you're self-sabotaging by procrastinating...so don't put this video off

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  • Опубликовано: 28 окт 2024

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  • @laikacons
    @laikacons Год назад +98

    Y’all don’t procrastinate! Start that book. Start that RUclips channel. Just start whatever you want to do and build on it

    • @theluschmasterinc
      @theluschmasterinc Год назад +1

      This comment is pure motivation.

    • @nickybeautyy
      @nickybeautyy Год назад +1

      I just recently started taking my channel seriously.. I’ve put it off wayy too long, but I’m glad that I’m doing it. This video definitely came at the right time.

  • @glowllama
    @glowllama Год назад +31

    I have problems with perfectionism, the overwhelm, and the lack of structure. I also get distracted very easily. Im trying to figure out how to make a Schedule and to do list and not be so anxious all the time. but because of things in my life, Its difficult.
    Tho, i know the reason why the walk pad helps you Concentrate! It gives you an outlet for extra energy, helping you relax so you can focus on what you are doing. Its how figet toys work and is why some people constantly click a pen or tap their leg when working at a desk.

    • @BriaJones
      @BriaJones  Год назад +2

      that makes a ton of sense!

    • @theluschmasterinc
      @theluschmasterinc Год назад +1

      I appreciate your insights! You're absolutely right about the benefits of having an outlet for extra energy. Finding a way to manage perfectionism, overwhelm, and lack of structure can indeed be challenging, but taking small steps and experimenting with schedules and to-do lists is a great start. Thanks for sharing!

  • @irasjewelry
    @irasjewelry Год назад +56

    Absolutely true, I tend to procrastinate so much because I worry I will fail. It's time to make that habit change and do better for my own life overall. ❤

    • @deedeesaidso5910
      @deedeesaidso5910 Год назад +2

      You can do it!

    • @irasjewelry
      @irasjewelry Год назад +2

      @@deedeesaidso5910 thank you

    • @theluschmasterinc
      @theluschmasterinc Год назад +1

      You've got this! The fear of failure can be paralysing, but it's also a natural part of growth. Embrace those moments as opportunities to learn and improve. Your determination to make positive changes is already a big step in the right direction. Keep pushing forward, and you'll achieve great things for your life! All the best to you! 💙✨

  • @jounerie_
    @jounerie_ Год назад +28

    Bria , i just wanna let you know that you are like the big sister i don't have 😭. thank you so so much 💗

  • @positivelypurposeful8522
    @positivelypurposeful8522 Год назад +55

    I just want to say, thank you so much for these videos. I am an anxious girly and these videos help more than you know. Also, I am glad to know that you are feeling better. Have an awesome day!

    • @BriaJones
      @BriaJones  Год назад +2

      I'm so happy these are helpful!

    • @theluschmasterinc
      @theluschmasterinc Год назад +2

      Remember, you're not alone in your feelings, and it's okay to have ups and downs. Wishing you a fantastic weekend 💙✨

  • @monee04
    @monee04 Год назад +2

    Wow! Same for me! Driving longest distances, more so on the freeway, freaks me out now. I’ve been driving forever & I hate this feeling 😢

  • @shmirjackson2323
    @shmirjackson2323 Год назад +8

    Girllll your hair is giving what is supposed to give🔥it looks gorgeous❤️

  • @vishakhasingh5295
    @vishakhasingh5295 Год назад +7

    i am a compsci major and i feel like i will fail at everything, so i sleep, i watch yt/prime/Disney and just not do things. this video speaks to me

    • @deedeesaidso5910
      @deedeesaidso5910 Год назад

      😥

    • @BriaJones
      @BriaJones  Год назад +3

      you gotta believe in yourself before anyone. You're so capable. Get up and at it!

  • @theluschmasterinc
    @theluschmasterinc Год назад +4

    Procrastination can feel like a harmless delay, but it often turns into self-sabotage. Let's all take a step forward today, tackle those tasks, and start moving towards our goals!

  • @KayBassie
    @KayBassie Год назад +5

    Appreciated this video. Yeah procrastination is my kryptonite. What gets me is I procrastinate a little bit and then when I get into the zone of getting work done something always happens that prolongs me getting into a productive state.. I live with family members so theres more distraction actions around me *sighs* constant battle. For example, today I had my set To Dos planned out, then all of that went out the window cause as soon as I woke up I had to tend to family stuff (not planned for today) that have to get done. But I'm learning to Just Do It when I I have the time, and not put things off. Cause other roadblockks will occur.

  • @EmpressChanelle
    @EmpressChanelle Год назад +8

    All I’m trying to do is being more committed to myself and my goals, I’m glad you made this video because I did need to hear this to show up better for myself ❤

  • @simplycolorfull
    @simplycolorfull Год назад +4

    i hear you bria!!! im coming i promiseeee! tired of procrastinating 😢

  • @deedeesaidso5910
    @deedeesaidso5910 Год назад +5

    Yes come thru psychology major. Learning to enjoy the journey is my mindset. When it comes to youtube, I have the subscribers count but i don’t have the watch time, and i’m trying to give myself grace that my time will come when it’s my time. Time management skills i learned that when i planned out my weeks on Sundays the week went a little bit smoother opposed to me just going with the flow. I always say I wish I had a team, but I have to start with me, and the team will come.
    Side note: Look for plans to move to Texas to be Bria’s assistant lol. Hair and makeup is freaking awesome btw

    • @BriaJones
      @BriaJones  Год назад +1

      yes! you will absolutely get there, no doubt about it!

  • @faa1412
    @faa1412 Год назад +1

    So glad this popped up on my feed! I need this reminder as the new week and new month start. I recently got into Anime (still can't believe it lol) and am watching a series called Demon Slayer (English voice-over version). In one episode, one of the slayers talked about how time will not patiently wait as you grieve, procrastinate, etc. because time waits for no one. Even if you feel scared, disappointed, or discouraged, keep going and "set your heart ablaze." That speech hit me, because just the other day, I said to myself "Whether I decide to do it or not, time will keep going." We can procrastinate out of fear, laziness, etc. all we want, but time will keep going. And then it really hit too when I came across a video about people in their 40s who feel like failures and I said to myself, I really don't want that to be mebut at the rate Im going, that could end up being me too.
    We have 4 months left to 2024, let's set our hearts ablaze!

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Год назад

      Oh, I'm 30 already there smdh... and I'd be considered "successful" by others on the surface

  • @cee8226
    @cee8226 Год назад

    It was a hack for me to list the task for tomorrow so I could get a good night sleep not to worry tomorrow and when I wake up, I am on autopilot with a checklist. All I need to do is breath and move my body without hesitating or second-guessing my actions. There was a study that I read about how time consuming it is to think what we need to do than actually doing it. It opened my mind and used this strategy. So far I am amazed that I have so much time in my hands with this hack :D This small habit helped me pass board exam

  • @calligraphyfairy6693
    @calligraphyfairy6693 Год назад

    The vibes in the beginning already made me get my ass off the couch 😢 love this content. Slay!! ❤❤❤

  • @Jahleesa400
    @Jahleesa400 Год назад +1

    Every time I’m lacking on my college studies here come Bria with a targeted video

  • @TCTALKSTCFITNESS
    @TCTALKSTCFITNESS Год назад +2

    Keep elevating and evolving ♾️💪🏾 we are all powerful beings fr fr ♾️♾️♾️🧘🏽‍♂️

  • @wonktootie
    @wonktootie 10 месяцев назад

    I binged quite a few of your videos today. I just wanna say that a lot of things you discuss in your videos are things I have had to figure out for myself the fun way. It's refreshing to hear some of these things said in different ways than I've thought about them, as well as a bunch of the other things you have learned that I have never thought about. I really agree with your viewpoint on life and I have already managed to get some work done on a project that I've been feeling stuck on. Love your energy and your perspective on life. Thanks Bestie!

  • @JordinSolis
    @JordinSolis Год назад +2

    11:44 ur speaking to my soul 😅😅😅😅 I love this 🤍 keep dropping gems 💎 girly

  • @simplyshen
    @simplyshen Год назад +3

    Right on time. Happy Saturday!

  • @Autumnjanedougan
    @Autumnjanedougan Год назад

    I’ve been struggling a lot with putting things off and this was super helpful! It’s hard when you get in your own way

  • @BMorgan143
    @BMorgan143 Год назад +6

    Go off w the consistency B!! ❤ this content is so valuable thank you girl!!

  • @DilCardyn
    @DilCardyn Год назад

    Bria discusses procrastination, its underlying causes (such as fear of failure and perfectionism), and offers solutions like clear goal setting, time management, eliminating distractions, and rewarding progress to overcome it effectively.

  • @lightlawliet3526
    @lightlawliet3526 Год назад +2

    i live in an extremely unhealthy environment. doing nothing even tho i made plans i just stay in bed all day. not get out of the room much. but it’s making things harder and harder instead as that defence mechanism is not really working. also having no energy doesn’t help either.

  • @EvaLi-d1x
    @EvaLi-d1x 7 месяцев назад

    OMG Bria how can be so dead-on on so many things!!!! so helpful!

  • @hallie7256
    @hallie7256 Год назад

    the title fully called me out🤭, but
    so glad to have found you from tks pod, you’re so well spoken and this is type of content i need to be watching. you’re points about anxiety truly speak to me and make me realize how much i need to intentionally make changes in my life. i’m not sure you already have (and will definitely be watching all your videos), but would love to hear more about how you got over your medication anxiety🫶🏻

  • @YanethGlitter
    @YanethGlitter Год назад

    This is my number one problem that im working hard on. Ty for all the tips bestie😊

  • @kaitlyndenney7779
    @kaitlyndenney7779 Год назад +1

    I just found this channel and have been binging these pillow talks. They are helping me get my life together!!! 👏

  • @aishaabdulkarimu
    @aishaabdulkarimu Год назад +2

    Thanks, Bria! Def needed this ♥

  • @anapoueriet3774
    @anapoueriet3774 Год назад

    I listened to one of your other videos about making content and I am doing just that. Just putting it out there until I feel comfortable.

  • @IamTemiGold
    @IamTemiGold Год назад +1

    I’m here for the scolding girl, you always call me out 😢😢

  • @brittanyton2555
    @brittanyton2555 Год назад

    Ah and a "tip" for procrastination I got is more of a mindset change, but I stopped relying on what I'm in the mood for or not, and started doing what would be benefit tomorrow's me. (also great practice for being kind to yourself and building a better relationship with yourself :). I basically started thinking, would it benefit future Britt to do this now? Yes? Okay then let's go because she deserves that and I want to be kind to her!❤
    Hope this helps someone :)

  • @HaiNanaTV
    @HaiNanaTV Год назад

    I am loving these conversational topics.

  • @simz1e
    @simz1e Год назад

    Bria honestly you don't know how much I needed to hear this!! Omg your video was gold and I appreciate you

  • @SimplyNaturalCai
    @SimplyNaturalCai Год назад

    The break down of procrastination is fascinating it’s definitely layered. Love the tips and will def use some!

  • @zanehubbard
    @zanehubbard Год назад +2

    I love your videos. It’s very inspiring.

  • @shootingstarshelle
    @shootingstarshelle Год назад +2

    Perfect timing yet again💆🏽‍♀️Let’s get down to it. Thanx Bria❤️🙏🏽

  • @supriyasharma241
    @supriyasharma241 7 месяцев назад

    I listened to the title and I’m happy I did ❤

  • @sharonqui
    @sharonqui 7 месяцев назад

    I needed this ! Perfect time . Thank you ❤❤

  • @officiallymelvina
    @officiallymelvina Год назад

    Wow Bria I really appreciate your videos. I was feeling blah before I pressed play but as I watch them you have a way of connecting with your audience no matter what the topic is 🥰

  • @naimahfaatin
    @naimahfaatin Год назад +2

    Thank you, Bria. This is exactly what I needed today. You have a great approach to teaching others how to trust themselves.

  • @leahbalman2351
    @leahbalman2351 Год назад

    Thank you so much for this video, I really needed it! It's now a video I watch over and over to give me a kick up the butt! Also your video about not being incompetent! LOVE LOVE LOVE your channel! Keep them comin' XXX

  • @Mariamox
    @Mariamox Год назад +1

    this video has given me A LOT to think about haha

  • @StarAlchemy
    @StarAlchemy Год назад +1

    Thank you for this. Your videos are always right on time for me. ✨

  • @skylershanice6735
    @skylershanice6735 Год назад

    Love you bestie 🫶🏽

  • @bethanysworld123
    @bethanysworld123 Год назад

    Bria I seriously love you!!! I love how insightful you are, your videos have helped me a lot ! 💕💕💕

  • @reina4657
    @reina4657 Год назад

    I really appreciate your efforts ❤ you’re such a sweetheart

  • @jasabro
    @jasabro Год назад

    YESSS I BEEN WAITING FOR DIS ONE WOOOO ❤🎉

  • @mrsaveabuck5969
    @mrsaveabuck5969 Год назад

    As always you provided some great ideas and suggestions.Thank you!

  • @deedeesaidso5910
    @deedeesaidso5910 Год назад +1

    Happy Saturday Bestie B

  • @EMPRESSUDOKA
    @EMPRESSUDOKA Год назад

    This was a blessing to watch. Thank you 🤍

  • @deenyables
    @deenyables Год назад

    I find that making mental list of my list that I write down helps me. If I just keep my mental list I will procrastinate big time. lol😅 great video I never really thought about dealing with procrastination like this I think the things you mention will help me a lot to try and think about. Thank you bestie❤

  • @Iamnassaya
    @Iamnassaya Год назад

    We need a hair care routine video please!

  • @misslongino
    @misslongino Год назад

    love love love! You glow from inside out, my kind of person ❤ Please also tell us about your amazing skin and hair secrets too! Beautiful! Great advice! I am already more motivated by this video alone. ❤ Thank you.

  • @likeafruitmachine
    @likeafruitmachine Год назад

    Thank you for this wonderful video! Really needed it 🫶🏼

  • @Oneinamillionpod
    @Oneinamillionpod Год назад

    Thank you for this

  • @madeleinedawson8539
    @madeleinedawson8539 Год назад

    Thank you so much for this!! I love your videos. So relatable!

  • @IseiGuzman
    @IseiGuzman Год назад +1

    You're absolutely gorgeous! I'd love if you did a video of looking glam on a budget! 🩶

    • @BriaJones
      @BriaJones  Год назад

      beauty/ hair deets will be on my IG:)

  • @Danyelletaylor_
    @Danyelletaylor_ Год назад

    I love this! Thank you so much for the tips🙌🏽

  • @Varezenmanifests
    @Varezenmanifests Год назад

    My big issue is ADHD. I've fought this since I was a kid. I won't have health insurance until 2024 so I can't get help for it yet. Right now I use a flourite on my wrist in the meantime and weirdly enough it sorta helps. But that is the underlying cause of my procrastination. I find literally a million other things my brain says it needs to do RIGHT NOW before I can do this other bigger task and sure the other stuff is done but the main thing never gets done. GGGAAAHHHHHHH

  • @f3042
    @f3042 Год назад

    So helpful! ❤

  • @MindsetwithMichelle
    @MindsetwithMichelle Год назад

    You and your dowg are Pawfect ❤❤❤ loved this video and THANK YOU😍

  • @444.taybae
    @444.taybae Год назад +2

    Calling me out this early in the morning lmfao

  • @athenapantazes
    @athenapantazes Год назад +1

    Not me putting this in my watch later 😅 lol only cause I’ve got a big hike to do but best believe I’ll be back ❤ love your videos !

  • @Emya111
    @Emya111 Год назад +1

    Another much needed video ! Thank you so much Bria ❤

  • @10amxd39
    @10amxd39 Год назад

    this video seems interesting...i'll watch it later!!😂😂

  • @withlovecole
    @withlovecole Год назад

    It’s the intro for meee🐶🐾

  • @abigailflores7364
    @abigailflores7364 Год назад

    I love this video

  • @DivinitytheGenie
    @DivinitytheGenie Год назад

    Right on time

  • @Eduardo_Music8560
    @Eduardo_Music8560 Год назад +1

    Hello Bria Jones, good morning 🌄! Good video, good topic. Congratulations for your work you have done on RUclips. I like to hear your voice, it's very nice 🥰. Have a wonderful weekend, wherever you are! Greetings from Sonora, México 🇲🇽... 👍

  • @SGlibra
    @SGlibra Год назад

    Girlllll!! These chats are always on time! Btw I am in the finance department of a hospital but am such a creative person, so I totally get it.
    Every point of this video applies to me. I appreciate your channel so much. It reminds me, I’m not alone in all this.❤

  • @cherilvr
    @cherilvr Год назад +1

    Me seeing this video after I said “just a two minute break” and ignoring the video I’m editing🥲😭

    • @BriaJones
      @BriaJones  Год назад +1

      lmao, breaks are good tho!

  • @DiskJockeyFernyyy
    @DiskJockeyFernyyy Год назад

    Hair!!!😍

  • @nzuzothwala9683
    @nzuzothwala9683 Год назад

    Girl??? 😑 I heard you. Let's get this last 6 months 🕯️

  • @shykaislam3678
    @shykaislam3678 Год назад +2

    great video but can we get into the hair 😍😍 amma need a tutorial

    • @BriaJones
      @BriaJones  Год назад

      come over to Ig i got you:)

  • @a.personofficial
    @a.personofficial Год назад +1

    For monitoring it helped my to make little „vlogs“. Sometimes i film everything i do and take one second of every activity and add it together. It’s no work and i can easily compare what a successful day was for me last month

    • @a.personofficial
      @a.personofficial Год назад

      If u have apple i recommend the clips app its preinstalled

  • @saraittiche
    @saraittiche Год назад

    thank you so so so much your video inspired me and helped me a lot because I am starting a RUclips channel and I need to know how can I organize my tasks 💚

  • @l3ui909
    @l3ui909 Год назад

    I came here to comment “saves to watch later” but I guess we’re here now 😂

  • @Rejoicealexm
    @Rejoicealexm Год назад

    I hate commenting lol but I'll comment on all your videos henceforth. Cause I love you ❤️ and that's the only way I can show my support. And your contents have really been helpful to me ❤❤

  • @TakishaSmith-h8k
    @TakishaSmith-h8k 8 месяцев назад

    Bria💕Can you share the links to all the equipment you use to film this video🙏🏾💞

  • @Itssimplyaisha
    @Itssimplyaisha Год назад

    I love youuuu❤❤❤

  • @CarolineIsahAlways
    @CarolineIsahAlways Год назад +369

    I will leave this comment here so that whenever someone likes it.I can come back and watch it 🥴🤣🤣🤣

  • @FullyLovingYourself
    @FullyLovingYourself Год назад

    Okay don’t yell at me Bria 😅

  • @susieqmakeup6083
    @susieqmakeup6083 Год назад

    Prayer 🙏 😂 😘

  • @BRIAN_VLOGS01
    @BRIAN_VLOGS01 Год назад

    New subscriber from Africa Kenya 😊... I'm a younger creator leaning from creators videos though I'm into Vlogging ❤❤

  • @JordinSolis
    @JordinSolis Год назад

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @1nicolethebest
    @1nicolethebest Год назад +4

    Lol… Bria… you calling me out dude
    Btw your hair is hairing

  • @rebeccagrace1509
    @rebeccagrace1509 Год назад +1

    🙏🏾🤍🌌

  • @3RINN_06
    @3RINN_06 Год назад

    ATTENTION! This is off topic and far more important than anything you could ever hear. That is the calling out of God right now, thru the gospel of Jesus Christ. Jesus died for your sins! Not just so you can forget about him and live life being your own god, but he lived a sinless life, died a brutal death that you deserved bc of ur sin, and raised from the dead to give you eternal life! He gave you the right to become children of GOD, if only you accepted him! John chp 1! If your reading this it’s bc Gods calling out to you. His voice is subtle and gentle thru small things like this. He is not mad at you. He is rich in grace and mercy. All you have to do is repent and give him your YES! seek relationship with him!

  • @gamingwivmystdays
    @gamingwivmystdays Год назад

    W video

  • @SoniaYasmine-g6y
    @SoniaYasmine-g6y 9 месяцев назад

    :*

  • @yougetaspear7799
    @yougetaspear7799 Год назад

    Hey can I 😝😛that🐟🐟boo

  • @toziamutambo1883
    @toziamutambo1883 Год назад

    Go touch grass 🎉🎉 #felt

  • @borednow
    @borednow Год назад

    the constant zooming in out is super annoying to watch and it is giving me motion sickness to watch you

  • @brittanyton2555
    @brittanyton2555 Год назад

    "Go touch grass" - Bria Jones, 2023🤍

  • @britneyford
    @britneyford Год назад

    Getting started back on RUclips & new to Tiktok. Trying to stay patient and not procrastinate due to fear of failure 🩵 appreciate the advice

  • @briamonyae1396
    @briamonyae1396 Год назад

    🫰🏾🫰🏾🫰🏾🫰🏾🫰🏾