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Here's the video I got it from: ruclips.net/video/YBQkpZ0cXio/видео.htmlsi=z4OGnScDHfvWjs1A Wa jazzakum.

Ameen

Sorry, did I say it's not permissible? You misunderstood the video. Read pinned comment.

@@BaraaHussein_ No, I understood your video. I wrote this comment with the intention to clarify the purpose of this video to the other people who are confused in the comments. "However, it is important to ensure that the self-help methods and materials do not promote ideas or practices that are contrary to Islamic beliefs. For example, any self-help content that encourages shirk (associating partners with Allah), unethical behavior, or actions that are haram [such as what YOU mentioned] should be avoided." Jummah Mubarak.

Additionally your title is misleading. Yes, as someone who works on RUclips full-time, I understand you're trying to grow, so you use these kinds of titles. However, it's not good to initially mislead others in exchange for clicks, especially about the deen. Instead, use a more accurate title, such as "Self-Help *can* Lead to KUFR! Here's How:" Not only is this an accurate title, but it's just as effective and not misleading. May Allah reward you for your efforts.

@@moki640 audhobillah, I wouldn't deceive people to get clicks, especially not when it's Islam related. Jazakallah Khair for your title suggestion, I'll use it now.

You misunderstood the video. Please read pinned comment

@@BaraaHussein_ i did read the pinned comment... and my opinion still stands.... whether it be me misunderstanding the video or you scripting it poorly

@@LegalTas ok let me reply, of course there are exceptions to what I have mentioned. This is common sense. I would even still argue that at least 10% of the motive of going to the gym is to attract women and get respect. This is absolutely natural and an innate desire that Allah SWT has placed in us. And so I'll repeat again, like I mentioned in the pinned comment: you can either want respect and attraction for the sake of Allah SWT or not. Should a Muslim intend to do it for the sake of Allah SWT or not? Of course! Again regarding your second point "should I just make dua and not put any action", answered in the pinned comment. You need put in the effort, tell me where I said don't do that? Never.. What I said in the video is that you should not solely depend on yourself for anything, always make dua that Allah SWT helps you, never rely on yourself, you're a human, you're weak. As the example I mentioned in the pinned comment: If I said you couldn't breath without Allah SWT, does that mean that I said do not breath and simply rely that Allah will make oxygen enter your lungs? No.. Saying you couldn't have done something without Allah DOES NOT EQUAL don't do that thing and just rely on Allah. Tell me what I've said in cause and effect that isn't accurate, maybe I'm wrong, I'd like to correct myself.

I haven't given any fatwas in the video alhamdulillah I know my place

Please read my replies to other people who had similar misconceptions to yours, if it's still not clear, I'm happy to clarify things more, but I've already answered this in a lot of detail in a few other comments

Wallahi akhi read pinned comment or my replies to you in other comments. I answered everything

Again, putting words in my mouth

Brother I read your responses and appreciate the clarification how ever if you say something along the lines of this is the only thing but mean it with context like excpet or with this in addition you must include that in your statements on order for that message to be recived effectively Something to consider for the future so no one else gets confused

Ok thank you I'll consider that, but sadly if I make videos like this they'll be hours long, if I keep mentioning every single point. Some things people just understand and they can easily fill in the blanks. And most of the people who have watched understand the message without a need for clarification. There's a few who have not, maybe because they don't understand English fluently or easily or you watched the video with a bad intention of wanting to debunk me.

Yes you need to put in the effort yourself, I mentioned this in a previous video titled 'Your future is already written, just put in some effort' But this video isn't about tawakul, it's about how self help makes you independent and makes you think that you can do everything on your own without Allah SWT. Which is why I mentioned you cannot do anything without Allah SWT. If I say you couldn't have taken this breath without Allah SWT, does that mean I'm saying don't breath and just rely that Allah will suddenly make oxygen enter your lungs?? I never mentioned don't start a business or don't go to the gym(actually the opposite), I mentioned don't rely only on yourself when doing these things. Point 2 does not equal point 1. I hope this clarifies things

I don't understand your contradictions to be honest. Are you saying self help does NOT say these things? Or what? I really don't get you. I would like for you to point out where I used an ayah or a hadith in the wrong way?? I'm not trying to say life is hard at all? Where in the video do I even mention this? This isn't the message at ALL! Yes you need to put in the effort yourself, I mentioned this in a previous video titled 'Your future is already written, just put in some effort' But this video isn't about tawakul, it's about how self help makes you independent and makes you think that you can do everything on your own without Allah SWT. Which is why I mentioned you cannot do anything without Allah SWT. If I say you couldn't have taken this breath without Allah SWT, does that mean I'm saying don't breath and just rely that Allah will suddenly make oxygen enter your lungs?? I never mentioned don't start a business or don't go to the gym(actually the opposite), I mentioned don't rely only on yourself when doing these things. Point 2 does not equal point 1. I hope this clarifies things

As salamu alaikum, have you actually watched the full video? I point out that these books sell you beliefs which make not depend on Allah SWT, and therefore not making dua along with other things. You cannot argue with me on this point, grab any book and it'll prove my point. Also the aim of self help is getting dunya. Everybody knows this. A muslim's aim should not be dunya rather jannah. This does not mean you sit in a cave and become a monk, what it means is that everything you do should be to worship Allah SWT. As I mentioned in the video, you can start a business and hit the gym, but do it for the sake of Allah. Entering jannah is the real success, that's what Allah SWT says in the Quran. Never did I say being successful makes you a kafir.

​@@BaraaHussein_ If you're a muslim then your entire life is meant and devoted to Allah that is true. Some things promoted in these books are wrong that is true. But what words you let influence you is up to you. You can disagree with certain points and disagree at others. That doesn't make these books inheritingly bad (what you are saying). Being successful in this world does not mean you stop praying and stop doing good deeds. Allah made all of us different, if you are told by your mother that you are skinny and that you should eat more and if you do eat more, is that kufr behavior to you? You are doing things so you are perceived better. No where is that a bad thing. Doing things for others is not a bad things as long as your attention isn't to get ayesha to like you. Looking better by going to the gym so you are in better physical health is not a bad thing. If you're getting bad grades and then want to get better grades to get a job and then support your family that isn't a bad thing. If you are trying to help people who have a bad mindset let me tell you that you are literally talking to a wall. Allah doesn't help those who dont help themselves. Your way of explaining things is also in itself very bad. Its good that you are close to allah but you need to study more. When prophet would enjoy with sahaba after winning a war is that also self indulgence? When muslim men were allowed to have sex with concubines after war is that not self indulgence? When they played drums was that also self indulgence? Wearing new clothes on eid, was that also self indulgence? If you want to help other people maybe you should make a better script with hadith or ayat that actually help your claim akhi.

I didn't say improving yourself is bad??? But Improve yourself for the sake of Allah. Go to the gym for Allah. Actions are by intentions. I would like for you to highlight where I said that you shouldn't improve yourself? I explicitly said near the end of the video, that when you change your goal from dunya to jannah, doing the things you did on self help won't be for the sake of doing them but for the sake of Allah, just like everything should be. I genuinely don't understand how you got this from my video. As I haven't mentioned anything like that at all. Getting better grades can be good or neutral, are you doing it for a good job for money for Allah or are you doing it for a good job for money which is not for Allah? Please do mention where I said doing things for others is a bad thing? I would like to delete that part of the video if I said that. You can self indulge for the sake of Allah aswell? For example you get rewarded for intimacy as the prophet pbuh told us. Following your desires in the way I mentioned was bad desires like getting money for the sake of money etc. In the chapter of self love, I said that going to the gym for the sake of getting respect from men and attraction from women, that is an example of following your desires. An example of following your desires the good way is: you go to the gym so that your wife is attracted to you, and you want respect from men so that they listen to you for example when you give dawah(both for the sake of Allah) I also explicitly said in the video you can follow your desires in a way such that Allah rewards you for doing so.

@@BaraaHussein_ 👍🏻

Mashallah Allahumabarik, we are blessed that Allah SWT chose us to be Muslims. Congrats on finishing the Quran! It's an absolute miracle from Allah SWT, must have felt amazing reading it. Ameen, jazakallah khair for your dua. If you need help with anything just tell me anytime.

Ameen, wallahi ya3ni thank you genuinely 🤍

Alhamdulillah. Genuinely appreciate it.

Your comment about change being constant is very true👌

Alhamdulillah I'm glad it resonated. Hard work + Relying on Allah SWT is the perfect equation.

Alhamdulillah, Allah's plan

I didn't understand that first part, but yes I completely agree with the last sentence, but we can't blame our fathers that they didn't teach us to be men, cuz that's gonna do nothing and ur gonna stay a boy. What we can do is try to be responsible and make the prophet pbuh our role model and when we become more like him pbuh we will automatically become more of a man inshallah.

@@BaraaHussein_ Their are big connected families, where the father or elder gets their children married early and provide them with financial sustenance until they can be independent. It comes at a cost of choice and freedom but if they make right decisions for you, you mature faster and are stronger. The same structure can also lead to the opposite, if a man is indefinitely supported and not given independent responsibility. I believe the approach of marrying young with support and gradually weaning off from the elder support is a good system.

I agree, one should marry as soon as he is able to, and the elders have to be wise to know if the person is responsible enough to get married and is actually striving hard to provide or not, or as you said it'll lead to the opposite. Just because you're not financially set, doesn't mean you're irresponsible and shouldn't get married.

Wa barak Allah feek, thank you bro 🤍

Wa barakallah feek ya yahya. Thank you!

My sanity📉, heh I'm joking, I'm glad you enjoyed it. Wa barakallah feek

@@BaraaHussein_ lool this filming and editing stuff isnt easy but im sure Allah rewards you for the extra effort you put into presenting these perspectives online in a way thats easy to understand and learn from

I hope so

Alhamdulillah, jazakallah khair, I'll always keep posting inshallah. I appreciate ur comment 🤍

Yeah for sure man, I'm just rly busy with exams rn so it might take a little while, wa jazzakum 🤍

Alhamdulillah Jazakallah khair for your comment

Wa jazzakum

Alhamdulillah glad it helped. Do you mean the hadith of "Actions are by intentions"? Or the long one which I said in the vid of the 3 people?

wa jazzakum🤍

Alhamdulillah, may Allah guide us all. Try consuming less content, it ruins your relationship with Allah and makes u feel kinda soulless. If u need anymore help just join the discord and we can arrange a call or sum

@@BaraaHussein_ You're right wallahi, Inshallah I will try my best. Jazakallahu khairan for the the offer

How are you doing right now brother?

First hate comment, ur in history bro!!

Alhamdulillah

Thank you bro I'm from Egypt

@@BaraaHussein_ ahah nice bro :)

Alhamdulillah hope it helped

Thank you so much, love u too for the sake of Allah

no only allah knows we just know its on one of the odd nights but don't know the exact one

​@@khadizakubra1555not necessarily an odd night. it could be any night of the last 10 days of ramadan it's just that it's more likely to be during one of the odd nights.

I'm not sure if I'm understanding ur comment correctly😂

I was starting to feel sleepy 😅@@BaraaHussein_

Thank you!

ur right it's a difference of opinion

Ameen, jazakallah khair for your duas

Alhamdulillah, thank you so much! Wa jazzakum