Stop Obsessing Over Marriage. You're Not Ready(yet)
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- Опубликовано: 9 июл 2024
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0:00 Intro
0:15 Responsibility for the Past
1:51 Responsibility for the Future
2:46 The Khutbah Of Satan
3:49 Responsibility for your Character
This is video is mainly targeted at 13-18 year olds who won't get married soon. If you are in this age range and are able to get married then hasten to get married, this video should not stop you from getting married(i think this is obvious)
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power."
Masha'Allah, Allahuma barik. Great video and extremely relevant to our generation. Keep it up!
Wa barak Allah feek, thank you bro 🤍
this video came to me in the right time
Alhamdulillah, Allah's plan
Allahuma barik, may Allah increase you in knowledge
Ameen, wallahi ya3ni thank you genuinely 🤍
10/10 video
Alhamdulillah. Genuinely appreciate it.
I was feeling anxious about my future even tho I shouldn't and this video came.
If we want a successful future, we must work like the people who made their own future like that.
The blaming others point is a point that I strongly resonated with and such a thing can be the difference between a successful person and an average person. I realise now that I've subconciously been thinking like this yet I'm dreaming the dreams of a successful person.
Alhamdulillah I'm glad it resonated.
Hard work + Relying on Allah SWT is the perfect equation.
production quality 📈 Allahuma barik, keep up the effort
My sanity📉, heh I'm joking, I'm glad you enjoyed it. Wa barakallah feek
@@BaraaHussein_ lool this filming and editing stuff isnt easy but im sure Allah rewards you for the extra effort you put into presenting these perspectives online in a way thats easy to understand and learn from
I hope so
yeah, if you are marrying alone sure don't. But if you have a bigger man who supports you and dictates your life to make you successful, then yes you should marry. The reason boys stay boys because the men in the house keep them that way.
I didn't understand that first part, but yes I completely agree with the last sentence, but we can't blame our fathers that they didn't teach us to be men, cuz that's gonna do nothing and ur gonna stay a boy. What we can do is try to be responsible and make the prophet pbuh our role model and when we become more like him pbuh we will automatically become more of a man inshallah.
@@BaraaHussein_ Their are big connected families, where the father or elder gets their children married early and provide them with financial sustenance until they can be independent. It comes at a cost of choice and freedom but if they make right decisions for you, you mature faster and are stronger.
The same structure can also lead to the opposite, if a man is indefinitely supported and not given independent responsibility.
I believe the approach of marrying young with support and gradually weaning off from the elder support is a good system.
I agree, one should marry as soon as he is able to, and the elders have to be wise to know if the person is responsible enough to get married and is actually striving hard to provide or not, or as you said it'll lead to the opposite.
Just because you're not financially set, doesn't mean you're irresponsible and shouldn't get married.
Allahuma Barik! Hands down your best video to date, no question about it!
Wa barakallah feek ya yahya. Thank you!