!!! Aht aht!!!! Straight to the corner!
U r sooooo wrong 4 this I swear😂😂😂😂
I wish I could recommend a good therapist for this little girl minded woman. Renew your mind, take care of your children!! So sad!!😢😢
She needs that therapist, plus an exorcist, Jesus, Buddha, the Dalai Lama, Moses, Zeus, Thor, Santa Claus, Superman, Wonder Woman, Thanos, Captain America, He-Man, G.I. Joe, King Leonidis from 300, Xerses, Optimus Prime and all the angels in Heaven COMBINED together like the Power Rangers Megazord and it still wouldn’t be enough.
@@charlesmorrell3362 😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀 Omg.
Possibly an intellect delay as well
Kevin Samuel's would have ate this women up!!
His last breath was with a woman like her.
She claimed that she wasn't judgmental but threw the last guest completely under the bus saying that he was not accountable ans made excuses, SHE DID THE SAME THING. Has a 1 year old and kept saying I was young when it came to her ill made decisions
Exactly
This is the comment I was looking for
Ladies and gentlemen every person you get into a relationship with does not need to have a baby with you. It’s nothing wrong with just parting ways without sharing a child with an ex.
This chick had the audacity to point out lack of accountability in somebody else
Respectfully, ma'am, just take care of yourself and your kids.
Please please
Best comment; So much to unpack here…
Not believing in birth control OR abortion is insane
How is not believing in abortion insane ? It is not ok to kill your baby by any means. Smh
Birth control is not healthy it stops a Woman's natural flow & causes blood clots & other health problems. Not having sex & using a condom is a form of birth control as well. Smh
it's not insane. what's insane is believing that and fvçkíng.
I was young. They all say the same thing. Do they talk to one another? 😂😂😂
And be 20/21/22/23 too😅😅
“Im keeping my cookies in the jar”. Ma’am, your cookies gone, any man that gets with her is putting his hand in an empty jar
I want Kendra to do better with remembering which questions she already asked. Is there not a checklist ? 😩 I sit here and say the answers twice for her 😂
she writes them down "supposedly" and still mess it up. Will be quick to tell you shes a journalists to lol
It makes the vid INTERACTIVE. 😂🤣😂😂😂😂
@@tamikaldavis8993 lol
Men avoid women with multiple kids by multiple baby daddies. This is too much of a headache. Most women like this are damaged forever.
YEAH BABY GIRL AINT NOBODY SAVING YOU, GET BACK WITH YA LAST BABY DAD N WORK IT OUT… YOU MOVING ON TO TO MANY MEN TO FAST… HOLD THAT MAN DOWN IN PRISON
I don't think she have a choice she can't talk down on no one
I’m following what Crunchy Black & Project Pat from Three 6 Mafia said back in the day……“Don’t Save Her…She Don’t Wanna Be Saved!!!”
Good call!
As a member of the African American community. We appreciate the love but we reject your application. Maybe Brad,chad Kyle,Luis,Paco and baljeet will take this pookiesha on 😂
I second and third that!
Let Lu xiaomi have her
😂😂😂😂. Nah that’s y’all type
This does nothing to improve race relations.
We know they aren't going for this foolishness which is why their women don't do it.
Black men need to follow suit and abandon these baby mamas until they get it through their dumb ass heads that good men won't tolerate used scraps.
Those chuck e cheese photo booth picks taped on the wall is crazy 😂😂😂
Now I really, really understand when KS said “You can’t make this shit up.” 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🙄
To summarize, this was a mess 😂
I see what you did there 🤣
Girl copper IUD.. they’re non hormonal. As someone that spent weeks in the ER after 6 weeks of oral contraceptives.. it can be scary but most health care professionals will talk you through alternative options.. or you can track it.. there’s really no excuse in this day and age
Thank you. So tired of the excuses, as if raising a child is easier than a visit to the doctor.
@@ghorn1217 or honestly.. condoms. I’m a huge advocate for sexual protection but since she has multiple children by multiple men she seems like the type that doesn’t use them
One thing that always grinds my gears is the way that these ladies explain their pregnancy.
Ma'am you have an entire movement called
My body My choice.
This movement tells men we have zero say so on a woman's uterus yet we watched daily these ladies get on here and act as if they shouldn't be responsible for the very choice that they tell us guys we have no say so on. Make it make sense
Every excuse given except "i made poor decisions, which I regret" ... i also find it interesting how they always manage to get engaged, have the baby then miraculously no wedding . But take credit for the engagement like it was real.
She doesn't want what she is. This is crazy 😧, SMH
She's has a nerve to have a deal breaker 😂😂
lol thats what i said. Shit is gettin crazy out here
You don’t want her Mikey425? lol
The only belief they choose to practice “no abortions”. Meanwhile doing everything else in the book like it’s less than.
Isn’t it amazing….🙄 Suddenly they have this unwavering moral compass.
Again , I will say ... thank you Lord for my stress free , beautiful life , with my husband and our wild child. 🐕
#dogisgood
🙏🏾
“Too good just to be giving out” say the woman after 4 kids by 3 men. Now she said her cookies is worth even more after 4 babies. Make it make sense! Smh 🤦♂️
I actually like this video she was so honest from the jump. And you can feel that she genuinely wants better for herself.
I said the same thing… unfortunately, that was not highlighted.
She needs to better herself and not look for a man.
Focus on bettering yourself for those kids. Stop bringing new guys around.
Special education is a hellava drug
FACTS
lol damm
I stopped after she said she doesn't 'believe in birth control.' TF does that even mean???????
She could have qualified her statement by saying hormonal birth control.
@LadyK007 Would that change the outcome though? 🤔
Nothing agreed with her system.
@@unaisodora1149 doesn't matter. She's just irresponsible and stupid
@@unaisodora1149 she’s allergic to condoms? C’mon, this is ridiculous
I needed a laugh & this right here delivered! @16:55 she even has the nerve to judge the last man with the 6 month old🤣🤣🤣
The main reason KS said you won't get anyone better than your baby daddy is because you can't have zero standards for guys who ain't shit then magically have them for someone who's actually on his business.
SAY THAT AGAIN!
People grow & evolve so NEXT
Grow and evolve after kids and multiple Bd’s??? FOH …..NEXT!! Lol
@@draya.7441 life isn’t linear. It’s ebs & flows. Live a little longer. Grow up some & you’ll see. Her bad choices and misjudgments are behind her NOT in front of her as long as she continues to grow in wisdom.
@@love_reka_8877 word salad just to say ya past dont matter lol typical reply from woman...we men care about yall past ...nothing u say will change that.....the shaming attempts , dont work lol
This show is so good 🍿
😂
Highest of the high value woman right here 😂
She said the first father wasn’t meant to be a parent, but that’s who she was engaged to and wears it as a badge of honor. 🥴
whatever man get with her deserve everything she give him..This shit was 🦇 shit crazy ‼️🤯 11:29
😂
I was thinking the SAME EXACT THING!!!
Her and the last highlight should link, to be honest
That’s what I said!
Nah. I even don't know who you're talking about and I already know he can do better
Who y’all talking bout Amanuel from Austin? The one that has an ex with five kids ? If so yea he’ll take her. She just gotta get into church.
@@thewinzerfamthe one she said that she didn’t want. The one with the 6 month old 😂
The unmitigated gall at about the 16 minute mark had my jaw on the floor! 😂
theres a part of me that wants to feel sorry for her. Mentally shes still 18, i sense struggle or abuse in her dialect. Almost certain im familiar with how she came up lol
@@mikeyy425 that's no excuse for promiscuity
@@logicalcritik2144 damn sho aint
@@mikeyy425 Undoubtedly she is emotionally immature, but feeling sorry for her doesn’t change that. She doesn’t feel sorry for those of us who will surely be impacted by the consequences of her reckless decisions. She will keep having children and half ass parent them because she is more focused on having a man, and we will pay the taxes to feed, clothe, and shelter them all. And then deal with their juvenile delinquent behavior. 🤷🏾♀️
Most ppl can see the wrongs in others but can't see it in themselves because they are "different"... shocks me everytime... that was a stay in her lane moment 😂
Thank you, Kendra, for mentioning birth control. People are having the abortion conversation like it is birth control. No one is responsible for their own bodies until it's time to consider abortion. Make it make sense!
Preach! Louder for the single digit IQ dusties in the back!
Well there is already a high abortion rate in the black community, more have been aborted since the early 70’s to now than all other forms of deaths for bp combined the same time. That don’t include what babies weren’t formed due to birth control lol. 25% of the black population has been wiped out due to abortion. Unfortunately the majority would have lived in poverty but someone great could have been created also🤷🏾♂️🥴🥴
They could get women condoms too
She said "that's crazy!" about the guy with a 6 month old, while she has 4 kids by 3 street men! 🤣
And a 1 and 2 year old while saying her last relationship was 2 and 1/2 years ago.
Being with her is like buying a car with 150k miles for full MSRP price
"I don't believe in birth control" doesn't match with "I have serious effects from birth control". How is your adverse effects from something a belief? She just wanted to have Pookies kids.
Yeah she just making shit up just like how she kept leaning on her baby daddy getting killed claiming that's why they aren't together. But she slipped up and said they broke up right before he was killed and they were "working on it" when he was killed smh . I swear if these ladies can't use the "i was young" then its the "he's a narcissist , abusive" , then its jail , then if that fails its he's dead . But they never detail if he died before they split up
Too many forms of bc; I don't believe she's tried any, just lying to get through the questions.
She doesn't believe in taking birth control Because of her adverse of adverse affects from it dummy. You have zero comprehension skills.
I’m not going finish watching this video, good luck to whoever get with this female!!!
Prison, decreased…. What kind of man she be accepting???
Lying about the birth control she just not responsible
My thought exactly
How is she paying for dates with 4 kids?!
😂😂😂 exactly! How Sway?!?!
Look 15, sound 45 and energy of a toodler 😂😂😂 babbyyyyyyy
There’s a SCRIPT that they’re all reading from.
…that’s the ONLY explanation.
It has to be. This has to be a joke, right? There is no way that hundreds of thousands of women have exactly the same story?
The excuse for not using birth control is absolutely hilarious
Gotta pay for a family of 8... I've never even been inside a seven bedroom house
We know you are broke
@@Sam-zr3ly you sound like a feminist. Shame guilt and insults aren't working anymore ladies
@@Sam-zr3lydo you have a 7 bedroom house?
You slow or something?
In what world does every child need their own room?
@@originaldelta your right, just get a two bedroom apartment and make all six kids live in the same bedroom. Also, there's the kitchen and living room they could sleep in
She was “young” and learned a lesson but the youngest baby is 1?
That kicking "our feet up to watch a movie" ... baby on the way, again.
So she can have 4 kids but a man cannot have a 6 month old?! FOH
These women are trippin’🤣🤣🤣
Bare in mind her youngest is 1 yrs old. That's not to far off from 6 months years old lol
Kendra needed to clearly say “that man is who you qualify for!”
Her mentor wrote these answers down for her. I love this. She’s prepared. 👍
So, choosing a man to be a father for your child that you wouldn’t choose to be your husband makes sense? 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
This has to stop! This is becoming normalized where younger women think this is just life or can be chocked up to "mistakes" or simple immaturity, ITS NOT.
You decided to selfish get into a seggual relationship with someone you did not vet, that was not worthy of a relationship, without contraception, and gave him not one top prize of continuing his legacy but 2 prizes. Leaving your child with a convict "narcissistic" father who is the devil(in her words). Do yall ever think of your childrens feeling and future? You ever think maybe try to give your children the best possible father instead of searchinh for the best possible nut.
This would be the reason for me to not date you as a man. This sequence of events. Boy our future🤦🏽♀️. This is sad 😔
Yeah that's why we tell single mothers to go back to the guys they had those kids with because majority of the time the guy wasn't father material in the first place.