The Proof That He Feels Emotional Intimacy When He’s With You
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- Опубликовано: 4 янв 2021
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Men who can communicate beyond sexual needs are praiseworthy gentleman
A man actively pursues what he wants with no ambiguity and in no uncertain terms. Mixed signals is the equivalent of a NO, ladies. Move on and don’t (continue to) waste your own time.
probably right
Wish someone told me that before I had to realize from experience
👏🎯exactly
Well, I'm too tired sometimes when she pulls back so it is natural fot thr man to not be specific.
Yes 100% men really are this simple.
If he takes you out , spends his money , prays for you , fights and comes back , do dumb things because it makes you happy He loves you. Mine only fought with me.
Easy, don’t sleep with him quickly. That’s how I made my boyfriend fall in love and trust me I spent a lot of time praying to meet someone like him
How long did u make him wait sis? is 6 months good enough
Natasha Kalyan Until he commits! I’m going though this now for the first time in my dating life. If you want different you have to move different
@@Kweenb86 so true!
@@indianprincess98, after tying the knot.
U are very right. You don't have to be too vulnerable to him. Don't act like you need him. Just don't be so cheap.
That’s so true. Little moments give it away. I had a lightbulb moment when I was talking about films with a man who I was not yet dating, but just working with, and we got talking about the films that always made us cry. I told him mine and he went and watched it that afternoon, just to see what it was that effected me so much. He told me how he felt a couple of months later. There are good ones around, promise!
I think men get really nervous when the woman he has been chasing starts paying attention to him too
Their insecurities come alive and they worry about being good enough
This is actually true. It's a weird thing how a guy can have so much confidence when he thinks that he doesn't actually have a chance with anyone he likes. Things get scary when he realizes he might actually have something to lose.
But this is short-lived so if you really like him just stick with him and he'll get back to feeling comfortable soon : ) actually more confident after all is said and done.
So men are basically a childish version of women
@@timefliesaway999 If that's how you wanna look at that then that's fine.
It's not always that way, but if it's not then it's possible he doesn't like you that much. I think it's natural to be nervous around someone you like, and we all have insecurities. I think also when we're looking for a life partner one of the things we value is compassion, and for the space to be transparent. So I think, even subconsciously, it's a part of the process to let our guard down a bit to see if this person is able to help build us up and not further tear us down. No one is a finished product and if we feel like we're better off continuing to work on ourselves and our confidence on our own, then that's going to be a turn off.
@@bipolard00d17 wdym? I never mentioned a man liking me or me liking a man... also never said that he might be nervous around me or anything?!
Maybe you answered to a wrong channel?!
@@timefliesaway999 But why did you watch this video then? Lol
Why am i checking this?
I dont even have a man😩
Knowledge for when you do!! 🤗
Saaaaame sis 😩
😁
Dell Chica ... me either. Lol
Same 🤣😂🤦♀️
If he provides protects and profess to others about you, he is a keeper.
You’ve perfectly explained the dating experience of single women. Men only agree to casual sex first “then see how things go”. I know this dude is trying to help inform and educate about men’s behaviour however after 12 months attempting to date online, needing to connect with someone sexually first is beyond problematic and quite shallow and dangerous.
Men who wants to wait before sex is highly praiseworthy and honourable!
I’m sooo glad you mentioned all the effort some men may put in, just to obtain “Option A”. That’s not talked about enough! I have a man in my life who does all the listening, making me happy, chasing me, overcoming obstacles, caring about my life and comfort, etc... JUST to have the chance for “Option A” with me. And for years that threw me in for a loop because his actions were that of a person who loved someone!
That’s a bit crazy, isn’t? I mean what type of guy does that? Not a very honest one I think
yeah I've met two of this type of men. Fortunately while I was still rather young (early 20s) so it kinda make me wiser now & save a lot of pointless dating. But of course, women who never experience this would never believe there are men who would go to such extent of being a "husband material" just to sleep with us & accuse me of being negative (or I was at fault for my past relationship) whenever I advice them to always have some doubts on men they're dating. Turned up I always right.
@@yvasquez2449 all the men do that with their girlfriend until they find the one.. because this is the best option they have AT that moment.
Boyfriend means for a woman that he IS a candidate for marriage
Girlfriend means for men a way to have sex on a regular basis. That's all.
it’s never happened to me and that’s because i cut off all guys who i sense just want to talk to me to keep me as an option. women need to tap into their intuition more. it will help save us from these type of men. stay grounded in yourself and feel the energy in your body. you will know when the guy is just trying to keep you as an option. also the way they react when you reject them for it is so funny😂.
This!! So true.
No matter what I'm doing I always stop when Brian Nox uploads a video. They are always amazing and so informative. Thankyou Brian xx
I met a man last year who put in an amazing amount of effort for Option A. When I realized this, and told him flat out I was leaving him be (and not giving him Option A at all), he ghosted and I never heard from him again. 😂
Thank him for that. He did you a favor. Now there’s space for someone better focused on the wonder of you.
@@sweetsue4204 He certainly did. He actually ended up pursuing my co-worker, and that did not end well at all.
Whst if sex came on the wedding night then years later it is found out that spouse A was actually gay and using spouse B? There is no perfect science even when ypur partner claims to believe in God and prays with you.
I'm opposite I want to sleep with him fast to see if I'm even bothered to go any further. If the sex doesn't work from the start then I wont be emotionally interested. Haven't we all tried to be all in love first and then sleeping with them makes you fall out of love quicker than anything. Such a waste of time. Must have been so sad in the old days were people would marry first and then find out they were completely incompatible in bed.
hahaah i love your alpha female atttitude and i freaking agree with you, since when must men have the all the choices and priorities?!!?
If it’s all you know I guess you can’t complain.
I feel like sex is a skill and is based heavily on communication. I wouldn't leave a relationship if my sex life with my partner is mediocre, however, I do agree if you both have mass different sex drives then yes that is something that wouldn't work out.
What a scorp!
Scorpio rising here and I agree
It happened the exact way, when i was emotional the first time. I was cyring, trying to hide it, but he noticed and asked me about what happened, if he said or did something?. I was unable to talk about the problem, so i was just silent, but he continue to asking, and hugging me. He was sooo sweet, that after i felt sorry for him to worrying that much for me. After we talked about the problem, it seems it was nothing, i was just exaggerated something... but still he was so understanding and kind. I think he really loves me, and don't wants to risk loosing me.
I find that you know truly how someone feels about you by how they treat you after youve been physical with them. If they have no interest in you, they tend to phase out and stop talking to you right after being physical. If they are actually interested, they will stick around after those bedroom activities
Especially if they want more bedroom activities!
Are you kidding me? You had better know what he really thinks and feels about you long before you ever get into bed with him!
Not really. He can keep sleeping with you while he waits to get someone else
I slept with my second husband on the first date. Some men want commitment! He and I worked together and saw each other daily! We longed for each other. Sadly he wanted to control.
That person may just like having sex with you so they don't have to start a whole new relationship and also you are not high maintenance...most men like to get what they want with the least possible effort as in "Why drive to pick up a pizza when you can have it delivered"
I think it is true that there are definite signs of emotional attachment in the course of things. However, keep in mind that men, like women, can 'act' and 'put in effort' of emotional attachment, in heavy doses when they want to or initially to get into favor, but as with narcissists, this can be a way to draw you in for the 'use of you'. SO, if a person you are dating or getting to know can keep up the emotional effort with consistency for a longer period of time than say about 6-9 months, you may have the real thing. I do think you are also right about the initial period - you don't want a 'love bomber' but you want to see if he is interested in getting to know the real you, and puts in some effort there first.
Feels so hurtful. Yet this is a bit comforting.
I think Love finds us. I don't believe a person should chase after anyone to obtain it!
Seriously wish I'd known this fifty years ago.
really felt my heart beats fast while watching this vid. I'm actually dating a guy who's emotionally attached to me. And while you are talking about actions, efforts and everything, I really felt the sudden gush of my blood to my face lol
he's exactly the man you are describing! and tbh, i'm also falling for him 💙
thank you for making this amazing vid! now, i'm really decided that I will say "yes" to him soon
This is so sweet, I'm melting just thinking about him. Thank you so much for your help Brian!
Was talking to this guy who seemed to “fight” for me, I was confused by the way he’d call/msg knowing I’d tell him to kick rocks, it made me sad the way he’d politely accept defeat and try again in a couple months, I admit there were times I accepted him out of admiration for his “effort”, and questioning whether it was me just rushing things, he drove through heavy snow, rain, and even to another city and back for me, most times for company, a cuddle, and of course sex, and it was ALWAYS ALWAYS at night. There was a brief moment in the connection where he kicked it into high gear, did the things I’d been wishing him to do, it was a beautiful couple weeks and that was it. This went on and off for 2.5 years. I was so confused, what man puts in this much time and energy if he only wants sex? What man drives an hour in sleet just to hang out in the car if he doesn’t have feelings for me? It was in his eyes, I’d catch him stare at me with joy written all over his face, he started opening up to me, he loved to hold me, he’d listen to me talk and talk and talk happily. I convinced myself he was silently in love and now I’m realizing that he enjoyed me for emotional comfort. I was a safe haven, and we were definitely attached, probably just two lonely people with aligning standards, but it was going no where. I had grown to love him and hopeful for us. He had his own shit going on, he attempted to be transparent but in a masculine/logical way, I needed more clarity on feelings. Its not on him to know what’s best for me, though I wish he’d had been man enough to tell me he was unwilling/unable to give me what I deserve. I adored him and am faithful to a fault. I say this bc this video helped me realize why I misinterpreted his “effort”, I was young, still am. It was a lesson for sure.
I am somewhat in the same situation now, it absolutely baffles me the amount of effort he put at the beginning and I was just getting pulled into his indecisiveness of his feelings. I guess I have to end things and move on.
@@Sans21newthese guys may have feelings but they are just not ready. they may feel they have to work on their own self more...
Thank you for approaching this tough subject! Knowing we don’t think alike but not understanding how they think puts us at a disadvantage when you genuinely care for a man and want to know if you are being understood. You just 100% summed this up for me! Thank you! Happy New Brian and Good Luck Everyone 😊
You are amazing Brian. I so wanna give you a big hug for this 🤗
At any age, we women have a hard time understanding the mind of a male. Thanks Brian for giving us real insight into understanding men better.
Oh, thank you for this video! That's exactly what happened last week and I got option B from him and all the doubts desappeared.
This is really good! I sent this to my 2 beautiful daughters!
this is very helpful to us to determine between the Bedroom Activities & Emotional Attraction. Thank you so much Brian! what a beginning Year 2021 with your tips, lessons & being our Coach. ❤️🥂🎉
This channel is addictive . Happy new year everyone ♥️♥️
Nice to see you Brian !
Thank you very much! My heart is so full that I can’t find the words. It is a true happiness and a blessing to meet such an intelligent, wise, kind person and a professional who knows the subtleties and intricacies of the human psyche. Your advice is inestimable and much-needed, and I am very grateful to you, thank you for your work. I`ll be looking forward to new videos from you.👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
You will feel understood in that relationship. 💚 Love that. 💚
Thank you. This came just in time.
thank you for sharing! Probably your "best" video, to the point and so useful.cheers
Hey, Geert! Glad to see you upload!!!
🤭Gosh... You are so original on how you say things! Comparison are excellent. Thank you for your time and effort. Happy new year! 🎉💚😀🌴🎊
Ur advices are the best!!👍 Helps a lot Brian💐👌
I think every guys pursuing a girl is very different. They may like you in the very beginning and put a lot of efforts in a way of getting to know you better. Sometimes, guys also do afraid of getting hurt or rejection if the efforts they put in and did not receive any reciprocate/response from the girl. And then they will slowly reduce the efforts and that’s when the girl will start feeling the guy is giving them a mixed signals. I see guys and girls both are equal, if one doesn’t feel being wanted or loved, they will walk away.
Love this guy’s content
You are right, I'm glad to hear U!
Missed you 😊Happy New Year
Your readings helped me a lot
Cool learning. Thank you Brian
i just feel like it’s all so impossible and complicated. i just don’t think it’ll ever happen for me.
It will happen for you. What you think and speak becomes reality. Think positively and Manifest better for yourself in 2021. Optimism will create more awesome. I promise ☀️
I’m thinking about giving up. Imagine the feeling with the acceptance of it after the greif period. Like everything is FINE and GOOD and nothing is missing!
I know what you mean and how you feel
Tbh that seems like a limiting belief of yours. I would really look at that and try to reword it to invite possibilities into your life!
thank you for this :) you're the bestest Brian!
Happy New Year Brian!
HAPPY NEW YEAR BRIAN
First time watching your video, and am already loving your personality. Love from Nigeria 🇳🇬
Imo
Happy New Year Geert!
Love this man.
Missed your valuable help. Still Addicted to your channel! 🎉🌴🎊💚
Really relate this reading 😊Thanks!
"I wanna try not snore for at least one day in the week." I would like to hear my boyfriend say that
Thank you, this was really helpful... And confirmed my thoughts...
Thank you, this was so good..
Love your channel, got one after me, I thought I had gave up, but this guy sure has been consistent, I'm going for it, I had to subscribe to you, you tell it like it really isse, if I get married, you sure will be invited lol thanks for all you do
happy new year Brian
“In the olden days”. Those days still exist with women who value themselves.
and here we see a incel
I took it as a joke: "Waaayyyy back when telephones had cordes....."😉
@@bong_water What are you talking about?
Thanks for another insightful video!
I'll tell you what, my sweetie is NOT a track a kind of guy (thank God!) And he is definitely putting effort into our relationship.
Brian Happy New Year 🙋♀️😀❤
These are fantastic observations
Yes…Efforts to be with you and what makes you happy
He has panic attacks when I'm not around. But at times during my visit to see him, I feel I need to turn around and go home. Sometimes it feels toxic. He just dont get it.
Amazing. Totally right. My guy has gone from 'A' to 'B'. It took him nearly 4 years! xx
i like your presence in these videos
Enjoy ur explanations 😊thank you
Hope to see you too, in another video, Brian Nox. Thanks and have a great day
Very nice, thank you, would not have known this.
This really makes sense
Thank you for this
He likes to sit with me and watch tv , lay together on the sofa, I’ve never been In a relationship with a man that didn’t want to be constantly physically touching me .
He loves to give me an hug and a kiss when I get here . Then he cooks me dinner or gets us a take away . ❤
❤ Nice
Love your videos ☺️. Can you do more videos on online/distant relationships? Especially now during COVID lockdown.
The guy I am dating snores. It’s not extremely loud so I think it’s 🥰 cute.
Thank you so much 🙏👏
My partner still have chemistry for me and after 40 years he wants me even more
Nice ... It's All About Efforts By Given A Real Man Towards His Only Woman In His Life🙂👍❤️
Thats true don't give it up un he's ready to commit.
mooi Geert , dank u
I love your videos they always make so much sense. I believe you are bringing a new book out....when will it be coming out and what will it be called?
Thank you, love your videos ☺️
A great video as always! Short and to the point! 🙂
I could really use your advice Brian!😭.. Long distance connection..talked almost everyday for 9 months hes recently divorced I visited him in texas last month around my bday. He got me gifts. We had an argument night before I left. We talked about it said we were good. When I went home he was hot cold. Few days later he said it waa the argument that he was being distant. I was so confused. Now he said hes going thru something and is drained. I call him NYE. He mesaaged next day and said he will call. Still nothing. I dream of him all the time even when we were talking before I visited and 1 of my dreams came true. I do love this guy. I'm lost and being patient. Truly trying to keep myself strong.
He has a girlfriend/wife
@@bluelotus1363 he doesnt.
@@ninachicana he does. If he is hot and cold...he doesn’t want you really.
Brian I really like your RUclips videos. You make a lot of sense and you say it quickly which is wonderful and very clearly and easily understood. Thanks so much for this which is another great video and keep posting them up for us ladies! One question I have for you I believe that men very rarely if ever can be a friend to a woman without having ulterior motives, can you tell me your belief on that?
Don't need proof, he tells me every time. 😊
I'm trying to understand myself but I find myself overwhelmed and overthinking over the men that come into my life. I'm always left guessing and in my head. Reallly I just need someone to make effort and to not leave me out in the cold. It takes time but I need to be open to giving and receiving love in general.
I'm trying and I'm being patient
Good advice
Your videos give much value! Thanks! Also, do u do 1:1 coaching?
Ohh my God!! He likes me ... 😊♥️
Afther 5 months of dating he became a big of an asshole one night and i confronted him with his behavior .. first he was aweful and really tried 2 put me down! So i left! And stayed away!! He started texting me ... i didnt send anything back.. and afther some days he wanted 2 talk.. again i was like "fuck off"!
In those weeks he understood what he did and he really showed me his softer side.. he opened up 2 me and now we are happy 2 gether and he is giving me all the respect a woman deserves and i give him all my love (in a healthy way)
It so worth it 2 respect yourself and never let a man bring you down!!
Genius!
Effort 👍
Enjoyed a lot 😂💓👌
I surely get my person I believe it
Awesome ❤️
Thank you
So beautiful and true ...what if u both like but its a rebound but u both wana be friends forever
I have a question for you, Brian Nox.
Do you not find it to be a generalization that you say, men can sleep with a woman, and still remain friends? I’ve seen women do this same thing, and hearing others verbalize these generalizations, puts me at unease, since it’s this kind of divide that breeds the toxic mindset of, well “boys will be boys “ and only have a “one track mind “ I don’t think all women are emotional creatures and that all men are disassociated from feeling. I think we should refrain from those types of stereotypes, don’t you think? All else aside, I think your videos are informative and well thought out.
YES, this is happening to me right now :( This guy at work is sending mix signals and i feel lost like he does these little things that no one else does like making sure i'm safe, I'm looking after my health etc. but he wants me to find another guy on this dating app, and to tell him when i go on the date, day, time etc.
Girl unless you’re ready to deal with the heartache don’t pursue anything until he’s been clear with what he wants. Same thing happened to me. Guy at work put in the effort for five months. First time we hung out at my place as "friends” he even said I should check out other people on dating apps and tried to sleep with me at the end of the night. Said he’s moving closer so he could start walking home with me three times when I didn’t even ask or bring it up. The moment I gave in he was pulling away and one day (two months later) was like hey I hope we don’t text like this anymore cause I like someone else and I’m like, “What...?"
@@mindytaylor4950 Which is why i only talk with him when must at work and focusing on moving career from retail and into Security. Yeah, he still wants to hang out after work when the weather gets better as i owe him a race so he says and he's still protective over me, which is cute. I'm still new to all this with guys as i'm 30 this year and never had anyone.
@@mindytaylor4950 😀
I read the story for you...guy is cute, so attentive but make no move to a relationship, actually encourages you to find a date? it is because he is not thinking about a relationship with you, sorry to say but he only wants bedroom activities...the true is just because a guy is not in love with you doesn’t mean he can’t be cute. They often are when they realise you like it and gets results with you
Run. Sounds creepy to me.
I had a FWB and we didn't really make eye contact until the last day we saw each other...crazy but I felt him getting feelings and I think he felt the same because he blocked me the day after lmao..oh well