Case Study: Why So Many Black Women Are Choosing To Be Apart Of “The BabyMomma Culture?”

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  • Опубликовано: 26 авг 2024
  • #blackwomen #babymomma #delulu 
     let’s start using our critical thinking skills why do we put ourselves in situations that our clown behavior that makes us lose ourselves and lose our self-worth in the process of just trying to be liked by someone outside of ourselves. Black women need to love themselves enough to not make themselves a girlfriend. Being a girlfriend at yo big age is a stupid thing to do. what’s the benefit in the end?
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Комментарии • 71

  • @antinatalistwitch111
    @antinatalistwitch111 Месяц назад +62

    Because the feeling of being unloved. So, instead of searching for peace within, they are willing to settle for crumbs.

  • @Venusbeauty1111
    @Venusbeauty1111 Месяц назад +22

    Black women need self-love it’s just sad…I get second hand embarrassment as a black woman. It’s so bad that to everyone in the world looking at us they already assume we’re single baby mothers by pookies and ray-rays.

  • @Prismatic9008
    @Prismatic9008 Месяц назад +19

    There's so much being glorified in our music, the media, our families. Being a ride or die, visiting your man in prison, carrying his child even though he has a million kids he's already not taking care of, so much more. Some may only think that that life is all that is out there for them. Proximity has a lot to do with it as well. I'll pass on all that mess. I'm too selfish and love it 😂

  • @jane-ud4ub
    @jane-ud4ub Месяц назад +24

    The real problem is when the dad doesn't want to step up and be the father to his child(ren) and then all of the women around a.k.a "the village" grandma, auntie, sister, cousin, niece, bestfriend etc... are EXPECTED to pick up HIS slack. No ma'am.

  • @68re852
    @68re852 Месяц назад +17

    Women want that struggle love. 😂

  • @knockofftasty9693
    @knockofftasty9693 Месяц назад +18

    I’m not having a baby but I’m definitely not having a baby unwed because they already talking about me I might as well be married

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  Месяц назад +17

      Why be single with kids when you can be single without?😂

    • @narcshatetheylovemenhtlm3627
      @narcshatetheylovemenhtlm3627 Месяц назад +1

      Just chunk it up to a dumb world 👌🏾🗣️ you ain’t doing nothing wrong. Keep your morals and never lower your standards 🫶🏽🫶🏽

    • @Coco_xoxo
      @Coco_xoxo Месяц назад

      No frrr

  • @LiamODonovan-l6e
    @LiamODonovan-l6e Месяц назад +32

    Women are definitely pressured into having kid's they don't get the same respect as childfree men you are always interesting

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  Месяц назад +27

      Women have to step into their own power!

    • @LiamODonovan-l6e
      @LiamODonovan-l6e Месяц назад +4

      @@TeraChantelle women are as powerful as any man

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  Месяц назад +6

      @@LiamODonovan-l6eit’s called Mother Earth for a reason!

    • @LiamODonovan-l6e
      @LiamODonovan-l6e Месяц назад

      @TeraChantelle love you're channel sweetheart

    • @SuperSpectrom
      @SuperSpectrom Месяц назад +2

      Childfree men are looked at as weird once they get too old. People begin weaving stories about why that man isn't with someone or why he doesn't have kids. Very few men can get away from this stigma. I think people look at celebrities too closely. Talk to a man above a certain age and ask him if he has ever gotten weird stories about why he's without children. Especially, if he has appealing phenotypes that women are attracted too.

  • @lovechildheart6905
    @lovechildheart6905 Месяц назад +15

    Pookies and Ray Ray's as I mentioned before, are good for one thing. You're not supposed to get caught up with them like that and for sure don't get pregnant by them. 😂

  • @MySunshine234
    @MySunshine234 Месяц назад +40

    Every day I’m thankful I’m still a virgin

    • @prnst4r
      @prnst4r Месяц назад +14

      Gotta love the 4b movement. I have been a part of it my whole life before it even became a movement.

    • @hotkisshoney
      @hotkisshoney Месяц назад

      Same! 24 years old. 🥰💃🏾

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu Месяц назад +3

      Same so proud of you sis

    • @MySunshine234
      @MySunshine234 Месяц назад +2

      @@Shay-rx4xu thank you! I’m proud of you too

    • @Coco_xoxo
      @Coco_xoxo Месяц назад +5

      I’m still a virgin too, sometimes I feel like a little kid 😭 but overall I’m thankful

  • @paulaadeoye987
    @paulaadeoye987 Месяц назад +1

    Women have to want better for themselves Tera I purchased your book. Let me personally tell you it was on point keep on enlightening individuals.

  • @sheyanderson9498
    @sheyanderson9498 Месяц назад +1

    FACTS! I lived what she is saying. Now I am single 6 years.

  • @hellosavije1888
    @hellosavije1888 Месяц назад +1

    👍🏾💯✌🏽thanks for sharing 😊

  • @BritannyDuhh
    @BritannyDuhh Месяц назад +8

    All Facts Sis 💯✨🫶🏾 Smh !

  • @verdaylove
    @verdaylove Месяц назад +5

    Waiting for you to announce your stand up comedy show in ATL!

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  Месяц назад +2

      Ahhh coming soon🥹🥹❤️

    • @verdaylove
      @verdaylove Месяц назад

      @@TeraChantelle also i met Chiquita working at CB show and searched her work up and saw you as an actress. small worlddddd

  • @chillywillie6283
    @chillywillie6283 Месяц назад +1

    It takes two to make a baby.

  • @MySunshine234
    @MySunshine234 Месяц назад +2

    Ain’t it crazy that in September I’m really going to buy a peloton from working with other peoples kids 😂

  • @prnst4r
    @prnst4r Месяц назад +30

    Be your own girlfriend, be your own wife. 💅🏻✨️ As Ariana Grande said, "Baby girl, it's just me and you." 🩷🌷

    • @herbtapp3031
      @herbtapp3031 Месяц назад

      You better get some Number 1 Albums or get a degree in something.

    • @SarahBurke-hv6my
      @SarahBurke-hv6my Месяц назад +1

      I support anyone who chooses to live that way, but using Ariana Grande as an example is a bit of a contradiction. She is nearing her thirties and began an affair with a father and married man, Ethan Slater. That's not even the worst of it. She's basically this generation's Marilyn Monroe.

  • @loriparks8657
    @loriparks8657 Месяц назад

    Raw Truthful Proven Fact Point.

  • @MySunshine234
    @MySunshine234 Месяц назад +8

    Also Tera please speak on these co dependent women again because they are just as bad as the men

  • @chrisreed3227
    @chrisreed3227 Месяц назад +1

    Thanks!

  • @chrisreed3227
    @chrisreed3227 Месяц назад +1

    I don't mean it like that but I hope that you are enjoying your day

  • @chrisreed3227
    @chrisreed3227 Месяц назад +2

    It's not about the d it's all about having a little mini me and pretty soon you may be going down the same path

  • @Astrologcomedy
    @Astrologcomedy Месяц назад

    So you dont believe in marriage or relationships? 😂 This is contradictory. Marriage is meaningless nowadays.

    • @brianmeen2158
      @brianmeen2158 Месяц назад

      I just shake my head at so
      Much of what is said by influencers these days. It’s all so contradictory and borderline toxic. Society would stop functioning if we took their advice

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  Месяц назад +8

      Most women still wanna give their womb away to a pookie for shits & giggles..make em’ sign paper work if you desperate for the D.

  • @nataliewalton8590
    @nataliewalton8590 Месяц назад

    Focusing on the one taking care of the children is sooo ridiculous. MAKE VIDEOS ABOUT THE MEN ABANDONING THEIR KIDS.

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  Месяц назад +27

      I rather make videos telling women to keep their legs closed instead..stop with the victim mentality😈

    • @awarenessispower
      @awarenessispower Месяц назад +5

      Exactly, prevention is the best cure. ​@@TeraChantelle

    • @coppertonedone
      @coppertonedone Месяц назад +1

      U fell for the okie doke 😂

    • @narcshatetheylovemenhtlm3627
      @narcshatetheylovemenhtlm3627 Месяц назад

      Men don’t abandon their children, boys do 💯✅ Women don’t abandon their children, girls do! This goes both ways

    • @brianmeen2158
      @brianmeen2158 Месяц назад +1

      @@TeraChantelle. Ssssshhhhh Tera you arguing in the comments 😂. What I see today is too many women reward bad behavior from men and too many men reward bad behavior from women. Both sexes need to take accountability now for us to fix this but they probably won’t and this mess will continue to get messier

  • @panther5592
    @panther5592 Месяц назад +1

    Stop focusing on the negative plenty of women have children in healthy circumstances. Get a mental evaluation.

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  Месяц назад +31

      If the shoe don’t fit, don’t put it on!

    • @desdior1207
      @desdior1207 Месяц назад +1

      These women who ignore the signs and play with these men at high risk for a child to be created need a mental evaluation.

  • @narcshatetheylovemenhtlm3627
    @narcshatetheylovemenhtlm3627 Месяц назад +3

    We don’t have to do a case study. These are girls that lack the internal faculties of grown women. They didn’t have FATHERS to pour into them and give them a self esteem or a self identity. That’s the role of a FATHER. Without the father, one will attach themselves to materialistic things or to people to get that self identity. The father pours into you in your most formative years and tell you how valuable you are. It’s his instructions that guide you throughout your life. It’s mothers teachings and fathers instructions 👌🏾 If you don’t have that, you’re out searching for affirmation from whomever can give it. Affirmation meaning “words” therefore, you fall for a guy that tells you what you want to hear versus SHOWING you…and before you know it you’re rolling around in the bed with him. Because you don’t know what a stand up man is you keep repeating the same mistake. “Ever learning but never coming into the knowledge of the TRUTH” it’s called broken consciousness or hope deferred syndrome. If you’ve never seen a man you won’t know how one looks. So if he has sex with her, she equates sex with love. She doesn’t know the difference between lust and love. She’s into her type 💯 when one sews into the flesh, they reap the flesh☝🏽 great video young queen. It’s broken consciousness because of an absent father. Notice the first girl says she doesn’t need a dad, and boosie girl said she doesn’t know what the family dynamic looks like. It just goes to show there were Absent fathers in their lives. Keep up the good work! Hope I’ve helped someone out there. Much love ❤️