6 things a man says but are usually misunderstood by women.
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 28 авг 2024
- For one on one coachings, please visit my website @www.konsciousreality.store
For my t-shirts in my videos and other merch, visit my store @www.konsciousreality.store
For books and other tools that I recommend reading to elevate your consciousness, visit my second website at www.konsciousreality.com.
Follow me on my other platforms:
Facebook: Kirk Hazell
IG: konscious_reality
TikTok: the black monk
If you want to donate to my channel to assist with my videos reaching others, please use:
Cashapp:$kirkhazell
PayPal:kirk99us@gmail.com
Zelle:kirk99us@gmail.com
To reach me by email, message me at kirk@konsciousreality.store
Thank you for watching
Most of the men asking women to be their peace are men bringing fussing, fighting, drama, disrespect, and disloyalty into the relationship. Peace bringing, kind hearted, loyal, loving men rarely have to ask for peace because they generate it.
Absolutely!!
exactly that!!!! 💯 So when a man asks for peace, it's a red flag already!
Facts!!
Exactly
I had a man said he wasn’t ready for a relationship. Come to find out he was having financial issues and was embarrassed to say that
He told the truth. He most likely has a provider mindset, and if he is having financial issues, then he doesn't feel ready to be in a relationship and shows up the way he knows that he can.
Feed Me, F_k, Me, Don't Complain. Controlling AF. Sorry AF.🙄🙄🙄
Perfect Clarity! I really understand now…thank you!!
I’ve had men tell me the same thing. They are not financially ready.
My dad doesn’t believe in cleaning up after himself, he doesn’t believe in being loyal, and he wants a submissive woman. So it’s like… these men aren’t perfect.
Yes they do mean a woman they can control without offering any reason to follow or listen. My husband never asked me to be submissive. He led, asked and listened to my opinion and respected me. I submitted to his leadership. May he RIP. I disagree also with the peace the men who have said they want want me to be peace mean not to comment when they are gone for days, disrespect you and bring a boat full of drama. You may mean those things you are saying, most men do not.
I think generally men like to be in control
They want to be able to lead their wives, and what I've seen most women desires the same thing but for me and many others, the problem is that a lot of men do not know the difference between being able to lead, and simply being controlling.
There's a tin line between both and one has to know the difference.
I desires a man who is able to lead but there is no way I will become submissive to one that is controlling
This is the best video I’ve seen on what a man wants and hurtful but so true thank you love and blessings to you ❤
Ok @Kirk, Hope your having a blessed day too. I always find it funny when men who I later realize are either narcissistic or low frequency say statements like I wish I knew you when you were young, when you were a virgin or before you had children or a long time ago, as if there would be something in me then that would make them want me more than now🤷🏽♀️🙄. It’s very rude as I think of it.
I agree 💯 I had a man tell me he wished we had met 10 years ago. This is after knowing I have businesses and Realestate properties. He stated he wanted a business or had one at one time. In my mind, I’m like well we’re meeting now. I think men, especially blk men are soo small minded
Well Said!
I have said I don’t want others pouring their issues onto me.
Ladies make sure you ask the dude you're interested in to define what he means by "BE MY PEACE". KIRK IS RIGHT. He's telling you what it SHOULD MEAN, but I'm certain there are men out there who truly expect women to regulate their man's emotions.
I agree with you on all those points
Makes sense, thanks!
This very true in regards to men who wants “peace”! 👍🏾
I hear you and I agree with what you're saying... but I wonder if other men really think like you 🤔
I have doubts
Yes ma’am. I’m coming from a very basic men’s psychology
I’m an older retired woman, and it’s been my experience that most other men do think like that. I think this especially applies to good men with good intentions.
Mr Kirk is Keeping it Real & we Truly Appreciate it. Better Late, than Never. ✨️
People should have clear and honest communication. You should not have to interpret someone's words.
Do you accept your woman looking at other men and commenting on how handsome they look? I asked because you said men will always look and lust after women who are not theirs.
I was looking for this comment. Lusting after other women in front of your partner is disrespectful. It doesn't matter if he finds the other woman more attractive or dressed less modestly; it's not acceptable. I'm very disappointed to hear Kirk talk this way-it's a typical attitude I've noticed among black men.
@@natasha2877 agreed.
Unless you are looking like a hot sloppy mess, my man has no say in my attire. If l choose not to be natural l will. My man doesn't trip on any of this.💯
You dress for him,don't you? Unless he goes to the extreme,being too religious
Kirk, we do understand your minds when it comes to women more than I think most men realize. It’s not so much that their men are looking at the other women as it is the way he looks at her. Women want to be able to bring out that animalistic desire. Its not so much that they want to be the only woman he thinks is hot, or even for him to think that they are the hottest women hes seen. We want to be considered equally attractive to him, we want to be able to get the same response or reaction from our man, as he has towards who ever he’s looking at. We understand that men like variety, that there will be women that he looks at that we will think is prettier than us, and some not as pretty as us, and some equal to us. But regardless of whoever it is he’s looking at, the moment we see him give a look or reaction to another women that we haven’t been able to get from him, it dosent so much make us made as it does make us feel inferior. I also understand that our reaction is for us as women to work on, but at the same time it’s not fair nor practical for us to be expected to understand and accept the nature of men, to suppress what’s in our nature, so men can freely express theirs. It goes both ways. To be a woman in this day and age is just as difficult for us as it is for men. Men worry about being left for a man with more money, and we worry about not being desirable in the eyes of our men. If a man cheats, he has silently announced that we’re not valuable enough to be treated with respect. Regardless of what men seem to think, when a woman is cheated on, we’re not told we could do better anyways, we get asked did you stop sleeping with him? Or when I’m in public and we notice a man checking us out while he’s with his girl, we instantly feel sorry for her, and are almost embarrassed for her. So we understand a mens nature, but I wish men would understand that a womens partner is the one who sets the standard for how others will respect us. That’s why we want to dress in certain ways. It’s messed up I’m well aware, but it’s the world we live in, and that’s how a man is a woman’s peace, and when we’re at peace, we can give peace. Hope your day is going well.
I don’t feel sorry for a woman if her man looks at me. If he’s staring me down I think he’s a dog and it has nothing to do with her. It doesn’t mean much if he just looks. Also, I don’t get jealous if an attractive woman walks by and I notice her he will as well. You have to be confident in yourself. I never been with a man and thought he looked at another woman like he desired her more than me. That is extreme. Most likely if a man is behaving that way she is well aware of it. She’s accepted it. It’s her choice, no need to feel sorry for her. Once she respects herself she’ll leave him.
Beautiful 🤩 stated
I do agree on the other points.👍
Just relieved you still got your locs 😅
I understood everything you said, most people are triggered because we hate the truth, the truth is like a slow knife going through our chest. Men are leaders, they were put here to lead us, this issue is women don’t know how to stay in their place, it’s am an independent black woman. Then be that but don’t bash them because they know how to be a man. The same finger yall pointing at men, look at how much pointing back at you. A lot of you don’t have not a clue how to be a wife, just argument, chaos an confusion. How u gon tell a man how he should be a man when you’re not even one.
What do you do when you feel like a person is hiding from you 🤔 or hiding somebody in their life. You ask them and they keep dining that is happening. I can't put my finger on it 😫 😢
Love This!❤
Mr. Kirk, what about a man who says:
"you're too damaged ('childhood trauma'); but, I'll be here after you get the help needed."
concluded with: "its okay - we're friends"
Q: is this geniune with a potential future ? OR just geniunely not interested, ever ?
p.s. grew up without a father 👀 kinda clueless here...
A nd they say they are not looking for a serious relationship
Well very good advice I need to hear this I have a question what is when a man says I work all the time I don't have time for a relationship but continue want to comit with you and date
He’s selfish to me. I had the same thing happen to me
He’s trying to have you around for his needs. He’s making you feel like you in a relationship, but you are not. At some point, if need be, he will tell you that. I wouldn’t bother with him.
What about if he says we getting to know each other
How do I react to a man who says he's not ready for marriage?
How long has it been? Do you have children with him?
Controlling AF😱
You met your woman looking good why the change all over sudden.
You should wear what you want. If he likes a woman to dress a certain way hit on that woman and date her. The reality is he wasn’t attracted to her. Just nonsense.
What does a man mean when he says , he has to focus right now. I’ve been a great person to him and helped him a lot but he needs to focus on himself and that we will talk again…. 😂😂😂
Means he’s not that into you. He would take from you and he’s cool
With you but you’re not what he wants.
@@konsciousKirk I told him that he swore it wasn’t …. I told him just say you’re moving on and leave me alone . I respect your decision,But this is right after him telling me he loved me and wanted to marry me and I got cold feet and ghosted him🥲 complex yet not at the same time. Your videos have def helped me an understand men better. I’ve been watching all morning. Your accent remind me of mi fadda.🤍