It would take a little adjustment, but I think it would be fine. My boyfriend can only see out of one eye and I've totally forgotten about it. I read him just fine!
I've done this experiment several times without anyone's consent, just staring at people in the bus. The kicker is, when I do this I intentionally blur my vision. I basically cheat but can totally tell I'm making the other person uncomfortable, lel..
They tried in the debates. Hillary looked down, saint Donald of Triumph one that one. That is why he is crown imperial leader of the free world right now. That is why you are not locked up in podestas dungeon right now also. And why they do not power LA with your wife's brainpower.. The left loves electricity, and where is the most electricity untapped? Thats right, the human brain, we are walking batteries really, nothing more. Your phone dies, stick a needle in your head, that is us. They should make an earphone/charging ting now, nobody is working on it, mkay, fine, I will make that billion then.
I live in London, I try to look at people in the eyes when I'm out and about all the time. The lack of reciprocation really makes me feel like I'm some kind of creep or at the very least unattractive. It's pretty frustrating :(
Massa yup now if you stare at people they will see you weird. Your not normal if your not staring down at your phone. That’s fucking sad nowadays.....people see you as weird if ur not looking at ur phone but choose to look around.
You can see that almost everyone avoids this tension but this is the tension we need to grow and to become attractive. It is tension filled with overwhelming Love and appreciating the moment as if time stopped. Very powerful Sasha
Staring in silence will always be uncomfortable even if it's with someone you're in love with. It is much easier to stare into someone's eyes why you are having a very interesting conversation with each other. Just make sure it's not one-sided meaning you're the only one doing all the talking. And if you wander from the eyes, just keep your focus on the facial structure and nowhere else. I like to point out the parts of the face that I admire about the person I'm talking with. Yes, I'm a real psychologist who also does social experiments throughout Los Angeles.
London especially is a cold place in terms of expression, emotion and presence. There's one thing that goes and that is 'mind your own business'. On public transport you wonder if you're surrounded by human beings or metal covered in skin because of tight social expectations. Just catching someone's eye is considered in most cases so I'm impressed you got son Londonders to warm up to you like that and spend not 0.01 seconds accidentally catching your eye but a whole minute of gazing. Have you noticed the same 'coldness' on transport or even outside?
Agreed, born and raised Londoner. I think there is something wrong with people in general maybe because I've been here too long. You hang around unlikable people long enough you become one.
@@adrianoherger tell that to the people who colonized those countries no one alive today is responsible for that...it's like a black person today blaming slavery for his short comings...it's not 1880 it's 2018
This is really really cool! Good experiement Sasha! I watched your videos back in 2013, and i told my friend that i wanna be like you one day. haha I even bought your app once and went hit the streets. After some years i lost that social freedom and was not connecting to people anymore, and i was lying to myself telling that that phase was gone, that is not the same feeling anymore. But i was wrong, you just need to keep pushing, keep connecting and trust the process. It's never too late to come back and start connecting with people and talk to girls again. You just need to keep in mind that are gonna be bad and boring days, but the awesome days with feelings of love and hapiness will come as well. Keepitup!
This is really great. Social experiments are always fascinating and you're probably one of the very few people who can pull them off and get a great reaction from people !
Did this yesterday with a girl I just met! Synchronicities through youtube and my own personal life are freaking me out, in a good way. But I love the Spiritual Social Experiment Idea! LOVE IT DUDE
Our eyes are windows to our souls we see the reflection of ourselves in the glaze and light but looking pass it and into that person we can sense their inner being resonating with ours. It's a intimate and beautifully connective feeling we have but sadly something we don't share enough of in the modern world.
I love your work Sasha! This is a beautiful showing that laughing is actually a fear response and something the body does as when faced when an overwhelming situation! I used to think laughing was just because something was funny, but turns out it is a fear response too! This is great example. Pretty cool stuff.
When you watch old videos of NY and other places people actually interacted whit each other, now a days you go to a subway cramped whit people and you still feel alone.
I think the lesson here is to make longer eye contact with people, not to go around trying to stare into people's eyes for 60 seconds. When I talk to people I make eye contact a lot, but when I see people on the bus I tend to look anywhere but at them and especially not their eyes
I am surprised that none of these women accused you of sexual harassment, sexual assault, or rape. Then again, women can change their minds so you still might be charged a week, month, year, decade, or score from now. The first accusation will result in a cascade of several other women coming forward. Another #metoo moment.
I love you sasha please do more of these :) I do meditation and self Enquiry and have done for 2 years now! I feel more at peace and happier but I still have problems with being able to connect with strangers, I hope to meet you one day so I can learn from a great, fearless, loving teacher that you are! Thankyou Sasha
Stupidist comment I have read all day. Is the Capital, the central hub of international meeting, connection, airports and ports going to be filled with different people, yes. It is everywhere in the world... Because it is very connected to every part of the world. Will a little village 100's of km's out have the same diversity? No. Because the connection between let's say Israel or america is so far away. Jesus, this is what a capital city is and is for and is by no means new to our century. Everyone from other countries who have business will mostly have it in the capital or where the easiest part of the country to get to is.
She was just making up a reason because unlike Western people, who sleep with a different person every week, Muslim women and men can only have minimal contact with the opposite sex.
what happens to your family isnt the same to others if this is what happens to your mom and your sister then dont expect others to have the same things.
Human beings have evolved to not stare. In the animal world this is confrontational its not because we're disconnected. When someone stares at you without reason your amygdala is set off to think danger
Dude, it's not that having a connection with people is weird. What's weird is staring into someones eyes for a full minute without saying a word to each other.
I don't know about staring directly in the eyes the whole time. I tend to analyze a persons body language and whatever other possible expressions they could be making. When I make eye contact it's usually a cue to say I'm still listening or still attentive to the conversation or whatever is happening. Although, sometimes people think I am a weird for staring at people. Haha I just can't please everyone. 😆
It’s not a matter of modern society making us anxious and squirmy, we do not trust strangers by way of nature until we communicate through the unique human connection that is language. Try staring at your friend for a minute... it won’t necessarily be easy but more natural than with any stranger
We are not our personalities, we are not our egos, we are not even our bodies, we are what is behind those eyes, a brain (a chunk of organic paste) that packs in neurons that send and receive electrical messages in light speed to ultimately form emotions. When I see someone in the eye, I think of that paste of matter, forming and deforming, processing information, almost imagining to reaching out to it and connecting it with the paste of matter in my head.
what an awesome video... this is the 2nd video I've watched for you, and you have a new subscriber. That was quite remarkable, and a wonderful idea. I will try it with others. Keep up the good work.
Never take eye contact for granted, it is a beautiful thing. I’m blind in one eye, wonder how this would turn out for me
About half as well
Michael Goldstein 50/50
It would take a little adjustment, but I think it would be fine. My boyfriend can only see out of one eye and I've totally forgotten about it. I read him just fine!
@Eric Cartman BBBBBBewwwwwbbbbbsssss!!!!!!!!!
I've done this experiment several times without anyone's consent, just staring at people in the bus.
The kicker is, when I do this I intentionally blur my vision. I basically cheat but can totally tell I'm making the other person uncomfortable, lel..
You forgot to write ( IN THE HOOD) ( GONE SEXUAL) GONE WRONG)
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would pay to see Trump and Hillary stare for 60 seconds
Lukáš Duběda lmfao
They tried in the debates. Hillary looked down, saint Donald of Triumph one that one. That is why he is crown imperial leader of the free world right now. That is why you are not locked up in podestas dungeon right now also. And why they do not power LA with your wife's brainpower.. The left loves electricity, and where is the most electricity untapped? Thats right, the human brain, we are walking batteries really, nothing more. Your phone dies, stick a needle in your head, that is us. They should make an earphone/charging ting now, nobody is working on it, mkay, fine, I will make that billion then.
A shame she isn’t in prison
@@LukasDubeda probably :'D hahahahaha
Yo, you are definitely weird
I live in London, I try to look at people in the eyes when I'm out and about all the time. The lack of reciprocation really makes me feel like I'm some kind of creep or at the very least unattractive. It's pretty frustrating :(
This is what we need as humans - now, more than ever. Real and true experience in the present moment
Back then eye contact was a normal thing, now people consider it intimidating and flirty.
Massa yup now if you stare at people they will see you weird. Your not normal if your not staring down at your phone. That’s fucking sad nowadays.....people see you as weird if ur not looking at ur phone but choose to look around.
They say when you make contact there's only two things that can happen. Either you make love, or you make war.
@toyina kumanya People
Eyes are a reflection of the soul. You can see how many people feel a connection just after looking in each others' eyes.
You can see that almost everyone avoids this tension but this is the tension we need to grow and to become attractive. It is tension filled with overwhelming Love and appreciating the
moment as if time stopped. Very powerful Sasha
It's crazy how you went from connecting with girls to connecting with human beings as a whole. I like that. Huge respect, man.
3:34 She wanted so much more from you.
Hope you didn't disappoint her.
Igor Kovács She’s attractive.
@@39Hundred she looks like she can't wait to suck hes soul out,
didnt even see it dam
@@lameguitarguy8489 Time to keep your eyes peeled, man ;) So you don't miss a Miss like this.
Exactlyyy..!
Staring in silence will always be uncomfortable even if it's with someone you're in love with. It is much easier to stare into someone's eyes why you are having a very interesting conversation with each other. Just make sure it's not one-sided meaning you're the only one doing all the talking. And if you wander from the eyes, just keep your focus on the facial structure and nowhere else. I like to point out the parts of the face that I admire about the person I'm talking with. Yes, I'm a real psychologist who also does social experiments throughout Los Angeles.
London especially is a cold place in terms of expression, emotion and presence. There's one thing that goes and that is 'mind your own business'. On public transport you wonder if you're surrounded by human beings or metal covered in skin because of tight social expectations. Just catching someone's eye is considered in most cases so I'm impressed you got son Londonders to warm up to you like that and spend not 0.01 seconds accidentally catching your eye but a whole minute of gazing.
Have you noticed the same 'coldness' on transport or even outside?
Agreed, born and raised Londoner. I think there is something wrong with people in general maybe because I've been here too long. You hang around unlikable people long enough you become one.
London has fallen
@@karlkarg4713 colonizing half of the world has some price you know...
@@adrianoherger tell that to the people who colonized those countries no one alive today is responsible for that...it's like a black person today blaming slavery for his short comings...it's not 1880 it's 2018
Its like that because of multiculturalism
3:39 what a beautiful girl
Aww she is pretty smile 💎😊💛
This is really really cool! Good experiement Sasha! I watched your videos back in 2013, and i told my friend that i wanna be like you one day. haha I even bought your app once and went hit the streets. After some years i lost that social freedom and was not connecting to people anymore, and i was lying to myself telling that that phase was gone, that is not the same feeling anymore. But i was wrong, you just need to keep pushing, keep connecting and trust the process. It's never too late to come back and start connecting with people and talk to girls again. You just need to keep in mind that are gonna be bad and boring days, but the awesome days with feelings of love and hapiness will come as well.
Keepitup!
If I lock eyes with a girl for more than 3 seconds I fall in love, so this wouldn't work well for me.
I can't imagine doing this. It took me a long time to work up the courage to look my cat in the eye...
Jesus loves you so much
This is really great. Social experiments are always fascinating and you're probably one of the very few people who can pull them off and get a great reaction from people !
Did this yesterday with a girl I just met! Synchronicities through youtube and my own personal life are freaking me out, in a good way. But I love the Spiritual Social Experiment Idea! LOVE IT DUDE
first girl is absolutely stunning
100% sure she is swedish.
@@TomWallischh Nope. She's definitely Norwegian. I'm Norwegian and I recognize her accent.
@@AwkwardFishGuy nah she's definitely from the Congo. I know that accent anywhere.
if shes not Swedish then shes Norwegian...or Danish :D All the same people anyway
Yeah I would have stared at her for like 1/2 hour and been like nah it’s only been like 27 seconds, keep going lol
Love this. Just shows how easy it is to fall in love. We are all the same I guess, and that goes against everything we are taught by society
1:57 "no, we're gonna do it" she said no before... You don't need to force it man..
Our eyes are windows to our souls we see the reflection of ourselves in the glaze and light but looking pass it and into that person we can sense their inner being resonating with ours. It's a intimate and beautifully connective feeling we have but sadly something we don't share enough of in the modern world.
I don't think staring at someone eyes for 1 minute would connect any shit lol.
this is beautiful!
"How long is it now?" - "About 11 and a half inches"
This shit had me dying 😭
Do that in my neighbourhood you better be prepared to rumble.
I love your work Sasha!
This is a beautiful showing that laughing is actually a fear response and something the body does as when faced when an overwhelming situation!
I used to think laughing was just because something was funny, but turns out it is a fear response too! This is great example.
Pretty cool stuff.
”u have a beautiful presence” lmao
When you watch old videos of NY and other places people actually interacted whit each other, now a days you go to a subway cramped whit people and you still feel alone.
The moment i eye gaze with a girl my started to pound faster and faster and it felt like i just met my soul partner.
I did this once, they told me "WTF are you looking at" before a gang appeared and beat the shit out of me.
"He's not my boyfriend" that guy took a big L 😭🤣
01:09 Wow, what a great energy this girl has!
Sasha! I wish you had more clips on this and it was longer. It made me feel soo good
Tanks I really like that kind of connection with people. We are forgetting magic
I think the lesson here is to make longer eye contact with people, not to go around trying to stare into people's eyes for 60 seconds. When I talk to people I make eye contact a lot, but when I see people on the bus I tend to look anywhere but at them and especially not their eyes
Beautiful message!!!
2:05 mashallah what a great women ❤️ may Allah further bless her imaan
Yes the original woman muslims ❤
Loooool
ameen
This is gold!!
The hair was kind of off putting
Letucces Satan seriously?
This BRILLIANT! Sasha, you're the man! Seriously, I really think what you're doing is amazing and eye opening... Much MUCH love and God Bless you!
It's a very intimate thing to do for that length of time. I'm not surprised most people found it weird.
Goddamn it. Fine I’ll subscribe, this was beautiful!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I am surprised that none of these women accused you of sexual harassment, sexual assault, or rape. Then again, women can change their minds so you still might be charged a week, month, year, decade, or score from now. The first accusation will result in a cascade of several other women coming forward. Another #metoo moment.
I organized essentially the same as this, 30 years ago. We were all afraid to actually do it. Good moderating! Beautiful. Thank you.
The girl on the train, wowsers.
The editing..this should have millions of views
Favorite video so far. Thanks for this bro.
I like this kind of stuff!
Next time, I’m going to start a fire on a train and see who wants to join in and roast marshmallows.
Great , thats what i needed to go to bed now, with a smile ;-)
Loved it, very relatable and inspirational! Keep on, we see the divine shining more and more through you
I don't know how this video got recommended to me. Interesting and refreshing to see their reactions.
Wow Sasha!! I love you!!! You are so inspiring. Thank you so much for this video
I've never seen a video like this. This is great content.
Great video. I have made it a point to look people in the eye for as long as possible. It does change the dynamic of the meeting.
that can be creepy
Not really an experiment when it's been studied at nausium. Eye contact is insanely powerful.
"We talk after" hahahaha
Strangers don't scare me. People who I know I'm going to see again scare me.
I love you sasha please do more of these :) I do meditation and self Enquiry and have done for 2 years now! I feel more at peace and happier but I still have problems with being able to connect with strangers, I hope to meet you one day so I can learn from a great, fearless, loving teacher that you are! Thankyou Sasha
People who are ashamed of their soul or personal energy do not make eye contact for more than 5 seconds.
End quote, :"And remember next that you're staring a stranger in the eyes, you're just looking at yourself."
Explain this please
It’s the not talking that would get me in this 😆
The most surprising thing about this is that you found any Native English people. Native Britons are a minority in their own Capital city.
what are you talking about?
Cheese Greats Muslim invasion
There isn't a single place you can go to with out certain individuals needing to raise someone's background or where they are from
Stupidist comment I have read all day. Is the Capital, the central hub of international meeting, connection, airports and ports going to be filled with different people, yes. It is everywhere in the world... Because it is very connected to every part of the world. Will a little village 100's of km's out have the same diversity? No. Because the connection between let's say Israel or america is so far away. Jesus, this is what a capital city is and is for and is by no means new to our century. Everyone from other countries who have business will mostly have it in the capital or where the easiest part of the country to get to is.
I bet you're not from Britain
2:06 She's so busy, she is late to go met her husbands other wifes and get in line for the daily dose of punches in the face he gives them
She was just making up a reason because unlike Western people, who sleep with a different person every week, Muslim women and men can only have minimal contact with the opposite sex.
she wouldnt give you time of the day.
@@Niyet22 exactly minimal contact with the world. Thats why theyre so back behind
wtf
what happens to your family isnt the same to others if this is what happens to your mom and your sister then dont expect others to have the same things.
Amazing video, only thing that kept bugging me was the bald spot lol
if someone asked me to do this on the street, i would do it with a creepy stare lol
👁👁👁👁👁
You might want to google: "TR 0 Confronting".
"Purpose: To acquire the skill of being able to sit quietly and look at someone without strain."
That’s not eye contact, that’s scary staring.
This would have been just as weird awkward 50 100 200 500 1000 years ago as it is today
holy crap sasha your posture is excellent
Love yours vids bro, started with your podcast today. So much love
Great idea man! Keep it up, alienation was really relevant and a contemporary concern in the '50s...now look!
Very nice. We did this in the Possible You seminar with thirty people in a row. Very intense, but teaches an important lesson.
I just can't believe that you found Native English people living in London either.. damn.
Human beings have evolved to not stare. In the animal world this is confrontational its not because we're disconnected. When someone stares at you without reason your amygdala is set off to think danger
I feel sorry for the women under the Burkha. Poor woman 😪
I don’t like when people don’t make eye contact when talking to them.
Dude, it's not that having a connection with people is weird. What's weird is staring into someones eyes for a full minute without saying a word to each other.
Staring without social engagement is not normal behavior in any generation.
Human Beings having eye gazing experience love it! Love how you connected everyone to have a moment with you.
people are usually more open in the evening and in closed spaces.
Yeah, well, except staring is not simply about "human connection", it's about domination/seduction.
Wow! This is exactly what I've been trying to do!
1:58 loved the Muslim woman, didn't influenced by the western culture, stay strong lady
he does it like a creep. smile at someone. did anyone else notice how out of place people were because he was giving them a dead gaze?
If you see this and see the impact it can have, then this might be the most powerful, real & honest way to find a partner for life!! Impressive Sasha!
0:54 harry potter has converted to an unortrhodox jew :0
Man I'm loving this Sasha guy. He literally has most of the traits that I'm trying to perfect in myself
I don't know about staring directly in the eyes the whole time. I tend to analyze a persons body language and whatever other possible expressions they could be making. When I make eye contact it's usually a cue to say I'm still listening or still attentive to the conversation or whatever is happening.
Although, sometimes people think I am a weird for staring at people. Haha I just can't please everyone. 😆
same here i also stare at people
i dont really mind some weird looks i get though
@Oscar Blanco Yea! It gets weird. I agree! And if you're staring at some girl for a long time then stop staring and go start a conversation. Haha
Heart Warming :) Your a great positive force in this world Sasha
I've tried but people keep calling the police
It’s not a matter of modern society making us anxious and squirmy, we do not trust strangers by way of nature until we communicate through the unique human connection that is language. Try staring at your friend for a minute... it won’t necessarily be easy but more natural than with any stranger
Staring someone down is considered an aggression but once you get past that it becomes connective. Imo
We are not our personalities, we are not our egos, we are not even our bodies, we are what is behind those eyes, a brain (a chunk of organic paste) that packs in neurons that send and receive electrical messages in light speed to ultimately form emotions. When I see someone in the eye, I think of that paste of matter, forming and deforming, processing information, almost imagining to reaching out to it and connecting it with the paste of matter in my head.
that hair due lol
what an awesome video... this is the 2nd video I've watched for you, and you have a new subscriber. That was quite remarkable, and a wonderful idea. I will try it with others. Keep up the good work.
3:03 FIX THAT FUCKING TABLE!!! 🤬
Neil Strauss in his book 'The Game' mentions this, called 'Anam Cara' - soul gazing, soul friend, something along those lines.
that was beautiful words in the end: your "looking at yourself"
Explain it through, I don't get it.
All right Sasha awesome experiment! Where did you go my friend?🤙
Weird because its Unnatural even amongst freinds.