How do I know if my affair partner is serious?

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  • Опубликовано: 14 июл 2024
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  • @michaelbrannon1056
    @michaelbrannon1056 10 дней назад +12

    The man cheating on his wife will ALWAYS withhold the details of what is really happening in the marriage. He must manufacture a reality that supports HIS conscience that also does not collide with the affair partner fantasy. SHE is also having to surrender her reality by accepting the void created by their affair. Both are having fantasy experience. HE is broken, the affair partner is broken, these imaginary relationships have no legs to support long term results because they are both lying to each other AND to themselves. Their relationship is based on lies all around and only later when the chemistry wears off does the truth about their situation become grounded. The wife is destroyed, and so is the family. It is perhaps the most painful thing one person can do to another...so love is born from that...such bullshit.

    • @Odani_Fam
      @Odani_Fam 9 дней назад +3

      Wow! You are spot on! Thank you! I think the two people can often tap into real love, but living that love out in reality cannot be done in a truly loving way to all involved.

  • @Mmmmkaaay
    @Mmmmkaaay 7 дней назад +2

    Several years ago, I was tempted by a married man. I was at the end of an emotionally abusive marriage with a narc, and was about as low as I could go in self esteem. Luckily, I had the presence of mind to play the scenario out in my mind of what would happen if I indulged in an affair, and decided to walk away with my dignity intact.
    It is always a losing proposition for the mistress, and if you love and respect women, you're breaking the
    " girl code" by moving in on another woman's man.
    If a man loves you, then he needs to divorce before entertaining you.

    • @katelondon01
      @katelondon01  4 дня назад +1

      I love this. Thankyou for sharing your thoughts and experience with us all @mmmmkaaay 🤍

  • @MeryemLevan
    @MeryemLevan 9 дней назад +6

    How about ''How do I avoid getting into an affair and jeopardizing a family because of my lack of morality, values, and ethics?''
    Let's work on our self-esteem in the next video.

    • @Odani_Fam
      @Odani_Fam 9 дней назад +4

      It's not just those things. It's also brokenness and false perception.