What Games Are Like For Someone Who Doesn't Play Games

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  • Опубликовано: 27 сен 2019
  • About a year ago, my wife asked if she could play a game. Instead of simply saying yes, I decided to run an informal experiment where I had her play a sampling of games to see how, after a lifetime of not playing games, she would do. These are the results.
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Комментарии • 43 тыс.

  • @razbuten
    @razbuten  2 года назад +10143

    I used to have a pinned comment here that answered questions, but, like...I can't find it? It vanished, I think? I do not know why or how or if I did it myself and forgot, but I just figured I'd take the time to say hello and remind you to not get mad at me for saying lady I live with. Thank you.

    • @user-bc7ss6gh9b
      @user-bc7ss6gh9b 2 года назад +270

      Maybe the one who made the comment deleted it

    • @kappapl5410
      @kappapl5410 2 года назад +82

      i got this video reccomended after you commented on it hmm

    • @user-bc7ss6gh9b
      @user-bc7ss6gh9b 2 года назад +11

      @@kappapl5410 me too

    • @sanjee896
      @sanjee896 2 года назад +47

      what's the game at 1:29

    • @Dave-Lopez
      @Dave-Lopez 2 года назад +3

      Hi

  • @neoman289151
    @neoman289151 Год назад +2322

    I actually felt that "not knowing what L3 is" issue when I was a kid, growing up mostly with Nintendo games but having a friend with a PS2 it took me ages to figure out that you could even click the sticks in because Nintendo was really late to that particular party.

    • @Runningtaco
      @Runningtaco 10 месяцев назад +34

      It was a similar deal with me too. I've grown up playing videogames on many of the different consoles and devices but I never played a playstation until I got the ps4. One of the very first games with it I had, I forget which one exactly it was either Uncharted 4 or Battlefield 1, but there were command prompts with the L3 button and I looked thoroughly all over my controller and simply could not find that button and ended up getting frustrated. Unfortunately I do not remember how I finally figured it out whether I looked it up online or somehow it finally clicked to me to press the stick down but man I do remember feeling embarrassed myself for having so long to struggle with that lol

    • @TraxisOnTheLines
      @TraxisOnTheLines 10 месяцев назад +16

      Yep, I was a few years into my PS2 after having a PS1 before I realized what R3 and L3 were, and that many games I had used them for minor features I would have loved to know about.

    • @jab9109
      @jab9109 9 месяцев назад +3

      I still suck at using a controller. I have to memorize what each button does what in game, cause it takes me too long to understand what LB means and where it is.

    • @TraxisOnTheLines
      @TraxisOnTheLines 9 месяцев назад

      @@jab9109 I had a playstation 1 and 2 first, so I understand R1 and R2 (right side, front or back), and then when I got an xbox, I was very confused (and still not confident) on which one is the bumper and which is the trigger. Once I figure it out though, it feels like riding a bike. Toss me a controller and I'll figure out what I'm doing, there's only so many options for where developers can put controls and some of them make more sense than others.

    • @pointydoor1356
      @pointydoor1356 9 месяцев назад +2

      I think the first time I remember encountering L3 was in Ratchet and Clank Going Commando, I think it was a shortcut to opening the map. I never figured out what L3 was during the game. I think the game that finally taught me what R3 and L3 were was Ape Escape 2 because the tutorial showed you what buttons to press on the controller with a diagram on screen.

  • @giin97
    @giin97 4 года назад +1847

    "I just watched, silently judging..."
    Lol

    • @the1neoxu
      @the1neoxu 4 года назад +2

      Don't judge, lol.

    • @giin97
      @giin97 4 года назад +9

      @@the1neoxu nonsensical statement, judging is a critical component of everyday life, both judging and discrimination ;)
      I find it amusing when neutral terms about critical skills gain negative stigmas :D

    • @madjaster9620
      @madjaster9620 4 года назад

      Giin
      420 likes

    • @internetspectator6051
      @internetspectator6051 4 года назад

      @@giin97 i agree with what you said about judging, but can you elaborate on the discrimination part

    • @HyperspaceGalaxy
      @HyperspaceGalaxy 4 года назад

      My whole life

  • @01man01truck
    @01man01truck 5 месяцев назад +377

    The biggest takeaway for me after watching this video is just how malleable the brain of a child is. All of the difficulties that she endured while simply just trying to play a video game are all tribulations that I have long forgotten. And there is something to be said about game developers who design games with the expectation that the player already has at least a little bit of knowledge of how video games work. Basically, games are made for gamers. If you're a gamer, then there is a lot that doesn't need explaining.

    • @pandaman1331
      @pandaman1331 Месяц назад +4

      I think that's fine though. Because that way you can give new gamers and incentive to play older games and they will appreciate them. That's why I let people play Pokemon and Yu-Gi-Oh from the very beginning. Also, if we are saying that games are solely produced for gamers, it's not completely true. Because a lot of casual indie games exist for casual players too. LIke Fruit Ninaj or bubble shooter etc. Even my parents play that stuff. Many "hardcore" gamers get inexplicably angry about casual games existing but I don't see the problem. Not everyone wants to play challenging games and even within the general gaming communities not everyone is hyper competitive and wants to play every game on the highest possible level or difficulty. And fact is, when we started playing video games in the 80s and 90s, all games were casual games anyway.

    • @celenial6009
      @celenial6009 Месяц назад

      I mean it always felt intuitive even back when I first touched my first pc game at 6

    • @pandaman1331
      @pandaman1331 Месяц назад +3

      @@celenial6009It felt intutive too but that's propably because we were kids and din't overthink it and try to apply real life logic to it.

    • @Someoneyeeted
      @Someoneyeeted 4 дня назад

      Thats why determining your target demographic is really important you can't make something that satisfies everyone (or at least would be very hard) so its important to choose a type of players who are gonna play the game and tailor it specifically for them

  • @ScrambledAndBenedict
    @ScrambledAndBenedict 5 месяцев назад +1303

    One of the coolest things ever was watching my aunt try to understand Minecraft which her kid was playing. It was neat watching her understand the concept, but not grasp its more "videogamey" rules. He mentioned he was mining iron to make an iron sword to replace his stone sword, and she suggested he use some of his copper to make a copper sword in the meantime: she understood the concept of crafting but didn't understand the arbitrary limitation behind what you could and couldn't craft. When she noticed that breaking a campfire gave charcoal instead of a replaceable campfire item, she asked what he'd get if he broke a torch assuming all burning items dropped burned-out items when broken. When he explained it was better to buy a new sword from a weaponsmith rather than make them himself or repair the ones he had, she said he should ask the weaponsmith if he could repair swords. It was great watching this lady, who had zero understanding of video games, apply real-world logic to a game where all us gamers applied gamer logic lol

    • @Miner_20
      @Miner_20 3 месяца назад +88

      I cant blame her for the copper sword, when the update dropped i was pretty sad ab that too😂

    • @Dayonehundredvisuals
      @Dayonehundredvisuals 3 месяца назад +2

      U typed all that just to say she didn’t know u couldn’t make copper swords. U trying to analyze too hard

    • @RandomRepairGuy
      @RandomRepairGuy 3 месяца назад

      I appreciate the anecdote. Ignore ​@@Dayonehundredvisuals, the debbie-downer.

    • @scammer7640
      @scammer7640 3 месяца назад +88

      ​@@Dayonehundredvisualsbro shut up let the man be interested in something without scrutiny

    • @ScrambledAndBenedict
      @ScrambledAndBenedict 3 месяца назад +40

      @@Dayonehundredvisuals Perhaps if you tried a little harder to analyze things, you'd know basic grammar and how not to be offended by perfect strangers talking about a block game.

  • @greeblothegoblin
    @greeblothegoblin 4 года назад +1431

    This would’ve been really cool if there was an eye tracker thrown into the loop!

    • @pagetvido1850
      @pagetvido1850 4 года назад +27

      I want to see more experiments run on noobs. We could learn so much.

    • @americafuckyeah4520
      @americafuckyeah4520 4 года назад +28

      @@pagetvido1850 it's like modern day scientists studying cavemen, except the cavemen are alive and in front of you.

    • @SeMDesu
      @SeMDesu 4 года назад +2

      ​@@xXGeth270Xx Yea, same thing with the controller when looking around and walking, when I bought a controller for the first time after a while, I was 26. Well, I got used to it in about an hour, thanks to my gaming background (I played ps1 before and ps2 from 1997-2002 [I'm not counting Nintendo, SEGA, Panasonic, SNES that I have played before], then entered a PC gaming world. I have played PS3 and PS4 before that, but mostly racing games and football).

    • @rngwrldngnr
      @rngwrldngnr 4 года назад +1

      Quick, someone get them a PO Box.

    • @marzipancutter8144
      @marzipancutter8144 4 года назад +2

      A lot of getting into games, especially when you're self-taught, is all about being observant and experimentative. I recall getting into my first games easily because I was absorbing every bit of information I got (granted, kids are very much better at recognizing patterns so I had an edge in that). Conversely, a friend of mine that has gaming experience but also has a bit of tunnel vision still struggles getting into new genres because he fails to notice and memorize new things, and also doesn't realize when to transfer over the knowledge that he has.

  • @Arms.Enthusiast
    @Arms.Enthusiast 4 года назад +897

    The lack of mouse movement feels like getting stabbed.

    • @kin-3877
      @kin-3877 4 года назад +55

      I realised that the camera is a constant struggle with anyone who doesn't play video games. every person/family member/child who came to my house and tried my xbox would never turn because they didn't know turning was a thing. Gaming is the most common place to interact with a 3d world besides real life and they couldn't grasp that they had control of it

    • @cooldude2251
      @cooldude2251 4 года назад +25

      @@kin-3877 my mom plays fps games like a robot. She cannot use both sticks at the same time

    • @cultsofkelsafar7647
      @cultsofkelsafar7647 4 года назад +20

      But imagine a game where you have no control of the camera and it’s a first person puzzle game. It would be so interesting, having to think specially without full control of your vision. Like using mirrors to go backwards and such.

    • @falfires
      @falfires 4 года назад +3

      It did, and it's weird because it reminded me that I did the exact same thing when playing my first fps as a teen.

    • @derpartyrapper
      @derpartyrapper 4 года назад +1

      The whole video feels like it.

  • @pancake4691
    @pancake4691 5 месяцев назад +212

    6:18 hearing you ask "why would she?" was surprising to me. as a woman, i loveee watching my boyfriend play video games. its one of my favorite things to do when i just want to relax and watch something entertaining. im a gamer myself so i watch a lot of gaming videos so i think thats the reason why, but also i think it has to do something with me growing up while having to share a console with my brothers and i'd always watch them play while waiting for my turn. so i guess its kind of like a love language to me now being in a relationship. since my bf and i are only 19, we dont live together, so when i get off my pc from gaming and get ready for bed, i always ask him if he could stream his games so i could watch him play while im in bed :) i just love that we share the same hobby and its even better when i can watch him play because i love hearing him talk about things hes interested in, makes me fall in love with him even more everyday

    • @Miner_20
      @Miner_20 3 месяца назад +26

      😔AAAAnd you called me lonely in 800 ways😂😂😂😂

    • @Miner_20
      @Miner_20 3 месяца назад +14

      How do i find someone like you?😂😂😂

    • @NoriMori1992
      @NoriMori1992 3 месяца назад +7

      I love this 🥺❤️

    • @ghirardelio4037
      @ghirardelio4037 3 месяца назад

      And Incels says that "wEmEn ☕" can't support seeing a man happy..
      Whatever, I wish the best for you and him ♥️

    • @Clammychow
      @Clammychow 3 месяца назад +6

      @@Miner_20 there are lots of girls who love videogames and watching people play. it’s not that rare lol just go out and talk to em!

  • @TheFacelessRogue
    @TheFacelessRogue 5 месяцев назад +2904

    Get this woman into D&D, I feel like her creative problem solving that held back her enjoyment with this medium would be what made her shine in TTRPGs

    • @Popguy
      @Popguy 4 месяца назад +51

      yess i was thinking the same thing!

    • @Just_A_B3AN
      @Just_A_B3AN 4 месяца назад +35

      Makes me think about how to reignite a sort of exploratory thought process, definitely something I struggle with when I look at a character sheet and just think of my abilities and spells like a video game.

    • @stevenmaswabi-zz9kt
      @stevenmaswabi-zz9kt 4 месяца назад +43

      Baldurs gate 3!!!

    • @jahanbaxter
      @jahanbaxter 4 месяца назад

      @@stevenmaswabi-zz9ktoverrated

    • @MarquisSmith
      @MarquisSmith 4 месяца назад +5

      Does BG3 have a "story mode" difficulty like Divinity 2? I imagine that would be ideal for her.

  • @neowolf09
    @neowolf09 4 года назад +810

    "Don't put that in the video"
    *puts that in video*

    • @zimNvgcatsfan
      @zimNvgcatsfan 4 года назад +1

      Yup, someone's sleeping on the couch tonight.

  • @BenHighley
    @BenHighley 4 года назад +692

    A note on the sprint ability in mario: I'm kind of guessing that you had your wife play it on an emulator. But on the NES, there were only two buttons, which maybe encouraged people to try to see if the other button did anything.

    • @razbuten
      @razbuten  4 года назад +151

      Yeah, that is a really interesting point, and something I wish I would have considered. I am now really curious as to if she would have tried to experiment with it. I am still leaning towards no because while she knew that Mario jumped, she had no idea that sprinting was even an option. Who knows though.

    • @wariolandgoldpiramid
      @wariolandgoldpiramid 4 года назад +62

      The B button only sprits in you hold while moving.
      How would a non-gamer figure that out? They might press the B button once, and then assume it does nothing.

    • @ArlanKels
      @ArlanKels 4 года назад +37

      Yup, totally figured out how to dash on my own as a kid when I got mario. NES days were rough days for me.
      ...I just realized something. We often consider the NES "A difficult system"
      But perhaps it was so difficult because it was our first system? Aside from the Atari we were basically getting slammed with all new types of games and gameplay, stuff we'd never even thought of before.

    • @ephemeraldisle
      @ephemeraldisle 4 года назад +25

      @@ArlanKels there's an element to that but mainly it's because games were still being made with an arcade mentality - make them hard and only beatable in one long sitting to keep the quarters coming. Games got easier when the designers moved away from that paradigm and learned more about ways to challenge players more fairly. We call lots of these things "quality of life" improvements (ie the ability to save) but really they're a reduction of one type of difficulty which lets the designers put in more fun types of difficulty.

    • @ZeroZXDev
      @ZeroZXDev 4 года назад +10

      @Noctis Gaming NES has A, B, Start and Select.
      Since both Start and Select are harder reach the A and B buttons are more subtly conveyed as being the primary buttons.

  • @brovoker34
    @brovoker34 5 месяцев назад +468

    It's funny I think that games like Fallout: New Vegas and more recently Baldur's Gate 3 are so well received is because they really did put a lot of thought into how you could approach different situations. Sure there are restrictions due to programming and game design, but they really just sat there and thought about different ways people could do things, making multiple connections and different ways to end quests. It takes a lot more work but feels a lot better in the end

    • @DrakeMeed
      @DrakeMeed 4 месяца назад +4

      Yes!! As someone who is just learning to appreciate and play games, I have loved BG3 so much because of this exactly!

    • @GangstarComputerGod
      @GangstarComputerGod 4 месяца назад

      One other thing that can frustrate players either starting for the first time or after a loooong break, is just bad design. I’ll still occasionally assume I’m doing something wrong in a game only to watch a Let’s Play and see that no, I’m not awful, it was just bad game design. Once you are more confident in your gameplay overall you notice janky mechanics a lot more. Ex: jump mechanics not working consistently.

    • @ZaerdinGaming
      @ZaerdinGaming 3 месяца назад +4

      One of my favorite things was watching my friend, ThatFinnishFox, who is fluent in video games, play BG3. There was a vial of acid suspended in a web and she wondered if she could knock it down by throwing a bone at it to get the vial. She succeeded, but the vial broke after falling and damaged one of the characters with the acid. I clipped it and showed it to her later because it made me laugh so hard.

    • @TheMovieGuyTMG
      @TheMovieGuyTMG Месяц назад

      yeah its called an rpg its a whole genre

  • @goatsplitter
    @goatsplitter 5 месяцев назад +207

    I really like how you touched on frustration vs. reward. I am nearly 40, and have been playing video games since my dawn of time - and I cannot stress enough how I refuse to spend my little amounts of free time being frustrated just for the nugget of satisfaction when overcoming it. I find myself now turning down difficulties to the bare minimum in most cases, or find the sweet spot that is the littlest amount of frustration without being trivial. I've had friends tease me about it, like I'm less of a gamer. I've paid my anger/frustration dues to the game gods in the past. But not every player, even long time gamers, need or even want blistering difficulty. You hit the nail right on the head with that point.

    • @DonkeyRhubarb21
      @DonkeyRhubarb21 5 месяцев назад +7

      Same.

    • @NitroNinja324
      @NitroNinja324 5 месяцев назад +17

      It's dad gaming, and it's a perfectly acceptable way to play. I play a lot of Destiny 2, and we joke about how some weapons are "dad guns" because they're 1) easy to get, 2) easy to use, 3) have no complicated gimmicks, and 4) are really good at their intended role. Lots of games have games within themselves, whether it's finding all the collectibles, doing all the challenges, finding the best gear, or optimizing your loadouts. If you don't have a lot of time to play, I can see why it'd be frustrating to have to play a nested game before you're even capable of playing what you originally intended.

    • @GangstarComputerGod
      @GangstarComputerGod 4 месяца назад +12

      Yup. I’ve played my whole life and the level of difficulty I’m willing to deal with is directly proportional to the amount of real life stress. Sometimes I really want to grind through tough fights or dungeons and sometimes I just want to go fishing in RDR2.
      That’s also the beauty of modern gaming. I can do all of it and have fun and anyone who critiques how people play is always odd to me.

    • @ZaerdinGaming
      @ZaerdinGaming 3 месяца назад +17

      "and I cannot stress enough how I refuse to spend my little amounts of free time being frustrated just for the nugget of satisfaction when overcoming it"
      This is honestly why I don't enjoy playing hard games, especially with the myriad of choices available now. I'd much rather play an easy game that made me feel powerful than a frustrating game.

    • @Miner_20
      @Miner_20 3 месяца назад

      As an 18 year old gamer that could oly start at 10 years old due to not having strong devices i learned that watching the game i play on yt made it 10 times easyer this is funny bc rn if i find smt dificult ill just look it up... quite funny how this works

  • @calebreynolds3369
    @calebreynolds3369 2 года назад +2317

    Her not knowing to look and move at the same time seems like a pretty universal problem for non gamers. When I tried to play COD with my mom she would generally just move the left stick and never look around and when she did look around she would end up looking straight up into the sky and getting lost, which was very surprising and odd to see.

    • @shinronitsuwari1702
      @shinronitsuwari1702 2 года назад +167

      I think it's not only a problem for non-gamers, but also for people like me, who only had keyboard and mouse combo whole their life, and now I need to move TWO sticks to just go and see where I'm going at the same time? Very bizarre experience

    • @aightgamer2862
      @aightgamer2862 2 года назад +4

      My dad is the same way

    • @moosesues8887
      @moosesues8887 2 года назад +9

      Cod mom

    • @calebreynolds3369
      @calebreynolds3369 2 года назад +36

      @@crouchjump5787 to be honest you are probably right but at this point I can't remember the first time I played with a controller and I was mainly just surprised at the fact that she would look up into the sky and say wait where am I and how do I get back to where I was.

    • @dowfreak7
      @dowfreak7 2 года назад +39

      I think the most universal non-gamer problem is just not inherently understanding controls in general.
      Be that on a keyboard, where you'd instinctively press shift to try running or on a controller, where you just input button presses you don't even consciously realize.
      I mean there are times, where I play a game, try to think back on what button combination is necessary for the action and my brain can't make that manual connection. I'd be standing there, wondering what buttons you press to fire the clutch claw in MHW. But the thing is, if I don't look at the controller, my hands can basically do it automatically.
      In the end, it's just practice and muscle memory. If you haven't played Rock Band or Guitar Hero, you can actually experience that learning firsthand: Just get a controller, try to play and you'll be looking at your fingers a few times to check the colors and if they're on the right buttons. Then, a few hours later you'll move them in the correct way without ever checking.

  • @kirkus6309
    @kirkus6309 4 года назад +656

    Damn this guy probably wrote good essays in college lol

    • @condor-yz6bo
      @condor-yz6bo 4 года назад +38

      makes sense the video flowed so well together

    • @aureleei7349
      @aureleei7349 4 года назад +6

      Or wrote no essays at all hmmm

    • @The-Cat
      @The-Cat 4 года назад +1

      What the fuck is your problem essay ?

  • @FrostedZaibatsu
    @FrostedZaibatsu 4 месяца назад +46

    This is such a good watch for anybody who doesnt understand what goes on in people's minds as theyre playing. Learning the wrong things section was an eye opener. I hope developers see this and learn from it.

    • @toknowwhyuneed3593
      @toknowwhyuneed3593 7 дней назад +1

      No bro. A cooking recipe for a complicated dish should not explain to you what diced or Julienne means. If you're trying a big boy recipe then you should already know those terms.
      Same with games. Absolutely there should be accessible and easy games for people to enjoy. But stay the F away from my 2 hour prep time recipe if you're still wanting to make scrambled eggs.
      I do not want my hand held in a Dark Souls game and people appreciate those games for the lack of hand holding.

  • @averyl6
    @averyl6 4 месяца назад +37

    This perfectly articulated my experiences with gaming! I've been playing since I was a kid, but always very casually. As an only child I never realized how...slow I was as a gamer until years later when I would play co op with friends in high school and they got so frustrated with how bad I was. I never had siblings around to explain certain mechanics to me and I was perfectly content spending several hours on like the first level of a game as a child.

    • @ColtonXnow
      @ColtonXnow 3 месяца назад +5

      That's awesome lol

  • @kek2997
    @kek2997 4 года назад +655

    "And so that I could really test the strength of our marriage, DarkSouls." just yess

    • @rowansingleton1177
      @rowansingleton1177 4 года назад +11

      Fellow kakyoin

    • @OneEyedCloud01
      @OneEyedCloud01 4 года назад +9

      No one can just deflect the Emerald Splash

    • @kek2997
      @kek2997 4 года назад +3

      @@rowansingleton1177 Rero Rero Rero

    • @Devilsfannumber30
      @Devilsfannumber30 4 года назад +1

      Happy national donut day

    • @keelitgames6074
      @keelitgames6074 4 года назад +2

      I dont know who I feel worse for. The person who got introduced to gaming with dark souls or the person who had to watch.

  • @darkblaze1594
    @darkblaze1594 2 года назад +647

    I feel like when we play games as children, we have less expectations about the solutions to the game mechanics and we try different things, eventually getting it, whereas when adults just start playing games, their brain thinks more logically, leading to varying opinions or concepts which are different from game perspective

    • @duckytheduckster0
      @duckytheduckster0 2 года назад +44

      That's the thing, human brains become more fixated as you grow older, so it's harder to learn concepts such as languages, skills, or (especially) something as complex as video games, which require you to press certain buttons instinctively to do certain actions while reacting with what's on screen while maintaining knowledge of what you can or cannot do in said "game".

    • @Kupperdurden
      @Kupperdurden 2 года назад +9

      To complete what has been said by DuckyTheDuckster, this is how brain works. Jean Piaget was a pionnier concerning brain developpement among yougsters.

  • @fullelement4886
    @fullelement4886 6 месяцев назад +27

    This really reminds me of the things i've lost in gaming, ironically, by gaming too much. The wonder of experiencing games for the first time, and the satisfaction of figuring it out.
    I'm now so savvy with gaming as a whole that like he said within 5 minutes i generally have it figured out, if not pretty much mastered depending on difficulty. That sense of satisfaction and wonder is yet another thing i wish i could experience again via experiencing gaming for the first time again... i say only because of gaming for the first time again cause if a game just came out with a TOTALLY different control scheme i'd be mad not satisfied lol

  • @shay4089
    @shay4089 4 месяца назад +90

    You should have her play breath of the wild. So much of my enjoyment from that game was just having an idea and the game actually allowing me to do it. I feel like she’d enjoy it

  • @MayHugger
    @MayHugger 4 года назад +620

    I totally gets where she's coming from when she got frustrated/annoyed at the game not letting her do things her way. Nothing kills immersion like not being able to do something, not because it wouldn't make sense, but because the game won't let me.

    • @fangsabre
      @fangsabre 4 года назад +20

      My dad gets like that with some games, particularly games where he has some real life experience such as driving games or military shooters

    • @Momogamer9
      @Momogamer9 4 года назад +4

      @@fangsabre goddamn o-o

    • @fangsabre
      @fangsabre 4 года назад +16

      @@Momogamer9 my family is a racing family and he was in the army when he was younger. So like when a car does something in the game physics that isnt accurate to real racing he kinda gets frustrated like "a car wouldnt do that on dirt" and I can only like give up and go "it's a video game dad"

    • @mattisixx1699
      @mattisixx1699 4 года назад +9

      @@fangsabre dude I feel that driving game one. Drifting is always the most unrealistic. In nfs you don't have to really do anything to initiate and you speed up when you start sliding, in forza there is a massive delay between using the ebrake and being able to hit the gas again(but you can clutch kick!)

    • @fangsabre
      @fangsabre 4 года назад +4

      @@mattisixx1699 I know it's not the most accurate drifting in a racing game, but the drifting in Pro Street is pretty fun

  • @hannahrobinson0813
    @hannahrobinson0813 Год назад +592

    It was honestly so validating and satisfying to watch your wife's experience [I'm so sorry for her suffering though🤣] and have you put into words what was creating her frustrations. I had this EXACT experience when I started playing video games with my husband (who has played video games his entire life). So this whole video was extremely cathartic. 😂

    • @koraligues
      @koraligues Год назад +19

      ME TOO! I started to play recently and also with hollow knight, but i just kept trying because i had one friend who occasionally gave me tips about where am i supposed to go, if I've missed something, etc. Without this, i know i wouldn't have continued
      And today i love playing stuff! Now I'm playing celeste and undertale, but i want to try dark souls or skyrim next

    • @DinoSarma
      @DinoSarma Год назад +11

      I’m on the same boat. I have friends who are very close to me who love gaming of all sorts. They’ll sometimes ask if I want to play too, and I’ll usually say a hard no, because it’s too hard. I don’t know why it’s too hard, but it is.
      Raz pointed out why it’s hard, and someone who does game a lot will probably recognise that. I totally felt validated. So when/if I do find a game that I find fun, I’ll stick with it and keep playing it.
      The one I’ve spent the most time on is Tetris. I have it on a game boy color.

    • @ellysetaylor9718
      @ellysetaylor9718 Год назад +5

      Yes! I played portal co-op with my brother and thought I was stupid for never knowing what to do as fast as he did. This video made me realize that I wasn't stupid so much as just struggling to memorize unfamiliar game controls and... figure out what direction I was facing.
      Anyway thanks for the great video!

  • @thefallybear
    @thefallybear 6 месяцев назад +71

    Coming from a female who has recently gotten into games and doesn’t really have someone to teach me how, These videos are so relatable and I always feel frustrated but very accomplished once I figure out how to do something. These videos are very encouraging 😂

    • @Mac_Omegaly
      @Mac_Omegaly 4 месяца назад +2

      Out of curiosity, what games do you like that you've discovered over the last year?
      What types of games have you tried?
      You do NOT need to answer any of these questions, feel free to ignore this comment.

    • @Miner_20
      @Miner_20 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@Mac_Omegalyimagine... "ELDEN RING"🤣😂

    • @Mac_Omegaly
      @Mac_Omegaly 3 месяца назад

      @@Miner_20 well that is a very frustrating accomplishment to learn by jumping into the deep end of Elden Ring.

    • @pandaman1331
      @pandaman1331 Месяц назад +1

      Keep in mind that modern games are far more convoluted and complex than they used to be in the 80s and 90s. It's not really a skill issue but an experience issue. Most gamers like me have palyed games since the 80s and 90s so we gradually improved and evolved alongside games. It's not difficult to get into modern games when you started with basic games and only really had to learn one or two new tricks per game. You have to learn it all form scratch. my advice to make it more enjoyable and less frustrating is to use guides (aka walkthroughs) an consult forums and look up information on RUclips. There is no shame in it. Even many experience gamers do so to not have to waste too much time with certain tasks. Walkthroughs are the best in my opinion. though.

  • @MiloThatch420
    @MiloThatch420 4 месяца назад +64

    Big fan of this series.
    My wife of 14 years never really played video games growing up…
    She had an N64 with star wars pod racers, and Mario cart.
    So that was the extent of her gaming knowledge.
    When we were in high school and dating, The first game she saw me playing and expressed interest was RuneScape.
    I showed her some basics…
    And went home…
    Kinda forgot about it… but learned that she had been grinding the one thing it taught her… wood cutting… while doing her homework every day…
    Before I knew it.. she had 99 woodcutting as a level 3 combat player…
    She had never fought anything… or trained any other skills. Just collected 13 million exp in woodcutting over the course of months.. without exploring her other options.

    • @trucid2
      @trucid2 3 месяца назад +10

      What the heck. That's both adorable and disturbing.

    • @kzkaa.
      @kzkaa. 3 месяца назад +2

      damn. I'm only lvl 60.

    • @DGFapper
      @DGFapper Месяц назад +4

      certified wood cutter

    • @R3GARnator
      @R3GARnator Месяц назад +7

      You married a Beaver.

    • @clnne
      @clnne 9 дней назад +1

      this is fucking gold oh my god. love her

  • @KingNedya
    @KingNedya 4 года назад +587

    My sister when she plays Skyrim every once in a blue moon: "How do I look around again?"

    • @JeffWithAnF
      @JeffWithAnF 4 года назад +9

      my sister says the same thing lmao

    • @MoonlightWalnut
      @MoonlightWalnut 4 года назад +7

      Haha other way round in my family - I’m the sister that never stops playing Skyrim and when my brother does all he does is spawn in some guords and can’t remember how to take out his sword.

    • @lukemmurphy795
      @lukemmurphy795 4 года назад

      @@MoonlightWalnut That's ironic haha.

    • @KingNedya
      @KingNedya 4 года назад +1

      @@MoonlightWalnut How do you spawn in guords? It's a PC thing, isn't it?

    • @KingNedya
      @KingNedya 4 года назад

      Also, I've had her do what I call "the simplest build in the game": heavy armor, two-handed, with specialization in greatswords because she's going to need the higher attack speed with how many times she'll be missing, while still keeping relatively high single-shot melee damage.

  • @Kemandime
    @Kemandime 4 года назад +570

    I remember my plight to understand L3 and R3 as a child. I; at one point, assumed it was pressing both L1 and L2 at the same time to get "L3".

    • @jake_from_statefarm7209
      @jake_from_statefarm7209 4 года назад +49

      That's honestly adorable and way more thought than I would have given it as a kid. I just button smashed lol.

    • @Sofia-re3hj
      @Sofia-re3hj 4 года назад +9

      I THOUGHT THE SAME THING ADFHHJ L1+L2=L3

    • @monoculares
      @monoculares 4 года назад +8

      I am a no-gamer and I recently started playing GTA5 and boy when the game asks me to do things with l1 l2 l3 I freak out because I have to look down but at the same time pay attention to the screen because everything is happening so fast and ah! its very hard

    • @saints360row
      @saints360row 4 года назад

      @Chase Moore, Were joysticks? I mean, I guess for the N64 & arcade but I remember the original PlayStation not having analog sticks.

    • @saints360row
      @saints360row 4 года назад

      @Chase Moore, Also being blown away in thinking a sober person created that controller. XD I can't say too much on 3D or 2D because mine was a N64 but I will say it confused the ever living hell out of me to figure how to hold it.
      Remember GoldenEye? - Some would say it's the first console FPS, but at the time I was just blown away by being in first person, myself.

  • @Fux_Der_Fuchs
    @Fux_Der_Fuchs 5 месяцев назад +11

    I'm an avid gamer but I'm so falbbergasted that you can sprint in Super Mario Bros? Like why did I never knew that?

  • @NoriMori1992
    @NoriMori1992 3 месяца назад +10

    This is a beautiful video. The ending in particular (19:34) was very sweet. After 20 minutes of hearing all about her intense frustration and isolation, seeing that communal experience you mention earlier, where you offer a helping hand and she enjoys the game better for it, that little blessed moment of joy in discovery, actually made me tear up a little.

    • @johnperry6908
      @johnperry6908 17 дней назад

      Do you know what game that is at the end?

  • @IshtarNike
    @IshtarNike 4 года назад +547

    I think we all learned the limitations as children. A lot of my memories of old games is getting stuck, and casting about in the environment for something to interact with. Can I climb this? Maybe if I jump again I'll make it up to that ledge, 20th time's the charm. Can I interact with that? The best and worst thing that changed is that now a lot of games will give you clear signals on what to do (but as your wife found, they're only clear if you know what to look for.

    • @electrocast
      @electrocast 4 года назад +4

      I probably learned all my limitations from early 3D Sonic games in specific lmao

    • @LochNessHamster
      @LochNessHamster 4 года назад +10

      I miss when I was little and could just fuck around in the nothingness of some boxy low poly environment looking for the unknown. I know too much now.

    • @hammerstix5791
      @hammerstix5791 4 года назад +3

      Even to this day I'm still baffled by the idea of going left in a 2D platformer, because of how Mario games were set up. You definitely learn a lot of habits from playing as a kid.

    • @UberCrit
      @UberCrit 4 года назад +3

      I played through Kakariko village in BotW without climbing, mind you I’ve been gaming since I was a toddler. When I was checking out the shrine at the top of the hill I ended up climbing and I was all, “oh ok I can climb this area” then I did it again and thought, “holy shit can I climb anything? In a Nintendo game?!” And that’s when the whole quest changed and I fell in love with that game trying out different ideas with everything

    • @farmiluc
      @farmiluc 4 года назад

      I still remember not being able to go into the fire dungeon of zelda minish cap as a kid, and having to google the solution 7 years later because i didnt realize you could blow up a certain part of a mountain even though it was indicated with fences around an empty wall

  • @ddelarosa96
    @ddelarosa96 4 года назад +544

    Those moments where she moves without looking around, or feels like she can’t do both at the same time, is EXACTLY my dad in video games that aren’t Mario or Madden

    • @froomfie
      @froomfie 4 года назад +12

      every time I try to get my sister to play mario she jumps without using the left stick at all lmao

    • @smwfreak1647
      @smwfreak1647 4 года назад +3

      This is literally my sister lmao

    • @SoroBoio
      @SoroBoio 4 года назад +12

      Its proven bois. Non gamers are shit at multitasking

    • @eugene1317
      @eugene1317 4 года назад +15

      My mother by the grace of god got to Riverwood in Skyrim without realizing that you could move your camera.... 💀💀

    • @avatarocing
      @avatarocing 4 года назад +5

      But I'd say it's also totally us gamers...
      ...just that we are eating/drinking with the right hand at that moment :D

  • @Mike_Nowlan
    @Mike_Nowlan 5 месяцев назад +10

    18:15 - 18:25 that little quote is not only very true for gaming but it also DEFINES my life as a skateboarder. When kids who want to skate ask me about it, I tell them right out, its extreamly hard and its gonna take a long time and a lot determination, dedication, and practice. Spending hours every day, hitting your shins and falling for that sweet sweet few seconds where you nail your trick and ride away is the greatest feeling in the world, but some people cant understand why I put my body through the pain and torture for a trick on a piece of wood and wheels. That feeling is worth every second, every drop of blood, sweat, and sometimes tears. Ive been skateboarding and playing video games for over 20 years now and they're my 2 greatest passions.

  • @MintyVoid
    @MintyVoid 4 месяца назад +7

    god this was amazing to watch, a game designer wet dream lol. I also find this thing fascinating, and why the playtesting part of game dev is one of my favs. Like it's one thing to playtest with your demograph, but I find it's even better to get someone like your wife- who has no experience with video games. It can really dramatically change how you go about things and sometimes make it better for gamers, they see things differently and might be able to explain something that someone used to games can't. Outside perception is soooo valuable in more things than play testing lol, but yeah this was a treat.

  • @peteslover6984
    @peteslover6984 4 года назад +521

    Razbuten: gets wife to play dark souls
    Me: so you've chosen divorce

    • @voimppp572
      @voimppp572 4 года назад

      @xDorothii; Not Uploadin' "In today's test, We're going to be playing cuphead." AKA "I want a divorce"

  • @cameronstewart6636
    @cameronstewart6636 4 года назад +508

    Raz: "want to try an experiment? It will be hard, miserable, and frustrating. Internet mocking might also be present."
    Lylw (lady you live with): "probably not, but what is it?"
    Raz: "you would be playing video games."
    Lylw: "I thought video games were supposed to be...fun?"
    Vizzini: "you'd like to think that, wouldn't you?"

  • @SethGames
    @SethGames 4 месяца назад +7

    I’ve been playing games for ~40 years and I still share some of her frustrations. Especially the “why can’t I do that” ones like in Uncharted. That kind of stuff can drive me nuts. It’s most frustrating when games break their own internal logic for some story or surprise reason. Great video.

  • @DrakeMeed
    @DrakeMeed 4 месяца назад +6

    Thank you so much for this video! As someone who has always been friends with gamers, but didn't start playing until recently in my mid thirties, I have always struggled with communicating with them about why I am *not* a gamer and have such a hard time with them. This seriously encompasses so many of my issues! Sending it to all my friends immediately lol

  • @bensandoval4849
    @bensandoval4849 4 года назад +506

    When my sister started playing cod she didn’t know she could sprint for 2 months

    • @ssxxxss
      @ssxxxss 4 года назад +30

      B r u h

    • @volcolmshoot
      @volcolmshoot 4 года назад +24

      Wait... You can sprint in CoD???

    • @NemesisXKL2
      @NemesisXKL2 4 года назад +5

      yo whats wrong about it, when i started Gaming ( Donkey Kong Country for Snes ) i also didnt know that u can run, i can remember that. All the things we learned, but forget that we learned it :)

    • @Meanderthal17
      @Meanderthal17 4 года назад +2

      @@NemesisXKL2 ayy that was my main game as a youngin too, once i learned how to read I moved into a link to the past

    • @gangweedernigga4012
      @gangweedernigga4012 4 года назад +12

      she lowkey thought she was playing counter strike

  • @pavma7
    @pavma7 4 года назад +489

    I remember as a kid when you were still young and you thought you could do anything in games, I always tried to land on planets when I was in Space. I imagined there would be a whole other world to explore.

    • @masterhaxx579
      @masterhaxx579 4 года назад +14

      Do you play space exploration games now? You might like Elite: Dangerous.

    • @beyrevra666
      @beyrevra666 4 года назад +4

      Try Empyrion Galactic Survival. Build your own Vessels, warp to different planets and explore them :D

    • @plantfan2739
      @plantfan2739 4 года назад +3

      play outer wilds or no mans sky! so many cool space exploration games these days

    • @jagossone
      @jagossone 4 года назад +1

      Played megaman and only spammed b in Hope's of hitting my enemies before I even see them

    • @Asaiiku
      @Asaiiku 4 года назад +4

      Play Rimworld. Doesn't matter much that its set in space, but you can turn people into hats.

  • @synchacker25
    @synchacker25 5 месяцев назад +6

    Ive been gaming for a solid 20+years now. The points you made about misinterpreting information on-screen still happens to me at times. Same sort of things you said in this video were the same problems my gf had when she got into other games besides farming/city building games (animal crossing, cult of the lamb)

  • @CallmeAlexey
    @CallmeAlexey 5 месяцев назад +5

    common knowledge in gaming that you take for granted, or predetermined path and limitations in games were always my interest! it is honestly very interesting knowing what behavior i have are affected by this common knowledges, and what is possible in non-gamers' eyes. amazing video!

  • @jeremysmith5579
    @jeremysmith5579 4 года назад +472

    She made MARIO jump in the hole after the mushroom, now that’s what I called dedication to obtain an object 👍🏽

    • @fsahatkahloon890
      @fsahatkahloon890 4 года назад +2

      can you mark the time? I guess i missed it

    • @bleinmeis
      @bleinmeis 4 года назад +1

      @@fsahatkahloon890 it's at about 13:14

    • @Born_For_Nothing
      @Born_For_Nothing 4 года назад

      13:15

    • @KrisKomar
      @KrisKomar 4 года назад +1

      That was exactly how I learned how the mushrooms worked. First I hit it the other way and didnt realize it was connected, then I ran in to a hole trying to chase it down.

  • @zombkiin
    @zombkiin 4 года назад +461

    "She didn't know what it was so she ignored it"

  • @elricko9817
    @elricko9817 6 месяцев назад +30

    Hi Raz! Fun fact, I'm currently following a course on utilising video games for research at my university, and they linked this video as a watching assignment. My lecturer has great taste hahaha

  • @n00bnetrum
    @n00bnetrum 5 месяцев назад +4

    "Why can't I do it this way" - "because this isn't Baldur's Gate 3"

    • @Onni-
      @Onni- 5 месяцев назад

      I instantly thought about it when I heard that too

  • @rozen4260
    @rozen4260 4 года назад +451

    I just wanted to say: your wife is fantastic! I love when she tested to destroy the gore nest with a red barel in DOOM. I never tried this because i'm used to play, but I think it was a brillant and very clever idea (unfortunatly for her it doesn't work but it was a good idea)
    ps: English is not my native language so excuse my poor english

    • @chickennugget6006
      @chickennugget6006 4 года назад +15

      Hi (Sorry If I Got It Wrong, English Is Not My First Language)

    • @Ryutsukiffe
      @Ryutsukiffe 4 года назад +30

      @@chickennugget6006 Who hurts you

    • @nelum3226
      @nelum3226 4 года назад

      May i say that we all excuse your excuse.

    • @nelum3226
      @nelum3226 4 года назад +3

      @@Ryutsukiffe Probably people that are native with the language :'(

    • @CaptainDoomsday
      @CaptainDoomsday 3 года назад

      A few games do let you destroy things with pure damage instead of only QTE, but it's pretty rare. Especially for items instead of enemies.

  • @Selestrielle
    @Selestrielle 4 года назад +450

    I remember my dad trying to play Portal back in the days. Watching him play while ignoring the story, prompts, and level design clues was really the first time I realized what "game literacy" meant.
    For example, one of the things he used to do was enter a room, miss an object or a switch, and assume that the room was useless. So he'd get out and look somewhere else. In real life, this makes perfect sense, most buildings have "useless" rooms (or rooms that are not directly useful to the problem at hand).
    But in games, there are rarely any useless rooms for the simple reason that every single room has to be handcrafted (unless procedural generation gets in the picture, but that's a nuance only a seasoned gamer can understand). Game devs generally don't want to waste precious level art and memory space for useless rooms. So gamers are trained to think of every room as serving a function. If we don't find what's in it, we search some more. We assume it must be useful in some way.

    • @razbuten
      @razbuten  4 года назад +105

      That is really interesting. I had not thought about how the mere existence of a room signals to most people familiar with games that it is important. And, like, as I type that it sounds super obvious, but it really is not a given.

    • @jmiquelmb
      @jmiquelmb 4 года назад +29

      It's a bit like Chejov's gun in literature. You know that simple object will be relevant later and it takes you out from immersion. I like when games break the rule that everything has to be for something. It's difficult to pull it off correctly, because it's so ingrained in gaming language that people can get upset and feel tricked when learning that an element is just there to be there. One good example that I can recall is in the point and click adventure Thimbleweed Park, where you have to find a book in a library that has more than a thousand books. It's pretty clear to most people that you don't have to look for that book manually, so there's a way to find exactly where it is. Makes the world feel more realistic and not like everything is designed for the player. Though it could also fail spectacularly and someone who never played games could start reading every single book in the most tedious way (which is a possibility btw).

    • @teehundeart
      @teehundeart 4 года назад +8

      @@jmiquelmb i don't agree that it's immersion breaking. I don't think i'd like a game with useless areas because it would waste everybodies time. Just as Chejov's gun means that if you introduce something in a story it better be usefull because otherwise you just wasted everyones time.

    • @jmiquelmb
      @jmiquelmb 4 года назад +2

      @@teehundeart Yeah I understand it's a convinient device. I don't mean it's bad per se a game follows this idea, but I like when they try to break this logic

    • @PorkpieJohnny
      @PorkpieJohnny 4 года назад

      Guess he'd be good at Hunt Down the Freeman

  • @jordbear
    @jordbear 5 месяцев назад +4

    please just call her your wife bro

  • @shimenone4150
    @shimenone4150 5 месяцев назад +4

    This video and/or your channel in general is so valuable to me... Since it's the internet, there are probably a ton more, but you definitely are the poster child.
    While your patient wife and her willingness to tap into a huge yet unknown-to-her subject is a huge part, your Videos are important for gaming as a whole..it fills a necessary gap that only grows when something gets too big... Like the gaming industry

  • @s197_stellar9
    @s197_stellar9 2 года назад +447

    I remember as a kid it took me almost a year to learn how to progress gta vice city because that was the first game that introduced a radar/map for me and I never understood the concept of following the symbols to my mission. Still had hours of fun causing havoc around the city but then once I learned how to follow the blips on the map it became an entirely different game for me.

    • @parmaxolotl
      @parmaxolotl 2 года назад +9

      I figured out maps because I spent hours staring at them as a kid lol

    • @muxmastermann9837
      @muxmastermann9837 2 года назад +8

      When i first played genshin impact the story was so overwhelming that i didnt realize you could teleport to certain waypoints on the map. I ran around for hours doing quests until i watched a beginner's tips video on youtube xd

    • @abhisheksathe123
      @abhisheksathe123 2 года назад +22

      Bruh I used to spend hours going to that N symbol in vice city radar as a kid then when I got older I realized its a symbol for North Direction 🤣🤣

    • @jacopobalia31
      @jacopobalia31 2 года назад +1

      I once followed the North simble for hours thinking that it was a mission

    • @ragingnoob3603
      @ragingnoob3603 2 года назад

      for me it was true crime new york city, and I was super confused because when driving around the game would show the name of the streets as a big green arrow pointing left and right, I didn't realize that it was something you could completely ignore and to actually follow the little gta styled radar on the bottom right of the screen. but could you blame me? They made the street labels pop up right above your screen and it was bigger than the tiny radar on the bottom.

  • @NeFlorence
    @NeFlorence 4 года назад +1511

    “Her moveset was wider than she thought”
    *immediately misses the jump pad and dies*

    • @eclipsedninja1346
      @eclipsedninja1346 4 года назад +10

      Oof

    • @liamkerr7183
      @liamkerr7183 4 года назад +2

      Relatable

    • @DTDplays
      @DTDplays 4 года назад +4

      I mean, that's how she learned the moveset so I say that's entirely realistic haha

  • @chuggywoo
    @chuggywoo 5 месяцев назад +4

    Her not realizing she needs the mouse is the cutest thing ever

  • @guillaumebgrd3425
    @guillaumebgrd3425 Месяц назад +3

    This video made me understand that I need to stop making fun of my girlfriend for struggling in games thanks you man

  • @xtrem5428
    @xtrem5428 4 года назад +418

    Not gonna lie, understanding when L3 and R3 on PlayStations meant took me some time. Nintendo usually show them as L stick and R stick, making it more obvious.

    • @PauloRicardo-md4ji
      @PauloRicardo-md4ji 4 года назад +18

      i only ever had sony consoles. I went to a store asking where the hell this mystic button was.

    • @manray3023
      @manray3023 4 года назад +6

      Yup the reason i know about L3 is because my cousin showing off she can honk the car in gta san andreas

    • @kingdevoid9838
      @kingdevoid9838 4 года назад +1

      @@manray3023 "AAAH shit here we go again" CJ

    • @alklazaris3741
      @alklazaris3741 4 года назад

      I play mainly PC. So when my friend bought me a PS3 for my birthday a few years back it was pretty frustrating. I found myself pressing the wrong buttons because I had only played Nintendo and Xbox. Then prompts like that would pop up and I was clueless on what to do as I had skipped so much of the advanced multi-use buttons of the later generations.

    • @warlordofvideogameglitches
      @warlordofvideogameglitches 4 года назад

      The understanding of the middle button to have more buttons was new to me so trying to hit the middle button. It was only when i experiment is when i discovered the hidden mechanics of the controller.

  • @cecile.muller
    @cecile.muller 4 года назад +1470

    Picking up everything that isn't nailed down, the universal Skyrim experience

    • @janesmith1840
      @janesmith1840 4 года назад +151

      "I'm sure the day will come when I need 150 wheels of cheese"

    • @korvincarry3268
      @korvincarry3268 4 года назад +50

      @@janesmith1840 "im sure ill need 500 goblets at some point..."

    • @Gaming_Legend2
      @Gaming_Legend2 4 года назад +27

      I think i would need that 100kg of flour to eat later

    • @lordtachanka903
      @lordtachanka903 4 года назад +4

      Cécile Muller lmfao true

    • @gerbenvanessen
      @gerbenvanessen 4 года назад +8

      @@korvincarry3268 what if you have to host 1000 people? better find another 500

  • @dogehkiindogeborn5339
    @dogehkiindogeborn5339 Месяц назад +3

    ah yes, the 3 genres:
    Platformer
    ARPG
    Shooter
    No strategy, simulation or CRPGS, among others, that aren't as intuitive to newcomers and would make an interesting experiement

  • @VisualGourmet
    @VisualGourmet 3 месяца назад +3

    I'm definitely gonna do that with my wife, too. This is entertaining af and maybe even a good way for us to bond further.
    She's not a complete noob, since she used to game in her youth with her younger sister, but my wife never played anything but old FPSs and Tomb Raider on the original PS. After we moved together and she saw that I had Tomb Raider on the Wii she was excited to give it a try... not knowing that the Wii version due to motion controls had no lock-on feature and so she struggled enormously with the very first bat enemies, since she wasn't used to aim with the controller xD she had fun anyway

  • @Skdladmalajd
    @Skdladmalajd 2 года назад +4458

    I respect the fact that she still tried her best even though she wasn’t familiar to the games

    • @djinni2005
      @djinni2005 2 года назад +79

      That, and I also respect the fact that she's still married to him 😂

    • @TheSchaef47
      @TheSchaef47 2 года назад +12

      The visual design was probably appealing as well. Hollow Knight is one of my son's favorite games, and the gameplay and visual design play equal roles in that assessment.

    • @Travis_DeGee
      @Travis_DeGee 2 года назад +2

      Seems like normal behavior why make a big deal out of it?

    • @djinni2005
      @djinni2005 2 года назад +14

      @@Travis_DeGee who made a big deal out of anything...?

    • @Travis_DeGee
      @Travis_DeGee 2 года назад +2

      @@djinni2005 I just think everyone would try their best that's all

  • @MrFarkasOfficial
    @MrFarkasOfficial 3 года назад +393

    You should’ve seen my gf play Skyrim for the first time... looking at the plants, staring in one direction without moving the mouse around, staying on the road, keeping out of rivers so her character’s clothes don’t get wet... it was adorable.

    • @929er13
      @929er13 3 года назад +40

      not her saving her character's clothes. 😭 that indeed sounds cute. lol.

    • @22gsg80
      @22gsg80 3 года назад +3

      That does sound adorable

    • @rolux4853
      @rolux4853 3 года назад +8

      Oh god it always makes me furious when people not use the mouse and run around the map staring at the road.
      I don’t know why, but it makes me super uncomfortable..

    • @nate7817
      @nate7817 3 года назад +2

      absolute keeper

    • @untoldpaine
      @untoldpaine 3 года назад +2

      mine didnt even want to keep playing after making it past Alduin. She said its extremely stressful and why would anyone want to do something thats stressful. i wish i knew where that mentality comes from. but she doesnt care about it enough to want to elaborate. Its not like she cares about the game. why would it be stressful 🤔

  • @jokerjunior8598
    @jokerjunior8598 2 месяца назад +2

    “I can’t think back into my life where I wasn’t interested in games” hit way too home that I suddenly started to think back to my first memories as bay-bee

  • @endify3704
    @endify3704 4 года назад +3263

    Wife: "Hey can I try playing that one ga-"
    Raz: "I've been waiting for this moment my entire life"

    • @seaturtle7818
      @seaturtle7818 4 года назад +40

      ur profile pic got me lol

    • @ahmed4363
      @ahmed4363 4 года назад +70

      @@seaturtle7818 I'm on dark mode they can't fool me

    • @inbredbanana8156
      @inbredbanana8156 4 года назад +9

      Your profile pic is evil

    • @dan8t669
      @dan8t669 4 года назад +1

      @@arnebeer962 HA, TN panel plebs

    • @thedarkforce9596
      @thedarkforce9596 4 года назад +1

      A long time ago when The Xbox original came out my mom was someone interested in playing a game that I played a lot so I broke out my PS2 instead and I plugged it in and put in kingdom hearts because my mom was interested in playing that game specifically and when she went through the Tutorial she wasn’t convinced that she likes the game because she doesn’t understand it LOL so I took it from her hands and start playing it and let her watch and she’s like OK well I’m done with this LOL

  • @seanlaffey3633
    @seanlaffey3633 4 года назад +367

    I remember first being confused about the concept of “L3” on a controller as a kid. Great video!

    • @somebodylikesbacon1960
      @somebodylikesbacon1960 4 года назад +3

      I really like the system for the L and R kinds of buttons. I play mostly Nintendo still even though I like PlayStation button names better. L, R, ZL, and ZR work fine.

    • @sirjoey3137
      @sirjoey3137 4 года назад +4

      I think I only understood what L3 and R3 was when I was 13 or something.

    • @xelith6157
      @xelith6157 4 года назад +1

      I've been playing pc games all my life and as a gamer even I was confused when I picked up the PS4 controller last year. I thought I would never get used to it.

    • @markbergin8821
      @markbergin8821 4 года назад +6

      My uncles copy of Tom Clancy splinter cell on PS2, during tutorial level I had to press L3 to lean against a wall. Spent half an hour pressing L1 and L2 at the same time, thinking that L3 was just the two of them combined.
      Gave up and never got past the tutorial...

    • @OrderedEntropy
      @OrderedEntropy 4 года назад +2

      I guess my approach as a kid was different I got introduced at 2,5ish my step dad at the time was an avid gamer and my mother played arcade style games and mini game style games with him (eg racing games, or button mashers) and he wanted to let me try and just gave the controller. I've been told my first instinct was to squeeze the entire controller to hear everything clickable and movable and then just started playing. After a few simple games he gave me ocarina of time and didn't help me other than translating the English to dutch so my 2,5 yr old brain understood. (also setting the basis for my english which later booklets and walkthroughs would improve. And contrary to this guys wife having a linear mindset the first ever thing I figured out in OOT was where the way to go was (the big open hole for sure XD) and not go there and instead broke all grass since I said to my stepdad in real life I also find stuff in bushes. It seems the linear thinking is an adult thing focus on a thing instead of a whole. I found myself trying to glitch through places at that age without knowing what a glitch was. And like this situation my stepdad wouldnt tell me anything. By the time I could read a bit at 3 years old I started trying to read the english booklets and playing solo (I thought english felt similar to dutch and I am very glad I had that idea XD by 7 I spoke english ofcourse the basis of my stepdad translating OOT a year prior probably helped.

  • @taylerduvall8102
    @taylerduvall8102 3 месяца назад +2

    This was put together so well!

  • @dillondavis9631
    @dillondavis9631 3 месяца назад +2

    Good on you for having patience in the experiment without wanting to just intervene with every mistake. I dont have that kind of patience.

  • @UltraNerdyGamer
    @UltraNerdyGamer 4 года назад +38034

    There’s something quite funny to me about forcing someone to play Portal as an experiment.

    • @McSenkel
      @McSenkel 4 года назад +3299

      So meta.

    • @CelestialDraconis
      @CelestialDraconis 4 года назад +2939

      An experiment within an experiment. EXPERICEPTION.

    • @etaxalo
      @etaxalo 4 года назад +662

      Now reading that comment actually i want to try that.

    • @chileanguyfleegman1908
      @chileanguyfleegman1908 4 года назад +271

      hahaha very good observation.

    • @astrithaurelia
      @astrithaurelia 4 года назад +213

      it's called irony :P

  • @Null_Experis
    @Null_Experis 4 года назад +348

    "spend free time doing something that frustrates you so you can succeed and feel good"
    Congratulations, you just described living.

    • @razbuten
      @razbuten  4 года назад +57

      this...hurts.

    • @cursedkarmastudiosllc9198
      @cursedkarmastudiosllc9198 4 года назад +9

      @@razbuten But its not wrong though......

    • @evo683
      @evo683 4 года назад +9

      CursedKarmaStudios LLC yeah, but it paints a weird picture of life. I think the bad parts of life are just as important as the good parts personally.

    • @cursedkarmastudiosllc9198
      @cursedkarmastudiosllc9198 4 года назад +2

      @@evo683 ehhhh somewhat. most suffering is caused by greed.

    • @SpeedfreakUK
      @SpeedfreakUK 4 года назад +4

      @@cursedkarmastudiosllc9198 nnnnnnnnno, most suffering is caused by mere existence. it isn't the greed of the desert that burns your skin, dehydrates and starves you.

  • @Kordikk696
    @Kordikk696 3 месяца назад +2

    thank you for this video. I have also questioned my relationship with games and came with a conclusion that I’ve become a gamer because I wanted to escape real life. I do not want to do that anymore, so I need games and time I spend playing them to reflect that.

  • @ChildNightmare
    @ChildNightmare 4 месяца назад +2

    "The lady i live with" is just so funny to me with the context that your married

  • @CarthagoMike
    @CarthagoMike 4 года назад +1214

    You should have let her play *"Getting over it"*
    Then it would truely be _'why my wife left me'._

    • @eclipsedninja1346
      @eclipsedninja1346 4 года назад +55

      Getting over why the woman I lived with left me

    • @Moss_Dude
      @Moss_Dude 4 года назад +24

      uH acTuALly IT's CalLEd GeTtINg OveR iT wiTH beNNeTt FoddY

    • @Apastorfield
      @Apastorfield 4 года назад +2

      @@Moss_Dude that doesnt work if you're the only one saying it. Please learn to meme. You're a lefty arent you?

    • @Antonio00213
      @Antonio00213 4 года назад +1

      Alexander Martens u only do that when ur mocking someone

    • @Moss_Dude
      @Moss_Dude 4 года назад +19

      @@Apastorfield I was doing a sarcastic "but actually" as a joke, Jesus.

  • @annanonya
    @annanonya 4 года назад +342

    i'm still like this and struggle sometimes with what to do next if a game involves puzzles etc. I was sheltered as a kid and my parents didn't like spending money on video games, so basically when i turned 18 i was finally able to afford them myself and I'm still learning.

    • @mind-of-neo
      @mind-of-neo 4 года назад +11

      Literally exactly the SAMEE

    • @pidgeongguk8818
      @pidgeongguk8818 4 года назад +32

      my mum was one of those people that didn't want them in the house because 'they brought in negative energy'

    • @cenketsu
      @cenketsu 4 года назад +33

      my stepmom wouldn't allow me to play games cuz "they're for boys" so I had to play strictly flash games and shit I can "smuggle in". When I had my first console my step sister stole it saying "i'm not old enough to be playing console games". Now i'm older and though I at-least have some concept of what to do in games, I am nothing compared to ALL of my friends. It's like ive never touched a single video game in my life. At least I can say i'm super high ranked in most fps (cuz they all boost me to play with them!)

    • @skyexraine
      @skyexraine 4 года назад +29

      Just remember to be kind to yourself. You do not need to be the best at playing video games, and if you get stuck and have trouble passing an obstacle it is normal! We all battle that.

    • @galaxysilver69
      @galaxysilver69 4 года назад +12

      @@cenketsu excuse me but your step sister must return your console to you.

  • @p3r1shg4m1ng
    @p3r1shg4m1ng 4 месяца назад +2

    let her play Minecraft, there is nothing she would think of doing that she can't

  • @sageoffire3964
    @sageoffire3964 4 года назад +334

    "Don't force someone to sit through a game that clearly frustrates them just for an experiment."
    Me: HEY MOM!!!! I NEED YOUR HELP WITH SOME.................science homework?

  • @SushiReversed
    @SushiReversed 4 года назад +1966

    "and...Dark Souls"
    Me: **concern**

    • @commie_dog_boy
      @commie_dog_boy 4 года назад +29

      I feel isaac wouldve been a nightmare as well just because of the sheer number of items

    • @owlblocksdavid4955
      @owlblocksdavid4955 4 года назад +25

      I had hoped he would say Europa Universalis IV.

    • @darrylferguson3622
      @darrylferguson3622 4 года назад

      I was going to suggest Dead Space as the next game to try, but that is a better idea

    • @HaohmaruHL
      @HaohmaruHL 4 года назад +12

      Actually I think it would be easier to play dark souls for a person who doesn't play video games because the mind is blank in that aspect and she would suck in the information like a sponge. Compared to if she'd already played tons of action games and that would only get in the way when trying to learn a souls game mechanics

    • @robertchmielecki2580
      @robertchmielecki2580 4 года назад +7

      Yeah, despite admittedly trying different types and genres, all the games are arcade, dexterity based. Those games which rely on things other than quick reactions were omitted totally. Turn based strategies, RPGs, tycoons can very often attract attention of non-gamers who consider action games silly in a way many people consider action movies silly compared to more intelectual ones.
      Nice video, though!

  • @zaksylvester3871
    @zaksylvester3871 5 месяцев назад +2

    What's the game at 19:37 ?

  • @sashamakeev7547
    @sashamakeev7547 5 месяцев назад +2

    A lot of non-gamer people for some reason are afraid to just try things out, just press the buttons, look what they do. Literally nothing bad can happen if you do that. And it shows even outside the gaming sphere of things.
    A lot of times they ask me to help figure something out with electronics and stuff. And i dont know how it works either but i just try things out and it just works out. Why cant they do that. Thats beyond my understanding.
    Or even more - they refuse to just read what is on the screen. Like it literally says what you're supposed to do if you want this or that. I have to go and ask them "what does it say on screen?" "yeah, so what do you need to press?" "yeah"

    • @eneco3965
      @eneco3965 4 месяца назад

      It's odd to see people figure out controls by mashing buttons. The first thing I do when I launch a game is fiddle with all the settings, including controls. I find that the defaults don't suit me so I change them for every game. I don't understand why people launch games and immediately start a new game.

  • @remuvs
    @remuvs 4 года назад +308

    It’s actually so cute how she tried using the barrel to destroy hive thing in Doom. But it does make sense to think that though.

    • @redgamr27
      @redgamr27 4 года назад +32

      Makes more sense than to rip out its heart...

    • @pizzatime8917
      @pizzatime8917 4 года назад +10

      @@redgamr27 not when playing as the doomslayer lol

    • @redgamr27
      @redgamr27 4 года назад +4

      @@pizzatime8917 To be fair tho... ive never played doom

    • @pizzatime8917
      @pizzatime8917 4 года назад +2

      @@redgamr27 oh ok

    • @alienrenders
      @alienrenders 4 года назад +4

      I'm a old gamer and I tried using the barrel as well. I gave up on Doom. It's really weird because I wasted an awful lot of time on the first two Doom's. But the 2016 one I just couldn't care less.

  • @TheOnlyNemoron
    @TheOnlyNemoron 3 года назад +1085

    How to learn the controls of the game: Press every button and see what it does.

    • @CRAM079
      @CRAM079 3 года назад +38

      Well thats why I would tell people. I wouldnt help them, but I would tell them to explor their controller to learn how buttons work, if at all.

    • @Haphephobic
      @Haphephobic 3 года назад +67

      Or, go to the menu, and press ‘CONTROLS’ or GENERAL > CONTROLS

    • @TheOnlyNemoron
      @TheOnlyNemoron 3 года назад +31

      @@Haphephobic Yeah, but that's the advanced way. You will only know it once you have explored the options or wanted to rebind a key.

    • @RagingInsomniac
      @RagingInsomniac 3 года назад +10

      Kids: its show time

    • @rxmiree
      @rxmiree 3 года назад

      yes!

  • @kornelparoczai1763
    @kornelparoczai1763 5 месяцев назад +2

    Can't blame her for being bad with a controller. use a keyboard you crazy people

    • @Hollow_Tim
      @Hollow_Tim 5 месяцев назад +2

      Uhh no? Controller is better for everything except First Person games.

    • @flyingorange2482
      @flyingorange2482 4 месяца назад

      As someone who plays in a controller since little, I hate playing with keyboard lmao

  • @TheTSense
    @TheTSense 5 месяцев назад +2

    When I got my mom to start up Fallout 3 that was... something. You can make fun of games for treating people like idiots "hur hur press spacebar to jump" but this woman couldn't figure out moving and looking around. Opening up the SPECIAL book was right out.
    Really taught me something about how much is learned and how little is just natural. Something, anything can be easy and obvious to you, but out of the world for someone else. To me it is like using a fork, but to them it is like flying a spaceship blindfolded.

  • @xcreeseseater38
    @xcreeseseater38 3 года назад +303

    this is adorable. attacking money bags thinking their enemies LOL

    • @Pete_Finch
      @Pete_Finch 3 года назад +4

      Simultaneously one of the cutest and most hilarious things I've heard in a long time

    • @Zamoksva
      @Zamoksva 3 года назад +10

      they're

  • @linhhoang1363
    @linhhoang1363 4 года назад +1074

    This reminds me. Some games DO instruct gamers use mouse to look around.
    And there i thought how riddiculous that instruction was for. Now i know. Respect to those mindful developers...

    • @frischifrisch6860
      @frischifrisch6860 4 года назад +23

      _Halo_ did ... and was smiled at for that, but not in a good way. Although the controller *(or Mouse)* was even offered to be inverted. *Try to find that an a modern console game ;-)*

    • @Celine.G.
      @Celine.G. 4 года назад +23

      yeah. I remember playing age of empires II for the first time. it showed you how to pic a unit, how to pic more than one unit an the same time and which mouse button you had to clic to make them move. I was 8 or so and had already played tzar a lot, without any tutorial. so I already knew how it worked and I remember thinking how stupid the tutorial in AoEII was. but now, seeing this video, I understand.

    • @MrHaVoKeR
      @MrHaVoKeR 4 года назад +5

      cmon she never watched him playing games in a computer? or anyone? you ALWAYS use mouse in a computer, wtf, thats just stupid

    • @aidanschofield2743
      @aidanschofield2743 4 года назад +27

      @@MrHaVoKeR It may surprise you to know this, but the earliest first person shooters didn't use a mouse to look, they had tank controls. Mouse makes sense to people that play games because mouse is for pointing but it's not like a crosshair looks exactly like a cursor.

    • @BVoshol
      @BVoshol 4 года назад +20

      @@MrHaVoKeR Honestly, I had issues and I watched my husband play a lot of video games. If you're watching someone play that knows how, it looks like magic and you can't easily parse out what is doing what.
      Also, learning how to look around and not be awful at it is really hard!

  • @Molandria
    @Molandria 5 месяцев назад +2

    6:40 yeah, that is why I am so strongly against these "Tutorials" that just put HUGE Text boxes at you, with tons of info. You wont' retain it unless you are very experienced and already know/guess most of it.

  • @branded_cookies8656
    @branded_cookies8656 5 месяцев назад +2

    Ngl wife sounds like a cool person. Judging on her actions 17:32

  • @1InVader1
    @1InVader1 4 года назад +14916

    Him: "Here, this is Portal. Let's play it!"
    Her: "ok..."
    Her: *doesn't use the mouse*
    Him, furiously scribbling notes: "Mmhm... Fascinating."

    • @ChibiQilin
      @ChibiQilin 4 года назад +1709

      Her: This is kinda hard...
      Him: But think of the cake we can enjoy after these experiments

    • @UNSCPILOT
      @UNSCPILOT 4 года назад +540

      Glad she got to play DOOM too, everyone should enjoy the feeling of being the terror that everyone *ELSE* is locked in a room with, it's so much fun

    • @darer13
      @darer13 4 года назад +54

      @@UNSCPILOT have you played warframe??

    • @UNSCPILOT
      @UNSCPILOT 4 года назад +53

      @@darer13 MM, now there is a movement system on another level, and yeah, I have around 3500 hours in Warframe XD

    • @darer13
      @darer13 4 года назад +13

      @@UNSCPILOT Damn. Im burnt out on 1400 hours :/

  • @em97c
    @em97c 4 года назад +300

    It's really charming and amazing how creative her solutions were (like the barrel in Doom) and it shows me how much my preconceptions about video games limit my own imagination

    • @brandonden795
      @brandonden795 3 года назад +14

      It's funny, everything I've ever tried that I thought would be the cool way to solve something in a game was laughably wrong so I've learned to be cynical towards cratively solving problems. Like not even going anywhere close to a piece of terrain to climb that doesn't have a button prompt on it

    • @kyon2221
      @kyon2221 3 года назад +12

      @@brandonden795 or just have a "this idea I thought of is too good and creative for a videogame in 2020" mentality. Just like any things or concepts that are too good to be true happens to be fake or disappoints you. For short, keep your expectations lower.

    • @daniel-fich
      @daniel-fich 3 года назад +2

      I think I had that problem while playing Breath of the Wild. Most of the time I found myself defeating enemies the easy way rather than looking for a more creative solution.

  • @gabec3993
    @gabec3993 5 месяцев назад +2

    This is also different person to person, but there is a exploratory drive for active gamers. We play games because of the novel features they have and exploring controls for the games is part of the process. A good chunk of gamers are very good at visualizing 3D space, holding onto a lot of information at the same time and multitasking the controls. Although all of these can be trained and practiced, a lot were already good at them which is why they get a head start in game mechanics.
    For me, I like game and got into them because they were easy for me. Being good at a game right at the beginning is a big reason I continued playing.

  • @mjimmeye22
    @mjimmeye22 5 месяцев назад +2

    “The lady I live with” sounds like he’s talking about his mom lol

  • @austinblair7901
    @austinblair7901 4 года назад +44261

    Before dark souls: “My wife”
    After dark souls: “The lady I live with”

    • @ziq9250
      @ziq9250 4 года назад +3893

      *lived

    • @jkenney6879
      @jkenney6879 4 года назад +824

      Ianoodin that was barely English but I think I agree?

    • @smwfreak1647
      @smwfreak1647 4 года назад +198

      Lmao you guys are funny

    • @henrykb.7808
      @henrykb.7808 4 года назад +1242

      @Ianoodin
      That was the whole point of the experiment:
      How she plays the game without any help.
      I'm pretty sure he answered most of her questions afterwarda

    • @xLuis89x
      @xLuis89x 4 года назад +64

      @Ianoodin you are a fkin "genius" lol

  • @usernametaken9538
    @usernametaken9538 4 года назад +297

    wanted to show my dad portal
    this was awful to watch but when he finished he said that he liked the game
    I'm proud

    • @childrenofthesun471
      @childrenofthesun471 4 года назад +2

      Łokieć pięta nie ma klienta. Gitara siema.

    • @deviltriggers
      @deviltriggers 4 года назад +12

      *when i showed my dad portal, he walked into a portal and never appeared again*

  • @heitorreis4051
    @heitorreis4051 5 месяцев назад +2

    Really really great quality video. I don't usually comment any videos but I loved this one so I had to. It has purpose, development, holds my interest and most of all brings a new way for me (a videogame player) to understand how people don't find games fascinating as I (or, I guess, "as we") do. Thanks for the content

  • @Eagervul
    @Eagervul 7 месяцев назад +2

    This was extremely amusing and extremely educational. Loved watching it!

  • @nathanoliveros2198
    @nathanoliveros2198 4 года назад +1788

    Image the relief she would feel if he had her play animal crossing

    • @MultiRv90
      @MultiRv90 4 года назад +230

      @Napo ski Its also for chads. Dafuq u talking about?

    • @milesprower6110
      @milesprower6110 4 года назад +35

      @Napo ski pfff, never heard the "gotta catch'em all"?

    • @SorenTheDaneTiktok
      @SorenTheDaneTiktok 4 года назад +2

      @Napo ski XD Okay

    • @trevor0078
      @trevor0078 4 года назад +68

      Miles Prower Pokémon would have been actually a great game for her to play! Imo the games that more child friendly r the ones non-gamers should start off with as there keeping in mind a more basic mindset

    • @milesprower6110
      @milesprower6110 4 года назад +3

      @@trevor0078 why to me? x'D
      also, i see at Animal Crossing as a game where you need to collect all kind of neightbords (sadly not at the same time)

  • @screamingphoenix8113
    @screamingphoenix8113 3 года назад +292

    God. That L3 thing hits so close to home for me. I remember when I was playing NBA Street 2, and there was an ability to throw a basketball against the backboard, catch it, and dunk it. I thought this was the coolest thing, but you had to press L3 and R3 to do it. I just knew it had something to do with the thumbsticks. So everytime I went for a dunk I just beat the everyloving shit out of my thumbsticks and hoped for the best. I broke my controller.

    • @spiroblade1781
      @spiroblade1781 3 года назад +2

      Lol. Hope you got a new one

    • @toothfairy10133
      @toothfairy10133 3 года назад +2

      i was taught that one by my cousin, he has an xbox while im solely a pc gamer, i played minecraft at his house a couple of times and got very frustrated with the complexity of the controller.

    • @rollingbecks7047
      @rollingbecks7047 3 года назад +1

      Happened to me with gta san andreas, I thought I needed to press L1+L2 to get the command haha.

    • @mikuenjoyerXD
      @mikuenjoyerXD 2 года назад

      My first experience with 'hidden buttons' was with the DS back buttons. I was playing Kirby and I figured out that if you press the back buttons then it lets Kirby guard and you take less damage.

    • @Brunoo18
      @Brunoo18 2 года назад

      I remember playing SNES and not knowing R and L exists.

  • @CreetEnemyDK
    @CreetEnemyDK 2 дня назад +1

    sometimes i forget that new peoples exist

  • @Poecreate
    @Poecreate 16 дней назад +1

    I find this super interesting, right now I'm coaching my girlfriend through Elden Ring and I love it, everything said here is 100% true, now I have had here playing more games recently so comfortability with the controller isn't really that much of an issue anymore, but in all honesty this may sound crazy but I really believe fromsoft games are some of the best games for a person to start with, as they have very concrete controls, everything is made for you to at least understand the basics, and with someone in your ear to coach you, its a really steady experience in learning a lot of core gaming mechanics and trends such as timing, patience, traversal, how to use the camera and when to do certain things or think a certain way, like seeing her gradual progression of now being able to switch between weapons and lock on and use the camera flawlessly without me saying anything is awesome, it's a work in progress ofc cause she's new but seeing this progression is amazing, reminds me of when I was starting video games, and the best thing in my opinion about it is being "bad" in the souls games is something that is generally supported by the community, you don't feel as "bad" because everyone is dying

  • @itsJustpickle
    @itsJustpickle 4 года назад +4567

    “I was a silent observer”
    Me: How do i attain such power?

    • @PatrickAllenNL
      @PatrickAllenNL 4 года назад +186

      Ikr. Without laughing or dying from cringe hence why resl gamers are single virgins

    • @th3whynot
      @th3whynot 4 года назад +89

      Not from a Jedi

    • @dr_hellcat_6664
      @dr_hellcat_6664 4 года назад +136

      itsJustpickle backseat gaming is not hard to deal with, but.. when the player really sucks you can’t help yourself At ALL

    • @mexican-americanmale3035
      @mexican-americanmale3035 4 года назад +40

      Find a woman that will live with you.

    • @nullpoint3346
      @nullpoint3346 4 года назад +26

      @@mexican-americanmale3035
      Hmm, that might actually work.

  • @ethaniandragoneel7813
    @ethaniandragoneel7813 4 года назад +267

    "I just watched, silently judging."
    Me @ my friends tbh

  • @JeremyMaldonadoSTK
    @JeremyMaldonadoSTK Месяц назад +1

    Oh my god this video was so cute, i definitely have to try something similar with my family

  • @otrenigmaandy7443
    @otrenigmaandy7443 Месяц назад +1

    I love Rocket League!!

  • @zappbrannigan4170
    @zappbrannigan4170 4 года назад +922

    "Thought the bags of gold were enemies" lol thats hilarious.

    • @DiegoRuiz1991
      @DiegoRuiz1991 4 года назад +17

      I haven't played Shovel Knight and I have TWO questions:
      · Why can you recuperate the gold?
      · Why the fuck does it fly?

    • @zappbrannigan4170
      @zappbrannigan4170 4 года назад +16

      Its actually a cool idea to put an enemy in a game that looks like a reward to psych out the player. Like mimics in dark souls.

    • @PinkPandaKatie
      @PinkPandaKatie 4 года назад +6

      To be fair, that's how it works in Hollow Knight. I played Shovel Knight before I played Hollow Knight. So, the first time I died, I lost all my Geo and assumed that the shade worked the same way, and I just jumped into it and was surprised when I got damaged by it! I didn't know I had to attack it to get my Geo back.

    • @Nooneishere777
      @Nooneishere777 4 года назад +1

      @johnny bravo, maybe she thought that the money bags worked like mimic chests in dark souls. I would of probably though the same thing if I never played games.

    • @sloth9210
      @sloth9210 4 года назад +1

      420 likes