What a breath of fresh air Shirley is. Such a lovely interview, she is the consummate professional but down to earth with it. Shirley is beautiful both inside and out, inspriational to say the least. I am one of many fans of Strictly here in South Africa and wish Shirley and the show well.
What an absolute queen you are Shirley! Such class, honest & humility. I’ve also experienced bullying in the work place, sadly by women at the top! What a breath of fresh air you are! 🌞
I also was bullied in part’s of my life but I decided to stand up for my self . But I will not stand to see any one to be bullied I will stand up for them, my mouth could get me into trouble lol . This is one of the best interview’s Shirley I think your amazing 😘❤️your mum sound’s great she is really honest and she is right 💕
What a fabulous & beautiful lady and a really great interview. Have always really admired her on Strictly, a perfect judge… kind, caring, constructive, knowledgeable, clear and concise. Such an asset to Strictly!
What an amazing interview. Beautifully presented. Such a lovely lady. Honest, down to earth, inspirational and full of warmth . Can't wait for Strictly 2024.❤
What a wonderful interview , with such a fab effervescent lady . Shirley Ballas . Love this modern mature beautiful lady , wishing her every future success , in the industry ,and
I didn't realise how much I like Shirely. She's also so beautiful here, so natural. She's a real beauty. Reminds me so much of my beautiful best friend.
Brilliant interview, love your authenticity Shirley. I bought your book a while back, l have to say l hadn't read anything that made me gasp before. I put it back on my shelf, however after hearing what you have just said l think l will give it another go. After seeing you dancing the pot stirrer many years ago l had it in my competition routine. That was so many years ago, I'm almost 74, also a September baby. Look forward to seeing you on Strictly. 💕💐💐👠👠💕
Shirley you are no gutter rat, you are a super lady with a fountain of knowledge. Hold that beautiful head of yours high and ignore(if you can) all the negative people you meet. You are great.
She says she’s a champion against bullying but then says she stays in her lane as a judge on Strictly when asked about Giovanni. Never mind that Craig is a massive bully! She obviously doesn’t want to criticise anything to do with BBC, lest she jeopardise her job.
I don’t agree. Also judges are all different. Craig might seem harsh and others are nice about everyone, it is balance. Craig is different after judging, I expect they all are. It’s criticism that makes us ramp up our game. Suck it up. Everyone is easily offended. I guess I came up in a time when we didn’t have everything given to us. We didn’t have the means for that and we certainly didn’t expect it. Parents were stricter about behaviour too. All these little darlings that have everything they could want or need and turn out to feel entitled doesn’t do them any favours. Life is hard and we turned out to be tougher and able to work hard for what we needed. It was a kind of apprenticeship for life and we are still here and battling on. All the woke people are destroying everything worth having. Already they are saying has strictly had it’s day. Here we go again. All the hard work that has been put in and it would be torn down. It really is so sad. In our day, if there was a dispute, it would have ended with the guilty being read the riot act and then get on with it. A much better way. I’ll wait for the backlash!🤣😂
I enjoyed the interview. But I think like you. She just said enough but nothing at the same time about Giovanni. Definitely didn’t want to say anything out of line.
What an odd interview 🧐 She's vocal enough about the (apparently) systemic bullying in dancing when talking about it in abstract terms, but still refuses to back up a woman who has been deeply traumatized by one of her colleagues. They should be ashamed of themselves. Release the rehearsal tapes and lets stop the speculation and victim blaming. 🤦
Wow! What an interview. I’m an Australian living in Sydney. I’m also ballroom dancer - for over 20 years. My teacher and dear friend Peter Todd knows Shirley & tells me she’s wonderful. A really exceptional person. He’s quite right.
She is such a breath of fresh air, lovely lady so down to earth, could listen to her all day, I have just bought her book Murder on the dance Floor after hearing her talk about it... sounds amazing.. can't wait for it to arrive..?❤
I also was bullied in part’s of my life but I decided to stand up for my self . But I will not stand to see any one to be bullied I will stand up for them, my mouth could get me into trouble lol . This is one of the best interview’s Shirley I think your amazing 😘❤️
As a Wirral girl myself I'm particularly proud of our queen Shirley ❤ she's absolutely incredible ❤ head judge shoes are tough to fill and she has more than shown herself to be the right person for the job ❤ wishing her the best always xx
I remember the first time Shirley was on Strictly as a judge. She was just drop dead gorgeous. She still is. I've always thought she's fantastic for the show. A real asset, and a great role model as you say. I always look forward to seeing Shirley on Strictly. From a South African fan🇿🇦❤
Strictly was at its best in the first few series! I believe now it’s over the top, expects too much from non dancer guests. It should be more fun and relaxed. The judges shouldn’t expect perfection and are too harsh., I write this as an ex dancer myself,
I like her openness but pity not open about the present problem. That is the root of the problem. She needs to point a finger otherwise she is aiding and abetting and it will continue.
@@Ionabrodie69 No what's stupid is agreeing to do an interview about bullying then not addressing the elephant in the room. It removes all credibility. She should've just not done the interview because everything she's said has no credibility when you don't talk about the abuse around yourself.
It was obvious to me as a viewer that Ms Abbington was not having a good time on the show - I can't believe Shirley as head judge didn't notice or didn't think she had a duty of care towards the contestants she judges. Also Craig Revel Hallwood bullied Angela Scanlon all the time, apparently to cut down the competition to the same sex couple he wanted to ensure got to the final. Craig called Angela UGLY one week in an effort to break somebody with a known history of eating disorders. All the judges seemed fine with that!! Please don't think you take bullying seriously or that the judges don't share a duty of care with the producers. Wake up.
Bullying is always here always here for kids to grow up you get bullied when you go to the shops there all the time we got to stop this bullying us will never stop it stop drinking you don’t work people do the light people say what they’re like if you don’t like it tough yourself darling get up and get on with it I want to see strictly come dancing this year is it gonna be up this year or not I like to hear Shirley stories but that’s no stickers coming back or not that’s all about calculate the area go you get one pleasure year do you want to look forward to and watch and you always get somebody put the dampers on it so I don’t knowThank you at the open it’s coming on forget all that backbiting all the time and bullying just get on with it because David sits dancing you don’t argue when you’re dancing do you I know I love dancing thank you
So she's a knowing enabler? Instinctively not believing women who are victims? Her experience makes her part of the toxicity unfortunately. ''Abuse is a modern invention, everything was fine for me with the BBC'. This is irresponsible and inappropriate. 'You have to be more vigilant' - so, it's on the victims then? Nice. Let's not hold the abusers accountable, eh? This is overall awful, throughout.
I really enjoyed this interview. Shirley you have come across as a lovely lady . Unfortunately because of recent events 😢I will no longer be watching strictly
Sticking up for Giovanni is shocking, shame on you, listen to all of his partners who have suffers while being partnered with him, they are surely not all lying, open your eyes and you might see the real Giovanni. strictly come dancing is not the greatest show on earth, it’s making money from abusing people to get good ratings
Why is it shocking? That's how she sees it. Maybe it's shocking for Di Caprio's one night woman Whitmore to stick the boot in? Allegations are easy to make. They can be extremely damaging, even if they're proven wrong.
Shirley comes across as very genuine here, fantastic. But I must admit I liked it better many years ago before all the woke nonsense, the diversity, inclusion made it bloody hard to watch for me.
I loved Shirley I had been coached by her many times as a Young Dancer . Sammy and Shirley Stoppford were Latin Champions then split.Then she partnered with Corky Ballas and immersed herself in the USA. She had the best legs and feet on the Dance Floor.She will do down in history as one of the Best Latin Dance Champions Ever.Im still dancing ,I myself am a Semi retired United States Ballroom Dance Champion. Shirley you still look marvelous.Murder On The Dance Floor is a page turner .
This lady is the epitome of pure class. She is setting the standard for others to follow. And they should.
What a breath of fresh air Shirley is. Such a lovely interview, she is the consummate professional but down to earth with it. Shirley is beautiful both inside and out, inspriational to say the least. I am one of many fans of Strictly here in South Africa and wish Shirley and the show well.
She’s certainly full of herself …. No shrinking violet ,that’s for sure !
It's called self-preservation and confidence. @shelaghward9621
@@shelaghward9621 I think she's confident, not full of herself. She really knows her stuff and has some interesting points to make..
How lovely that Shirley’s mum is still looking after her 😊
You are the original , genuine TROUPER. Brilliant Shirley Ballas.
What an absolute queen you are Shirley! Such class, honest & humility. I’ve also experienced bullying in the work place, sadly by women at the top! What a breath of fresh air you are! 🌞
A sophisticated English woman. I love it. An era of beauty and grace that has been lost so it’s wonderful to see Shirley.
What a lovely, brave lady. Standing by her morals.
What a brilliant interview. Shirley you are so natural. Love you to bits.
I also was bullied in part’s of my life but I decided to stand up for my self . But I will not stand to see any one to be bullied I will stand up for them, my mouth could get me into trouble lol . This is one of the best interview’s Shirley I think your amazing 😘❤️your mum sound’s great she is really honest and she is right 💕
Fabulous interview! Shirley comes across as a really decent person.
See this is why we love you Shirley what you see is what you get ...don't ever change lovely lady you are a Diamond. x
Shirley you are a great lady with so much talent keep on being you x
This was a lovely interview, Shirley is just delightful.
From time immemorial the cause for the bullying is Jealousy. Keep your head held high , they are the losers.
What a fabulous & beautiful lady and a really great interview. Have always really admired her on Strictly, a perfect judge… kind, caring, constructive, knowledgeable, clear and concise. Such an asset to Strictly!
What an amazing interview. Beautifully presented. Such a lovely lady. Honest, down to earth, inspirational and full of warmth .
Can't wait for Strictly 2024.❤
Shirley looking great
Love Shirley 💞💞 so authentic and inspirational lady!
What a wonderful interview , with such a fab effervescent lady . Shirley Ballas . Love this modern mature beautiful lady , wishing her every future success , in the industry ,and
Thoroughly enjoyed this interview with Shirley it has broadened my knowledge of the dancing world❤
I didn't realise how much I like Shirely. She's also so beautiful here, so natural. She's a real beauty. Reminds me so much of my beautiful best friend.
What a lovely, beautiful, positive, strong lady you are ❤
Brilliant interview, love your authenticity Shirley.
I bought your book a while back, l have to say l hadn't read anything that made me gasp before. I put it back on my shelf, however after hearing what you have just said l think l will give it another go.
After seeing you dancing the pot stirrer many years ago l had it in my competition routine. That was so many years ago, I'm almost 74, also a September baby.
Look forward to seeing you on Strictly. 💕💐💐👠👠💕
Giovanni and the deaf girl had a completely different vibe going on. Would love to hear her view.
YES well said. She was fearless!!
No winner ever got to win without blood sweat and tears
The best interview, imo. Thank you for sharing this ❤. A warm, lovely lady. 🇬🇧👵😊
Shirley you are no gutter rat, you are a super lady with a fountain of knowledge. Hold that beautiful head of yours high and ignore(if you can) all the negative people you meet. You are great.
Wow what a wonderful woman. Great advice as well. Her mum sound amazing.
She says she’s a champion against bullying but then says she stays in her lane as a judge on Strictly when asked about Giovanni. Never mind that Craig is a massive bully! She obviously doesn’t want to criticise anything to do with BBC, lest she jeopardise her job.
I don’t agree. Also judges are all different. Craig might seem harsh and others are nice about everyone, it is balance. Craig is different after judging, I expect they all are. It’s criticism that makes us ramp up our game. Suck it up. Everyone is easily offended. I guess I came up in a time when we didn’t have everything given to us. We didn’t have the means for that and we certainly didn’t expect it. Parents were stricter about behaviour too. All these little darlings that have everything they could want or need and turn out to feel entitled doesn’t do them any favours. Life is hard and we turned out to be tougher and able to work hard for what we needed. It was a kind of apprenticeship for life and we are still here and battling on. All the woke people are destroying everything worth having. Already they are saying has strictly had it’s day.
Here we go again. All the hard work that has been put in and it would be torn down. It really is so sad. In our day, if there was a dispute, it would have ended with the guilty being read the riot act and then get on with it. A much better way. I’ll wait for the backlash!🤣😂
I enjoyed the interview. But I think like you. She just said enough but nothing at the same time about Giovanni. Definitely didn’t want to say anything out of line.
What an odd interview 🧐
She's vocal enough about the (apparently) systemic bullying in dancing when talking about it in abstract terms, but still refuses to back up a woman who has been deeply traumatized by one of her colleagues.
They should be ashamed of themselves. Release the rehearsal tapes and lets stop the speculation and victim blaming. 🤦
Wow! What an interview. I’m an Australian living in Sydney. I’m also ballroom dancer - for over 20 years. My teacher and dear friend Peter Todd knows Shirley & tells me she’s wonderful. A really exceptional person. He’s quite right.
The inspiration Shirley Ballas provides us all is something I’m very grateful for!
What an amazing woman , so strong and brave with a lovely sense of humour.
What a fantastic lady❤
She is such a breath of fresh air, lovely lady so down to earth, could listen to her all day, I have just bought her book Murder on the dance Floor after hearing her talk about it... sounds amazing.. can't wait for it to arrive..?❤
Book on sale at Poundland
You are truly amazing Shirley. I’ve loved you since the start. ❤
I also was bullied in part’s of my life but I decided to stand up for my self . But I will not stand to see any one to be bullied I will stand up for them, my mouth could get me into trouble lol . This is one of the best interview’s Shirley I think your amazing 😘❤️
Yet your standing by Gio
Really enjoyed this interview shes great! off to get the book for my hoilday she's sold it well 😘
We love Shirley. Top class dancer ❤
Shirley, youre a wonderful lady
Shirley was always a delight on ' Strickley '. A lovely intelligent lady. Regards from Ireland 🇮🇪 💚
I love you Shirley your down to earth good honest woman you deserve respect 😘🌈💕
As a Wirral girl myself I'm particularly proud of our queen Shirley ❤ she's absolutely incredible ❤ head judge shoes are tough to fill and she has more than shown herself to be the right person for the job ❤ wishing her the best always xx
Shirley should have worked for the Post Office- ''not my problem - guv'nr''!
Loved this interview. Now I must read your book Shirley. So that I can work out fact from fiction 😊
Book on sale at Poundland
Great woman, great mum, great dancer and teacher, and all round wonderful, xx
Great interview ❤❤❤
So sad that such a lovely man is suffering so much. No more strictly for me.
Love Shirley! X
She's great for her age. Shirleys a good role model for any young person
I remember the first time Shirley was on Strictly as a judge. She was just drop dead gorgeous. She still is. I've always thought she's fantastic for the show. A real asset, and a great role model as you say. I always look forward to seeing Shirley on Strictly. From a South African fan🇿🇦❤
@@ksc743 I agree 👍
What a lady. 🎉🎉😊
Such an attractive Lady
Shirley is such a lovely lady true professional with a pure genuine kind heart. Stay happy and healthy 💗
Lovely down to earth person.
Love your mums saying. I’ve always told my girls to smile and wave but will use your mums now. 😊
Oh I have to buy this book 😮
On sale Poundland
I agree they do not need to have phone’s in school’s I think there’s not enough interaction with people and children 😪
I like Shirley, but it was obvious she would stick up for Giovanni.
No NOT obvious. It would be much easier for her to follow the crowd and condemn him..for the record I don’t believe a word Amanda Abington says..🙄
Great interview
Brilliant Lady ❤
❤ what abeautiful lady inside and out. Truly an inspiration!
What a lady 🤩👍👏❤️
So she had a Ghost writer ?
Stay strong Shirley!
So nice to see the person behind the TV Model. So glad I came across this. Says all I hoped to hear.
Strictly was at its best in the first few series! I believe now it’s over the top, expects too much from non dancer guests. It should be more fun and relaxed. The judges shouldn’t expect perfection and are too harsh., I write this as an ex dancer myself,
Surely all these rehearsals are filmed for everybody’s safety
I like her openness but pity not open about the present problem. That is the root of the problem. She needs to point a finger otherwise she is aiding and abetting and it will continue.
How can she do a whole interview about bullying and then completely skirt the question about bullying on her show? Spineless.
She will have been told NOTto say anything it’s an ongoing investigation .. stupid 🙄
@@Ionabrodie69 No what's stupid is agreeing to do an interview about bullying then not addressing the elephant in the room. It removes all credibility. She should've just not done the interview because everything she's said has no credibility when you don't talk about the abuse around yourself.
Totally agree
It was obvious to me as a viewer that Ms Abbington was not having a good time on the show - I can't believe Shirley as head judge didn't notice or didn't think she had a duty of care towards the contestants she judges. Also Craig Revel Hallwood bullied Angela Scanlon all the time, apparently to cut down the competition to the same sex couple he wanted to ensure got to the final. Craig called Angela UGLY one week in an effort to break somebody with a known history of eating disorders. All the judges seemed fine with that!! Please don't think you take bullying seriously or that the judges don't share a duty of care with the producers. Wake up.
the rat is from Chinese astrology and relates to the year you're born, not the month e.g. when Shirley said September/Virgo.
Funny how she's chirping up now after the investigation has now started.
I also wondered why she never spoke up before? Perhaps self preservation ?
Sorry, don't know her name.
Nice one, shirley Liverpool girls are loyal to their friends❤❤❤
She’s not from Liverpool, she’s from Wallasey on the other side of the Mersey.
❤❤ 2:10 2:11
She's great, but isn't the Rat a whole year of people every 12 years?....it's why I don't agree with horoscopes
Bullying is always here always here for kids to grow up you get bullied when you go to the shops there all the time we got to stop this bullying us will never stop it stop drinking you don’t work people do the light people say what they’re like if you don’t like it tough yourself darling get up and get on with it I want to see strictly come dancing this year is it gonna be up this year or not I like to hear Shirley stories but that’s no stickers coming back or not that’s all about calculate the area go you get one pleasure year do you want to look forward to and watch and you always get somebody put the dampers on it so I don’t knowThank you at the open it’s coming on forget all that backbiting all the time and bullying just get on with it because David sits dancing you don’t argue when you’re dancing do you I know I love dancing thank you
So she's a knowing enabler? Instinctively not believing women who are victims? Her experience makes her part of the toxicity unfortunately. ''Abuse is a modern invention, everything was fine for me with the BBC'. This is irresponsible and inappropriate. 'You have to be more vigilant' - so, it's on the victims then? Nice. Let's not hold the abusers accountable, eh? This is overall awful, throughout.
I really enjoyed this interview. Shirley you have come across as a lovely lady .
Unfortunately because of recent events 😢I will no longer be watching strictly
Sticking up for Giovanni is shocking, shame on you, listen to all of his partners who have suffers while being partnered with him, they are surely not all lying, open your eyes and you might see the real Giovanni.
strictly come dancing is not the greatest show on earth, it’s making money from abusing people to get good ratings
Why is it shocking? That's how she sees it. Maybe it's shocking for Di Caprio's one night woman Whitmore to stick the boot in?
Allegations are easy to make. They can be extremely damaging, even if they're proven wrong.
People are being silenced and abused . There should be a duty of care for dancers and contestants. I wont be watching strictly come dancing
Shirley comes across as very genuine here, fantastic. But I must admit I liked it better many years ago before all the woke nonsense, the diversity, inclusion made it bloody hard to watch for me.
Strickly is fake muck. Get rid of it.
No it’s not I’ve met almost all of the cast x
@@_eddo so what does that prove. Nothing.
The whole of TV is false which is why I never put TV on.
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Well the opinion of one person.. is what really counts… stuff everyone else 😆 😆 😆
@@barbaraallsopp7745
Tell lies vision
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And the criticism still carries on for women unfortunately
Love Shirley, one of the finest Latin dancers the World has ever seen.
I loved Shirley I had been coached by her many times as a Young Dancer . Sammy and Shirley Stoppford were Latin Champions then split.Then she partnered with Corky Ballas and immersed herself in the USA. She had the best legs and feet on the Dance Floor.She will do down in history as one of the Best Latin Dance Champions Ever.Im still dancing ,I myself am a Semi retired United States Ballroom Dance Champion. Shirley you still look marvelous.Murder On The Dance Floor is a page turner .