@ericamacs3875 you've only her word though for that- the bbc were quick to reveal what abuse Graz was guilty of but have yet revealed NOTHING about Gio. Why is that the case..... 3 sides to every story
The takes are personal and private and belong to the BBC. You need to wait for the results of their investigation. I shudder at your ide of ‘trial by social media’.
@beautifulbuddleia That's easier said than done. Things like this happen more than you know. She isn't the only person that has gone through something like this. The only difference is she brought this on herself without realising it. It's the world we live in unfortunately 😔
@@PatriciaBrown1711I believe it’s because she had the courage to do something about where the previous partners didn’t. Kudos to her for standing up to a bully.
@@tonypowell7529 That's what you call a decent person who doesn't want anyone else to suffer. Come on anyone else who suffered this please support this woman and don't let this guy get away with this. Respect to Amanda
She hasn’t actually shown proof of online death threats & Piers Morgan contacted the police over his. If it’s true then she should do the same but that’s also a another “if”
Drama tourists, as I've seen them called. They are part of a sick group (or groups) who latch on to any drama and then send threats like this to the victims. The comments repeat far too accurately to be completely different types of people. Some may be so-called 'fans' of a show or a person on it but from what I've seen the vast majority have no connection to the show etc in the slightest. They may not even have seen it.
@@BelindaJon41 Belinda. Go away. You are thoroughly unpleasant. This is a female who has expressed concern over her treatment. Others have also. Stop being on the side of the perpetrator. Absurd comments through this feed. Yes we need to wait for the outcome, but it’s not looking good on the side of BBC and its stars. Again. Be a decent human.
There is a MASSIVE issue of misogyny in society. How many men recieve rape and death threats for not towing the line or expressing the "wrong opinions". Women are not listened to and are continuously treated with contempt. Big love to Amanda Abbington. ❤
Why in society? this was very very specific to the bbc their culture and work. People should not extend their hatred of men to see misogyny around every corner by extending this to every women/ man. If the male dancer has bullied her and subjected her to the abuse she’s claimed, which I believe from the media toxicity that rules the bbc. This is an individual enabled by a broken culturally company. The real issue here is why so quiet for so long when this abuse has gone on for years. Less emblematic of society than of the bbc. What many men are hugely frustrated by and women is the falseness of the virtue signalling woke bs many adopt.
@@mygoogle1482 I think you've missed the point that the commenter was making; they're critiquing our society that directs rape and death threats to women. That *is* a societal issue, not a BBC issue.
@@OhCrumbs96 our society? , there are 70 odd million folk in British isles how many have threatened to do this poor lady harm? Very very few sicko social media warriors who wouldn’t dare say anything without anonymity. That’s our issue as society, generally men do not rape or want to rape women. Bbc create and manipulate and reflect what’s happening in society for their own ends.
@@mygoogle1482 You're just going to ignore the rape and death threats then? This is a story that plays out continually when a women speaks out or dares to have an opinion that others find objectionable. Jk Rowling, Rosie Duffield, Julie Bindel, Kathleen Stock, Helen Joyce and so many more have reported the same threats, some resulting in prosecution. When do you hear of any male receiving hundreds of threats for sharing the same opinions? You don't. It is behaviour exclusively targeting women because women are seen as weak, as "less than" by a society that priorities men over women. It's misogyny. You're male aren't you?
As someone who was never believed as a child when being abused, I can say that not being believed hurt far more than the actual abuse. So, I hope once all the evidence along with the truth comes out, that it helps you to begin to heal ❤️
I think one of the things we tend to forget is that abusers do not abuse 24/7 but can be/are charming. It’s part of the pattern of abuse and is one of the many reasons why it’s so hard to confront. All power to Amanda for calling this out.
@@aldozilli1293 that sounds like an abusers charter to me. Of course we all make mistakes and hurt people at times but that is very different from abusing someone. Abuse is aimed at controlling and hurting someone.
@@pennyross5468 I’d feel more comfortable if there had been no interviews while there is an ongoing investigation. We haven’t heard Giovanni’s side of the story yet. Amanda has had her say, numerous times, and I think that was a mistake. She’s been on the receiving end of a lot of hate because of that. Had she stayed quiet until the BBC had concluded their investigation, and then said her piece, it would have been corroborated (or not) by the BBC.
Why all these very public interviews and why leave it so long? Totally the wrong way to go about it if you don’t want to be trolled. It was inevitable as her face is everywhere. Not the behaviour of someone trying to avoid a public backlash, more like feeding the monster.
Amanda you were my favourite on strictly. When you pulled out i felt you did so with honour, grace and professionalism. In the past weeks i have admired your not rising to hype and remaining private and respectful. I have CPTSD and this interview hit hard. Your trauma is clearly still very raw but you handled this interview once again with honesty and professionalism. You have acted as any one would, your feelings and instincts are completely normal. Not unhinged, not unstable but justified and simply human. It is NEVER ok to make another person feel this way, no matter the reasons. Good people nurture others and do not degrade and put them down. You have done what you know to be morally the right thing in reaching out and so need not feel any shame. I am a big strictly fan and was shocked to hear about how bad things were. This does not make me think less of those coming forwards nor does it make me think less of the show as a whole. From the outside it looks as if the BBC are taking this seriously and i truly hope this provides an opportunity to assess and restructure so everyone is able to move forwards in a happy and healthy manner. I admire your bravery and wish you all the best with your play xxx
Amanda saying "..trying my hardest every week.. to make that room a nicer a place" is typical of how a victim of an abuser behaves - initially you believe that you're making the abuser react in a negative way, so there must be something wrong with you, you try harder and harder to please them and behave in a way that doesn't offend them, but no matter what you do, it doesn't work. He sounds like a typical narcissist. These folk have two faces and if you've only ever been exposed to the charming side, you'll have a hard time believing how nasty they can be. Amanda is incredibly brave for exposing his treatment of her ❤
I'm really glad she gave this interview. Giovanni wanted to win the trophy at all costs. He has been with quite a few older women, which seems to trigger his annoyance. I love the dancer, Dianne Boswell, who has remained friends with the people she danced with. She had Joe Suggs as her dance student, and they came 2nd. They formed a great team and fell in love. They have a great relationship and live very happily together. I hope BBC films all the rehearsals from now on. It protects the professional dancers and their partners.
I wasn't sure why she kept talking about "that room" so much. It seemed odd to me that she mentioned it and spoke about the room in such a negative way, when the room isn't the issue. The man, the behaviour, the attitude and the lack of care and protection are the problem, yet all her pain and trauma seems centred on the room. Can you explain it to me?
Disgusting that haters will attack another human being in such an unwarranted fashion. No TV program is worth the destruction of someone mental health or physical wellbeing.
Amanda put out Anti Trans tweets when she was on Strictly! I was horrified and appalled! She left shortly after those tweets! So, she's not perfectly innocent herself! And no doubt she would have hurt many Trans People!
She is responsible for herself. She complained week one but stayed til week 5. Why? More money is earned when you make the halfway mark. Stop blaming others, you should have walked week 2 if nothing changed.
I hope that you extend that to the prodancer, too. In your age you should be already have at least so much maturity that you wait to see the result of investigation. The one who choose to take the spotlight when ever possible, is not necessarily telling or being the whole picture.
@@wildideas7368 you miss interpret and assume my intention. I do not know the parties involved, all I am saying is that is unacceptable for anyone, and I mean anyone, to be bullied.
@@JHughes-zz7rg Her tweets weren't even anti-trans. They were specifically referring to certain issues around drag performances etc. Which are undoutedbly perfectly reasonable and correct. There was no mention of trans anything. None of this btw, makes it okay for people to send death threats to her, either in public or via social media. If you're suggesting otherwise, you must be beyond stupid. I hope that you aren't
Amanda, I am so sorry you have and continue to endure such pain for speaking out against abusive behaviour. You are a powerful voice for anyone going through this and please know that I applaud you and have huge respect for you in doing so 👏
bbc dont own the tapes licence payers do remember it took 30 years to release jimmy fit it tapes and they were release bye awhistle blower sold to a newspaper
Amanda, thank you for speaking up. You have ensured another woman won't be in those rehearsal rooms with him. It sounds like his expectations were immensely high and his ego and chase for perfection led his behaviour. I have been in a similar situation but without the world watching. I can't imagine it. Proud of you and know that you definitely did the right thing.
I see you believe her but haven’t yet seen or heard the evidence? That’s depressing. Why not WAIT to hear what actually happened!! It’s just possible that she isn’t telling the truth. One of them is lying. The BBC sacked the other one almost instantly, funny it’s taken so much longer with this one.
And Italian males are brought up to think they are God's gift and women are sub human, though mothers are as much to blame as the misogynistic fathers that perpetuate this culture, same in India.I know from experience
The BBC seemingly put the show before any duty of care for people on the show. Producers seeing and apologising for abusive behaviour is pointless when they allowed it to continue, rather than removing those who were doing things that they clearly knew was wrong, since they had to apologise for what they saw on those tapes on a weekly basis. Props to Amanda for talking about this, especially since it sounds like this has been going on for a while, and when she and her family have to face even more abuse just for speaking out.
@@lyndafay8528 I assume u have the same attitude to rapes? Emotional domestic abuse? If your daughter/sister/ friend came to u and said these things were happening you'd say this? Wow.
@@lisamgreenleafright?! I'm assuming with a name like 'Lynda' it's a woman as well which makes it even more sad. Hopefully nobody ever assaults her and gets away with it 😬🥲
How dare the bbc treat you like this, we are forced to pay the licence to this company! Well done Amanda you are so brave, so many people support you. Much love x
I’m 46 and I’ve never paid for a TV licence and I never intend to. All you have to do is every two years when they send you the letter in the post about whether you have a TV licence or not. You call them and tell them that you don’t watch any live TV regardless of whether you do or not, I quite often go onto iPlayer and catch up, but they don’t know that. They will then leave you alone for two years. I’ve been doing it for 46 years and trust me they do not know whether you are watching their 🐕💩 Channel or not.
I just want to say that she seems like such a lovely, down to earth woman. I know the external circumstances might not work out the way she might want or deserves, but having this level of integrity and honouring yourself will always be the most important thing
I think they are obliged, by law, to continue paying a suspended person until they are charged or proven guilty, or something like that? I don’t think it’s specifically a BBC action?
Her experience is so relatable. Unfortunately. I’m so angry that people didn’t believe her. Her word wasn’t enough and neither is having the footage. Why is the abuser once again being protected? And we are paying for this privilege. Disgraceful.
Annekathleen - right, but you don’t have to. You DO have to take them seriously though, and reserve judgement until a full and impartial investigation has concluded. Anything else is unhelpful, and as we’ve seen with the trolling here, harmful.
blondie4 is a good example of why witches were burnt at the stake, no need for EVIDENCE, just believe someone! ironically blondie4 is the ''abuser'' here!
It seems all very convenient for the BBC to not allow anyone to see the footage or brush things to one side for their own gain. When you look at Jimmy Saville or Rolf Harris who were extremely popular and influential and realise how long it took for someone to do something it seems this is unfortunately going the same way. Surely if ANY environment feels unsafe or toxic in any way it should be taken seriously immediately. This has happened a few times lately with the BBC lately it's disgusting.
The people who send those threats should be charged immediately after the first message is received. We know who they are, but frightenly, they walk freely in society, but she and her family have had to endure.
@@buleberryjam177gaming7This is genuine distress, you can see it is. Why would she do it otherwise? She didn't need the attention. She's always had plenty of work. You must be one of the sickos that was threatening her and her family.
This is heartbreaking to watch. Amanda, I believe you, I can feel how this has destroyed you, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Well done for standing up and being heard 💕
If more people understood what PTSD & C-PTSD are the world would be a much more compassionate and understanding place to live in. I am so glad that more and more work and education about these issues are getting more light shone on them so people do. As she explains here, the fact that she has previous experience of being in abusive relationship the effect was worse. It's been statistically proven that veterans who experience PTSD do so because they have prior hideous experiences that they may or may not actually be aware of consciously, that are held in the nervous system until an external environment triggers the memory of as this lady describes here. She has not faught in a war, yet as some veterans do, the physical and psychological effects are life changing and can be completely debilitating. I am so glad that she has spoken up for all that have other work place or personal situations where they may be in doubt to speak up.
This is a very important interview going forward. Women voicing concerns should be heard and the concerns addressed! Not doubly victimised and put down.
it's not the BBC....it's establishments, institutions, government, elites, police who constantly partake in coverups, threats, intimidation, making false evidence, hiding evidence...... from Hillsborough to post office, to ppe, to savile..... this happens all the time and it needs to stop
@@Rick-xp5sy I am with you. To me the BBC is a law unto itself. It's got this river of funding flowing in from the unwitting public who are kept in the dark about the seedy scandals that have been going on for years. They keep everything out of sight until the situation becomes desperate. They are just hypocrites playing fast and loose with the money WE have to give them 🤬.
People don't like whistle blowers. Buy they are needed. Look what happened as a result of Amanda speaking. Zara came out. Would that have happened unless Amanda had spoken first- probably not. Now they all need chaperones. So being a whistle blower works. Well done Amanda
But she was all over him in rehearsals, touching his face after rehersals , saying they got on well and saying how lovely he is. So is she saying she lied then?
It's frightening that there are so many highly disturbed individuals out there. I'm so sorry that Amanda has had to firstly go through the horrible Strictly bullying and then to have that compounded by the outrageous public reaction must have been almost intolerable. I hope she knows that are people who are on her side who believed what she said and are wishing her all the very best. Editing to say Amanda was my tip to win Strictly and I was really sad to see her have to go 🧡
Who says he doesn’t want anyone to see the footage. I feel for her and think we need both sides of the experience with a neutral person reviewing the footage
@juliesomerville79 I think I saw a statement from his legals that he refused to release the 50 hours. He is the only other in the video, so both of them had to agree. He said no.
How would it go to court? She’s not bringing a legal case she’s doing this through the media. If she’s been abused via SM that should be with the police
I think the footage will be released once the inquiry is over. An inquiry is 'like' a court case and it is not a good thing to show the proceedings to the public before the end of the 'case'.
So sorry Amanda. I have experienced bullying in the workplace and this is what it is…. i believe you and recognise the feelings you have. It is so debilitating and disempowering. Speaking out and being heard is important…. And you are heard.
I feel very ashamed of myself as a woman. When this initially came out, I was one of the ones who rolled her eyes and thought it was probably all to do with someone who couldn't handle the rigours of training with a professional dancer who had super high standards and wanted to win. Watching this, I can clearly see that it's more than that. It almost doesn't matter what it was because it was bad for her, regardless, and that's what actually matters. If they do release the footage people will still fall into opposing camps. Some will say they don't see what the fuss was about and others will be horrified and where you sit on that will be down to your own life experiences etc. But it's HER experience, not ours, and I'm sorry my initial thoughts were dismissive.
We need more comments like this - the fact that you're able to change your opinion and see that you were mistaken is something that not enough people do - perhaps politicians should be able to do this more and we would be in a better place! Well done to you
I second this thank you for the comment. Self reflection is rare and not praised enough. I have felt similarly before until further evidence came out, and I wondered why did i instinctively choose to dismiss someone's statement? I think one reason why this happens is our gut reaction = "i like them, it can't be true!" It is simpler to disbelieve a person who says something to different to wjat we think we know about a person or situation. It is harder to listen and rethink how we view someone or question what we know because it makes us uncomfortable. So thanks again for your comment 💜
You self-reflection is admirable. We should all be mindful of the simple truth that we rarely ever get or see all the facts. We should all bear that in mind when forming opinions, as well as having the capacity to forgive ourselves if we do forget ourselves. That said, that's still no excuse for hateful, sexist/racist/misogynistic/homophobic invective.
This reminds me of how I felt in a previous job, and I am certainly no snowflake. You feel like it's you and you're going mad. On the death threats etc, those people are disgusting and should be tracked and charged, the socials are such a cesspit. All my love to Amanda ❤
Amanda, I am sending you my heart, to help keep you strong. Any form of abuse under any circumstances is completely unacceptable. Your decision to open up about your treatment in the training room demonstrates your courage and feeless goal in stamping out abuse. Bless you, please keep going ❤xx
Same here. Best wishes to you Amanda. Don't allow that slug or that disgraceful organisation to impact on your life any further. You're incredibly strong and brave.
There are many ghouls out there who criticise the police for investigating crimes like this. They dismiss the investigation by saying the police are going after people for using "hurty" words. Well, this is the reality.
@@Fakewokeagenda😂😂😂 blaming Elon musk ..... just ignore them, they are very sad people..... loon at the guy that stalked holly Willoughby! that's why they make threats but also people like Amanda do lie and exaggerate.... she seems very full of BS..... don't see the point in this interview really, she can't say anything
It’s her perception. He probably did shout. He probably would have preferred someone younger. Not right but maybe made her feel devalued. I hope he is cleared.
Look at it the other way, why would the professional dancers lie? It's their livelihoods as well, it seems six of one and half a dozen of another. No one has actually seen any evidence, and no one forces the " celebrities " a term I use very loosely these days as it's overused likewise Star! to do any of these shows
@@sandrabutler8483There's no equivalence at all here. If a professional dancer is accused of mistreating a celebrity partner, what career-jeopardising lie could they tell in response to the accusations?
It is very telling that he won’t let the videos be released as that would be quickest way to prove his innocence so there has to be something he doesn’t want people to see
I don’t think it’s telling at all… it’s very easy to say that’s bullying when it wasn’t. Someone’s perception of someone can be very damaging, having footage available for everyone to have their own opinion of is very dangerous. I think leaving it to people to be impartial and trained to deal with the issue is the best option for both sides
I believe you. I can see the emotional toll on your face. This is shocking. You are an incredible woman. How awful that people are listening but not hearing what actually happened to you. You are one heck of a brave person. You deserve to have the footage of you in that room.. Why does the he not want to see it. If there was nothing to hide he would turn it over. Despicable.
WHAT? Death threats? To her, threats to her children, her family? What? How dare they. I hope they have been arrested. I can’t imagine Amanda would dream of putting her story out there if it was a complete lie… I have admired Giovani on strictly, but, you only see the “celebrity” he’s handsome, a great dancer, but let’s not forget, off camera, like many, we have absolutely no idea what he’s like…. No one deserves death threats, it’s frightening. It’s very unfair on her
I'm so glad she has spoken up and highlighted the abuse within the show and what she experienced from obviously a horrible narcissistic abuser who thought he could get away with it . She deserved so much better. I'm so glad they have got rid of the toxic individuals and will not tolerate this BS from horrid toxic bullying .
Regarding going forwards: I think it’d help to think about it like any other workplace: abuse of any kind will not be tolerated and those who perpetrate it will be disciplined, ie sacked.
I feel so sorry for Amanda ..NO one should be treated that way .she is so strong and a true inspiration to so many of us for speaking about this ....Sending lots of love
I believe Amanda. Giovanni was so confident the bbc would protect him he didn't care what his behaviour was on camera and now they won't release the footage. Darvo. Disgusting. After Saville, after the Princess Diana interview, they're doing it again. There needs to be an EXTERNAL review
@@Age-Rebel if only you knew what abused and bullied people go through in order to try 'to make yourself ok' - perhaps then you would have SOME idea about what you're talking about but it sounds like you are not educated enough about it to make any commments.
I felt sad when Amanda had left the show. She'd been definitely the best one and had everything to win. I hope she'll recover one day, and I genuinely believe that giving it another go with somebody decent could be the best cure. Warmest wishes from Putney!
Amanda as a survivor of an abusive relationship i really feel for you explaining this i can see you physically tense up reliving it. Im so sorry you went through this with this narcissist. Please know you have so much support ❤
@@lisamgreenleaf Nope. I will never go away or be silenced. As someone who's survived ACTUAL abuse, I can tell when someone's faking it. She'll be writing an op ed soon.
@@vermilliongecko looking forward to the footage coming out or him owning up. Hard work and emotional abuse are VERY DIFFERENT and working hard does not mean being made to feel absolutely shite is acceptable.as a survivor of ACTUAL ABUSE myself as well I would be horrified if my family and friends had said to me "you just underestimated how hard a relationship was, you didn't work hard enough" I also hope any of your friends or family never have to come to you if they are in this situation. You wouldn't believe them. She doesn't deserve the death threats and the amount of backlash from this would not have been considered lightly just to promote a play??! Get a grip. I don't want to talk about this any longer thank you.
@@lisamgreenleaf Tell you what, why don't you hold your breath until the footage comes out. A romantic relationship that you're talking about is not the same as an adult student - teacher relationship. I believe my friends and family because they're trustworthy people who don't lie for attention. However, I have a family member with a personality disorder who absolutely does lie for attention, and has done so for 30+ years. So I know what a liar looks like. No-one should get death threats, but again, we've only got her word that they happened. If you don't want to talk about it, stop replying. It's that simple.
I believe you, Amanda. The sad thing is that you were a stunning dancer and we’d sat there and tipped you to win. Anyway, that is not the point. Thank you for standing up to a high-profile narcissist and an organisation that protects his ilk. As you say, the show is a Saturday night light entertainment show and not a professional competition for the inflating of individual egos and furthering of careers. Some people clearly got too big for their boots and have learned that nobody is bigger than the show. His gaslighting of you (calling you unstable) only proves that he’s unwilling to be accountable or change (typical narc traits). It’s a shame the other women are not prepared to raise their heads above the parapet and be identified, which makes your stance even more brave. Hopefully, this won’t now happen to other women or men and you will eventually be vindicated by the outcome of the investigation.
Oh and Shirley Ballas speaking out in support of him is of no consequence. She’s the chief narcissist on the programme and hates women. Of course she would fawn over him because he’s male and pretends to flirt with her.
Amanda is brave for speaking out against an alleged abuser. For women, being disbelieved is the rule rather than the exception, and a perpetrator depends on it. Everything points to a coverup to handle the aftermath. The facts that the instructor has left and none of the recorded tapes are being released points to his guilt. Whatever eventuates, Amanda took the best action she could to save herself and others, and the BBC needs to own their part in contributing to the suffering that has been experienced.
Amanda should not feel any shame in calling out abusive and bullying behavior, and should be admired for her braveness rather than receiving further bullying and threats from the public. If you read this Amanda the world would be a much nicer place with people like you ❤
It's been clear to everyone that over recent years Strictly has been ratcheting up the level of dancing required by the celebrities. It's got to the point now where the celebs have basically got to be professional dancers to make it through to the final weeks. This doesn't of course excuse the bad behaviour but the "management" seem to have turned a blind eye and put the program first. Hopefully this will reset things for the better.
Agreed. And you can see the difference in some of the pro’s when they have a duffer and don’t bother and one with potential. The looks and body language when it’s not going their way are obvious.
What is wrong with people? Why would you say such vile things to anyone? And to hope her children die? That's so effed up. Poor Amanda and good for her being this brave. How interesting as soon as her partner was announced people texted her saying they were sorry...
I am horrified to listen to this interview, this dear woman who is a great actress, has been truly treated inhumanly, by the public, for dancing? What sort of nightmare has England turned into? 😮
agreed she is very good actress and very good performar that can make many people believe her but i do not believe any word that she says.She probably has multiple personality disorder and the true will come out soon
What a very brave lady for speaking up about whatever it was …I find listening to Amanda is heart warming and heart wrenching all at the same time. Bravo for standing up for your right to be heard ❤
The problem is that she is not allowed to say exactly what happened or what the abuse was and hence people don’t understand what she is complaining about. It should have been kept closed until there was an independent investigation and an outcome. Now there is bitterness on both sides because it’s trial by media but without all the information being available publicly.
This demonstrates how much the BBC allowing this kind of behaviour by their staff to be acceptable They turned a blind eye to jimmy saville. Rolf Harris When will they learn
@charlottepembroke5446 Wasn’t there an issue a few years back with the naturalist Steve ??? Can’t remember the surname) being bullied by ola Jordan Now I can believe that knowing who her husband is ( they are no longer on the team)
The BBC yet again NOT protecting or investigating potential issues with the shows they air. I love strictly and Giovani but this behaviour is totally not acceptable. Dancers are very competitive and in it to win it , to him it’s normal but to other people this is not acceptable!!
Just watching you and listening to you Amanda, I believe you. I've been through the same in the work place and everything you say confirms my experience. Good for you speaking out. Not an easy thing to do as is clearly evident. What a strange world we live in that women are STILL not believed.
The BBC knew they always cover themselves…just look at Saville. Giovanni had many complaints before and it was ignored for the sake of the biggest show on the BBC so he knew he’d get away with it. I’ve no doubt other dancers have done similar.. The biggest shock is middle aged women threatening a victim of abuse and standing up for the abuser! There have been at least 6 other people complain and he won’t release footage….says it all. The BBC shouldn’t be allowed to withhold the footage and an internal investigation by the BBC of the BBC is like Saville investigating Rolf Harris
Can C4 please pin that Giovanni has been NOW been CLEARED of fault over everything except “being a little overly critical on occasion” She’s been on a witch hunt and BBC apologised that her feelings were hurt. They have not reprimanded him nor has he apologised. Why should he ? “He stepped on my toes” is a ridiculous “accusation” - people have broken bones on that show and not blamed the instructors. This is appalling she should be ashamed. He has NOT done any interviews trying to defend himself because he knew he was not at fault all along. The behaviour panel would have a great time with this phoney. But she isn’t news, she’s tabloid fodder and probably trying to make a bit of cash from selling her “struggle” Dignity ? Nope
She’s apparently out to sue the bbc now, despite their apology. Them apologising for her hurty feelings & inability to hack the training was probably an own goal as she uses that now to really believe she was in the right, despite Gio being cleared of the worst of her lies. She is bound to fail any civil case however I reckon & will just make herself look even more daft. She seems obsessed with the attention at this point
I find it odd the amount of women defending this abhorrent behaviour bizarre. Are you all desperate lonely people who are basically fan girling for a guy who doesn’t even care you exist?
@@Manic.miner2077not fan girling, just calling out a bitter & silly woman’s behaviour. If it was Gio acting like this with giving bitter malicious attention seeking public interviews non-stop & trying to ruin Amanda’s life, I would be saying the same about him, but he’s not. She is the one obsessed & not letting go. He’s moved on. Why are you simping over a woman that doesn’t know or care that you exist?
@@Whitebunny-np4lnbecause i listened to her story last night, her and other contestants have shared the same experience, she knows this because they all met up. I will not ignore the victim and belittle them until I’ve heard real proof that nothing happened and so far there isn’t any. Honestly, I’m stunned that a woman today is prepared to throw another woman under the bus, especially when you have the puff diddy story breaking, I guess you will be defending him as well????
@@Manic.miner2077 no other contestants have made allegations against Gio despite his many years of working on the show. They have all had good things to say about him, apart from Laura Whitmore, who showed her clout chasing character when she danced on her friend’s Caroline Flack’s grave to get her job There is no hard proof that Amanda is telling the truth in her outrageous allegations. The tapes have been thoroughly investigated now & it’s concluded. Anyone who still believes her now just has a petty prejudicial grudge against Gio, the show or the bbc & don’t care about the real truth
Oh no. Team Giovanni for sure on this one (and she is an actress after all). She simply wasn’t good enough / couldn’t take the heat and is now complaining about it.
Amanda, I just want to wish you peace, healing and happiness for the future. Hopefully that footage will eventually be made available and everyone can see what you had to endure ❤
I believe you Amanda. I admire your bravery in speaking out. Sadly, there are perpetrators of abuse in all walks of life but also the people who side with them and don’t believe those perpetrated against😢And labelling someone “unstable” is classic perpetrator behaviour unfortunately.
I wonder if this had been Meghan (also an actress) saying this how many people would have believed her. I'm saying this merely to prove the point that people believe what they want to believe, and that often depends on whether they like the person, or whether they have been programmed not to. I feel that unless it is made public what exactly happened, we have no way of knowing whether the accusations are true, or perhaps exaggerated. Otherwise it's all speculation.
I personally think the way she has been treated by the press and the public is absolutely disgraceful. I'm all for fairness and hearing both sides of a story, but the narrative from so many as soon as she left the show and then subsequently made her complaint was that she is a liar, a fantasist, and just didn't want to work hard. Nobody who has been making these kind of comments were there with them so know that for a fact, and this sends a terrible message to women (and indeed men) who are in abusive situations that if they come forward they will be vilified and disparaged and not taken seriously. Giovanni deserves to have his say of course, but I do find it interesting that he is so against the footage of the rehearsals being seen.
As a BBC licence payer I believe those 50 hours of footage should be made available
fantastic idea -
It's him blocking it though, his lawyers. I think he has a right to his image, that's the problem.
As a BBC licence payer, you are everthing that is wrong with this country!🤣🤣
@ericamacs3875 you've only her word though for that- the bbc were quick to reveal what abuse Graz was guilty of but have yet revealed NOTHING about Gio. Why is that the case..... 3 sides to every story
@@emmacarroll5865 She wasn't the only one, he doesn't have a good reputation.
It sounds very much like the BBC not dealing with a problem that they have known about for years. Here we go again.
Boycott the BBC AND THE TV LICENCE! I did years ago.
@@quietowl1246 We don't live in the UK and so do not pay the licence fee.
No footage been released, so ''sounds like'' a void of speculation, for now.
@@quietowl1246 Agree.
yea like Jimmy saville
BBC should release the tapes and turn the investigation over to an external, neutral source.
bbc is owed only bye licence payers as a payer release all tapes remember they hid jimmy fit it tapes for 30 years
The takes are personal and private and belong to the BBC. You need to wait for the results of their investigation. I shudder at your ide of ‘trial by social media’.
@@christineWilson-op8ok Like they are not going to cover their own backs? Please
I strongly feel that people sending that kind of abuse online should be lawfully charged or fined.
Have you read some of her past social media posts? You can’t have one rule for other people and then behave in the same way yourself.
@@bobsocks7575 No I haven’t seen any abusive posts that she has written.
@@bobsocks7575 has she threatened rape and violence on others? No, she didn't. Stop making false equivilances.
@@TheCatsWhiskers76 oh well that’s okay then she can be vile and abusive as much as she likes, don’t be such a naive fool
I totally agree. It’s completely disgusting and any threats should be punished.
Police need to track down each and every single person responsible for sending this Lady and her children death threats!!
@beautifulbuddleia That's easier said than done. Things like this happen more than you know. She isn't the only person that has gone through something like this. The only difference is she brought this on herself without realising it. It's the world we live in unfortunately 😔
@@YinnyDavies-Williams Please explain why she brought this on herself???
@@PatriciaBrown1711I believe it’s because she had the courage to do something about where the previous partners didn’t. Kudos to her for standing up to a bully.
@@tonypowell7529 That's what you call a decent person who doesn't want anyone else to suffer. Come on anyone else who suffered this please support this woman and don't let this guy get away with this. Respect to Amanda
Like the police haven’t got enough to do!
Honestly who are these weirdos who send death threats to people they don’t know and their families?!
Strictly fans! It's all they have in a miserable existence!😂
She hasn’t actually shown proof of online death threats & Piers Morgan contacted the police over his. If it’s true then she should do the same but that’s also a another “if”
Drama tourists, as I've seen them called. They are part of a sick group (or groups) who latch on to any drama and then send threats like this to the victims. The comments repeat far too accurately to be completely different types of people. Some may be so-called 'fans' of a show or a person on it but from what I've seen the vast majority have no connection to the show etc in the slightest. They may not even have seen it.
@@BelindaJon41 Belinda. Go away. You are thoroughly unpleasant. This is a female who has expressed concern over her treatment. Others have also. Stop being on the side of the perpetrator. Absurd comments through this feed. Yes we need to wait for the outcome, but it’s not looking good on the side of BBC and its stars. Again. Be a decent human.
@@BelindaJon41 She doesn't owe you any proof, Bellender.
There is a MASSIVE issue of misogyny in society. How many men recieve rape and death threats for not towing the line or expressing the "wrong opinions". Women are not listened to and are continuously treated with contempt. Big love to Amanda Abbington. ❤
Why in society? this was very very specific to the bbc their culture and work. People should not extend their hatred of men to see misogyny around every corner by extending this to every women/ man. If the male dancer has bullied her and subjected her to the abuse she’s claimed, which I believe from the media toxicity that rules the bbc. This is an individual enabled by a broken culturally company. The real issue here is why so quiet for so long when this abuse has gone on for years. Less emblematic of society than of the bbc. What many men are hugely frustrated by and women is the falseness of the virtue signalling woke bs many adopt.
@@mygoogle1482 I think you've missed the point that the commenter was making; they're critiquing our society that directs rape and death threats to women. That *is* a societal issue, not a BBC issue.
@@OhCrumbs96 our society? , there are 70 odd million folk in British isles how many have threatened to do this poor lady harm? Very very few sicko social media warriors who wouldn’t dare say anything without anonymity. That’s our issue as society, generally men do not rape or want to rape women. Bbc create and manipulate and reflect what’s happening in society for their own ends.
how many women date and marry them men and support them?
@@mygoogle1482 You're just going to ignore the rape and death threats then? This is a story that plays out continually when a women speaks out or dares to have an opinion that others find objectionable. Jk Rowling, Rosie Duffield, Julie Bindel, Kathleen Stock, Helen Joyce and so many more have reported the same threats, some resulting in prosecution. When do you hear of any male receiving hundreds of threats for sharing the same opinions? You don't. It is behaviour exclusively targeting women because women are seen as weak, as "less than" by a society that priorities men over women. It's misogyny.
You're male aren't you?
As someone who was never believed as a child when being abused, I can say that not being believed hurt far more than the actual abuse. So, I hope once all the evidence along with the truth comes out, that it helps you to begin to heal ❤️
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Same here Christine.I really hope BBC don't put their reputation/image ahead of reports of abuse.Especially after the Saville stuff
Having been in an abusive relationship and through family court for 6 years the not being believe is really hard
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I think one of the things we tend to forget is that abusers do not abuse 24/7 but can be/are charming. It’s part of the pattern of abuse and is one of the many reasons why it’s so hard to confront.
All power to Amanda for calling this out.
Well said.
Abusers don't realise what they are doing most the time and we're all capable of doing it. You've probably abused someone without even realising.
@@aldozilli1293 that sounds like an abusers charter to me. Of course we all make mistakes and hurt people at times but that is very different from abusing someone. Abuse is aimed at controlling and hurting someone.
Any woman who’s been in a toxic working environment understands exactly what Amanda is saying she’s a brave lady and yes she is believed
@@pennyross5468
I’d feel more comfortable if there had been no interviews while there is an ongoing investigation.
We haven’t heard Giovanni’s side of the story yet. Amanda has had her say, numerous times, and I think that was a mistake. She’s been on the receiving end of a lot of hate because of that. Had she stayed quiet until the BBC had concluded their investigation, and then said her piece, it would have been corroborated (or not) by the BBC.
@@bevturner2258 the thing is the bbc wouldnt have conducted one unless forced to by it being made public. look at their track recoed
Why all these very public interviews and why leave it so long?
Totally the wrong way to go about it if you don’t want to be trolled. It was inevitable as her face is everywhere. Not the behaviour of someone trying to avoid a public backlash, more like feeding the monster.
@@curlynoodle2929
Absolutely!
Difference is this people do not have to be there. They do it to earn more money. 1 million minimum where you win or not.
Amanda you were my favourite on strictly. When you pulled out i felt you did so with honour, grace and professionalism. In the past weeks i have admired your not rising to hype and remaining private and respectful. I have CPTSD and this interview hit hard. Your trauma is clearly still very raw but you handled this interview once again with honesty and professionalism. You have acted as any one would, your feelings and instincts are completely normal. Not unhinged, not unstable but justified and simply human. It is NEVER ok to make another person feel this way, no matter the reasons. Good people nurture others and do not degrade and put them down. You have done what you know to be morally the right thing in reaching out and so need not feel any shame. I am a big strictly fan and was shocked to hear about how bad things were. This does not make me think less of those coming forwards nor does it make me think less of the show as a whole. From the outside it looks as if the BBC are taking this seriously and i truly hope this provides an opportunity to assess and restructure so everyone is able to move forwards in a happy and healthy manner. I admire your bravery and wish you all the best with your play xxx
So glad she has spoken out. She's risked her career to shine a light on misogynistic abusive behaviour. She's a brave woman and I admire her courage.
agreed and shame on the people bullying her.
huh?
Agree!
Yes, she is. How awful for her. Especially the threats to her children. What a f***ING world we live in! These people should be made accountable.
Well done for speaking up against bully’s and sexist chauvinists and the corporations that protect AND uplift them.
there will be women who will be hating on her too...
yeh
She should give the evidence to the police, they can deal with it.
Amanda saying "..trying my hardest every week.. to make that room a nicer a place" is typical of how a victim of an abuser behaves - initially you believe that you're making the abuser react in a negative way, so there must be something wrong with you, you try harder and harder to please them and behave in a way that doesn't offend them, but no matter what you do, it doesn't work. He sounds like a typical narcissist. These folk have two faces and if you've only ever been exposed to the charming side, you'll have a hard time believing how nasty they can be. Amanda is incredibly brave for exposing his treatment of her ❤
I'm really glad she gave this interview. Giovanni wanted to win the trophy at all costs. He has been with quite a few older women, which seems to trigger his annoyance. I love the dancer, Dianne Boswell, who has remained friends with the people she danced with. She had Joe Suggs as her dance student, and they came 2nd. They formed a great team and fell in love. They have a great relationship and live very happily together. I hope BBC films all the rehearsals from now on. It protects the professional dancers and their partners.
I wasn't sure why she kept talking about "that room" so much. It seemed odd to me that she mentioned it and spoke about the room in such a negative way, when the room isn't the issue. The man, the behaviour, the attitude and the lack of care and protection are the problem, yet all her pain and trauma seems centred on the room. Can you explain it to me?
@@travelwell6049 The room is where the abuse took place - behind closed doors.
Brave?????
As a TV Liscence payer I would like to request that the 50 hrs of footage is released.
Disgusting that haters will attack another human being in such an unwarranted fashion. No TV program is worth the destruction of someone mental health or physical wellbeing.
Amanda put out Anti Trans tweets when she was on Strictly!
I was horrified and appalled!
She left shortly after those tweets!
So, she's not perfectly innocent herself! And no doubt she would have hurt many Trans People!
She is responsible for herself. She complained week one but stayed til week 5. Why? More money is earned when you make the halfway mark. Stop blaming others, you should have walked week 2 if nothing changed.
I hope that you extend that to the prodancer, too. In your age you should be already have at least so much maturity that you wait to see the result of investigation.
The one who choose to take the spotlight when ever possible, is not necessarily telling or being the whole picture.
@@wildideas7368 you miss interpret and assume my intention. I do not know the parties involved, all I am saying is that is unacceptable for anyone, and I mean anyone, to be bullied.
@@JHughes-zz7rg Her tweets weren't even anti-trans. They were specifically referring to certain issues around drag performances etc. Which are undoutedbly perfectly reasonable and correct. There was no mention of trans anything.
None of this btw, makes it okay for people to send death threats to her, either in public or via social media. If you're suggesting otherwise, you must be beyond stupid. I hope that you aren't
Amanda, I am so sorry you have and continue to endure such pain for speaking out against abusive behaviour. You are a powerful voice for anyone going through this and please know that I applaud you and have huge respect for you in doing so 👏
There is a high amount of people Waking Up these day, its great that we won't accept abuse of any kind, well done Amanda, a very brave woman.
Well put
She bullied people for years on her twitter so give me a break
@@lynnnorbury4424 o didn't know that
The BBC will surely have to release the footage. And it is right that they should.
They should at least let her lawyers have a copy
Bet they wont!
bbc dont own the tapes licence payers do remember it took 30 years to release jimmy fit it tapes and they were release bye awhistle blower sold to a newspaper
@@alffuergregorDon’t think legally can yet.
They cannot record someone without consent, they have to inform him that cameras are being installed. Bad practice and illegal
This makes me so angry and sick to my stomach. I feel so sorry for her. The people who are threatening her and her children are the lowest of the low.
Amanda, thank you for speaking up. You have ensured another woman won't be in those rehearsal rooms with him. It sounds like his expectations were immensely high and his ego and chase for perfection led his behaviour. I have been in a similar situation but without the world watching. I can't imagine it. Proud of you and know that you definitely did the right thing.
I see you believe her but haven’t yet seen or heard the evidence? That’s depressing. Why not WAIT to hear what actually happened!! It’s just possible that she isn’t telling the truth. One of them is lying. The BBC sacked the other one almost instantly, funny it’s taken so much longer with this one.
And Italian males are brought up to think they are God's gift and women are sub human, though mothers are as much to blame as the misogynistic fathers that perpetuate this culture, same in India.I know from experience
The BBC seemingly put the show before any duty of care for people on the show.
Producers seeing and apologising for abusive behaviour is pointless when they allowed it to continue, rather than removing those who were doing things that they clearly knew was wrong, since they had to apologise for what they saw on those tapes on a weekly basis.
Props to Amanda for talking about this, especially since it sounds like this has been going on for a while, and when she and her family have to face even more abuse just for speaking out.
If you are threatening and harassing someone online in favour of some pointless, abusive dancer, you should be in Broadmoor.
@@rondon9897 YESSSS
Alleged abusive partner........but you are correct no one should receive threatening messages
No proof, her word only! Before I’d condemn someone, I’d want solid video proof, nothing less. If there’s no proof, then this is irrelevant!
@@lyndafay8528 I assume u have the same attitude to rapes? Emotional domestic abuse? If your daughter/sister/ friend came to u and said these things were happening you'd say this? Wow.
@@lisamgreenleafright?! I'm assuming with a name like 'Lynda' it's a woman as well which makes it even more sad. Hopefully nobody ever assaults her and gets away with it 😬🥲
How dare the bbc treat you like this, we are forced to pay the licence to this company! Well done Amanda you are so brave, so many people support you. Much love x
I don't bother paying for the BBC's license fee. Too much rubbish woke stuff and now this.
I’m 46 and I’ve never paid for a TV licence and I never intend to.
All you have to do is every two years when they send you the letter in the post about whether you have a TV licence or not.
You call them and tell them that you don’t watch any live TV regardless of whether you do or not, I quite often go onto iPlayer and catch up, but they don’t know that.
They will then leave you alone for two years.
I’ve been doing it for 46 years and trust me they do not know whether you are watching their 🐕💩 Channel or not.
I just want to say that she seems like such a lovely, down to earth woman. I know the external circumstances might not work out the way she might want or deserves, but having this level of integrity and honouring yourself will always be the most important thing
The BBC protected Savile and they are STILL PAYING Huw Edwards. What did we expect?
Jimmy Saville was physically abusive. Gio gasnt been accused of that.
How Edwards has been charged with downloading child pornography on his WhatsApp. The BBC are already in tatters.This will add to it.
And you know why they did and do that? Never crossed your mind that maybe there are some legal reasons?
I think they are obliged, by law, to continue paying a suspended person until they are charged or proven guilty, or something like that? I don’t think it’s specifically a BBC action?
And WE are still paying for it all , still!!!!
Her experience is so relatable. Unfortunately.
I’m so angry that people didn’t believe her. Her word wasn’t enough and neither is having the footage.
Why is the abuser once again being protected? And we are paying for this privilege. Disgraceful.
Even if it's true you don't just believe someone's accusations!
How do you know what’s been going on
Annekathleen - right, but you don’t have to. You DO have to take them seriously though, and reserve judgement until a full and impartial investigation has concluded. Anything else is unhelpful, and as we’ve seen with the trolling here, harmful.
@blondie4 is he being protected or is the BBC protecting themselves
blondie4 is a good example of why witches were burnt at the stake, no need for EVIDENCE, just believe someone! ironically blondie4 is the ''abuser'' here!
It seems all very convenient for the BBC to not allow anyone to see the footage or brush things to one side for their own gain. When you look at Jimmy Saville or Rolf Harris who were extremely popular and influential and realise how long it took for someone to do something it seems this is unfortunately going the same way. Surely if ANY environment feels unsafe or toxic in any way it should be taken seriously immediately. This has happened a few times lately with the BBC lately it's disgusting.
I hardly think a difficult rehearsal is the same as paedophilia
They are corrupt to the core ….
That wasn’t everyone’s experience, the interviewer didn’t have that experience. The police should be given the emails etc. as it’s a criminal offence.
Add Huw Edwards
The people who send those threats should be charged immediately after the first message is received.
We know who they are, but frightenly, they walk freely in society, but she and her family have had to endure.
@@neilperry2224 Charged with zero investigation, Sir Mark Rowley would love that approach
We don’t know who they are people like that are anonymous online
Got away with it for so many years and he thought he’s untouchable!! Nobody is untouchable or irreplaceable!! You’re a brave soul, Amanda!!
People who send messages like that to Amanda are sick.
To watch her talking and almost completely breaking down is so hard that I just want to give you a hug ❤
She is an actress.
@@buleberryjam177gaming7This is genuine distress, you can see it is. Why would she do it otherwise? She didn't need the attention. She's always had plenty of work. You must be one of the sickos that was threatening her and her family.
This is heartbreaking to watch. Amanda, I believe you, I can feel how this has destroyed you, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Well done for standing up and being heard 💕
If more people understood what PTSD & C-PTSD are the world would be a much more compassionate and understanding place to live in. I am so glad that more and more work and education about these issues are getting more light shone on them so people do. As she explains here, the fact that she has previous experience of being in abusive relationship the effect was worse. It's been statistically proven that veterans who experience PTSD do so because they have prior hideous experiences that they may or may not actually be aware of consciously, that are held in the nervous system until an external environment triggers the memory of as this lady describes here. She has not faught in a war, yet as some veterans do, the physical and psychological effects are life changing and can be completely debilitating. I am so glad that she has spoken up for all that have other work place or personal situations where they may be in doubt to speak up.
I hope she finds peace and healing. It is awful to be made to feel you're going mad. And nobody deserves to be treated that way ❤
This is a very important interview going forward. Women voicing concerns should be heard and the concerns addressed! Not doubly victimised and put down.
And men, foxybox. There are reports of a female bully too.
@veryimportantpooches2619 More often than not it is a male perpetrator.
@@London719there's no gender scorecard. Where I work we have four managers who are bullying staff - three of the four are women.
Why is it always men? Women can't be emotionally or verbally abusive nah?
BBC is seriously in a bad way. Standards are horrendous
it's not the BBC....it's establishments, institutions, government, elites, police who constantly partake in coverups, threats, intimidation, making false evidence, hiding evidence...... from Hillsborough to post office, to ppe, to savile..... this happens all the time and it needs to stop
@@Rick-xp5sy I am with you. To me the BBC is a law unto itself. It's got this river of funding flowing in from the unwitting public who are kept in the dark about the seedy scandals that have been going on for years. They keep everything out of sight until the situation becomes desperate. They are just hypocrites playing fast and loose with the money WE have to give them 🤬.
Every success to Amanda, she is a brave woman to speak out.
That's the downside of being a whistle-blower and being the first to raise your head above the parapet - you get all the backlash that comes with it.
People don't like whistle blowers. Buy they are needed. Look what happened as a result of Amanda speaking. Zara came out. Would that have happened unless Amanda had spoken first- probably not. Now they all need chaperones. So being a whistle blower works. Well done Amanda
But she was all over him in rehearsals, touching his face after rehersals , saying they got on well and saying how lovely he is. So is she saying she lied then?
Why should she have to justify it. The very fact there are multiple complaints against him shows there is an issue.
Well not justify but has to show proof.
Who is it the complaints have been made about?
I’ve just heard, it’s Giovanni
@@tessalister1226there’s literal hours of proof that the BBC are holding onto
@@tessalister1226 Auntie Beeb won't show the proof.
It's frightening that there are so many highly disturbed individuals out there. I'm so sorry that Amanda has had to firstly go through the horrible Strictly bullying and then to have that compounded by the outrageous public reaction must have been almost intolerable. I hope she knows that are people who are on her side who believed what she said and are wishing her all the very best. Editing to say Amanda was my tip to win Strictly and I was really sad to see her have to go 🧡
If you haven’t done anything wrong let ppl see the 50 hrs of tape then, the fact that he doesn’t want anyone to see them says a lot 🤔
Who says he doesn’t want anyone to see the footage. I feel for her and think we need both sides of the experience with a neutral person reviewing the footage
@juliesomerville79 I think I saw a statement from his legals that he refused to release the 50 hours. He is the only other in the video, so both of them had to agree. He said no.
He didn't refuse the footage. He can't do that, he doesn't have that power.The BBC are the ones withholding it.
Correct, his legal team blocked the release so BBC cannot give them to her legal team.
The BBC will have to reveal the footage if this goes to court
bbc dont own any footage bbc is fully own bye bbc licence payers
How would it go to court? She’s not bringing a legal case she’s doing this through the media. If she’s been abused via SM that should be with the police
I think the footage will be released once the inquiry is over. An inquiry is 'like' a court case and it is not a good thing to show the proceedings to the public before the end of the 'case'.
I believe Amanda 100%. The BBC owes her an apology for their complete and utter failure in this matter.
So sorry Amanda. I have experienced bullying in the workplace and this is what it is…. i believe you and recognise the feelings you have. It is so debilitating and disempowering. Speaking out and being heard is important…. And you are heard.
So the producers are saying sorry every Friday and yet not doing anything to stop him…I feel sick. I’m so sorry Amanda 😢
I bet they'll deny it too.
@@cemoihonay I was thinking I wish she'd insisted they email with their findings!
Who is the " him " you mentioned. A Bit out of the loop
Sorry for what? They exonerated him. That “apology” is meaningless.
@@catherinemoore6289I don’t watch the show but his name is Giovanni
Poor lady. So awful what she's been through 😢 why would she make this up and put herself and her children through this?
Exactly you need to be crazy to make this up.
The police need to be involved with the threats of violence etc.
The Bbc expects women who were bullied to just shut up in the name of entertainment 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
I feel very ashamed of myself as a woman. When this initially came out, I was one of the ones who rolled her eyes and thought it was probably all to do with someone who couldn't handle the rigours of training with a professional dancer who had super high standards and wanted to win. Watching this, I can clearly see that it's more than that. It almost doesn't matter what it was because it was bad for her, regardless, and that's what actually matters. If they do release the footage people will still fall into opposing camps. Some will say they don't see what the fuss was about and others will be horrified and where you sit on that will be down to your own life experiences etc. But it's HER experience, not ours, and I'm sorry my initial thoughts were dismissive.
We need more comments like this - the fact that you're able to change your opinion and see that you were mistaken is something that not enough people do - perhaps politicians should be able to do this more and we would be in a better place! Well done to you
I second this thank you for the comment.
Self reflection is rare and not praised enough. I have felt similarly before until further evidence came out, and I wondered why did i instinctively choose to dismiss someone's statement?
I think one reason why this happens is our gut reaction = "i like them, it can't be true!" It is simpler to disbelieve a person who says something to different to wjat we think we know about a person or situation. It is harder to listen and rethink how we view someone or question what we know because it makes us uncomfortable.
So thanks again for your comment 💜
You self-reflection is admirable. We should all be mindful of the simple truth that we rarely ever get or see all the facts.
We should all bear that in mind when forming opinions, as well as having the capacity to forgive ourselves if we do forget ourselves.
That said, that's still no excuse for hateful, sexist/racist/misogynistic/homophobic invective.
This reminds me of how I felt in a previous job, and I am certainly no snowflake. You feel like it's you and you're going mad. On the death threats etc, those people are disgusting and should be tracked and charged, the socials are such a cesspit. All my love to Amanda ❤
The fact that people are denying workplace abuse doesn’t exist is mind-blowing.
Amanda, I am sending you my heart, to help keep you strong. Any form of abuse under any circumstances is completely unacceptable. Your decision to open up about your treatment in the training room demonstrates your courage and feeless goal in stamping out abuse. Bless you, please keep going ❤xx
Same here. Best wishes to you Amanda. Don't allow that slug or that disgraceful organisation to impact on your life any further. You're incredibly strong and brave.
This woman is absolutely shell shocked 💔
She really is 😢
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Bless your courage and heart, Amanda. You've done nothing to deserve a second of it. Such evil. The mind boggles. Much love to you and yours. x
Can’t they trace these idiots that send rape threats and death threats
There was always nutters, but wtf is it with the rape threats?! The world has gone mad.
No, thank Mr Elon Musk the king of freedom of speech
There are many ghouls out there who criticise the police for investigating crimes like this. They dismiss the investigation by saying the police are going after people for using "hurty" words. Well, this is the reality.
@@Fakewokeagenda😂😂😂 blaming Elon musk ..... just ignore them, they are very sad people..... loon at the guy that stalked holly Willoughby!
that's why they make threats but also people like Amanda do lie and exaggerate.... she seems very full of BS..... don't see the point in this interview really, she can't say anything
@@FakewokeagendaBS!!! Elon supports women not men in dresses
I believe her. Why would she risk her livelihood by lying?
It’s her perception. He probably did shout. He probably would have preferred someone younger. Not right but maybe made her feel devalued. I hope he is cleared.
Look at it the other way, why would the professional dancers lie? It's their livelihoods as well, it seems six of one and half a dozen of another. No one has actually seen any evidence, and no one forces the " celebrities " a term I use very loosely these days as it's overused likewise Star! to do any of these shows
@@Age-RebelThat says so much about you.
@@sandrabutler8483There's no equivalence at all here. If a professional dancer is accused of mistreating a celebrity partner, what career-jeopardising lie could they tell in response to the accusations?
@@Age-Rebel Jesus fucking Christ. Because he would prefer someone younger abuse is ok? Wow. Get in the trash!
It is very telling that he won’t let the videos be released as that would be quickest way to prove his innocence so there has to be something he doesn’t want people to see
There's a parrot in the room
He isn't withholding anything. The BBC officials are
Because he would not give permission for the tapes to be released.
@@cakedjhb2297 Not according to him.
I don’t think it’s telling at all… it’s very easy to say that’s bullying when it wasn’t. Someone’s perception of someone can be very damaging, having footage available for everyone to have their own opinion of is very dangerous. I think leaving it to people to be impartial and trained to deal with the issue is the best option for both sides
Bullying is completely unacceptable in any shape or form.
I believe you. I can see the emotional toll on your face. This is shocking. You are an incredible woman. How awful that people are listening but not hearing what actually happened to you. You are one heck of a brave person. You deserve to have the footage of you in that room.. Why does the he not want to see it. If there was nothing to hide he would turn it over. Despicable.
WHAT? Death threats? To her, threats to her children, her family? What? How dare they. I hope they have been arrested. I can’t imagine Amanda would dream of putting her story out there if it was a complete lie… I have admired Giovani on strictly, but, you only see the “celebrity” he’s handsome, a great dancer, but let’s not forget, off camera, like many, we have absolutely no idea what he’s like…. No one deserves death threats, it’s frightening. It’s very unfair on her
I'm so glad she has spoken up and highlighted the abuse within the show and what she experienced from obviously a horrible narcissistic abuser who thought he could get away with it . She deserved so much better. I'm so glad they have got rid of the toxic individuals and will not tolerate this BS from horrid toxic bullying .
Regarding going forwards: I think it’d help to think about it like any other workplace: abuse of any kind will not be tolerated and those who perpetrate it will be disciplined, ie sacked.
Excellent interview. She is clearly distressed and has very genuine concerns and was bravevto raise them . She deserves a positive outcome.
I feel so sorry for Amanda ..NO one should be treated that way .she is so strong and a true inspiration to so many of us for speaking about this ....Sending lots of love
I believe Amanda. Giovanni was so confident the bbc would protect him he didn't care what his behaviour was on camera and now they won't release the footage. Darvo. Disgusting. After Saville, after the Princess Diana interview, they're doing it again. There needs to be an EXTERNAL review
I think you need to get out the house Sarah 😮
You believe her. Did you watch the video of her denying any rift with Giovanni?? What is the truth? We will have to wait and see.
@@Age-Rebel if only you knew what abused and bullied people go through in order to try 'to make yourself ok' - perhaps then you would have SOME idea about what you're talking about but it sounds like you are not educated enough about it to make any commments.
@@clararob9869And you should confine yourself to your house.
Giovanni Pernice doesn't even know you exist and never will.@@clararob9869
I felt sad when Amanda had left the show. She'd been definitely the best one and had everything to win. I hope she'll recover one day, and I genuinely believe that giving it another go with somebody decent could be the best cure. Warmest wishes from Putney!
Amanda as a survivor of an abusive relationship i really feel for you explaining this i can see you physically tense up reliving it. Im so sorry you went through this with this narcissist. Please know you have so much support ❤
She's weaponising your trauma. Don't fall for it.
@@vermilliongecko go away. You're the problem.
@@lisamgreenleaf Nope. I will never go away or be silenced. As someone who's survived ACTUAL abuse, I can tell when someone's faking it. She'll be writing an op ed soon.
@@vermilliongecko looking forward to the footage coming out or him owning up. Hard work and emotional abuse are VERY DIFFERENT and working hard does not mean being made to feel absolutely shite is acceptable.as a survivor of ACTUAL ABUSE myself as well I would be horrified if my family and friends had said to me "you just underestimated how hard a relationship was, you didn't work hard enough" I also hope any of your friends or family never have to come to you if they are in this situation. You wouldn't believe them. She doesn't deserve the death threats and the amount of backlash from this would not have been considered lightly just to promote a play??! Get a grip. I don't want to talk about this any longer thank you.
@@lisamgreenleaf Tell you what, why don't you hold your breath until the footage comes out. A romantic relationship that you're talking about is not the same as an adult student - teacher relationship. I believe my friends and family because they're trustworthy people who don't lie for attention. However, I have a family member with a personality disorder who absolutely does lie for attention, and has done so for 30+ years. So I know what a liar looks like. No-one should get death threats, but again, we've only got her word that they happened. If you don't want to talk about it, stop replying. It's that simple.
How dare they treat her in such a horrific way. Those who sent her and her children threats must be found and charged. Unacceptable behaviour.
Dont like the fact that she attributed the threats to strictly fans can be any nutter jumping on the bandwagon
Using victim hood against an innocent Italian man. How dare you!
I would never pay to see your play.
Lol
The blocking so none of us can see what happened says it all. Amanda went through a hellish time how disgusting. Wish you well Amanda ❤
I believe you, Amanda. The sad thing is that you were a stunning dancer and we’d sat there and tipped you to win. Anyway, that is not the point. Thank you for standing up to a high-profile narcissist and an organisation that protects his ilk. As you say, the show is a Saturday night light entertainment show and not a professional competition for the inflating of individual egos and furthering of careers. Some people clearly got too big for their boots and have learned that nobody is bigger than the show. His gaslighting of you (calling you unstable) only proves that he’s unwilling to be accountable or change (typical narc traits).
It’s a shame the other women are not prepared to raise their heads above the parapet and be identified, which makes your stance even more brave. Hopefully, this won’t now happen to other women or men and you will eventually be vindicated by the outcome of the investigation.
Oh and Shirley Ballas speaking out in support of him is of no consequence. She’s the chief narcissist on the programme and hates women. Of course she would fawn over him because he’s male and pretends to flirt with her.
Im so sorry that happened. And the abuse from so called Strictly fans. The footage should be shown Amanda. BBC have failed big time.😳
Huges hugs.❤️xxx
Online trolls need to be delt with severely!! So proud of this lovely lady for speaking up , so brave ❤
What a brave lady! I really hope the complaints process is open and swift, and the findings are honestly reported and provide her with vindication.
Bullies are not brave they are cowards. Sorry you have had to put up with this abuse Amanda.
Calm down
she is nothing but a hypocrite and nepo baby
Weird that Giovanni didn’t bully Debbie McGee or that deaf girl Rose. Surely a bully would bully someone vulnerable like Rose?
Amanda is brave for speaking out against an alleged abuser. For women, being disbelieved is the rule rather than the exception, and a perpetrator depends on it. Everything points to a coverup to handle the aftermath. The facts that the instructor has left and none of the recorded tapes are being released points to his guilt. Whatever eventuates, Amanda took the best action she could to save herself and others, and the BBC needs to own their part in contributing to the suffering that has been experienced.
Now it’s time for BBC to hold those responsible accountable. One incident is bad; repeated “offences” are not stopped is corporate coverup.
They knew about Savile and what did they do?
Amanda should not feel any shame in calling out abusive and bullying behavior, and should be admired for her braveness rather than receiving further bullying and threats from the public. If you read this Amanda the world would be a much nicer place with people like you ❤
Good for her. Really brave to come forward and stand up against workplace bullying. Thank you, Amanda! You will inspire others xx
It's been clear to everyone that over recent years Strictly has been ratcheting up the level of dancing required by the celebrities.
It's got to the point now where the celebs have basically got to be professional dancers to make it through to the final weeks.
This doesn't of course excuse the bad behaviour but the "management" seem to have turned a blind eye and put the program first.
Hopefully this will reset things for the better.
Agreed. And you can see the difference in some of the pro’s when they have a duffer and don’t bother and one with potential. The looks and body language when it’s not going their way are obvious.
What is wrong with people? Why would you say such vile things to anyone? And to hope her children die? That's so effed up.
Poor Amanda and good for her being this brave.
How interesting as soon as her partner was announced people texted her saying they were sorry...
I am horrified to listen to this interview, this dear woman who is a great actress, has been truly treated inhumanly, by the public, for dancing? What sort of nightmare has England turned into? 😮
agreed she is very good actress and very good performar that can make many people believe her but i do not believe any word that she says.She probably has multiple personality disorder and the true will come out soon
What a very brave lady for speaking up about whatever it was …I find listening to Amanda is heart warming and heart wrenching all at the same time. Bravo for standing up for your right to be heard ❤
The problem is that she is not allowed to say exactly what happened or what the abuse was and hence people don’t understand what she is complaining about. It should have been kept closed until there was an independent investigation and an outcome. Now there is bitterness on both sides because it’s trial by media but without all the information being available publicly.
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This demonstrates how much the BBC allowing this kind of behaviour by their staff to be acceptable They turned a blind eye to jimmy saville. Rolf Harris When will they learn
@charlottepembroke5446 Wasn’t there an issue a few years back with the naturalist Steve ??? Can’t remember the surname) being bullied by ola Jordan Now I can believe that knowing who her husband is ( they are no longer on the team)
The BBC yet again NOT protecting or investigating potential issues with the shows they air. I love strictly and Giovani but this behaviour is totally not acceptable. Dancers are very competitive and in it to win it , to him it’s normal but to other people this is not acceptable!!
How can you love him when you don’t know him? Part of the problem in society is the obsession with celebrities & well known people.
Thank you to you both for doing this interview! What a horrid man to do this!
Just watching you and listening to you Amanda, I believe you. I've been through the same in the work place and everything you say confirms my experience. Good for you speaking out. Not an easy thing to do as is clearly evident. What a strange world we live in that women are STILL not believed.
It just makes me despair for the world when I hear if people abusing others online. PEOPLE ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN A DAFT TV PROGRAMME.
The BBC knew they always cover themselves…just look at Saville. Giovanni had many complaints before and it was ignored for the sake of the biggest show on the BBC so he knew he’d get away with it. I’ve no doubt other dancers have done similar..
The biggest shock is middle aged women threatening a victim of abuse and standing up for the abuser!
There have been at least 6 other people complain and he won’t release footage….says it all. The BBC shouldn’t be allowed to withhold the footage and an internal investigation by the BBC of the BBC is like Saville investigating Rolf Harris
What awful things people say..... regardless of what happened why would you wish awful things to happen to innocent children?
Can C4 please pin that Giovanni has been NOW been CLEARED of fault over everything except “being a little overly critical on occasion”
She’s been on a witch hunt and BBC apologised that her feelings were hurt. They have not reprimanded him nor has he apologised. Why should he ?
“He stepped on my toes” is a ridiculous “accusation” - people have broken bones on that show and not blamed the instructors.
This is appalling she should be ashamed. He has NOT done any interviews trying to defend himself because he knew he was not at fault all along.
The behaviour panel would have a great time with this phoney. But she isn’t news, she’s tabloid fodder and probably trying to make a bit of cash from selling her “struggle”
Dignity ? Nope
She’s apparently out to sue the bbc now, despite their apology. Them apologising for her hurty feelings & inability to hack the training was probably an own goal as she uses that now to really believe she was in the right, despite Gio being cleared of the worst of her lies. She is bound to fail any civil case however I reckon & will just make herself look even more daft. She seems obsessed with the attention at this point
I find it odd the amount of women defending this abhorrent behaviour bizarre.
Are you all desperate lonely people who are basically fan girling for a guy who doesn’t even care you exist?
@@Manic.miner2077not fan girling, just calling out a bitter & silly woman’s behaviour. If it was Gio acting like this with giving bitter malicious attention seeking public interviews non-stop & trying to ruin Amanda’s life, I would be saying the same about him, but he’s not. She is the one obsessed & not letting go. He’s moved on.
Why are you simping over a woman that doesn’t know or care that you exist?
@@Whitebunny-np4lnbecause i listened to her story last night, her and other contestants have shared the same experience, she knows this because they all met up.
I will not ignore the victim and belittle them until I’ve heard real proof that nothing happened and so far there isn’t any.
Honestly, I’m stunned that a woman today is prepared to throw another woman under the bus, especially when you have the puff diddy story breaking, I guess you will be defending him as well????
@@Manic.miner2077 no other contestants have made allegations against Gio despite his many years of working on the show. They have all had good things to say about him, apart from Laura Whitmore, who showed her clout chasing character when she danced on her friend’s Caroline Flack’s grave to get her job
There is no hard proof that Amanda is telling the truth in her outrageous allegations. The tapes have been thoroughly investigated now & it’s concluded. Anyone who still believes her now just has a petty prejudicial grudge against Gio, the show or the bbc & don’t care about the real truth
Oh no. Team Giovanni for sure on this one (and she is an actress after all). She simply wasn’t good enough / couldn’t take the heat and is now complaining about it.
Amanda😘ThankYou for your courage to talk about it and I am sorry for what you been subjected to StayStrong💪
I have met Amanda several times and she is a lovely genuinely warm person.
I believe you, Amanda. I'm sorry this happened to you. You're a very courageous woman. Sending love
Amanda, I just want to wish you peace, healing and happiness for the future. Hopefully that footage will eventually be made available and everyone can see what you had to endure ❤
I believe you Amanda. I admire your bravery in speaking out. Sadly, there are perpetrators of abuse in all walks of life but also the people who side with them and don’t believe those perpetrated against😢And labelling someone “unstable” is classic perpetrator behaviour unfortunately.
So pleased that you are still with us xxx
Im so angry for Amanda, she is amazing and deserves grace and happiness. I believe everything she says 🙂
Me too! I will never think of Strictly the same way again.
@cherylemmanuel744 I agree. I'll only ever watch again if they come clean about everything and clear up their act. It's sickening
Hope you lot are never on a jury
@@Cakeycam guilty until proved innocent is not what justice is based upon
I wonder if this had been Meghan (also an actress) saying this how many people would have believed her. I'm saying this merely to prove the point that people believe what they want to believe, and that often depends on whether they like the person, or whether they have been programmed not to. I feel that unless it is made public what exactly happened, we have no way of knowing whether the accusations are true, or perhaps exaggerated. Otherwise it's all speculation.
I personally think the way she has been treated by the press and the public is absolutely disgraceful. I'm all for fairness and hearing both sides of a story, but the narrative from so many as soon as she left the show and then subsequently made her complaint was that she is a liar, a fantasist, and just didn't want to work hard. Nobody who has been making these kind of comments were there with them so know that for a fact, and this sends a terrible message to women (and indeed men) who are in abusive situations that if they come forward they will be vilified and disparaged and not taken seriously. Giovanni deserves to have his say of course, but I do find it interesting that he is so against the footage of the rehearsals being seen.