Yesterday me and my wife was blessed with another kid and I named him after you, ustaz! Later I learnt it was a real name of Abu Hanifa and I was said it is actually one prophet’s name. It just made me more confident about the name but the real reason was and will always be you. I could listen to your videos in english but for me it’s more convenient in russian since we were a colony of Russia some time ago. Russian is not my native and I preferred to learn Islam in my own language finding russian not appropriate. Moreover I stopped speaking russian in general. But you know after having listened to your sermons in russian on ARQAM TV channel it seemed russian was given to me as a ny’met just to understand you. And imagine how good at subject those guys who translate you and spread your words here. May Allah be pleased with them as well. Ustaz, I wish you to elevate to such degree in Jannah that will surprisingly amaze you.
I’m 39 and have been looking for the last 16 years. I have met suitors but they have the wrong intentions so I have not married. Please make dua for me to have a righteous husband. I can’t go on like this, life is so hard on your own 😭 it’s not that people don’t want to marry, they just aren’t good so who are you meant to marry
A whole lot of people need to hear this. Our communities are being destroyed by the immense ignorance even by those who are perceived as the “wisest” amongst us. People don’t realize that things are never guaranteed.
The Muslims have decided to follow the westen way of marriage Women works man works must have a high degree skinny model Unislamic dress code Women salary 60k They’ve neglected deen character god fearing instead looks money status
@@yuriken8301who is this God who can’t come to an insignificant planet Earth a tiny planet among trillions of planets in billions of galaxies and we don’t know we might have multi universes.? He abrogates verses in his book often as He changes his mind often like human beings. Watching space 1999 reruns from a bbc show made me wonder as a children when I saw our Momin brothers fighting with imams every time over lunar sightings. If the moon ever splits up from its orbit and drifts off in space as shown in the series then how would our brothers fight at mosques with imams for moon sightings if there is no moon. 😂.? How would we have a lunar calendar 📅 for our months ? Now millions of people are asking the same question 🙋♂️
@@yerassylserikbekov998who is this God who can’t come to an insignificant planet Earth a tiny planet among trillions of planets in billions of galaxies and we don’t know we might have multi universes.? He abrogates verses in his book often as He changes his mind often like human beings. Watching space 1999 reruns from a bbc show made me wonder as a children when I saw our Momin brothers fighting with imams every time over lunar sightings. If the moon ever splits up from its orbit and drifts off in space as shown in the series then how would our brothers fight at mosques with imams for moon sightings if there is no moon. 😂.? How would we have a lunar calendar 📅 for our months ? Now millions of people are asking the same question 🙋♂️
I rarely ever comment on videos but this drove me to my boundary today. I am a single Muslimah mom, married twice. Only just discovered after my second divorce that I am neurodivergent which put a lot of context to some of what was occurring in my relationships. I fear remarrying since I have my children and also because of my neurodivergence. Instead of having tawakkul, I make the excuse that I’m not ready for marriage. I don’t even know where to start, but I pray that all of us single parents and just the single Muslims overall find solace in knowing Allah has a reason for all that He wills. May He give us the strength to labor in His way and accept what He gives us as a result, ameen 🤲
@@humayrahhassan-tx5pr it’s not easy, I know 😞 but the beautiful thing is channels like this bring Muslims together to support each other! ❤ Just seeing your comment made me feel like I’m not alone, in sha Allah we’ll make it through this test 😊
Thank you for great lecture ustadh. Everyone out there who seeks marriage be patient and make dua to Allah swt Indeed He is the Hearer of each supplication... Alhamdulillah I got married at the age of 31 and it was worth each and every bit of patience and finally to be granted with the best Muslim husband
We - society need you and the Imam like you. The best explanations and ADVICES to everything we need according to KU'RAN. Even We read as much as possible, still TEACHERS like you are the best for these days society.
We need much awarness about this topic. The Imams in the Mosques and Scholars should talk much more about this issue. Many People are struggling with finding a spouse. They dont now where to ask, or who to ask, or what to do anymore. We need to fix this Problem of the Ummah.
Alhamdulillah brother nouman you are the best gift of Allah to this ummah may Allah swt blessed u in this world and hearafter. may Allah swt blessed your family. Aameen❤❤
Ya Allah 💞 💞... give us tawfiq and keep us steadfast, among the rightly guided, those that love Allah subhana wa ta ala and ❤️ the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa salaam.. Ameen..
I was a firm believer of marrying early and not having any sort of restrictions of region. Thought my parents to be the same as well. And as it so happens, I liked someone who was from another region(district) and wanted to marry her. But my parents waged a war and said they'll decide whom I will marry. I was heartbroken. I couldn't marry the person I liked, even more heartbroken and insulted by the fact that my seemingly loving parents reacted so very awfully to me. From their perspective, they haven't done anything wrong to me. But now, my heart's absolutely closed to the notion of marriage. I find no interest in it, rather walk away from the topic when it's brought up. I think, I'd be fine on my own.
If your a man you don’t need your parents approval whom you want to marry Our religion mentions men work earn enough money for marriage but your own home and to take financial responsibility for your wife Parents will only stop you if you show no financially physically independence and expect them t take care of you the wife and children Be financially independent learn Islamic marriage rights and go Marry You’ll be alone and depressed once your parents pass away Live with hate anger towards them foreve
نبی کریم صلی اللّٰہ علیہ وسلم نے 25 سال کی عمر میں 40 سال کی خاتون سے شادی کی جو دو بار بیوہ ہو چکی تھیں اور خوشگوار بات تو یہ ہے کہ نکاح کا پیغام بھی ان عظیم خاتون نے بھیجا جسے نبی کریم صلی اللّٰہ علیہ وسلم نے خوش دلی کے ساتھ قبول کیا اور تاحیات باوفا رہے ؛ عمل کرنا ہے تو اس سنت پر عمل کرنے کی کوشش کریں اور یاد رکھیں اللّٰہ تعالیٰ آپ کے اعمال نہیں بلکہ آپ کی کوشش دیکھے گا ،
In our country the mahr is too much for an average person, rich people get second/third with 30-80 lakhs. Parents selling daughters, they don't care about there future. May allah swt make it easy for us.
Same in my country. Some if not most women in my country are single because they request RM10000-50000 from their suitors because they have degrees, masters or PhD 😅
Only people with weak eman/faith think their sons are their investment. Early marriages keep boys and girls away from sinful activities, and they are more focused on their studies, and careers. There are a lot of benefits of early marriage that I can write a book on.
Beautiful I learning a lot in every aspects of life from brother help me so much in my life every time I have difficulty or challenges in my life I got guidance and motivation from brother numan's lecturer or khutba JazkAllha
Thank you for touching on the financial aspect for men. I'm in my late twenties and came from a family with financial issues. I work extremely hard and hamdullah I have all the essentials I need. I feel so disheartened when I've also worked on myself so much to be a better person and at the end of the day all I'm judged on is how prestige my job title is, what car I drive, how big a wedding and mahr I can provide. I can't help but feel self conscious and that I'm undeserving of finding someone because I don't meet the financial expectations imposed by a woman, and if not her than her family.
Being in the west.... If you're a man who isn't in a prestigious career like a doctor or lawyer etc, you'll just get laughed at and won't be taken seriously by so many people. It's tough out here. May Allah make it easy for us all
@@HudHudProductionsthis is why many of the sisters in the west are single. They become well educated can get good jobs etc so they start to feel like they can do better and wait for someone either on a equal footing or one who is earning more which infact turns to be a very few men only. Most are average earners and that's the reality. Brothers have more options. Marrying a Christian, a Jewish woman likewise any good Muslim woman, or even going back home but as for the sisters they don't have many options unfortunately hence they either have to wait longer for marriage or they don't get married at all as they cannot find their Mr right..
@@hariss8876 what is also interesting is people marrying from their home countries because they want a caring spouse. People in the west only care about themselves
I'm disabled man I'm 33 years old I can't do anything by myself and I have a strong desire but girls don't accept me I don't know what I am going to do. ask God for me.
@@petrichor499forget it a God can’t help little children dying of cancer and rapes and He is going to get him married. Poor guy we all feel bad for these people. He needs medical science to help him grow new legs someday not false hopes in a false God who can’t help anyone.
For people are trying to find worthy partners, here's an advice. How about going out of you comfortable zone and tries to make yourself much much more worthy. Sometimes everyone is looking for a partner, but they themselves reject each other. It's fine to settle, but not okay to expect others to settle for less. The only solution is what's in your control, make yourself worthy, and Pray sincerely.
Prophet Mohammad (SA) FRIDAY SUNNAH'S 1. TAKE A BATH (GHUSL) 2. USE MISWAK TO CLEAN YOUR TEETH 3. WEARING CLEAN OR NEW CLOTHES 4. APPLY PERFUME/ OUD 5. CUT YOUR NAILS 6. READ SURAH AL-KAHF 7. SEND DUROOD UPON THE PROPHET MUHAMMAD (S.A.W) 8. GO TO THE MASJID AS EARLY AS YOU CAN 9. WALKING TO THE MASJID 10. LISTEN TO THE KHUTBAH OF JUMMAH Try To Follow All Sunnah Every Friday ❤ 1 Like & Comment So That it Will Become SADAQAH JARIYA for You Also 😍
I've a cousin sister who's 40 years old & since many years her family is looking for a suitable husband but she remains unmarried😢. Please pray for her & all other women who want to get married.
Some people are meant not to marry. . .. and once they 'force' it cause a social catastrophe. Women who you are not married and you're approaching your 40's. Remember Khadija (r.a)... Insha'Allah Allah SWT will grant you what is the best for you in this Dunya and Akhira. Aamiin.
Tests will be there May Allah strengthen you …seek plenty of knowledge and listen to revert stories to strengthen yourself ..I as a born Muslim listen to revert stories when I am down at times😢
It is a good idea inShaAllah when both of them are gaining an education and busy with other affairs. Atleast it protects them from zina and other evils. When the boy has finished is education or earning enough to maintain and provide for her. They move out
It's nearly impossible to marry in the society that I live in. You have to meet certain criteria first, you should have a car, a separate house or portion, a high paying income. That's it, everything to do with money, a person could be worst of humans but if he has money, everything else is ignored. And there are some parents that make the decisions for their son on marriage and act as of they have not fulfilled their duty but made Ehsaan on their son. There is just one thing for men who keep themselves away from filth and haram, ignore the burning need of companionship, and just carry on with life, trying not to get bitter or resentful along the way.
🌟 In The Quran ALLAH Almighty Has Hinted the Righteous Should Be encourage to get married in #SurahAnNour, People Get Married Nowdays To Release Their Sexual Desires...And They Not Mentally and Spritualy Fit For This Big Insinuate...So Much Messy Marriages all Over the Globe, People Don't Know How To Handle This Huge Blessing....What a Shame😢
I don't understand why muslim community delays marriage even though parents do understand that their child has grown enough to make his own living and can take care for his/her spouse, ignorance of parents has caused a big damage to younger generations falling into mastrubation and zina as it has become common in muslim community
🌟 In The Quran ALLAH Almighty Has Hinted the Righteous Should Be encourage to get married in #SurahAnNour, People Get Married Nowdays To Release Their Sexual Desires...And They Not Mentally and Spritualy Fit For This Big Insinuate...So Much Messy Marriages all Over the Globe, People Don't Know How To Handle This Huge Blessing....What a Shame😢
@@durdurdikir4021respectfully, here in the west reverts and Muslims returning to the Deen have to make hijra every day from the western lifestyle, into established Muslim communities that in no way are prepared to receive their hijra. So when things become unstable and fall apart, it's very easy for other Muslims to point the finger and say "their intentions were bad" instead of doing any investigation about why marriages fail here. Here, Muslim communities witness shahada and say "alhamdulillah, mashaaAllah" as spectators and don't realize that most converts leave precisely because their new communities are just as hyper individualized and irresponsible as the society they made hijra from, with the added hypocrisy of assuming they are somehow functionally different just because they believe in Allah SWT, but doing nothing to tie their "community camel." Let's stop judging people's intentions and start doing the work of making our communities more conducive to success, for the pleasure of Allah, again with all due respect.
@@theLetterDoubleYou. All is good and true what you said brother but first please change the face of pig from your RUclips profile. Don’t understand why you have posted a haram picture?
Jazah Allah kheir for this - however there are a few points that he partially covers or does so with a narrow lense. He needs to have a more wholestic approach of the root of the problem
Nowadays women are in case 2 They wanna get married but are restricted saying it's early or marraige is not important than career Well we live in a society where people who think thy are deeni makes deen more hard 😢 don't worry sisters I'm praying for you all May allh guide us all and Do pray for me
I wish my family had heard that message... The worst is that they prevent you from getting married and in the end reproach you that you aren't! Allah will judge. I know they don't have bad intentions but there are eniugh cases and we all see that many children are still fine though deeply hurt and functioning while some are completely destroyed. And I blame parents when there were enough people around telling them how to preserve their children, especially daughters. 🤲🏼 Allah forgive us all and guide us. Please bless our mothers ya Rham Rahimin.
Thank you very much well said !!! Allah will ask our rights I akhirah ...they are muslim but still following the adat rather than deen ..may Allah swt gives hidayah to pakistanis
What's now happening is that girls and their parents have been extremely fussy that they don't want to get married unless the boy and his family is perfect. Only if the men allow them to work or they are homeowners and very well settled.
They will understand sooner or later that some level of compromise is needed. When the girl reaches her mid/late twenties unmarried, that's when they start to panic and understand they were making a mistake earlier looking for a Mr perfect
Assalamualaikum, thank you so much for this video. As a muslim from muslim family I am trying to avoid Haram as much as possible, I am 24 year old man who doesn't know how to find a partner for marriage and is sick from marriage candidates from my parents village. I don't know what to do and how effectively to stop my biological desire. Why am I writing this it's so embarrassing....? May Allah forgive all of us : )
most of the modern Muslim sister are asking unrealistic money for the wedding and Niqab at least 50k to 70k and we all know most of our brothers have no chance of getting married with that kind of income 😂, I have noticed most of the brothers are going overseas to a 3rd world countries in order to find a wifey material. I went back to Somalia 🇸🇴 for the first time since 2002 for a month holiday with my uncle, long story short I got married within a 3 weeks because my current wife didn’t asked me about my income , how tall I’m am, what car I drive, which university I graduated, like the stupid question our current sister are asking, she said I wanna get married and here is my father’s number 😌 best decision of my life, on our second date she said i will cook for you and later you can meet my family :) I will recommend this message to my Muslim brothers if you want to find a good Spouse travel and thank me later ❤️
There would be nothing wrong with her asking about income… do you really think most men are just going to marry off their daughter without knowing the guy’s finances? No. And they shouldn’t. Men only talk like this when they can’t afford it. They have a completely different attitude and aim for the “best” when they do have money. Both sides need to be realistic, but women need to maintain standards or else men with nothing much to offer will take advantage.
In islam it is said that the daughter in law is not bound to serve or look after her mother in law rather the husband of that daughter in law is said to keep a maid for his mother's nurture or he should serve her. Now if the person is poor then how will he manage maid?moreover it is said that after marriage if wife demands for having separate house her husband is bound to give that. Also if he does work and then he returns home. So after coming home the men are instructed to help his wife and spend time with her in Islam. But in this way his mother doesn’t get quality time with her son also doesn’t get any treatment as an elderly person. There are things she can't do by herself for being aged.due to her son is married she loses her son almost.like he earns,then returns home and helps wife, sleeps with wife, spends quality time with wife then where is mother's demand?I see some men stay separate with their wife and come once or twice a month and give some money to their mother.is this money only she needs?does she not deserve quality time with her son equally? after so much sacrifice a mother raises a son and after his marriage his wife gets right over him and his money and his time. So aren’t mothers getting negligence? How is the person supposed to manage both equally so that there is no discrimination.
Death , mirage , children , has a time , Allah says in Quran , “ Allah knows the fallen leaf 🍁 from a tree “ a person believing Allah wait till Allah decides ,
May Allah make it easy for every single person to get married to a righteous spouse, Ameen
Ameen..
Ameen
Ameen
Yesterday me and my wife was blessed with another kid and I named him after you, ustaz! Later I learnt it was a real name of Abu Hanifa and I was said it is actually one prophet’s name. It just made me more confident about the name but the real reason was and will always be you. I could listen to your videos in english but for me it’s more convenient in russian since we were a colony of Russia some time ago. Russian is not my native and I preferred to learn Islam in my own language finding russian not appropriate. Moreover I stopped speaking russian in general. But you know after having listened to your sermons in russian on ARQAM TV channel it seemed russian was given to me as a ny’met just to understand you. And imagine how good at subject those guys who translate you and spread your words here. May Allah be pleased with them as well. Ustaz, I wish you to elevate to such degree in Jannah that will surprisingly amaze you.
Ameen ya Rabb
I’m 39 and have been looking for the last 16 years. I have met suitors but they have the wrong intentions so I have not married. Please make dua for me to have a righteous husband. I can’t go on like this, life is so hard on your own 😭 it’s not that people don’t want to marry, they just aren’t good so who are you meant to marry
Until four marriages are re instated women will continue to be worthless,
This is the problem
From which country ....
Until four marriages are re instated women will continue to be worthless.
Find Muslim marriages sites I’m sure you’ll find a women of deen and good character
A whole lot of people need to hear this.
Our communities are being destroyed by the immense ignorance even by those who are perceived as the “wisest” amongst us. People don’t realize that things are never guaranteed.
The Muslims have decided to follow the westen way of marriage
Women works man works must have a high degree skinny model
Unislamic dress code
Women salary 60k
They’ve neglected deen character god fearing instead looks money status
I agree
I’m not Muslim but this man is an incredible teacher. Learning allot.
because he read the Quran and understood Allahs teachings that why.
Then come to Islam my friend😊 Your life will be much better than it was
@@yuriken8301who is this God who can’t come to an insignificant planet Earth a tiny planet among trillions of planets in billions of galaxies and we don’t know we might have multi universes.? He abrogates verses in his book often as He changes his mind often like human beings. Watching space 1999 reruns from a bbc show made me wonder as a children when I saw our Momin brothers fighting with imams every time over lunar sightings. If the moon ever splits up from its orbit and drifts off in space as shown in the series then how would our brothers fight at mosques with imams for moon sightings if there is no moon. 😂.? How would we have a lunar calendar 📅 for our months ? Now millions of people are asking the same question 🙋♂️
@@yerassylserikbekov998who is this God who can’t come to an insignificant planet Earth a tiny planet among trillions of planets in billions of galaxies and we don’t know we might have multi universes.? He abrogates verses in his book often as He changes his mind often like human beings. Watching space 1999 reruns from a bbc show made me wonder as a children when I saw our Momin brothers fighting with imams every time over lunar sightings. If the moon ever splits up from its orbit and drifts off in space as shown in the series then how would our brothers fight at mosques with imams for moon sightings if there is no moon. 😂.? How would we have a lunar calendar 📅 for our months ? Now millions of people are asking the same question 🙋♂️
@@Terminators4UMay Allah guide you back to the straight path.
May Allah not make me or any guided person be led astray like you are currently.
I rarely ever comment on videos but this drove me to my boundary today. I am a single Muslimah mom, married twice. Only just discovered after my second divorce that I am neurodivergent which put a lot of context to some of what was occurring in my relationships. I fear remarrying since I have my children and also because of my neurodivergence. Instead of having tawakkul, I make the excuse that I’m not ready for marriage. I don’t even know where to start, but I pray that all of us single parents and just the single Muslims overall find solace in knowing Allah has a reason for all that He wills. May He give us the strength to labor in His way and accept what He gives us as a result, ameen 🤲
I'm neurodivergent actually
exactly the same and more
You get married …u never know which marriage will work out
@@jacobsoto7228ma sha Allah I don’t get to meet many neurodivergent people like me, it’s a pleasure to meet you! 😊
@@humayrahhassan-tx5pr it’s not easy, I know 😞 but the beautiful thing is channels like this bring Muslims together to support each other! ❤ Just seeing your comment made me feel like I’m not alone, in sha Allah we’ll make it through this test 😊
Thank you for great lecture ustadh. Everyone out there who seeks marriage be patient and make dua to Allah swt Indeed He is the Hearer of each supplication... Alhamdulillah I got married at the age of 31 and it was worth each and every bit of patience and finally to be granted with the best Muslim husband
I think a lot of Muslims have to watch this. A lot of misconceptions and misunderstandings about marriage are explained very well in here
I hope my mother can hear this in her mother tongue 😢 May Allah make marriage easy
Show her this
@@Rajab25161 she doesn't speak and understand Urudhu, Arabic and English
Ustadz, you are like a psychologist. I agree so much.
he took psychology course in the past
He technically studied psychology as his bachelor
If I knew this before marriage it would have made all the difference. This hits too close to home
I keep coming back to this clip bcs I like how ustadh describe the cases of our society, it’s real and really hit the point. 👏🏼 BarakaAllah fiikum
We - society need you and the Imam like you. The best explanations and ADVICES to everything we need according to KU'RAN. Even We read as much as possible, still TEACHERS like you are the best for these days society.
I'm 38 f single. Ya Allaah send me a suitable islamic husband 😔🤲🏻
I pray you'll find the husband you dream of. InsyaAllah..
Use halal Muslim marriage site
Half our deen by baba Ali is a good one I heard
Marry me
I am 23 and still single.
@@abdullahalsaeim4667 ask ur friends or relatives or imam if they can find you someone
Cousin married his best friends sister easily
Jazakallah khair, Ustadh. May Allah guide us and keep you with us as a guiding light for us to get to the treasures of Quran and Sunnah
May Allah grant everyone to find spouses soon inshallah 🎉
Ameen..
Allahumma aamiin 🤲🤲🤲
We need much awarness about this topic. The Imams in the Mosques and Scholars should talk much more about this issue. Many People are struggling with finding a spouse. They dont now where to ask, or who to ask, or what to do anymore. We need to fix this Problem of the Ummah.
So many organisations are trying though still not successful... subhanallah I can't seek to know why ?😢...
Fact
This days marriage are really difficult
Respect Nouman Ali khan from Mali🇲🇱
@JohnRayan88 yeah is true is people that's making marriage difficult
Salam from Mali 🇲🇱 too, broth
Alhamdulillah brother nouman you are the best gift of Allah to this ummah may Allah swt blessed u in this world and hearafter. may Allah swt blessed your family. Aameen❤❤
Ma sha Allah! Ya Allah Taa’la, guide us and have mercy on us, ameen
Great MA , people go through these problems every day , if we could follow thus how great the society will become !!!
This video is what I needed. I have to make listen this to my parents! Please come soon to France
Her talking is very nice...... Subhan Allah ❤🖤
May ALLAH (SWT) protect you ustaz, increase you in knowledge, health and wealth. With love from NIGERIA
Ameen
Ya Allah 💞 💞... give us tawfiq and keep us steadfast, among the rightly guided, those that love Allah subhana wa ta ala and ❤️ the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa salaam.. Ameen..
May Allah open the good news and close the bad doors Aameen Summa Aameen!!!
Please please please arrange this lecture in Pakistan in urdu esp. It would make a major change here
Thanks. A real fact about our society you described here.
May Allah bless you for inspiring us at this time and stage
Thanks sheikh, may Allah grant us understanding
please need this in urdu for our parents
ruclips.net/video/ivbc5aywCcw/видео.htmlsi=_VoAFzaRnef3FDWu
this will be great
I was a firm believer of marrying early and not having any sort of restrictions of region. Thought my parents to be the same as well. And as it so happens, I liked someone who was from another region(district) and wanted to marry her. But my parents waged a war and said they'll decide whom I will marry. I was heartbroken. I couldn't marry the person I liked, even more heartbroken and insulted by the fact that my seemingly loving parents reacted so very awfully to me.
From their perspective, they haven't done anything wrong to me. But now, my heart's absolutely closed to the notion of marriage. I find no interest in it, rather walk away from the topic when it's brought up. I think, I'd be fine on my own.
If your a man you don’t need your parents approval whom you want to marry
Our religion mentions men work earn enough money for marriage but your own home and to take financial responsibility for your wife
Parents will only stop you if you show no financially physically independence and expect them t take care of you the wife and children
Be financially independent learn Islamic marriage rights and go Marry
You’ll be alone and depressed once your parents pass away
Live with hate anger towards them foreve
Let time heal u
Oh God, may Allah ease your matters aamiin yra
Don't fall into zina, get married silently my brother
great and really beneficial advice for our young generation
نبی کریم صلی اللّٰہ علیہ وسلم نے 25 سال کی عمر میں 40 سال کی خاتون سے شادی کی جو دو بار بیوہ ہو چکی تھیں اور خوشگوار بات تو یہ ہے کہ نکاح کا پیغام بھی ان عظیم خاتون نے بھیجا جسے نبی کریم صلی اللّٰہ علیہ وسلم نے خوش دلی کے ساتھ قبول کیا اور تاحیات باوفا رہے ؛ عمل کرنا ہے تو اس سنت پر عمل کرنے کی کوشش کریں اور یاد رکھیں اللّٰہ تعالیٰ آپ کے اعمال نہیں بلکہ آپ کی کوشش دیکھے گا ،
I'm 35 f and it makes me feel lonely and anxious. May Allah swt make it easy on all the single people watching this.
In our country the mahr is too much for an average person, rich people get second/third with 30-80 lakhs. Parents selling daughters, they don't care about there future. May allah swt make it easy for us.
Pakistan?
Same in my country. Some if not most women in my country are single because they request RM10000-50000 from their suitors because they have degrees, masters or PhD 😅
@@megane0125pls which country is that
@@fridawsbamba1641 Malaysia
Only people with weak eman/faith think their sons are their investment. Early marriages keep boys and girls away from sinful activities, and they are more focused on their studies, and careers. There are a lot of benefits of early marriage that I can write a book on.
please write a book about it and inshallah it'll help those who need it
Assalamualaikum ustad
May Allah grant you alot of blessings you are a great person I have ever seen.
Masha Allah may your prayers be answered
What is easy given by Allah is made difficult by society.
May Allah (SWT) put ease in our life.
Beautiful I learning a lot in every aspects of life from brother help me so much in my life every time I have difficulty or challenges in my life I got guidance and motivation from brother numan's lecturer or khutba JazkAllha
Thank you for touching on the financial aspect for men. I'm in my late twenties and came from a family with financial issues. I work extremely hard and hamdullah I have all the essentials I need. I feel so disheartened when I've also worked on myself so much to be a better person and at the end of the day all I'm judged on is how prestige my job title is, what car I drive, how big a wedding and mahr I can provide.
I can't help but feel self conscious and that I'm undeserving of finding someone because I don't meet the financial expectations imposed by a woman, and if not her than her family.
JazakAllah Khair!❤❤❤❤❤
Convey message of Islam to all people of the world and to everyone who will come also convey message of Islam to all world leaders.......
Being in the west.... If you're a man who isn't in a prestigious career like a doctor or lawyer etc, you'll just get laughed at and won't be taken seriously by so many people. It's tough out here. May Allah make it easy for us all
Yeah I had no option to go overseas. I didn't go to a prestigious university so no girl in my country wanted me
@@HudHudProductionsthis is why many of the sisters in the west are single. They become well educated can get good jobs etc so they start to feel like they can do better and wait for someone either on a equal footing or one who is earning more which infact turns to be a very few men only. Most are average earners and that's the reality. Brothers have more options. Marrying a Christian, a Jewish woman likewise any good Muslim woman, or even going back home but as for the sisters they don't have many options unfortunately hence they either have to wait longer for marriage or they don't get married at all as they cannot find their Mr right..
@@hariss8876 what is also interesting is people marrying from their home countries because they want a caring spouse. People in the west only care about themselves
May Allah ease our matters
Are they marrying the human being or the carrier
I'm disabled man I'm 33 years old I can't do anything by myself and I have a strong desire but girls don't accept me I don't know what I am going to do. ask God for me.
@@petrichor499forget it a God can’t help little children dying of cancer and rapes and He is going to get him married. Poor guy we all feel bad for these people. He needs medical science to help him grow new legs someday not false hopes in a false God who can’t help anyone.
May Allah make it easy for you
@@Ms_Fajin thank you.
Mashallah good lecture
Let me tell you as muslim when I got married it was very difficult for me. Expensive high expectations and demands.
Plz pray for me. I am 28 years old and unmarried girl. I feel Very upset for my late marriage. Plz pray for me
Where are you from dear fahima
@@wahidraja715 Bangladesh district Narsingdi
Asalam o alikum I'm looking rishta for my brother he is 35 done MBA doing own business
@@enjoyfullife2703
Where from
Oh Allah make it easy for me 😢 ... Please pray for me ke meri family maan jaye i am feeling very low
I love his speech! Mashallah ❤
For people are trying to find worthy partners, here's an advice.
How about going out of you comfortable zone and tries to make yourself much much more worthy.
Sometimes everyone is looking for a partner, but they themselves reject each other.
It's fine to settle, but not okay to expect others to settle for less.
The only solution is what's in your control, make yourself worthy, and Pray sincerely.
Ma shaa Allah thank you for this video. Could you please discuss the nuances of marriage between a muslim (m) and non-muslim (f)?
Prophet Mohammad (SA)
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2. USE MISWAK TO CLEAN YOUR TEETH
3. WEARING CLEAN OR NEW CLOTHES
4. APPLY PERFUME/ OUD
5. CUT YOUR NAILS
6. READ SURAH AL-KAHF
7. SEND DUROOD UPON
THE PROPHET MUHAMMAD (S.A.W)
8. GO TO THE MASJID AS EARLY AS YOU CAN
9. WALKING TO THE MASJID
10. LISTEN TO THE KHUTBAH OF JUMMAH
Try To Follow All Sunnah Every Friday ❤
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Jazakallah..for sharing good things!✨
Duas needed for aafiyat and Khair.
Jazaq allahukum khairan shaikh💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐
I've a cousin sister who's 40 years old & since many years her family is looking for a suitable husband but she remains unmarried😢. Please pray for her & all other women who want to get married.
Mas allah logic, logic and logic
Some people are meant not to marry. . .. and once they 'force' it cause a social catastrophe.
Women who you are not married and you're approaching your 40's. Remember Khadija (r.a)... Insha'Allah Allah SWT will grant you what is the best for you in this Dunya and Akhira. Aamiin.
Please pray for me... going through a difficult situation..im a Christian convert ...my family is against my faith ..May Allah guide all of us
Tests will be there May Allah strengthen you …seek plenty of knowledge and listen to revert stories to strengthen yourself ..I as a born Muslim listen to revert stories when I am down at times😢
@@toreyetheservant1437 Thank you...May Allah bless you
.....think one young couple... nikah done, but live each with their own parents, and go away at weekends... superb idea
Exactly! I don't know why it's so difficult for elders to understand this.
It is a good idea inShaAllah when both of them are gaining an education and busy with other affairs. Atleast it protects them from zina and other evils. When the boy has finished is education or earning enough to maintain and provide for her. They move out
Pray for me to marry a pious man inshalah
It's nearly impossible to marry in the society that I live in. You have to meet certain criteria first, you should have a car, a separate house or portion, a high paying income. That's it, everything to do with money, a person could be worst of humans but if he has money, everything else is ignored. And there are some parents that make the decisions for their son on marriage and act as of they have not fulfilled their duty but made Ehsaan on their son. There is just one thing for men who keep themselves away from filth and haram, ignore the burning need of companionship, and just carry on with life, trying not to get bitter or resentful along the way.
True. I hope our societies make marriages easy again.
Assalamoalykum from Pakistan 🇵🇰 most difficult thing now a days I try my level best to keep my marriage simple but seems like impossible
🌟 In The Quran ALLAH Almighty Has Hinted the Righteous Should Be encourage to get married in #SurahAnNour, People Get Married Nowdays To Release Their Sexual Desires...And They Not Mentally and Spritualy Fit For This Big Insinuate...So Much Messy Marriages all Over the Globe, People Don't Know How To Handle This Huge Blessing....What a Shame😢
Apke wahan to mrg main ladkiyan thumak thumak ke dance karti hain😂😂 maje hi maje hain Pakistaniyo ke🤣
جزاك الله خيرا
Pray for me for happily peaceful marriage. I'm getting old.plesas pray for me and all young people how are not get married yet. Ameen
May Allah grant u a pious spouse
I don't understand why muslim community delays marriage even though parents do understand that their child has grown enough to make his own living and can take care for his/her spouse, ignorance of parents has caused a big damage to younger generations falling into mastrubation and zina as it has become common in muslim community
wish I could mention some of my unmarried friends. 😂
🌟 In The Quran ALLAH Almighty Has Hinted the Righteous Should Be encourage to get married in #SurahAnNour, People Get Married Nowdays To Release Their Sexual Desires...And They Not Mentally and Spritualy Fit For This Big Insinuate...So Much Messy Marriages all Over the Globe, People Don't Know How To Handle This Huge Blessing....What a Shame😢
I'm sure they're also thinking about you lol 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@durdurdikir4021respectfully, here in the west reverts and Muslims returning to the Deen have to make hijra every day from the western lifestyle, into established Muslim communities that in no way are prepared to receive their hijra. So when things become unstable and fall apart, it's very easy for other Muslims to point the finger and say "their intentions were bad" instead of doing any investigation about why marriages fail here. Here, Muslim communities witness shahada and say "alhamdulillah, mashaaAllah" as spectators and don't realize that most converts leave precisely because their new communities are just as hyper individualized and irresponsible as the society they made hijra from, with the added hypocrisy of assuming they are somehow functionally different just because they believe in Allah SWT, but doing nothing to tie their "community camel." Let's stop judging people's intentions and start doing the work of making our communities more conducive to success, for the pleasure of Allah, again with all due respect.
@@theLetterDoubleYou. All is good and true what you said brother but first please change the face of pig from your RUclips profile. Don’t understand why you have posted a haram picture?
So beneficial!
Jazah Allah kheir for this - however there are a few points that he partially covers or does so with a narrow lense.
He needs to have a more wholestic approach of the root of the problem
Watch the full video 😊
Nowadays women are in case 2
They wanna get married but are restricted saying it's early or marraige is not important than career
Well we live in a society where people who think thy are deeni makes deen more hard 😢 don't worry sisters I'm praying for you all
May allh guide us all and
Do pray for me
Great Lecture
Alhamdulilah. She better show up soon...😊
Much needed translation in urdu/hindi....pleaseeeeee
I wish my family had heard that message... The worst is that they prevent you from getting married and in the end reproach you that you aren't!
Allah will judge.
I know they don't have bad intentions but there are eniugh cases and we all see that many children are still fine though deeply hurt and functioning while some are completely destroyed.
And I blame parents when there were enough people around telling them how to preserve their children, especially daughters.
🤲🏼 Allah forgive us all and guide us. Please bless our mothers ya Rham Rahimin.
Any woman want to get to know and insya Allah getting married?
Thank you very much well said !!! Allah will ask our rights I akhirah ...they are muslim but still following the adat rather than deen ..may Allah swt gives hidayah to pakistanis
Allahumma Salliala Sayedina Muhammad❤ Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Aalihi Wa Sallam❤ Astagfirullah! Astagfirullah! Astagfirullah!
May Allah ﷻ grant us a good ending 🤍
-Allahumma inni as aluka Husnal Khatimah -Allahumma inni as aluka Al Jannah
-Allahumma ajirni Minan Naar
I hope my dad listen to you
Thank you well said
What's now happening is that girls and their parents have been extremely fussy that they don't want to get married unless the boy and his family is perfect. Only if the men allow them to work or they are homeowners and very well settled.
They will understand sooner or later that some level of compromise is needed. When the girl reaches her mid/late twenties unmarried, that's when they start to panic and understand they were making a mistake earlier looking for a Mr perfect
Assalamualaikum, thank you so much for this video. As a muslim from muslim family I am trying to avoid Haram as much as possible, I am 24 year old man who doesn't know how to find a partner for marriage and is sick from marriage candidates from my parents village. I don't know what to do and how effectively to stop my biological desire. Why am I writing this it's so embarrassing....? May Allah forgive all of us : )
most of the modern Muslim sister are asking unrealistic money for the wedding and Niqab at least 50k to 70k and we all know most of our brothers have no chance of getting married with that kind of income 😂, I have noticed most of the brothers are going overseas to a 3rd world countries in order to find a wifey material. I went back to Somalia 🇸🇴 for the first time since 2002 for a month holiday with my uncle, long story short I got married within a 3 weeks because my current wife didn’t asked me about my income , how tall I’m am, what car I drive, which university I graduated, like the stupid question our current sister are asking, she said I wanna get married and here is my father’s number 😌 best decision of my life, on our second date she said i will cook for you and later you can meet my family :) I will recommend this message to my Muslim brothers if you want to find a good Spouse travel and thank me later ❤️
You married overseas because that's all you can afford.
@@adila2442 was that supposed to be funny, he flew back home so what?
@@adila2442what are i saying, people from the west normal go home to get married and in my opinion it the best decision
There would be nothing wrong with her asking about income… do you really think most men are just going to marry off their daughter without knowing the guy’s finances? No. And they shouldn’t. Men only talk like this when they can’t afford it. They have a completely different attitude and aim for the “best” when they do have money. Both sides need to be realistic, but women need to maintain standards or else men with nothing much to offer will take advantage.
😐😐😐who is going to marry our sisters? ?
Thankyou so much brother for this bayan I explain to my parents this but they don’t understand can you do this bayan in Urdu plz Thankyou
I can't help but mention he's covered his head yeah🎉 ❤
Alhamdulillah ❤
Shokrane Ustad. I never hear a scholar talking about single woman , How really wants to get married, but there is no one to get married to
The fire in Jahanam will not touch the person who recites "Allahumma Ajirni Minan Nar" 7x after fajr & maghrib.
25 years old but still not married 😢still hoping for someone
I am 24 and I feel you sister, may Allah ease our journey for personal growth first
@@yarazoey I'm not a girl for your information 😊
Jazaak Allah Khair.😊
In islam it is said that the daughter in law is not bound to serve or look after her mother in law rather the husband of that daughter in law is said to keep a maid for his mother's nurture or he should serve her. Now if the person is poor then how will he manage maid?moreover it is said that after marriage if wife demands for having separate house her husband is bound to give that. Also if he does work and then he returns home. So after coming home the men are instructed to help his wife and spend time with her in Islam. But in this way his mother doesn’t get quality time with her son also doesn’t get any treatment as an elderly person. There are things she can't do by herself for being aged.due to her son is married she loses her son almost.like he earns,then returns home and helps wife, sleeps with wife, spends quality time with wife then where is mother's demand?I see some men stay separate with their wife and come once or twice a month and give some money to their mother.is this money only she needs?does she not deserve quality time with her son equally? after so much sacrifice a mother raises a son and after his marriage his wife gets right over him and his money and his time. So aren’t mothers getting negligence? How is the person supposed to manage both equally so that there is no discrimination.
I am form Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩❤
Nowadays I think our parents are the biggest hurdle 😢
This is nice but I live in a westren country if a divorce happines you still lose the house
Death , mirage , children , has a time , Allah says in Quran , “ Allah knows the fallen leaf 🍁 from a tree “ a person believing Allah wait till Allah decides ,
SubhanAllah
Alhamdulillah
La Ilaha Illa Allah
Allahu Akbar🌹
Please make Du’a for me I’m struggling to get married and finding someone suitable for marriage.
InshaAllah , amen
❤la havla vala quvvata illa BILLAH
Make marriage easy again - MMEA