Thank you Sasha, your video made me realize how much fear I have inside and what I really want now it's not really sex, money or status but actually the simplicity of being socially free. Of going out there and enjoy life, enjoying myself and meeting new people. To CONNECT to people, to LIFE, to be more able to do it, less afraid. Wow! Connection! Thank you 😊❤️
It's really frustrating seeing a girl and wanting to talk to her but being held back by my beliefs and my terror.. its more like terror. and the low social value i percieve to have, and the low self esteem and everything. it piles on and i feel like im suffocating when the time comes. its alot more relieving to quit right there and stay away from them to begin with ironically.. It's frustrating to watch this.
Hey Brother, appreciate your honestly. Well - that's pretty much where I was at when I started out too. I was REALLY BAD.... and then I decided to take control of my life, started taking risks, started healing myself, started loving myself....... and here we are. It's a journey. The most important part is to realize you CAN get to where you want to be and START DOING SOMETHING! Just start. Make progress. You'll get there eventually...... And we are here to help if you need! :)
@@AlexanderLasarev I realize that on a very "Logical" level. can't say i believe it though. I will get there. Allthough it feels impossible now. I'm at the stage where im trying to Map everything.. kind of like how you would make a complete strategy against an extremely difficult opponent , so you'll know what to do when the time comes but i dont know if that's even the right thing to do. I'm just doing what im good at. or what i think im good at. Thanks for replying , feelsgoodman.
Get money. Then, get women. But always assume women (and men) will steal your money. Protect your money from everyone. As long as you have money, you can have women. Once you have money, women will chase you. Trying to pickup random women on the street is for losers. If you're hot enough and charming enough to easily pickup girls on the street, then just spam girls online with your hot photos, sexy voice, etc. But if you're not a sexy, charming guy, then chase money to get women.
I resonate so much with the way you teach these students. I'm grateful for people like you who allows others to experience parts of themselves they have yet to experience before. Once that they have had a glimpse into their own potential, the switch is on and they can fulfill their true desires without fear of others judgement in the way their life shall be run, or even judging themselves. The Daygame approach is a good philosophy for life, being bold and saying what you really mean and if people dont like it then ok, it wasnt meant to be with them. I have enormously benefited from your videos and mentality on a personal level as i came from watching porn by myself to actually interacting and having authentic deep connections with beautiful women. GO out and accomplish your dreams guys! I am on my way, not knowing where life will take me, although I have the drive to go out and get what I want! Cheers to life
So what did you guys think of our bootcamp footage? Does it look too hard? Too silly? Or does it look like exactly what you need to break out of your shell?
I can't see why talking to women is such a big deal . She's just a humanbeing . Women are lonely , guys need to realize this fact and their walking around the entire day wishing a guy would talk to them .
You are right my man - many women I've met complain that they never meet any genuine guys. That they only meet the fakes/cocky ones..... "WHERE ARE THE NICE GUYS" .... and I tell them - they are out there. It's just that most of the great guys are too scared to approach. (Or don't know how to lead, flirt, get the date, etc etc etc.) All can be learned. The key is to start taking chances and learning from them... and having fun in the process :)
@@AlexanderLasarev I'm glad not stuck in my head like before , but it still happens to me . What has helped me is saying to myself encouraging words like " What's the worst thing that can happen " , I'm just saying hello to her, I'm don't care if she rejects me or not , "I have nothing to lose " You still approach a girl and get her number even when you're nervous . I realized that 99 percent of the time . When a girl turns you down, it has nothing to do with . It's their mind that's missing them up . Sasha keep helping young men .
I spend all day (on any day where it's possible) walking around trying to practice approaching (as of now I'm on trying to practice 'heying' (without stopping) passers-by) without success. I'm also WELL AWARE that women are horny and lonely and want ME in particular to approach them (I've been approached, catcalled -- say three instances of each -- and, other than that, the usual non-verbal invitations); my mouth doesn't open and my feet don't change from whatever they were doing. So your theory that men just need to be told about this stuff doesn't match the reality. Information can't change what a person IS LIKE, it can only change what a person KNOWS. You can reason someone out of misconceptions, you can't reason them out of mental disorders.
I see, its hard too watch for some people like the guy in red cloth said "it's too intense" you had to develop the cringe in yourself I guess can make me clear here ... kkkkkk that power we felt in the stomach the nervous...just watch this video is hard and make someone vibrate out of synchronization
i used to have a problem walking into cafes, bars, shops...so i went on a comedy course, after standing on stage trying to make a room full of people laugh, everything else was easy.
I got to tell you Sasha I have a lot of respect for you seem like a real cool humble guy you seem like one of the good ones in the community mad respect man.
Hey Sasha, I've been doing that for a long time now and I started to help my friends to get that freedom, thanks for everything, still have the fear to start my own business helping people become socially free, you're my man, thanks for the inspiration
Great video! Content and quality, sound , filming, diligence 💪👍. Sadhguru says in his videos, If keep asking is it me ? With time all stuff which is not you will be removed and what is you left. I keep asking and after some time was no answer is it me or not , then I realized that I’m “nothing “ not a thing .
I can't believe you've never read Dr. Albert Ellis. Almost everything you teach comes from him. He did these shame-busting exercises by taking out his clients into the street and asking them directions to the nearest insane asylum. Good to see Dr. Ellis's legacy preserved. :) He was the greatest psychologist of all time, in my opinion.
Lon Spector Aspects of it resonate with me. I seek to heal the relationship between men and women in today’s culture, I consider Sasha to have a very similar personality as me. Part of my mission involves men fiercely working to improve all aspects of themselves so if they are lucky enough to fall in love with a woman, they’ll be able to treat her right. Women benefit from a culture of strong, confident men. Something we are lacking in at the moment. Women are not any better though, and the political left’s vision is doing nothing but creating more distance between the sexes.
Hey sasha, all these guys are pretty young, and havent had the shit kicked out of them by life!! at that age i had the confidence and would socialy have done anything. Didnt see many fifty plus year olds like me in the film. What do guys like me do when the girl of your dreams steals all your money and ruins your life? You go inward and withdraw from the world. Great video though
Dude. I've been f'ed over multiple times, and had plenty of shitty experiences. Been homeless. Been depressed. Lost about a mil the first time around, had TONS of women break my heart.... bla bla bla. So What? It's just fuel to inspire you to overcome, heal, and actually start enjoying life @ higher and higher levels. LOTS of people have shitty experiences - the thing that seperates the happy from the unhappy are - what are you doing to DO with those experiences? Will you see them as the cause of your defeat - or as LESSONS that will help you become the highest version of yourself. That is a CHOICE my brother... a choice. I truly hope you realize that and make the right one.
@@AlexanderLasarev Thanks, what I've done is get healthy, and even at 58 yrs old becoming physically the best version of myself, competing at Tennis at a high level, which is my passion. I lost hundreds of thousands, not millions but it's all relative, but it's what's I invested in that person emotionally that I'm finding tough, so yeah investing in myself and happy to be alone, as I said easier to have that resilience at 28 harder at 58. Maybe when I get back on my feet financially ill take one of your courses. Thanks again for your comments
Gary...I FULLY feel your pain sir! Have had some personal experience with that (twice divorce raped). The ONLY thing you can do is learn and grow from the experience and not put yourself in a position to be played again. Accept the lesson and move forward the best you can. Do NOT stay stuck in the past. Easier said than done, but it's possible because I am doing it.
@@rjbloomquist2104 Hi thanks a lot for even bothering to comment, much appreciated. I have improved myself, lost a ton of weight through living a focussed fasting life, and i look after my 87yr old mother, so what greater purpose could i have than that. Hard lessons have been learned and yes i have Zero money now, but that was my fault made bad choices. Like Sasha says you can only be in the present, and yesterday had an awesome tennis match met a bunch of people, and messaged a a beautiful girl i really like. Thanks have a great day
You have to admit that this is kind of misleading though right? I've done many social freedom challenges, and even then the effect is not necessarily life changing or ever lasting. You have to do a lot of things to actually change your life, your brain, your perspective.
Rainy I'll try to explain the learning process with an analogy. Imagine you're practicing hitting a note on a violine. Unlike on a guitar, there are no frets on a violine, so you need to practice very accurate muscle memory to be able to hit the right notes. You practice this by moving your finger across the string towards the right point, and then stopping there, and you know you're there by continuously playing the string so you can hear the note all the time. You start by moving your finger very very slowly. Over time you get faster. But as you increase the speed you'll start to overshoot or undershoot your target. This is ok, because knowing how to miss your note will actually help you with hitting it. It may sound paradoxical, but it works. So in fact you overshoot and undershoot on purpose, you do this several times, and you can hear the result. Then you try to hit the note perfectly. You repeat this process until you get better at it. It's the same with learning to approach women. You need to practice overshooting and undershooting, but very slowly and carefully, never too much, and you have to be observant of what's happening as a result. Over time you increase the speed, but since you have experience you won't overshoot and undershoot as much as you would've as a complete beginner. So if you fail a little bit, it won't matter so much. A big difference between missing your target in pick-up compared to missing notes on the violine is that you don't need to be perfect. People are forgiving because they're not perfect themselves. So you'll likely see good results much faster.
Yep I often talk about this - the students that DO THE HOMEWORK and KEEP FLEXING those muscles do excellent. The ones that get lazy - not so much. Fortunately we do have a private group for students and there is some follow up.... but ultimately it's up to everyone to be reasonable for pushing themselves until social freedom (And following your instincts) becomes a part of who you are.
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.😂 It's 2020, *Just go fucking do it!*
If you feel totally comfortable talking to whoever you want whenever you want .... and you are able to fully express yourself authentically (including your sexual intentions) .... do you need to learn "pickup?" ;)
I guess what I meant was “it seemed to me the overwhelming focus of the course was basically overcoming approach anxiety and I thought it was more about social freedom generally “
"Approach anxiety" is just one symptom of lacking social freedom. There are MANy others..... All get crushed if you truly master the social freedom aspect.
Im the guy from 52second+ . Iv done whole week with Sasha, 2 days social freedom and then 5 days private coaching. Just the weekend of social freedom was huge... Later we worked on my individual mental set backs, got advice on dating, life and so on. I feel way more free, i dont give a fuck what people think about me and what i do, if i want to do something and its not "socially acceptable" its their problem, i trust my instintcs. Aproaching women on the streets is still stresful, especially 1st aproach of the day and in crowded places, but thanks to techniques from the course iv got skillset to practice. Dont be fooled that the course will instantly make Casanova out of you. Its just amazing start, you still gotta work on yourself, appearance, your conversation skills, life goals, how to escalate with women etc AND practice! But without the push from Sasha and his crew i would propably never aproach anyone on the streets. Results? After coming home i taught my friend the crucial skills, and while still learning from Sashas, RSD courses, Todds advice, wev been aproaching women for couple of days and they love it lots of the time, anxiety kicks back if you stop aproaching but with every aproach its getting easier QUICKLY! Im way more open to meeting new people, just randomly talking to strangers. So despite doing many mistakes we instantly got few dates. My buddy just started relationship and i found amazing woman myself as well. Just gotta be authentic what Sasha is highly recommending. Good things start coming to you when your authentic and saying what u feel without worrying how people will judge you.
@@piotrsowa9560 If you have found an amazing woman and feel better about yourself, that's cool. Do you really not 'give a fuck' what people think about you? Your parents, friends, people you work with; you don't give a fuck, cos you're being 'authentic'? It seems authenticity is the new buzzword. If you are authentic it gives you freedom to do and say what you want, cos you're being true to yourself. It seems kinda naive. We live in society and play the game of society. The game has rules. Are you special, exempt from these rules? Have you read Robert Greene's stuff? The 48 rules seems like a more strategic approach to navigating society's game. If you just don't give a fuck and want to be authentic (whatever that actually means), you might be fucking yourself over. If I say to my boss what i actually feel , i'll be fired. There is no magic bullet. If people want to change, it will be incremental. Introspection, writing goals, overcoming fear etc. If you depend on your interaction with women as your source of validation you will always be dependent. Look inside, for something stable, a rock to stand on. Independent.
@@robmacer8074 Yes i care way less. Im not ashamed of what i want. That doesnt mean im running naked on the streets or telling strangers/ boss what i think about them all the time. Im less afraid to speak up or do a fool of myself. Often times among friends ill say things i wouldnt say before because its "weird". Wev done most weird things u can imagine on this course so i dont care that much what others think now. And those who stay and think ur not weird but actually brave well now youv got authentic interaction. For example i told my close and not so close friends at a party that im going to attend 1 week primal therapy recomended by Sasha which is therapy decoding some childhood traumas, suposedly life changing shit. 1st reaction? WTF? is something wrong with u? why would u need therapy, weird looks etc. But i calmly explained what i think about it and why im going, clearly not giving a shit what they think and suddenly someone said yea thats a cool idea id like to try something like that, then more and more people admit that they actually go to psychologist themself but were to afraid to admit it in the begining. Plenty of other situations where im not afraid to go 1st, lead or look foolish. If u look foolish and are ashamed of it then it sux, but if u dont give a fuck people dont give a fuck too ;)
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Thank you Sasha, your video made me realize how much fear I have inside and what I really want now it's not really sex, money or status but actually the simplicity of being socially free. Of going out there and enjoy life, enjoying myself and meeting new people. To CONNECT to people, to LIFE, to be more able to do it, less afraid. Wow! Connection! Thank you 😊❤️
Note to myself: Just be more loose, less serious. Why so serious? Hahaha
Glad to hear it!!!! YOU GOT IT!
I felt more synchronize with the real me and real feelings
"You're there, what's left is you..." - Sasha. *** Brilliant ***
Thank you , I was too afraid to go out let alone talk to any other human but now I talk to others and have friends .This changed my life .
*Excuse me miss, I don’t want to be weird or anything but uhhhhhhhhhhhhhh*
five days later uhhhhhhh
It's really frustrating seeing a girl and wanting to talk to her but being held back by my beliefs and my terror.. its more like terror. and the low social value i percieve to have, and the low self esteem and everything. it piles on and i feel like im suffocating when the time comes. its alot more relieving to quit right there and stay away from them to begin with ironically..
It's frustrating to watch this.
Hey Brother, appreciate your honestly. Well - that's pretty much where I was at when I started out too. I was REALLY BAD.... and then I decided to take control of my life, started taking risks, started healing myself, started loving myself....... and here we are. It's a journey. The most important part is to realize you CAN get to where you want to be and START DOING SOMETHING! Just start. Make progress. You'll get there eventually...... And we are here to help if you need! :)
@@AlexanderLasarev I realize that on a very "Logical" level. can't say i believe it though.
I will get there. Allthough it feels impossible now. I'm at the stage where im trying to Map everything.. kind of like how you would make a complete strategy against an extremely difficult opponent , so you'll know what to do when the time comes but i dont know if that's even the right thing to do.
I'm just doing what im good at. or what i think im good at.
Thanks for replying , feelsgoodman.
Get money. Then, get women. But always assume women (and men) will steal your money. Protect your money from everyone.
As long as you have money, you can have women. Once you have money, women will chase you.
Trying to pickup random women on the street is for losers. If you're hot enough and charming enough to easily pickup girls on the street,
then just spam girls online with your hot photos, sexy voice, etc. But if you're not a sexy, charming guy, then chase money to get women.
I resonate so much with the way you teach these students. I'm grateful for people like you who allows others to experience parts of themselves they have yet to experience before. Once that they have had a glimpse into their own potential, the switch is on and they can fulfill their true desires without fear of others judgement in the way their life shall be run, or even judging themselves. The Daygame approach is a good philosophy for life, being bold and saying what you really mean and if people dont like it then ok, it wasnt meant to be with them. I have enormously benefited from your videos and mentality on a personal level as i came from watching porn by myself to actually interacting and having authentic deep connections with beautiful women. GO out and accomplish your dreams guys! I am on my way, not knowing where life will take me, although I have the drive to go out and get what I want! Cheers to life
So what did you guys think of our bootcamp footage? Does it look too hard? Too silly? Or does it look like exactly what you need to break out of your shell?
I thought is was awesome like always. Very inspiring and as though I can feel what they feel in a miniature way.
Awesome! I laughed my stomach out.
And that's great, we must enjoy ourselves and have fun around others.
Infinite Man Direct Dating amazing , just right!
Man thanks this was so inspiring.
I love your channel, I love what you're doing and this video literally made my day better. Very inspiring.
Thanks brother! :)
Well done everyone on the bootcamp and best wishes for a new chapter in your life
This could be called the Slavoj Zizek School of Pick Up... *spits and sniffs*
I can't see why talking to women is such a big deal . She's just a humanbeing . Women are lonely , guys need to realize this fact and their walking around the entire day wishing a guy would talk to them .
You are right my man - many women I've met complain that they never meet any genuine guys. That they only meet the fakes/cocky ones..... "WHERE ARE THE NICE GUYS" .... and I tell them - they are out there. It's just that most of the great guys are too scared to approach. (Or don't know how to lead, flirt, get the date, etc etc etc.) All can be learned. The key is to start taking chances and learning from them... and having fun in the process :)
@@AlexanderLasarev I'm glad not stuck in my head like before , but it still happens to me . What has helped me is saying to myself encouraging words like " What's the worst thing that can happen " , I'm just saying hello to her, I'm don't care if she rejects me or not , "I have nothing to lose " You still approach a girl and get her number even when you're nervous . I realized that 99 percent of the time . When a girl turns you down, it has nothing to do with . It's their mind that's missing them up . Sasha keep helping young men .
I spend all day (on any day where it's possible) walking around trying to practice approaching (as of now I'm on trying to practice 'heying' (without stopping) passers-by) without success.
I'm also WELL AWARE that women are horny and lonely and want ME in particular to approach them (I've been approached, catcalled -- say three instances of each -- and, other than that, the usual non-verbal invitations); my mouth doesn't open and my feet don't change from whatever they were doing.
So your theory that men just need to be told about this stuff doesn't match the reality. Information can't change what a person IS LIKE, it can only change what a person KNOWS. You can reason someone out of misconceptions, you can't reason them out of mental disorders.
Oh man so good ideas to destroy shyness. This was funny!
This is so beautiful.
I see, its hard too watch for some people like the guy in red cloth said "it's too intense" you had to develop the cringe in yourself I guess can make me clear here ... kkkkkk that power we felt in the stomach the nervous...just watch this video is hard and make someone vibrate out of synchronization
I thought women had issues but I feel a lot of compassion for you guys!
...and empathy. 👍 Social anxiety, lack of skills, and self esteem is prevalent. 🤗
@@elram2649 So true!
@Que_Rico I didn't but I'm starting to!
@Que_Rico Wow! Interesting!
There is this freedom vibe coming from this video. Mostly when "the camera guy ran to talk to a girl" LOL
Hi, Sasha from Hellas! You are a decent fellow!
i used to have a problem walking into cafes, bars, shops...so i went on a comedy course, after standing on stage trying to make a room full of people laugh, everything else was easy.
This is incredible!!
I got to tell you Sasha I have a lot of respect for you seem like a real cool humble guy you seem like one of the good ones in the community mad respect man.
Your doing great work Sasha!
The evolution of Sasha is pretty epic, love where this channel is going
Thanks brother. Judging from the attendees of my recent talks.... I'm not the only one evolving. And thank god for that! :)
Hey Sasha, I've been doing that for a long time now and I started to help my friends to get that freedom, thanks for everything, still have the fear to start my own business helping people become socially free, you're my man, thanks for the inspiration
Wow I want it too
What kind of techniques have you been doing with them?
Great work m8
What is the homework to maintain this after the program?
When are you coming to amsterdam @sasha? Can't find it
Can I do a course bro? When are you coming to Taiwan?
No Taiwan plans, but if you are serious fill out an application form... and if there are enough guys interested I might come out there....
Your haircut is straight fire
Great video! Content and quality, sound , filming, diligence 💪👍.
Sadhguru says in his videos, If keep asking is it me ? With time all stuff which is not you will be removed and what is you left.
I keep asking and after some time was no answer is it me or not , then I realized that I’m “nothing “ not a thing .
I can't believe you've never read Dr. Albert Ellis. Almost everything you teach comes from him. He did these shame-busting exercises by taking out his clients into the street and asking them directions to the nearest insane asylum. Good to see Dr. Ellis's legacy preserved. :) He was the greatest psychologist of all time, in my opinion.
Where were u for long 🕒⏰time. Man ur content is amazing
I've been busy working on myself.... now I'm back, baby. And it's the Real me ;) heheeee
That ending discourse was money. What’s left after you’ve properly processed and faced your fears? Passion and action baby.
Lon Spector That has nothing to do with my comment.
Lon Spector Aspects of it resonate with me. I seek to heal the relationship between men and women in today’s culture, I consider Sasha to have a very similar personality as me. Part of my mission involves men fiercely working to improve all aspects of themselves so if they are lucky enough to fall in love with a woman, they’ll be able to treat her right. Women benefit from a culture of strong, confident men. Something we are lacking in at the moment. Women are not any better though, and the political left’s vision is doing nothing but creating more distance between the sexes.
You'll see me at a bootcamp soon
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Cool guys!
Is this the direct dating boot camp or social freedom boot camp?
yeah man don't give a fuck about what other strangers think of you and you will life a happy life!
I hope BBC is watching this. Only these men know exactly what social anxiety can to to your confidence as a man.
I like it man
Hey sasha, all these guys are pretty young, and havent had the shit kicked out of them by life!! at that age i had the confidence and would socialy have done anything.
Didnt see many fifty plus year olds like me in the film.
What do guys like me do when the girl of your dreams steals all your money and ruins your life?
You go inward and withdraw from the world. Great video though
Dude. I've been f'ed over multiple times, and had plenty of shitty experiences. Been homeless. Been depressed. Lost about a mil the first time around, had TONS of women break my heart.... bla bla bla. So What? It's just fuel to inspire you to overcome, heal, and actually start enjoying life @ higher and higher levels. LOTS of people have shitty experiences - the thing that seperates the happy from the unhappy are - what are you doing to DO with those experiences? Will you see them as the cause of your defeat - or as LESSONS that will help you become the highest version of yourself. That is a CHOICE my brother... a choice. I truly hope you realize that and make the right one.
@@AlexanderLasarev Thanks, what I've done is get healthy, and even at 58 yrs old becoming physically the best version of myself, competing at Tennis at a high level, which is my passion.
I lost hundreds of thousands, not millions but it's all relative, but it's what's I invested in that person emotionally that I'm finding tough, so yeah investing in myself and happy to be alone, as I said easier to have that resilience at 28 harder at 58.
Maybe when I get back on my feet financially ill take one of your courses. Thanks again for your comments
Gary...I FULLY feel your pain sir! Have had some personal experience with that (twice divorce raped). The ONLY thing you can do is learn and grow from the experience and not put yourself in a position to be played again. Accept the lesson and move forward the best you can. Do NOT stay stuck in the past. Easier said than done, but it's possible because I am doing it.
@@rjbloomquist2104 Hi thanks a lot for even bothering to comment, much appreciated.
I have improved myself, lost a ton of weight through living a focussed fasting life, and i look after my 87yr old mother, so what greater purpose could i have than that.
Hard lessons have been learned and yes i have Zero money now, but that was my fault made bad choices.
Like Sasha says you can only be in the present, and yesterday had an awesome tennis match met a bunch of people, and messaged a a beautiful girl i really like.
Thanks have a great day
Sir, watch this video till end
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You have to admit that this is kind of misleading though right? I've done many social freedom challenges, and even then the effect is not necessarily life changing or ever lasting. You have to do a lot of things to actually change your life, your brain, your perspective.
It's a work in progress sure, but you need to take the initial step. FEAR is a fucker of a thing.
Rainy I'll try to explain the learning process with an analogy. Imagine you're practicing hitting a note on a violine. Unlike on a guitar, there are no frets on a violine, so you need to practice very accurate muscle memory to be able to hit the right notes.
You practice this by moving your finger across the string towards the right point, and then stopping there, and you know you're there by continuously playing the string so you can hear the note all the time.
You start by moving your finger very very slowly. Over time you get faster. But as you increase the speed you'll start to overshoot or undershoot your target. This is ok, because knowing how to miss your note will actually help you with hitting it. It may sound paradoxical, but it works. So in fact you overshoot and undershoot on purpose, you do this several times, and you can hear the result. Then you try to hit the note perfectly. You repeat this process until you get better at it.
It's the same with learning to approach women. You need to practice overshooting and undershooting, but very slowly and carefully, never too much, and you have to be observant of what's happening as a result.
Over time you increase the speed, but since you have experience you won't overshoot and undershoot as much as you would've as a complete beginner. So if you fail a little bit, it won't matter so much.
A big difference between missing your target in pick-up compared to missing notes on the violine is that you don't need to be perfect. People are forgiving because they're not perfect themselves. So you'll likely see good results much faster.
This is true but you need something to get you moving to begin with and it seems like this is it
Yep I often talk about this - the students that DO THE HOMEWORK and KEEP FLEXING those muscles do excellent. The ones that get lazy - not so much. Fortunately we do have a private group for students and there is some follow up.... but ultimately it's up to everyone to be reasonable for pushing themselves until social freedom (And following your instincts) becomes a part of who you are.
That's why we include lifetime follow-up for Bootcamp grads ;-)
what a chad
Sasha or Alexander should do Bjj. I can tell he would be really good at it
Feels scammy. Though I totally get it. I'm lucky I didn't need the "coaching" to be confident.
I love your look Sasha, wish you viel gluck
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.😂
It's 2020, *Just go fucking do it!*
Is that Isabelle your ex?
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Very inspiring. Also at the point of being extremely pissed off with all the lost opportunities.
Does anyone know what the name of this workshop is?
It's the social freedom for Dating workshop, all info is over on www.infinitemansummit.com / fill out the form and we'll reach out ;)
Sasha Daygame
Thanks guys! You the man Sasha!
So it’s really a pickup workshop?
If you feel totally comfortable talking to whoever you want whenever you want .... and you are able to fully express yourself authentically (including your sexual intentions) .... do you need to learn "pickup?" ;)
I guess what I meant was “it seemed to me the overwhelming focus of the course was basically overcoming approach anxiety and I thought it was more about social freedom generally “
"Approach anxiety" is just one symptom of lacking social freedom. There are MANy others..... All get crushed if you truly master the social freedom aspect.
I like that video
I wonder how these guys are a week after the course. Can any meaningful change happen in a few hours?
Im the guy from 52second+ . Iv done whole week with Sasha, 2 days social freedom and then 5 days private coaching. Just the weekend of social freedom was huge... Later we worked on my individual mental set backs, got advice on dating, life and so on.
I feel way more free, i dont give a fuck what people think about me and what i do, if i want to do something and its not "socially acceptable" its their problem, i trust my instintcs.
Aproaching women on the streets is still stresful, especially 1st aproach of the day and in crowded places, but thanks to techniques from the course iv got skillset to practice.
Dont be fooled that the course will instantly make Casanova out of you. Its just amazing start, you still gotta work on yourself, appearance, your conversation skills, life goals, how to escalate with women etc AND practice!
But without the push from Sasha and his crew i would propably never aproach anyone on the streets.
Results?
After coming home i taught my friend the crucial skills, and while still learning from Sashas, RSD courses, Todds advice, wev been aproaching women for couple of days and they love it lots of the time, anxiety kicks back if you stop aproaching but with every aproach its getting easier QUICKLY!
Im way more open to meeting new people, just randomly talking to strangers. So despite doing many mistakes we instantly got few dates. My buddy just started relationship and i found amazing woman myself as well. Just gotta be authentic what Sasha is highly recommending. Good things start coming to you when your authentic and saying what u feel without worrying how people will judge you.
@@piotrsowa9560 If you have found an amazing woman and feel better about yourself, that's cool.
Do you really not 'give a fuck' what people think about you? Your parents, friends, people you work with; you don't give a fuck, cos you're being 'authentic'? It seems authenticity is the new buzzword. If you are authentic it gives you freedom to do and say what you want, cos you're being true to yourself. It seems kinda naive. We live in society and play the game of society. The game has rules. Are you special, exempt from these rules?
Have you read Robert Greene's stuff? The 48 rules seems like a more strategic approach to navigating society's game. If you just don't give a fuck and want to be authentic (whatever that actually means), you might be fucking yourself over. If I say to my boss what i actually feel , i'll be fired.
There is no magic bullet. If people want to change, it will be incremental. Introspection, writing goals, overcoming fear etc. If you depend on your interaction with women as your source of validation you will always be dependent. Look inside, for something stable, a rock to stand on. Independent.
@@robmacer8074 Yes i care way less. Im not ashamed of what i want. That doesnt mean im running naked on the streets or telling strangers/ boss what i think about them all the time.
Im less afraid to speak up or do a fool of myself.
Often times among friends ill say things i wouldnt say before because its "weird". Wev done most weird things u can imagine on this course so i dont care that much what others think now. And those who stay and think ur not weird but actually brave well now youv got authentic interaction.
For example i told my close and not so close friends at a party that im going to attend 1 week primal therapy recomended by Sasha which is therapy decoding some childhood traumas, suposedly life changing shit. 1st reaction? WTF? is something wrong with u? why would u need therapy, weird looks etc. But i calmly explained what i think about it and why im going, clearly not giving a shit what they think and suddenly someone said yea thats a cool idea id like to try something like that, then more and more people admit that they actually go to psychologist themself but were to afraid to admit it in the begining.
Plenty of other situations where im not afraid to go 1st, lead or look foolish. If u look foolish and are ashamed of it then it sux, but if u dont give a fuck people dont give a fuck too ;)
@@robmacer8074 anyway its hard to describe , so just do the course if u can afford
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@@AlexanderLasarev it just keeps loading and nothing happens on my laptop and phone. Im in the ukraine maybe its the location ?
Are you doing a live workshop in kiev anytime soon id like to know more if you are ?
The only page that loaded was to get on the newsletter but it wont then accept my submission
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Yeah but what if you're awkward and weird, huh? Then what?
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We're in Miami often. Contact us if you're serious!
Infinite Man Direct Dating I’m extremely serious, how do I contact ?
Watching it 11th time
Come to India man seriously
Wth are you in Ireland?
I can see how this might help. But this weird shit isn't necessary
Grow your hair back out bro
cold approach is dead