I Have An Confession... I Would Never Put Myself Through Reproduction | Childfree Perspective
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Baby I share the same feelings!!!!!! The idea of being a mom repulses me! I have no desire, not one maternal bone in my body.
I’m not maternal at all🤭
Loolll I felt like this going into stores bearing kids screaming. I kept trying to get my tubes tied they denied me . I accidentally got pregnant w my husband after 13 years of infertility . You figure it out 😂 but kudos to women that don’t want to have kids men don’t even stick around for their families so what’s the point? You do all of that and ruin your body just to be a single mom? I know too many women with multiple kids and their husband cheated / left them 🤦♀️
Pregnancy is freaking scary that's why I'm dying a virgin. I don't care what people think I'm not being a relationship
Cheers to being a virgin🥂
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@@TeraChantelle exactly
Hahahah I’ve never heard this and TBH that’s not a bad idea 😂❤
Me too! I think I might as well stay celibate honestly #childfree4life💃🏽
You hit on all the points beautifully!! Sad thing is, many women do all this only to have their crusty partner criticize their body changes after child birth..
Like the influencer couple of RUclips (I don’t remember their names) that had kids… and the husband, the father of the kids, said she was not as tight like before …
1. The very act of having unprotected sex can cause life long disease.
2. Conceiving a pregnancy reduces your immune system that could cause even more sickness.
3. The fetus can and will deplete your body of any and all nutrients that it is deficient.
4. Your bladder becomes compressed. Frequent urination.
5. Nausea, exhaustion, swelling, cravings, fatigue, mood swings.
6. Your pelvis with either split or you will be cut open.
7. You will be robbed by the healthcare institution. $$$
8. You will be leaking milk indefinitely.
9. You will be bleeding for as long.
10. You will be sleep deprived for as long.
11. You will be responsible to the child or the state. Your choice.
12. You will be on guard constantly to keep it alive.
13. You will be buying a new set to clothing every three months.
14. You will be responsible if anything happens to the baby even when accidental.
15. You will be constantly judged by other men and women for not being perfect.
16. You may be without help in the early years a lot. NO VILLAGE.
17. You will be blamed by all, including the child if you are anything but perfect.
18.You will not be rewarded at any anytime in this endeavor.
19. Your body must bounce back or else.
20. You are NOT guaranteed a healthy baby or child. If so, then multiply all this time and money by forever and always.
I wonder if you came to this world as an adult🤔Gosh, what if our parents think that way. We wouldn’t be here to have these sentiments. If a woman choose not to have children it should be a personal choice not because someone gives them 10 thousands reasons not to. I thought the LGBtQ was extreme but this is on a whole new level.
@@shamasdiary7863if I wasn’t born then I wouldn’t know, matter of fact this world is pretty shitty anyways
As a man i stand with you ten toes down!! Keep shining Tera!! Peace and love forever and always!!
Love you ❤
Tariq you look familiar do you watch Chantal?
As a man, I am terrified to have a woman go through pregnancy and childbirth from my DNA. I couldn’t imagine having children. I am too selfish to become a father, I would rather do whatever I want whenever I want. I am a vegetarian and that would be problematic with children because they hate produce fruits and vegetables and that they are picky eaters. I couldn’t fix that situation at all and I would ultimately be a terrible father overall.
That's sad.
@@BigD365 It is true and honest of me.
@@chadguindon6909you’re truly so wise to me❤️
I ADMIRE AND RESPECT THIS TRUTH . . INDIVIDUALS NEED TO BE MINDFUL IF THEY WANT KIDS OR NOT. I COULDN'T BE A FATHER MYSELF, IM TOO SELF PRESERVE TO PUT TO MUCH ATTENTION ON TO SOMEONE Else, IF I CANNOT TAKE CARE OF MY WELL-BEING. Plus I'm an introvert therefore I needs lots of space especially after conversing with people.
Kids eat and are trained to what you feed them (sadly)….other than that I agree even as a mom! ❤
The only Gown you finna get is a hospital Gown☠️😭😭😂😂😂😂. LMAO
The hospital dress is not appealing at all but they say ✨it’s a blessing✨
Lmao we think the exact same way. People idealize their way into a life that becomes a detriment to their spiritual growth and their growth in general when we talk about all aspects. Nobody wants to speak on being healed and secured within themselves for the elevation of their lineage but want to call you "selfish" for not doing something that's been normalized through subconscious programming and social conditioning. Nobody talks about building wealth but want to have kids or an intimate relationship with someone else but don't even have an intimate relationship with themselves. So much to add onto this but great video, I love your content!
Hi tera. I'm a single mum and I wouldn't do it again. I am happy being single after a long time hating being on my own. It's hard being a parent, I wouldn't do it again. ❤❤ You are so inspiring and totally right about what you are saying. I wish your videos had been around when I was young. ❤❤❤❤
💯 i love how you describe everything. Then after you have the baby, it’s all on you. There’s no how to guide or family help. Everyone has to go back to work and their lives. I don’t want kids.
Appreciate you❤
Couldn’t pay me enough to give birth!
I don’t vote for invasive surgery, regardless that a tubal ligation is in and out the same day. So this nookie is closed, been closed and gon stay closed 💁🏽♀️
ETA: This is why the book Promises I can Keep is so important and eye opening.
Thank you for being brave enough to publicly say what we all effin feel 🫶🏽🌻
I honestly didn’t feel any pain after my tubal but I took my meds daily . I didn’t feel pain until 7 days later when I got accidentally hit in the stomach. I do look like I got shanked a few times though 😂
@@weekendnomad5038 I’m weak! 😅 Thank you for sharing 🧡
It's the "fuck them kids" fa me😂😂😂
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I never had the desire to have a kid. At this big age of 48 I’m retired, single, great friends, money in the bank ,child free and vacation once a month 😆.. my cousin (male) who is 60 has a 3 year old 😳had the nerve to ask me to babysit lmaoooo I told him I have a ✈️ to catch . 😂Not my problem sorry, should of re-rerouted that plumbing and messed with age appropriate women 🤣
You’re the smartest one. 😂
That's what I hate about people with kids. They dare to criticize our childless/childfree existence, and yet have no shame in using us as free babysitting services. Ummm...your baby, your problem.
@@sammietulip7948 yes lol 😆
@@continuousself-improvement1879
Facts I have no problem saying NO lol 😂
I wish they had our time
Yea pregnancy always made me terrified. Men scare me when they talk about kids like it scared them when we talk about love.
I’m screaming sis🤣🤣 Men don’t even know what love is these days🤭
You spilled all then good beans! Good look'n out sis.!
And, it's not selfish!
Most men would NOT dare do and go through the very same things to bring another human into the world! Not even for their own "namesake"! 😱
Nuff said! 🎯✅🥂
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I adore you! From a child free woman in the UK 🇬🇧 living her best life love❤
Appreciate youu❤
5:04 right! it doesn't get better. You switch out the nonstop inconvenience of having to deal with a toddler all day with the inconvenience of having to getup early for school and dress a cranky kid drop them off and pick them after school, then help them with this new age homework. All on top of dealing with teachers and bullies and their horrible parents. And with the way capitalism is devouring everyone, it is unlikely that you will ever get them kids out of your house. It's just not worth the work.
This makes me feel even happier and prouder to be an aroace, and I’m not embarrassed or ashamed of it not one bit. It has really saved my life! 😎
Love this for us🎉
I know that women will judge me for this but im thinking about putting my 13Yo on BC just for precautionary measures. I know she will not tell me everything but as a mother I need to protect her.
It is your child and you know what is best for her but I ask you to do some research on how that could affect her reproductive abilities as she gets older
Don't forget about the STI stuff, too.. Add that in the conversations you have with her, too.
Send her some of my celibacy video. I hope it will scare her straight 😂
You could also tell your daughter what the gym teacher from mean girls tells his heath class: " *Don't have s3x because you will get pregnant and DIE* " 🤣
Birth control isn’t good for women. Protecting her doesn’t have to mean putting strange things in her body. She can learn the risks behind sex and decide to not do it.
I'm GLAD that I chose NOT to go through the excruciatingly painful process of giving birth, and possibly dying during the process of childbirth!!! I chose to have a hysterectomy in my early thirties to make sure that I would NEVER have to go through the excruciating pain of childbirth, and I never liked children to begin with!!! I'm enjoying my life as a retired single woman with no children to bother me, and I'm not sorry, guilty, or regretful about my PERSONAL choices either!!! Just because I'm a woman doesn't mean that I owe my body to society or a man to be a walking incubator and a birthing machine!!! I don't owe society or anybody else a damn thing when it comes to how I choose to live my life simply because I was born a female!!!
Omg why are they such haters.. misery loves company???? 😂😂.. my friend gained so much wofht pregnant & didnt lose it .. i couldn't recognize her!
The sound effects on this took me out 😂
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If folks would be more honest about what pregnancy and childbirth were like we’d have way fewer unhappy parents and uncared for kids.
PREACH!!!
❤️❤️❤️
She's right.
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Grand Rising Queen🤗And I'm going to be there no matter what threw it all🥰 mentally,physically, emotionally and spiritually... Unconditional love..And I'm going to think God that he blessed me with a Angel doing this lifetime❤️🌹❤️❤️🌹🌹#Staybless #lovelyone
If people actually put this much thought into their life choices, we would be underpopulated 😅. But fr, I wish people would really.
I wish people would start thinking 😂
Nope... Nope...Nope I won't do it!!! 🙅🏾♀️ 🤢
#childfree
And it's the voice at 5:03 for me lol 😂
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If the gov cut off them checks I bet it would change the game. They know what they be doing. Anyone with even a Half of any games been knowing
I wouldn’t do it again. ❤
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That first commenter thought he ate 😂
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Girl I love the “ F them kids” comment 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Be fruitful and multiply. Children can be a blessing as well as marriage. It’s the way you bring up a child. You turned out to be a smart beautiful intelligent woman. Marriage is only a blessing when both are in the word. When you love and respect the Father you’ll love and respect each other which is a beautiful thing. Every one is not the same but all respect to you if you want a child free life. Keep shining Tera ❤
Be fruitful and multiply is the command God gave to two people who were perfect without sin and death. He did not give that command to 8 billion sinful human beings.
If you believe in God, why bring children into this terrible world? Don't you trust your God's promises that there is a better world to come? If so, why not make it easier on your children and bring them into that world -- one without pain, sin and death? 🤷🏾♀️
@ViolinfanaticOriginal children should only be for Heaven when are doing right by mothers. Not a evil world
Nah from a logical standpoint having kids makes no sense whatsoever. 🤦🏾♂️
Excellent vid Tera
Appreciate you❤️
2:00 LMAO no you bout to just get a hospital gown
Why would I want that for myself?!🤣🤣🤣
Girl 💯💯💯💯💯💯
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My wife is pregnant right now and we are so thankful and happy to have been blessed with a child. I cant wait to meet my son and help raise him and watch him grow up as we grow old.
What’s her push gift?🎉
And you better keep that energy when you're sleep deprived, covered in poop and when the kid is no longer cute and has a mind of its own mmkay? 😂
I’m happy for you, don’t listen to these people. If they wanna go be single and child free that’s them, but there are actually a lot of us that would love a family and welcome babies with open arms.
If you need a baby to have a family ok not everyone needs other person to have a home and be a family. Just don't mix dont wanting kids with not having a family.
Nobody cares bro
I AGREE BUT I STILL WANT A MAN AND A BABY! EVERYTHING U SAY MAKES SENSE....BUT I STILL WANT HIS BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!! WTH?
Nothing wrong with wanting a baby, but don't do it with a man who can't/won't be an equal partner. You are already risking your literal life to carry his seed, the very least he can do is cough up all the bills and share the childcare.
You want a baby but do you want to raise a whole human being????🤔🤔 Consider everything that goes with that, not just the cute baby phase but EVERYTHING that comes with parenting. If it's for you, more power to you!! Go for it!!! Many people desire babies but don't think that far ahead.
One and done isn’t too bad but taking care of a human is a lot of work . Make sure he MARRIES you first so that there’s more invested on his end. A man will still throw his whole family a way for an air mattress Amy but at least he’s risking losing half his sht if he’s married 😂
Having children isn't a goal in this chaotic world. The average male is NOT capable of being a useful husband or father. They are NOT providers or protectors... but go ahead with the fantasy of motherhood if you must. Your child may h8te you for it one day.
They don't stay babies. 😂
Aren't We All Seeing g00d that ??/?? mother did n0t get to feel this way ab0ut
The challenging joy of appreciation she should find in y0-U-Re liViNg w-e-l-lE "TodAy".?/.
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I just discovered you today and I’ve seen a few of your videos and love a lot of the stuff that you have to say about how women should protect their bodies from men. However if YOU don’t want to have kids and go through that process that’s YOUR personal choice and you have every right to do so. And it’s honorable the way you choose to abstain from sex so that doesn’t happen 👏🏽 but you shouldn’t make women who actually want to go through the process of having kids feel bad. Because let’s be honest if all women in the world were to listen to you and decide not to have kids humanity as we know it would die. It’s ok to not want kids I’m still debating that myself but whether or not I choose to have kids should be a personal choice.
Did u ask to be born?
You think too much 😂
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Thank youuu🤣❤️
@@TeraChantelle 😂🧡
Why tell others what you don't like so much? Especially having kids... your talent is being pretty and not wanting sex or kids? Do you have anything else about what you're good at besides looking good?
Why do you care?
@@bdott1538 cause I watched the video and I'm asking questions about the video,,,she made the video and I made a comment,..do you understand?
Yess u see she didn't respond to this if I was a man I wouldn't look at this women twice ❤
@@user-tf9lo5cv5v lol I'm a journalist asking the hard hitting questions lol
@@treyw.warchild8863 lol….you watch a lot of her videos and leave a lot of comments trying to dictate what she do with her channel…sounds weird is all.
The thing is, it’s apparently common for women to claim they don’t want kids when they’re young and then end up having them. That’s annoying to me bc why are you lying lol
I know several women in their 70s who never had kids. 🤷🏾♀️ That said, I agree; it is highly annoying when people change their mind after you invest time in them.
Many aren’t lying, many are coerced into having children.
@@bdott1538 I just feel like y’all would never make these excuses for men so you shouldn’t make them for women. Most of them chose to have kids for their own self interest
@@ayamystic men are also coerced into having kids. Doesn’t change the fact that it’s not lying to not want kids and then to get coerced into it by your partner.