A FRIEND OF AN OPP IS AN OPP

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  • Опубликовано: 20 янв 2025
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Комментарии • 20

  • @JGDD7190
    @JGDD7190 19 дней назад +28

    I cannot believe the number of people who feel the need to explain this.
    It's also important to not hang around people who gossip about others. If they gossip about others they will gossip about you.

  • @tineryn
    @tineryn 19 дней назад +14

    IMO there's a difference between gossiping behind somebody's back or being complicit in bullying, and simply having relationships with people. Like, everyone has their own boundaries, so if this is what you're comfortable with, that's fine. But I wouldn't be comfortable policing other people's relationships just because our separate friend groups clash. Like as long as everyone's respectful, who cares? just keep the friend groups separated.

  • @allyrah5145
    @allyrah5145 12 дней назад +4

    Girl!!!!
    When it’s in your own family members that is the worst.
    Thank you for telling me I’m the same one and to respect my boundaries ❤

  • @black_horse_lover2655
    @black_horse_lover2655 19 дней назад +9

    i understand this to an extent. But also, you cant drag everyone around you into your personal disputes. It should only apply to major things.
    This can quickly turn into you being the center of everyone else's world. Thats not healthy.

  • @TO-nk6ez
    @TO-nk6ez 18 дней назад +4

    You're right.
    I gave her the benefit of the doubt, even after talking to her about what she did (and she told me that nooo she didn't mean for it to be that way, etc.)... And a month later, she ended up sleeping with my (now EX) bf.

    • @PrettyGirlDiscernment
      @PrettyGirlDiscernment  18 дней назад +3

      Always trust your gut, it's a spiritual download showing you people's true colors.

  • @alessshorts
    @alessshorts 18 дней назад +2

    I mean I know of a couple who the guy was ex friends with the girls stalker (he didn't know what his friend was doing at the time) and the
    Couple are now happy, connected and very similar. I was also skeptical at first but sometimes it's in these circumstances that good things happen.
    I know it's a bit off topic but the title made me think of this. But I guess the difference is the stalker and his friend (the girls bf) are no longer friends and they cut contact around the same time.

    • @alessshorts
      @alessshorts 18 дней назад +1

      The kicker is the bfs other ex friend gossiped about her and they cut him off too. They actually confronted him together. So the whole friend group (3 of them) was problematic except him

    • @PrettyGirlDiscernment
      @PrettyGirlDiscernment  18 дней назад +1

      ​@alessshorts wow that's crazy

  • @MykianaRichards
    @MykianaRichards 16 дней назад +2

    Foreal

  • @King_OKH
    @King_OKH 19 дней назад +3

    Maybe the Opp friend knows you’re all up in your feelings because she looks better than you

  • @UnknownUser-by4le
    @UnknownUser-by4le 19 дней назад +2

    kids