lessons from a recovering people pleaser & perfectionist.. diary entry

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  • Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
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Комментарии • 42

  • @RobbiJan
    @RobbiJan  Год назад +2

    instagram.com/robbijan

  • @NeilLackey1
    @NeilLackey1 Год назад +15

    Money doesn’t bring you happiness it just helps in life 😊

  • @radu7189
    @radu7189 Год назад +3

    Moat important is to have faith in God and from there people can change only in good

  • @travelfoodielove
    @travelfoodielove 11 месяцев назад +3

    Pls do a deeper video on procrastination and productivity! ❤❤❤❤❤ I get so overwhelmed. Love all ya talks hun

    • @RobbiJan
      @RobbiJan  11 месяцев назад

      You know my plans! 👌🏼☺️

  • @travelfoodielove
    @travelfoodielove 11 месяцев назад +2

    Can you do a video on how you made friends when moving too hun

  • @JoseGarcia-vr8mx
    @JoseGarcia-vr8mx 10 месяцев назад +1

    Awesome blog. Thank you for always giving us perspective about life. Keep it up

  • @kennethmarsh3194
    @kennethmarsh3194 Год назад +2

    ⚘️⚘️⚘️ Great thoughts today. Have a safe trip home 💐 K Ala.

    • @RobbiJan
      @RobbiJan  Год назад

      Thank you! Hope you are having an amazing day:)

  • @williamdecotiis8330
    @williamdecotiis8330 Год назад

    Attach yourself and your content to a mission or theme Robbi. If it’s just between you and a colleague it feels personal. If you have a mission or goal and someone is not furthering it, it becomes pretty obvious they have to get fired. Then it’s not about you or them. Goal is this, you’re not helping me achieve it, so you’re out. Makes the lines a lot easier. Entrepreneurs experience a lot of turnover (especially if they’re empathetic) it’s like anything else more you do it easier it gets. Second thing is ship stuff as soon as it’s close enough (if it doesn’t embarrass you a little it to have shipped it was overdone). Clients will tell u what they don’t like. And you use that feedback to iterate and refine. If you do the refining ahead of time u don’t get the client feedback. If u think of it as a process rather than a presentation it gets easier. (PS congrats to ur brother 🍾)

    • @RobbiJan
      @RobbiJan  Год назад +1

      This is so good. Great advice 🙏

    • @williamdecotiis8330
      @williamdecotiis8330 Год назад

      @@RobbiJannot my first rodeo Robs … you’re doing fine…you’ll feel it in your energy before you see the results (if your spirit is getting lighter and more energetic that’s the path you follow…your emotions will pick it up before your rational brain does and before anyone else will see it) 👍

  • @MA-yc7pz
    @MA-yc7pz 7 месяцев назад

    This is the type of content I want in this channel.Can you make videos about the business you own ?how you started?and how do you handle them? Side hustles and more

  • @malattpml10
    @malattpml10 Год назад

    😂😂😂😂 what day wonderful

  • @joytekb
    @joytekb 11 месяцев назад

    You are cool person

  • @miltonrivero1017
    @miltonrivero1017 Год назад

    Money help pay things and it bring happiness but you have to be smart how to use money, read books in how and I hope your brother is and will be very happy in his marriage may ALLAH bless you Robbi jan

  • @cjeelde
    @cjeelde Год назад

    Perfect doesn't even exist. You don't need to change anything at all to be perfect 💖💖 you're perfect the way you are because you're a such wonderful person and the imperfections makes you perfect ❤️❤️ hard to explain but I just want you to know how amazing you've always been in my eyes since the day I found you and that was more than 2 1/2 years ago 🥰 you got everything as a youtuber: videos with good conversation, great social posts and all these amazing shorts! I cannot be more proud that I've always been by your side during your youtube journey! LOVE YOU Robbi, more than most! 🥰🥰

  • @rebeccarosenblatt389
    @rebeccarosenblatt389 Год назад +1

    So glad to see your smile ! It’s genuinely you again x fly safe my girl give your family our love x

  • @suntalunta
    @suntalunta Год назад

    A man who has nothing,
    Only has to worry about his next meal
    But a man who has everything,
    Only worries about his last meal

  • @rosevalley5491
    @rosevalley5491 Год назад +1

    I needed this thank you ❤️❤️I have some nosey neighbors across the street from me they tell me how to live my life and made me feel not good enough but I realized I have the upper hand and I define my happiness!

    • @RobbiJan
      @RobbiJan  Год назад +1

      So true!

    • @RobbiJan
      @RobbiJan  Год назад +1

      Yep!! All on you. Their opinion is only valid if you choose to take it on

    • @rosevalley5491
      @rosevalley5491 Год назад

      @@RobbiJan My inspiration!

  • @rzdra
    @rzdra Год назад

    Robby - handsome, hadid - beast

  • @Prague-Shoping-karina
    @Prague-Shoping-karina Год назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @viktoro.ledenyov5829
    @viktoro.ledenyov5829 Год назад

    Beautiful!!!😊😊😊

  • @melb0803
    @melb0803 Год назад

    Proud of you for realizing all of this and being open, it is so relatable, I've been spending so much time online trying to figure out how I can perfect everything in my life and then it's basically impossible to reach those expectations I set so then I just sit there and waste all my time obsessing over all of my flaws, then I only finally get up and get dressed at the last minute possible to not be late, so I then feel worse because I'm not caring for myself properly, I don't have time for makeup, hair, a thought out outfit, etc. becquse I've spent all of my time trying to solve all these "problems" and still don't have solutions. And my clothes keep getting tighter because I'm gaining muscle and not losing fat, so I decide I hate my body in anything I try to wear so no point to even try, it's all a lot of anxiety to carry, need to put that backpack down too and just take in life and the important things and just show up❤

    • @RobbiJan
      @RobbiJan  Год назад +2

      Yes!!! I love it. Put that backpack down girl. I’ll do it with you. Trying to spend more time worrying about people in my world, than trying to live up to perfect images online. Trust me when I tell you, a lot of things we see are not as perfect as they look. ❤️

    • @melb0803
      @melb0803 Год назад

      Thanks Robbi!! You are the best! We got this.

  • @goofyassbih
    @goofyassbih Год назад +2

    I hope your little brother's wedding goes well ❤

  • @Hello2u3582mypincode
    @Hello2u3582mypincode Год назад

    6:50 I disagree. I would say: 'Effective thinking (and feeling) will create more realistic dreams then blunt action ever could'

  • @shethetroublemaker
    @shethetroublemaker Год назад +4

    Saw the cover of the vedio on your snap and knew you're gonna heal me!You go robbi keep shining this vedio was such an inspiration for a people pleaser ambiviert like me thankyou soo much!🤍🤍🤍

    • @RobbiJan
      @RobbiJan  Год назад +2

      Beyond happy that my experience helps my community ❤️

    • @shethetroublemaker
      @shethetroublemaker Год назад +1

      @@RobbiJan It surely does! You know when I think about how will I be in future,You definitely come in my mind as the 'it girl'🤍

    • @RobbiJan
      @RobbiJan  Год назад +1

      Haha I don’t know about that, but I’m definitely working on it! A little more positive, a little wiser and a little stronger every day ❤️ we got this

    • @shethetroublemaker
      @shethetroublemaker Год назад +1

      @@RobbiJan Yayyy let's go!

  • @goofyassbih
    @goofyassbih Год назад

    Not you being out of mascara, concealer, and foundation 😂😂 !!!! love these videos a lot robbi ❤

    • @RobbiJan
      @RobbiJan  Год назад +1

      Giiiiirl, I’ve been a mess. But it’s slowly coming together 😅 did a Sephora run

    • @goofyassbih
      @goofyassbih Год назад

      @@RobbiJan We all have our days 😭 yay for the sephora run though!! 🎉