One thing I have found is that, when it comes to advice, many people don't give it for your benefit. They give it for theirs. Just another way for you to be 'useful'.
Thanks for your videos. It’s refreshing hearing someone who is realistic. Way too many sheep around pretending to have life figured out because they drink, smoke pot and watch hockey.
I found that out pretty early myself after getting mountains of just bro advice. It's a polite way for people to tell you to shut up and be a good little producer, just keep grinding on that hamster wheel. They don't actually care if you ever get that reward, they just dont want to hear the people life screwed over complain about it.
File this under "exception that proves the rule". I just moved out to the Ozark's and I have a good Christian neighbor that is pushing 85, he is from another era altogether always out on his property doing this or that even against DR orders to chill out. I legitimately think that he get "pleasure" out of just watching me work on my property. All I have done for him is cleaned out his already pretty clean rain gutters one day. He will help me out with any project at a moments notice, which is pretty sweet because he has a lot of spending heavy machinery.
Doing something for a person isn't enough either; they always want more, give nothing back, and then blame you for being lazy. It's your fault-why are you so selfish? They need even more, don't you understand?"
A couple aphorisms about advice: when it comes to advice, it is best to be on the giving end; the best thing about advice is that you can choose what to ignore.
your talk is like sitting in the driver seat while rust cohle talks abouts his dark philosophy on life lol. rust cohle from "true detective" . i mean that in a good way.
Well, my sister recently got divorced and lost her kids and everything else, if she followed my advice which I can find verbatim on our messages. She would have kept the kids and the house. So, advice is tricky but those closest to you, that you feel have you r best interest and are removed enough from the situation, can be very very valuable
Love the videos man. Thanks for not covering the election. I don't really need the stress of politics infesting every part of my life. I hope God blesses your days man!!!
Maser Chief, good to see you 1337 indeed! Tomorrow's video is a call to go vote, but that's it, I promise. I'm as sick of it as you. Appreciate you being here, sir.
I realized this later on in life than I should have, being raised by a single mother. As far as taking advice from people; just remember they are imperfectly human too. Take the advice from them which is good, leave the rest behind. The difficult part is sorting through which advice is good and which is not.
I tend to remember nuggets of advise from many people in life. Its nice to have a mentor who is altruistic but no one is completely so. So I agree take what you can from people you interact with.
50lbs is pretty good but of course it depend of what exercise your doing with it lol. Listening to you I can know you have a good IQ, seem hardworker but a bit too blackpilled or pessimist for the world. Your video of 'life experience' are very interresting but the one for rant are less, it's your channel you do as you wish though. But not caring what people you want to connect with care is not a good thing imo.
Is this an act or is this what you’re like in real life? I sometimes imagine you on a first date with a girl and you’re ranting like this, that would be funny.
@@raymond_sycamore all i can tell you is that i was deeply unhappy in that area until age 48, up until the point where I did meet someone - by complete accident- who changed my life and made it worth living. Crazy unexpected things do happen.
@@static-and-rust How old is she? Is she attractive? Can she have kids. Do you actively ENJOY sex with her? Those things matter. I'm not trying to be a dick, I'm being pragmatic. I know full well I'm not going to find a hot 22 year old ready to have a bunch of kids. It's not going to happen.
I’m a liberal, cause I need help from the government, I suffer from mental illness. I feel that a lot of people are being manipulated by very rich podcast / comedians who have no need for help, the money is flowing like a river in that industry and they are brain washing the little guy listening, guys like Theo , Dillion , that crowd, I like to , but people would be stunned at the bags of money they rake in. They have a taste of wealth and it’s intoxicating , a regular guy has no reason to be a Republican, someone who employees over 100 people, yeah ok, tax breaks I get it, not for you though
Great video. Lines up with a lot of thoughts I've been having recently...particularly about how older people aren't necessarily worth listening to. I've been thinking about a lot of people who I respected when I was younger...I now realize they were just broken losers fumbling through life like anyone else. Age doesn't necessarily make people wiser. Both of my parents are in their 70s and they're both still clueless idiots. I wouldn't take life advice from either one of them. In fact, it would probably be smart to do the opposite of what they say 😄. People generally don't improve much as they age. They just continue being led around by their flaws and trauma. Sometimes they actually get worse as they age. Their delusions become more solidified.
Raymond, these are sad truths, and I wish I could say that I disagree with your assessment. Unfortunately, my feeling is that everything is fake except the struggle. The struggle is very real. I do think most of us get to pick our struggle or aspects of it, which is something.
@@realmcafee I wish you well in your pursuits, and I hope you at least find some solace knowing there are others of us out here attempting to find meaning amidst the nonsensical aspects of life. I believe Charles Bukowski put it something like this… Find what you love and let it kill you.
@@deadsoul6452 thanks for the word. they affirm me, cause im currently on my mission on trying to be independent (edit: in the field which i love (which is risky)).
I needed to know what weight your dumbbells was so I could mock you, however I can only lift 35 lbs. Mock me now but one day I will surpass you! Thanks for the video.
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I can't stop looking at that little black dot on your right glasses lens.
One thing I have found is that, when it comes to advice, many people don't give it for your benefit. They give it for theirs.
Just another way for you to be 'useful'.
Good point, doberman.
Thanks for your videos. It’s refreshing hearing someone who is realistic. Way too many sheep around pretending to have life figured out because they drink, smoke pot and watch hockey.
I found that out pretty early myself after getting mountains of just bro advice. It's a polite way for people to tell you to shut up and be a good little producer, just keep grinding on that hamster wheel. They don't actually care if you ever get that reward, they just dont want to hear the people life screwed over complain about it.
@@Invisitatus no nobody cares we exist. In fact, they want us not to
@@raymond_sycamore Well I care you exist and about my fellow lonely dudes. If nobody else cares about us, we can at least care about each other right?
@@Invisitatus Appreciate you brother.
"The best laid plans of mice and men gang oft astay" is a line from a poem by Robert Burns.
File this under "exception that proves the rule". I just moved out to the Ozark's and I have a good Christian neighbor that is pushing 85, he is from another era altogether always out on his property doing this or that even against DR orders to chill out. I legitimately think that he get "pleasure" out of just watching me work on my property. All I have done for him is cleaned out his already pretty clean rain gutters one day. He will help me out with any project at a moments notice, which is pretty sweet because he has a lot of spending heavy machinery.
Doing something for a person isn't enough either; they always want more, give nothing back, and then blame you for being lazy. It's your fault-why are you so selfish? They need even more, don't you understand?"
17:04 wow, 36? I've would've guessed early 50ties.
I didn’t expect the back pain and shit like that as I got older, boy did I take that for granted
Amen... lying down right now
*even the ghosts ghost avoid us. We are so unwanted.*
The law may say pedestrians have the right of way but the hospital begs to differ.
A couple aphorisms about advice: when it comes to advice, it is best to be on the giving end; the best thing about advice is that you can choose what to ignore.
@@kingglizzer but can you choose what to ignore, king? I’ve found it almost impossible to ignore the critics
your talk is like sitting in the driver seat while rust cohle talks abouts his dark philosophy on life lol. rust cohle from "true detective" . i mean that in a good way.
hahah I was told years ago to watch that show. I never did. Maybe I should
@@raymond_sycamore The first season is god tier.
Well, my sister recently got divorced and lost her kids and everything else, if she followed my advice which I can find verbatim on our messages. She would have kept the kids and the house. So, advice is tricky but those closest to you, that you feel have you r best interest and are removed enough from the situation, can be very very valuable
Love the videos man. Thanks for not covering the election. I don't really need the stress of politics infesting every part of my life. I hope God blesses your days man!!!
Maser Chief, good to see you 1337 indeed! Tomorrow's video is a call to go vote, but that's it, I promise. I'm as sick of it as you. Appreciate you being here, sir.
@@raymond_sycamore thanks again.
5 minutes in and I still haven’t been told the point of this video. WOW.
Who cares. Things come up and there are things to say.
THC is definitely a drug but a little bit of weed stink in the carpet isn't going to hurt your virgin lungs Raymond I promise you.
"The devil fools with the best laid plans "
"Man makes plans and God laughs "
I realized this later on in life than I should have, being raised by a single mother.
As far as taking advice from people; just remember they are imperfectly human too. Take the advice from them which is good, leave the rest behind. The difficult part is sorting through which advice is good and which is not.
I tend to remember nuggets of advise from many people in life. Its nice to have a mentor who is altruistic but no one is completely so. So I agree take what you can from people you interact with.
She used girl advice for a sub5 male
50lbs is pretty good but of course it depend of what exercise your doing with it lol. Listening to you I can know you have a good IQ, seem hardworker but a bit too blackpilled or pessimist for the world. Your video of 'life experience' are very interresting but the one for rant are less, it's your channel you do as you wish though. But not caring what people you want to connect with care is not a good thing imo.
Is this an act or is this what you’re like in real life? I sometimes imagine you on a first date with a girl and you’re ranting like this, that would be funny.
Women want nothing to do with me. I've stopped living and acting like they might, at all.
@@raymond_sycamore all i can tell you is that i was deeply unhappy in that area until age 48, up until the point where I did meet someone - by complete accident- who changed my life and made it worth living. Crazy unexpected things do happen.
@@static-and-rust How old is she? Is she attractive? Can she have kids. Do you actively ENJOY sex with her? Those things matter. I'm not trying to be a dick, I'm being pragmatic. I know full well I'm not going to find a hot 22 year old ready to have a bunch of kids. It's not going to happen.
@raymond_sycamore well she's 34 and her boyfriend let's me buy her things sometimes. She truly changed my life for the better ❤
Do you present yourself as the person you are online in real life? Im negative and ranty online, complete polar opposite in real life.
I’m a liberal, cause I need help from the government, I suffer from mental illness. I feel that a lot of people are being manipulated by very rich podcast / comedians who have no need for help, the money is flowing like a river in that industry and they are brain washing the little guy listening, guys like Theo , Dillion , that crowd, I like to , but people would be stunned at the bags of money they rake in. They have a taste of wealth and it’s intoxicating , a regular guy has no reason to be a Republican, someone who employees over 100 people, yeah ok, tax breaks I get it, not for you though
Great video. Lines up with a lot of thoughts I've been having recently...particularly about how older people aren't necessarily worth listening to. I've been thinking about a lot of people who I respected when I was younger...I now realize they were just broken losers fumbling through life like anyone else. Age doesn't necessarily make people wiser. Both of my parents are in their 70s and they're both still clueless idiots. I wouldn't take life advice from either one of them. In fact, it would probably be smart to do the opposite of what they say 😄. People generally don't improve much as they age. They just continue being led around by their flaws and trauma. Sometimes they actually get worse as they age. Their delusions become more solidified.
Raymond, these are sad truths, and I wish I could say that I disagree with your assessment. Unfortunately, my feeling is that everything is fake except the struggle. The struggle is very real. I do think most of us get to pick our struggle or aspects of it, which is something.
this comment is spot on.
@@realmcafee
I wish you well in your pursuits, and I hope you at least find some solace knowing there are others of us out here attempting to find meaning amidst the nonsensical aspects of life. I believe Charles Bukowski put it something like this… Find what you love and let it kill you.
@@deadsoul6452 thanks for the word. they affirm me, cause im currently on my mission on trying to be independent (edit: in the field which i love (which is risky)).
Tolkien wrote a quote by Gandalf that "even the best laid plans oft go awry.."
I needed to know what weight your dumbbells was so I could mock you, however I can only lift 35 lbs. Mock me now but one day I will surpass you!
Thanks for the video.