Us tall successful men stay on the BS... because we don't have to settle and single mothers are recreational use at best. If they're looking for monogamy... tall successful men ain't it. 😂😂😂
I dated a man and married a man in that age group and it was like dating a 22 yr. Old for both. One college grad and one white collar and I tell you being in my 40s dealing with older immature men is absolutely the worst. Age does not matter, it's a mindset.
Gifts don’t make a person like or love you, I hate that for Paula - she seems sweet. Hopefully it was a lesson learned, wait to give all that to the right person. ❤
Paula is a good example of a lady who is beautiful from the inside out. I would guess that this man needed more time to break his emotional bond from his ex-wife. He will look back one day and realize he let a rare lady slip through his fingers.
Honestly, I think he wasn't ready to settle down again so soon. She just came at the wrong time, and she became attached to quick. I think she will find her match in someone else.
She is a thottie and didn't mention the erotic massages she gives. She has multiple IG accounts and is for the streetz!!! Coming on here acting all wholesome. The 🥷🏾lost interest because she isn't wife material... Undercover thot😂
Dude wasn't ready emotionally. His love is still with his ex wife and this girl was a temporary distraction. He's on to the next. A cycle that will repeat until he's over his ex...
Nah she was way too aggressive. She tried to buy his love because she knew how good of a man he, was and she was competing with other women while she has 2 kids 2 baby daddies. That's way to overwhelming
She is a thottie and didn't mention the erotic massages she gives. She has multiple IG accounts and is for the streetz!!! Coming on here acting all wholesome. The 🥷🏾lost interest because she isn't wife material... Undercover thot😂
Yeah I think either he just still loved his ex-wife which was why he kept talking about the divorce so much or he was playing her. Maybe he was just enjoying being flewed out and getting gifts and the whole time was ready to smash and pass. Who knows, anyway I don't feel like she even telling the whole story.
i think because she did all that for a man who wasn’t even committed to her, it makes people think there’s something wrong with her and she’s overcompensating for something. men like to be spoiled of course but they need a challenge and a chase. you put him in his feminine energy of receiving and he realized he didn’t like it 😢 i bet he’s somewhere in love with a women who doesn’t do any of that. don’t try too hard to be picked mama. if you have so much love to give, give it to your daughters! hopefully lesson learned.
@@franknitti1190 because that's in a man's DNA to spoil a woman. If a woman wants to spoil me do it with love rather gifts or flights. I feel like that's my job and a man can lose interest if there's no challenge...
@@franknitti1190She isn’t a man. The only man that will be attracted to her flooding him with gift’s every week and flying him out is a Beta male or a Pookie.
@@FaithandPurpose828he probably deserves it. Nobody ever asks the question why is he still hanging around her? Good Men do this all the time too they have no taste pallet at all either they pick up desperate damaged women and then they try to play the victim later on even though it takes two people to consent to a relationship and the door is right in front of him too if he can escape a psych unit fence then he can escape a woman. It's not that hard either because desperate women are easier to dump then desperate men because there not as strong. It's usually the women that get trapped with abusers that I feel more sorry for because some of them don't have a choice some of their boyfriends won't even let them leave their house.
I think she was moving too fast for him and almost giving obsessed! She seems really sweet and meant well but definitely deserves someone who wants the same thing she wants and desires!
I don’t see how women are comfortable fully taking care of a grown man, I also don’t understand how some men have no shame about it. You can’t complain about women being masculine when you as a man are resting in your femininity
Most women are picking from the same small pool of men........so what do women expect?? Good Men are out here right in front of most women's face,but he is boring to yall,or not tall enough or something. The problem is mostly with women.
@@LongLivDaKing men do how do you think most women go out on dates most men pay for it its rare woman pay for anything and y'all complain about that 😂😂
My man and I met on Facebook, dated long distance, and then got together when I moved back to my home State. He always takes the lead and plans our dates and we both give each other gifts. I think she did too much for him too soon. They were not really in an exclusive relationship.
She seems like a very sweet person and has a lot to offer, but next time just slowly introduce the benefits of being with you. I know it’s hard when you really like someone and you are naturally that way, but you have to restrain yourself these days. Slow and steady wins the race! ❤
She’s very sweet! But ladies, please stop giving too much too early, this includes sex! When you give a man too much too early, it can come off overbearing, and overbearing/desperation isn’t sexy!! Yes men like to feel appreciated, but giving buddy gifts everyday upon till his bday? That’s what wives do, and they were only dating for 6 months! She came off desperate for companionship! She even went as far as dating a woman, despite not being into women! She’s just desperately in need of a companion and men will RUN everytime! I’ve seen this lots!
I totally agree! What would you say for practical purposes would be an appropriate way to celebrate his birthday after 4-5 months of dating? We know Vegas and weekly gifts ain't it lol @@Mariobloomart
@@Ameejack real talk, she slightly remind me of a younger me! And I’m a dude! I used to romance and be super giving to women waaaaaaay too soon and boy did I used to get used! lol! But I eventually linked up with someone who was on the same page as me!
@@Mariobloomart Yeah it’s a lot of men and women can relate because they feel like they won a prize and trying to pull out all the stops to keep him or her! I’ve learned through experience that extravagant gifts don’t mean much, it’s all about the things money can’t buy. That’s what really sets the foundation of a genuine relationship.
Girl no! Don't give him everything upfront unless you know him and y'all want the same thing. Enjoy each other, travel and have fun. Spending on a man creates a lot of problems down the line. What is he working for in the relationship- if you are giving him everything ? Has to be balanced out just a little bit! You are very beautiful ❤️
The Five Love Languages!!! Learn them, and learn your partners’!Just because that’s your language doesn’t mean it’s your partners.That’s where a lot of people fail. I wish you all the best, beautiful 😊
@@viviancanela3427I know you didn’t ask me but I feel it’s too much honestly. There’s a guy I’m “friends” with and I use that term loosely because he really likes me and does entirely too much too soon and it’s a huge turnoff and creepy . You can do nice things for ppl but slow and simple .
Not only was she not married to him but she said they were not even in a relationship. Why would you do all that for someone that you feel you are not even in a relationship with?! Make it make sense.
Girl you never lieddd. And no other race talks about flying men out either so be bothered if ppl make it seem otherwise. These men are in their feminine.
I had someone similar not too long ago. I just finalized my divorce. I was over my wife, though. I was never going back. It was awkward having a woman wanting to do stuff for me and offering to pay for dinner and take me away on a vacation. I was always the provider, so it was just weird. I was refreshing. I just think I needed time to adjust.
Awwww She's a doll He may spin tha block And I wonder how that will go Because her gifts are detailed and thoughtful That can be overwhelming and considered love bombing
It probably was overwhelming him. Some ppl are not used to true givers, and they don't know how to handle someone being nice to them. I wish her the best! 💛🌻🌼
Sweet woman. Very passionate, sincere, thoughtful, and kind. Next time, wait until you're actually in a relationship before you start lavishly spoiling a man. During the dating phase perhaps a gift for a special occasions is ok. You did way too much in a 5-6 months span. Unfortunately, you showered this man with more than he could handle & I'm not just speaking of tangible gifts. You're a good woman. I sincerely hope you get the man that is worthy of you. One that desires to pour into you and give you the love and respect that you desire. A man who is Emotionally healthy, mature, open, honest communication, and wants with you the same things you desire. You're more than deserving, Sis. Lastly, this scenario is one reason why sooo many women are skeptical and don't trust men. Dude was unable to communicate his thoughts/fears/concerns to her. So, he simply played Casper and ghosted her. This beautiful woman didn't deserve this treatment. She deserved a sit-down, open, honest conversation as to why he couldn't cope.
@theericablazeHe was recently divorced. A lot of men go through too much in divorce to want a new relationship right away. It’s too bad this treatment was wasted on a recent divorcee.
Paula. You did too much. You displayed masculine energy.The feminine woman sits BACK & RECEIVES. The MAN is the hunter the PROVIDER. When YOU provide you take away his hunter instinct. Men want to hunt YOU not the other way around.
She has a giving heart and that is a beautiful thing, very rare these days. Most are unapologetic takers😂 so she gets points for actually being different. But it was just a bit too much. Hopefully she can keep her giving/nurturing nature, but just slow it down a little. I'm sure she won't have a problem finding someone.
I like her, she seems like a catch. Feminine, personality isnt super over bearing, fit, natural face, kids arent too young. I think shes going to be just fine
The gift giving is literally how us geminis are when we like someone. We can’t help it. It’s just how we express ourselves. Personally I had to pull back from doing it because it makes men think you’re desperate which is so sad. It’s not even about a love language it’s just something that brings us joy. Sad that we have to quiet down a piece of who we are because men don’t know how to receive it. But now I just spoil my friends 🥰🥰
@@Blockishot2Only if we really care about you. I am a Taurus and I give my Sagittarius man gifts, but I do not go overboard. He often gives me surprise gifts.
I’m 27 and my man is 42 and we are really happy together. We are both really traditional and want the same things in life and for our future and it’s a plus! I’ve dealt with older men that are just as immature as the men my age but having a older traditional man is perfect for me ❤
I have done that same thing numerous times for numerous men in my younger years and every single time it turned our relationship building upside down. I came to the conclusion that this is just not something we should be doing when getting to know a man. They really end up resenting you for it or just feeling some type of way and you can see/feel the change. “I never had anyone do things like this for me before” and then BOOM! Downhill….. Never again! When I have loved on men to that extent, doing those same thoughtful things, they rejected it. They accepted what was given but it seemed to be a turn off and I now understand the multiple reasons why.
@@chatroombully I give all of that... I was also giving materials as well but again, I understand that for many reasons, this doesn't go over well. Hard lesson but one that is learned for sure.
@@MySignatureSoul Perhaps you were dating the wrong men. Men like it when a woman shows appreciation because it hardly happens. If a man loves you he will be appreciative.
@@deethomasblack6487 Part of what I noted here was that these were men I was getting to know, as in in the beginning, just as this woman. I am not referring to men who I am in love with and are in love with me. Totally different dynamics.
I'm like her too but I was told by a few male friends that I do too much too soon and men want to be the giver and some men will resent you for doing for them.
Love Bombing: Love bombing is a form of psychological and emotional abuse that involves a person going above and beyond for you in an effort to manipulate you into a relationship with them. It looks different for every person, but it usually involves some form of: Excessive flattery and praise. Over-communication of their feelings for you. Showering you with unneeded/unwanted gifts. Early and intense talks about your future together.
Exactly! I caught on real quick to what home girl was all about. I was in a relationship with a narcissist 6 years ago so I can spot a narcissist a mile away.
I was looking for this comment. The love bombing is definitely a red flag. I’m not sure if she’s a narcissist, but that behavior would scare anyone away if they were a victim of narcissistic abuse.
This woman has nuturing instincts. She likes to take care of people, You have to be absolutely sure this is the right person for you before you give your all. Take your time, don't rush the process.
She did too much. Kendra is telling her she did too much. She still can't hear what she did wrong because she is so busy talking about all the things SHE did. He no longer needed to chase her. The thrill was gone.
I don't think she ever gave him a chance to chase. She Basically turned around an did everything he was probably going to do for her, she just got to it first
Something is off about this woman. Love bombing at the start is a toxic trait, usually done by toxic individuals to trap or trick someone into a relationship. After the love bombing ends the devaluation begins. By then the love interest(victim) is caught up in a trauma bond with the abuser. These kinds of relationships never ends well. The man that she was dating was smart to leave. In his gut he knew something wasn’t right. Damn I wish I had that discernment when I met my toxic love bombing ex 6 years ago. Oh well you live & you learn.
That’s not true tell that to my aunt and uncle who was married for 67 years up until her death four years ago or 3 of my best friends who all have been married for 15+ years got married within 2 months of meeting it’s about really doing the work and really knowing what you want and being intentional and honest from the jump.
I had to read this 3 times, to make sense of this foolishness, she flew Man out & spoil him with gifts 😩 it will be a cold day in hell, if I do that, to a man, that’s NOT committed to me ( marriage )
I would like to point out two things. 1. It seems like she was love bombing the man. 2. Just because you like certain things, i.e. your love language, doesn't mean it's the same for someone else.
Do these women even Hear theirselves? WTF?? I'm starting to believe that these women dont really want Real Love. FR. She keep talking about Overwhelming. Ma, if giving and pouring into him more than he is to you...thats not Real Love. Thats Desperation on Your Part. If a man stays there...hes down to use you. Shout out to him for leaving and not staying to take advantage. I just had a lady yesterday I talked to a little and said I would follow on IG....and ever since then, she been talking and saying things like I said I was interested in her romantically. Shes a beautiful woman, but I havent expressed 1 hint that I was interested in her romantically. So that is kind of a turnoff to guys. Cause we like...What is wrong with you?? We start looking for flaws on why youre so desperate or feigning. Maybe youre crazy or something. Its simple ladies. No chasing on either side. Let A Man Pursue You. All you have to do is Reciprocate the Energy he gives back to you...the Same Energy. Its That Simple. Dont do more for him that he does for you in the beginning. Its not that hard or complicated ladies. Mann.
Yeah she was doing too much. Watch this man fall inlove with someone who does way less. Men don’t fall for women who do these things so soon unless he is a user or Beta male. The gifts won’t make him fall inlove. She also referred to herself as a hot commodity.
He just got out of a divorce,all of that and you wasnt his girlfriend. I feel it was just too much.he probably went back to his wife which is why shes not saying what happened.
NEVER take care of a man and he'll still head over heels YEARS later. If he likes you. Sorry that's just the truth. You never need to break your back for men baby ❤
Her love language is definitely Gift Giving … prime example of it … but damn girl this level of love you showing is for your Kids… husband.. you know more important people
A birthday gift is cool, but a gift every week up until his birthday is bonkers. Beautiful gesture, but that's way too much, too fast. That is overwhelming. Men like to take things slow, especially if he's fresh out of a divorce
This is where pretty privilege comes to play. And yes there is a such thing as that. Girl you're pretty. You do not do all that for a guy. They start to think you're not smart and know your worth. So that leads them to think you're promiscuous . And I know it sounds weird but they assume if you are pretty you got all these men coming after you. And if you act too nice they think you're too easy. Too easy accessible. You got to act like a challenge a little bit. Running bathwater , flying him out, etc. NO.
I agree. In her case I wonder if she's desperate or if that's her love language. Gift giving is lowkey controlling and territorial when overdone, and some pretty girls like to be in control. The problem they can feel with being courted is they don't have that control so they prefer to be the one chasing. She probably have a sweet but dominant personality, and need a successful but submissive type of man
I’m going to be completely honest this woman has a heart of gold it’s not every day you find a woman that doesn’t mind going the extra mile for a man because she knows he would do the same for her I don’t think she’s dumb I think she wants loveand a lot of women miss out on a good man because they’re afraid to spoil him as well
I don’t know what possessed her to do all of this for a man who wasn’t her man. You can’t buy someone into loving you. She’s setting herself to get used every single time smh
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Flying that man out and giving him gifts like he a bad b**** 😂
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I mean forreal. 🤭🤭
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@NurseMidwifeBAE it's funny yall think yall should be treated like royalty and expect the person taking care of you to get nothing in return
The fact that she thinks men stop their bs at 40/50 yo 😂😂
Looollllllll this shouldn’t be so funny but age has nothing to do with being a good man! They’re in their 60s acting all the way up
Us tall successful men stay on the BS... because we don't have to settle and single mothers are recreational use at best.
If they're looking for monogamy... tall successful men ain't it. 😂😂😂
Men are always gonna be men... most of us don't want monogamy.
@@KyKyTTthere’s a 70 year old man on TikTok talkin bout he “finally”ready to settle down 🤣
That part!
You can't take a newly divorced person seriously 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
So true
At all.
Some of this definitely falls on her.
Facts!!
@@AB-ze2ho definitely never u date man weh freshly come out of a relationship worst a marriage
When you treat the man like a baddie, that’s the result you get!
Exactly
That part!
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Facts
Someone will cherish her! ❤ I like her!
She will then friendzone that Person..
I truly agree beautiful soul
Most likely, a woman...
HE WASNT EVEN HER MAN??? Naw. Girl. You were begging. Period.
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I don’t believe this story
@@Tisha-oi5yn it seems a little far fetched not gonna lie 🤣
@Tisha-oi5yn I've been flown out and gifted numerous times by women everything paid by them I never had to work to hard 😢😂😂😂😂😂
@@akalixa that’s y I don’t believe it… it seems to perfect
I dated a man and married a man in that age group and it was like dating a 22 yr. Old for both. One college grad and one white collar and I tell you being in my 40s dealing with older immature men is absolutely the worst. Age does not matter, it's a mindset.
Gifts don’t make a person like or love you, I hate that for Paula - she seems sweet. Hopefully it was a lesson learned, wait to give all that to the right person. ❤
Seems like she was trying to buy his love. Don’t expect much from a newly divorced person.
@@FaithandNova Completely agree!
@Zed-wy3qc Darn - no luck after 20 yrs! 😲 What do you think the root of the issue is?
I really liked Paula’s interview. I hope she finds a good man.
She has to TRULY desire one.. something most BWs don't do in the first place..FACT..
Paula is a good example of a lady who is beautiful from the inside out. I would guess that this man needed more time to break his emotional bond from his ex-wife. He will look back one day and realize he let a rare lady slip through his fingers.
She seems nice.......but she got some obvious red flags.
@@SouthernBuggy-of8xb you didn't see that Ig. lol.
@@grmo7912 🤷🏽♀️ I’m NOT a man.
Honestly, I think he wasn't ready to settle down again so soon. She just came at the wrong time, and she became attached to quick. I think she will find her match in someone else.
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I think he's an old school player😅
@brianfreckles8542 😂🤣, nah if he was, he would have kept her around until he was tired of her.
If she is as good as she presents herself to be,she should have ño problems at all finding a man......she has some red flags.
She is a thottie and didn't mention the erotic massages she gives. She has multiple IG accounts and is for the streetz!!! Coming on here acting all wholesome. The 🥷🏾lost interest because she isn't wife material... Undercover thot😂
Dude wasn't ready emotionally. His love is still with his ex wife and this girl was a temporary distraction. He's on to the next. A cycle that will repeat until he's over his ex...
Exactly.
Nah she was way too aggressive. She tried to buy his love because she knew how good of a man he, was and she was competing with other women while she has 2 kids 2 baby daddies. That's way to overwhelming
She is a thottie and didn't mention the erotic massages she gives. She has multiple IG accounts and is for the streetz!!! Coming on here acting all wholesome. The 🥷🏾lost interest because she isn't wife material... Undercover thot😂
been there
Yeah I think either he just still loved his ex-wife which was why he kept talking about the divorce so much or he was playing her. Maybe he was just enjoying being flewed out and getting gifts and the whole time was ready to smash and pass.
Who knows, anyway I don't feel like she even telling the whole story.
She expressed herself really well, she's attractive and seems like she makes effort to be honest and fair and introspective. We like her
Who’s we? 😂
i think because she did all that for a man who wasn’t even committed to her, it makes people think there’s something wrong with her and she’s overcompensating for something. men like to be spoiled of course but they need a challenge and a chase. you put him in his feminine energy of receiving and he realized he didn’t like it 😢 i bet he’s somewhere in love with a women who doesn’t do any of that. don’t try too hard to be picked mama. if you have so much love to give, give it to your daughters! hopefully lesson learned.
Men do it all the time for new women, what’s the problem?
@@franknitti1190 because that's in a man's DNA to spoil a woman. If a woman wants to spoil me do it with love rather gifts or flights. I feel like that's my job and a man can lose interest if there's no challenge...
My dad said you have to keep a man guessing. I miss and love you daddy, my angel now. 🕊
She isn’t very self aware if she said she only has one flaw. I think that’s a red flag and she may be over compensating for something.
@@franknitti1190She isn’t a man. The only man that will be attracted to her flooding him with gift’s every week and flying him out is a Beta male or a Pookie.
Naw that’s too much! Let the man court you. Let him show you he’s interested in you..
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Exactly !!!! Too much too soon.
Single 😂😂😂😂
What do women think men deal with? We deal with the same thing dating these trash ass women...
Oh but she KNEW he wasn't interested in her
Imagine spoiling a recently divorced person thinking y’all got something special going on 😂😭🤦🏾♂️
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She came across as desperate. She smothered him.
@@FaithandPurpose828 Yup, he just got out of a marriage and she sounded like she tried to rush into another one lol 😂
@@FaithandPurpose828 and she messes with women so he probably figured she was for the streets.
@@FaithandPurpose828he probably deserves it. Nobody ever asks the question why is he still hanging around her?
Good Men do this all the time too they have no taste pallet at all either they pick up desperate damaged women and then they try to play the victim later on even though it takes two people to consent to a relationship and the door is right in front of him too if he can escape a psych unit fence then he can escape a woman. It's not that hard either because desperate women are easier to dump then desperate men because there not as strong. It's usually the women that get trapped with abusers that I feel more sorry for because some of them don't have a choice some of their boyfriends won't even let them leave their house.
She was one of the most Respectful interview I seen on the show, I wish her well.
I believe he got scared she was doing too much too fast
Literally the man feared for his life.
Obsessed stalker vibes lol 😂
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Unfortunately, yeah…
He thought she was gonna propose the way she was going in
@@tmcurlyLol. She's definitely crazy AF. Lol 😂
I think she was moving too fast for him and almost giving obsessed! She seems really sweet and meant well but definitely deserves someone who wants the same thing she wants and desires!
She comes off as desperate. She needs to slow down and change her behavior. She is back on the show again. Something isn’t working.
It was more than likely a rebound type of situation. She seems great; sweet and thoughtful. Don't change who are just readjust your heart posture.
Love this ❤
Can you elaborate on heart posture, if you don’t mind?
She needs to readjust her whole way of doing things. I was creeped out listening to her saying she sent gifts weekly. WTH She is giving stalker vibes.
I don’t see how women are comfortable fully taking care of a grown man, I also don’t understand how some men have no shame about it. You can’t complain about women being masculine when you as a man are resting in your femininity
What are you talking about? 😂😂
@@RexBanner_ If you can’t understand then I can’t help you at this point
I feel you on that .
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That man’s love language is not gifts. Listen to his words and follow his lead.
I can definitely feel that. Because I love to give but don’t care about getting gifts either. I love quality time
Sounds like he probably wasn’t healed. You hear about women who display this kind of behavior, but there are men who date unhealed as well.
...and give him some regular (exclusive) pussy.
This part
People speak in their love language. Hers must be Gift Giving.
Girl! These 40 and older men ain’t no better! Trust me!
As a 51 year old , i can 💯😂
Maybe it’s the lake in wish you fish ?
Hmm it's giving trash, sometimes in Bilal voice
Shite that part omg
Most women are picking from the same small pool of men........so what do women expect?? Good Men are out here right in front of most women's face,but he is boring to yall,or not tall enough or something. The problem is mostly with women.
The fact that she said she dated a woman, I see what happened now! She’s desperate for love, she came off waaaaay too strong and buddy got turned off!
Yea, lesbians are into that kinda love bombing, moving fast stuff in their relationships so I see how she attracted one
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She also used that woman so…
I hope she buys her children flights to travel and experience new places like she does for a man. Amen
Women hate to spend money on men 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I hope men do the same.. Hallelujah
@@LongLivDaKing men do how do you think most women go out on dates most men pay for it its rare woman pay for anything and y'all complain about that 😂😂
@@dogbeats9808You need to go outside and experience real people.
@@dogbeats9808 ohh. I was speaking on the take your kids on flights part
My man and I met on Facebook, dated long distance, and then got together when I moved back to my home State. He always takes the lead and plans our dates and we both give each other gifts. I think she did too much for him too soon. They were not really in an exclusive relationship.
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She seems like a very sweet person and has a lot to offer, but next time just slowly introduce the benefits of being with you. I know it’s hard when you really like someone and you are naturally that way, but you have to restrain yourself these days. Slow and steady wins the race! ❤
She’s very sweet! But ladies, please stop giving too much too early, this includes sex! When you give a man too much too early, it can come off overbearing, and overbearing/desperation isn’t sexy!! Yes men like to feel appreciated, but giving buddy gifts everyday upon till his bday? That’s what wives do, and they were only dating for 6 months! She came off desperate for companionship! She even went as far as dating a woman, despite not being into women! She’s just desperately in need of a companion and men will RUN everytime! I’ve seen this lots!
I totally agree! What would you say for practical purposes would be an appropriate way to celebrate his birthday after 4-5 months of dating? We know Vegas and weekly gifts ain't it lol @@Mariobloomart
@@Ameejack real talk, she slightly remind me of a younger me! And I’m a dude! I used to romance and be super giving to women waaaaaaay too soon and boy did I used to get used! lol! But I eventually linked up with someone who was on the same page as me!
@@Mariobloomart Yeah it’s a lot of men and women can relate because they feel like they won a prize and trying to pull out all the stops to keep him or her! I’ve learned through experience that extravagant gifts don’t mean much, it’s all about the things money can’t buy. That’s what really sets the foundation of a genuine relationship.
Blessed queen
He Probably felt like the lady.😂
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If Act like a Lady, think like a Man were a person smh✈️
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Girl no! Don't give him everything upfront unless you know him and y'all want the same thing. Enjoy each other, travel and have fun. Spending on a man creates a lot of problems down the line. What is he working for in the relationship- if you are giving him everything ? Has to be balanced out just a little bit! You are very beautiful ❤️
The Five Love Languages!!! Learn them, and learn your partners’!Just because that’s your language doesn’t mean it’s your partners.That’s where a lot of people fail. I wish you all the best, beautiful 😊
She seems amazing and beautiful. That giving energy will be reciprocated. You deserve that girl!
She was sounding really good, unto she said they weren't even in a relationship. Then she came out the closest. This woman is all over the place.
All over the place
She really is.. her ig disappointed me.. just like all the rest.
Came out the closet?!!
She used that girl too
She has absolutely no boundaries. Never do all this for someone you are not married to. If I was him I would've ran too lol
Why?
@@viviancanela3427I know you didn’t ask me but I feel it’s too much honestly. There’s a guy I’m “friends” with and I use that term loosely because he really likes me and does entirely too much too soon and it’s a huge turnoff and creepy . You can do nice things for ppl but slow and simple .
But you want it done for you.... make it make sense
Not only was she not married to him but she said they were not even in a relationship. Why would you do all that for someone that you feel you are not even in a relationship with?! Make it make sense.
Why?
She lost me at “flew him out”….absolutely NOT‼️
lol of course your kind would be appalled
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Girl you never lieddd. And no other race talks about flying men out either so be bothered if ppl make it seem otherwise. These men are in their feminine.
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Broke goofy's like you are not worthy of anything.@@mikeyy425
I pray she meets a man who appreciates what she has to offer ❤❤ and reciprocates the energy ❤❤ The title sounds so sweet of her!!!!
I had someone similar not too long ago. I just finalized my divorce. I was over my wife, though. I was never going back. It was awkward having a woman wanting to do stuff for me and offering to pay for dinner and take me away on a vacation. I was always the provider, so it was just weird. I was refreshing. I just think I needed time to adjust.
She is an amazing catch.
Seriously!
No tf she isnt😂😂😂
@@marquiwill1he doesn't see the red flags.
@@jonthomson9262 Exactly. She's Certified Crazy. FR
This is how y'all end up with busted windows.😂😂😂😂
Once I read the title of the video I clicked on the notification so quick🤣
Earliest I’ve ever been 😂😂
😂 Girl my finger moved before my brain did
Ikr 😅😅
It's an addiction 😢😂
It's an addiction 😢😂
Ok Lauren London !!!
😂 that’s exactly what I said. She looks just like her!
Def LL mannerisms and vibe, I kept thinking that throughout the interview.
Baby girl, you WILL find a good mama that deserves you. You are a rare find and a sweetheart. ❤
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She's a doll
He may spin tha block
And I wonder how that will go
Because her gifts are detailed and thoughtful
That can be overwhelming and considered love bombing
He won’t spin the block unless he is horny and can’t get it anywhere else.
Excuse me flew him out… 😂😂😂
He just wasn't your person doll. The right one will appreciate all the effort and it won't be "too much". Best of luck to you
It probably was overwhelming him. Some ppl are not used to true givers, and they don't know how to handle someone being nice to them. I wish her the best! 💛🌻🌼
Sweet woman. Very passionate, sincere, thoughtful, and kind. Next time, wait until you're actually in a relationship before you start lavishly spoiling a man. During the dating phase perhaps a gift for a special occasions is ok. You did way too much in a 5-6 months span. Unfortunately, you showered this man with more than he could handle & I'm not just speaking of tangible gifts. You're a good woman. I sincerely hope you get the man that is worthy of you. One that desires to pour into you and give you the love and respect that you desire. A man who is Emotionally healthy, mature, open, honest communication, and wants with you the same things you desire. You're more than deserving, Sis. Lastly, this scenario is one reason why sooo many women are skeptical and don't trust men. Dude was unable to communicate his thoughts/fears/concerns to her. So, he simply played Casper and ghosted her. This beautiful woman didn't deserve this treatment. She deserved a sit-down, open, honest conversation as to why he couldn't cope.
@theericablazeHe was recently divorced. A lot of men go through too much in divorce to want a new relationship right away. It’s too bad this treatment was wasted on a recent divorcee.
I love her. I hope she finds the man of her dreams
Kendra your make-up is flattering to your skin tone.
Paula. You did too much. You displayed masculine energy.The feminine woman sits BACK & RECEIVES. The MAN is the hunter the PROVIDER. When YOU provide you take away his hunter instinct. Men want to hunt YOU not the other way around.
She has a giving heart and that is a beautiful thing, very rare these days. Most are unapologetic takers😂 so she gets points for actually being different.
But it was just a bit too much.
Hopefully she can keep her giving/nurturing nature, but just slow it down a little. I'm sure she won't have a problem finding someone.
I like her, she seems like a catch. Feminine, personality isnt super over bearing, fit, natural face, kids arent too young. I think shes going to be just fine
You didn't hear her masculine talking points? She's the provider etc?
I must add how STUNNING Kendra is looking!!
That brotha probably never received that kind of treatment...Probably got suspicious and thought his wife sent her😂😂😂😂
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I truly loved your interview friend,you're a great person.I think u need to be careful and don't give up much to soon.
She seems nice. Hope she finds a great guy, who can appreciate all the gifts and love.
The gift giving is literally how us geminis are when we like someone. We can’t help it. It’s just how we express ourselves. Personally I had to pull back from doing it because it makes men think you’re desperate which is so sad. It’s not even about a love language it’s just something that brings us joy. Sad that we have to quiet down a piece of who we are because men don’t know how to receive it. But now I just spoil my friends 🥰🥰
Tauruses are like that too.
@@Blockishot2♉️ gang! True, especially when we really like you, we don’t like many 😂
@@Blockishot2Only if we really care about you. I am a Taurus and I give my Sagittarius man gifts, but I do not go overboard. He often gives me surprise gifts.
@@katerab4916say that again! I tell people all the time if I like that’s very rare. Im a loner n people aren’t used to that!
I agree I hate it cause I feel like I’m doing too much that’s just what I like to do
I’m 27 and my man is 42 and we are really happy together. We are both really traditional and want the same things in life and for our future and it’s a plus! I’ve dealt with older men that are just as immature as the men my age but having a older traditional man is perfect for me ❤
What a giver so refreshing
I have done that same thing numerous times for numerous men in my younger years and every single time it turned our relationship building upside down. I came to the conclusion that this is just not something we should be doing when getting to know a man. They really end up resenting you for it or just feeling some type of way and you can see/feel the change. “I never had anyone do things like this for me before” and then BOOM! Downhill….. Never again!
When I have loved on men to that extent, doing those same thoughtful things, they rejected it. They accepted what was given but it seemed to be a turn off and I now understand the multiple reasons why.
Men don’t want gifts from our women. We want your respect and cooperation also subtle expressions of love😎
@@chatroombully I give all of that... I was also giving materials as well but again, I understand that for many reasons, this doesn't go over well. Hard lesson but one that is learned for sure.
@@MySignatureSoul Perhaps you were dating the wrong men. Men like it when a woman shows appreciation because it hardly happens. If a man loves you he will be appreciative.
@@deethomasblack6487 Part of what I noted here was that these were men I was getting to know, as in in the beginning, just as this woman. I am not referring to men who I am in love with and are in love with me. Totally different dynamics.
@@deethomasblack6487 Exactly! I would be mind blown by that and love it! I would also reciprocate.
She is a beautiful young lady, Queen I hope u find some1 that deserves u.
I'm like her too but I was told by a few male friends that I do too much too soon and men want to be the giver and some men will resent you for doing for them.
Love Bombing: Love bombing is a form of psychological and emotional abuse that involves a person going above and beyond for you in an effort to manipulate you into a relationship with them. It looks different for every person, but it usually involves some form of:
Excessive flattery and praise.
Over-communication of their feelings for you.
Showering you with unneeded/unwanted gifts.
Early and intense talks about your future together.
Exactly! I caught on real quick to what home girl was all about. I was in a relationship with a narcissist 6 years ago so I can spot a narcissist a mile away.
😂😂😂😂 You described HER 🤣🤣
And most of them are care givers! And she is a gemini!!!
I was looking for this comment. The love bombing is definitely a red flag. I’m not sure if she’s a narcissist, but that behavior would scare anyone away if they were a victim of narcissistic abuse.
This woman has nuturing instincts. She likes to take care of people, You have to be absolutely sure this is the right person for you before you give your all. Take your time, don't rush the process.
Too sweet❤. I hope she find a very deserving man.
Thanks!
She did too much. Kendra is telling her she did too much. She still can't hear what she did wrong because she is so busy talking about all the things SHE did. He no longer needed to chase her. The thrill was gone.
I don't think she ever gave him a chance to chase. She Basically turned around an did everything he was probably going to do for her, she just got to it first
The first sane woman I’ve ever seen on this show. She will make a good wife.
LADIES, LADIES, LADIES.....PLEASE STOP IT UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED AND HE PUTS A RING ON IT:( SMH:(
If she isn't acting like a wife... she won't be seen as a wife.
She was acting like a trick.
@@DanteFortsonstraight up
@@DanteFortson She literally was 😂😂😂😂
Something is off about this woman. Love bombing at the start is a toxic trait, usually done by toxic individuals to trap or trick someone into a relationship. After the love bombing ends the devaluation begins. By then the love interest(victim) is caught up in a trauma bond with the abuser. These kinds of relationships never ends well. The man that she was dating was smart to leave. In his gut he knew something wasn’t right. Damn I wish I had that discernment when I met my toxic love bombing ex 6 years ago. Oh well you live & you learn.
I agree.
That’s not true tell that to my aunt and uncle who was married for 67 years up until her death four years ago or 3 of my best friends who all have been married for 15+ years got married within 2 months of meeting it’s about really doing the work and really knowing what you want and being intentional and honest from the jump.
I had to read this 3 times, to make sense of this foolishness, she flew Man out & spoil him with gifts 😩 it will be a cold day in hell, if I do that, to a man, that’s NOT committed to me ( marriage )
They weren’t even boyfriend & girlfriend 🥴🥴🤡
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She's a kind and loving person, she just didn't realise she was doing too much. I hope she finds her other half.
I would like to point out two things. 1. It seems like she was love bombing the man. 2. Just because you like certain things, i.e. your love language, doesn't mean it's the same for someone else.
Do these women even Hear theirselves? WTF??
I'm starting to believe that these women dont really want Real Love. FR.
She keep talking about Overwhelming. Ma, if giving and pouring into him more than he is to you...thats not Real Love. Thats Desperation on Your Part.
If a man stays there...hes down to use you. Shout out to him for leaving and not staying to take advantage.
I just had a lady yesterday I talked to a little and said I would follow on IG....and ever since then, she been talking and saying things like I said I was interested in her romantically. Shes a beautiful woman, but I havent expressed 1 hint that I was interested in her romantically. So that is kind of a turnoff to guys. Cause we like...What is wrong with you?? We start looking for flaws on why youre so desperate or feigning. Maybe youre crazy or something.
Its simple ladies. No chasing on either side. Let A Man Pursue You. All you have to do is Reciprocate the Energy he gives back to you...the Same Energy. Its That Simple. Dont do more for him that he does for you in the beginning. Its not that hard or complicated ladies. Mann.
Thank you
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😂😂😂 she thought doing all of that was going to get her “ chose”
Smh it's not funny but it is. That's why I do the bare minimum 😂😂
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@user-vj6pw9my8xhating on her because of her light skin🤦🏽♀️
Yeah she was doing too much. Watch this man fall inlove with someone who does way less. Men don’t fall for women who do these things so soon unless he is a user or Beta male. The gifts won’t make him fall inlove. She also referred to herself as a hot commodity.
I love the 50 year old men! Are fantastic! Very laid back!and treat you like a queen!
Beautiful young lady good luck
Loyalty is everything and she's so open ❤.
He just got out of a divorce,all of that and you wasnt his girlfriend. I feel it was just too much.he probably went back to his wife which is why shes not saying what happened.
NEVER take care of a man and he'll still head over heels YEARS later. If he likes you. Sorry that's just the truth. You never need to break your back for men baby ❤
Paula sis i wish you all love peace an blessing in finding a real man you deserve it you or a beautiful soul ❤
Her love language is definitely Gift Giving … prime example of it … but damn girl this level of love you showing is for your Kids… husband.. you know more important people
I'm half way thru the interview and she sounds like a good woman ....
🇬🇧 I saw the Title and bout near broke my foot running here 😩😩🤣
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She's very high energy, makes me anxious.
She’s a beautiful queen 👸🏾
A birthday gift is cool, but a gift every week up until his birthday is bonkers. Beautiful gesture, but that's way too much, too fast. That is overwhelming. Men like to take things slow, especially if he's fresh out of a divorce
*I would love to hear the guy side of their relationship!!!!!*
She must make big money with that elderly person.
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Klarna 😂😂
She is very emotionally secure. Hopefully she doesn't change and finds someone that reciprocated her efforts.
This is where pretty privilege comes to play. And yes there is a such thing as that. Girl you're pretty. You do not do all that for a guy. They start to think you're not smart and know your worth. So that leads them to think you're promiscuous . And I know it sounds weird but they assume if you are pretty you got all these men coming after you. And if you act too nice they think you're too easy. Too easy accessible. You got to act like a challenge a little bit. Running bathwater , flying him out, etc. NO.
I agree. In her case I wonder if she's desperate or if that's her love language. Gift giving is lowkey controlling and territorial when overdone, and some pretty girls like to be in control. The problem they can feel with being courted is they don't have that control so they prefer to be the one chasing. She probably have a sweet but dominant personality, and need a successful but submissive type of man
She also is the type to get you used to her giving and throw it in your face later. She said she only has one flaw. That’s a red flag.
Kindness should never be overwhelming. You just weren’t the one for him, Sis. Find someone else and keep it moving.
I’m going to be completely honest this woman has a heart of gold it’s not every day you find a woman that doesn’t mind going the extra mile for a man because she knows he would do the same for her I don’t think she’s dumb I think she wants loveand a lot of women miss out on a good man because they’re afraid to spoil him as well
But he didn’t do the same for her 😅 He played her to the left.
She's actually the best person I've seen on this show. Hope she finds a deserving match
They weren't even exclusive? She must have a low self esteem.
She’s so sweet. I hope she finds a good person
Right person wrong time is all this was. You are beautiful in and out. Love will find you when it's the right person and right time. Blessings to you!
I hope she can find someone who is sincere and who can match her energy.. She seems like a real catch.
Just viewed her Instagram.. it’s a big NO, girl you ain’t ready.
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I'm curious, I don't have Instagram, can you please explain the No?
@@ladye1777 she does exotic massages, and also maybe she twerks too much
She has tats all on her thighs and bottom. It’s too much. Also her instagram also wreaks desperation.
She's beautiful and treated him well. Why don't people like kindness? Smh the world loves toxicity
That's crazy to do that much for a man that you only were dating for 6 months! There's a man out there that will appreciate you!
She shows herself desperate !!!!! and OVERBOARD !!!
Kendra you look Fabulous Sis.❤😊
I don’t know what possessed her to do all of this for a man who wasn’t her man. You can’t buy someone into loving you. She’s setting herself to get used every single time smh